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Can't speak for women, but every time I see someone at the gym doing this I think that they are a douche who cares more about their image rather than their actual level of fitness. Don't workout for other people, do it for yourself. Put the phone down and pick the weights up.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 02:51 PM
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I'm going to lay this out in a positive light. Age doesn't mean that your social life ends, it just evolves like every other aspect of your life does. Gone are the days of going out with the crew every night to go drinking and it's replaced by golf with a close friend on Saturday and poker with the guys once a week. It's actually kind of nice, because the these friends are of a different breed. They spend time with you because they actually appreciate your company, rather than so many of your yo…
/r/askTRP13/04/17 07:03 AM
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I think you should mention it. In my experience just having your shit together and not coming off as totally desperate makes you stand out from 99% of the other guys online. Online dating can be tough, but including that will expand your market, abundance mentality. You'll have to filter out the gold diggers some other way.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 06:07 AM
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Let me tell you a story about one of my old roommates Dan. After living with him for a few months I started to notice a pattern. Wake up late for work, go to work, come home, play video games, go to sleep, repeat. This was his entire life and it was this way for the entire 3 years that I lived with him. It filled me with a strong distaste for video games and I fill my life with plenty of ither hobbies because of it. At the end of the day entertainment is entertainment, but all he has to show of …
/r/askTRP28/02/17 05:43 AM
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Idk man, let me tell you. I am a professional jazz musician. I struggle to make what I can from playing jazz. But the industry is tough and sometimes that struggle between financial reality and my passionate dreams creates tension between me and my girlfriend. The movie is about a professional jazz musician. He struggles to make what he can from playing jazz. But this industry is tough and sometimes that struggle between financial reality and his passionate dreams creates tension between him and…
/r/askTRP24/01/17 07:04 AM
1

La la Land is a terrible movie. I hate musicals, they are a degenerate form of opera. But that's my opinion. If you want to see the movie go for it, it's the most likely scenario in which you get sex at the end.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 05:56 AM
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A woman is always impressed by a clean house. That being said don't do it for her do it for yourself. It exercises discipline and hygiene. Having a clean house shows that you respect yourself. It also helps fight depression, and as I've noticed most people who live in filth are depressed. Even when you wake up late, your car gets a flat tire, the shit hits the fan at work, you get yelled at by the boss, and everything else goes wrong at least you are coming home to a clean and tidy house.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 06:38 AM
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Hey I'm also about the same hight and age. As you pointed out in your post, you have many other skills, features, and talents that you can rightly feel confident about. Focus on those. Most girls are short anyways, with the average female hight in america at 5'4". Most of the time they don't care if you are tall relative to their peers, just that you are tall relative to them. You already have an advantage. As far as going for younger girls, don't you find them kind of immature and annoying? I d…
/r/askTRP25/12/16 04:01 AM
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I think a lot of its recent popularity stems from Donald Trump's presidential campaign. It became a meme in conservatiives circles to label liberals as cucks and RINOs as cuckservatives (republicans who enjoy watching liberals fuck this country). Although Donald never spoke the word himself it was used by political pundits, in the online community, amd by Breitbart. Kids got wind of the word and are now using it. Just as the other user pointed out, its a good way to call another man effeminate w…
/r/askTRP22/11/16 04:00 PM
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I always thought the D.E.N.N.I.S system was a satire on PUA, and meant to be a joke about abusive relationships. Set your own priorities and goals, if you want to get a lot of action, but ultimitaly have empty and unfulfillling relationships like Dennis (episodes "Dennis gets a divorce" and "The gang group dates") then implement the D.E.N.N.I.S system. If you are interested in something else then follow different advice. I mean that's Dennis' character, the "lady's man" who is kind of creepy, co…
/r/askTRP06/11/16 08:17 AM
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Forplay is your friend
/r/askTRP16/10/16 06:39 AM
1

Unfortunitely, most people do not want you to succeed. People are selfish. They don't want you to get accepted into university because that means one less spot for themselves. They don't want you to get that great job because that means there will be no job openings for them. They don't want you to date that smoking hot chick because they want to be the ones dating her. A lot of people have self-esteem issues and will do everything they can to drag you down and stab you in the back so that they …
/r/askTRP16/08/16 10:42 PM
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It's a negotiation game, just like anything else. If I have more SMV than she does or I don't give a shit about her I'll let her buy everything. But if she is someone I care about then I man up and pay for everything, because tradition and shit.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 06:05 AM
2

