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...People who are against glorifying the sex industry & that constant media propaganda brainwashing young girls, means we're against women's bodily autonomy???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/22 12:10 PM
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Actually here’s where my (insensitive, I admit) comment originated from: I come from a harsher & impoverished country in the world / cultural background than privileged ppl who always parrot that “sex work is empowering“ - they come from extremely comfortable lives in safe wealthy countries, the ones I heard parroting these infuriating comments. what I wrote wasn’t supposed to be “devoid of empathy“, it actually came from a place of being sick of privileged (racially, financially, etc etc) peopl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/22 11:15 AM
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Insanely tragic as it sounds, that really IS the dream of some women, considering lots around me hang onto said bums for dear life (including my neighbour). Those same bums often do the breaking up too (you can tell I’m just a lil sick of this).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/22 04:46 AM
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That sounds terrifying, good on you for protecting yourself/getting out of that unscathed….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/22 05:11 PM
55

…”love spells for men” in this day & age... ?Desperation on a new level 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/22 05:08 PM
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But it’s not exploitation if they “safely made a choice to sell themselves“ 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/22 05:06 PM
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Yes I can’t believe she actually missed this obvious as hell fact [or maybe she was pretending to play dumb, instead of facing the truth how he’s a total liar]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/22 05:05 PM
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I’m sorry for the ones beaten into submission as well, but there are plenty of us who grew up around all kinds of people including toxic male figures, yet we don’t say we have to do sex cam work to “gain confidence” - when I hear this, it honestly gives an impression something is wrong with that female commentator’s head to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/22 05:02 PM
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This was the exact identical topic debated a few days ago, when I was in a social setting (currently living in an ultra “libfem“ Canadian financial capital). The way each person (all Western-Europeans or North Americans, privileged ppl) profusely defended “safe prostitution” as if it was such a personal important issue to them, made me want to laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/22 04:59 PM
72

…. What is this, “dial an old-ass delusional rapist”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 09:25 PM
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What level of insecure desperation have countless women fallen to in the modern age? Are family/friendships/any other life relationships worth anything to them in their pick-me existence, when there’s a guy around? That post is unreal - it’s hard to even hold such No Value males accountable anymore when toxic pickme women are everywhere nowadays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:26 AM
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Very true valid pointers highlighted in this post. At the same time, can't help but feel morally conflicted & uncomfortable by the fact that a guy you choose to get involved with must be constantly "monitored" so he doesn't "screw you over" - what if I do have a conflict going on w/ someone in my circle? What if something bad did happen at work etc. [though I understand this post is more so applicable for newer acquaintances]? We hide those things at first, then what? Once we show some "not all …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:21 PM
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The most irrational illogical thing about so many of them is when they *try* to argue "well she has to prove she deserves it first" -- annnd... how is she supposed to prove that, if you haven't done a goddamn thing to attract her 1st? Total bitches - expecting women to even make the 1st move AND impress males (lmfao) + "work" for their approval.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:32 PM
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Don't give a fuck if people say i'm being "biased", from personal experience* - until I've spoken to western men in north america, I have never in my life heard of any males ANYWHERE saying that girls reading romantic books was the same as watching pornography. I cannot understand the level of shameless sociopathy so many males here indulge in when discussing anything to do with romance/dating/women in general. What a simple bitch a man is, if he can't even distinguish between hardcore sex video…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 03:37 AM
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Agree, would personally *never* even go near a male who does this in a dating context, but professionally these are great tactics. Total waste of time to have to always "handle" someone who does this in your personal life, best to simply totally ignore them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:38 PM
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Sure keep being a sarcastic + simple bitch who makes these types of cynical comments meant to "neg"" women into liking you -- some females who are brainwashed by the toxic media here might buy into it that this type of guy is "alpha"/cool, but most will think you're just a nutcase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:13 PM
