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Are you dense? a 5'10" man, not 6' is 'tall' among the married men. The married, partnered, parenting men include many around my height and shorter. I see many women happy with their average to low average to short partners every day. I dated men because they were charming and kind and willing to share the kind of adventures I wanted to have. I dumped men who were mad about me making more some years and being better at some physical things. I've never wanted a partner above me, and neither do mo…
/r/ExRedPill23/06/25 11:29 PM
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My husband is Scandinavian, he's about 5'11, maybe 5'10" in socks. Definitely not 6' He's one of the tallest 'dads' at events with our kids. My brother is 5'9" in shoes and exagerating - really he's 5'7-ish. He has a wife who is 5'10", and wears heels. Open your eyes and see all the average height or a little shorter men with partners. Height is only a tiny piece of even appearance, get over yourself.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/25 06:26 PM
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There's also the principles/assumptions underlying the logic. The biases underlying the pure logic isn't there.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/25 09:29 AM
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Attraction is multi factoral. First, people have different aesthetic preferences. Do you like runners, or weightlifters? Feminine or androgynous features? Big curly hair or flat smooth hair? Then, people find personality traits attractive as well. Someone kind, or funny, or sarcastic, or artistic might be more attractive than someone "prettier".
/r/ExRedPill06/03/25 03:35 PM
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Women around 30 don't want to settled down because they are losing value, they want to find a long term partner because they understand what they value and maybe want to raise a kid or three. If you don't see them as valuable, your market value is nil.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/24 07:14 PM
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Grand gestures mean you can be romantic one day. That's not enough to base a characterization of a person on, or to really make them a better or worse partner.
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 01:10 PM
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So you are an individual, not statistics about men, but women are just statistics/stereotypes/expectations of women? As your happiest married to a woman relative about the romantic things they both do. Maybe he values the way she gets dressed up and does up her hair to be even more attractive? Maybe she buys him new shirts without him so much as asking, and they fit perfectly? Maybe she learned to cook something he really likes? Or, maybe he isn't one for one off gestures and he will say somethi…
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 12:44 PM
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How much media is there made by women and centered on the experience of a woman? How much is made by men and centered on a man? What does this tally over the top 100 movies or TV shows of the last 5 years tell you?
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 05:37 PM
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And have no independent source or money that means you can leave if things go bad with your partner.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 04:30 PM
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Yeah, I remember being a 19 year old. The guys I was interested in were the cutest guy in Complex Analysis (who had long hair and would not have been cast as a superhero), or maybe the physics TA who wore tight t-shirts, rock climbed, and had the physique to show for it. Then maybe the slightly chubby guy who made weird jokes and was in choir with me. That is, guys around my stage in life, with interests in common with me. I was hit on, occasionally, by >30 year old men, and I found it really bi…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/24 10:46 PM
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I've always preferred men who are skinny and kind of boyish looking, and always preferred men closer to my size. I've dated men my height, and my first crush was shorter than me. But the least attractive thing was men who put down women, called their exes bitches, and so on. Be thoughtful about what you chose wrong, sure, but not in a way that makes it obvious you didn't look at them as people.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/23 12:48 PM
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I mean, sure, a young woman will be flooded with 'sup messages from men looking for a hookup and messages from men older than their fathers. Doesn't mean they are unfairly rejecting them
/r/ExRedPill14/09/23 09:55 PM
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Yeah, where is your masters' thesis published? What conference are you targeting this work for? What tf is your institutional ethics board thinking about this? Nobody with a PhD in any of these disciplines will not talk about their area of focus - and wouldn't group "women" all together across all age groups and cultural groups without so much as a demographic survey.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/23 09:53 PM
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Also no understanding of the history of incel - the original forum was started by a lonely woman looking for commiseration, and toxic dudes quickly took over and shouted her down, as if a woman couldn't be lonely and unable to find a partner. She's a queer feminist who probably would have been rejected by these dudes even back then.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/23 09:05 PM
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No. Talk to women (not trying to date them, and not only in the appropriate demographics for you to date) and discover the not so shocking fact that they're individuals who prefer different things in a man (among those who even want one). One wants a provider who also enjoys kids for family life. One finds ambition attractive. One has their own career and just wants someone supportive when they have to run off to dig up dinosaurs in Antarctica, who finds that fascinating. One is athletic or outd…
/r/ExRedPill06/09/23 12:09 PM
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