"Me? I'm a virgin!" "No seriously I've never even kissed a girl!"
/r/askTRP02/06/16 07:14 AM
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No remorse.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 03:57 AM
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This is going to happen a lot, not matter how good your game is. Just try to stay interesting, and don't take it personally when they ignore you.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 10:09 PM
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If they do something that's cute, tell them that it's cute. Just don't tell them they are cute because you are trying to win favors or otherwise. Think of it like training a dog. You give a dog a treat when it performs a trick or behaves well. But if you just throw out treats every opportunity you have they become spoiled.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 06:22 AM
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Not necessarily brand name but a lot of girls do care. I remember my ex telling me "I like that you dress well, my old boyfriend would always wear a sweatshirt and sweatpants. Its nice that you actually bother to put on cloths." And here I am in jeans and a tshirt that I bought for a total of $9. Wearing cloths that fit is important as well, Ive always been a slim guy and i noticed instantly a difference when I stoped wearing hand-me-downs and started wearing cloths fit to my physic. Whether it …
/r/askTRP24/03/16 03:00 AM
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Not necessarily brand name but a lot of girls do care. I remember my ex telling me "I like that you dress well, my old boyfriend would always wear a sweatshirt and swearpants. Its jice that you actually bother to put on cloths." And here I am in jeans and a tshirt that I bought for $9. Wearing cloths that fit is important as well, Ive always been a slim guy and i noticed instantly a difference when I started wearing cloths fit to my physic. Whether it is a fancy brand like gucci or expensive onl…
/r/askTRP24/03/16 03:00 AM
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Everyone starts at ground zero dude. Some give up and stay there, others keep pushing because they have to.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 08:23 AM
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I see your reasoning. But Ive always had better luck naming a time and place. That way it makes it real plan and not just a possibility of having plans. Plus it frees both of you to schedule around it which helps out both parties.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 07:53 PM
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Time and place.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 01:18 AM
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Do you have any hobbies? Find others who like the same things and start making friends. Play an instrument? Start a band. Like sports? Join a soccer leaugue. Play Magic the Gathering? Go to a couple tournaments. Love Jesus? Be more active in your church. Be friendly and ask people to hang out.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 09:03 PM
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I tell her the honest truth. Besides if she's with you longer than the night she'll find out anyways. As long as you are proud of what you do and let it be known, it shouldn't matter.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 04:20 AM
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Hey dude. First off, take it easy. Its not a competition. You don't reach a high score and then lights start flashing, balloons drop, and someone comes in with a giant check worth 1000000 dollars with your name signed on it. Its just sex. You are at that age where kids start experimenting. This wasn't a shit test and the best answer is the honest one. You're only 16 and its not like you're any less of a person for being a virgin. Im 22, not a virgin, but I wish I was. Lost it at 17 and have had …
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:26 AM
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I think that you are right, but its not all doom and gloom. What you talked about are two ends of the extremes, and in real life nobody is black and white like that. There is a little bit of blue pill and red pill in all of us. You have to decide, for yourself, what type of balance you want to make for your own benefit. I was totally absorbed into the redpill for a while, was obsessed with being "alpha." Well after having my fair share of one-night-stands I decided that the lifestyle kind of mad…
/r/askTRP28/11/15 10:09 AM
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Well my opinion on the redpill? Nobody can disagree with the basic tenant: -Focus on improving yourself After that, it starts getting kinddddaa weird. And no I don't discuss any of this with women, it usually ends poorly.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 07:21 AM
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Just tell them that your dad used to come home drunk and beat your mom until he died in a dui accident. Or just tell them you don't drink. No explanation needed. If they pressure you just say again, I don't drink.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 08:28 PM
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I don't think this trait is exclusive to women. Young people in general drink a lot. One factor is that they are new to drinking so its still fun and exciting, the other is that in college there is a lot of social pressure to drink. Both men and women do this. At a certain age heavy drinking becomes taboo. Nobody wants somebody with a 9-5 and 3 kids getting hammered on a tuesday night. However, for single young adults working odd jobs this is considered normal. I work at a bar/ nightclub and abo…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 04:50 AM
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Approach the desired girl directly. Make her the focus. If her friends chime in respond to them and give them the attention they deserve, but keep your eye on the prize. Isolate the desired girl if possible and able to be done smoothly, but you don't want to make a oneitus fool of yourself infront her bestfriends. Create competition between them if you can, if her friends say something more interesting or attractive give them attention because they earned it. Lets say you approach girl A because…
/r/askTRP04/10/15 06:51 AM
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Being messy is one of mine. A person's bedroom is usually a window into their mental status. If their room is always clean and organized then their mind is usually the same. If their room is a fucking mess with trash pushed into the corners then they sure as hell are as well. Of course everyone is a little messy, but slobs are not good people to be around. Everything you are right now is a result of all the decisions that you have made in your life. So in a way people's rooms are manifestations …
/r/askTRP01/10/15 06:28 AM
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As someone who works in the restruant/ nightclub insdustry I completely second this. Everything he said is correct and all I have to add is that if you work in a bar you'll feel completely confident and comfortable inside of one. You're there all the time so you'll stop feeling anxious no matter what bar you go into. Its hard work but the money can be pretty good, especially considering that you need no specific education to do well, just experience. Hell I make more money in the industry than p…
/r/askTRP26/09/15 07:01 AM
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Many of girls have daddy issues. ALL girls are crazy. You just have to find the level of crazy that you can tolerate.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:15 PM
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I like what /u/Invalidity has to say about doing what suits your needs. No matter what, your salary will go up with age. Old people just get paid more. A lot of people will brag about earning 70k a year. But don't realize that they're working 65hr work weeks and have no time for anything else, while the guy earning 50k a year at 40hrs is really making better use of his time. All that being said, although salary is important, it doesn't define you as a person. There have even been plenty of alpha…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 05:31 AM
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Examples like the pope, or various saints would speak to it being possible. Think about it, an ordained catholic priest takes a vow of celibacy, yet is still considered the leader of a congregation. Aside from that, fear and respect are exclusive. Just because someone is a leader doesn't mean he gets tons of pussy and vice versa. Be proud of yourself no matter who you are, and then go from there.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 07:12 AM
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I have a few, but a far less number than friends who are male. Usually they are the girlfriends of my best friends, coworkers (never fuck a coworker, like ever), or girls I consider interesting but are too fat or ugly to date. The latter usually being tomboys, which is why we can get along so well I guess. /u/TheDarkTriad makes a good point. It can be nice to have female friends, because they introduce you to other females.
/r/askTRP15/08/15 05:25 AM
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They care about how a man looks. But they also care about the money he earns among other things. As opposed to men, who unanimously care solely about looks. For a man choosing a mate is simple. Is she hot? Is she not crazy? Answer yes to both and she wins. For a women it is more difficult. Is he hot? Is he creepy? Does he have a good job? Do I like his personality? What is his family like? Would my family like him? Could he support me and my children for life? What do my friends think of him? Co…
/r/askTRP08/08/15 07:07 AM
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I mean what I say. She is craving your attention. And to get by her anti slut defense you should be more aggresive. Maybe rape is a bad term. But aggressive.
/r/askTRP11/07/15 03:45 AM
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She wants your attention. Give it to her, if you want. Rape her next time you see her.
/r/askTRP11/07/15 03:14 AM
1

