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A massive number of men* cannot bench even 200lb Source (for what it's worth): https://www.healthline.com/health/exercise-fitness/average-bench-press#average-for-men
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/24 07:29 PM
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Especially considering that they'd be raising a teenager in their 60s, depending on when the kid is born. That sounds absolutely exhausting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/24 06:20 PM
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I've seen exactly two who've made it work, one of whom was an actual widow. The first was beautiful even in her 40s, and she worked out and dieted obsessively to stay in shape even with her kid. She "settled" for a chubby, alcoholic C-suite guy who came from old money. The other was a homely woman who found a guy at church who was very young and naive, and who was convinced that it was "God's calling" for him to "step up" and "be the better man" after the husband died.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/24 06:19 PM
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I have a traditional lifestyle [sic] even though I'm an alternative girl These two things are foundationally incompatible and mutually exclusive. Funnily enough, this is also the exact same complete contradiction shown in her picture. She is desperately trying to appear "happy" or "quirky" or "fun-loving," but the best she can muster is some sort of psychotic fear grimace with crazy eyes. She's also trying her hardest to hide her collarbone (or lack thereof), which tells you she's fat fat fat Th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/24 02:31 PM
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Hard to tell from such a brief paragraph, but I assume she's some flavor of a Corporate Nun. Serial monogamy, at least as far as I meant, is where someone continuously gets new partners every few months/years for up to decades on end without making any sort of lifetime commitment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/24 08:16 PM
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I'm seeing the exact same sentiment from coworkers and social acquaintances who loved to ride the train of serial monogamy or hook up incessantly with people outside their league. They wasted their 20s "having fun" or "funding themselves," they bounced around in their 30s trying to "find Mr. Right" (i.e. Captain 1%) while girlbossing their way up the corporate ladder, and they're in their 40s and 50s with no prospects, no family, and no future. 40 to 80 is a long time, and these people have nobo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/24 05:21 PM
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Most of the requested interventions aren’t requests for help escaping ( there’s tons of resources to help women leave) but requests for help to get the guy to stop being violent so they can stay. That's a really good point, actually
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/24 03:36 PM
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One of the biggest issues with Domestic Violence (DV) is that frequently the abused person will continue to stay with their abusive partner, while also attacking anyone who attempts to intervene and defending their abuser to the bitter end. There's also a huge amount of mutual abuse in these relationships, so no one person is wholly "innocent" in a fair number of these instances. Ask any cop who's had to deal with a DV call. You'll get attacked by both the victim and the abuser when trying to in…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/24 02:10 PM
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I genuinely don't understand the timetable that people like this operate on. If you have a kid when you're 39 or 40 (assuming she's 38 right now) then you're going to be a raising someone until you're 67+, even longer if your geriatric pregnancy results in any issues or developmental disabilities, such as Down's or Autism. Meanwhile, everyone I know who had kids in their 20s after graduating and starting their financially-stable careers (this includes lawyers and dentists) are living their best …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/24 07:10 PM
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That's a good one Edit: Seems like a large number of people are historically ignorant
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/24 11:12 PM
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Ah, that'd make sense. Maybe it's also a 'peace' symbol? Weird that she'd put an emoji instead of literally just saying "not interested" with how ambiguous that symbol/gesture could be. Oh well. Unironic emojis in an 'About Me' section are just another indicator you're not dealing with a functional adult.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/24 09:40 PM
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Apparently there are 371 things that would take priority over any potential suitor, so I agree, let her deal with those before anyone entertains the option of a relationship
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/24 09:09 PM
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"2 kids and DONE! If you want one [raise your hand]" Why is this idiot telling pedophiles that if they want one of her children, they can have one Looking for a traditional provide-and-protect type You want a traditional man to provide for, and protect, a family that isn't his. Are we reading this right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/24 09:08 PM
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I've never seen someone who's more of a passive spectator to their own life than this person. Weird how every other attractive happily-married women with standards, values, and a backbone doesn't have these issues. You can practically taste the lack of a father figure in this post.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/24 01:58 PM
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Oh, sure, it's not a problem to engage with them from the perspective of surface-level enjoyment. Kind of like reading tea leaves or using tarot cards as a fun social thing. From what I've seen, though, most people who advertise that they're "into" astrology/horoscopes take them far too seriously and aren't the type of person who are suitable for long-term committed relationships.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/24 02:19 PM
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Astrology is outright pseudoscience, and can't stand up to any sort of empirical, objective scrutiny. At least in my opinion, it indicates a clear inability to comprehend how the world works, and is also usually an indicator of emotional immaturity.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/24 01:36 PM
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Weird, could be that it's blocked in your region or something strange is going on with whatever you're using to view it It's just a link to a clip from the Simpsons (Season 8, Episode 8) where someone laments that they've tried nothing and they're all out of ideas
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/24 01:32 PM
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I've worked under a fair few of those in my time in corporate America, and they always reminded of a quote by C.S. Lewis: "It would be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies...those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end for they do so with the approval of their own conscience." At the end of the day, they genuinely believe that they are entitled to micromanage and control you because of some deep insight that they alone possess about the "…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/24 03:08 PM
