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I'm just interested? Damn
/r/ExRedPill13/07/25 05:31 PM
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Now I can see you are critical of Reform. Though...I could've sworn I saw a post saying you, "(25F)," were "raised Reform," but I understand the distinction if you don't consider yourself part of it any longer.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/25 05:19 PM
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Makes me wonder if you are indian. You can click on someone's profile and often you'll see activity in certain subs or even mentions in comments. In OP's case it was particularly easy to discover she and her family are New York Reform Jews
/r/ExRedPill13/07/25 04:55 PM
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yes and you need to condense your post onto your own Reddit wall
/r/ExRedPill25/02/23 12:18 AM
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mods please take care of this spammer
/r/ExRedPill25/02/23 12:15 AM
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what if you're average height and your face is average
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:44 AM
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she's bi, your point (of it not applying to pure het women) only stands partially since I notice bi women tend to have a more balanced attitude because of their perspective advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:27 PM
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so the lonely ones only had bad faces?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:58 AM
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so why are they alone? If they are attractive (apparently) then who is to blame? Or are these all unattractive gymbros
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:14 PM
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Dammit...I was so close! oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:30 AM
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looks absolutely 100% normal like every other guy with a girlfriend. apparently the running reply is "online dating ruined it for the average man in the West" One may then proceed to suggest going to the "Not-West" to look for hookups/then partner One may then respond "these women are gold diggers she doesn't lub you cobe" Then you can say "idk what to tell you 😐, I wish I was God but I'm not" What a grand and intoxicating innocence!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:12 AM
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Nice to know everyone on PPD has pretty serious sexual hangups and probably very conservative (they will respond denying this too)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:07 PM
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he's saying he slept with over 40 women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:24 AM
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I am 22. Please note that I use finasteride primarily, with rogaine. When I started, I still had most of my hair. Most of the crown patch filled, and the hairline only defined a bit more but so far it has maintained. My hair looks normal because I started when it was still nw1.5 The finasteride is by far the most important as it prevents testosterone from 5α-reducing into DHT. But I think surely you must know this if you are treating yourself, or are you saying this like you went mostly bald the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:57 PM
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I had control over hair. I began balding at 16 and started using Rogaine, then finasteride at 18. I would be completely bald now but I still have all my hair just a very small incomplete patch on the back and highish hairline (but it doesn't look receded really) Everything else is probably average/meh and I mostly get ignored anyway so, big woop
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:35 PM
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It seems like you can't judge context and instead interpret this to mean he's trying to cure autism, when he more likely meant "coping" or "dealing" with it. Even among "high functioning" he may be basically undetectable, rather coming of as eccentric after getting to know him. In your case, poor verbal reasoning is not necessarily a symptom and many autists are good at it, but it's more likely due to the "obsessive patterning" cognitive nature and gets replaced with some other form of reasoning…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:39 PM
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so then you effectively have to be saying the following: Men need to take measures to lower their libido, drastic or otherwise or Men who feel they have the immutable traits necessary need to maximize all else and approach women in the hopes of scoring, however meager that may be or Men need to be content with solo relief and disregard the detractors. This may be casual moderate release through various forms of media, to more unconventional methods to fill the relationship void such as: waifus, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:26 PM
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Make it stop. Dear God please make it stop. Will there ever be an end?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:24 AM
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Norah Vincent was not trans she was lesbian, and yes she committed """"assisted"""" suicide for her depression (which apparently isn't murder, which I never knew)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:49 PM
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skinny this does not fit my personal, subjective anecdotal experience wherein all my Chad friends (read: they have frequent casual sex) may be considered underweight, and one is actually shorter than me (he's 5'10") explain that atheists
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 07:30 PM
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it's a valid fear based on personal, relative, subjective, non-empirical belief triggered by the following internal reaction to a girl insulting a man: ouchie, my monkey brain says it bad! I must now avoid interacting with women at all cost!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:32 AM
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get me what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:57 PM
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so in other words those 40+ wives and seniors who said I'm handsome really meant it? 😊 ehehe
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:19 PM
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I think if they do anything other than lean into it, they don't prefer it. If they go stiff it means they're only tolerating but if they REALLY hate it they tend to let people know...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:16 PM
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And, no, getting lucky once a semester is not sexually active. actually that kind of is. If a man can get that kind of success then he must have limited free time if he isn't getting more. whereas "gets lucky once his whole time as an undergrad" might as well be a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:56 PM
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don't really care tho, I don't pretend to be alpha anyway I know my place in this world. I shall continue to be surprised when an insect jumps at me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:35 PM
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khv white American Male 22 181cm 72kg 13% bodyfat 16.8x13.1cm I do the 4 mains + pushchinups + crunches
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:35 PM
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Your claim is based merely on subjective perceptions influenced by personal attitudes and frustrations. It is only true for you and some others who might have the same experience for whatever reason. You seem like a guy who fully subscribes to the just-world fallacy you seem like a guy who subscribes to the presumption fallacy. I believe in self-determination and that our thoughts shape our reality (in whatever capacity). Now, I will go ahead and presume you are probably a materialist, which is …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:40 AM
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No, you are wrong because I have a pessimistic worldview and therefore I will come up with my own version of the universe to fit this paradigm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:59 PM
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it's poorly represented statistics of mostly undergrad aged (~<26) men. The only consistent factor I've noticed above everything else, including social skills, is lifestyle and I don't have to say what it is because it's been recycled so many times. In effect, it is "their choice" not to get laid because they are preoccupying themselves with other things, however from a self report stand point these men obviously would like to get laid regardless and will state as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:45 PM
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because you have to show off that you're already physically stronger than her? everybody knows that the man is stronger femdom is about mental domination. it's the taboo and the "being different" that makes it hot also I find a lot of girlfriends are willing to experiment and ones who have the character for it find themselves enjoying it. but because girls are socialized to be submissive (and they are much more receptive to that than men) you find more, though that number is changing in recent y…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 05:37 AM
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yeah no one can. I think you have poor communication skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:32 AM
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I think you're new to all this, if you just said that...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:27 AM
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Yeah, I've been working on forceful meditation and hypnosis to squeeze the sub bottom out of me (I'm a straight male). I honestly wanted to hope at least some humans could be a little more adaptable but for women that just isn't the case
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:24 AM
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I mostly take the submissive route, and I'm a male yeah, I had sex one time in my life and she wouldn't date me so that was it 🤷‍♂️ I don't know what you mean by dominant I think that's the vanilla default. it's memetic though, through association of the male being larger and stronger. nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:21 AM
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That wasn't a helpful reply. I'll give a response of a similar caliber to illustrate this: no, YOU'RE very mistaken lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:53 PM
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what about average looking men of the age cohort (so usually slim, "cute" face with hair, 5'10")? I know it's annoying to bring up but since you have observational experience I am curious on this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:37 PM
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I don’t think penis size impacts the quantity of casual sex one could have, since even if you have a dick size preference, typically once you’re seeing his dick in the first place you’re already pretty committed to having sex with him. I've been saying this for years. I'm 7" but it never sees any action unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:59 PM
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Ah the Walmart meme. Gotta love rhetoric right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:29 PM
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You seem like a balanced, reasonable woman I've cheated on every bf I ever had nvm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:37 AM
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I used to make a comment of this caliber in so many threads. Once you spend enough time on this sub the pattern presents itself. Both sides tend to do it though. RP likes to pride themselves on the studies and science, but will make exceptions and say anecdotes are trustworthy when it suits them The true redpill was here all along^
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:52 AM
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Really? Because the odds of living with parents will be the same for both genders, and like top comments were saying bar is low if she likes him. Is a 23 year old girl who lives with parents going to pass up a cute 25 year old guy who also lives with parents for whatever reason? (let's assume he doesn't have a mental disability or other problem)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:18 AM
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Then when she says something they don't agree with, it's "uuuh watch her actions not her words"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:02 AM
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This is why I specifically seek out bisexual women and only hang around lib circles (actual city ones I know you will all rebuff with "muh middle america gorls ain't much different truck burger rifle yeehaw")
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:09 PM
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gay male dating culture is much less commitment focused. This tends to be an issue for many bi and gay men who want a settled monogamous bf. It might be easy for a woman to lock a straight man down if his options are limited, but a gay/bi man's options are not limited...and odds are he will be bored with one sexual partner. I know I was, I am no different, and all the guys I saw were the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:06 PM
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There's zero point in engaging you further. Clearly this is a political issue for you now. Fine, if you don't want to engage rationally be my guest. When you resort to petty rhetoric by a simple 1-2 reaction I would be less likely to engage as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 05:32 AM
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Why.... uh... why are your height/weight stats in your flair? Because I want to. Everything you said is incorrect. Only "very broken girls" use online dating? You sound really bitter, Ok. Perhaps I should have further clarified to mean girls who sleep around. I shall continue to use the word "girls" too as it is what I consider my age group. I also call guys or boys my age just that. People meet alllllll the time in many other ways than being "the affable and the pleasant" who go out on the town…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 04:57 AM
