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Are you asking them out on dates?
/r/seduction23/11/25 11:37 PM
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This method has never worked for me. They all just treated me like friends.
/r/seduction26/02/25 12:48 AM
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That’s how you get out of the friend zone. Either you get a Yes or No.
/r/seduction29/10/24 08:06 PM
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Hey would are you free so I can take you on a coffee date?
/r/seduction29/10/24 07:51 PM
7

Stop being a moron and go find someone single.
/r/seduction04/10/24 05:54 PM
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Men stopped being men
/r/MensRights23/09/24 04:11 PM
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Get into sales
/r/MensRights23/09/24 04:08 PM
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It’s simple. Just ask her out on a date and keep taking her out. Either a yes or no answer
/r/seduction11/08/23 08:15 PM
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How long have you been approaching?
/r/seduction07/04/23 02:45 AM
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Yup. I always laugh when Reddit people say shit like “can’t talk to/ask out women in modern day. They will scream harassment/call the police/etc”. Like most women are flattered, even the married ones. A women’s beauty is a huge asset to them and approaching is a us admitting we find them attractive/beautiful. Sure you got those 1 and 100, “I never date you if you were the last person alive!” bitches. But that’s super rare.
/r/seduction07/04/23 02:22 AM
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Also, your move doesn’t have to be this grand gesture or pick up line. It can be as simple as walking over and saying high.
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:40 AM
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I don’t know why people are shutting on this. It always worked for me
/r/seduction28/08/22 07:07 PM
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U guess. Make more progress going and meeting girls in real life. Than wasting time deciding what to text.
/r/seduction31/07/22 08:04 PM
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Who’s got time for this BS? If she doesn’t text back, move on. Theres so many beautiful women out there.
/r/seduction31/07/22 06:43 PM
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I never double text. People say they forget to answer. I call bullshit on that. People spend hours on there phone. Hell people spend ton of time texting on there phone. The idea they looked at it and forget is BS to me. To much time is spent on phone not to notice.
/r/seduction31/07/22 04:51 PM
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I don’t know why you got downvoted. It’s literally true. A single guy making 100K, puts him ahead of majority of people in the USA (hell, it puts him ahead of most duel income homes)
/r/seduction21/07/22 06:05 AM
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There’s literally a hit song about it: “Girls just wanna have fun” 🎶
/r/seduction21/07/22 06:03 AM
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True. Let’s be honest, the guy is literally enjoying life by having an amazing social life. He probably would have met women anyway, but being a Yoga teacher puts it on easy mode.
/r/seduction21/07/22 06:02 AM
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Having a great personality (worked on flaws, developed a lacking side), a dynamic social life (hobbies, clubs, church, etc), and flat stomach will do more to attract women than anything else IMO. To many people in this sub (and life) just want the short cut to success. They want to know some trick or tip that’s gonna put it all together. It doesn’t exist. The only thing that exists is gradual progress made by trying to get better.
/r/seduction12/07/22 02:01 AM
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Have a great confident personality with a flat stomach.
/r/seduction11/07/22 10:01 PM
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It was different back them. Those behaviors weren’t seen as being a simp. It was seen as a normal part of courtship. It was seen once normal to talk to a girls father before taking them out on a date. If you ever get chance, read some books (history/fiction) that have some romance plots from like the 1800s or 1900s. It’s sounds crazy, but things like writing poetry or playing the flute were seen as manly. They just had a lot less to work with back them. They made due with what they had.
/r/seduction11/07/22 01:21 AM
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Honestly it depends. If your just a social dude I wouldn’t worry about it. You shouldn’t care what others think anyway. But like OP in this instance. He clearly messages her when she’s out doing things. After about 3-4 separarte message she probably has an idea that OP is attracted to her.
/r/seduction11/07/22 01:14 AM
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It’s not looking at there stories that does that. That’s a normal part of the Instagram. It’s when you message them about there stories. Unless your already good friends, most girls know your messaging them because you like them.
/r/seduction11/07/22 01:03 AM
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I can 100% tell you that the nights I went out on my own were 100% more fun then the nights I decided to stay in and get high to play video games.
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:35 PM
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Yeah well said. I feel the same way about people who make money using social media. Yeah there are legit jobs in social media. Dancing around getting likes and paid isn’t one of them tho. Like there’s no skill attached. The people who watch you at 20 won’t be watching when you hit 30.
