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| 2 | I'm average but all my friends are very good looking.Women care way more about your behavior than they do about your appearance. That doesn't mean appearance doesn't matter, you still should look the best that you possibly can. It does mean that you can more than make up for your physical shortcomings by being a more interesting/fun/exciting person. Also, on the subject of the one girl saying, "nah he looks ugly". For one, that girl can fuck off. Don't worry about her, and don't even think that her opinion of you matters. What you should be thinki… | /r/seduction | 22/04/15 03:45 AM |
| 3 | How do I deal with rejection?You absolutely need to man up. From the start you need to make your intentions known. At first it will feel uncomfortable, but just try to think of it as you are being honest. Also, don't ask if something is going to happen between you, tell her that you want her. The best way to deal with rejection is to realize with every rejection you get closer to meeting the girl that isn't going to reject you. The more you work on improving yourself and the more you put yourself out there and try, the easi… | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Need help with approaching girls.The best ways to keep a conversation going is to ask open ended questions, really listen to her answers, then use her answers to steer the conversation towards her interests. Here is a primer on asking open ended questions. http://www.wikihow.com/Ask-Open-Ended-Questions The key to this type of question is that it the answers are not yes/no. They require the person you are asking to really think. People will want to talk about what they are interested in, so once you can figure out what that is … | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Opinions on How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie?Read it. It had a lot of very helpful advice that has had a positive effect on my social interactions in general. Honestly it has had the most significant effect on how I deal with clients at work. | /r/seduction | 19/04/15 10:27 PM |
| 13 | Laugh shit off...This is so true. For example, last night I failed miserably approaching a smoking hot girl at a bar. It was pretty late and I had a little too much to drink (I'm aware that sets me up for failure). She wanted nothing to do with me, so I just told her that I had to try because she was simply too attractive not to approach, which got a smile out of her. At that point I said it was nice meeting you, smiled, and walked back over to my friends, laughing to myself. A cute girl that was talking to my f… | /r/seduction | 19/04/15 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with rejection...seriously this is getting old guys.On the subject of you feeling boring- you don't need to be unbelievably interesting, but you do need to be passionate about something. There has to be something that you love, and you should show people how you feel about it. If a girl doesn't want to hear about what you care about the most, then she is not the right girl for you so just move along. Please keep in mind that you are the most important person in your life, what you care about matters the most, and never value someone else's opinio… | /r/seduction | 15/04/15 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Cheer me up, first pickup attempt bombed royallyJust laugh it off and keep trying. One of the most influential things that I have read on Seddit was to think of confidence as a balance scale. Every time you approach a girl it adds to your confidence (rejection doesn't really matter) and every time you think about approaching and don't it weighs against your confidence. Just keep approaching and you will continue to gain confidence, making your approaches easier, which makes them more relaxed/successful. | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 01:31 PM |
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