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| 5 | Notes and tips from 5 months of heavy tinderingGreat notes man. I had my first Tinder date just recently, and it went extremely well. Ended up driving a lengthy way back to her place that night and slept with her. She said she usually doesn't do it on the first date :P When we first met up, I pulled her in to me, gave her a simple kiss on the cheek, told her she looked great, and put my hand on her lower back as I guided her into the bar. As far as the date went though, I will admit it took me a bit (and a few drinks) before I was able to wa… | /r/seduction | 30/12/14 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Tinder video I made, proves that not giving a fuck works."20, not 24" - Every girl on Tinder lying about their age | /r/seduction | 21/04/14 09:16 PM |
| 5 | Alcohol: The Reason I Chose to Stop DrinkingSame | /r/seduction | 22/09/13 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Solo clubbing guide to leaving with a girlYeah, honestly, all you really need to do is bounce and shift your weight to the beat of the song. Throw in some hand movements, and there ya go. I've find that bouncing/raging to dubstep has helped improve my dance skills | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 07:18 AM |
| 3 | Creative ways to get a girls number!I've done this before, except the reverse. Go up to a girl in a club or bar who's on her phone texting or browsing facebook and look at her phone and tell her you think something's wrong with her phone. It's worked a few times for me. | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 01:43 AM |
| -22 | [FR] "Put your phone away so I can hit on you properly"Skinny jeans are for skater punks and gay dudes that want to accentuate their ass. Regular fit is where it's at, yo. | /r/seduction | 23/12/12 05:47 PM |
| 2 | No More Mr. Nice Guy vs. How To Win Friends and Influence People.Who's the author of No More Mr. Nice Guy? There are a few books with that title | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 08:55 PM |
| 2 | How I un-friend zoned myself [FR]Thanks for sharing this. A girl just recently explicitly stated that we're just friends after I asked her on a date, so I'm planning on treating her as such on said date. After that, I'm hardly going to keep in touch with her at all while I continue to improve other aspects of my life. She won't know what she's been missing out on. | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 09:22 PM |
| 3 | 3 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Drink When You Go OutThanks for this. I get AA when trying to do day game, but when I go out drinking at clubs/bars, that all goes away. I really want to shift my main focus to day game, though, so I'm going to abstain from drinking the next time I go out at night and see if it will help me out with my day game. Of course, it will probably take a little bit of time to adjust | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 09:14 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012Sort of. From what my friends tell me, she's the kind of girl who can easily jump from guy to guy and she isn't looking for anything serious. I'm hoping to change her mind though. I asked her last week if she wanted to go see a new movie that came out (she originally brought it up first) but she said she wanted to get a group of us together to go see it, which we did. | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 04:23 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012What are some tips to make the transition from just having recently met someone to something a bit more serious? I've been going on a few group dates & hitting it off with a girl, but I want to take things a little further (not just for sex) | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 02:54 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Went to a party with the "just have fun" mindset. Had fun, but sort of failed.Solid advice, thanks | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 10:33 PM |
| 4 | 20 Mistakes You Make at the BarI only do it because I want to protect my drink in the clubs where there are a bunch of drunk people dancing in the area. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 04:22 AM |
| 1 | DAE have trouble gaming while other people are listening?I sort of know what you mean, but at the same time, I wouldn't worry about others listening in. For example, when I go out with friends, I straight up tell them that I'll be running game tonight and they usually end up cheering me on or even helping out as they watch. I'm fine with that. Random strangers on the other hand might be a little different, but honestly, just keep your focus on the target and if you become aware that a person is listening in, just think to yourself "hah, they probably … | /r/seduction | 05/08/12 05:05 AM |
| -2 | How a girl wants to be picked up at a clubUnfortunately, I have to agree with this. | /r/seduction | 06/07/12 04:47 PM |