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This is a thought I have but who knows who will agree... I find that the isolation by some in the population to be a rather useful selection tool, as it means that the affable and the pleasant are the majority of those meeting irl, in places other than nightclubs. certain bars or live performance places like a jazz club can still be great social areas, if you have the capital that is. Not to mention some professions and hobbies which allow meeting others. The bitter antisocial people who stay in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:20 AM
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Sadie Hawkins dances, where the girls asked out the guys. Because all the girls would ask out the same one or two guys. I've been looking over many searches from both Google and Duck and can't find anything regarding this. Is it a buried truth? Is it real and common for all of those?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:29 AM
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wouldn't taking a norepinephrine reuptake inhibitor increase stress levels? This is currently being researched quite a bit, called the neurepinephrin paradox or something like that. The thing about NE unlike epinephrine is that it's circulating all the time and has more regulatory functions, usually for functioning alertness and yeah if too high it can cause some stress but that-s mainly cortisol (I'm sure you know this I'm just saying my thoughts) Also cold showers purport to increase NE and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:31 PM
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I mean it could be that I take antidepressants, rn it's bupropion since the serotonin actors would reduce motivation somewhat but now that I have an ndri it's different, though my anxiety is through the roof
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:12 PM
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Because there are people, like me, who have gone for a month and not detected a sliver of a benefit. Solution? "Go 90 days brah" why not? Because I'm blue balling myself for what seems to have very little evidence of benefit. I did nofap. Where is my gf? I was promised gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:27 AM
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What are you doing when you're not in class or studying...most if the time? I play video games at home. I haven't spoken to my friends in years (since covids) Current GPA, year, and target degree? 3.0 lower junior Linguistics 😎 lol I really have no excuse for being home all day but girls scare me that's why I didn't talk to them when I went to a mixed chorus, I would look at the floor then leave immediately when the practice was over
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:56 PM
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this is why I have my flair up as the context is important. If your state is so bad, I am also a virgin and not by choice, and according to men on the internet I supposedly have no excuse. Maybe. But if it's so easy I should still have a gf anyway right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:04 AM
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it is though, and to the extreme look at my flair. I am in college. I am a virgin, and not by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:55 AM
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But this is what it looks like for the average thin man. Then he bulks up and suddenly his shoulders grow. Even if it's by an inch it makes a difference, somehow I am thin and used to think about small bones but seeing so many "before after" of skinny-athletics/toned it makes me think thin frame is not a thing. You could say it's doctored but that means all of them are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:55 PM
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lala land eggy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:23 AM
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I always found "small bone structure" to be a very ill-defined term. The word itself makes it sound like someone has arthritis or low bone density, which is a serious medical condition. If it means "ectomorph" then I can tell you there are many fitness youtubers who would be called that if they didn't work out. Even people who only put on modest mass. The "padding" that soft tissue provides (muscle ideally) will, if anything, grant the illusion of size regardless of the "thickness"(whatever tf t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:10 AM
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Me, previously: I think I'll whip out my notepad and start writing every single guy I see. I have neither the resources nor the gall to perform a case study unfortunately Here's a good source you might like
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:32 AM
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These are statistics based on ALL age brackets. I am talking about under 25 or 30 in college. I think I'll whip out my notepad and start writing every single guy I see. I have neither the resources nor the gall to perform a case study unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:17 AM
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Checked all the boxes! Where's my gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:02 PM
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26.6 bmi jaaeeez If I had more income I'd be chad lol, tho at my age money matters a lot less. Although, I notice at my school many more guys are quite thin, probably from low nutrition diets and higher metabolisms. But ofc their looksmatch would be an overweight girl because twice as many girls are overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:13 PM
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This is high magnitude heresy on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:57 PM
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In regards to the overweight girl...I'm sorry but I really think you or HER are exaggerating the truth, or you both are twisting/lying in some way to further your point of view. I am somewhat "purple pilled" and even I can tell you that the attention this girl is getting is not going to be consistent. I do believe you when you describe her boyfriend, and I also believe you when you describe her bumble (gonna assume it's not literally 1,000 unless she was active for years). But that "she tells me…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 09:03 PM
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That's what makes it bad it continues to reinforce the perception that it is real life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:47 PM
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Don't listen to his last point. It doesn't make sense, that is a photograph. Expressions are irrelevant. You are smack-dab average. A 5/10. A normie. What this means is you will still have trouble, especially if you go for attractive women, and even more so if your social skills/resources are lacking. I am speaking from experience as a "5/10" However, it does not mean it is impossible or over. But you definitely need to keep your expectations in check. For men of our looks we will be invisible b…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/22 06:23 PM
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I find it interesting that 50-60% of PPD men are purportedly good looking. Of course confidence is a valuable trait, wish I had more of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:14 PM
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I can make friends with girls because I always presume that is all I will get from them. On occasion (after investing of course, I am not attractive) they will seem to have more interest but by then I can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:19 AM
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I am a stripper I try to put on airs like I'm mature, but I can't. This is as far as I dare go for the sake of civility 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:13 AM
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With autism itself, not really, it was kind of subclinical (though I was diagnosed by DSM-5 NOT DSM-4) In my younger years, I lagged considerably in my social development. But it caught up, and I got severe social anxiety and bad esteem which of course haunts me to this day. It's not conducive to even making friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:57 AM
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I'm already gearing up for this. I don't even have access to relationships let alone casual. In my age group, relationships are just a way to get sex on tap and as a guy your looks really do have to be top of the line. Even if the girl you end up with is somewhat pretty (not overweight), which is possible even for average men, those relationships end so fast I can't even blink.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:43 AM
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I think there is a mismatch between those who operate by delayed gratification and those who do not. The former lived their life with an modest work life balance, but school and work would always come first. They were thinking long term and knew that women their age were only fooling around anyway. Then when they grow up, the start reading trp and the FOMO sets in. Suddenly that life they built up is worthless because they didn't get to spend the first half of it in excitement. They were more "s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:36 AM
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This is posted in exredpill for some reason...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:27 AM
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I'm thin but I have no gf because I have a mental disease. However, I do find that as long as the man is average height, or better, taller, then he can get girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:02 PM
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what I also think is interesting is that by having women fill these non-combative roles, they are doing things that conscripted men could've otherwise done, thereby lowering males' odds of survival further (as more men are placed in combat roles). So maybe in that way, conscripting women is actually worse
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:46 AM
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Why do you guys always use the extreme? I thought we acknowledged that average men had similarly large challenges in dating. Take me for example (my stats are in my flair). I'm way low on the totem pole based on my results
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:30 AM
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Many of the paleo-life bio-determinists don't want to hear this but SNRIs have changed my life. I still have a ways to go but they definitely have made my social anxiety much more manageable, and the "charm" I have that only comes out with people I am already familiar with can be more readily expressed to even strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:53 PM
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Lol they used Araki for the 4 Asian Whoever made this was a Jojo fan
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:04 PM
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But in reality women go for all sorts of men. I knew a hot girl who only dated somewhat cute, low EQ math nerds in college. (Her husband is much more matched to her looks / social skills.) She’s not the exception, either! I know several girls who dated duds in college, who married a much more attractive man later. Oh lordy you are going to get burned at the stake for this one. Honestly not sure how to respond because I definitely don't have enough anecdotal data to verify this, but I do often wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:19 AM
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I think that's just a subjective perspective. You can say "young romance" is whatever you want to but it's always arbitrary, pulled out of thin air, made up, not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:19 PM
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Women give birth so they will be sought out moreso then Men. This doesn't add up. Women don't give birth as much now yet their value has only skyrocketted since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:57 AM
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I should add that edit: done
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:17 AM
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Hey bro, did my flair inspire you to make this post or something 😂 I've had this flair for months now Also, even if it makes me seem to have "decent" or "average" I get to share my experiences of romantic failure because all of my problems are honestly mental (social anxiety, general isolation habits)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:16 AM
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Will WWIII tip the dating market scale in favor of men? Some here like to talk about how wars balanced female hypergamy by removing half the men thus forcing women to compromise standards which would otherwise continuously climb higher and higher. I don't think it will change anything though. A lot of blame is placed on certain dating apps and a war will not erase those. Of course, I sometimes question of said dating apps really have such a huge real world effect that they cancel out every other…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:28 PM
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I agree and it reminds me of the classic sitcom plot where a man gets some type of jacket and becomes attractive to women through his "swagger" and believes it to be magic (Seinfeld, Brooklyn 99)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:20 PM
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I can believe it I suppose, but if women had standards that low the world would be a paradise. I'm sure you value other things
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:54 PM
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When a woman says yummy or delicious it usually means attractive which usually means tall and muscular So maybe not necessarily the 6 figure part, you want a tall and muscular man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:47 PM
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This may not be entirely relevant but I often wonder how truly convincing do the rp men of this sub even find these women's answers? Because to me it looks like they get immediately invalidated by being told that the women who answer are either: Telling the truth, but they are an "exception not the rule" Are too old to be valid for what a "true" rp man wants, or they are married They are lying, whether they believe it or not, "what she does not what she says, facta non verba" So whenever I see t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:35 PM
