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Haha, senior year of high school.
/r/seduction13/07/11 08:52 PM
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I once had an English teacher who agreed. She would say, "I don't see the big deal, I would be proud to be called a slut." But basically, I think it just has to do with gender roles and the traditional expectations of girls to be tame and innocent. But hey, who knows?
/r/seduction13/07/11 05:13 PM
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My big piece of advice on daygame is this: go direct if you're not doing so already. Beyond that, my day game can be summed up like this: Approach direct: "Hey, you're cute... what's up?", "Are you single?" etc, etc. Chat a bit, find out what she's up to. Joke around, general flirting and whatnot. Either grab her number and head out OR take her on an instant date and do something exciting. Day game is super fun once you get a handle on it. If you have any more specific questions, shoot me a mess…
/r/seduction13/07/11 05:03 PM
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How to WIN at conversation: Relax. She's just a girl, it's no different than talking to anyone else. Talk about something that excites YOU. If you're having fun, so will she. Tell stories: I don't know how old you are, but chances are - you're AT LEAST 18. That's 18+ years of stories/material. Again, just relax. Conversation is a natural skill. You're probably just making this a lot harder than it actually is. You have everything you need to succeed right now, man. And skip the canned lines/rout…
/r/seduction12/07/11 03:42 PM
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Smiling is awesome! When I first got into pickup (before I started approaching), I would just go out and practice holding eye contact and smiling. You could even throw in some super creepy smiles and get some hilarious reactions ;)
/r/seduction12/07/11 03:30 PM
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I'd say, just bring her back to your place. The parents probably aren't that big of a deal (I don't know how chill yours are though). I would bring home girls all the time in high school, my parents never cared or interfered. If you really want to be sneaky, just hang out with her until pretty late (go to a party/friends house or something) and bring her back when you know your parents would be asleep. Or just get creative. Do you have any friends who have their own place/whose parents are gone …
/r/seduction11/07/11 12:56 AM
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In my opinion, it's just something that comes naturally as you develop yourself. The more comfortable & confident you are with yourself, the sexier you will be to the ladiez.
/r/seduction11/07/11 12:50 AM
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I can't really remember how many solos I've done... The big moment when it 'clicked' for me though was when I was on a big daygame spree one week and on my third day out (after tons of approaches & rejections), I just started seeing success after success. I got some numbers and even on the approaches that didn't go so well -- the rejections weren't bad. My advice is just keep at it, bro. It hurts like hell when you're just getting rejection after rejection. But, you know how it goes... fall down…
/r/seduction11/07/11 12:42 AM
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When I go out solo, it's usually for daygame. I much prefer going out with friends or doing entourage type stuff. When I first started though, it was all solo. It may not be as fun... but IMO, it's good for implementing habits and keeping you aware of where you need the most work.
/r/seduction10/07/11 09:33 PM
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I used to think that way when I first got into this stuff. My suggestion is: don't use canned openers & routines. Develop your own methods and work towards a more direct/natural approach. If you're just coming into a set with total authenticity, there will be nothing for her to call you out on. Worst case scenario: she DOES catch you using some canned material... just disregard it and keep talking. It's no big deal, really.
/r/seduction10/07/11 12:24 AM
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Funny thing is: once I found the community, I quit drinking. I never use alcohol as an aid. Yes, it will allow you to be a bit more edgy and can even up your confidence a bit. However, that boost in confidence is just fake. When you go out and work on your game without any aids (alc, friends, drugs, etc.) you're really building a muscle and implementing good habits. If you rely on alcohol then that stuff doesn't happen the way it naturally should. You can even build up a dependence on it. You do…
/r/seduction10/07/11 12:17 AM
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I have this sometimes. I'll go out with friends one night, be in state 100% and totally dominate. Then, the next night I'll be out alone and will have trouble getting pumped or building momentum. The worst part is that you know it's totally unreasonable. Mostly it happens after I haven't been out alone for a while and I get in my head. I just fight through it and keep approaching. Also, remember to entertain yourself. The more focused you are on your own fun and entertainment, the more pressure …
/r/seduction10/07/11 12:10 AM
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Awesome, man! Welcome to the community -- once you dive in the success is insaaaane :D
/r/seduction09/07/11 11:59 PM
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Hmmm... I thought about this for a while. I can't think of a single regret I have for joining the community. Anything that could be negative also has a positive side. For example: I'm very analytical about my behaviors and my thought patterns. This can be annoying or upsetting at times because it makes me realize how much more work I have to do. However, I'm very thankful that I'm aware. I would never want to go back to being the naive kid I once was. Pickup changed my life and I think it does t…
/r/seduction07/07/11 03:57 AM
