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Wherever there is a single mother, there is an absent father. It takes 2 to make a kid. I would like to note not all absent fathers and single mothers are so because they were immoral. Sometimes people put others in really fucked up situations. I would also like to note that having to provide for a kid as a single parent necessities leaving the kid neglected or with a stranger if trusted people aren't in the picture. Even if the parent is doing their best. There aren't a lot of good choices that…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:14 AM
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I am remembering the cat lady calculator lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:08 PM
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If you get killed by a woman you go to hell?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:17 AM
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Predatory people exist. And people who they target are people who show signs of being easily taken advantage of. Trauma responses are repulsive to normal people and attract predatory people. So there are people out there who constantly are sourounded by people who want to take advantage of them. Their will have completely different experiences from people who are boundaried and look like they feel safe. Internet allows people to meet other people who have similar problems and experiences as you.…
/r/ExRedPill24/11/22 01:16 PM
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If she wants kids and stay with them until they develop object permanence, you need to earn enough that it is doable.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/22 06:09 PM
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I agree with you. Do people believe that something more productive is possible for them however? And are they ready to make the sacrifices? Are they able to be boundaried enough to actually execute on that? People however are experiencing collective trauma response and in turn acting abusive themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:20 PM
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Women are slightly more agreeable than guys. It makes men to be able to shift cultural values and norms more easily than women can. Very agreeable young people (mostly women), often times believe that they can't have boundaries or feel guilty for any boundary they set. Culture protects those kind of people from exploitation. Manipulative end of the population of horny guys have been pressuring women towards sexual acts for almost forever. Since the pill and atheism being on the rise. The huge cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:31 AM
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Healthy hair is a sign of health in both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:48 AM
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Going on a date implies symmetry. Taking someone on a date implies that you are taking charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:37 PM
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There should be a difference between going on a date and taking someome on a date. And I think that it depends on the relationship that people involved are aiming for, it allows to actually see how the other person reacts instead of what they say. If you are both aiming for traditional gender roles in a relationship then the man should pay. If you think equity or equality is the way to go then cost of dating should be shared. It is a question of values. Be good (not always nice) to other people …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:59 PM
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Dude before illness took his health, was a cute as fuck. Just Google young Stephen Hawking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:16 AM
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She might be autistic. Point out to her reasons why what she is asking is inappropriate? And tell her that you are uncomfortable.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/22 04:46 PM
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That is life. It does suck to be a person doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:37 AM
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I don't believe that patriarchy exists. I think feminists are mostly traumatized women. I actually want to be a homemaker. I do however need a plan B like having a well paying job if anything horrible happens to the one I choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:34 AM
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Why have a man who you could outdo if given the opportunity to. And goid sex isn't everything
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:19 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:48 PM
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Grandmother
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:43 PM
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Your take on milf was good and I wanted to throw the term gilf at you and see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:09 AM
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What about gilf porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:55 AM
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Bold of you to assume that I wasn't throwing myself at my ex. He was the one who didn't want to sleep with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:51 AM
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Not boyfriend, but we have had sex and I am really, really interested. We are on the same discord server centered around femininity, what caught my attention by being appreciative of my intelligence and the pictures of the stuff I made, was super insightful, took it well when I disagreed with him, and challenged me when I wasn't being rational in a completely logical way, no insults or rubbing it in. I liked him platonicly at the time and really wanted to be his friend. He also has a fluffy pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:47 PM
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About half an hour when I feel like doing makeup and when going to an event. A half an hour to a few hours of considering what to wear if going somewhere. Washing face before bed. Changing bedclothes regularly to prevent acne breakouts. 30 min showers most of it is spent on my hair if I wash it. Showering every day (10 ish minutes if I am trough 3ish if I am too exhausted to wash properly) and moisturizing everything afterwards also 10ish minutes. About once every few months soak my hair in oil …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:48 AM
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For red pill. Predatory people look for people that they can take advantage of. If you are acting completely beta bux, man-cuck, soy-boy manner: simping hard and allowing yourself to be covertly abused because you want to get your dick wet; predatory women will take advantage of you in a variety of ways. You will attract at best only emotionally damaged women if that. And women who aren't severely emotionally damaged will instinctively feel uneasy around you because you are acting like an abuse …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:04 PM