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I think that whole "men age like wine" thing has more to do with older women's smv drop as well as maybe an increased desire to settle. Basically a "beta bucks" (though he doesn't need to be filthy rich) So yeah in a way men's time will come but with women their age. Now whether we say it's "maturity" or "afbb" is a matter of perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:05 AM
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I have never seen anyone hide their height that much I just have my stats in my flair, for some reason. I think maybe it gives people context on my perspective since that's what this whole sub is about anyway. Just people relaying personal experience and arriving nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:07 AM
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I know but it's /soc/, they post pics so either they really pass or they're real
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:40 AM
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Attraction is subjective Wuh-oh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:00 PM
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Wow, so when girls called me average on the rate me threads on 4chan it really meant I was top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:58 PM
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A hippie paradise is an asexual one?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:55 AM
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Yeah same. I had to pay for it but that obviously doesn't put me even in the category of someone who had sex twice with ltrs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:26 AM
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Well for guns, if someone has the advantage of position, ie the muzzle is pointed at the target and it's not currently being wrestled away from them, then women should be able to perform equally well to men as long as they are trained to use the firearm. Melee combat though is different, obviously, because comparative physical strength is a factor
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:18 AM
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Many other countries have nuclear weapons now..and the ones best at it look to be the main belligerents.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:10 AM
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I'm really surprised to see someone from waifuism on ppd. I used to be in the Discord but I wanted to separate myself from the drama. Also the members tend to be very young and a little overly sensitive...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:06 PM
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I'm also in the second category (honestly surprised there's someone else on this sub!), but for me it's not as important as it was when I was 16-19. That was basically my "incel phase" and I essentially just rationalized that this was the only good and safe way to fulfill my desire for a relationship. Sure I wouldn't be able to "share" with others, but I tended to isolate anyway so that wouldn't be a problem. Obviously, I don't have nor have ever had a girlfriend, and I don't expect to anytime s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:04 PM
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If the secret cheat code to pickup was "get drugs cuz women want free drugs" then why don't men do that? Hell, you probably don't even have to use, just hold or distribute lol. Ok guys I'm done with this subreddit and all the negative sites, time to get laid see you never 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:50 AM
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He can want it all he wants, and there are many many of them who do To quote Hank Schrader: "I want Shania Twain to give me a tuggy. Guess what? That ain’t happening either.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:44 AM
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I don't think men have "modernized" then, they have always been desperate for sex and validation from women, and I 100% think that men who want to date girl bosses and tomboys (and these men are usually very aggressive or forthcoming themselves since they are the ones women select) are genuinely attracted to them because a girls personality only matters in dating to the extent that she is not an ass, or cheats, or hates him. Women are in complete control of most relationships and it will be even…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:11 AM
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So only the women have biological "needs" or "instincts," but men are capable of eschewing their natural programming in favor of a greater good? Well I guess you're not such a No Pill after all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:07 AM
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That's the baseline, as is every other display of "bravery." You can only lose points on the "timidity" scale, not gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:01 AM
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Ah yes, courageous and meek "persons," because the gender doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:00 AM
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Ok, if the double standard matters so much (women must be submissive and feminine), then...why does it actually NOT matter in real life? Are the girl bosses and tomboys losing out in dating? Because the timid, gentle men are losing out in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:58 AM
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If you say so. Many of your replies are indicative of what I would call "healthy" or "mature" redpill. But call it what you will, I do not argue semantics 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:05 PM
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You say they have diagnosed anxiety issues, but ever since DSM-5 came out you gotta recognize that the weight of a "diagnosis" is essentially that of a feather now. I do not know their situation, but I do know that if they were so terribly anxious that they did not interact with girls often or they only did so on an acquaintance level, then their only grace would be luck. You can see my stats in my flair. I have also been complimented, modestly but unprompted, on my face or other aspects at time…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:03 PM
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Honestly you're one of the few true redpillers on this sub, because God knows 90% of the men here are blackpill. They lack a sense of worldliness because of youth or isolation and usually both and it's nearly impossible to argue when their perception of reality is so vastly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:56 PM
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Yes, trp argues for broad generalizations. That's the information we value because that says more about what most people go through. The average man has to compete for the average woman. He can't. Therefore, shit sucks. How is this elementary logic so difficult to follow?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:54 PM
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Why does every ppd woman say "my version of Chad is ______ random celebrity" or "I find _______ attractive"? It ultimately changes nothing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:54 PM
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Do you mean that only or just "high smv"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:33 AM
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This sounds like your typical "hurt in a relationship and bitter about it." Girls do it too I don't like making fun of them though because I tend to see someone in pain, but they need someone to turn them to be more objective and not internalize this as a worldview. But that's how every human is. What can you do 🤷‍♂️
/r/ExRedPill02/02/22 06:30 AM
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Simply incorrect. After all, the good father figures on PPD said that most young men are actually desperate to settle down and find a wife for easy sex early in life while their smv is low. SMV is negatively correlated with desire to settle, hence the mismatch in life stages between genders. Where did you hear that young men want to sleep around lol? Most of them can't and the ones that attempt to discover quickly that their only hope is get a long term gf or better a wife. The average man could…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:35 AM
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Some women Key word "some" lol Don't you hear "exception not the rule" enough on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:27 AM
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Well obviously by the time women that age are 30 and ready to settle down, then those men are attractive. I'm sure maybe the men improved a little bit but their personalities might still be fundamentally the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:48 AM
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Confirmed most likely. She posted to /makeup and likes romance novels
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:43 AM
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I don't know about face structures being much of a hindrance if it's average though. I've known people with tons of facial flaws, but they have height, fitness, and (I hate saying it) ""confidence"". People's faces vary so much and it's way more subjective. Like the eyelid thing you mentioned is not hard and fast, maybe the canthal tilt (not being negative) but you don't need hooded eyes really. I do agree with the third proportions though, but as long as it comes closest to a perceived "attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:31 AM
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This was originally a redpill/pua concept no? They called it "the six sixes" the other three being "6 inches below the belt, 600 horsepower engine, and 6 months since last relationship" though the 3 mentioned in OP are much more believable tbh...idk women asking for your engine's horsepower
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:21 PM
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My bf is about 12% where is my gf? 🤔🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:46 PM
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"Watch what they do not what they say, unless what they say fits my confirmation bias"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:34 PM
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This is why
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:23 PM
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If this is true then why does the other side claim their experience is different? If it truly is a matter of perspective then even the analyses people do of "The Stats" will be subjective. Like religion, how is one more true than another, of whose followers believe in it just as strongly?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:05 PM
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I inb4'd this in my second paragraph. You can respond to it if you want 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:00 PM
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Yeah as pessimistic as I am I've met to many women who like thin. I've also met many women who claim to have a type and then date a man the opposite of that. The only physical thing many can't get over is a guy who is obese, much shorter than her, or rather ugly. Not the case for men though. Men know what they want physically even if it's a very wide range. If he doesn't like women with a certain body type or face the only reason he'd date is that he's desperate and that relationship will not la…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:56 PM
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They must be exceptionally fat (common) or exceptionally ugly. Both cause a major malformation in face, and being fat changes the way our brains think a human body should look. This is called unfuckability. The same unfuckability rule would also apply to men if women didn't have unreadable standards, and often it is things unrelated to looks alone. That's something that everyone here has a different idea on, keeping this sub active. "The debate rages on" and there will never be a truly objective…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:52 PM
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Because I hate myself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:23 PM
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I have a brain like that and I'm straight. Am I doomed?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:22 PM
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Damn so if let's say a man's brain has that kind of neuroticism (me) then...I am justified in my conclusion that I am fembrained and I should give up on being typical masculine and act like a woman the end. Sad days for the man who scores high on neuroticism and has anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:22 PM
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Certain types of women (introverted, nerdy, dyed hair, read books, browse ppd) will not give up their principles for a guy just from his looks. In fact, he can look good but then if they don't like him (for instance he is conservative or republican) they will point out flaws. There are the ones who guilt fuck but honestly that sounds like a story trope. Never seen it happen only guys bragging that it did "like bro girls like that LOVE trump supporters I once went to a blm rally and fucked one"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:17 PM
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Interesting, also now that I know it's Czechia I can say I've heard good things about their dating market. Same with a lot of slavs
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:57 PM
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I always do find these takes interesting. It goes to show that the anecdotes really do vary wildly, so it's like one moment I can feel a little sad when a guy (usually an american) tells his story of how even though he is supposedly jacked and hot, women ignore him, then someone like you comes and I feel better lol. Some terpers like to say anecdotes are so valuable, but obviously if they vary so wildly in the "result" it seems to me like what you were saying before it's just an issue of perspec…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:58 PM
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My stats are in my flair. I, personally, like my body the way it is. Many beefcakes will say "but don't you wanna get BIG and not be so scrawny?" And I say "you are assigning negative value to a bmi which is considered medically healthy. I simply have no desire to be big. You do, I don't" Now, of course I feel from time to time that I must get "jacked" because maybe I'd do better dating if I was (and by better I mean at all), but from my observations this doesn't seem to be such a decisive facto…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:27 AM
