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| 10 | Is it appropriate to cook together at a guy’s house on the third date? | ADVICE | Carocucciolo | /r/RedPillWives | 19/06/18 04:28 AM |
| 9 | How to channel more feminine energy on dates? | ADVICE | Carocucciolo | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/18 03:51 AM |
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| 3 | Is it appropriate to cook together at a guy’s house on the third date?Thanks so much :) I really appreciate everyone’s advice. Some people are saying to just be direct, but it’s actually pretty difficult and awkward for me to have that “sex talk” with a guy. It’s just so uncomfortable! He asked me yesterday what time I’m available, and I said 3pm. We’re meeting at 3:30 :) and then I suggested that we go for dessert afterwards! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/06/18 04:09 AM |
| 1 | How would you over to a guy's place without sleeping with him?I’m wondering the same thing. I’m meeting up this Sunday to cook with a guy at his house, and I’m concerned that he expects sex. Of course, I’m still open to spending one on one time at one of our places—as long as we’re doing a specific activity that doesn’t involve cuddling on the couch, which can easily lead to sex. I’ve been advised to meet with him earlier on the day (NOT the late evening) and make sure that we have something to do outside (at a cafe, restaurant, park, etc.) after cooking a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/06/18 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Is it appropriate to cook together at a guy’s house on the third date?Lol I’m happy that you guys are married now! I’m so conflicted. Did he try to make a move though? 😅 I think that cooking together can actually be lots of fun and a great way to bond... as long as the bedroom is far enough from the kitchen. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/06/18 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Is it appropriate to cook together at a guy’s house on the third date?LOL—good point! It’s so soon that it’d be ridiculous if he’s expecting it. We haven’t even held hands or kissed! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/06/18 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Is it appropriate to cook together at a guy’s house on the third date?That’s what I’m worried about. I’m not open to sex yet. Do you think I should cancel and ask if we can do something else? I just had making plans and then cancelling. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/06/18 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Is it appropriate to cook together at a guy’s house on the third date?Yeah... is it just another form of “Netflix and chill”? I guess I’m not fully comfortable with it because I know that it implies the possibility of a hookup. And some guys think that sex is guaranteed on the third date. And I don’t want to fall into that trap. It’s so awkward once you’re actually in the moment. So that’s I’m why anxious about it. I know I keep flip flopping but it may be in my best interest to suggest we do something else. I just want to express it in a way that doesn’t bruise h… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/06/18 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Is it appropriate to cook together at a guy’s house on the third date?Excellent advice. Do you have any idea how I should suggest that we go for dessert after? This may sound silly, but what is a cute/feminine way to ask? I’m wondering if I should call the whole thing off and just suggest that we go for dessert together, but I feel awkward doing that since I already said yes to cooking together. I don’t want to be wishy washy. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/06/18 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Is it appropriate to cook together at a guy’s house on the third date?Hehe exactly! :) | /r/RedPillWives | 19/06/18 06:58 AM |
| 7 | Is it appropriate to cook together at a guy’s house on the third date?Excellent advice, eh! Why didn’t I think of that? 😆 scheduling the date earlier in the day (between the afternoon-early evening) and then suggest we go for tea or to a park. I’ll mention that I’d love to check out a nearby cafe of dessert place after! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/06/18 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Is it appropriate to cook together at a guy’s house on the third date?Absolutely excellent advice! So, I’ll suggest that we meet in the afternoon and early evening, and then say that I would love to go for tea or a park after. There are lots of nice parks in the area :) I really appreciate your advice! Gee, why couldn’t I think of that 😜 | /r/RedPillWives | 19/06/18 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Is it appropriate to cook together at a guy’s house on the third date?Thanks for your input :) so, it’s not a date in which we go out and then head to his place for the night. Rather, he wants to cook together in the afternoon or evening (around 5pm). But still... he try to hook up. Should I cancel and suggest we do something else? 😝 if not, how can I keep physical boundaries on the date? | /r/RedPillWives | 19/06/18 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Is it appropriate to cook together at a guy’s house on the third date?So he wants to plan the cooking in the afternoon :) we’re not going to go out somewhere and then go to his place at night... I agree that that’s a no no! 😆 do you think it’s still ok to cook in the afternoon or evening (around 5pm)? Or should I cancel the plan and suggest we do something else? I just feel bad canceling after I accepted his offer. This potential cooking date will be on Sunday, by the way. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/06/18 04:54 AM |
| 6 | Now I’m confusedLots of the advice on RPW seems to be male centric (particularly the advice posted by men) and merely serves the interests of men. I have no interest in attracting a guy who’s primarily interested in having a bunch of plates. I also read some advice on RPW (definitely written by a guy) that stayed that when you have sex in the relationship doesn’t matter—if you’re high quality, then he’ll upgrade you to “gf status,” and having sex on the first or second date isn’t a factor. This advice is so tox… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/06/18 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Resource Roundup! Help us find the best RP (and related) content out thereI also recommend Rori Raye’s blog, along with Renee Wades blog! :) | /r/RedPillWives | 19/06/18 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Just want to say THANK YOU to this sub. I went on a first date with a man a couple of weeks ago and he said, "I really like how feminine you are."I’m curious to know too! | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/18 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Go To Kitchen Staples- What Ingredients & Tools Do You Have To Always Have On Hand?It depends on what type of food you like to cook! I personally love cooking traditional Italian dishes :) So, I always make sure to have pasta on me (particularly, rigatoni, penne rigate, ditali and spaghetti). Other staples include good quality olive oil, salt, fresh pepper, jarred crushed tomatoes (passata di pomodoro imported from Italy), cream, and pancetta. Pancetta is cured Italian pork and it adds a beautiful flavour to pasta. And I also keep white wine on me—sauvignon blanc. It adds a ri… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/18 12:08 AM |
| 1 | How to channel more feminine energy on dates?Yeah, I really wish that charm schools were socially acceptable! Do you think it’s bad to make too much eye contact then? How much eye contact is acceptable? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/18 06:02 AM |
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