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in modern life women have never been less happy, and men are waking up to the fact that its a fools errand to try and make/help women be happy as they will never be satisfied and they will treat it like you owe them as an obligation to make them happy, while them making you happy is oppression. More and more men are saying "You won't be 'happy' no matter what I do. Doing what you want instead of what I want makes me unhappy too, so fuck it; I'm going to do what I want to do."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/24 04:29 PM
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The "insulted" thing will never not be funny Have had instances of normal conversational disagreement turning into some variation of them claiming a lack of agreement is an "insult to their intelligence," and an "attack" on them as a result. Like, no, that's not how any of this works.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/24 04:13 PM
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A great addition to that is Kohlberg's Stages of Moral Development, where Kohlberg himself asserted that "...women tend to get stuck at Level 3, being primarily concerned with details of how to maintain relationships and promote the welfare of family and friends. Men are likely to move on to the abstract principles and thus have less concern with the particulars of who is involved."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/24 09:19 PM
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This person is flying a parade of red flags: Astrology Single mother Refers to her son's father as a "sperm donor" Has a substance abuse problem (alcohol) Has (had?) $60k+ in debt and went through bankruptcy Is old Is continuously chasing "feelings" Claims that men are "deeply insecure and despise women" It can't be that I'm a misandrist astrology-obsessed alcoholic single mother; It's the men who are the problem. Got it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/24 09:04 PM
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That's logical but what the hell? Does she whip out her iPhone and while the person is standing there run a Dunn and Bradstreet report on them? Happened to a friend who's a dentist. He was on a date with a surgeon, she asked what he did for work, and then literally pulled her phone out to Google what a dentist made. She started grilling him about how "Dentists only make 120k a year, what makes you think you're good enough for me?" and he just ended the date right there after informing her that h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/24 01:34 PM
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The funniest thing is that I literally know a guy who meets all of their inane criteria for income, achievement, good looks, social connections/skills, and weight/height/fitness ...he's just invisible because he literally lives as far off the grid as possible, doesn't give a shit about socializing beyond his established friend groups, and has zero interest in travel/night life/"foodie" stuff/politics. Man also has the most abrasive no-bullshit personality I've ever encountered. His disagreeablen…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/24 01:58 AM
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she's a nagging type-A personality thief of joy that no longer even has youth to incentivize men to overlook that she is a misery factory for any man foolish enough to commit to her. You've got a way with words and I like your sentences
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/24 09:37 PM
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That's a fair point, and you're absolutely correct to give her credit for at least saying that. I went to school with easily 20+ guys in total who now meet her criteria but who I can guarantee she would have passed over in her 20s because they weren't the complete package yet. I also have a few family members who meet her criteria now (siblings, uncles, etc.) but who were generally also ignored in their 20s by women. Genuinely, I ultimately don't believe her when she says that she's willing to c…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/24 04:24 PM
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After a really nasty work lunch with someone like the lawyer in the OP, a few buddies and I did the napkin math on the odds of their idealized "true love" partner Even just a short list of (dis)qualifiers had the guy being in something like the Top 0.01% of the population Not gay Not overweight or obese No debilitating mental health issues No substance abuse issues Not married, no kids (i.e. never divorced) Advanced degree and/or six-figure income Six feet tall Age between 25-50 ...and from the …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/24 04:18 PM
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I genuinely don't know what else to do "We've tried nothing, and we're all out of ideas!" Edit: Just read through the whole thing, and holy cow I can completely understand why this women is going to die alone She's a lawyer, so she always has to be "right" because that makes her an expert in everything by default. She likely views every normal discussion as a competition that she has to "win" -lest her "top dog" ego be hurt- which is just exhausting for normal people. She can't be with someone w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/24 03:26 PM
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I'd argue there's also a #3: 3) She's a perpetual victim who can't handle any amount introspection, personal responsibility, or self-regulation ...which also indicates fundamental character defects that immediately disqualify her from consideration
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/24 02:25 AM
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why would I want to ‘settle’ for a women of my own age (let alone one that is even older than me) when I could get one that is 5 or even 10 years younger than her? As put by a friend: "They had no interest in me when I was their age (their 20s), why should I care about them when they are my age (my 30s)?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/24 06:23 PM
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I'd agree with this The "outliers" to that number peak at around 28, and that's for the likes of someone in a medical profession (e.g. doctor) who genuinely has just taken that long to sus out a suitable partner
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/24 01:06 AM
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If you actually read subreddit rules youre a cuck How dare someone adhere to the rules of a community they're participating in. The horror. Your pedanticism is probably the reason youve been rejected in the past. Swing and a miss on the personal attack Please tell us more about your personal problems Also dude take a break, you dont have to reply immediately every time. Funny how fast people like you spiral when your impotence is put on display You could pretend you have something more important…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/24 06:02 PM
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I read it a good five-odd times just to make sure I wasn't having a stroke. It's genuinely indecipherable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/24 04:49 PM
