Cataomoi Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	This is terrible ? You're missing the point Your parents may love you, but the person who can love you the deepest is yourself, because only you can truly know yourself.	/r/seduction	17/08/22 07:39 AM
1	Not getting laid? Go travelling ! I don't know it sounds like it's just a bad conversation and she brought those things up because she can't think of anything else to talk about. Women are people too so even if you can't flirt with them you need to at least be able to engage with them as conversation partners. There's the common advice to use statements and assumptions to bring the level of a convo up that I commonly use too, but this looks like there's something more than what you're describing. Is it body language? Is it how y…	/r/seduction	06/07/22 04:14 PM
1	What are some skills u should learn to impress girls or make them interested in you? Generally, your hobbies in and of itself do not attract men or women or anyone. Do you yourself become attracted or think higher of someone if they do a specific hobby? Most likely not unless you yourself have a similar hobby. I literally do all the hobbies that high schoolers in Hollywood movies think are cool - music, sports, reading, you name it I've done it. So I now have three tips when it comes to hobbies and finding partners: Find a hobby that both sexes regularly participate in. Plus poi…	/r/seduction	06/07/22 12:34 PM
10	Not getting laid? Go travelling ! I don't know what kind of girls you talking to or your level of conversation skills but I literally never talk about TV or the gym with literally anyone even my friends and no one cares that I don't watch TV or go to the gym. Literally no one.	/r/seduction	05/07/22 10:00 AM
7	Did having your own place make you approach women more? Spoken like a man with no Asian parents.	/r/seduction	30/06/22 01:38 PM
10	Is cold approach really the best way for most guys to meet women? It feels like a lot of the conventional advice on here doesn't really apply to me Bro, please realize making friends is much more important than making a girlfriend. Everything comes after that. Making friends after college is hard, but it's easier than making a girlfriend. You can have multiple friends, you can only have one girlfriend (usually). Again, having friends is so much more important than having a girlfriend, and in fact friends help you get girlfriends. Girls come and go, but if you find 1 lifelong friend from going to 50 different events, that is WORTH A LOT MORE…	/r/seduction	29/06/22 05:05 AM
4	I turn 25 tomorrow and as a birthday pact I am going to talk to a girl every single day for rest of the year 80% of those people then abandon their goals. 20% adherence is huge. I don't agree that OP should set this goal (I think OP should just talk to girls like they're humans, albeit differently-wired from men - do you set a goal to talk to humans every day?), but the point of these declarations is to make a conscious effort to change. Regardless of achieving that goal or not, the effort he put in is worth it. On a New Year diet, just because you lost 2kg instead of 10kg, is that a failure? Don't let…	/r/seduction	22/06/22 04:07 AM
2	Good eye contact, a smile and a sociable personality is all you really need You and me bro. Keep at it!	/r/seduction	15/06/22 04:02 PM
2	Good eye contact, a smile and a sociable personality is all you really need I just talk about things I think we both will like to talk about. I'm an introvert so I don't force conversations. There are people out there who enjoy talking about mechanical keyboards, and even if they don't they might enjoy how you talk about it. It's rare to find these people though that mesh with you when you're a weird guy, but I just own it I get the rut sometimes although I probably have never been in your situation. It's a combination of self-love and practice when talking to people. S…	/r/seduction	15/06/22 03:18 PM
5	Good eye contact, a smile and a sociable personality is all you really need You're on the right track. Self-esteem is more than just practice or being on the 'grind'. It's more important than girls, it's more important than getting a girlfriend, it's more important than almost anything else in your life. Having good self-esteem, good self-love will push you to be healthy, look good, and have a good life.	/r/seduction	15/06/22 03:13 PM
31	Good eye contact, a smile and a sociable personality is all you really need This is unnecessarily confusing for a beginner. Confidence comes from self-esteem, not "success". People should learn to decouple end-results and their own self-esteem, because it is a toxic never-ending downward spiral in mentality. I believe this is something /r/seduction pushes a lot as well (if you get rejected, don't let it get to you, keep going and learning).	/r/seduction	15/06/22 08:15 AM
2	All you need is a social circle of average looking men. You realize how bloody difficult it is for some men to gain a social circle? Have you tried approaching social circles like you approach game? It's really not that hard if you're actually interested in a hobby and look for local meetups, they're everywhere.	/r/seduction	29/05/22 08:47 AM
9	Cold Approach is Brutal Because they are selling you something. They will not tell you the failure rate, but instead focus on the success stories and ignore the failures (in your case, this is your 1 lay in 60). If they do tell you the failure rate, it is OK for them because they are mentally prepared for rejection while it seems that you're not. It's ok to not be cut out for daygame, but you can definitely learn from daygame. Seduction is more than just daygame.	/r/seduction	02/05/22 01:37 PM
14	Cold Approach is Brutal Can you imagine working on a school project or studying for a test to retain your scholarship money and some person you do not know is trying to get your number?	/r/seduction	02/05/22 01:34 PM
1	I’m gonna start working out. Following influencers is a start, but honestly just look at a bunch of men's pictures. Look at pictures of Brad Pitt in wildly different outfits. Which one do you like the most? Try to copy it, then see which one you feel most comfortable in. Once you find your comfort zone, you've found your home style and you can start experimenting from your fashion "spiritual center". Though I know a bunch of people who reached their home style and never deviated from it for decades. Fashion is just a really…	/r/seduction	13/04/22 02:53 PM