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This take is a little insane lol...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:06 AM
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See this is strange to me. The pattern I notice is just this, and to me it seems there can only be a few possibilities: You two either underestimate your attractiveness (unlikely given the stats you provided) You two have different ideas of what it means to be "approached" Male 1 never puts himself in positions to be approached, and either spends his time alone or exclusively asks girls out aggressively Or if Male 1 isn't white then American girls just don't like approaching non white men, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:57 AM
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Go sis! Go queen! Skskskssks 💅💅💅💅💅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:26 AM
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Because I was mostly kidding and I'm not actually effeminate 🥺. Hoping maybe you could tell by the tone of my reply but you might have autism so that's ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:39 PM
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kiss me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:30 AM
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I don't mean how you might feel personally. I'm speaking of how the consensus seems (to me of course since this isn't science lol this is ppd)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:28 AM
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Chad doesn't have to be good at sex It's like this: what does having a large penis do for the average looking guy when she can't see him naked?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:50 AM
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At age 20 with a ho with issues. Then many prostitutes because I hate myself and don't think I can ever get one without paying (except the first girl)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:35 AM
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This seems contrary to point many men seem to make, which is that "a man's value is only in what he has/does" It almost feels like the men saying that got shafted after flaunting resources? But I dont know I'm just a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:32 AM
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I enjoy speaking in broken English as I find it gets my point across easier. This sub likes to repeat certain talking points, therefore comprehensive English is not required.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:33 AM
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You live in Middle America
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:32 AM
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Well I am part of the numale effeminate under 25 crowd living in NYC and I can tell you it's IN sister and the women dig it. Girl girl sister sister something something ska ska my nails my hair. Enjoy your "pick up trucks" and "gun" while I have "sex." We get you're a Manly man who eat "burger" and has the car grease on his hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:30 AM
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No I don't think so. Nowadays, in first world Anglosphere at least, it's really just a VERY STRICT cutoff at 18. 19 male with 17 girl? Pedophile. 30 male with 20 girl? Good to go
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:16 AM
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Do you speak English?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:09 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/omf2q3/july_2021_ppd_demographic_survery_results/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share Woops i meant 30%
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:50 PM
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Part of me appreciates seeing the pain that comes from relationships, both from people in my life(ie peers my age) and those telling stories on trp subs (older men). But I also sometimes feel a little miffed that I never got to have an "innocent" relationship because I already feel jaded before having even attempted. It just makes a nice excuse for me to not even approach women because of my anxiety lol. it's also really telling that ~85% of the young men on this sub report being virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:23 PM
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You can't rlly convince them. Their stories will be negative yours will be positive. This is literally every "debate" on PPD lol "I have seen ______ do ________!" "Well that is not what I have seen." "These studies suggest __________" "Well these studies suggest otherwise!"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:13 AM
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Look at my flair. My face is at least average though some say more. I only got to have sex once, last year. The rest of the time was paid so doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 10:00 PM
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Hm, I still do not think that is AWALT, just sounds like "liberal artist" stereotype. AWALT is really meant to be more universal, and specifically used to describe characteristics that all women share (as opposed to ones which men share, and those which are less universally cultural) Though, the AWALT here might perhaps be "these women are following a crowd" though tbh I have seen men fill these "subcultures" just less of them. But socialism is not AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:51 AM
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It could perhaps be that you have a conscientious sense of hesitation with things (that may carry risk). So...the definition of conscientious, and perhaps introversion Obvious explanation is obvious I know but felt smart and no one is saying it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:45 AM
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I am curious but what were they like? Was it worst of the worst "AWALT" like "only top 10% of men, need hypergamy like oxygen, will act like a passive pillow princess with interactions" or just slightly less Cuz idk your NAWALT example just seems like an outlier of a human person. Normies are normies, but it certainly isn't synonymous with AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:40 AM
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Depends on your levels, but if you're below 600 I'd say it could help. Unfortunately, you say "TRT" as though you're hoping the legal route (through a clinic) will help you. It is unlikely that you will be below 300 ng/dl, and so your everyday endocrinologist will most likely refuse to treat even if you are at 400, some even refuse if you aren't precisely below 300. Of course, lifestyle should be your first line of treatment, but even with that taken care of you might not necessarily respond to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:08 PM
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yeah but this place I think is more blackpilled than trp tbh tbh...which is why OP probably felt compelled to post it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:55 PM
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Many of these women concede and fuck the hot guy in hopes of getting a relationship though. They are NOT content when he spins or dumps them. Maybe it only take them once, maybe it takes until 30 when we have the classic afbb situation. It exists on grades depending on the individual and I would posit this stratification hasn't changed too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 04:43 PM
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An average woman who wants attention from men can get a whole lot of it if she has an Instagram account. So I barely see this play out. Do you think you could provide some examples of the phenomenon? I see girls that I know have Instagram accounts. They can be preeetty exhibitionist but the only compliments they receive will be from the girlfriends or gay friends. If a man says anything it would just be very very awkward, even if he never sees her in real life. Now if a girl exhibits to stranger…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:22 PM
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I agree slightly with this post, but I'm seeing comments from out-of-tough boomers getting Best even though all they're doing is theorizing based on what The Internet keeps telling them about the ubiquity of online dating. To me, it seems that in real life many men actually ARE checking out, voluntarily that is, because they keep listening to the Best posters and other people telling them it's hopeless because of...a phone app? Dating has always been hard and scary, but the women didn't magicall…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:56 PM
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The coomer He rationalizes Finds a way to make time Sneeze in paper Thankyou
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:43 AM
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:( im sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:24 PM
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I don't know the types of girls you go after or how you behave around them. I can say that it sounds as though you're going for vapidity else any girl but with limited (not enough) investment into them. You say yourself they want their ego stroked, so maybe these girls you speak of want to be simped for? I can't quite wrap my head around your problem though. You say you get approached by these girls yet are rejected nevertheless. This to me can only mean that you're fucking up in some way, but w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:55 PM
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I don't think you know who I mean. I'm thinking of various men who I would describe as very very dead center average getting women who are at least fuckable. The only thing they have that I don't is a very affable demeanor and solid social life. I just see the girls go try out every guy in their group until one sticks and it seems random but that to me is a way that is genuine. If it's a "hey babe" hookup then yeah she's hot for you but the investment is lower and the odds of the relationship la…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:21 AM
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Well call me a naïve idealist. I just can't come to a compromise, and when I observe men in genuine, non superficial relationships it gives me hope that I don't have to be that way. I used to have an ego trip about this and that masculine get big be dominant bla bla bla but some men don't need that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:08 AM
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Yes lol your last point just reaffirmed what I said. Unless that's really what you meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:47 AM
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I stuck with a friend who was social. He helped ease me into it, somewhat. Also working helped. Did nothing for dating prospects though, social skills tend not to matter much as long as you have the baseline
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:23 AM
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Consider how you frame the relationship as a zero-sum game, it makes it hard to respect all women which include your partner, you see her as replaceable, you grow paranoid about if she really loves "you" or just your looks, money, status, etc. This is why I have trouble getting into heavy looksmaxing the way some people on the internet do...I want a long term relationship, but even if I increased the odds of getting girls, I wouldn't be as certain that she was less superficial than I need. If I …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:12 AM
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I guess Teigen looks a little older but she's still beautiful to me (if she's trans tell me now because I don't know) and Jenner is a super model so yes. In fact, all of the ig women are super models and would therefore have to be objectively attractive. Maybe a couple men will lie to themselves and say "I don't like the under the knife look they have" but that's it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:49 AM
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Well in this case you maybe could have shown "average" looking women of varying races and phenotypes, rather than extremes of drop dead gorgeous vs fat. There's going to be pretty much no variation among men when you present them with such obvious extremes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:45 AM
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All men would like the Instagram models As for the older Facebook women, well, it'd be men who have settled. Or maybe they got married early and they are no longer in their prime I'm curious to know what the purpose of this was? Isn't it plain as day obvious? We're all smart cookies here, all on the same page lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:36 AM
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Yes, watch them stand closer to the prettier ones because they're scared of the brutish looking guys giving them that sigma stare
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:32 AM
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Instagram=7 ups Facebook=4 belows Very well engineered...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:28 AM
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It correlates with low birthrates but not necessarily sexlessness. The combination of highly available birth control plus the advanced shucking of the "big family tradition" as having more kids was an unnecessary burden to a large post industrial economy rather than a survival tactic. Of course, it is more likely that on the individual level it is primarily about lower education and lower birth control, rather than a conscious motivation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:04 PM
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Giga chad debate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 08:32 PM
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Maybe in the Anglosphere or on the "trad feudal side" third world countries and eastern europe, but places in Western Europe and Latin America still have some type of romance. I mean, it's what their language family is called after all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 07:28 PM
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what ​ why
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:21 PM
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ok, here goes...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:27 PM
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Ppl in the male fitness community always say "don't work out for girls, do it for yourself" like ok guess I won't do it then, I don't have a high bf% and I get blood work every year so I know I'm healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 03:18 PM
