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Wow, I see you’ve met my ex. He made fun of me for having throw pillows. We spent a year together, he promised to teach me to solder but then yelled at me about how I was trying to “take over his hobbies”. When we broke up I taught myself. Joke’s on him, it’s my hobby now and I’m better than he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:10 PM
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Online dating is not going well for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:19 PM
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I’m not 100% sure He’s mad that women ask about his photo instead of....asking about him I guess? (I thought I was asking about him) This led into a rant about how people have asked if he was scared of the moose in his photo. He then ranted about how he could take the moose in a fight by hitting it in the head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:09 PM
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It’s a primitive form of communication unlike anything anthropologists have ever seen before...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:54 PM
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Yeah, it’s nice when the trash takes itself out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:02 PM
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Yeah, I’m sorry I asked about your one interesting photo dude /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:52 PM
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I’d also just like to point out, as someone from an area with a lot of moose, you cannot just “fukt up” a moose by hitting them in their head. Their heads are very hard, it would not be “ez af”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:51 PM
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Don’t worry, I blocked him and his anger issues without dignifying THAT with a response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:23 PM
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I definitely think it’s kinda gross for men to prefer that. If it’s not pedophillia then it’s a porn addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:58 PM
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I definitely think it’s kinda gross for men to prefer that. If it’s not pedophillia then it’s a porn addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:58 PM
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You are a genius!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:37 PM
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I needed to see this today. I just got out of a long term relationship that was all wrong for me. And I’m 24 but I still feel like I’m “running out of time” But you’re right. I have my whole life ahead of me and I can do anything. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:26 AM
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I’m dying laughing. And the guys who are so offended by this are the same ones who complain that no women are hot enough for them...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:01 AM
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He admits that because of the confidence he got from having a girlfriend he now thinks he could do better.... Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:22 PM
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Yeah, no fucking way. Even when I was a pick-me I wouldn’t be the other girl. Something tells me his poor gf does not know he’s on tinder looking for a backup/replacement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:09 PM
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Yeah, it’s manipulative. He thought if he could get me emotionally invested I’d be more likely to go along with it. Even in my pick-me days I wouldn’t have gone for a guy with a girlfriend though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:48 PM
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Yeah, I doubt his gf is okay with him looking for a backup/replacement on tinder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:08 PM
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In the same text too! I wonder what other lies he would have told if I didn’t block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:07 PM
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Yeah, I agree that I should not have been as nice as I was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:42 PM
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That was my choice. I don’t want to meet up with anyone while Covid is still going on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:09 PM
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Yeah, I doubt his partner realizes he’s on there looking for a replacement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:07 PM
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Yeah, men who are looking for a “backup girlfriend” clearly have no shame. Idk why I tried to call him out. I did block him a few min after sending the message so he may not have seen it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:07 PM
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If I had thought about it I would have tried to find his social media before blocking him and sent her screenshots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:33 PM
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You know he took so long to tell me in the hopes that I would already be emotionally invested and just go along with it... fucking manipulative
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:32 PM
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Yeah. I wonder if his GF actually knows he’s on tinder looking for a replacement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:32 PM
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We had been chatting for quite some time too. He has AMPLE OPPORTUNITIES to be up front with me before I wasted so much time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:11 PM
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I’m still at the point where I’m obsessed with finding “the one” and it’s tearing me apart. How do I move on and find joy in being alone? I have a lot of hobbies and a few close friends but I still feel lost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:34 PM
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If you need a network security study buddy let me know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:04 PM
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Yes! Even though I’m pretty active, it was still hard getting used to her energy in the beginning. It’s a big adjustment and people need to prepare for that. That being said, I’ve had my dog for over two years now and I’m so happy I have her. But this stuff takes work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:00 PM
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I need a job like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:19 PM
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It’s hard, I’ll admit. But it is doable if you’re willing to put the time and money in. I have a husky/golden retriever mix so she has a ton of energy. For me, the most important thing was giving her a ton of attention in the morning. We’ll go on a long walk and work on some tricks. I have a dog walker come almost every day at lunch. And then I have to make a conscious effort to come home after work. Occasionally I’ll drive home to walk her and then drive back for a happy hour or something. It’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:19 PM
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I just got out of a relationship yesterday because he didn’t want to celebrate our anniversary. It really really hurts. I really needed to see this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 06:49 PM
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Maybe if we claim this is a kink they’ll have to allow us.... they’re allowing a lot of deranged stuff bECauSe kInk ShaMInG iS wrOnG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:37 AM
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I got a minor in economics because my college ex (an economics major) told me I “just might not have the brain for it” when I said I was looking for something to minor in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 04:19 PM
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I don’t date guys my dog doesn’t like. She’s never warned me about people I’ve dated but on the rare occasion she barks/growls at someone I stay away from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 08:40 PM
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I dated a guy who was a middle school football coach - aspiring high school football coach. He bought into a lot of toxic mindsets. Was very much a “football over everything” kind of guy, I mean refused to meet my mom because the draft was on. Clearly peaked in high school and was looking to hold onto his “glory days.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 06:00 PM
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I want one because I have a well playing job and own some land and expensive musical instruments that I would like to keep safe. That being said, I’m want a clause in there to revisit it if I end up being a stay at home mom or leaving the workforce for some reason because then the dynamic changes and I’m relying on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 05:56 PM
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I’ve been in a bad headspace and had trouble at work with no one to talk to. Never once did I use it as an excuse to cheat on my partner...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 03:18 PM
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So I actually have the opposite problem but it leads to the same insecurities. I’m pretty tall. I tower over shorter or average height guys. I feel like I can never be delicate and feminine because I’m a fucking giant. Also - men get SO INSECURE if I’m taller than them or close to their height. Height isn’t really something I care about, but so many of these insecure dudes expect me to throw out all my heels and make super passive aggressive comments all because they don’t tower over me like the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 06:43 PM
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Yeah, it’s only recently that I’ve started to realize how much of his shit I internalized. I’ve believed I’m “not nice” and not deserving of respect for so long. And I’m only just now even starting to untangle it all. I’m really sorry you went through the same thing. You’re valid, you’re certainly worthy of love, and you don’t deserve to be gaslit into believing otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:35 PM
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Oh yes! All of this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:58 PM
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I honestly think it is a red flag if a guy has no female friends. Female friends signal that he sees women as people with thoughts and ideas worth talking to. If your guy doesn’t like women he’s not sleeping with he doesn’t see them as people. Being friendly with exes is sort of a grey area. It’s good to see guys who have had healthy breakups but if they’re too close it makes me uncomfortable. Just my two cents. Do what makes you comfortable. But be wary of men who “refuse” to be friends with wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:57 PM
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The verbal abuse because you “weren’t positive” really struck a chord with me. I had an ex (who eventually escalated to physical abuse) who once told me I was “not an easy person to be nice to.” This was after he had spent hours screaming at me for trying to borrow something he had offered to lend me. He’d called me all sorts of names and said horrible stuff. I asked him why he was being so mean and he told me “you’re just not an easy person to be nice too.” I believed it for years...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:26 PM
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I’m fully for drafting women ONCE they rid the military of its rampant sexual abuse problem. Until then, they’re bringing women into a dangerous male-dominated space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:33 PM
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They also have a few guides for securing your online presence and stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 03:38 PM
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The Badass Army https://badassarmy.org has a lot of information and resources for victims of revenge porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 03:37 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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