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Looks:5 (not disfigured and not at a risk of medical complications) Money/career/status:7 Personality:9 Social circle:3 Intangibles:6
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:02 AM
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Hypergamy in common terms is women marry men who are higher in status. There are many, many hierarchies. Money, charisma, character, looks, social skills, intelligence, skills, etc. The red pill hypergamy. If a 'better' male is interested in her, she will leave her current partner for him. Actually happens if she is in survival mode. Fearing for her future, being stressed all the time because of covert and/or emotional abuse, has a personality disorder, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:04 PM
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Keep a journal and keep it a secret. It might be a one off or it might bea pattern of him punishing you for bringing up if something bothers you and in that case get out while you can. We lack information to know for sure.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/22 03:34 PM
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A decent chunk of normal people settle for good enough and are more or less content with what they have. Desirable people have to filter trough a lot of people to find people who aren't as desirable to find someone who is actually emotionally healthy enough to have a relationship with. Otherwise hookups or friends with benefits or a cluster of bad relationships one after another. The rest seem to be in an intractable conflict kind of situation. That started with free love and birth control and e…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 02:12 AM
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I am a bit of a shut in. Not very athletic, I do however work a physical job and like walks. I was bullied a lot as a kid and I am quite sure that I have cptsd from it. I am in the process of solving problems caused by this. But it is whack a mole with issues. I am a bit slow socially. I don't really get people as much as it seems necessary to. But my social skills are getting improvement. And some people have gone as far as to tell me that I am emotionally intelligent. My empathy is limited. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:39 AM
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The most successful investments are owned by dead people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:55 PM
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It is boundary breaking and it shows obliviousness to the others experience. It is the equivalent of a woman interrogating you on a first date about your job, how much money you make, what education you have, if you have your own house, if you have any pets, if you have a friend group, if you want kids, your plans for the future, etc. She is scouting out if you would be a good mate without carring about your experience or you as a person. Like yeah guys put in a lot of effort to make themselves …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:22 PM
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Compliment her on her sense of style or the way she skilfully put on her makeup if someone puts in a lot of effort it is nice that someone notices it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:44 AM
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The more flamboyantly you are dressed the more you have to do it well. It can be masculine if the other things match. Confident and playful personality, has a style, has artistic and philosophical incilations. On shamany and jester and very polished kind of guys very fine. It draws attention and sends I am unusual signals. Either crazy, attention seeking, actually is a style choice because looks good, or is a sort of rebellion. On anyone who does blue collar stuff kind of impractical and dissona…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/22 10:17 AM
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At 1500 and bragging at that? Hades no. I am wondering what is wrong with the guy. At that point sex drive should be sated and the guy should have climbed higher in the hierarchy of needs. It screams low standards and insecurity at best. What impresses me is people putting in effort into their looks and lives. I am impressed by skill. I am impressed by self awareness and discipline. I am impressed by healthy boundaries.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 08:30 AM
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It is exploiting the kid. It is okay to be an influencer, but forcing someone into the lifestyle makes you a horrible person in my eyes. Sharing pictures of you that you didn't consent to putting out into the world is not okay.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/22 09:24 PM
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Only a baby.com
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:40 PM
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Gap moe
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/22 05:20 AM
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Don't reject your masculine qualities. If you reject them in yourself, you will eventually start rejecting them in others. Masculinity good, femininity good. There are women who are feminine because they lack masculinity and then there are women who are feminine because they have a lot of femininity. Nurturance, warmth and empathy is something that I want in a masculine guy. Knitting, sewing and such are skills that draw my attention and if a guy is confident about it there is an attraction. Lea…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/22 05:19 AM
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Are you familiar with kibbie body types? Gamines are super cute.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/22 06:44 PM
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Guys get a buff for their physical stats including endurance during their puberty. Women suffer a debuff in running speed and possible injury rate during puberty due to wider hips. We have a lower cap for physical stats. Well paying jobs that require strength and endurance are almost impossible to get into unless we are top 5% fit and have an advantagous size. Huge physical stats debuff during pregnancy. And presumed skill loss after pregnancy while you couldn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:08 AM
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If I can trust someone with taking the lead and they do it well (makes sure that physical and psychological needs are met), it means that they are less likely to screw me over with incompetence and I'll will when I am vulnerable. For example while giving birth or with a newborn around while I have had a C section (a surgery), when I am crying and hurt. It also means that I won't have to manage things that should be their responsibility. It is a test too, what does the person do when given power …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:40 AM
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Mom, how do I Dad, how do I?