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I would say definitely a higher percentage than the woman who are willing to do it, therefore that "1%" might as well be like...LGBT statistics which everyone on this site loves dismissing but thats not so here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:02 PM
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the guy who would spend all day long talking about pokemon Damn, guess I'm screwed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:39 PM
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I agree with all this, though I do find in the Metropoloi that while there are still many straight women, the liberal attitude and education actually makes them more accepting of that. Also idk where people got the notion that competition is tougher here, I think that maybe applies to the really high income crowds but they're like the top 5%. Just look at my stats, and I do ok even on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 07:48 AM
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The grievance lies in the perceived double standard. Of course, a man wants generally good things for himself, but what if he is relatively minimalistic but still wants female companionship? He must then want these for women only, or as some social response. This is me. It sucks but I have no choice otherwise my mind will panic. Anyway, does it make him shitty? Even if he is striving for what he considers his best, and he is happy with it, that may simply not be enough for many women who are soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:56 AM
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not attractive to her I do not believe this to be a sweeping factor throughout most of history, because I think the reason for this lack of "raw, sexual" attraction is partially because it is not valued. If, in the past, couples experienced dead bedrooms, it was socialized that this was to be so, and if the woman was so repulsed by the man (which, according to you would be ~80% of couples) then she was only doing it because he pressured her. But again, I think women were not repulsed they just w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:56 PM
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I fixed my formatting. You needn't fly in so fast while I was in the middle of editing it, not my fault Reddit won't keep markdown mode the way it's supposed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:41 PM
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That would have to be above ultraviolet pill
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:30 PM
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Everything with a lower frequency than the color red
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:45 AM
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I would be somewhere else on the electromagnetic spectrum entirely: UHF Radiowave Pill Basically even MORE red than even the rare Infrared Pill
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:36 AM
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Oof I wish to know what makes my little joke "oof" 🤨😐🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:34 AM
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Well I think what's happening is we are pairing the Baby Boys with the Mommy Milkies
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:56 PM
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I know but it's so nice not being pressured to cite sources because everyone here is still on the same page with the basics. Other "debate" subs' users demand MLA citation on every comment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:04 PM
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Women are still more drawn to masculine features/behaviors in men, but have themselves become more masculine in behavior… I disagree This is not really a verifiable premise though. I simply disagree based on anecdotes. Man that was satisfying
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:08 PM
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It was like 60% virgin men under 25 I think was the majority. The rest is equally mixed, though most of the men are young and most of the women are old and married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:03 PM
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Ok what about penis enlargement? Those are one of your factors. And then the big one you are magically and shockingly forgetting is any kind of facial operation. There are a number of bone structure related flaws that can be fixed with simple but expensive procedures like chin, jaw, brow, cheek implants. Rhinoplasty. And for the truly fucked, you can do really invasive but still likely recoverable lefort operations for a messed up jaw, or maybe an osteotomy for that strange growth on your forehe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:59 AM
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Dick size? Because if the girl can see your dick she is already dating you. Even if people say "muh preselection" that's got to be really inconsistent when it plays out irl. Face and height, well, yes. Just make sure that if you are 6'0" don't ever let her see you stand next to a taller guy. Will instantly friendzone /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:55 AM
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hook up minimally but at just the rate that keeps you mentally confident, then spend the rest of the time weeding for a personality dream girl aggressively. Gonna mention the obvious incoming rebuttal that reflects the current atmosphere (of mostly young manosphere men) that most men are incapable (not challenged) of attaining this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:15 PM
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Funny
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:47 AM
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Perhaps I misunderstand the intention of your first comment. Do you mean to say "if a man doesn't ask, he doesn't get" or "anyone who doesn't ask"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:55 PM
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My critique of essentialism is not to say "as opposed to empiricism" since these things are not even in the same dimension. Essentialist thought leads to patterns like "emotions are feminine" which leads to "if you express too many emotions as a male that is bad and you need to stop it." If not brought to this extent then so be it, but Western trains of thought are not big on things like dualism, but instead there is something more like an absolutist appeal to nature. It's an arbitrary associati…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:34 PM
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Ok, I will adopt this attitude with girls. It will surely get me far.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:28 PM
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I'm not passive with people I know well
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:27 PM
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Wow I'm all of these. Guess I'll stay inside cuz I'm good
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:26 PM
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This sub has become so black it's strange
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:21 PM
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It baffles me that "ask women" is somehow thought to mean "ask the global aggregate woman" when it always ends up as "ask the women who wear sweaters and read e-books while browsing Reddit after writing their personal blogs"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:17 PM
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Just link articles on Jung's animus and anima? Depends on how one feels about metaphysical essentialism. I think modern science is starting to phase out this attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:14 PM
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unless you’re beautiful Ah, guess I can remain thin. I think my height n weight are perfect and if I were to start working out it'd be for the "wrong reasons" (impressing people)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 05:06 PM
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Another factor which may or may not be significant is height and perhaps a youthful look. Either way, thinness is an essential part of the "metrosexual hipster" style and like you're saying it's the same with me, I have on multiple occasions been complimented (by both sexes..this is New York after all) and part of the appeal is the thinness. I'm pretty sure this is just socially conditioned. A lot of the good ol' country boys keep saying it's "muh biology that women just want bigger men" when th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 05:04 PM
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OP should go to a liberal area. In my mind, there's a reason a lot of them are very sexually "experimental" and among those have broader tastes. Slight feminine markers are considered desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 04:00 PM
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Yeah but skinny is still seen as more desirable than husky above all in liberal areas. This may sound kinda stupid and I bet no one will believe me, but the women here like "smart and funny" to a point where it's not exactly a turn on but it seems to pique their interest making them more open to being turned on (maybe by applied status markers or looks) because in the city those things = wealth, whilst the rural country girls associate "strength and integrity" with wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:56 PM
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Yeah...everyone kinda realized it and she would do other things to for no reason. She's still "acquainted" but no one trusts her and now she's dating a first generation Guatemalan boy who is younger and doesn't speak English, probably because she can pussy whip him since she's very attractive and he can't go gossiping to people she knows Yep, lost my virginity to her...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:37 PM
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Any friendship is over after the rejection Seems to be the part that makes some of them ree, idk how 30 year olds do it. It seems to work weirdly in my friend groups (ie girl somehow fucks every guy in the group and gets them mad at eachother)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:47 PM
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Any friendship is over after the rejection Seems to be the part that makes some of them ree, idk how 30 year olds do it. It seems to work weirdly in my friend groups (ie girl somehow fucks every guy in the group and gets them mad at eachother)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:47 PM
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Women count on men being desperate enough for sex or eventual sex that they will be willing to pay. I guess this is exactly how a market works but even more in the female's favor because she only needs one to stick, while a business needs at least some regular business
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:05 AM
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I've seen women check me out of the corner of my eye (note, last two phrases are technically a portmanteau of two phrases) but Im too frightened to look except that one time I noticed a girl on the street doing it, I said "eh I'll give the smile and nod thing a shot" and she got ALL FLUSTERED and looked down smiling I was like "yoooo what" at my age I have never seen that first hand cuz I usually just stand rigidly trying to avoid eye contact lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 03:11 PM
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Exactly, because the male imperative is not monogamy, this is why he controls the relationship (if he is attractive to her). Men that lack control in relationships are in most cases yielding it to the woman, which is why this often occurs during the full committal of marriage. People who say "men don't control relationships" may misunderstand the presuppositions. It presupposes he is already with her, and serves to let the man know that he can essentially yield his commitment to find another wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:56 PM
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This is why the tenets of marriage are not only completely hinged on it but are intrinsic in the pragmatics of the concept itself. Put in good-speak, we know logically that no one person is the best, that there are close seconds or betters. This is a problem that men have to face too, and perhaps even more so because we might desire novelty (in some capacity). Marriage is basically dead on a societal level, and it can suck for the romantics among us. We no longer even have the social (never mind…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 01:47 AM
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I'm glad I never got into the crazy stuff, but I sort of have an idea of what I like and I don't think it's unreasonable tbh. Whenever I feel bad about wanting to call my gf "mommy" I just remember there are men who unironically like getting pooped on or having their testicles smooshed but honestly it's nothing new, weird feitshes have likely be around for awhile but people become more aware of them since the porn exposes them to it. What a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 12:12 AM
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Everything is in my flair and said 13th percentile I use the info for ppl who like having my demographics to give context in my comments
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 05:03 AM
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For me I can't be attracted to a woman if she has more fat distribution in the wrong places (namely face and neck) For some reason I find larger shoulders on women attractive, whether from bone or soft tissue as it actually makes for the upper portion of the "hourglass" in the classic hourglass-figure. But honestly even if she doesn't have a super pinched waist I'd be into her just because my eyes see "big boob and butt" and as long as her face isn't wrecked by obesity then I'm instantly into it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:09 PM
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I think he's trying to say that it's common...because the survey they do here always comes back with like 1/3 of the men here being virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:13 AM
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I will not buy something that a YouTube promotes. I will never give in and constantly yearn for the days of classic youtube
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:03 AM
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I see Youtube has been suggesting those videos to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:02 AM