| 1 | A (Not So) Quick Guide to Teasing, Pt. 1I'm sorry, but I don't see these working on girls at a club. A lot of these sound like something a very flamboyant person would say. Goober? Come on. Girls in my area would see all this as creepy or try-hard. While some playful teasing is good, you can only do so much without making things seem too obvious | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Don't #-Close, D-Close and Stop Flakes ColdThanks for this. I can easily get a girl's number but I need to focus on keeping things going after the initial interaction. Will try date-closing next time I'm at the clubs. | /r/seduction | 10/04/12 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Tips for character/personality building?Hah, yea that would do it. | /r/seduction | 03/04/12 11:10 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Office Party & Clubbing (Detailed/Long)It is my way of sharing my experience and possibly connecting the experince with others who may have been in similar situations. | /r/seduction | 25/03/12 10:18 PM |
| 1 | I have a problem with approaching when I'm alone. . .Good point, actually. I'll notice that whenever I go out alone, I'll be over-thinking things in my head as I am walking into the place and getting a feel for the area (whether it be a store, bar, college campus), whereas if I were to go out with a group of friends, we'd most likely already be talking about something and keeping our state elevated, so to speak. | /r/seduction | 29/02/12 04:04 AM |
| 1 | I have a problem with approaching when I'm alone. . .I'm the same way. Went clubbing one night with some friends and I would randomly approach girls and try to get their phone #'s without hesitation. One of my buddies and HIS girlfriend were almost in shock and were saying stuff like "Wow, he has game!". Now when I'm on campus by myself at my university, I just sort of do my own thing and not talk to anyone unless I run into a friend. | /r/seduction | 29/02/12 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Awkwardness paid off (X-post from /r/adviceanimals)Original thread: http://www.reddit.com/r/AdviceAnimals/comments/q5n8i/awkwardness_paid_off/ | /r/seduction | 26/02/12 03:27 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about my idea for an opener?Lol, yes, it would be just for fun and to test reactions. Nothing more. | /r/seduction | 23/02/12 08:32 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about my idea for an opener?Well, yeah... that was more along the lines of what I was getting at. The whole 30 seconds thing was just sort of for practice and to test their reactions. If it didn't work out, then no big deal. I'd just move on to the next girl and keep lowering the amount of time with each approach. I can see how 30 seconds would be a bit long, though. | /r/seduction | 23/02/12 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Best PUA vids to watch?Thanks for the link. Well worth the hour and a half | /r/seduction | 22/02/12 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Help for a college student?check out /r/UniSeddit. Might have some useful tips for you. | /r/seduction | 15/02/12 03:26 AM |
| 7 | Mini [FR] Talk to everyone, exhibit AThat's what I need to do more... open groups. Lately I've been approaching individual girls but I can never find enough to talk about to keep the conversations going. | /r/seduction | 06/02/12 01:45 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Downtown clubbing with friendsI'll agree that I need to work on getting conversations going and getting to know each girl a bit better. I should put more time into each endeavor so to speak. And yeah, I know one liners aren't usually recommended, but it was just more of a test run for me. Gave me something to work with on the approach and to see how they'd react. | /r/seduction | 29/01/12 11:11 PM |
| 17 | Let's play a little game: Reframe the person above you.I know, for some reason they don't like being very social the next day. New: I'm just doing some homework, what are you doing? | /r/seduction | 25/01/12 05:08 AM |
| 1 | [FR] # close at a friend's brother's Bar Mitzvah (Second # this week)Oh, and apparently it is my 1st Reddit cake day. Fuck yeah. | /r/seduction | 08/01/12 04:45 AM |
| 1 | First legitimate and unexpected [FR]Exactly. Wasn't going to give any more effort than that. | /r/seduction | 06/01/12 08:52 PM |
| 1 | First legitimate and unexpected [FR]So still no response, but I did see on her FB wall that she posted through her one of her friend's accounts saying her Facebook got hacked and to avoid clicking links sent from her... although that post isn't there anymore. Would it be safe for me to ask her friend for her phone number so that I can get in contact with her? | /r/seduction | 06/01/12 06:45 AM |
| 1 | First legitimate and unexpected [FR]Yea... I was only going to give this girl a couple chances to be with me anyway. Wasn't going to stress over it. Thanks for the responses. I'll keep you posted if anything happens. | /r/seduction | 05/01/12 02:25 AM |
| 1 | First legitimate and unexpected [FR]Well, fuck. Sent a message already. All I asked was "want to go for coffee friday night?" | /r/seduction | 05/01/12 01:48 AM |
| 0 | First legitimate and unexpected [FR]Generally speaking, of course =P. You know it's true! | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 11:10 PM |
