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It’s interesting to note how this culture gets it wrong. Having sex and taking the opposite path so that you be better at it and become adept at attracting female attention is living their frames. Girls today, more than ever, know guys are just bending over backwards to impress girls and so we are dancing like monkeys to become something that is ultimately counter productive. And the consequences are grave spiritually as well as distracting away from your life’s goals. So what if you are bad in …
/r/RPChristians27/02/21 11:43 PM
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Controlled confidence Doing what you want and making yourself and your desires your mental point of origin. Anything outside of that is either amusing or laughably wrong.
/r/RPChristians04/02/21 01:43 AM
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Just be careful bc it sounds insecure and defensive. Having a stronger frame will give you more self awareness
/r/askTRP03/02/21 06:51 PM
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No problem man. That’s good self awareness on your part.
/r/RPChristians31/01/21 06:08 AM
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Good luck. Although I’ll say that if a church needs help from a curbside financial consultant to tell them how to spend their money wisely, they probably have bigger problems.
/r/RPChristians31/01/21 06:02 AM
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I’m asking how would you use wealth to push forward God’s kingdom.
/r/RPChristians31/01/21 05:46 AM
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Why do you want to become wealthy? You can lie to yourself but you can’t convince me it’s bc you want to be a benevolent benefactor for poor people and failing businesses. Money is freedom for me so I work hard to attain it. But it’s not my goal to become wealthy. My goal is to be self sufficient and put myself in a position that I can support my spiritual goals. If I become wealthy, it’s a blessing but it’s not my goal. In fact it’s probably better to not be rich bc it could be a stumbling bloc…
/r/RPChristians31/01/21 05:17 AM
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Good point
/r/RPChristians27/01/21 06:07 PM
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LOL
/r/RPChristians27/01/21 04:59 PM
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Lol after my post in Christian dating advice, ur always going to be suspicious of posts like this.
/r/RPChristians27/01/21 04:24 PM
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I think this should be addressed in a post by a mod. When we see stories like this, our knee jerk reaction is to judge and make the op feel bad. We need to remember how we were given grace and how we should also extend grace.
/r/RPChristians27/01/21 04:36 AM
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Wow bro, sry but your situation. But you must be a physical specimen. 6’0, 185 and 7 percent body fat without going to the gym? That’s really good genetics.
/r/RPChristians26/01/21 11:23 PM
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I will. Thanks for sharing
/r/RPChristians26/01/21 02:37 AM
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Not challenging you, but is there Biblical justification for this or do you agree with this bc you didn’t wait until wedding night so you’re more likely to say that consummating before vows exchanged on an alter is permissible. I don’t feel passionately about the subject since I’m in a season of singleness and improvement. Just curious
/r/RPChristians25/01/21 11:32 PM
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A married 40s guy has been been single and in his 20s and 30s. But a single 20-30s guy has never a married 40s guy. OP makes a bunch of assumptions about a life he’s never lived. Don’t be OP and look into your Chrystal black pill ball
/r/askTRP25/01/21 07:16 PM
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After going through the top comments, it appears that a lot of them don’t even know what Trp is. They equate it with being rude and misogynistic. They don’t see it as a praxeology that uncovers female nature and gives men a working and adaptive knowledge of how to navigate intersexual dynamics.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 07:44 PM
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Nice hope you do a review on rational male religion.
/r/RPChristians24/01/21 05:46 AM
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Agree dalrock was on point, but hopefully someone can pick up the mantle where he left off
/r/RPChristians13/01/21 07:16 PM
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Awesome post. You are the rollo of the Christian manosphere. Nice job connecting the dots
/r/RPChristians13/01/21 07:06 PM
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I’m sorry but this post is terribly too wrong to read
/r/TheRedPill13/01/21 04:01 PM
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I see. Thanks. I’ll have to remind myself to ask you your opinion on it when you’re done. I’m curious to know what you think of it.
/r/RPChristians11/01/21 02:11 PM
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Thanks for the great reply
/r/RPChristians10/01/21 11:15 PM
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Thanks man. Would you suggest it to someone whose faith has been a little shaky lately? Like the book doesn’t come up with reasons why not to be Christian, right? It’s just from a purely red pill POV?
/r/RPChristians10/01/21 11:15 PM
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I know his videos tend to be long winded. In your estimation, do you think it’s worth a look at from the POV of a Christian?
