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Tricky to attempt a diagnosis on the basis of such limited info and even more dangerous to be asking for one from unqualified redditors and not psychologists! Either way, it doesnot sound like she is normal for sure. I recently had to deal with something similar so I did a lot of research and reading on my own to make sense of what was going on. So, in my opinion (which please take with a grain of salt as I am not a trained professional) it might be BPD or that she's somewhere in the ASPD or the…
/r/seduction07/10/19 08:08 AM
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I agree completely. Perhaps better to ask her to a swimming pool date? :-D Like thus she'll get to see the good stuff and you get to see some as well.
/r/seduction29/09/19 08:06 PM
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What is this thing about turning you into a "texting buddy"? Her going back to your place AND texting first the next morning are pretty obvious signs that she likes you a lot but probably not only for a ONS. I (girl) personally would try to get to know someone a bit through both text and seeing him in person. But ok, that's just me..
/r/seduction30/07/19 07:29 PM
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Sorry guys I have to disagree (girl here). A girl that finds you attractive AND sees you helping her in a difficult situation will want you even more as she'll see you as boyfriend material. Unless you only want a ONS with her I'd say comfort her and see how she reacts/how much she seeks you out afterwards. Also, at the same time, be straightforward with your interest in dating her (not just hanging out). If she's not ok with that then move on.
/r/seduction27/07/19 10:02 PM
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Two options here: you either suggest a place yourself (which is always a nice thing to do) or you wait for a day closer to your date next week and reengage unless she texts you first. Good luck!!
/r/seduction26/07/19 12:34 PM
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Come on man... :-/ You don't say that to a girl you like unless it's only a fwb situation you're after. I understand why she acted this way, she probably has feelings for you and doesn't want to push you away by completely ignoring you after your offensive comment. If she wanted only to be fwb with you, you would already be. Take it as a compliment that she likes you more than that. If you don't like her this way, I'd say don't string her along, just stay friends.
/r/seduction23/07/19 08:37 AM
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Yeap! She likes you and probably waits to see some sign from you too. Girls don't touch guys they don't like 'that way', at least most of them don't. If she touches everyone of your friends (girls and guys) then she is a touchy-feely person and you will only know if she likes you more than a friend if you directly ask her. Hope this helps!! Good luck!
/r/seduction23/07/19 07:20 AM
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Wish you good luck!!! Text me if you get stuck and want a second opinion.
/r/seduction21/07/19 07:09 PM
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Better not to try to flirt over text, it rarely works. Face to face is better. You could write to her that you saw something the other day that reminded you of her (make up something that you shared back from the times when you were messaging) and pick up the convo from there by asking her how she is doing. If she answers then tell her your plan for your holiday, ask for hers and then, depending on how responsive she is, ask her if she'd like to meet once she is back. Don't extend the conversati…
/r/seduction20/07/19 10:28 PM
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The man has a point... Aim for better quality women, your experiences will be so much better at all levels.
/r/seduction20/07/19 06:11 PM
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Can't you just ask her when she's coming back from her vacation? Once she answers that maybe you can say, 'great perhaps we can catch up over drinks once you're back' or something similar. And once she's back hit her up again and ask her out.
/r/seduction20/07/19 06:06 PM
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I agree with QueenC1233's post. Remind her with some detail how busy you are and that you like her and want to make this work regardless. Ask if she'd be up for meeting spontaneously for coffee during the day or during lunch breaks or early mornings or whenever you find a little free time to squeeze her in the schedule. Personally I always appreciate effort put in by someone BUT I have to know how much you tried to see me, even if it is for 20 minutes, this will make the time together even more …
/r/seduction20/07/19 05:52 PM
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Sure yeah text and see what happens. What do you have to lose? If she replies then you can restart from where you two left off. Good luck!
/r/seduction20/07/19 09:58 AM
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I'm in a similar situation where the guy told me to let him know when I'm in town to meetup but I know i won't be able to see him till September (!). I told him and he just stopped replying... :-( It's such a turn off for me as I imagine it must have been for him too. So I understand why you say it's tough but I also think it's weird to set up a date to take place in a month's time. Judging by how similar our situations are I'd guess she is really into you but as it's the initial stages she can'…
/r/seduction20/07/19 07:03 AM
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Tell her how you feel about it asap. Not in an angry way or anything but be serious and firm about it. Set your boundaries otherwise you'll quickly find yourself having to accept things that you never signed up for.
/r/seduction17/07/19 11:39 AM
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Why would she go out with you if she's not into you? I never understand such people... My mentality is rather: you know if she is worth your time only by meeting her in person. At the moment you should care more about whether YOU like her enough and not the other way around. But I'm a girl so..what do I know? :-) Good luck!!