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Jesus fuckin christ you couldnt get that i was typing quickly and skipped a few fuckin commas? I copy-pasted -VERBATIM- your attempt at a sentence. Dont take me seriously There's clearly no need to. stay mad if you want Can you point to the "mad"-ness in the room? You couldn't point to anything last time, so here's your chance at redemption. The topic is literally me saying "yall judge too much" And that's where you're wrong. i dont care anymore, you win bro I'm glad to hear you admit that you'r…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/24 04:48 PM
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Im just trying to get you all to see that youre judging wayyy too quickly and too harshly in a lot of cases. Is the "too quick and too harsh judgement" in the room with us right now? Please point to it. Whatever about laughing about the lost chances of happiness random women you dont know on the internet talk about, i get thats the point of this place. Buddy, if you can't even put a coherent sentence together then you definitely aren't going to be taken seriously. Just dont stare so long into th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/24 02:14 PM
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Not only does she have no idea what she needs/wants, she also seems genuinely confused about what she has to offer She apparently needs me for nothing while she's offering me nothing And yet everyone other than her is the problem? Nah. Go un-torpedo your marriage and commit to the guy who already committed to you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/24 06:30 PM
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It's a post facto shaming attempt to cope with their own failures
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/24 03:45 PM
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women do not want to date someone who is out of their age range by more than 5-7 years The innumerable "women" in their 20s (and teenage years, alarmingly) who refuse to date/fuck/marry anyone below 30 tells a different tale This is such a common sentiment that even mainstream celebrities are saying it out loud. Jennifer Lopez is on record as saying that men not in their 30s are "useless."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/24 04:24 PM
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I've run into this type a lot; Hard-driving professionals who think that their degree entitles them to partners way out of their league. A degree is not an attraction proxy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/24 06:39 PM
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Degree chasers are as insufferable as height chasers
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/24 04:54 PM
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She is looking for a bailout guy with every fiber of her being. Someone who isn't a convict, who will provide her with a home and stability now that she's an unemployable drug-trafficking convict with a high school diploma.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/23 11:05 PM
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Yup. He learned that other people were prioritized over him, so he prioritized his own life with a backhanded "my cat values me more than you" statement and bounced.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/23 03:13 PM
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I've had (and observed) that exact sort of interaction innumerable times "My kid is my everything" - All right, well clearly there would never be any place for me in 'your' world then, so g'bye I'm not entering into a relationship where I would come in third or fourth place behind 1) You 2) Some other guy 3) That guy's kid(s) Go work it out with the father of your children because I'm not putting myself in last place ...and then you invariably have the screeching of "WAATGM!?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/23 03:09 PM
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One of the things a lot of guys don't realize until it's too late is that she'll be unhappy no matter what, so it's best to focus on yourself and not let her change you or what you do. It seems to me that a lot of these types get divorced for the exact same reasons they dated or fucked the other person.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/23 03:03 PM
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To be honest I was not even aware that a website like that existed. Same This is a thing? Weirdly interesting
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/23 01:25 PM
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Those are invariably the charges that she pled down to It's pretty simple to read between the lines that she was either trafficking or holding a substantive amount of controlled substances, and as part of a plea deal she got those reduced charges
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/23 01:24 PM
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They tend to bandy around medical catchphrases as a psychotherapeutic pseudo-horoscope "I could never cheat, I'm an Aquaraguitarist" "I'm good with people because I'm a Caprisun" "I'm anxious because I have Reactive Attachment Disorder" It's just meaningless psychobabble that they use as a proxy astrology*
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/23 07:43 PM
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The "ex" played her like a fiddle for more than a decade of NSA sex and alpha-widowed her to the umpteenth degree Trickle-feeding international travel and dangling commitment to keep her engaged while letting her know at every turn that she was replaceable if she didn't stay on her best behavior was peak Dread Game He then dropped her without "closure" (the scorched-earth nuclear option) and moved on to a younger/hotter option inside of a year while she married what she regarded as a random emot…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/23 08:36 PM
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her having a good career translates into men not being functional adults? Who said that the person in the OP having a good career made men into non-functional adults? She is chronically selecting life's losers and then complaining that she's only in relationships with losers. That's on her, and is entirely the result of her personal choices.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/23 03:06 PM
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I don't think the woman wants a six figure [sic] alpha [sic] male Keep in mind that these are characteristics that you introduced to the discussion. I think she just wants a partner she doesn't need to remind to clean up after himself. If she actually "wanted" that then she could have easily found such a man decades ago instead of making herself into a poor facsimile of the guy she wants and complaining that male carbon copies of herself have no interest in her. She's clearly been selecting for …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/23 02:55 PM
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That I think men think they want to be needed until you ask help for the same thing multiple times and they get feed up and don't wanna help again. Or that they just ask and ask for help and don't let them rest. So do they wanna be helpful or needed or not? How this stream-of-consciousness thing is supposed to relate to the topic in the OP is beyond me. Men who are in the top percentile of attractiveness/success aren't interested in ball-busting, over-the-hill pseudo-males as romantic partners. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/23 02:35 PM
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If you have an actual point then it'd be best if you actually just said it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/23 02:10 PM
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