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about the I capital thing.. you mean its right to make it capital or its a mistake im making? you mean it’s right to make it capital or it’s a mistake I’m making? Rewritten for comparison. Notice the ‘I’ in I’m. I also added apostrophes where needed as ‘its’ is possessive, whereas it’s is short for ‘it is’, which is the intended use in your sentence. When referring to myself with ‘I’, I need to write it in capital, regardless of where I place it in the sentence. Well done on being open to learni…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/21 11:42 AM
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Calling someone names for poor grammar when your entire post history is filled with grammar mistakes suggests you have no brains. It’s called hypocrisy. ‘I’, when referring to yourself, is always written in capital. You get that one for free. I suggest you deal with your childhood traumas instead of taking your anger out on others.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 10:18 PM
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Ignore the troll, dude. One glance at his post history shows he doesn’t practice what he preaches. Your English is great, especially considering it’s your third language.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 09:58 PM
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I’m very curious as to what that skill is. PM me if you’d rather not share publicly.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 02:05 PM
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You’re used to having all the power, as you described, and now you have no control over the situation. Have a think about what choice you would make if you were able to go back in time knowing that she’ll dump you at some point. Would you do things differently to hopefully prevent her from dumping you (change yourself to keep the girl), or, knowing that there’s an incompatibility (and that you’re fine the way you are), would you dump her before she dumps you?
/r/askTRP23/09/19 09:57 AM
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I know with certainty that if one girl gives you a compliment, you’ll feel a lot better. That compliment confirms something you’re unsure about. You shouldn’t have to depend on other people’s view of you to feel good about yourself. Sit down for a moment, have a think about that and realise that when you decide to stop trying to impress others and accept that you’re good enough as you are, your confidence grows and the outside world will reflect that back to you. You only need to work on becomin…
/r/askTRP21/09/19 03:15 PM
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Dude, stop talking yourself down like that. When you put that kind of nonsense in your head, you fail to see what other people see. I have been where you are, so consider this advice from your future self. People don’t care about your moles. Only you do. So stop caring about them and ignore them. I had things that bothered me about my body. I stopped caring about those things and soon realised I was the only one who cared in the first place. When people make remarks about your moles, it’s a shit…
/r/askTRP21/09/19 12:20 PM
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Smile/grin while maintaining eye contact. They’ll look away. That they make a remark doesn’t mean you have to respond.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 08:51 PM
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You must be fun at parties.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 05:50 PM
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”If I was a guy, I’d be more successful than you” That was the shit test. “Glad to see you have dreams”/ “I hope your dreams come true” Or ignore it altogether.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 10:17 AM
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“Come show me in person” I would generally leave them on read and maybe make the odd remark about something in a picture that catches my eye. Thing is, I don’t use Snapchat or any of those social media, and I reply very irregularly on WhatsApp because I focus on what’s happening around me. If they want my attention, we can meet up.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 08:54 AM
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There are several apps for that. I know my colleague uses one for her kids. There are logistical obstacles and your girl is offering a solution. That means go.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 05:26 AM
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Thanks for sharing.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 08:42 PM
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The sidebar answers all of the questions you asked.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 10:32 PM
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You can access the regular sub by allowing quarantined subs in your settings. You need to change these settings on the desktop version of Reddit
/r/askTRP15/06/19 08:22 AM
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If you think a nosejob wouldn't improve his chances with women, you're simply delusional. Where did I state this? If you think having a flaw and dodging shit tests is better than not having a flaw, you are once again, delusional. Where did I state this? "No need to improve your looks, women won't care if you don't, pinkie swear." Where did I state this? No need to get swole if you just pass the skinnyfat-weakling centered shit tests. Where did I state this? Instead of accepting and testing knowl…
/r/askTRP15/06/19 07:22 AM
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Considering your post history, you don’t speak from a position of experience nor knowledge. Try to be open to learning rather than being miserable.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 10:29 PM
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It’s only an issue if you consider it one. You’ll definitely get shit-tested about it, though that’s an easy one to pass by simply being confident and owning it. Don’t attach too much value to things you don’t like. If a girl doesn’t like it, she’s free to leave the queue
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:53 PM
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Why can’t you ask them “you wanna fuck?”? You might just be surprised.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 07:41 PM
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Agreed, Red Rover. It makes sense now. I appreciate your long-windedness. I get the odd complaint for being long-winded as well.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 05:36 PM
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When she confronts you over it, you say yeah I was on there fucking around bored, not really trying to meet anybody or anything. Don't DEER over this. Contradicting yourself, dude.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 07:28 AM
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Your response to this situation makes me wonder if you’re on the autistic spectrum.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 04:40 PM
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If she confirms it, you don’t trust her anymore. Do you still trust her if she denies it though?
