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| 2 | So I’m about to start college soon and need some tips from the pros for approaching femalesAs far as what to talk about ... throw the pickup lines out the window. Generic lines suck because they are about some girl in your mind, start by talking about something she actually cares about. For me, I like to start with a situational observation. This is unlikely to make her defensive, and keeps her open to talk because your not talking about her, you’re talking about something you happen to both be experiencing. “Did you hear what that guy was saying in the atrium!?” “Have you eaten there… | /r/seduction | 17/08/19 11:01 PM |
| 2 | So I’m about to start college soon and need some tips from the pros for approaching femalesI gotchu Quan. First on the anxiety. Traditionally, males are not taught how to talk about our feelings, and I guess I’m alright with that lol.. but really, we’re not even taught how to acknowledge our feelings. Thoughts lead to feelings, feelings lead to actions. So maybe you think things will be awkward.. then you feel nervous.. so you don’t talk to her. You walk away, and you keep thinking things will be awkward... we gotta change the thought. So the next time you want to talk to a girl. You’… | /r/seduction | 17/08/19 10:52 PM |
| 2 | How do confident guys do it man.I’ve asked myself so many times. While I’m not sure if this is true, I believe most guys who are “naturally” good with women were raised in situations that required them to develop good communication and social skills early in life. It’s not that they are confident - so much as they don’t fear messing up, and know that if they do, they will be able to communicate their feelings in a way that turns things to their advantage again. | /r/seduction | 17/08/19 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Propose a date for tonight or 1-3 days in advance?Have you ever seen a romance movie where the suave male lead says “Hey, I’d like to see you again, what are you doing in a few days?” I agree with the other post - connection will drive if she wants to see you again. But on the real, I have used “what are you doing right now?” multiple times successfully. | /r/seduction | 17/08/19 10:33 PM |
| 3 | Do any of you use CBD and does it help with approaching women?I don’t use CBD... I mean I smoke, so I guess I do. But typically not while trying to talk to girls. Maybe try this instead: See girl you want to talk to Anxiety sets in, you start doubting if you should try. Address your feelings.. really though. Take a deep breath, and imagine you are doing a body scan.. what are the physical manifestations of anxiety? What do you feel, where in your body? Maybe it’s a feeling of warmth or a buzzing on the skin sensation on your head. Maybe your throat feels t… | /r/seduction | 17/08/19 10:22 PM |
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