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The 2 of us have met very different ppl/social circles then - there are a whole set of factors in assessing men of different cultures ranging from their education/family environment/religion vs. non religious/age group/area they grew up in back in the home country etc etc. That's terrible that you met nasty/arrogant ones, I never hung out with those types & none of the ones I dated acted that way in front of me. The one I am dating now is actually excessively apologetic (his English is slower th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:30 PM
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I've made other posts briefly listing what types of men I bother communicating with/dating -- they're *generally* from Eastern Europe, some naturalized in North America. But I've met lots of nice boys from Europe or traditional cultures overall, I also posted a comment before that certain cultures' guys truly do not have such normalized nasty habits such as regular pornography usage (unlike NA males). I had an Armenian-Russian ex who did not watch porno at all, regardless of the fact that we no …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:53 AM
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No they certainly look far worse - majority of the time, they’re more overweight/covered in trashy tattoos/look far older than their actual age (probably due to their terrible diets and drug abuse).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 04:01 PM
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Said it before & I'll say it again: If you value your time, don't even BOTHER with males from cultures like these (i.e. "western men" for ex. have some of the most entitled attitudes around). It truly is embedded in their mentality that women need to impress *them*** while they stare at you silently & coldly *on purpose*. The icing on the shit cake is that they also don't pay/arrange the date/nor initiate it. Yet, girls still let these bitchy effeminate scrotes go over to visit them for free sex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:40 PM
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I didn't consider this immediately, you definitely made a valid observation - I suppose I was thinking along the lines of "lesser evils" & how Low Value still comes in different degrees. I sincerely feel like the only thing stopping the males in my current country of residence from groping all the women on the train (and they do, not as much as in Japan) is the paper thin line of our law enforcement here being stricter on sexual harassment. That's literally it, otherwise they've toed the line as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:12 PM
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I suppose my limit of patience left for them comes from living in a Western culture, where I have never in my life seen males from any other group/background except the ones born/raised here, have next to no saving grace - most men who were born/raised here normalize drug use + "polyamory" + never paying for dates cuz "that's not feminist" + talking to women in the rudest ways imaginable ("it's a free society") + looking crusty and neglected as fuck while expecting the woman to look like a model…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:07 PM
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Do "Western men" have *any* thing to offer at this point ? All you see is them being pigs to everyone & lusting after "subservient foreign womennn" while having zero looks/personality to boot. No wonder their own women even fucking hate them, it ain't a coincidence is it? They only date 'out'/buy foreign impoverished brides since they CAN'T date in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:49 PM
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It's a great step forward & you should absolutely celebrate any progress in your life. I would only give an input that after reading this from my outsider perspective (so I don't fully know the story), I feel some caution + a side of confusion about a few factors here: - I have never in my life heard people (male or female) tell their date about what clothing they bought in the way you're describing... Be it their suit/shoes/cufflinks whatever, it doesn't seem at all the social norm? Again, it c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 10:17 PM
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Your assessment may very well be spot on, but that is such an illogical assumption on their part - this continent is FILLED with immigrants [especially in Canada where I currently am], how can everyone possibly be on the same page... The opposite is actually more common than not. I understand that, a *lot* of ladies decided to go down that path during this pandemic. Yes, it seems so rare these days to be able to know a high quality male platonically for months then ease into a relationship, they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:06 PM
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Glad to share useful ideas anytime ^^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 01:34 AM
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It IS often ignored/totally overlooked (the cultural aspect & finding your right "type" based on age, religion etc.) by EVERYONE. Nobody seems to talk about these things for some reason, maybe because we're all going by a universally recognized mutual culture (North American? Western?). The religious part was a coincidence this time around, I am actually also currently getting to know a Russian boy in his mid twenties (a couple of years younger than me), and he's not religious at all, yet is qui…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 01:33 AM
