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On what planet is Michelle Obama ugly? Or even Zuckerberg's wife?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 04:31 PM
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Edit: Based on the other comments, I had to reconsider my position. Fran wasn't a "pick me, choose me, love me" type of woman. At least not entirely. CC however... CC who ended up marrying the Butler that she hates. It's a fun show with great fashion and great punchlines. But whewwww 🥴🥴🥴🥴 the dating struggles 🥴🥴🥴🥴. I definitely also think that Fran's mom is a pick me! Intergenerational pick me-ism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 10:58 PM
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This guy must be based in Toronto or Ontario. I mean this guy is a piece of work. Next
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 03:40 PM
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I was also surprised that he didn't want to book a hotel room. Like risking public indecency and uncomfortable positions, when for like 100 dollars, you can have a nice public area, with a good bed. And then if his car didn't start then, he would have somewhere to sleep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 04:36 PM
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He cheated on his wife multiple times and then had her sit up on IG live while he externalized and othered the problems in their relationship. He is the last person who should speak about women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 04:00 PM
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Females 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:34 PM
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It's insane because he insisted that he wanted to be child free and now he is having a child with his side chick-turned gf. Like why do men who want to be childfree not get a vasectomy???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:15 PM
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Didn't he say that he didn't want children? Also is the Sun a reliable source?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:29 PM
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Wait what is the problem with this podcast. I've never heard of this show ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 08:49 PM
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😭😭😭😭. The man tried to say that Beyonce is a 6 meanwhile he is 50 and making lives on YouTube while being lit by a candle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:11 PM
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Not a podcaster but Kevin Samuels. And anything involving Charlamagne Tha God and Joe Budden is like a red flag. But definitely the top red flag is Kevin Samuels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:24 AM
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A Kevin Samuels fan? OMG girl RUN RUN RUN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 11:40 PM
8

Sorry your first paragraph reminded me of Kev Samuels and I automatically cringed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:22 AM
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Oh that's the jersey of the Canadiens of Montreal 🥴 the fact that I can identify origins of the behaviour is like making this even worse for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:36 PM
8