As a guy who has had really long hair and really short hair at multiple times in my life I can say that life is better when its short. Girls like it short and its easier to get a job. It sucks and is pretty lame considering its a superficial thing, but thats the reality. All that bullshit your grandparents tell you in highschool is actually true.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 07:44 PM
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You raise a very good question and this art is very subtle and nuanced. So much so that I cannot give specific answers but can only give a general response. Reward good behavior positively and ignore/punish bad behavior. She asks you to hang out or goes in for the kiss? Say yes and go all out. But if she talks down to you or otherwise demeans you do not give her your affection. This would be the sign of someone who is weak and desperate. What you talk about is totally a vibe women feel. It's not…
/r/askTRP02/07/15 08:20 AM
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I work at a nightclub that sounds just like yours. This post is spot on. The girls go there to pick up men, just as much as the guys are there to pick up girls. I'm a barback and get hit on ALL THE TIME. Girls rubbing your back, grabbing for your junk, grinding on you. It all happens to anyone who works there, however the bartenders, barbacks and servers are usually all to busy to ever flirt. Meanwhile the bouncers get to post up and engage the women. I envy them for that. Don't get me wrong, ev…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 01:58 AM
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Shirtless pick has to be tasteful. Shirtless in bed? No. Shirtless at the beach? Yes. I'm not a girl, but I'd imagine they'd get a kick out of a pic of a guy at the gym lifting.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 08:39 PM
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Unless she has a history of cheating I don't think 14 is a particularly bad number. You're letting your insecurities get to you, scared that she will fall out of love and you'll become #15. She'll move on and you'll be left behind. Which, hate to break it to you, will happen if you dump her. She obviously has the power in this relationship. But if she hasn't cheated on you in two years it seems like shes pretty commited. Besides, you would have fucked 14 girls in one night if you had the chance.…
/r/askTRP17/06/15 03:41 AM
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Well at least you're not bitter.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 09:54 PM
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Contrary to popular belief, Jesus was not kind to everyone. He had some pretty harsh words to give. Raised himself up from a carpenter to be called God by over 2 billion people. Pretty redpill if you ask me.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 07:19 PM
2