| 1 | First legitimate and unexpected [FR]Alright. Planning on chatting with her on FB tonight if I catch her on. If not, I'll just shoot her a message then call her up once I get her #. | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 11:09 PM |
| 1 | First legitimate and unexpected [FR]How long do I have to set up a date? And how would you recommend I contact her? Wait for her to come online and ask via instant chat, or send her a message with my phone # and whatnot? | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 01:13 AM |
| 1 | First legitimate and unexpected [FR]Eh, not really. It's not what it may imply. | /r/seduction | 03/01/12 11:03 PM |
| 1 | First legitimate and unexpected [FR]True. It felt like it was with the flow of things, so I should be in the clear on that. | /r/seduction | 03/01/12 11:01 PM |
| 2 | First legitimate and unexpected [FR]One thing I definitely need to work on is kino. Besides touching shoulders and giving the HB8 a hug, I don't think I did much touching. I noticed that the HB8 touched my hand with hers at one point while she was explaining something (you know how girls do that). Also, I probably could have held back on giving her my Facebook right when she asked... I should have made her work for it by playing hard to get or something. But, I'm still sort of new to this so I'm not sure if it would have helped or… | /r/seduction | 03/01/12 07:30 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Date + lay, learned about what makes a good dateThat's what I would do. Escalate a bit more on the second or third date and hope that she is more receiving of your intentions. If not, then yeah, I wouldn't try to force it on her. Either respect her decisions and be a little patient (but not too patient) or move on and find someone else. | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 12:31 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Date + lay, learned about what makes a good dateThat's what I would do... escalate a bit more on the second or third date and hope that she is more receiving of it. If not, then I wouldn't try to force it. Might make you seem desperate and that all you want is her body. If she still isn't comfortable or doesn't want to have sex, then she's probably not worth the hassle anyway. | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 12:29 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Date + lay, learned about what makes a good dateI think it all depends on what the girl's intentions are. Some girls might want to have sex with a guy as soon as possible so that they know the sex will be good while in a relationship with them. Others may be a little more shy or insecure and not want to get into all of that right away. | /r/seduction | 28/12/11 06:06 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Date + lay, learned about what makes a good dateI don't know... literally asking "hey, wanna come sit closer?" sounds like it could make things feel awkward. Even though I'm a noob at pick-up... to me, the situation would feel more comfortable if I just said something like "Hey, scootch in!" and then put my arm around her. | /r/seduction | 28/12/11 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Signs of InterestDoesn't this sort of negate the whole being outcome independent idea? | /r/seduction | 03/12/11 07:36 AM |
| 1 | So I'm sure Barney Stinson is an amusing hero to some of you. What are your thoughts of wearing suits all the time?Here in Florida, it'd be way too hot and humid to wear a suit everywhere. Even indoors. | /r/seduction | 27/11/11 08:23 PM |
| 1 | How can I break the ice with a girl in my college class?#2 seems like a good thing to do. And maybe talking to other people in our general area will allow her to get more of a sense of who I am before I actually approach (that is, if she over-hears me talking). I can see what you mean for #3. After all, we are already halfway through the semester and we've usually sat in roughly the same spots so far. For me to just decide to do that now... might be a bit iffy. She usually comes to class a few minutes late anyway, so it would be even trickier to work… | /r/seduction | 12/10/11 10:43 PM |
| 1 | How can I break the ice with a girl in my college class?Hah, I might actually have to try that one. | /r/seduction | 12/10/11 03:37 AM |
| 1 | How can I break the ice with a girl in my college class?My only problem, it seems, is coming up with content to talk about and questions to ask. With the class, I already know a good amount of what is being taught and I usually understand the lectures pretty well so I never seem to have any questions. | /r/seduction | 12/10/11 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, I need some clarification...I'd like to pick up a girl for who they are and to build a relationship with. I am definitely not in it completely for sex. | /r/seduction | 23/07/11 09:21 PM |
| 4 | Improving conversational skillsBut I'm happy with the way Gmail and other mail clients organize conversations :) | /r/seduction | 15/07/11 02:34 AM |
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