He actually lost it in 2020 (or was it 2019?). He was literally begging to have his jobs back the whole year of 2020. Which is another reason he is an unfit partner. Who the hell recklessly endangers their income through hate speech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 05:10 PM
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Whew. The low value hopped out in this part: This man's deflection to her cheating claims are just astounding. Homie was living in her house and talking about they weren't together and if they were, and he got caught, he wanted to. He was already a cheat and now he is an absent father in the making. And people are going to blame women. Luckily Christina found herself a better relationship where there is actual commitment. And we, as women, need to see that there is no point in not standing by ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 04:23 PM
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I get the idea of telling women to choose better; I really do. But I also think it is important to acknowledge the levers of cultural misogyny at hand. Like I said in my title, a man can make 4 children with 3 different women in one year. And there will always be an amount of pickmeshas (in this case, he was selling lies to them and making kids behind their back). But the focus I wanted to have was on the culture that allows that. (Just to double click on the going behind people's back. Nick had…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:32 PM
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Yes. Nick Cannon always cheated around (see his relationship with Christina Milian). But now he is 40 and he has made 4 children with 3 different women in the space of a year. Abby de la Rosa is 30. His co-worker Alyssa, whom he got pregnant and is the next one to deliver, is also either in her late 20 or early 30s. So in his twenties, Nick knew how to use a condom. After his marriage (which ended like in his Mid-thirties) he didn't have other children for a while. Then he started with the mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 01:05 PM
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I definitely think that there is some impregnation / take my seed fantasy that he is playing out. Just to expand on the grossness. At some point after Mariah, he dated Jessica White and they were trying to have a child in order to start a family. Unfortunately, Jessica White experienced pregnancy loss. And to compound on the unfortunate circumstances we find out that Nick had impregnated his second baby mama (he already had a kid with her post-Mariah). That baby, Powerful Queen, was born in Dece…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 04:17 AM
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I never agreed with a comment more. When Mariah (his ex wife and the only one he actually married at that) wrote her book, she mentioned that it was important for her children to see that two divorced parents could get along and still make the holidays festive and be positive, present influences in their children's lives. Because she didn't have that. And now Nick is making kids left and right; his income was already threatened once because of his reckless words. So there is no guarantee that he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 12:23 AM
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It's amazing that she wrote this and Obsessed about Eminem- an abusive man who has a habit of lying on women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:43 PM
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Yes. So because some girls put their hair in a ponytail before giving a bl*wjob, now men out there are saying "oooh she is pulling her hair into a ponytail as if..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 06:58 PM
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They sexualized ponytails and eating bananas 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:42 AM
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Exactly! I'm thinking something is wrong that he isn't telling others. You are a 28 year old man and 25 year old women aren't interested? But we are supposed to believe that 38 year old women are interested?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:15 PM
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It's stupid patriarchy and misogyny. Some say the wall is even 30. It's ridiculous and a very hurtful thought to internalize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:34 PM
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He must be unattractive. He is saying that only women 38 and older hit on him? I highly doubt it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:51 AM
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It's nice to know that sometimes people just ... get it! Whew. This convo is just proof to keep holding onto your values because you can find other people who are aligned to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:59 PM
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The same happened in Sweden. Whew. I'm already exhausted at the concept of what moms have to deal with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:24 PM
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A murderer? A MURDERER??? A guy who committed homicide? .*faints.v
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:50 AM
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I think this is the legacy of the Firm after it bullied Diana. Diana was an aristo with an old Royal Bloodline. Who would want to put their daughter through that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 06:27 PM
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He isn't a nice guy though. He hacked into people's phone as an Editor of the Sun. He hacked into a dead girl's phone. He is the quintessential Weinstein/Berlusconi type. Powerful white men who will throw their power onto women (and it gets into this weird sexualized race zone for women of color) and then use all their resources to make them pay for rejection. Ross from Friends was peak Nice Guy. Piers is the senior manager from the office that you don't want to cross paths with. He is also marr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 06:22 PM
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I disagree. A dusty will definitely mistreat any woman of any race (see for example Iggy Azalea and her man) but the specific verbal abuse that Black men do to Black women (and I'm talking about monoracial Black women) should not be swept under the rug. I mean FFS I've seen Black men call Black women cockroaches. They will use white supremacist language AND they will have the audacity to try to dissuade/insult any man who treats a Black woman nicely (whether that man is Black or otherwise). We c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:52 PM
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Yep. I find that language cringy too. If they start sounding real hotepy (like "Black Women are goddesses." "Black wombman." "My Black Kween.") Issa no for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:43 PM
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I call this the safety raft strategy. When I moved to the West from Southern Africa, I was shocked at the levels of misogynoirism that I experienced from Black men. Black men here will degrade you, make you feel like shit, uplift other communities, erase the accomplishments of Black Women, literally use white supremacist rhetoric against you, and all of that. Now, let me tell you about an example of the safety raft strategy. There is a famous soccer player in Europe, and like most soccer players…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:40 PM
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Why is his head shaped like a butternut????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 05:45 AM
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She has the cheekbones that MUAs dream of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 04:05 AM