I am 5' 11". Very skinny and scrawny, but quite muscular. Look bad in cloths but great with cloths off. "Hitler youth" hair. Strong looking face but I have some acne. Artistic type personality. Judging from my LTR's- The good girl (which is strange because I'm always described as the bad boy). Smart and pretty, career and academically oriented. Glasses. Family relationship important to them. Usually from a very well off family. Very sweet with a dose of crazy. Have a dark side buried deep deep d…
/r/askTRP12/06/15 05:18 PM
2

I am a work in progress. Maybe I still have to work that out within myself, everytime I fuck a girl just for the sex I just end up feeling empty afterwards. Have a good time at night but when the morning roles around I just see them to the door asap. I have 3 plates. But I feel like a spider. Trapping them in my web to prey on in order to feed my ego....
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 05:09 AM
3

The idea may be wrong, but it still exists and is only growing stronger. Instead of fighting the idea I am suggesting a way to use it to our advantage. Become a virus and destroy the system from inside. Turn their stregnth into their weakness. HOLY WARRIORS JIHAD FOR PUSSY
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 01:28 AM
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Haven't seen it. Heard its good tho.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 09:37 PM
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You are right. However, I've found that the quickest way into a girls pants is by not expecting sex. A lot of guys spend their time asking, begging for sex. It just makes them come off as desperate or only using the women for sex. Which is completly true, we are. But you can't let her know that. Trick her into believing that you don't just want sex. Don't talk about sex until she does, and trust me, she will. Just "be cool" and avoid the topic until she brings it up. Then you are gold and can es…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 08:16 PM
2

You could just say fuck it and get with her anyways. She wants it, or else she wouldn't be there. She would leave him for you. However, if she'd cheat on him, she would cheat on you. Seems like the type of girl who doesn't have enough self confidence to go without a relationship, so she slides in between one and another. I would stay away from her.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 05:59 AM
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I don't really care about the other person, it's all about me That type of selfish attitude is preventing you from having relationships and getting laid. Sex involves giving and receiving. You wouldn't want a selfish woman (no blowjobs, no penetration) who just used you to suck her pussy, would you? Of course not. Likewise, she is going to want a man who isn't just concerned about his own sexual needs, but hers also. Good sex involves everyone getting off, and everyone having a good time. TLDR; …
/r/askTRP12/05/15 01:49 AM
1

Have fun waiting an hour and a half for her to get ready. And then yelling at you for 2 more hours because you came early.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 11:17 AM
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Because women are humans and can be pretty cool?
/r/askTRP11/05/15 07:42 AM
2

Probably explains why you're still a virgin...
/r/askTRP11/05/15 07:41 AM
2

Probably depends on your individual interests, hobbies, and preferences. Edit: That being said, New Jersey is a shithole and Massachusetts turns people into queers.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 07:34 AM
1

You can tell a lot about a man by the type of people he surrounds himself with. Surround yourself with good people.
/r/askTRP28/03/15 02:57 AM
1

It depends what you want to do with her. Considering she's leaving the job then just txt her "Hey found your number in my locker". You pretty much can't screw up when she's already interested. Just talk to her like you would talk to a friend and when she brings up sex run with it. Most of the time you won't even talk about sex, you'll just be having regular friend conversation and then all of a sudden you find yourselves alone and start taking cloths off. Don't even worry about the Redpill-bluep…
/r/askTRP20/03/15 01:26 AM
2