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Finding these types of men comes naturally to me through the parties/events I go to, the church I attend, the types of people I socialize with who then introduce me to more similar people in similar communities - if you aren't a part of these communities to begin with, you might want to try dating apps as some of these guys are on there. They're usually on there b/c they are extremely busy + own some kind of business, which keeps them at home/at work majority of the time. They're still perfectly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 04:20 PM
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It does seem like so many women here are afraid to stand up for themselves / level up - just the sheer amount of posts here stating they got mistreated by someone they barely even knew etc., and the sheer amount of replies simply saying that the offender "sucks", without any encouragement on how to **deal with** the offender. I'm in agreement that venting must be followed by proactively carrying out "solutions".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 04:16 PM
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Hmmm... sometimes, it seems a lot of women on this sub genuinely don't know better either, so when they read posts about an OP getting screwed over/treated badly, they simply think it's all on the person that was screwing OP, since OP "couldn't do anything else about it". Ex. I've had female friends who actually did not know there are other ways of handling such situations, until I pointed out an alternative method... I'm not sure why, again that could be due to upbringing/your cultural influenc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:27 AM
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YEAH no kidding, if your own behaviour is always the same - nothing around you will ever change in a positive way, you will never get respect in return + you'll be perpetrating a cycle of accepted nasty behaviour from men. 100 percent agree about the echo chamber too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:31 AM
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Great, don’t ever speak again, in fact don’t breathe either, enjoy stewing in your pettiness & just drop dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:17 PM
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This is a very specific suggestion but if you are able, try traditional Eastern European men - I don't know your age + I know there are generational differences between the males, but even the older ones who are divorced etc. will still have BASIC respect for women & be very courteous/kind when they speak to a female. The ones who are in their 20's / early 30's (whom I date) will always lead & plan dates & make you feel like they "care". They really want to take care of you/pay for dates, make s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:53 PM
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Yeah - those ones may be after hook ups/casual one night fucking as well, but at least they act somewhat friendly & warm towards the women they're taking out + pay for dates like a normal man. The ones where I'm living, literally don't know you & will suddenly ask you to deliver free sex/ prostitution to them, like Uber Eats - tons of my Eastern European girl friends moved here and were appalled by this because they had never seen men talk like this in their entire lives. We all think a lot of t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:48 PM
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You know what .... Maybe this city (which is Canada's financial capital) just has a LOT of male predators & narcissists. Really I am serious. Because the entire "Pick Up Artist" social phenomenon was originated from HERE, a lot of the incel murderers/criminals (like Alex Minassian the van killer who ran over people with his vehicle since he wasn't getting sex) all come from here. It may very well be a toxic cesspit full of the most disgusting men in the country, I wouldn't be surprised at all. Y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:44 PM
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And that's how it SHOULD be -- social decency doesn't exist much here with anyone below 50 years old basically lmfao. Maybe since this country in general is very young / there is no real culture so to speak, so everything is just very "liberal" / liberal feminist. Therefore... Anything goes! I've spent most of my adult life here & I STILL cannot hide my shock sometimes at how the males literally say / do anything they want, anytime they want, to anyone they want, because that's "liberalism" and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:41 PM
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I see British men as 'western' and not much different than canadians to be honest. I met a few, I know what you mean about them never paying for dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:38 AM
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I've met too many women here, sadly, that are in such disrespectful situations (which they do NOTHING about except ineffectively vent about it afterwards to other girls) even though they do not use OLD. That's why I am begging for everyone to consider putting these awful males they meet IRL in their place, instead of doing next to nothing about it, then writing about it online...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 10:49 PM