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Indeed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 09:03 PM
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The good thing is that since they aren't married her breaking up with him will mean that she doesn't have to go through the legal quagmire of a divorce-- yay! Easy way out of the gaslighting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 05:37 PM
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Tell him that you are just vibeeez
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:05 AM
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He refused to label their relationship -- whew an original fuckboy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:35 AM
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Damn I thought that she would have stopped experimenting with scroatation after dating Justin Bobby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:16 AM
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😭😭😭. This reminds me of some people out there with 5 year engagements
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:06 AM
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I don't want any of this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:28 AM
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This is peak forever girlfriend tales.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:28 AM
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My only reaction was a big sigh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 08:20 PM
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Honestly, the reactions to this case really make me understand even more the girls and women who said that sex positivity led them to doing a bunch of BDSM stuff that they didn't want to do. I mean a guy admitting that he wants to wreck you and tear you apart for his pleasure is nooooot a kink
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 12:06 AM
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I like Tiffany's work as well and I think she is talented but I think that that was unacceptable. I send all the love to the doctor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 09:54 PM
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B Simone has this embarrassing running joke that she wants Dababy and so now Dababy (a guy who has a baby mama that he is on and off again with but refuses to marry and who has committed physical violence on women) is dating this random person Dani Leigh. B Simone lamented how she couldn't compete to get chosen. Dababy has repeatedly made it clear that he doesn't want to publicly claim B Simone. Tiffany Haddish bullied a Black female doctor trying to inform folks about the vaccines in order to p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 09:30 PM
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Call Child Protective Services! 🙃🙃🙃🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 06:47 PM
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(cough) Tiffany Haddish and B Simone (cough).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:07 PM
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That's the sad part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:06 PM
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The sad thing is that no one reasonable things that flashing your peen would get you anywhere. So these men are literally fine with sexually harassing women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:55 AM
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🙄🙄🙄🙄 We shall learn to avoid these results by investing in friendships and community. Got a new hairstyle? Send a selfie to your friends! Got a flat tire? Invest time in learning about your community so that you can easily get help! If anything the problem is that between the prioritization of work, and the rising costs of living, we are finding it harder to build community. But the idea of saving us -- well, some men just don't do that at all to begin with. Women know that have strong relations…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:50 AM
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Especially when he is so uninvolved in his old one??? Any women would be decimated as being a "bad mother" (which means a terrible human apparently), but people don't criticize this dead beat behaviour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 03:28 AM
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It's Western men -- because the remnants of imperialism/neo-imperalism allows for them to travel without borders across the world. So they can't help but see travel as a substitute for personality. I also agree with the commenter that said that Canada's reputation of being boring (lol) probably helps these men feel the need to be escapist. But it is a Western man thing. In fact, I don't see how European men have any less incentive to travel a whole lot. Most non-upper class folks from the Global…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 09:40 PM
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I was going to say that OP's hands are so pretty !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 03:48 PM
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Whaaaaaaaaaaaa???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 04:43 AM
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And the answer is Kevin Samuels!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 10:26 PM
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God what an asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 04:30 PM
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Dump him girl. Why offer an engagement ring if he can't be bothered to actually buy it or size it properly. He will be just as lazy in other areas. The good news is that at 26 she is still young enough to bounce back and be in a much better place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 04:18 PM
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Even outside of college educated women, women are the ones who usually initiate divorce. So maybe men need to see why 50% of their marriages are ending in divorce
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:06 PM
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It really angers me that this happened to his own sister. Like what the hell?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:18 AM
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I'm appalled that there are people who are this cruel but also grateful that he said it very clearly. How fuxing fucked up is this???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:28 PM
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When it drizzles, it pours! I'm so glad that people have been calling them out. And that finally financial institutions are like stepping in. I think that for all the times that women were harassed for saying that the porn economy is terrible or the fact that there is a lawsuit against the No Fa/p page, and it turns out people were right. Whew. Hopefully this is a step towards the end of some of these issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 09:53 PM
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Yaaay! That's wonderful 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿. And it will be amazing for you two to have each other in your networks. Definitely an FDS win
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:01 AM
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Yes. They do get with fat white women while insulting and dissing fat Black women and sometimes their approach to women of other races is to diss Black women together. Because spreading anti-black hate and misogyny 🤗🤗🤗 why not? Why shouldn't a Black man opt into emotionally and mentally harming his community and then ask these same women from the community to be activists for him. It's very toxic. If non-black women want to date BM, they better veeeeeet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:57 AM