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/22 03:48 PM
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I misspoke I meant calorie restriction. Nutrition restriction is really dangerous if you don't know what you are doing. Moderate carb restriction like eating less sugar isn't harmful. Partly inate. We learn to fear them from very little information. Like very small children aren't afraid of spiders until they see someone else afraid. Humans are dangerous in general. Men are bigger and stronger and more physical, little to no chance of fighting them off if they decide to get violent. Doesn't mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:51 PM
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Yes? Like carb restriction being really hard to the point that most people fail. It won't kill them, but they feel like it will. Like women having mild inate fear of men, easily suppressed until trauma, but still there. Men won't kill you, but you will feel like they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:27 PM
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They don't think that they feel that, rational parts of the brain suppress the reaction and they were bred by women to sacrifice themselves. But men would be less upset if you hit them, than if you rejected them sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:16 PM
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From evolutionary perspective yes. From common sense no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:46 PM
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There isn't much difference evolutionarily from "dying" and not passing on genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:27 PM
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You are warm and cold at different temperatures, so comfort disincentivizes cohabitation. Lowered aggression between people who are competing for attention. Infections have harder time setting in in higher body temperatures, high body temperature can be very harmful to fetuses, working outside specifies a necessity for it. Babies have a hard time regulating body temperature. For females it also leads to seeking warmth by body contact male or female so there is inecitive for bonding even if the i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:41 AM
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Human males and females have different body temperatures. That is usually found in animals who do not cohabit, except when mating or in mating season. We aren't meant to occupy the same spaces. We do pair bond tho. And traditionally women stayed at home and worked their asses off there and did womens work outside of home with other women. And men worked a lot outside of home sometimes being away for months, and those weren't easy jobs. Absence makes the heart/banana grow fonder. And all that. As…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:48 AM
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Sigh. Some people have no patience. I hope someone manages to get her to theraphy and teach her some emotional regulation.
/r/AntiFeminists27/05/22 03:12 AM
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I think that bar is in hell for both genders. Males will put up with abusive, out of control women as long as she gives fertility signals and allows him to play hero, she doesn't even have to be objectively pretty. Females will put up with horrible, horrible behavior as long as you are providing something she lacks. She can brainwash herself into "loving" anyone until the cognitive dissonance gets too much. Mostly by introducing someone who is still loathsome, but is still a better option or get…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:09 AM
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I think that bar is in hell for both genders. Males will put up with abusive, out of control women as long as she gives fertility signals and allows him to play hero, she doesn't even have to be objectively pretty. Females will put up with horrible, horrible behavior as long as you are providing something she lacks. She can brainwash herself into "loving" anyone until the cognitive dissonance gets too much. Mostly by introducing someone who is still loathsome, but is still a better option or get…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 09:24 AM
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I like video games. I love playing with people. I have known only two guys who played video games likable. One of the potential problems is that video games often feel better than other hobbies. It can make him a bore who can only talk video games and computers. I will hate him soon. Another thing is that due to the addictive nature some guys neglect everything else. Including hygiene and health. Watching a guy who plays video games do it badly is a turnoff. Games satisfy the drive to improve so…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:14 PM
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I eat well. And I work in a trades job. On my free days I hike for about 3 hours a day on average. I also excersise my back so I don't have as much back pain when I am old. I weight 54 Kg (165 cm) and I can carry a 30 kg bag. And I can lift a 40 kg barrel long enough to put it on wheels. So I would say in shape, but on the lower end of it. I have a tight gap, and I am a hourglass. My skin is clear of acne.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:39 PM
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Ask questions. Allow him to decide that he was wrong without saying it directly. He sounds prideful, allow him to save face. How do you know that others experience the things the same way that you do?