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Yes, and I'd wager a decent portion of the men here would say more than a year. I do recall the stats of the demographics in this sub even state something like a third of the men are virgins Men who are satisfied with their sex lives often don't concern themselves with pillosphere stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:58 PM
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It seems like none of these rules are ever hard and fast, more dependent on the people we hang around rather than a "universal female"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:13 PM
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It's funny to me that this seems to oppose the narrative of men with a high count being more desirable (due to preselection), but I suppose in a "dating" context women, depending on age, would like the men to have *some* experience (read: not khv) but not so much that he would be a bad partner...or if I'm a hardcore trper then "he would make a bad betabux which isn't what a post-waller wants"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 02:48 PM
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Hm let's see. I am probably outside maybe on average 6 hours a week, I'm extremely shy n when I do go out I never speak or make eye contact and I keep my head down especially near girls. So at my young age let's see I got...3 direct unprompted compliments on my appearance from the opposite sex, a handful more from mild conversational prompting, and perhaps a dozen odd "signals" all since I started college so at 18 basically. Then ofc I got to have one sex token at 20 after sheepishly asking a 9 …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:10 AM
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There's always going to be people who has a large part of their life dedicated to sex Yes, the small percentage of men who have the lion's share. Of course most men don't live this way, otherwise that whole 80/20 thing wouldn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:39 PM
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As an aside to this though...I know women who do something to many guys but not to some. This is indicative of a different behavioral pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:48 PM
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I consider OLD to be a very artificial environment which plays out differently than real life though If you hang around with other college students irl, and the gender balance is skewed in a man's favor, then yeah he still has to compete but it's still statistically skewed in his favor Maybe this simply suggests that the social circle has more to do with it than the mere proof of waving your degree around. Even if you are physically "low value" by global standards, your value has to get bumped u…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:04 PM
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I know this. When I said shaved I meant balding and shaved. It's usually the reason men decide to shave their heads in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:53 PM
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When going bald is more accepted: -be above the age of 25 -shave the sides I don't know why you guys keep referring to Vin Diesel or Pitbull. Even a skinny, sensitive guy who is bald can still be attractive if he is in the right age group and has some social proof to support his age. I feel like a man being overweight puts him at a much much greater disadvantage to his looks, same with women. Having a shaved head can simply make you look "clean." Indeed, it was the style for many Classical civil…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:26 PM
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Jeremy Meeks You know as much as he is touted as an epitome of the "Chad ideal" I often forget that he too is bald. Also, note that all of these gentlemen aren't simply "balding" but their heads are shaved
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:16 PM
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I will so though, being an American I can go somewhere else and things seem different. I think even if we put aside the "appeal to nature" argument against gender role reversal, we can see that in urban environments people might just switch for the hell of it since it becomes "hip" (like in NYC insisting that you use "they them" despite not really being non binary, or claiming you are bisexual when you either hardly are or not at all) and I can tell you women seem even more prone to it, so if be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:30 PM
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I think men know this, the rebuttal tends to be the "dancing monkey" thing which at this point it feels like goal shifting. If not, I feel as though a lot of it does play a role but within the redpill I think we see a lot of the type of men who do struggle socially, ranging from basic social anxiety or neuroticism to full on autism, to some cluster c personality disorders.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:13 AM
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A lot of people say the first one to say I love you loses or the one who cares more loses. I mean maybe not because it kills attraction, but the one saying I love you is the one who actually caught feelings to begin with, thereby creating the perception that the correlation is causationingngn sincerely a snopes premium member who loves science 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:04 AM
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I generally tend to lean sub as a male, which does not serve me well. I say lean because my behavior doesn't really suggest it in the stereotypical way. Unfortunately, unlike what the top comment says it's not merely a fetish, but moreso my ability to even enjoy "sex" (see: masturbation alone) rides on the fantasy of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:32 AM
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At first I was about to correct you then I realized it's a joke. I guess the context automatically just made me think of the blogger guy instead of the gentleman he was named after.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:50 AM
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Maybe. But is working on yourself just for the benefit of "get gf" really worth in the end? Sure many people argue that men only ever get out of bed in the morning and build a career for the end goal of pussy, but to me I feel like simply releasing gives me more focus. I've gone months without and as far as I can tell it just seems like something that only works for some people, but not everyone. After all, if someone has a partner does it truly mean they've reached the pinnacle of male achievem…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:24 AM
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But you assume men can get sex partners. I've heard the sentiment: porn use is a symptom not a cause of male sexlessness
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:04 AM
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Where is my 30 yo mommy gf then hm?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 10:41 PM
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This is an internet talk thing I've never actually seen this. Honestly the difference between flirty and friendly is obvious to me and this is coming from someone who isn't that attractive so I do notice a difference. But if guys want to be stupid that's their decision lol. In any case, why does it matter whether the girl is signaling in the end because the guy still has to make a move. And even then a girl might act kinda uninterested at first then as she gets to know you, she'll do things like…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:08 PM
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Aaand once again we learn that online dating is complete horseshit for finding meaningful LTRs especially at his age
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:15 AM
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"Studies show that Reddit men are 3x as likely to be virgin" says new report done by manosphere sympathizers and right wing extremist group "Purple Pill Debate"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:27 AM
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Same here. These mods are on a wholenother level
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:24 AM
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close to dangerously underweight observe destruction
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 11:41 PM
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My goal rn is to get to 160 and toned Why do I have to gain weight though? I'm still somewhat attractive without it 😌 who knows maybe I like being a skelington
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 11:34 PM
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Yeah working on that just so I can complain me even after taking care of it 😂 (please don't ban me mrsdrgree)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 11:11 PM
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How did this sub get so depressing? Honestly the ban I got was probably for the best since now I'm looking back here and the nihilism just seems way more than usual. Plus, a LOT of definitive and stubborn statements from individuals who were cast a bad lot And yet I can never bring myself to just delete Reddit. Maybe kids under 30 should just never look here, it's one thing to be a brooding middle ager who's just cynical because of their bad experiences but I'm vicariously cynical when maybe the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 10:26 PM
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she has to it balls completely in her purse What?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:55 AM
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Well, I think the only thing they have right about it is that it signals value in some way for the man, both as a provider and possibly a protector. I find that culture and sometimes personality tend to influence to what extent "money" on its own is attractive to women (not necessarily gold diggers, but women who are attracted to the well-to-do man rather than using him for his money) There are other ways to signal value though, and especially in first-world countries where money is not consider…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/21 11:14 PM
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sodium nitrate Oh my God one guy called it "saltpeter" and now someone else got it wrong. Why do you all dogfuck me so? Read my comment again. Do you remember how the nomenclature of polyatomic oxygen anions works?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:29 AM
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https://archive.ph/ZR9xh Did it for you cuz ur old lady that don't know how to Internet and get paywall articles for free
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:08 AM
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Yup, all 55% of them Idk, most of my dating cynicism had to do with bb, but Im starting to think that bbs and gold diggers are different concepts whereas trp tends to make them synonymous at times, or at least gives the impression of such.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:39 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 10:23 PM
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Yes, that's average My face and body are gross so it brings it down
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:05 PM
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Because I frequent sanctioned...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:02 PM
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Would you like to see my body? 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 08:36 PM
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Not really. I see guys shorter than me who get more though and it's because they take a very aggressive approach
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 08:19 PM
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I live in NYC but im not sure about it being 80/20 per se. I'm pretty average all around maybe below you can ask for pic in DMs, 6'0 140 lbs and white at 21 and even I still get tang It seems to me like it's more about the behavior of the men, and maybe comes out to 80/20 but for a man to get to 20 he just has to throw out his inhibitions and politics and go chase strange. The girls at my age are so easy the just go "heehee ok"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 08:11 PM
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Damn the statistics are really depressing. Honestly at this point sodium nitrite is really looking like a good option. The old folks get to throw in the towel but I'm still only 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 07:28 PM
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What? Exhibit Þ
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 05:48 AM
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A lot of these guys will just fundamentally never understand or accept the truth about why they can’t get women to pay them any attention. Thankyou, finally someone agrees that the answer is in fact looks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 05:44 AM
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He was probably over 5'10" at least and white that's all that matters Or maybe it's cuz he's big but not skinny? Or all his partners were escorts? Or from Thailand? Who tf knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:23 AM
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Where is my 35 year old mommy gf then? They're supposed to have the same smv as me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:41 AM
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I want to marry a milf but even tho trp says they're supposed to have the same smv as me they all select against me and only girls my age like me ☹
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:39 AM
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Rationally speaking a man must evaluate whether the choice of real women will truly be more fulfilling to him. Even if real sex is better your body doesn't know the difference. I suppose I'm not quite a 4/10 but I don't like to flatter myself as I'm already narcissistic about other traits of mine. That being said, I am not one to typically enjoy the company of people. It simply does nothing for me. Therefore, the massage parlors I frequent and the VR porn I watch is to me a "meal" or a way to sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:35 AM
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Truerateme tends toward underrating, and for a man usually a 5 can mean "average looking but not pretty" which to the 90% male population of truerateme is "average." I got rated a 4 there but still get approached by women. They really do not play around on that sub and realistically you're better off listening to unprompted comments from other women irl.
