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| 0 | [deleted by user]I haven't made any generalisations about men's emotional experiences and perspectives. I'm being dismissive and combative against your perspective. You're the one who is making claims about an entire gender. And no, I don't deny that women are emotional and uncommunicative in some cases. In the same way that all humans can be emotional and uncommunicative. | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 09:41 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Oh good, we agree that based on OP's post we have no idea about her reasons for becoming upset and leaving, so logically now you understand why making harsh judgments about her character based on OP's story is unfair. However I understand that it would have been easy for you to make a judgment like that seeing as you have an anecdotal idea about women's emotional and communicative abilities which has made you resentful. You should work on that. | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 02:22 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I was making an experienced guess about what she might have felt based on what OP has told us about his actions and her reactions, not saying that OP moved faster than she did. If OP wants to get better at understanding girls (especially in sexual situations), then this kind of thing is helpful for him to think about. On a side note, why do those second two things matter? All she'd done by the point OP unzipped himself was ask if he wanted sex. That is the moment we're talking about here. Re-rea… | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 01:35 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Good point. However, I think you're making an unfair judgment of her handling of the situation considering this was a one-night stand with a guy she just met. Put yourself in her shoes. You've had a one night stand, the guy 'fucked up' and 'made mistakes' (OP's own words), you're upset enough to want to leave and walk home by yourself, are you really about to lecture this guy WHO YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW about what he did wrong? It's a difficult situation, how can you make such brutal judgments as sa… | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 01:10 PM |
| 17 | [deleted by user]I'm absolutely awful at reading girls and picking up on their signals. I don't know if that was a "shit test" or genuinely a fuck up on my part. I don't exactly know what happened, I was too high to know why she was upset. I know I fucked up several times and made mistakes and embarrassed myself Seems much more likely that OP made some wrong moves and is just oblivious as to what he did to make her flip out and become upset. Dismissing the girl as 'nuts' and 'weird' is an easy cop-out from tryin… | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 11:46 AM |
| 19 | [deleted by user]Props for overcoming your confidence issues, man! I can kind of understand how she would be surprised and uncomfortable in the car, she might have felt like it escalated quickly on your part. There are way more subtle and sexy moves to ease into it rather than just whipping it out. You could give her a bit more control over how quickly things progress, like leading her hand to where you want her to touch, helping HER undo your zipper. Just my two cents, but seduction doesn't end once a girl agre… | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 10:11 AM |
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