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:29 PM
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You dodge a fucking bullet man. If having a bunch of people follow you on social media suddenly changes you, they weren’t worth fucking .
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:27 PM
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“I don’t kiss and tell 😉”. A lot of guys think girls want to hear that they are desire by other women when faced with this question. Some true to that I guess. But usually when a girl asks you that is she is testing you. She’s probably thinking of sleeping with you and wants to know how you speak about past sex relationships. If she asks you that and you open your mouth about every girl you fucked, she knows ur gonna do that to her if she sleeps with u. She wants to know that what goes down betw…
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:18 PM
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Lmao
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:12 PM
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Online
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:12 PM
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I would just direct message asking how’s she been and go from there. Like the way you want to do it is a real round about way to get to the same location. Like it won’t make a difference other than your gonna waiting for her post something on social media. Or you can just message her and get your answer by tonight. She’s probably already has an idea if she’s attracted to you or not. So it makes more sense to just to direct message her than wait for her to upload something and then respond IMO
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:11 PM
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That’s why you always use the word date when asking a girl out. To avoid this type of problem.
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:04 PM
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Ok I would recommend a simple hi message that gets to the point quickly. You can chit chat about lives for a bit, but not to long. Definitely go DM through Social Media. Don’t go searching for her in real life. Imagine someone you hadn’t see in 3 years pop out and ask you out. It would be kinda creepy. The asking out part isn’t creepy. It’s the fact you managed to find them after having no serious contact for several years that creepy. Social media message is find tho. It should flow something l…
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:02 PM
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Do you see her in person at all anymore? Or is it mainly just social media is your contact with her?
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:48 PM
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Dude just ask her out. She already knows you like her. She the knew they moment you messaged her on Instagram. Women pick up on things like that (way better than men do).
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:40 PM
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I’ve always been a big fan of finding dancing groups. Like join a Salsa Social class or Hip Hop Class. Most people are there to learn so it takes the edge off making a mistake. On top it’s a way to practice before you get to the club. I found this helped me a lot in overall confidence
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:38 PM
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TBF that’s on the guys fault IMO. If your the one texting them, I would assume it would be for something fun or interesting. If ur texting a girl you like and all you have to say is “Watching Netflix”. It shouldn’t be shocking they find you boring.
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:36 PM
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I don’t think so. I just don’t feel like attraction can be kept or raised through text all that much.
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:34 PM
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Same reason you probably spend the majority of your time doing things that don’t take you closer to your goals.
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:11 AM
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Naw I’m calling bullshit on this. I’ve seen attractive people drop the ball pretty often. Not as often as average people, but more often then this sub makes you think. The reality is that attractiveness is just a part of a bigger puzzle.
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:08 AM
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There a reason the people top of there craft practice fundamentals regularly.
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:06 AM
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I always go for the kiss at the end of the date. Honestly, just listening to her. You be surprised how many guys interrupt or talk over there dates.
/r/seduction08/04/22 01:29 AM
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I agree with all you said. The reality is that most people don’t get constant stream of girls after they finish’s school. You don’t need much status for girls. But having some makes seduction easy mode I think.
/r/seduction05/04/22 04:10 PM
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Adding 30 lbs of muscle and getting lean pretty much puts you in hot territory for the most part. It’s extremely difficult to get there, but can be achieved. While social status doesn’t have much of a road map.
/r/seduction05/04/22 04:08 PM
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I’d take that as she just sits next to because your familiar. If she’s ignoring texts and doing nothing to make conversation, probably has low to no interest. Just my 2 cents.
/r/seduction05/04/22 12:58 AM
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We need more info bro. Does she talk to you when she sits next to you? Or just straight up ignoring you?
/r/seduction05/04/22 12:52 AM
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Not necessarily. Definitely people with high social status that aren’t necessarily wealthy or good looking. Though it shouldn’t be super shocking that being wealthy/good looking makes it easier to get good social status.
/r/seduction05/04/22 12:37 AM
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Social status without a doubt. It’s the hardest one to obtain in my opinion.
/r/seduction05/04/22 12:36 AM
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Bro you keep coming up with excuses.