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This terrible social behaviour on men's parts is super prevalent in Canada too. Yes I would assume less common in parts of EU, but I also saw on here EU girls saying that guys do not pay for dates / even take the girl's tip money on dates to add to their own bill payment which is atrocious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 10:48 PM
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I completely agree, I also see countless posts here from women who complain in the aftermath of a bad encounter with a guy that he was rude or said something inappropriate or out of line. It too often ends with her saying "and I did nothing" / "And so I threw away all my snacks because I felt so awful that I got called fat by a random scrote I don't even know". OK... And that type of complaining in the aftermath, to a bunch of strangers online (as wonderful as this subreddit is) does NOTHING and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 10:45 PM
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Why even talk to such a supreme fucking piece of trash in the first place? This one’s AWFUL even on the totem pole of No Value shitbags ...!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:32 PM
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Actually if you just give it a try... to neutrally / briefly warn her about this person's attitude from the limited time window you've seen him behave in + his reputation, she may be receptive. I have done this in the past, trust me when you are *truly not bothered* or hung up on this loser male, and you are simply warning someone else that doesn't know about his less than good intentions, the other girl is usually grateful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:53 AM
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Fucking retarded! THAT kind of situation totally is about the other party being a socially clueless dumbass. Yes, it's a damn phone conversation, what was he ranting about chemistry for, was he pissy that you didn't immediately talk about the 'colour of your panties, tee hee hee'? I'm honestly fed up hearing about these types of men who do this AND the women that all encourage / more than happily "perform" for them. These people are walking trash that are dragging the rest of us normal people do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 08:13 PM
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Oh that part of your comment about feeling "obligated" to kiss/touch a guy you just met -- I had more than one Canadian girl friend reply with the exact same sentiment in the last few hours. And I have heard it many times already, which is why I mentioned the women here tend to usually be very quick to display their affections to some random male they just met/act like an suck-up to him, out of fear he will not like her enough. I find it SO sad (for the girls!!). Why are the guys here like this.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:42 PM
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Agreed 1000% -- and I am NEVER doubting myself in this area, ever again. Something is so off about a male who meets 1x and expects the person to make out with him, then tells her there "was no chemistry" despite the other person being perfectly kind/good to him in every way possible during the meeting. Also - If these guys are so reliant on kissing + some kind of physical sign of interest, why the hell didn’t they just keep leaning in & finish up with a kiss/have enough confidence to touch the g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:38 PM
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They always text/follow up after the date, but here's the part that I hate (which I'm actually now understanding shows something about them): - The ones who ask for a 2nd get together after that sudden "stiffness"/obvious coldness at the end of the date, seem like they do it out of personal lack of options, and needing to keep women on their roster whether they liked her much or not. The guys who ask me out again WITHOUT that display of coldness (when I don't kiss them) do not give me the same i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:15 PM
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Still doesn't cease to amaze me how so many males are insanely sensitive when a woman says **anything** to them that's not to their liking, like 1 fucking word is off, and they go off on her, yet when another man firmly slaps them back into line -- they don't even protest. They know it's just "the truth", yet they can't handle the truth from a female. What fragile little scrotes so many of the men here are. Thank god I come from a culture where men are not like this, I think I'd lose my mind dea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:25 PM
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30? As fucking if - these days after browsing the apps I see that most of them lie far more than that & even claim to be in their “20s” often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 01:14 PM
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This coming from the broke ass bitch sitting on a toilet, with a bunch of dirty laundry piled on top of the toilet, and no clothes on?? Fully convinced now that Shitty males like these are living in their own (mentally deluded) bubble 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 10:24 AM
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Lol - he sounds very tired & broke. Poor scrote with a lame username.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:02 AM
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LOL what the hell is with all these dumbasses using "I went through something & suddenly acted like a bipolar piece of shit towards you, but it's over now"?? When did this become a legitimate thing to even say out loud to someone, they should feel EMBARRASSED about that, not unabashedly proud to use it as an excuse................