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I would check out Magnus's videos on tapping: here, and here. He provides a good intro to tapping and explains things clearly. Also, he does some tapping exercises that pertain specifically to pickup/seduction. If you're still interested in learning more about tapping and how it works, check out the EFT Manual. Here's how I like to approach it: I'll meditate using binaural beats or just by sitting quietly. Oftentimes, negative emotions will reveal themselves during meditation and I'll take note …
/r/seduction30/06/11 02:01 PM
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This is a great post. Jealousy has been one of the most difficult things for me to overcome. Truth is, jealousy is a childish emotion. Human beings aren't property and you have no right to treat them as such. The more freedom you give to those around you, the more freedom you'll find for yourself. Meditation and tapping/EFT have helped me a lot with jealousy, anyone who's working through this should try both. Thanks for the post! :D
/r/seduction29/06/11 02:34 AM
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I won't just go and sit around in a bookstore all day preying on girls. I'll usually make a day out of it. Head out, warm up with a couple street approaches, go over to the bookstore and approach a few girls, if I got some bad sets or didn't get as many numbers as I wanted, I'll head back out to the park or local cafes and approach there maybe. Just be creative and make a day out of it. Don't just camp out in the bookstore and creepily approach girls. I rarely go out and just 'sarge' for the day…
/r/seduction27/06/11 10:54 PM
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Stop posting on here, go out and do it! Seriously, the more you practice the easier it becomes and the more you begin to realize that approaching girls is not the big deal we make it out to be. Good luck man!
/r/seduction27/06/11 04:56 PM
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Meditation, tapping, affirmations and just discovering your limiting beliefs and reprogramming them. I also strongly recommend David Deida's Way of the Superior Man. Great book that deals with becoming an alpha male and strengthening belief systems. Just keep working at it, man. You'll get through this (:
/r/seduction27/06/11 04:48 PM
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Just move on. You can't win 'em all, right?
/r/seduction27/06/11 04:43 PM
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Well, it depends on where you live I guess. If you're in a major city -- bookstores are awesome. You'll constantly have new girls coming in and out of the store and more often than not, the girls are just killing time browsing around so they won't be too rushed and you could even go on an instant date if you want. The caliber of girls you meet there just tends to be higher also. I will almost always take daygame & bookstores over night game & clubs. As for the approach... Based on the section a …
/r/seduction26/06/11 09:02 PM
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Bookstores. One of the best places for daygame. The quality of girls I've found there has always been pretty high.
/r/seduction26/06/11 03:39 PM
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Always give yourself permission. A lot of guys will run away from sets just because they think they aren't worthy of being there or are creeping out the girls. Basically, if you think you're creepy - you will come across as such. The girl is not going to give you permission to be there, this is something you have to entitle yourself to. Trust me, if she wants to leave -- she will.
/r/seduction26/06/11 03:36 PM
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So true. Just relax. It's not what you say, it's how you present yourself.
/r/seduction25/06/11 04:02 PM
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I love rolling solo. It's one of the best chances to really understand your skills and weaknesses. Stop thinking that you're creepy, because you're not. You're just a guy that's going out to have fun and meet people. If you're always focusing on entertaining yourself and don't worry about what the ladies think, you'll be able to land girls, no problem. Here's one of my favorite tips: as soon as you walk in, approach the first girl you see - no exceptions. It'll get you into state very quickly an…
/r/seduction24/06/11 07:28 PM
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Upvote. Everything you said here is so true. Once you just get over yourself and start approaching/being social, you start to realize that all this seduction stuff isn't difficult and you're not really that bad at it. Congrats on getting out there, man! :)
/r/seduction24/06/11 07:21 PM
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As Nike says, just do it. You've just gotta man up and escalate on her. Go for a kiss, formally ask her out, do whatever you've gotta do - just don't be the chode that doesn't escalate and regrets it. If she wants anything more than a friendship, she'll gladly accept any of your advances. Go for it man, good luck (:
/r/seduction24/06/11 12:50 AM
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Here's my opinion on the whole cheating thing: her relationship and how she handles it is her problem, not yours. If she hooks up with you, then she'll hopefully get a clue and break it off with her boyfriend because obviously the relationship isn't in great condition as it is. If anything, you'll just speed up the inevitable and make it more clear for her which decision she needs to make. If men always waited until beautiful girls were single, there would be a lot less sex in the world...
/r/seduction23/06/11 10:13 PM
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Upvote - this is a good story :D You should have totally escalated when you were kissing down her body. She would've almost definitely had sex with you, it sounds like. But, nice seduction... are you still travelling? If so, shoot me a message - maybe we could meetup sometime and hit some clubs wherever.
/r/seduction23/06/11 10:09 PM
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