/r/seduction04/07/19 09:35 PM
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Ask what's the best cocktail of the place. Comment on something she is doing, on the weather, the music (if you like it say so if not say that) generally start by commenting on stuff around you and then slowly focus more on her. It's more comfortable for both you and the girl. Good luck!
/r/seduction04/07/19 07:31 PM
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Why not? I'd say text again. Like that you can know for sure if she's a flake and in this case you can just move on and do something better with your evening.
/r/seduction04/07/19 07:27 PM
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I understand that you're working like crazy and the last thing you want to do now is put a nice front for your dates with her when all you need is some extra sleep but if I were you I would still try to fit even a half hour coffee break during my day to see that person. And during that half hour I would be honest and explain the situation in detail... She seems to be really interested so she's worth the try imo. If she's good for you she'll understand and wait. 6 weeks to wait is not too long.
/r/seduction03/07/19 08:09 PM
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Girl here. If a guy would write to me "Take care" I would be 100% sure he is pissed. I prefer the way you answered to be honest. It shows that you are a nice and polite guy and I want to go out with such guys. Also, there is always a chance that she was being honest. If she wasn't she wouldn't ask to reschedule. Also she was respectful enough to let you know ahead of time so you can make other plans with your evening. Things happen... I agree with the others suggesting to try one last time with …
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:37 PM
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A nice short text to see how she's doing is sweet. Anytime is good. I know I would appreciate it :-)
/r/seduction29/06/19 03:15 PM
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If a guy would tell me "I know you're busy, I won't keep you" I would also start thinking that he just wants to finish the convo with me because he is bored... Think about it. If you say she's just being polite why wouldn't she think the same about you? I know it's difficult (I do this too the whole time) but try not to overthink. Do what feels natural to you. You think of her and want to reach out with a short text? Do this. You feel like you would come off as clingy and you won't feel comforta…
/r/seduction29/06/19 09:27 AM
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Dude, what did you do? :-( This sucks. Good luck!
/r/seduction28/06/19 10:52 PM
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She is apologetic and asks to reschedule which shows interest. You're still communicating which is a very good sign. I don't think she has lost interest. The only way to know for sure is to set up the next date and see what happens. Not long to go till then so be patient!
/r/seduction28/06/19 10:44 PM
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Yeah say sth along the lines of: it's a bit late and you have already made plans for this weekend but if she's available the next weekend you'll be happy to meet up for brunch/coffee whatever. Good luck!!
/r/seduction28/06/19 01:34 PM
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Relationships fail all the time...maybe you thought that these girls had boyfriends but they actually broke up and are in the search for the next one (you). If they are still in the previous relationship and flirt with you so much that means there is something wrong with their current boyfriend and they are ready to check out. If it makes you uncomfortable just casually ask more questions about their boyfriends when you two speak. Stress the fact that you know they are in a relationship. Based o…
/r/seduction28/06/19 07:57 AM
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I know it's super scary but you have to try to be more straightforward and 'chase' what you want imo. It makes sense to go after the ones you REALLY like because that will be so much more fulfilling for you. So approach these girls in a friendly way at first. Learn a bit more about their personality, see if you click and then ask to spend more time with them doing whatever. Once you do that, you'll immediately know if there is reciprocal interest or not. If yes, after the first 2 or so dates/mee…
/r/seduction27/06/19 02:35 PM
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Girl here. I believe it has something to do with your style of communication (women may perceive it as overly sexual) during your interactions. Let's face it, most guys are not so confident when they approach someone they like. They are nervous and the women can tell..but nervousness can be a turn on as well! Or perhaps you don't usually go after the ones that you REALLY like (meaning after you get to know them a bit better and know that your personalities match). So you are super confident beca…
/r/seduction27/06/19 07:50 AM
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Don't think like that please, you're self-sabotaging yourself. I'm sure you're very interesting, with many interests, life experiences and things to say. Why would someone go out with you in the first place if they didn't find you interesting? Her becoming distant might have nothing to do with what you're thinking. Maybe she expects you to put in effort and initiate texts and dates and when you ignore her she thinks that YOU find HER boring. Do yourself a favour and don't second-guess yourself. …
/r/seduction26/06/19 11:04 PM
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Just wait! She hasn't ghosted you yet, she probably has a life! Also, give her time to actually think whether she wants to spend some face-to-face time with (practically) a stranger .. If you haven't heard from her for 2 days...text again asking if all is well with her. If you don't hear back, you have your answer.