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:24 AM
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Embrace silence and you’ll notice women are far less comfortable with silence than you are. It’s a show of confidence to be comfortable with silence. You’ll find that many women are talkative enough to keep conversations going to avoid silence.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 08:38 PM
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I suspect you mistake shit tests for disrespect.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 07:24 PM
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I’m wondering if I should just live the rest of my life in my mother’s basement and give up on human interaction altogether Becoming aware of what you’re doing is a good start. Self-pity and the need for others to pity you. It’s not all about you. People have enough difficulty in their own lives. They don’t want anyone else’s drama. Most people are willing to listen and support when you’re having difficulty, however, there’s a limit to that. If all you ever bring is drama, they’ll stop associati…
/r/askTRP07/06/19 01:29 AM
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This is what I’d do as well. No need to share the bad news right now. Take your time to mourn and let it sink in. It’s a show of strength and character to carry this burden for the time being to let your parents make the most of their stay abroad.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 04:36 PM
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You need to get to age 32 as soon as possible. The sooner the better!
/r/askTRP04/06/19 08:18 PM
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It’s scarcity. You wouldn’t get so attached if you knew there was plenty more at your disposal.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 04:29 AM
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keep maintaining frame and passing shit tests for no reward Maintaining frame and passing shit tests is a state of mind, not just an activity you choose to do to get a reward.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 12:30 AM
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Consider this. She seems into you, however she has a boyfriend, i.e. the circumstances aren’t right. She declined previous invitations from you, likely due to the circumstances not being right, however, she obviously knew three months ago that in June there will be the right circumstances. She informed you of that and followed up on that. Sounds to me like she’s ready for you to be her cheat meal. Up to you what you want to do with that.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 08:57 AM
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As far as I can remember, I haven’t read any specific books on this topic. Stoicism would be a good thing to explore. I’m sure you would benefit from that. If the book teaches what the title suggests, The Obstacle Is The Way by Ryan Holiday would be a book to consider, however, I haven’t read it myself. I’m naturally persistent and determined and eternally optimistic. Once I put a goal in my head, I will get there. What I’ve particularly noticed over the past half year is that I always get to wh…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 11:21 PM
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Exactly. Don’t view it as a cause, men are successful because there’s a woman behind them. View it as an outcome. Successful men will always have women wanting to be with them.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 11:12 AM
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Nor is avoiding struggle. Seeking growth is the answer.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 10:31 PM
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The obstacle is the way. You can change the environment into something positive. Imagine what that would do for your career. I believe that progress/growth comes through struggle and staying comfortable in your current position isn’t gonna do the same for you as taking the challenge of transforming an undesirable department into a thriving place with happy customers.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 12:44 PM
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Rule #Whatever: Don’t put her on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 10:22 PM
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Not everyone is gonna like you. It’s not an indicator of a flaw, it indicates incompatibility between the two of you. Changing yourself to make sure everyone likes you is not the way to go. It shows neediness and dependence on other people’s approval. It’s hard to please everyone and you’ll compromise your own well-being in the process of doing so. Whatever you don’t like about yourself, you can change. For whatever others don’t like about you, it’s up to them to decide if they can live with tha…
/r/askTRP19/05/19 11:49 AM
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If you’re so red-pilled, why do you attach so much value to someone liking something you post? Why do you even attach value to a guy you don’t get along with anyway? Your value is not determined by the respect one guy gives or doesn’t give you and going out of your way to gain his approval makes you far from red-pilled.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 10:06 PM
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Beat me to it. They have an app as well, called Strong Lifts.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 01:13 AM
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You’ve only just started out and you’re working on yourself. You know there will be more girls. When I was your age, I was in a similar position. Now I don’t have to think about going for the kiss because I go for what I want. You need to go for what you want, because no one else will do it for you.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 01:10 AM
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Your outcome-dependence complicates things. Think of what you would do if you didn’t care about the outcome and then do that. Outcome-dependence creates neediness and neediness kills attraction. Whatever happens, there will be more girls. Don’t sweat it
/r/askTRP18/05/19 12:25 AM
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Don’t get hung up on right or wrong. It’s right when you know you both want it. It’s wrong when you don’t do it when you both want it. You told her you want to be more than friends because you’re afraid to take the plunge and you want her to verbally state she wants you. That’s not how it works. As a rule, girls don’t take that risk of being rejected. That’s our job. And with our constant self-improvement we minimise that risk. You improved yourself and you know she wants you. There is no risk. …
/r/askTRP17/05/19 11:30 PM
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Drama over nothing, dude. Why can’t you just be happy for them?