/r/seduction03/06/21 12:48 AM
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21 here and I've done a lot of research on prostitution in the US, in my city, and other parts as well as some mongering experience and I can tell you that, while the girls from SC tend to be young and hot they are very rarely experienced the way that a proper Escort or Massage Parlor working for $300 an hour will treat you. This guy wants hookups so bad but a decent escort will spoil you so much it's hard to go back to some random drunk hookup. Guys who act like it's so much better just have a …
/r/seduction02/06/21 11:59 PM
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The thing is that the studies show most women are content with sleeping around. You and the other PPD women make up like .03% of the female population. I guess it must suck for everyone but the truth of the matter is that if women wanted to they could just stop. But they don't because hypergamy is natural and AWALT. The studies and data confirm that and the rhetoric that you females provide can only go so far. Soon the trend will stop at ALL (99%) of women using AF/BB to it's maximum extent
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:42 PM
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Hehe you said hump
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:54 AM
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I have 9-11% body fat You call this the ideal male body? NSFW probably
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 08:06 PM
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Depends which NW you're at. I was at III vertex by 18 and was able to stop and reverse it back to like II or I by using finasteride and minoxidil
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 04:04 AM
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I think it has to do with how much the individual man thinks about food. Maybe he's not a glutton but if he enjoys high calorie foods and feels he is in deficit then he likes curvy girls. I'm saying this as a man with a bmi of 18 who likes thick women almost exclusively. It just looks like they eat well so can get me food cuz I'm always hungry but too lazy to eat
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:59 AM
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I tend to stick with being slim. It's healthy and since I'm 6'0" and don't look like soy it works for me I guess. I also use magick and practice hermeticism and other esoteric stuff and that helps me too. Point being: as a male it's ok to be lean or skinny because height matters more bye
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:51 AM
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The bullshit he's talking about is OP's claim, not the reply above. Miscommunication from only using pronouns: solved 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:39 PM
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Oh honey, don't put your head in the wolf's mouth... It's an unspoken rule here at PPD that we NEVER post face. It's just bad luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 09:46 PM
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I know a dude who's 5'7 Ah, the Janitor Fallacy strikes again
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 08:23 PM
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I always wonder where I stand on these. I guess I could self evaluate bit it feels biased and as tho I will skew in my favor Online ratings don't work either as I often get irregular results ranging from flatterers who don't rate, mean people, and those may or may not be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 07:15 AM
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But at his height and weight he is not scrawny. He is healthy. You can't really make the same argument where fat people are unhealthy which is why it's bad, this is an affirmative claim from you that men must go above health and obsess over their physique in order to be trp ideal Übermensch. If he wants to be a runner and stay fit while being maybe a little lean that's perfectly healthy and plenty of women would find him more attractive than a beefcake
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:53 AM
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His bmi is 21.2 Why is that considered "skinny" now to you old muscleheads? My bmi is 20 and I love it and I fuck allllll the time and I'm a healthy weight and will fight the voices of toxic masculinity that say that I am a puny weakling who "needs to put on muscle" like you say he does
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:43 AM
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Most blackpillers are just "average" or slightly above young men who are shy and frustrated and blame it on an immutable characteristic that they can point to weird studies that "prove" it through their subjective interpretation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:57 AM
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No those studies are invalid because they only apply to certain ilks. It has been proven that women hate men who show emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 05:40 AM
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Why would it be a luxury if it were worse? That would make it worthless if it were both in low supply and low demand lol Hey guys I quoted baby's 1st economic theory am I the king of PPD yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:51 AM
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1: No, went to an all-boys school 2: I did at first, but I realize that not only is it not uncommon (I'd say 50% both male and female never had a gf bf in hs) but any attempt someone makes to rationalize why it's damaging their psyche is simply a post hoc explanation for an insecurity they impose on themselves that they are dwelling on the past. I had decent friends and good parents, and the only thing I can say that really hurt me was reading stuff on Reddit that pointed it that it was bad some…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 06:13 PM
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Within the show he is considered "good looking" along with Ryan due to just general youthful looks and hair with height Not really a Chad but sure if you're definition of "average" is Jim then maybe amongst Yupies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:31 AM
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What about men who are in the 4/10-6/10 range?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 07:39 PM
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Wow what a riveting debate. Socrates would shed a tear
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 07:35 PM
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That would be breaking Le Reddit rules tho I'd oblige cuz tbh I have a ppd crush on u
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 06:42 PM
1

Watchu mean
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 07:38 AM
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I measured my dick this morning and I'm 6.8" but I still hate myself to no end and have only paid women to sleep with me (Except that one time 6 months ago where a friend had sex w me but that was only once and i dont count it cuz I'm 20 then so it was late)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 06:15 AM
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If you’re unattractive and do something awkward then you’re creepy. Or average. Idk talking points here seem to disregard the middle ground? Then again average is extremely subjective for some reason whereas "attractive vs ugly" gives people similar ideas. Sometimes, the actual average is "ugly" whilst the actual average is "attractive" depending on who you ask
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 06:14 AM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 09:36 PM
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As a woman, the message you hear is that men want casual sex more than you, and the only way you can seek out sex and struggle to find it is if you're hideously ugly or if you have high standards that rule out a large majority of men. But is this not scientifically and statistically true? It is, therefore, not a "message" or a "narrative" but rather a cold hard truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:43 AM
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I agree that women of all counts have the same cues. And my sexual history plays into how I value myself which in turn affects my ability to exhibit these "cues" to women i.e. to me it basically feels like playing monkey. I don't really like it. And this goes for the "quiet nerd girls teehee" they're basically all monolithic according to Reddit not that I've witnessed this but I haven't much else to go off of Also my n technically isn't 1 it's 3 but 2 of them were escorts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 03:06 AM
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Well to me "high N" for women is rather low, like I never factor it in and I can assure you most guys don't It's never about what we value in women but rather what they value in us. Because my N count is only 1 and I never actually dated at 21 I know for an indisputable fact that most women who have "high N" would not be capable of being physically attracted to me but instead would only be post hoc convincing herself that she was, when really she wants chud
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 02:58 AM
2

Well what about "meh"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:20 AM
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Unfortunately there's no definitive outline of a true Chad and this will only ever be recognized as your subjective interpretation of what a "Chad" actually is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 06:57 AM
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What is your situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 11:56 PM
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Well I still don't think they surpass gen x yet, or even come close to them, so yes I'm speaking in terms of "trending towards"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 10:13 PM
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I'm fit and had sex once in my life lol I also have severe self loathing and narcissism because internet But seeing comments of people saying they are or were unattractive and getting laid gives me hope that I don't have to keep going to the massage parlors (I dont count them in my n count)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 11:20 PM
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Really? Angela White? She's always seemed to wrinkly even for a milf to me... Then again the actual hottest pornstars I can think of are not well known at all, which is a shame. Many of them are foreign or something but idk if you're as much a coomer porn addict as I am to know of them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 11:17 PM
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Welcome to purge-pill debate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 01:56 AM
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And yet, do they? Or do they go with the guy who is gaming them irl, who looks better without the pictures and is here, present, and ready to fuck unlike Tinder where it takes awhile and you don't know if the guy doesn't look like his pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 01:16 AM
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woman on ppd says she prefers tall, blond, athletic men "Redpill confirmed! Checkmate beta bloopers" woman on ppd says she doesn't care about looks or prefers effeminate men "Um virtue signaling much? Look at what woman do not what they say! You don't represent most women, and trp likes to focus on da most women!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:06 AM
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I honestly don't know...on Tinder I get matches from girls who look different ways, but I also live in NYC. I am 6' bony af but my face is apparently decent? Idk if I'm supposed to be average or what. I do know that I'm shy and introverted which I'd say hurts my chances WAAAYY more because in America the loudest man gets the girls doesn't matter how much of a short fatass he is just be obnoxious and go to parties
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 11:56 PM
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I was but I took fin and minoxidil and it stopped receding Still no gf idk why actually, maybe my face is weird or my PERSONALITY
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 11:23 PM
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Yeah, there's nothing to get. Nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 09:24 PM
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This is all the opinion of an old boomer minded man's man. He's appealing to a completely different social camp and part of me wonders if you might be mildly on the spectrum to believe "he can't pull anywhere with that look"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:03 AM
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I was on a date once with a guy who told me a story about a girl who rejected him. He literally said "Fuck her! I'm 6'4 with blue eyes!" Even though he was tall, he had a babyface and it was not the cute kind. Face>heightpill strikes again
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:27 PM
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Found the [REMOVED] lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:07 AM
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Skinny? I thought skinny as a man was a death sentence or at best made fatties your looksmatch
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 07:19 PM
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Nope. Ugly good men do better with women than ugly bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 07:32 AM
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I'm somehow none of those except maybe short hair These aren't rlly that brutal I mean most of these are actually obvious unattractive features or indicative of lack of care
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 06:39 AM
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Maybe I'm only more neurotic in some contexts but it's certain social areas Ofc I don't pull though, first and only time I fucked was last October I was 20. Tbf to myself I lost it in a way that was about as fair as it gets (didn't pay, she was actually hot so I wasn't compromising) though I had known her also she is known for sleeping around Other than that girls maybe flirted and I would notice but my self esteem tends to be low and I'm usually anxious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 02:39 AM
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All of my friends are good looking tall white college guys and I guess I'm a tall white college guy but I am the most nerdy, neurotic, and shy of the group. We still hang out because we went to a small private school so we consider ourselves brothers but idk They seem to be able to get girls but they also drink a bunch and know other people besides me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 06:33 PM
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Yeah I think when people give that advice (hobbies make you more attractive) it's only true in a very broad sense of the term and usually has very little to do with arousal. Another problem is they might also be thinking of performance hobbies that you can "show off" which will indeed get you noticed by women since you are artificially at the forefront. This is why they recommend shy guys learn an instrument as the technical and non social effort they put into it will directly translate into rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 06:30 PM
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:*() uuuuhh you gotta calibrate man read the siDeBAr
/r/ExRedPill12/03/21 02:21 AM