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:41 AM
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Trust me - they hate other men too, LMFAO. I have actually never seen men who were so viciously jealous towards other men as the ones I met while living in North America. They make up stories about Eastern European men for example all being "hideous" while the "girls are all hot" (nah, Russian men for ex. are gorgeous), since they know they can't compare to men from those places (who are not w/o their own faults, but leagues better in other ways). I have had these no value men say that the Slavi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:11 AM
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Yes, it was equally laughable whenever western men + women heard that my father always paid for his children's educations/supported us growing up, despite being separated from our mother. The women would say it's "rare" while the men say my dad sounds "unnecessarily generous" -- as if they cannot possibly comprehend taking care of your own fucking kids, regardless of your relationship with an ex partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:06 AM
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Aside from the intensely retarded ones, there are some males that fully KNOW what they are saying makes absolutely no sense in hell - they say it anyway, since everything to them in life is about "being right" / lording it over others. It means nothing to them to throw their own women under the bus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:03 AM
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You know what else is hilariously illogical? These types of low quality trash males *Hate* men from traditional cultures who DO fulfill traditional male roles, while putting those countries' females on a pedestal in the same breath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:55 PM
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These behaviours truly make one’s blood boil — what in holy hell is with this culture where if a male spends time with any female, she has an unspoken requirement to perform sexual acts on him? Where in holy hell is this coming from? Cultural media / pornography? Bad parenting? Lack of accountability for males ? No place is perfect, but there are Bizzarre situations like these where I truly feel regretful about currently living in a western culture. I find this totally disgusting & smacks of soc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:51 PM
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I don't want to seem critical towards women who are in these situations, but you said out loud what I was thinking -- I feel appalled & sorry that this is how Western culture is, where women feel it's "rude" not to spend all this time + use all these "tactics"" to get away from random males that press and press and press them for their personal contact. ..you don't owe it to them, they're STRANGERS. They're literally RANDOMS that have nothing to do with your life - why won't women in this societ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:46 AM
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Sometimes, I wish there existed a time capsule that brought back old-school traditional men from a better time... Who can beat the living shit out of these modern day scrotes. I mean “men”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:58 AM
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... this coming from a balding middle-aged, homely-as-hell looking dude who has to resort to online dating? And he’s already thinking of “seconds”? How did this society breed so many of these insolent scrotes ??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:52 AM
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So, this 60 to 70-year-old male thinks he deserves a gorgeous 30-year-old girl or something...? I would’ve told him straight that any 60-year-old person who isn’t repulsed by him would be a miracle, but a beautiful 30-year-old would rather slit her throat than go near him. What psychotic levels of delusion these scrotes have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 10:04 AM
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The entire scenario smacks of a selfish sensory-obsessed loser (who clearly can’t afford having a child) being somehow in a “relationship” with a woman who is so desperate for his affection... That she keeps taking his clothes in an attempt to be closer to him. Feel so sorry for the child that’s entering into this union… He sounds extremely annoyed to even be with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 09:01 AM
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How fucking appalling… I can’t believe this is a so-called joke “trend”. Trashy AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 08:43 AM
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Yes no kidding, and by the way where's my free therapy & hand-outs, from some random male that I have nothing to do with? Where's my free emotional labour + all the men that are falling all over themselves to try to make me a better person / advance me in life? Oh yeah they don't do that! - so they can shove it up theirs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 03:42 AM
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What beautiful roses!❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 03:26 AM
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I'm not sure if you've ever spent a bit of time looking at the content written by MGTOW/men's groups of that sort, but the "opinions"/thoughts they express are straight up terrifying/sexually violent to the point of being illegal/mentally ill. What you mentioned in your post is "tame" compared to a good chunk of what they talk about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:53 AM
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Once *again* the question comes up -- why do these random males regularly express this type of delusional garbage, that shows zero critical thinking? As for the individual who wrote this 'complaint post' - Do you *genuinely* feel that male focused groups, which (openly) discuss ideologies such as: raping underage little girls legally, violent pornographic-style revenge fantasies on the opposite gender, encouraging suicide to people you don't know over the internet, promoting date-rape drug use a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:43 AM
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Oh please don’t give hell such a bad name, it can’t be as pathetic & tacky as this shit..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 05:40 AM