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I'm so sorry that you dealt with so many years of emotional abuse at the hands of these boys and men 🥺. Ugh I wish I could ban the idea of "humbling" black women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:54 AM
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They call Megan thee Stallion all kinds of wh*res and yet when she had one video with one white guy kiss her cheek, they all started crying. Weak. Weak. Weak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:51 AM
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Really between Twista and Thin Air, I would pick thin air.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:49 AM
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Honestly Twista is an irrelevant rapper who has a mugshot floating and who is 50 but I'm not surprised. BM have dragged and insulted Gabby and they cried as soon as she got engaged to a white millionaire. They also joined in on the abuse of Serena Williams and only learnt to respect her once she had a white man. I was thinking of creating a thread about Kev Samuels and the recent viral moment. I think there is a lot of FDS worthy discussion there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:47 AM
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I sure hope none of the commenters called her unfair but I don't have much hope in that subreddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:58 PM
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The men probably thought that they were having deep intellectual thoughts while relying on other's labor. It's 💀🥴🥴🥴🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 11:57 PM
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Listen when I found out that in the hippy communes of the 70s, most of the housework was done by women that's when I knew patriarchy ran deep. There is a tumblr post that puts it succinctly : "Yeah he is well read in leftist theory but does he wash the dishes?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:29 AM
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Oh totally at like the 4:30 Am zone. Like 5 AM is definitely in the early morning zone. But a little before 5AM you can find the threshold for the late marriage to early marriage. My guess is that 4 Am can still be seen as late but 4:30 AM feels closer to early morning. So if you want a early (morning) marriage, you gotta start marrying at 4:30 to 5 am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:58 PM
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Yep. Pump it Up. That's it. And now he antagonizes Black women on his podcast 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:51 PM
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I didn't know Marc Maron was a red flag. Like is he like his character on Glow?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 05:00 AM
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Men who love Elon Musk are a red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:48 AM
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I thought she was going to say I'll Name this Podcast Later, by Joe Budden. Anyone who says that anything that Joe Budden says is his favourite thing, is like simply a misogynoirist. Like Joe Budden's ex literally would hire dark skinned Black women as caterers for events because she knew Joe Budden hated Black Women. You gotta vet these men's podcast choices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:47 AM
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I would think 3 AM. Like it's not exactly day but it's not exactly the evening. Nothing is really opened. That is a late marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 10:14 PM
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Especially in Australia. I heard in that country animals do anything they please. Heck, the Emus even won a war over there. Should a woman be more afraid of a "late" marriage or of a Emu with a willingness to fight?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 10:12 PM
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That essay she wrote was so well-crafted. It's the first time I read her work but I look forward to reading more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 02:39 AM
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Exactly! Since when do people not make sure that the other person is trustworthy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 12:49 AM
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Exaaaaaaactly! Can you imagine that women's number one fear is death at the hands of a partner because 1 in 3 women is sexually abused, domestic violence is rampant and in fact, domestic violence is the number one pregnancy-related cause of death. Meaning that when women are pregnant, they are at higher risk of abuse. But it is so hard to deal with someone want to make sure that you are trustworthy. Message to Male Lurkers: Read Intrusions by Melissa Febos. Ask women around you how often they ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 12:44 AM
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Throw in a random cow analogy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 11:43 PM
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I hope that little girl never loses this part of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 05:52 AM
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Ahhh. In that sense, I get it. The homosocial is I think what it is called?? Like how men will construct and admire profoundly other men but they can't fully humanize women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:28 PM
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These sex for rent arrangements are unfortunately very common in Vancouver and Toronto -- but especially Vancouver. I remember when I lived there I was taken aback by the number of postings for those. Apparently, the women most affected by this are women fleeing domestic abuse. They only get a small stipend of like 400 or 600 dollars for housing which isn't enough in a city like Vancouver. So they end up trying to negotiate through this by offering companionship but not sex. Also homelessness is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 01:36 AM
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Ah, maybe I wasn't clear enough but I'm saying that the people in Indiana that she came across (she was in a more open-minded town but she had to drive around the state frequently) had a problem with Kamala being a woman and being a Black woman (though, Kamala is biracial - Jamaican and Indian). They didn't like the idea of a vice president with her background-- especially since this role implied that if anything happened she would be the president. This has nothing to do with her politics. Rath…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 08:47 AM
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You are so right. My sister lives in the US and during many years she lived in Indiana. She told me, Trump-Pence would win because in Indiana no one would stand the possibility of seeing a Biracial woman (of course, for them she is just Black) as Vice-president, meaning potential president. While Trump didn't win due to the hard work of grassroots organizers, she was right about how much some people couldn't and didn't want to have this moment happen. And little boys need to know that women can …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:23 AM
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What the heeeellll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:57 PM
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Especially guys who want to "try" to be with a woman of color. If he starts saying things like "I've never been with a ..." Or "Have you ever dated a ..." run!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:57 PM
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I listened to a podcast that explained that Dads spend more time with kids only because now moms also have to spend more time parenting kids. So they aren't different from their fathers ... Everyone is expected to parent the kid even more to the detriment of children who then get over parented. But how dare women not be perfect moms. Uuuugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:24 AM