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/22 03:21 PM
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Write down (especially if you don't have a healthy social life) : your boundaries and how you will enforce them (if you don't enforce your boundaries then you don't have boundaries), what are the conditions of you leaving the relationship or stopping dating him even if you really liked/ were really attracted to/loved the guy? How would you define love, what is the relationship like? Every time you diverge from this ask yourself: why? There is something that you aren't aware of about yourself or …
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/22 09:15 PM
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Friends that don't tell you that something you are doing is wrong or that something looks terrible on you or that you have something on your teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:14 AM
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With friends like these who needs enemies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:17 AM
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Lean or leanish or healthy weight, healthy skin (foundation works too), face with no very deep lines in weird places like permanent brow furrows. Symmetrical enough features that I don't notice the differences without paying attention. Haircut that suits the guys features. Clean shaven or a well kept beard in a style that suits him. If we add bearing, steady movement and straight back.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:44 PM
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I wonder if it can be lowered by looking at ugly people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:38 AM
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Queer platonic relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:25 AM
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As long as he does good with what looks he does have and works on his personality as well there isn't a big problem to trade provisioning for company. I even respect that and think that it is admirable. Personally from experience. If there is even the slightest spark it can be nurtured into genuine love. It requires sincere intention to commit however. Got my heart broken by a guy like that and the thought of dating again made me feel utterly sick and like I was cheating on him for longer than I…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:17 PM
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The creeps don't even fallow proper etiquette that is layed out in those kind of places.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 07:14 AM
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A someone with a lot of negative traits looking like positive ones to naive people. Arogance and nonchalance (poor ability to weight out risks) looks like confidence in being able to deal with stuff. Agresivity looks like assertivenes, competitiveness, and confidence. Hints at ambition and ability to stand up for yourself. Posesivness and jealousy can look like caring and protectiveness. Isolating you from support networks is framed as protecting you from bad people. Nonchalance about drama look…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 06:22 AM
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Changeability is one of the things that I look for. If something bothers me I expect a solution that isn't ignoring it to be found. If a solution cannot be found then it is time to part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 10:32 PM
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Modern "I can do all that the men do and more" isn't helping either. No one is willing to be vulnerable and admit that they can't do it all. Until burning out at least. Or having a break down. Or having a mid life crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:25 AM
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Those joined later
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:19 AM
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Not an American. I don't have a car and don't need or want one. It is more like I have a constant feeling of needing to prepare for something like I will need resources for the future, anxiety increases if I do not. Some directionless background anxiety. It is very manageable to sane levels where life is enjoyable. But if some snots who wants attention repeatedly point out how something is dangerous. I will start feeling irrationally scared of the thing. Even if I know that it is stupid and my e…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:17 AM
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People, except individuals who have it figured out, don't understand how to operate on freedom. Not men, not women. Feminism was pushed by socially inept, abused women in the beginning. Who were taking out their pain on femininity and family structure. I at least only feel safe when men in my life are providing things that I can't get on my own. Safety nets ironically make me feel less safe. Anxiety is the default state of being at least for women. I could justify it by some ideology. But it is …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 06:01 PM
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Providing loyalty and stability
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:47 PM
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I stole it from someone. I love the word too. I do not really know about other women. I feel love towards anyone I commit to romanticly and/or platonicly. Fear can kill loyalty and trust, but the person remains loved. Love comes after commitment, it dosen't have to even be returned. I think that all those safety nets emotionally are a bad thing. The safety nets aren't what makes me feel safe. Anxiety is the default. I have ever only felt safe when men in my life were providing something that I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:38 PM