/r/RPChristians10/01/21 09:53 PM
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It’s probably not as beta as writing a post asking how beta it is.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 02:24 PM
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I hate to break it to everybody, but you are every girl’s rebound after her first. They always talk to their exes and always keep their options open. Optionality=power That’s why it’s pointless LTR-ing anybody.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 06:47 PM
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They won’t. But that’s ok, he’s not us.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 03:57 PM
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It won’t be intuitive for men who are following the script. Because to them, attraction should be equal on both sides. There’s reciprocity, a give and a take. Flowers and dinner for female pleasantry. Sex and false excessive adoration for boundary transgression and financial gifts. RP men know that there is no equality between us and them. There exists a God-ordained hierarchy where men lead women. There will always be a power struggle and unfortunately feminism has upset the natural order and f…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 02:00 PM
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Ask yourself is she just attracted to you or aroused by you? You want someone who wants you, not wants something from you.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 01:44 PM
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I’m a Christian and I feel my faith allows me to not get sucked into a black pill reality. The moment I stopped putting hope in the world, I realized how absurd it was. This helps me with amused mastery. We get depressed because we realize that the world constantly falls below our expectations. Don’t allow this place to dictate your joy in your life that you can get from self-improvement or believing something bigger than yourself. This why it’s so important to have a mission that sustains you. …
/r/askTRP21/12/20 08:50 PM
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I think he’s either talking about the academic discipline of statistics or Michael Jordan’s 1996 playoff stats when double covered with 5 minutes or less in the fourth quarter.
/r/RPChristians21/12/20 12:32 PM
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Denial is not only a river in Egypt
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 02:18 PM
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TLdr I’m well into my 30s and still have to convince myself and internet strangers that I don’t have onenitis from a girl who didn’t know my name when I was still in school 20 years ago. Got ya.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 12:41 PM
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Lol why the fuck are you explaining your financials and comparing it to her. Desperate for validation much?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/20 08:15 PM
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This applies to probably .0001 percent of readers here. Not shitting on your post, but this really seems like a diary entry of an angry emo. It was a try though. Posts that tell people how they should or shouldn’t act tend to be really weak. If you’re alpha, it doesn’t matter how you act as long as you do what you want. I would delete this and probably go back to the drawing board. Or just admit inspiring people isn’t your forte.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/20 10:54 AM
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This sounds like you wrote this post for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/20 10:44 AM
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Disciplining disciples. Lol I mean discipling
/r/RPChristians18/12/20 08:47 PM
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Very interesting story. You are right. It doesn’t help that female attention is like catnip for us guys, especially in our vulnerable moments when we are looking for distractions from our emotional pain. We are always going to look for validation from other people, bc secretly we want to be worshipped, we want to be viewed as our own god, and that’s why it so important to humble ourselves in front of the almighty God.
/r/RPChristians17/12/20 05:11 PM
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No problem man. Glad to help out the little nephews.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 10:48 PM
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I don’t listen to any consistently rn. When I do, they are sports related.
/r/RPChristians16/12/20 08:39 PM
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Well we welcome you. Just curious as to what things surprised you about your gender.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:43 PM
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Sure. The way I was approached and the seed was planted in me was I got invited to pick up basketball, and was invited out to lunch by a Christian who piqued my curiosity. I know we talk about life modelling and live an example life to attract future believers, hence being a light in this world. That’s good. But I’d like to know how other people build rapport with non believers and what, if there exists, other strategies besides taking them out to lunch. How to build curiosity
/r/RPChristians16/12/20 06:53 PM
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Anecdotes about disciplining. Approaching strategy to potential disciples. Maybe debate about a hot button issue in current events that’s controversial and which side of the fence a Christian should stand. Funny and amusing story segment. Biblical verse of the week segment.