/r/askTRP17/05/19 03:24 PM
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Life swings like a pendulum. The worse it gets, the better it’s going to be, and vice versa. It’s all about belief. I believe my thoughts shape the world around me. What you think about will come about. Things happen for a reason, at the right time, to make us stronger. Enjoy the hardship, they’re your mental growth spurts. All it takes is time and perseverance. At a time of darkness and my life as it was crumbling away, this is how I walk tall. Because I know it will get better eventually
/r/askTRP17/05/19 07:18 AM
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She’s buying your affection, meaning, she wants sex from you. Go for it
/r/askTRP14/05/19 10:37 PM
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You don’t. When she asks for more attention, you meet up and give her hot sweaty attention. There’s a reason they advise texting for logistics only. You argue that “you like gaming with texts” and you know it better. And now you come here asking us for advice on how to fix your fuck up with this girl who has you by the balls. And here’s the laugh, you want advice on how to salvage this through texting...Wake up, dude. Set a meet and show her who’s in charge
/r/askTRP14/05/19 07:51 PM
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The leader makes decisions. Someone without leadership makes no decisions at all. Decision-making shows leadership.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 04:58 AM
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Agreed, ignore. You choose your responses, if any. You want a free flowing conversation, not one where you react to whatever shit is thrown at you.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 04:51 AM
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You liking her as a potential GF makes no difference if that’s not how she sees you. As you said, she sees you as a friend. There is no nexting, as in breaking all contact, if you go to the same dance school, as you’ll be in regular contact through that. I can tell you’re young and have much to learn. It’s up to you if you want to text with her or not as long as you’re aware that you are texting as friends and it’s not the way forward to anything sexual.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 04:46 AM
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The advice you will get here is not to have sex with colleagues and not to get hung up on one girl. Which is what I advise you too. Girls will notice when you’re interested and it’s hard to pretend not to care
/r/askTRP10/05/19 10:34 PM
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Yeah, be the orbiter and then go in for the kill... Excellent strategy, my man. She won’t see that coming!!
/r/askTRP10/05/19 10:17 PM
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They read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 07:10 PM
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She’s probably waiting for you to make the first move, especially because it was the first time you got sexual. She can’t read your mind and doesn’t know if you’re still interested or if all you wanted was the sex she gave you. Her contacting you first puts her at risk of rejection, which means no contact is the safest option. ”Call me” Could be perceived as needy, but not necessarily. As you’ll need to reach out if you want contact, and since she’s refused to call you as you ‘told her to’, that…
/r/askTRP04/05/19 03:50 PM
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Follow your heart.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 11:29 PM
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More in the way of being a step ahead of them. That’s (the) game. You know what they’re gonna say, so you can be ahead of them. You know they’re gonna use that, because it gets to you. All you need to do is take its power away, which is easy. Don’t let it get to you. It’s normal to smell after a workout. A high protein diet, which goes hand in hand with workouts, actually makes you more smelly. And this is all irrelevant. Whether they’re right or wrong, you choose if it matters to you or not. An…
/r/askTRP26/04/19 11:04 PM
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Because it gets to you. So it works Claim the joke and they won’t be able to use it. Agree & Amplify, someone should have put that on the sidebar... Oh wait, they did!