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The stupid before the post nut clarity. And the stupid that fallows if the sex was great. It makes it easy to make that guy into a tool. It creeps me out. What is even more creepier is a woman who acts or is oblivious about it, I avoid those. "All the girls hate me because I am beautiful" kind of thing. I have had guys offer me opportunities that I didn't deserve and couldn't realisticly manage, give life advice, try to give me expensive stuff that is out of their plans and sensible budget. It a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:17 PM
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Woman. Obligatory not all men. I blame men for getting fuckstruck. And then putting the crush on a pedestal. And when she inevitably fails at perfection blaming her for being human. They do not understand that most women are in survival mode all the time. Obligatory not all women. I blame women for not having integrity. I would like women to enforce their boundaries and respect others boundaries. Women do not understand that they should act respectfully towards everything and everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:53 PM
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Traditional way is that the woman gets introduced to multiple suitable candidates by her family until she decides to marry one. She essentially multidates until married. Commitment before marriage isn't a thing in some places. No sex before marriage either. Girlfriend used to mean sidechick. Girlfriend can be broken up with and you won't face tons of judgment. Personally I don't really understand what a girlfriend is in the modern context. Except that you commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:26 AM
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Sounds like she has listened too much to outdated strategies from back when casual sex was shameful. Why buy the cow when you can get milk for free. Or she just wasn't attracted to begin with and was just scared that she won't find anyone who meets her non-sexual needs. Her lying is the worst part. If she otherwise acts morally (dosen't talk behind peoples backs, dosen't slack off on her duties when no one judges her for it, dosen't litter, etc.) I would give her benefit of the doubt. Otherwise …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:40 AM
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I don't know. Woman. I can only speculate. Everyone seems to think that older virgins are religious nuts. Virgins mostly will make people wait. Assumed that she has issues around sex. Has no experience, dosen't know her preferences, sucks at sex. If eager is undesirable enough that no one has nutted her in the past. Breaks pattern and people don't like that. People don't really get it and it highlights otherness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:41 AM
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Woman here. Prefer "bellow average" but ambitious financially secure. Assuming that he is inteligent enough to have a decent conversation with me and is emotionally and mentally healthy. Good looking guy. Assuming that he is inteligent enough to have a decent conversation with me and is emotionally and mentally healthy. It is going to be tough in the beginning, but it is workable. If I can't have someone inteligent and emotionally and mentally healthy then celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:00 AM
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In studies the most attractive body count is 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:19 AM
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Wasn't that long. That is a lot of things. Aren't we having a conversation? Social awareness needs feedback. Appropriate or not can be solved by being very well mannered. Not a fan of group conversations myself. I mostly stay quiet and enjoy the atmosphere unless I have really juicy info to share. There are groups, apps and such things that are useful for practicing conversation you can get feedback from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:24 PM
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That sucks. What do you think is wrong with your conversation skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:51 PM
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Literature: Well spoken men are however. Writing helps with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:40 AM
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High ambitions. I am 23 soon to be 24. Older than me. But not an older (polite term for old) guy. Your nick is very crude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:18 PM
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First time I got approached it, I felt really flattered said yes to a date invitation, it was a joke. I was 15. Second time I was approached it was by someone who looked like a bum, was missing teeth and smelled from a distance, and was stumbling around like drunk. I was 16 or maybe 17. I cried, he went away. Third time was once again a joke. Cried because guys apparently found me repulsive enough that it could be considered funny. Fourth time it was a guy from my class and another guy who was a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:26 AM