/r/RPChristians16/12/20 06:39 PM
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Sure. Will fuck or won’t fuck. Primary driver is physical attraction, secondary drivers are game and assets.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 04:30 PM
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This is a first. A woman posting in askTRP about how to handle other women. Unfortunately there’s not much you can do in this situation. Dealing with exes are what you sign up for when marry divorced people.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 04:27 PM
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You look butthurt. Move on anyway. Sounds like you’re tryna hook up with a single mom, unless you can’t get better
/r/askTRP15/12/20 10:56 PM
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That knowing something more than I did yesterday has a powerful compounding effect.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 10:53 PM
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Lol you look like an insecure shit.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 10:52 PM
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It sounds like you are aiming. Don’t take this personally, but you will encounter rejection and self doubt more than the average person here bc of this lofty goal you choose to pursue. Try not think of it as positive and negative, but more have the mindset of working towards something. Think of what you have to do and accomplish it. Break set realistic expectations for yourself and get pleasure from reaching your goals one step at a time. Be practical and actionable and follow through, and those…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 10:51 PM
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Agree and amplify. Or deflect. “Are you sure you’re not stupid?” Point out a flaw on him like his haircut or clothing style choice.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 10:23 PM
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If someone disrespects you, you shouldn’t tolerate it. But you use your actions, not your words. Obviously pull back and become more distant. Complaining about the bone you are picking with her, is just whiny and insecure. But it seems like you can’t tell, so take what I say with a grain of salt.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 10:21 PM
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You will be ok. Everyone has the same insecurities, but when things get back to normal, you will get back your rhythm.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 10:18 PM
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I don’t think anyone cares enough to have hatred or love for this. It’s a tool, you use it if it works and the project you are working on requires it. You don’t when you don’t need it.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 10:17 PM
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What honestly does that accomplish? Lol She’s going to do whatever she wants in the end. No need to show emotion about it and visibly show that you are losing your frame.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 10:16 PM
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Don’t worry man, just make yourself your mental point of origin and things will go back to normal if your baseline was ever alpha before
/r/askTRP15/12/20 10:15 PM
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Have the goal that you are just going to have fun with it and then actually have fun. Don’t be apologetic and just do you. Also, stop thinking of people as better than you and that you have to behave differently to get their approval. That’s some weak shit there, and personally if I felt that, I would go get my testosterone checked and make sure I don’t have a pussy.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 10:12 PM
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You are very insecure and look bad in this situation. Just take notes and build your case for when you decide to break up. If you do, go no contact and no closure and move on. And for Pete’s sake, don’t give ultimatums bc you seem like the type to do that.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 10:10 PM
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Why do you care? Why does someone’s opinion on something subjective to ones own chemistry affect how you decide to manage your load?
/r/askTRP15/12/20 10:07 PM
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Paying to watch someone game is like paying for porn. It screams loser. Do the work, and experiment. The best practice is immersion and that’s how you get better when you become battle tested.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 10:05 PM
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Fake it until you make it. Chances are your problems are just amplified in your head. Tell yourself you will do better and improve upon your mistakes. Don’t think about it, and wow people with your overdelivery and your preparation, but do it effortlessly
/r/askTRP15/12/20 09:50 PM
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It’s not a religion that needs to be spread or suppressed. In the end whoever knows it or doesn’t know it, doesn’t affect you. The man who finds it has come to a crossroads in his life. He can take and run away with his life and reach new levels or he can reject it and stick with the program. It’s almost eerily genetic if he accepts it or not, similar to the God gene, if he believes or not. If he asks enough questions about his reality and is not afraid of having a healthy amount of cynicism, it…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 09:47 PM
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Are you asking random dudes over the internet how to live your life? Do you
/r/askTRP15/12/20 09:29 PM
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Lol you sound like a douche who is trying desperately to mask your onenitis as a bitch you’re tryna fuck
/r/askTRP15/12/20 09:28 PM
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You care too much
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:56 PM
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Getting fitted for bubbleboy inflated costumes and helping her put hers on
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:52 PM
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Becoming obsessed with your mission and being convinced that the life where you chase your goals is far superior to chasing girls. Seriously, chasing girls has such a negative ROI and chasing that one girl will almost always be chasing a dreamkiller.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:51 PM
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You care too much about pointless things.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:47 PM
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Ok
/r/askTRP15/12/20 05:18 PM
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Didn’t say you should move out. Just don’t expect any real solution here bc no one who is worth listening to has gone through this mistake.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 04:59 PM
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He’s another dude who offers nothing of value to you. If you want to be a king, don’t pander to peasants.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 04:56 PM
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Judging by this shitty post, your issue is you probably have problems communicating.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 04:48 PM
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Don’t give him attention and take away his power. People notice when you let things get under your skin. Also who cares? Does he offer you value or are you trying to be mr. congeniality?
/r/askTRP15/12/20 04:47 PM
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Be attractive and have her give attention to you. You’ll know when it happens. Don’t chase but be chased.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 04:44 PM
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Lol Closing my eyes to this eventual dumpster fire. Wisen up and save yourself from you BP fantasy before you lose it all. Your 35 man. If you don’t get it by now, it might be too late. What you believe is alpha doesn’t make it universally so Also what’s the difference between saying your fit and in shape?
