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| 1 | Online datingThere are many other ways to meet people. Many locations have another site called Meetup where you can find groups in your area that do a particular hobby that you're also into, or thinking about (like table top gaming or paint ball). When you go to these meetups, you have an increased chance of being able to meet others organically but also someone who might enjoy the same things you do. Dating apps can make it easier, but it can also blind you to the plethora of other ways you can meet people.… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/07/22 01:21 PM |
| 1 | How do you identify when it comes to your relationships and sex life?I'm a woman who seems to attract introverted monogamous men (they don't have other partners by choice, not any rules I set). Some haven't been okay with it and wanted me to break up with others so they can have me to themselves, but I don't do that anymore. I lost someone very important to me that way. After working out an ungodly and stupid amount of kinks, therapy, and self-love and acceptance, I just tell them what I can offer and they either let me love up on them knowing I have others or no… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/07/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | How do you identify when it comes to your relationships and sex life?I get it. I'm the same way. Having sex with someone you adore, have chemistry with, and find attractive is one of the best feelings. Especially when you get to do it over and over and over without 'getting to know' more people just to get sex. Then I foolishly fall hard. Ugh. Relationships are messy AF. I personally do Poly with only Monogs and it actually works out pretty good after lots of communication and time. The jealousy thing is definitely an insanity-inducing feeling at first though, fo… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/07/22 01:20 AM |
| 1 | I wish I never discovered the red pill my view on women has completely changed because of it even though I left that community and no longer consider myself a follower.Great job at making it out of at least the perpetuating toxic mental state and now you've got to get to work at deprogramming yourself. The self-improvement part can rarely go wrong, so figure out what part of you that you want to fix first and get to work changing your habits. You must unlearn what you have learned. What's the smallest thing on your list that you think you can tackle easily with some advice from others? Knocking out the smaller things and reforming those habits help us keep mot… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | The differences between a destructive cult and non-destructive group are clear:I appreciate your reply and your assessment. Not all cults/destructive groups function the same and it's unlikely a very large internet group will lead to people signing over their property, but there have been plenty of people that have come forward showing how they were conned into spending thousands on things like dating and Red Pull PUA programs only to be publically framed as a creeper or rapist later due to being taught that consent and boundaries are blurry lines. By sharing this informat… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Using charm to gain the affection of a woman...she chooses to let you choose her This is a really interesting perspective and pretty spot on come to think of it. In my experience, we do tend to get a bit jaded when we fall for the superficial charm only to find out that charming guy never comes back months into the relationship because now he's got ya. At that point, you can leave because the one you let 'choose you' isn't at all who you thought he was, push him away to see if you can sorta push that guy to come back out and maybe play stupi… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/07/22 11:36 PM |
| 1 | What are some things that women have done for you that were positive and helpful?Through the kindness of one women I became more kind and forgiving myself. Due to trauma I tended to see kindness as foolish, but I was taught something better. Awesome! I had similar experiences. It's always nice to break free from those negative bonds of our past. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/07/22 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Update on the fake former redpill guy!Ohhh, also known as grooming and manipulation. Ew. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/07/22 03:37 PM |
| 1 | How Red Pill YouTubers Finessed a Generation Of Impressionable Young Men.This is great. It's always good when someone who was actually IN the fray of Red Pill and MGTOW wakes up and speaks out against the system of thought. Very quick 8 minute video with a chill dude speaking his experience. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Brains of children with autism may not always 'see' body language, study finds. How do you think this might prevent you from gaining and holding a healthy relationship? Or how do you think this might stop you from realizing when a woman is telling you 'no' with body language? (Ex: PUA with autism)I'm Autistic as well and this is my experience as well. Like you have to concentrate on it like a project, it's not wired well enough for me to be able see it with my instinct or passively like most. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/22 11:33 AM |
| 1 | How can I improve my conversation skills with girls through text and in person?Your speed and desperation to get something from her is likely because that's your means to an end. It sounds like you don't actually like her for her and you only want to see her body. And people can pick up on that and it's incredibly toxic. Therapy would be a better option so that they can show you all this outside of embarrassing social situations and you can learn how hurtful it is without ruining another opportunity. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/22 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Do women say they don’t care about dick size and things like that to be nice? As in, would you say the same thing to a partner who’s small as a partner whos bigger?Depends how small. Obviously I know that kinda stuff isn't within our control, but I won't be mean about it (I don't even make dick size jokes). Buuut, for me personally, I probably wouldn't stay with him due to my high demand needs for sex. It's not that I want him to feel bad about himself or anything. I actually want the opposite because I know how much we can beat ourselves up over things like that, but everyone has different needs, and that's one of mine. Another woman though may not care a… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/22 01:36 AM |
| 1 | How many of you were raised by parents or guardians that had a mental illness or personality disorder?Wow. Are you me? Damn. Our stories are similar. I'm sorry you went through all that. I know your pain well. ❤️🩹 | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/22 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Red, blue or blackI didn't realize it's yours. 😅 Your Gollum one is hilarious! | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/22 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Red, blue or blackLooks like Red Pill words with Blue Pill emotions and a pinch Black Pill cynicism. Seems like he doesn't mind women though based on the words he's choosing, so I would say almost an OG Red Pill vibe before the misogyny got wrapped in. Edit: Link for the lazy https://www.instagram.com/villainous_activity | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Being a nerd is bad?Word. Nerdy woman here. This is the right answer. Haha! | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/22 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Being a nerd is bad?Hell no! I'm a nerdy woman and love nerdy guys. :) The conversations are way better and I have way more fun when we're into the same stuff. You may just have a high failure rate when it comes to dating if you go after the gorgeous women that are into vastly different things than you, but you'll likely do better in a similar category of the things you like. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/22 06:32 PM |
| 7 | Red Pill helped bring out my insecurities and it's destroying my relationshipSo it seems you struggle with seeing your value and worth it outside of stats, sounds like? | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/22 05:03 PM |
| 11 | Red Pill helped bring out my insecurities and it's destroying my relationshipThe biggest part of disconnecting from Red Pill mentality is to face what you're actually afraid of because that's what this system of thought latches onto. If you face the root of your fears (often it's so we don't get left or humiliated by being left in a certain way). So, let's do some exercises, why is it maddening that you cannot bench 300? What does your ego tell you when you step up to the weights and you can only do 290? Then what? | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/22 01:14 PM |
| 2 | How many of you were raised by parents or guardians that had a mental illness or personality disorder?There was a substance abuse poll several days ago: https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/w1ikvi/how_many_of_you_had_parentsguardians_that_abused/ Go here to vote and be heard. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/22 12:47 PM |
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