Cassie0p1a Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Spousal support		Cassie0p1a	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/22 06:13 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Spousal support Divorce f*cking sucks and I'm truly sorry for what you went through, it sounds like the person you married was specifically pretty awful. I know I'm not going to change anyone's mind in here and that posting was futile, but these communities foster so much misogyny and it's pretty gross. I can definitely see how terrible it is to go through for men, but I can also see both sides and the sweeping generalizations that women are the main offenders are not helpful or true. In my own case, my STBX wa…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/22 09:19 PM
1	Spousal support I was abused and I'm not going to tell anyone but those closest to me details of my abuse because it's incredible sensitive. Some men ARE angry all the time. A lot of them are in this sub...	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/22 08:33 PM
0	Spousal support It's not that it doesn't happen, it's that your particular friend group of divorced men isn't an accurate cross section of the population that you'd need to say that it statistically happens more often than not. Or that men suffer more than women. You are again using anecdotes and not researched statistics and I'm willing to bet you haven't reached out to an equal number of divorced women to ask and consider their experiences, have you?	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/22 04:32 AM
0	Spousal support I mean yes, of course I see it as unfair in some instances, but definitely not all. Sometimes the non monetary contributions of the spouse who earns less are of equal "value" in my opinion. In your scenario, you're saying the wife is potentially cheating.....ok (we also have no fault divorce so that's kind of irrelevant and doesn't take into account any other dynamics going on in the relationship) but what if they'd been married for 20 years and he was only contributing to his own retirement bec…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/22 04:27 AM
1	Spousal support Lol, what are you trying to prove with this article? And are you kidding me re: state sponsored violence? Tell that to the 10 year old girl who was going to be forced by the state to carry a product of rape child to term. Maybe the younger generation is choosing not to marry because women are sick of men with archaic, incel-esque views like yours.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/22 01:25 AM
-1	Spousal support ....and it's also not universal that women just...."get bored" - personally I was abused and I tried my hardest to fix things and make it work and he walked out on me. Men are not always the victims like this sub would have you believe.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/22 01:04 AM
0	Spousal support That's not always the case though is it? Sure, there are anecdotes in echo chamber subs like this so it's easy to believe but statistically, you are incorrect. "Meanwhile, the poverty rate for separated women is 27 percent, nearly triple the figure for separated men." - The Atlantic. Or this excerpt from the Guardian "Divorce makes men - and particularly fathers - significantly richer. When a father separates from the mother of his children, according to new research, his available income increa…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/22 12:51 AM
-2	Spousal support All I can say is wow, your delusion is impressive! What on earth does "acting like a man" mean to you?? YIKES.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/22 12:35 AM
-8	Spousal support I mean, I knew the response I would get in this sub and I understand your frustrations to an extent, but men are privileged in almost every other respect in life. The gender pay gap is statistically real, whether you believe it or not and while animosity runs rampant during the divorce process, these systems are designed so that neither party ends up destitute - and sure, in the vast majority of cases, the spouse that needs support is the woman. If you want to change this - I suggest you campaig…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/22 09:19 PM