/r/askTRP26/04/19 09:56 PM
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I know you can answer that yourself. Don’t friendzone yourself. Always Assume Attraction
/r/askTRP22/04/19 06:32 AM
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If she doesn’t mention her boyfriend, it means she’s interested and up for grabs. It’s not up to you to moralise this. It’s a decision she makes. If you don’t do it, someone else will
/r/askTRP21/04/19 09:49 PM
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If you validate her over Instagram for a month instead of using messages to set up a date, you’re failing.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 07:31 PM
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Never gonna see this girl in my life again If that’s the case, why spend your time chatting to her on Instagram?
/r/askTRP21/04/19 05:05 PM
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It’s only a problem if OP considers it a problem, which is ultimately down to frame.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 01:56 PM
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You ask a question asking for a suggestion on what you could have replied. Atheist_Utopia replies with an entirely off-topic question and you proceed to answer it. Whose frame are you in? It helps to be aware of who is asking questions and if questions you are asked require you to explain or defend yourself. There’s always an alternative to DEERing. No mistakes are made. There’s only learning and progress. I wish people would be more constructive in their answers on asktrp, rather than always re…
/r/askTRP21/04/19 01:55 PM
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You can’t climb a ladder if you don’t start climbing
/r/askTRP19/04/19 10:42 AM
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OP would make one hell of an alpha foot soldier though.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 03:57 PM
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Be proactive. Things will come on your path (opportunities) and you will learn by dealing with them. It might feel like you suddenly need to know everything, but you don’t. So don’t worry about not knowing things. You grow as you go. Learning takes time. You’ll encounter people along your path who might be of help to you, or you might be of help to them. Some stay, some won’t, but they’ll all add to your experience and you’ll learn from them, and some might even turn into role models you’ll look…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 01:32 PM
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Life is like a pendulum. It swings back and forth. Moods won’t always be good, nor will they always be bad. If you learn to appreciate that, you’ll be in your bad moods knowing that they’re an undeniable part of life and will soon be followed by a good mood. Generally, the ‘higher’ you are in your good moods, the ‘lower’ you’ll be in your bad moods.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 04:43 PM
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Stop telling yourself it’s about time and effort. It took time and effort to ask for advice here. You want to hook up with a girl, but you’re not taking the action. So you tell yourself it takes too much time and effort anyway Be honest with yourself and identify the issue. Then fix it
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:38 AM
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He is feral after all
/r/askTRP11/01/19 04:45 PM
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It’s sub-specific lingo and has a clear meaning to everyone here. The fact that you’re wasting energy on irrelevant things like that is why you’re here in the first place. Your energy is better spent focusing on yourself.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 07:46 AM
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Sit in the middle seat, pull your dick out and let them fight for it
/r/askTRP12/12/18 01:41 AM
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That's the only thing he's better at. Nope, his looks was literally all it took. AWALT remember? AWALT is not a reason in itself, it’s a way to describe predetermined behaviours/reactions towards stimuli. She didn’t cheat because AWALT. She cheated because of the stimuli that were there in those circumstances, both from you and from him, and that’s the outcome you get when those stimuli are given in those circumstances(AWALT). If she was deeply ‘in love’ with you, she likely wouldn’t have gone f…
/r/askTRP07/12/18 10:47 PM
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Your problem is that you’re so negative. You ask a question and then argue every piece of advice you get. How much someone else lifts has nothing to do with you. Strength is based on many factors. Even the amount of sunlight your mother had while you were in the womb affects your strength. That’s why farm/countryside kids are usually naturally strong. Because their mothers are outside much more than city kids’ mothers. You need to focus on your path, your progress. Don’t compare yourself to othe…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 02:06 PM
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No, it doesn’t matter what someone else lifts. Your focus should be on you, not on anyone else. Attraction is not based solely on physique. It’s a combination of factors. Remember the ugly guy who has all the hot girls.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 01:42 PM
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Nonsense. It took me one year of working out one day per week to get a physique I regularly get complimented on. And that’s after not having been to a gym for six years. It’s all about what you put in your head, what you tell yourself. Mindset is everything.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 01:29 PM
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Nerd
/r/askTRP03/12/18 06:51 PM
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Weird question. Why would you send snapchats if that's not something you want to do? If the other person wants to see you, meet up in person.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:55 PM
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Almost. Never self-depricate, unless it's as a joke.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 01:03 PM
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If you decide not to read it because you know you won't understand it, it means you have good time-management skills
/r/askTRP29/09/18 01:00 PM
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honestly if confronted I would just be honest saying like "I only expected 1-2 of u all to say yes" that's actually not a bad thing to say. I don't know why you feel the need to defend yourself. Plus, telling them you only expected 1-2 out of 6 to say yes is not particularly a show of confidence. I do think you are vulnerable to them all talking to each other and saying like "wtf lol he invited all of us at once?". it IS weird and a good excuse for them to talk shit about u / knock you down in t…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 01:30 AM
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..then when you become exclusive You don't.