/r/seduction22/03/22 12:44 AM
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Your not finding your wife at a bar. Your just practicing taking to women. Who cares if it happens in a bar? The only way to stop being socially awkward is to practice being in social situations regularly.
/r/seduction22/03/22 12:25 AM
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The other option is do nothing and just settle in a relationship. It doesn’t have to take 2 years. The more put yourself, the faster you get better. You could probably talk to about 50-100 women a weekend if you wanted to. Just have to travel to different bars/clubs.
/r/seduction22/03/22 12:19 AM
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Think of it more as a skill. It the same way for me. It took a good 2 years of taking to them to finally get a consistent good reaction from them. Don’t worry man, Just keep working at it. Just make your goals simple. Maybe don’t focus on getting a number or date when you talk to them. Just to try to have a fun conversation. Once you feel like you got that part down, then start asking them down. Depending your skill level, it can take 1-2 years to get to get decent at it. Just don’t give up.
/r/seduction21/03/22 10:56 PM
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Yes. For the most part.
/r/seduction03/08/21 12:23 AM
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Just know u got more balls then 99% of this sub
/r/seduction27/06/21 03:03 AM
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Get a sales job. When your food/rent depends you making a sale, you get really good at talking and reading people. It worked for my cousin
/r/seduction11/06/21 01:33 AM
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Best book ever man! I fucking love that guy.
/r/seduction15/07/18 06:28 AM
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This so much. Asking her out wasn’t the mistake, failure to see when she was actually free to grab dinner was the mistake.
/r/seduction07/07/18 01:31 AM
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Lost another 2 pounds this week. Bringing my total to 37.9 pounds lost since Jan 2.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 10:53 PM
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He may not be a doctor but history doesn't lie that our ancestors lived only to about 35-40 if they were lucky.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 08:55 PM
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I say ask her on a date. She could be doing this to see if your a needy person or she's just busy.
/r/seduction06/07/17 03:35 AM
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We have. All you say is "I'm the best and nearly everyone else doesn't know what there talking about". Nothing else. In order to see if your any good I would have to read the five blog posts and videos on here. The one's on the social skills sub. Your blog and the blog/videos that I normaly follow. Just to see if your any good. Like I said, every one's time is valuable and there not going to waste it seeing if your any good. If your content is any good we will see it mentioned. Then MAYBE we wil…
/r/seduction24/06/17 11:50 PM
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Everyone claims that there advice is the shit. What makes you different?
/r/seduction24/06/17 11:28 PM
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*bit
/r/seduction24/06/17 11:22 PM
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No, I make that choice for myself. However, trying something out is a but different. We usually try something out that a family/friends recommends. We also try stuff out of curiosity, but a lot less common now a days. Your trying to compete with a market thats filled with "guru's" and how "your stuff is the best and nobody else knows what there talking about". A great example is my aunt. For Example: I went on a family vaction and my aunt wanted to take a taxi to travel around Las Vegas. I told …
/r/seduction24/06/17 11:21 PM
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Talk to everyone you see. I did this for a semester and saw a huge jump in my social life and romantic options. Also, its important to get invited to places or invite yourself (just don't be jerk about it).
/r/seduction24/06/17 10:56 PM
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If it was so good, other redditers would be recommending it. Instead, everyone is complaining about blogs like yours.
/r/seduction24/06/17 10:49 PM
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Your lowering the quality of the sub.
/r/seduction24/06/17 10:34 PM
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Usually about 4-5 days.
/r/seduction18/05/17 04:59 AM
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I don't. If she likes you , she'll show up.
/r/seduction18/05/17 04:56 AM
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3% man by Corey Wayne. I felt it was really good and has given me some decent results.
/r/seduction16/04/17 04:59 AM
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Think of it as a skill. Reading and taking advice is good,but the only way to become better is to practice.
/r/seduction11/04/17 07:19 PM
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I agree with you on the constant attention. The calling someone sexy can go either way depending on context. But seeing how liberal college is, it wouldn't surprise me if calling someone "sexy" would offend someone.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 01:14 AM
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Really, what did you find not work? I'm in college now and have had some success using his advice in the college scene.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 01:01 AM
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Great list ! Though I would also recommend putting on your list: How to win Friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie and 3% Man by Corey Wayne
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 09:03 PM
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How would you know how good his coaching sessions are ?
/r/askTRP23/11/16 10:52 PM
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