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In traditionalist countries (usually the poorer ones) the average age is approximately around 28 for men and in late teens for women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:13 AM
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Eating disorders
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:32 AM
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Nah just being a regular know it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:38 AM
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Good luck is better. With that is mostly used when you think something is impossible. It is fine face to face, because body language and tone makes up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:10 AM
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Women have slightly better ability to diferencate by color and use more nuanced vocabulary to describe color. https://www.nature.com/articles/s41599-019-0341-7 Better spatial abilities in men https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/12/081217124430.html Physiological differences in men and women https://journals.physiology.org/doi/full/10.1152/advan.00118.2006 Women typically have worse mental health cross culturally. The gap is bigger in developed, egalitarian countries. https://www.sciencedi…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/22 03:40 AM
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Red pill men are men traumatized by state of things. They usually were narcissist magnets and social burdens. So got used. Fell into redpill and got retraumatized by collective trauma. Red pill woman usually sees that poor traumatized person, believe them about what happened to them without questioning the narative, but doubting his judgment. And will try to prevent that from happening to other males in her life. She won't date the redpiller because children are the priority and she knows that t…
/r/ExRedPill04/03/22 12:33 AM
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I hope I understood correctly. I will reframe everything. You fixed your unatractive qualities physically. But you were still acting like a wet rag. Women were turned off by it. You fixed your physical flaws and became good looking. Then you picked up a mental model that made you act in a boundried way while ignoring the woman's boundries, used confident ways of acting to disguise negative emotion, stoped putting women on a pedestal that they didn't earn (thus setting them up to fail) by startin…
/r/ExRedPill25/02/22 08:19 AM
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You don't get what medschool is. She had a full-time job (40h a week ) and was studying medicine (~40h in uni + ~20h studying solo and preparing for lectures). I did start making her breakfast and dinner alongside mine. Just so she could get enough sleep. At 100h work week boyfriend isn't doable. I am currently studying psihology part-time, and working. 4 days a week 12h shifts (48h), I am staying at work dormitories. The 3 days I have free I spend 18 h attending uni + 4 hours of studying. So 70…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:32 AM
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Didn't get my first crush in my teens. Im general don't like people +-4years my age. At 20 and 21 was waiting for my brain to mature enough to, keep up with older adults and to make good decisions. I have decided I will only sleep with the person I want to marry, because having sex for the first time with them will change my body irreversibly and will likely hurt (hymen) and then there is oxytocin release which will make me feel bonded to the guy. I suspect that him leaving afterwards would mess…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:46 PM
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3.Make sure that the therapist specializes in trauma if you do.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/22 06:41 AM
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What makes him comfortable. What kinds of thing does he enjoy. What are some good experiences that he has had. Ask his favorite bewarage get him that occasionally. Take him to do things thst he hasn't done before. Share that experiences with him. Standards too. What are the big no noes. What are boundries. What are the things he finds unacceptable. Always tell the truth even if it might hurt him so that he aims his effort in the right direction. And put in as much effort as he does in giving wha…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/22 10:11 AM
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There are people who do not know what they want. The only things that they want are things they feel obligated to want. Like be successful, have a good experience, take care of themselves and their family, have status, improve. Beyond that he might not know. I would try to meet the effort and ask what is acceptable to him and what is not. But you will have to make that judgment for yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/22 09:44 AM
3

I actually like those. If there was other art there it wouldn't be bad or he did sewing
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 12:43 PM
1

In males lower agreablenes, lower neuroticism, higher extraversion. In transmales lower agreablenes, lower neuroticism, higher extraversion with a focus on assertivenes subtrait. I heard a transmale once describe mental effects of testerone as an outward focus with not quite agression, not less but a distancing from emotion and a lot less fear. In adhd women more often internalize the hyperactivity. I honestly have no idea. I find behavior more annoying than personality. It isn't loud emotions t…
/r/ExRedPill21/09/21 11:07 AM
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