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No they didn't - that was explicitly mentioned in the news. That not 1 single male around her helped, and she herself was even surprised by it. When a few of the mothers around called out some male passengers, they all claimed they didn't hear this going on in front of them ....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:36 PM
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. . They are using this kind of language, Against a little 16-year-old teenager?? This reminds me of that case of a male passenger sitting beside a young teenage girl on the airplane once and relentlessly sexually harassing her by asking her to give him nudes + take nude selfie’s in the airplane washroom. It was only stopped when a few mothers & older ladies around her intervened + told him they can hear everything!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:15 PM
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Can we (females in general) PLEASE start using this type of blind, 'simple-minded bitchery' logic back at these types of scrotes? Simply reply with something along the lines of "Ages ago males actually had class, instead of being proud to compare themselves to animals that roll around in their own filth".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:07 PM
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Lemme guess, he was also unattractive + out of shape, yet "only dates hot girls"(?).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:02 PM
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I've said this (the scientific reasoning of it) to so many people, and was honestly shocked at how all of them both female & male would say they never even knew this/heard of it. Some of the males would flat out say "oh well i never heard of that, i don't believe that at all, that sperm can affect a child's chances of developing disorders like Autism" -- you haven't 'heard it', so you flat out deny it? Females need to be far far more arrogant + blunt like this, then more males would understand w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 11:01 PM
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Please try not to hate yourself or what you used to do, for quite a few reasons: - It is a cultural thing, I even made a post on it, that women living in Western cultures especially seem to be *SUPER* brainwashed into hating on/fighting other females at the drop of a hat, as soon as a man is present. And the males here look onto this with great amusement. - It's normal for you to want to be accepted/fit in/get some attention, that is 100% human. Anyone who is deprived of these things resorts to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 05:47 AM
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It is *degrading* as hell. I find in lots of other cultures there is no pressure for females to be THIS nasty to one another, while the males watch on with great amusement. To add insult to injury, it's like they *never* turn on the men, no matter how god awfully they are treated. Yes you probably hit on a point, that when the men are much more masculine, they aren't so weak & bitchy as to expect women to fight each other over men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:30 AM
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I've become the "queen of avoidance" by this point; bitter/MRA-type males here who do the pettiest shit from purposely walking into you to get your attention/shoving you in public (I avoid), to these desperate pickmeishas (I avoid), to friends who always talk about men + pleasing men & nothing else.. Guess nothing can be done to change them, and I can only control my own behaviour/thoughts <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 04:54 PM
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As if those delusional sick in the head males aren't "radical men's rights activists". AKA radical "meninists" lmfao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 07:47 AM
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So, That shows first & foremost that there are far more of these psychotic loser males who have no lives, than there are female posters who have no lives. Not one female I know spends their time online 24/7 reporting + down voting male subreddits. What miserable lives those creatures must lead. Do they even have jobs / family / friends / girlfriend (LMFAO)..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 07:28 AM
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Not a dumb question at all, I also like to reciprocate. How do we shred those psychotic incels? These are the same disgusting incels that claim lunacy like how little (barely teen) girls should naturally get sexual attention, while screaming that a "woman is a pedophile" by citing articles of teachers sleeping with 17 year olds. That is disgusting, but seems psychotic to say it's ok to sexualise little preteen girls, in the same breath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 07:05 AM
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Lol ... are these types of males just too cowardly to call out other men, so they default on blaming women for everything? Cuz the whole "empty profiles" shit-show was invented by men who use dating apps... I swear women just gave up on having a dialogue after so much of that lowballing & gave the guys a taste of their own medicine. I know that's my situation anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 01:13 PM
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I am sorry but you are downplaying these behaviors significantly - people who take money from your bill payment to pay for their own are *stealing*. Like you said, not leaving a tip is one thing, but actually paying less than they owe by taking money from another person's payment -- how would you feel if you saw a friend or acquaintances at a party do this? Just snatch money from other people's bill trays and add it to their own? Why is it forgivable because you're with a "guy" on a "date"? If a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:56 PM
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Thank you. This is particularly hard for me to ignore, I keep seeing these types of females get a pass, but they are actually the ones raising horrible sons who become horrible men / perpetrating & encouraging men to treat women like trash. It's the same principle as those incel males who give all other decent males a bad reputation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:37 PM