/r/askTRP15/12/20 04:44 PM
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Don’t expect a real solution from here bc a real RP man wouldn’t live with his girlfriend, so he wouldn’t be able to relate to you and come up with an answer.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 04:42 PM
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Lol or just have no expectations
/r/askTRP15/12/20 04:40 PM
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Nice attempt at ‘read sidebar’ He is asking others their opinion if they can tolerate lying - and an absolute disregard for integrity- not about trusting someone’s words.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:57 PM
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You can rationalize anything if you really want it bad. Do you want it badly enough?
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:37 AM
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I didn’t read. Even your tl:dr is a large block of text. Hell even your title man Stop overthinking it. Just do you.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:34 AM
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He did bc he needed to tell someone he got a girl who makes poor decisions to tattoo his name on her neck. Then act like she means nothing to him even though in reality we all know that she owns a marquis billboard that takes up a bunch of real estate in his head. And that does the ol’ she means nothing to me act when anybody here who has taken a psych101 class or has been an adolescent avoiding embarrassment, acts defensive by rejecting her.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 09:35 PM
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You might not have had the best exposure to Christians, but I do want to recommend this. A lot of times when we put our hope for happiness in the world, we can end up terribly disappointed. Depression comes up about when our expectations for how people should act, how women should be more virtuous bc they are the nurturing gender, how people should live with more integrity, hit a wall and we realize most people are downright savages. It hurts especially when you sacrifice time, money and resourc…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/20 12:23 PM
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Welcome to the community. Thanks for reading the sidebar and filling in your stats from the start. Your story is interesting and I’m sure you can share wisdom with others.
/r/RPChristians12/12/20 05:38 PM
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Good stuff. Especially the part about having a low tolerance for disrespect. In my wanderings, I’ve noticed if you tolerate disrespect, you will be disrespected. Especially in the early stages of friendships, dating, etc. Don’t be afraid to move on, and just say next. Quality people might few and far between, but they are worth searching for and holding onto.
/r/RPChristians12/12/20 03:30 PM
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Happy cake day? Is this asktrp or askreddit?
/r/askTRP12/12/20 12:41 PM
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I understand. As a rule of thumb, do things with a sense of resolve and don’t ask. Even if you don’t want to do dishes, act like u did, scoot her butt aside with yours and say don’t you love a man who washes dishes or something like that. How does this contrast with a guy sitting at a table, having an inner monologue with himself about looking beta for doing dishes, then exhibiting hesitant behaviors that make him look unsure
/r/askTRP11/12/20 10:57 PM
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Get new friends why? Bc you feel hurt? Hurt is an illusion too. No need to next your friends. They will fall out of your life if the situation calls for it. If you are asking me should you expand your circle, then go for it. But choose like minded people not bucket dwelling crabs. Life comes in seasons, you can have your homies who play Xbox and play ball with, but people change as we get older, and accept that it happens. Don’t take anything personally, unless someone says hey you, we don’t lik…
/r/askTRP11/12/20 10:52 PM
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This feeling of inadequacy is an illusion. Do things that you want to do. You don’t have to be perfect. Remember perfect is boring.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 10:47 PM
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You respond by saying ok and move onto the next. You asked her a question and she gave a disqualifying answer.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 10:44 PM
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You are pretty fucking rude. Lol Build intrigue and comfort than tease. Could you imagine if someone you didn’t know or had no history went up to you and said you are the Walmart version of making posts.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 10:42 PM
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Women are naturally the weaker gender. It’s a given. If you were a woman, would you want someone to make you admit you are weaker than him?
/r/askTRP11/12/20 10:38 PM
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Idk but i can tell you it’s beta to ask this question. And bc of your beta tendencies, I can tell that you it doesn’t matter what you do , wash dishes or change oil in a car, you’re still beta. However, if you do the dishes bc you want to, mama there goes that alpha man
/r/askTRP11/12/20 10:36 PM
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By taking a break and a step back in your life. Who are you trying to impress? Yourself or other people?