/r/askTRP01/09/18 07:58 PM
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I see absolutely zero logic in this girls actions That's quite the achievement considering women are known to operate through emotions, not logic. Pat yourself on the back! This girl went from showing full interest She never showed full interest. You were her text buddy for several months. You were the one giving her validation, the other guys gave her sex. You know, the guys who chose to use texts for logistics only and weren't afraid to escalate. to find that she blocked me on all 3 of her acc…
/r/askTRP01/09/18 02:23 PM
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So shall I text her today, and tell her to meet me a x bar. And we will take it from there? That question mark goes against everything I said in my previous comment. Go edit your reply and turn your question into a statement of your course of action.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 01:14 PM
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My head hurts when I read questions like these in this sub. Anyone else have experience or knowledge?
/r/askTRP13/08/18 12:48 PM
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Dude... She tells you in nearly plain language that she wants you to fuck her and you are too scared to go for a simple kiss. You're too hung up on the outcome of going for a kiss --> Oneitis You're expecting someone to hold your hand and explain you step by step how to kiss that girl. That's why you keep posting asking about this girl. That's not how it works. You read the material provided, put in the effort and suck up your failures. She's told you she has a lack of sex and is unhappy with he…
/r/askTRP13/08/18 12:41 PM
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You're applying hindsight and feeling regret, not realising that you had to go through those years to get where you are now. The person you are today is the sum of your life experiences. Had you done things differently, you wouldn't be the person you are today. Had you spend your 20s partying and hooking up with girls instead of studying, you might now be a person looking back with regret for not studying and wasting his time partying instead. Don't waste your time regretting things. You have no…
/r/askTRP13/08/18 08:40 AM
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Set small daily goals/tasks and achieve/complete them. Get a job. Any job will do to start with and you can work your way up from there. It'll help you set new goals and give you a sense of purpose.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 12:59 AM
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Just having fun. Your post history suggests otherwise
/r/askTRP13/08/18 12:53 AM
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She's running the boat if that's your response. OP has made her aware of the day's plans, so she knows what's happening. She is clearly trying to manipulate him into feeling guilty to get her own way. You DON'T defend or explain yourself. You ignore it, because you have better things to do than waste your mental energy on such nonsense.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 12:51 AM
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Don't take shit tests seriously. Going for a comeback means you acknowledge that what was said affects you and you accept the verbal duel. Your comeback leaves you open to a comeback from his side. There's no need for that. The fact you get shit-tested by someone should be taken as a compliment. They can only try to bring you down if they consider you above them in the first place. Handle the test like you would handle any other shit-test, i.e. Agree & Amplify or Ignore. When the same male repea…
/r/askTRP12/08/18 09:55 PM
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It's not about perceived status, it's about personal standards. If you always settle for less than you can get, you're lowering your standards. If you pass on the low value women, and go for higher value, you're increasing your standards. Over time, 7/10s will become the new standard and you won't even consider low value women as an option anymore.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/18 08:36 AM
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People fail to see that each person who earns money in a certain economy also spends money in that economy. They earn an income and use it to pay for goods and services, just like any native of that economy would. I hear plenty of people shouting how immigration is bad, however, so far, none have provided reasonable arguments as to why it is. It could even be argued that people who were born into an economy used up public resources during childhood, whereas an immigrant didn't.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 11:41 AM
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Exactly. Going back in time, humans had to hunt and gather to sustain themselves. If they didn't put in effort to bring food to the table, they would die of starvation. That hasn't changed and never will. Humans are still an animal species that abides by the laws of nature. When you want food, you need to bring it to the table. If you don't, you don't survive. Now, this is where we are distinct from other animals. We created a society where it is possible to get others to bring food to your tabl…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 11:26 AM
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Sounds like she's already on there
/r/askTRP07/07/18 09:16 AM
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