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I was just discussing this with a friend yesterday -- marketing & mass media has gotten so bad with promoting extremely polarizing qualities in both genders: Men should be sloppy and intellectual, have neckbeards and Dad bods + women should constantly get cosmetic surgeries and augmentations (it's like going for a casual cup of coffee now) to sex dollify themselves, while being dumb as possible. Seriously foresee this creating tons of hostility between the two sexes as time goes on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:31 PM
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Yes, very likely the motivation, which is further surprising that they even have the nerve to be so picky towards their dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:23 PM
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When this happens I am merciless by this point - especially the city I live in, so many oblivious males with no basic manners here, don't seem to understand why they shouldn't be telling a stranger they just met that they "need a business partner to manage things - how about me?" (WTF are you on about, you lunatic? You wanna manage my business? Want to put in at least 10k for starters???). I know women like to be polite and civil, but seriously, when this kind of thing happens you need to be str…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 10:13 PM
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Yea & this is why it's pointless for desperate-ass women who badly need male validation to say things like: "oh he's so nice!!!" / "thank god at least some men don't expect us all to look like supermodels!" Nobody asked him what men like to f*ck anyways, cuz we all know the answer is everything and anything right lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 09:48 PM
2

After getting over the initial wave of nausea from reading this type of shit, I have to say - there's something clearly off about this person, he might have some kind of disorder that's making him speak in this "clearly copied from mainstream cliches" way, like he thinks this is how "cool men talk" (not that I'm knocking disorders at all). He just seems off, and it may be due to his brain chemistry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 09:43 PM
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Weirdest thing ever is, these same males refuse to ever video call before a date - I have suggested that as a way to get around the **same type of lies that men tell**, especially since there's nothing about myself that warrants hiding/I am in great shape, yet it's always the GUY who turns down any kind of pre-screening. It's like all that matters to them is getting on a date/any date with any female, if that's their attitude no wonder they keep landing in trouble. Are they that surprised?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 09:38 PM
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Can we get some fake-ass stories out there as well, about how men randomly get called ugly on dates by strangers at a restaurant who don't even know you exist, so that the entire internet isn't only crowded with this incel-type bullshit made to negg women to death? Why aren't we negging them back like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 01:31 AM
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This is so tragic - and will only get worse, as others said, since pickmeishas are lowering the bar ever further into hell... only when you thought it couldn't get worse...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 01:26 AM
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In this 1 situation I'm not any less upset at the pickmeishas than I am at men who pick bad partners based solely on hotness then condemn all females later - what do these women think will happen? Do they never consider how this impacts other people/girls, what negative side effects this has on both genders? The pick-me-ness has gotten insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:30 PM
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Help once or twice, maybe if you're in the compassionate mood for it, then do not even look back while you walk away. Plenty of LVW out there too, who support other women / their fellow females way less than men tend to support each other [regardless of their value]. We already have it hard in so many ways, don't put up with a fellow female trying to drag you down with her. She needs to wake up on her own instead of negatively affecting other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:35 PM
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The experience was a joke, at least for me, and lots of others who told me the same -- almost all the males I ran into either fell into the category of non-stop texting (like novels of damn text) but **refusing to video call or chat in any offline form**, or ones that just expect you to carry the conversation -- doesn't matter how beautiful you are/homely ass they are, or how educated & successful you are/mediocre they are, they still don't speak even 1 word, unless you ask them something, then …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:21 AM
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The most illogical psychotic thing about these types (they're pretty common too!) is that they ONLY want/message women who DO work out + who ARE family oriented/traditional. And even then they expect HER to carry the motherf*cking conversation LOL. It is a retarded joke I never imagined I'd run into, but against all common sense I went on OLD, so I did run into it -- below average, homely-ass, totally empty headed types of males like this one in the post, trying to contact me then expecting me t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:18 AM
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Yep, the same notion I expressed on my end - due to an amalgamation of random factors/customs/cultural habits, people in certain parts of the world + who are raised a certain way simply just don't care nearly half as much about video games or porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 11:52 PM
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This is purely based on my own personal experience, that I am naming some "specific" cultural backgrounds, am in no way guaranteeing everyone else who got involved with guys from these regions have the same feedback, so that disclaimer being said: - An Armenian/Jewish-Russian ex: Not religious, but deeply conservative, we were often together pretty much all the time (I was the one who had to ask for some alone time instead of being conjoined at the hip), so I saw pretty much all that he did day …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 11:51 PM
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..Jesus f'ing CHRIST. Bet he felt women should be "grateful" to get taken to McDonald's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 04:37 AM