/r/askTRP11/12/20 10:34 PM
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Please make this the top comment in this trash post.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 08:20 PM
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u/red-curious
/r/TheRedPill11/12/20 02:09 AM
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This model i hook up with keeps giving me IG followers, and the first thing i thought to do was compare and comment about it, acting like it’s a problem. Woe is me.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 04:00 AM
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First off, beware of the OP’s claiming they know what life will be like when they are younger than the stage of life they are talking about, and they haven’t even made it yet. Any discerning guy can tell that there is a lot of poor advice here. Would you take instructions on how to take flying advice from a pilot student who hasn’t stepped into the cockpit? No. Same thing applies here. Only take advice with seriousness from people who lived it and have passed through that stage. Secondly, in thi…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/20 11:13 PM
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Great stuff dude
/r/askTRP04/12/20 09:01 AM
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Thanks for replying
/r/askTRP02/12/20 10:40 PM
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I handle it by running to the internet and asking randos about how I can change an outcome about something I know is bound to happen. Then I realize that I really can’t depend on anyone in this world except myself and I grow from the experience.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 10:32 PM
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Thanks for taking time to share your wisdom, man.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 09:25 PM
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Thanks for the reply bro. Tells me I got a long journey ahead. Great progress pic too. Your hard work shows.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 11:29 PM
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Cool, I’ll check our post history. How did you lose the weight? Calorie counting? If so, how many calories were you eating? I feel like I’m starving lol
/r/askTRP26/11/20 11:13 PM
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Congrats. Similar size as you. If you don’t mind being more specific it might help me. When you got down to 160 were you lifting at all? Did you have excessive skin? Was mainly dieting that helped you? When you starting putting on weight and muscle, did you find it hard not to overeat? What weight did you start feeling like you had size again? 180,190? When I was down to 174, I felt really small.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 10:45 PM
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+1 I agree that this episode was the best. Did a great job this week.
/r/RPChristians20/11/20 06:55 AM
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I think it’s easy also to make sweeping generalizations about something I don’t know about and haven’t investigated.
/r/RPChristians20/11/20 02:23 AM
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Wait. Are you telling me people are capable of lying and misrepresenting themselves? Color me surprised.
/r/RPChristians17/11/20 03:44 AM
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that’s quite funny to imagine
/r/RPChristians14/11/20 10:04 PM
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Good idea. RN i just focus on what I’m trying to accomplish and if it happens it happens.
/r/RPChristians14/11/20 09:07 PM
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I don’t think it’s neediness and my frame is strong enough that i know my flaws and work actively on them. I think any guy if he is honest with himself will admit that it sucks if a girl you like, or a plate you like, who you’ve been dating, and you realize it won’t last long term, will probably be upset with himself. One it’s a waste of time to build memories with someone. As a man, we like to invest in things, and build relational equity in the girls we choose to spend time with. When. That di…
/r/RPChristians14/11/20 08:50 PM
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Probably not too much effort for you. The problem I’m most worried about encountering is if i like a girl who’s not Christian and i become emotionally invested to the point of having it hurt with her absence in my life, but also having the head knowledge that i shouldn’t have pursued her. Seems like a a mental albatross to carry.
/r/RPChristians14/11/20 08:35 PM
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You could. You’re right. But i don’t think it would be spiritually profitable for me. I have in the past, and it just leads to misplaced expectations and overall pointlessness. But I’m glad it worked out for you. God has blessed you.
/r/RPChristians14/11/20 08:18 PM
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I understand where you are coming from. Anybody exposed to TRP is tempted to follow that path you took. Personally, i try to actively decide every time an opportunity comes way to avoid the trouble of feeling resentment and bitterness. I know it’s not an abundance mentality, but i think to myself, if i were to game and try to cast a net to block out my one-itis feelings, i risk hurting other people and i don’t think this would be God’s will. I avoid one-itis now just by having realistic expectat…
/r/RPChristians14/11/20 07:58 PM
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That’s cool, brother. I guess we’re different. I do not want to date many girls, and spend resources in the form of money and time, and also mental energy, to get to the one. I rather just bide my time and wait (if it ever does happen).
/r/RPChristians14/11/20 07:54 PM
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Your situation is unique. Theres a rare chance that it ends up as successful as you have made it. And perhaps your frame was a lot stronger than most guys frames because you were able to make your woman into the person she is. I believe God has absolute sovereignty, but I acknowledge there is a probabilistic element to also with chances. You can reduce your bad decisions by thinking about in a black and white manner that I propose. Edit: By the way i haven’t heard of Douglass Bader. Is he some p…
/r/RPChristians14/11/20 07:48 PM
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I said date. You can talk to whomever you want
/r/RPChristians14/11/20 07:44 PM
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Lol it’s comical to me think that some rando who doesn’t know you would just pick a random fight for you. I’ve been at the top of the pyramid of self improvement before and most guys tend to gravitate towards me and become bros. You must have some kind of controversial membership dressed on your attire that causes people to want to start shit. Or this is in your head?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 08:04 PM
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If you are a practicing Christian, then you hard next bc you’re instructed not to be unequally yoked. If you are fairweathered, then it shouldn’t matter to you.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 09:54 PM
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