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I love how in this debate sub most of the reply chains go halfway down with both people making affirmative claims and saying they have "seen" this or that and feel as though that's somehow gonna get them somewhere. Like "I have not seen this behavior" "You are stupid, look at the data!" "There is other data that disproves it" "Well I have seen this behavior. Checkmate 😎. Not my fault you're ignoring the DATAAAA"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 12:04 AM
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field observation. My field observation does not disprove it. Observations are not necessarily objective because one may subjectively interpret what happens if they are not rigorously applying the scientific method
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 11:58 PM
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Yeah honestly it's these arguments that, two years ago, made me so no point logically in not killing myself. Like I had nothing else to live for and if it sucked so much then logically why should I live. I tried explaining this to my parents as best I could but they just admitted me to a hospital.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:03 AM
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It's funny because the eyes thing is true even as a guy I notice it. Like, certain people seem more approachable just by having softer faces. I have to wonder though...it must be that for women they associate the act of not approaching with finding only the unapproachable sexually appealing? At least that's the common rhetoric within the manosphere. And of course, someone could just sit in the middle, like me who just has neutral canthal tilt and defined but arched brows.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 07:17 PM
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Papist detected!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:47 AM
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Saying this on a debate sub might as well be a meme tier response. Like, every PUA claims they have a secret. Are you a PUA trying to sell their weekly newsletter full of secrets that the government is keeping from us? Just tell us what it is here in the comments. I promise you can't look like a fool
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:05 PM
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A) only two deaths from grandpa and uncle i was very close to at ~age 7 both killed themselves (grandpa was uncle's father so shot himself after his son hanged himself). Tragic I suppose and I was overly concerned and afraid of death after that but it does not affect me like it does my grandmother today. I'm 21 so that was very long ago to me And I guess I got bullied some too, mostly I was just the "weird" kid but I could also be funny, and even in middle school some pretty girls had crushes on…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:34 AM
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I may only be 20 but after reading redpill and blackpill since a young age I've already mostly figured out that having a waifu is probably the best option. Men who opt to go betabux and can't act like an alpha hyper extrovert are just fooling themselves. If women really are going to undervalue me so greatly then doesn't mgtow make the most sense? Ofc I don't want to do it nor do I want to even engage in hookup culture. To me, sex is not as pleasurable as it could be with someone I love but the i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 03:10 AM
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Idk maybe it's different as a 29 year old, like there might be even less women actually using it. I've tried hinge and Tinder from Queens but only Tinder gets consistent matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 02:16 AM
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Then don't use OLD. You're average but it's just not enough and if you live in a sparsely populated area even worse. Also Hinge has like no people on it. I mean, you know you could just go to any major city especially New York because all the immigrant girls have way different ideas of what's attractive than your average American yuppie girl from the midwest who was in a sorority and has other men in her profile hitting her up with chiseled jawlines and bodyfat of 10% with muscle packed on. Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 01:55 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 10:50 PM
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The amount of fit girls I've seen dating chubby men is ridiculous too. Could it be gasp confirmation bias?!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 10:36 PM
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If dating really is such a Hadean experience for most men then I am forced to conclude that, if one can handle it, then substitutive options are nothing but wholly valid (what I mean by this is things like fictional waifus, maybe escorts, anything fantastical) That is *if and only if this would truly be better for most men than trying to chase or "monkey dance" for women. And of course, it is the primary position of MGTOW's which, I believe that with the assistance of any substitute appropriate …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 10:19 PM
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Lol all these old jaded boomers just love invalidating your entire OP on the basis of your age Gotta love this "debate sub" Muh "logical gender"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 03:34 AM
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The 80% are either short, fat, ugly or broke. I'm interested in how you determine how they are 80% Is it that they have some major disadvantage? Or that they have none but are only "average?" For instance, if a guy is reasonably attractive (let's say a BMI of 18-21 with less than 13% body fat, decent sense of style and a compositionally average face, white for the USA, median income for his age group) would he be considered 80% still? Also what is your demographic? I'm assuming over 25 because u…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 12:20 AM
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Well thinning and receding are really more different because to truly be experiencing male pattern baldness is really easy to diagnose. My crown started to simply lose hair at the age of 17, and I could see in pictures that by 19 there was a noticeable spot forming. Luckily I'm super self conscious and neurotic plus the internet (youknow who) scared the piss out of me and thanks to a careful regimen of finasteride and minoxidil I have essentially reversed it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 12:29 AM
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Yeah but men have to fit a gender stereotype far more plus 80% are seen as unattractive anyway so what does it matter that they lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 05:11 AM
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I would say it is nearly impossible for males w/ 6/10 looks and below. I feel like people's interpretation of the decile scale is always different. The thing is that 6/10's may still very well be in the top 20% (if we use a standardized slope model, like the PSL model) So then do you mean males who are in that bottom 80% physically?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 06:46 AM
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Idk man I look pretty average and slots are the easiest to get ime
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 01:13 AM
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Gen x pilled and catholic They're basically unaware of any problems gen z faces but tend to blame it on: hedonism and too much online interaction I'm usually blackpilled but not always
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 11:17 AM
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No it's the assumption that people who are "eccentric or "artsy" are deluding value of the themselves when you are personally judging them as not valuable. Are you some muscle headed ath-o-lete? Or charming socialite? If you're om reddit, you may very well fall into the nerdy camp, which would make it projection. If not apologies, besides I'm drunk and my ad hominem should be disregarded if you so choose
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:17 AM
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delude themselves into thinking they're desirable Oh dear, sounds like a bit of projection, unless I'm wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 05:43 AM
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So apparently the true ratio as decreed by the holy statistics analyzers of redpill which are indisputable facts goes as such: 20% top tier men, 50% middle tier, 30% bottom tier
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 06:29 PM
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Any type for facial, I could say reconstructive like lefort but thats if you're really ugly and had some breathing disease as a kid or got in an accident. Really I mean like genioplasties, cheek implants, maybe hair if you're bald, nose jobs. For me I would need lip lowering cuz gummy smile and lips don't touch when they are at rest
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:13 PM
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I also rattle on about random academic subjects because autism and people think I'm smart for that How do you know I didn't just memorize a Wikipedia article? Unless doing that supposedly makes me smart too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:11 PM
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So if a guy looksmaxes and does a Chad transformation will he never actually have to try in any other department? Because my takeaway from the common sentiment here is this: because I am 6'0" and not super hideous, then all I need to do is save up for cosmetic surgery and bulk up at the gym and then all I need to do is walk in a room and get any girl I want? Because looks matter so much for men nowadays that I shouldn't even bother trying to make my personality all mainstream alpha or try gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:07 PM
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Mostly by guys if anything but then I opened a Minecraft server because I knew how to read tutorials and then also girls hit on me But this was 8th grade so doesn't count
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 06:54 PM
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I thought testosterone motivates people to action so they don't complain? Or perhaps neurochemistry is not as cut and dry as the evopsych terpers would have us believe
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:12 AM
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And now in the age of feminism men are laughed at for saying they need help or being losers I guess idk didn't happen to me but people here say it did so mra I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:09 AM
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Well account for the 70:30 ratio of men and women on tinder and we have 12.86 men to every 1 woman if it was 50/50 Lol that might be wrong I almost failed many math classes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 04:50 PM
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As for the "in between" part I want to add to that, I think this is where most men lie and it's fundamentally scalar, in that there is a grade of how much game you need negatively correlated to how attractive one is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 06:20 PM
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No the fact they fuck any guy who talks to them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:19 PM
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No, only people who are confident/neutral toward their bodies will bother going through the trouble of posting. I suspect more than half the posters will be jacked, some will be a little skinny or average looking and very few will be fat (this is for men) because the guys who put effort into their bodies are more vain and probably already have shirtless pics loaded and ready to show off to anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 09:32 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 10:03 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 10:02 PM
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All women are only attracted to 8,9,10/10 in the modern dating market. It's true! Science deniers will say that it is false but they are WRONG. Women do not care about their looksmatch, they go for the top 10% otherwise you have the unattractive girls who settle for a betabux at 30. This is always how it happens, yes there may be some exceptions in your life but this is simple confirmation bias which is a logical fallacy and you're WRONG. Wake up people real life is not like the Disney movies! Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 09:50 PM
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Well sometimes your it can be dependent on location too, like in suburbs/rural areas that's where I notice that the men look truly bad even at young ages but have beautiful gfs that in the city they would only be able to spend a night with after blowing their money at some club, since there's just less people in those neighborhoods
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 08:42 PM
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Using Tinder again? Maybe people your age care about relationships more and the younger slutty girls think you're old? But how are you 8/10 like you say and get no attention even at clubs? If you get IOI's then it's game/personality not looks and obviously that's fine too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 08:36 PM
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So then he's still an incel. Losing it to a man or a prostitute do not count when we view virginity as a social construct. He would be incel if no woman desired him. If your frat bros wouldn't dap you up as a congratulation of the conquest, then it does not count as "masculine sex" because nothing was achieved. However I feel that you know this attitude and merely do not share it, which is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 09:39 PM
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Well if you looksmax but still hide in your room all day it's not gonna help but most of the people who say that we're probably in my position too where I felt so shitty about myself that I didn't even want to leave the house. I wasn't so dumb that I thought it wouldn't do anything but I also knew that I wasn't trying either
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 09:35 PM
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That is true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 09:33 PM
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Go to 4chan's r9k board or look on twitter, they're still around
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 02:09 AM
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Idk it works for zoomers. I'm 20 and everyone my age texts like this you still fuck regardless
/r/seduction26/10/20 07:42 PM
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So what? Maybe he'll learn from this and thank God he didn't marry yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:02 AM
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Y-yeah...😒
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:56 PM
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This is old news they don't do it as much now. Even Reddit's mobile icon changed back to orange a couple days ago
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:52 PM
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No she will get Chad on tinder and can find a desperate Chadlite to marry her easy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:09 AM
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Yeah but eight figures of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 01:24 AM
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