Even though astrology is bullshit and borderline witchcraft its actually a really useful tool for flirting with women. Looks some stuff up real quick and learn about it, because if you can talk about astrology you are "in." Just make up some bullshit on the spot "oh you're a virgo that makes so much sense because you are a very open minded indivudual bla bla bla." A great part of my game is about palm reading. I just bullshit my way through the whole thing and it gives me an excuse to hold their…
/r/askTRP05/03/15 08:57 PM
1

As a barback, can confirm. Everyone in the restaurant biz is fairly sexually active. But bartenders are by far the most. Waiters get the flirts. The bouncers are ALWAYS getting girl's numbers. Barbacks are too busy working their ass off to talk. Just an hour into my shift today I had a customer get all excited to see me, tell me I was cute, and introduce herself to me. Unfortunately 1000 bottles of beer aren't going to stock themselves. I've learned about as much doing that for a few months than…
/r/askTRP01/02/15 12:06 PM
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Stop worrying about failure. You're going to die and nobody is going to remember you. Just have fun and do what you want to do.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 02:05 PM
1

How do you reconcile your Objectivist beliefs and marxist outlook on history? Not trying to bust your balls, I'm just generally curious and seeking to understand. PM me if you like. I've read Anthem, the Fountainhead, and several writtings of marx and engels. Interesting stuff, and it seems like you have a lot to say on the matter.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 01:12 PM
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Instead of busting heads with them, try to be their friends. Everyone else already respects them so if you go around disrespecting them to be the top dog everyone will see right through it and know exactly what you're trying to do. You'll just make enemies, not garner authority. Get on their level, not try to destroy it. Look everyone in the eye and express yourself genuinely and freely. Don't pick up fake personalities like others are suggesting. I repeat the top comment here because /u/enrique…
/r/askTRP12/01/15 12:47 PM
2

I only have one piece of advice for you. I say this as an older man looking back on high school life. EVERYBODY in high school is just dieing for a significant other. It's like a right of passage or something. If they don't have a bf/gf then they're socially ostracized. Use this to your advantage. Every single girl is absolutely DESPERATE for a relationship but most boys are too scared to even talk to them. So have no fear, ask the hottest girls out.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 12:13 AM
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I think everybody on Earth deals with this. Yeah it's shitty but it also binds humanity together, knowing that we're all in the same boat together. And in a certain light it gives life purpose. How do people deal? In different ways: drugs, alcohol, greed, therapy, religion, anti-depressants, devoting their lives to their careers and never having fun, or having too much fun and never developing a career. Life wasn't meant to be perfect. Reading books and studying philosophy helped me a lot with t…
/r/askTRP08/01/15 12:25 PM
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Most of a billionaire's wealth is not in the form of liquid assets. She's basically trying to steal his business from him.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 12:20 PM
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I'd say it's more of a reflection on the entertainment industry today than practical society. People want to see their fantasies lived out for recreation. That's why rap music is about having money, living dangerously, and doing drugs while metal is all about the shock value.Why do you think Tyler the Creator raps about killing people, burning shit, and rape when he's never done any of that stuff? The music business is all about partying, having fun, and being young and beautiful. After all sex …
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/14 10:17 PM
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The clitorous.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 01:42 AM
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You described it as one of the best dates you ever had, and she wants to see you again for dinner. Sounds like a keeper to me. Have some fun and I'm sure she won't be too hard to bang (which shouldn't be your sole objective anyways you shallow shallow fuck.) The best relationships have great friendship and great sex, not just one. Close friendship will lead to better sex and absolute fire sex will lead to close friendship. This doesn't sound bluepill at all, it sounds pretty rad if you ask me.
/r/askTRP11/10/14 02:02 PM
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Just to follow up, the girl took her drinks and walked. The guy followed and kept trying to talk to her.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 07:32 PM
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What makes you say that?
/r/askTRP01/10/14 07:27 PM
1

In regards to pork "It's not what goes into the mouth that defiles a man, but what comes out of the mouth, this defiles a man."-Jesus
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 12:28 AM
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That she loves you with all of her heart. And that she proves it not only with her words but also her actions.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 08:45 PM
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If you're getting ED its not because you jerked off too much in the past. Its because she's not putting any effort in and doing anything to arouse you.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 07:07 AM
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The bible.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 09:23 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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