/r/seduction24/06/19 10:52 PM
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Yeah she certainly wants you but tries to not come off as too forward or slutty. Also, keep in mind, she won't make a move before you do, she expects you to be bold. Go for it but stay respectful, remember: slow but steady! Good luck!!
/r/seduction03/06/19 10:36 AM
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The guy I'm talking about was also SUPER nervous at the beginning of our last two dates. We tried both our best to hide it and calm down but it was so obvious...It was uncomfortable but in my mind it was a good sign as it showed me how invested we both were in the outcome of our meeting. Maybe it didn't help me much seeing him also nervous but after I said some stupid jokes and he started asking me questions to get me talking we both relaxed a bit. It flowed naturally from that point on and afte…
/r/seduction22/05/19 12:47 PM
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Certainly a good sign (girl here). I cannot even look at the guy's eyes if I'm into him so much and I can barely make coherent sentences :-( It sucks honestly but you have to approach gently with this one. Make her feel comfortable first by initiating communication too and being super friendly. Good luck!!
/r/seduction22/05/19 09:28 AM
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Just send the damn text dude! Any simple polite text with a date suggestion (day/place/time) and some emoji perhaps. If you really want to see her, just go ahead and ask for that date, I consider this as being true to yourself and to your feelings. How many days inbetween texting went by is not important as people have busy lives and are not around their phone the whole time. If she doesn't initiate texting, it could be for a number of reasons and not necessarily because she is not that interest…
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:24 AM
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Very true ! For a moment I thought I was at /askmen sub :-)
/r/seduction12/04/19 04:02 PM
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Girl here. I agree completely with the previous post! I get SERIOUSLY turned off by someone who doesn't text at all other than for date-logistics. Yeah I get it, it's nice to build up some anticipation for the next date but radio silence also makes me think that either i) you have nothing interesting to say or respond to me or ii) you forgot about me or iii) you have no interest in building up some good communication. Neither of these are good. Girls appreciate a good texter! And memes are great…
/r/seduction12/04/19 03:56 PM
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Try sending one more message suggesting a specific place and time. If she doesn't respond again, move on. Good luck man!
/r/seduction17/03/19 02:43 PM
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You cannot know for sure I'm afraid unless you have some more concrete signs. Maybe she's comfortable around you and likes your company. Girls can see guys as just friends which is (apparently) rare the other way around. However, I can tell you that I personally would never invite a guy to go see a movie (or do anything one-on-one whatsoever) if I didn't want to isolate him as my "target" :-) Some girls are different than me though so be careful. I'd say go and see what happens, ask her to anoth…
/r/seduction16/03/19 01:33 PM
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Been there my friend... Falling for someone alone? I don't recommend it. Keep your guard up while finding out about her relationship status. Good luck!
/r/seduction15/03/19 12:38 PM
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She's probably attempting to tease you but imo in a terrible way. Can't tell if it's a 'test'...to me it seems that this is her style with men. Initiating communication and once you take the bait (aka she gets your attention) she stops because that's all she wanted. She didn't intend to talk to you, just to have you think of her. It's a 'good' technique for building attraction but certainly not good if you're after something healthy and long term. Long term things need consistency and predictabi…
/r/seduction15/03/19 12:35 PM
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She could be with someone. That's my best guess. Unless of course you sexted her before saying hello which I doubt :-)
/r/seduction15/03/19 12:23 PM
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Gal here: I'm glad to read that somebody acknowledges this... I feel like I need to write this and you may of course completely disregard the info if you think it's irrelevant to you: I got incredibly hurt, heartbroken and depressed for a long time after a guy did all these 'games' you describe on me just to get my attention. He eventually did get my attention even though we didn't reach to the fucking point ever. I'm in no way a prude, I just prefer to have feelings for s1 and to feel safe with…
/r/seduction13/03/19 01:59 AM
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You can't decipher her level of attraction from just these words...I'm sorry :-( What you can know for sure (if she's being sincere which I assume she is) is that, in her head, she made a comparison between your behaviour/personality/advice-giving/wisdom/you-have-it and that of other guys. And she decided that she wanted to tell you that you're better than them. Did she ask you for the advice or did you give it to her without her asking? I ask advice only from guys that I respect and I'm attract…
/r/seduction08/03/19 11:21 PM
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Girl here: it means she's into you and that was a compliment to raise your self-esteem and ego (or just to catch your attention and make you like her more). Some dating coaches are suggesting this but it could be that she made it up herself of course. Either way, you're golden :-) Have fun on the date!
/r/seduction08/03/19 07:27 AM
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Haha i'm afraid not...:-) i drink my coffee black...
/r/seduction05/03/19 10:37 AM
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