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Wait, I'm lost why did he quit his job so suddenly. Did he over to do something else? I mean she would have been alone with a young child at the time? Also, it sounds like there was more going on than just porn. She is pregnant with the fourth child in addition to other issues. Like uuuugh. The way guys don't take time to have insight into their behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:09 AM
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By the way, it's so cool that you work in a field where you get to do analog space missions!!! 👑 Queen moves! Back on track, I am super creeped out by the guy who tried to call you immediately. I'm sure he would have sexually harassed you or flashed his peen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:40 AM
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I know this is a bit of a throwback. But remember the guy who was sent to do the groceries for his partner and texted her asking what and where are the shallots (clear example of learned helplessness). Do we think that ground turkey meat guy knows what a shallot is? Like did he add any elements of flavouring?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:35 AM
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Yes! Ladies invest in a good vibrator. The womanizer is incredible. Getting a good vibrator to stimulate your clitoris and explore yourself is key. It is growth. It is leveling up. It's a key part of owning your own sexuality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:10 AM
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He might as well have gotten a good fancy store bought cake at a good bakery and then put the personal touch elsewhere. Don't serve me this shit; you aren't a kid and I don't like giving A for effort to boyfriends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:47 AM
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He could have done a taco or seasoned it and put it over rice. Or gotten salad, vingrette, pasta sauce and put the sauce over the turkey (simmer together) and get something interesting served with pasta. There is so much he could have done and he did none of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:44 AM
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could actually cook very well, but was freaking lazy This man boiled fucking hot dogs and spaghetti noodles IN THE SAME POT, and plopped it on a plat Daaaamn. He really just hated her. I bet he would never treat his boys like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:42 AM
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Brown??? He didn't even brown it 😭😭😭. He should have thrown on some store bought pasta sauce to make it more appetizing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:24 AM
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I think the one year anniversary is the paper anniversary (well usually for wedding anniversaries but let's apply it for this relationship). He could have gotten her a scrapbook with a small letter for each month they spent together and one extra 13th month for what he looks forward too. It doesn't even have to be super crafty if the words are meaningful. A leafblower is more of a "hey Honey, I hear you about that yard work; here is a leafblower for us." Otherwise, he could have done this nifty …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:45 PM
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Yep. They are pushed really hard to be stay-at-home moms. And it's so sad that they put their best effort into work only to be looked at as doing this temporarily before having a kid. It's heartbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:52 PM
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Honestly I'm so sorry 🙏🏿. I hope that you keep leveling up and away from that man. You deserve so much better (and God, who wants to potentially deal with anti-black in-laws).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:49 PM
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The fact governments don’t try to correct the problem until it’s too late shows (1) governments rarely act in favor of the population it governs and its future (2) governments do not protect women’s bodies Governments make entire economic projections based on women having to be moms while not alleviating the task and not listening to women who feel overwhelmed and burdened in our child-centric cultures. But yes, the Ministry of Economy must make entire economic plans. Honestly, I'm kinda glad th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:46 PM
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Not really. Romance novel writers are mostly women. Rom com movies are mostly written and directed by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:16 AM
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Fifty shades and Twilight are very problematic. Fifty Shades skips over r*pe scenes and stalking and Twilight features controlling behaviour, stalking and the vampire is 100 years old dating a 17 year old. There are waaaay better books out there and they aren't representative per se of the whole romance genre 🤦🏿‍♀️. So no man should feel like he is competing with those two
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:08 PM
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Exactly!!! Romance authors like these smash to smithereens the myth that "asking breaks the mood" (what mood??! 😡). I read a book where the protagonists have sex for the first time and the guy (being a virgin) didn't even realize that he had to make sure to give his partner an orgasm. And the author made sure to have a character explain to the main guy how to make sure the woman orgasms. And the main male character went to see the female protagonist and rectified his mistake immediately!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:09 PM
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Yep! As someone who reads romance novels and even erotic romance novels, I'm tired of the conflation between the two ... It's a cheap "both sides" tactic to make men who watch porn feel less guilty. Now, as a caveat, I will say that I have seen some romance novels that do not follow ideals of consent very well and that propagate toxic masculinity. So choose carefully. But as a genre, this is women writing about women in romantic relationships (and it's more often about a woman going through a jo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 06:15 PM
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Is he kidding???? She is 9 years younger??? And she has to comfort him??? And he is expecting that because it makes him feel better for being stuck in a dead end job!??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:46 PM
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We don't know. In fact, I don't even know if she was serious with no-chin MoneyBagg. What we know is that G Eazy posted a video of her cuddled up with him while he was kissing up on her cheek. Then he posted a story of her, her friends and him and his friends cheersing with some drinks. Around Superbowl time I think? And all of Black Twitter went Aggy because here was Megan with a white man omg omg omg ! So she said there is nothing between them. But those some twitter folks probably said nothin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 08:45 PM
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Yeah. Like Kanye has been speaking a whole lot of ...uhm... Not great things And people are like "Oh it's cause his mom died." But Megan lost her mom like last year, and people are like "Why did you make Tory shoot you 😔." When she actually did a very good behaviour which is that when you have a bad fight, take some time away from the fight to cool off. And he shot her feet so she couldn't walk away. Sadly, Megan will have to learn not to expect much from Black Men and act in her own interest. L…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:32 PM
3