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No there are men who don't, really - I've met some before, it's a combination of cultural/spiritual influence, and yes there are cultures where men don't even play "video games" since it's seen as kind of weird & oddball for adults to be doing that. Obviously there are parts of them that aren't going to be to your liking either, they're not perfect people, but in this specific aspect, I will confirm that there definitely are men from around the world who don't normalize pornography like North Am…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 09:51 AM
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Hey, browsing through these weekly submitted questions and saw yours ^^ I've heard more than 1 (kind and wonderful) girl around me say similar things before, so here's my 2 cents: You're only human & if your environment/social circle is barely ever giving you a feeling of appreciation/support/being needed, how can you feel 'on top of the world'? If you're not doing this already, perhaps try being a part of more groups, clubs, or organizations that would value you. Then life overall would be more…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 09:47 AM
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Let's not kid ourselves... majority of women don't want him, so he is playing the whole "verbally reject them before they reject me" game. So many modern men use this delusional tactic to save face, when they know they've got nothing to offer in looks, personality, or status. It has nothing to do with how he genuinely feels about himself or ALL women. It seems lots of "movements" for men these days (that encourage them to hate women) also teach them to speak this way / it's all an act.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 03:21 PM
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... Is he mentally screwed up in the head, or just never had a girlfriend before? Who the hell talks like this to another person?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:33 AM
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I stay away from a specific "group" of males who show traits of being delusional losers that think this is the way to "bag women" - by mocking/humiliating them. There's always a pattern showcasing who these are, they're pretty transparent. And don't even let him play dumb - that was 100 percent on purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:30 AM
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"Something fun" in these delusional losers' minds always = "give me free prostitution services", yeah? They're so transparent they don't even attempt to hide their hideous personalities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:27 AM
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I know it's a satirical comic but -- that is so fucking creepy. Guess jokes about sociopaths are trendy again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:25 AM
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...I hate to tell you this & it is tragic for me to witness as a girl, but that female therapist never met either of us before the session. She immediately sided with the ex-boyfriend and dominated the conversation with saying how she's seen all these "cases of jealous women who don't self reflect". She did not even spend 15 minutes getting to know me, and was already critiquing me while not saying a damn thing to the other party about "self reflection" (him). The only time she interrupted him w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:20 AM
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It is un-f.ucking-believable to me as someone from this Eastern culture who was born/raised in the West, how much western males seem to hate acting the part of a real man, yet expect to be treated with gratitude & the utmost respect 1000 percent of the time, by all women around them. Where are they getting this from? Their parents not raising them right? Are Western women just always letting their males slide on everything & this cycle of allowing men to play dumb / act with 0% responsibility ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:12 AM
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You are very very kind & patient. If anyone from my culture dared to act like this, they would get a pretty harsh response from the other party, along the lines of "no one asked for your unqualified opinion..? Why did you put all these random notes...?? I don't have time to read these." On top of it he insults you along the way saying that the thumbnail made it look poor quality - how can anyone even tell from a tiny thumbnail? I would have told him that even people who are actually in the indus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 04:28 PM
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"... But I never asked you whether you think I'm talented or not. Back to the point of your lack of social skills..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 04:23 PM
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It's incredible - I dislike confrontation and get a headache at the thought of having to confront people like this on the spot, especially escalating it into some confrontation in public, yet these guys really force you to go that route. ​ Thank you for your input - I've even used a few of those phrases before (after googling how to deal with this), and can you believe that some of these men ended up being *offended* at me (tho they started it all!!!), then tried to fight & tell me I was out of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 12:15 PM
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Will google that today, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 12:12 PM
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Your statement is something I struggled to put into words & say aloud - years ago when I attended a (1 time lol) "counselling session" to see a "couples counselor" (with my bf) about how I keep having a totally different view of situations than he did at that time, how he claims to ALWAYS see something else, never see his own part in bad situations that pop up, she seemed to enjoy saying I was the one in the wrong. She called me (quote) "insanely jealous", "hysterically afraid of other women bei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 12:11 PM
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Nice recommendations, those sound super useful & I'll listen to them today while I'm studying, thank you very much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 12:04 PM
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