No 😂😂😂😂. I think she really doesn't like the rain. But so many other songs are pretty explicit like Work It, One Minute Man, Get Ur Freak On, and Sock It 2 Me. Those were ones that I was thinking of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:28 PM
17

Exactly! Apparently the police officers came at them pretty roughly, I think at the time of the shooting, she was worried about surviving because hello! The police could have shot her up too (police brutality against Black women isn't well highlighted.) Also, this move of protecting abusive men happens a lot in communities of color. The way out of it is empathy and support for the victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:18 PM
7

The sad part is that she has neither her mom or dad to help her navigate through this. And with all the BS she got from the video with G-EAZY (because how dare a black woman -- especially a brownskin or dark skinned one-- openly be in an interracial relationship), really makes me wonder if she will get the support she needs in order to level up in her dating life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:16 PM
8

Absolutely. It doesn't help that there is anti-vasectomy propaganda in the form of every sitcom there ever was... Even though vasectomies are safer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:03 PM
5

It is such a good article! And yes the "sir" definitely made it a winner for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:14 PM
29

Remember when they axed the male birth control because it caused depression. Meanwhile ours 🙃🙃🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 01:31 PM
36

No scrubs is super FDS material!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 01:12 PM
75

Or from Missy Elliott songs. The thing in rap is that women are expected to sexualize themselves. I usually enjoy Megan thee Stallion's lyrics more because she tends to center female pleasure more (eg. Captain Hook) but yeah I agree, I don't see WAP as out there. What I will say is that I enjoyed that Vulture magazine article where a journalist asked a gynecologist about the WAP lyrics -- it was entertaining AF. And I think that it's good for women (20s onwards) to know that you should be arouse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 01:11 PM
78

I read this tweet about a mom who went to a pediatrician for a checkup of her twin babies -- one is a boy and the other is a girl. The babies are around the same weight. Yet the pediatrician suggested that the mom should monitor the daughter's weight because she might be getting a little big. These are babies!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 04:24 AM
30

And she is a dancer! Turns out that Tory has a history of abusing women. I briefly read about an ex of his having to run away and getting stalked. Tory shot both feet. He pulled a gun and shot her. Like that is ??? The level of violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 01:12 AM
60

It's the fact that she is black and brownskinned. Like a lot of people are super colorist!!!! They make all sort of excuses for Kanye West and his behaviour based on the loss of his mother. But Meghan lost her Dad, lost her mom, and she is 25 and all alone and famous. And she got shot in her feet without having her mom's shoulder to cry on. These men were screaming and huffing and puffing at the idea of her dating a white man (G-EAZY) but look at how they are behaving. That's why I don't get the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:59 AM
5

I mean it's great to see that even men know the games of other men... But whew, I hate the ShadeRoom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 03:00 PM
32

Omg that's so scary he is a convicted child rapist and he was trying to deny a woman's fair warning to parents???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 12:52 AM
1

Omg 😭. I just googled him. I thought Led Zepplin was a person not a multi-person band??!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 04:33 AM
1

Wait is Jimmy Page a famous guy??? I guess I'm too young to know about him at his peak. That said I'm close to the woman's age in the article.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 04:25 AM
11

Omg report him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 04:20 PM
39

Omg he totally stalked her!! Now I can understand when a few years back feminists online were outraged at the sell of Halloween costumes of stalkers. Like women are out here getting staaaaaalked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 04:19 PM
15

It's so sad because that's a normal standard. The bar is on the floor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 12:35 PM
22

I definitely think that Meghan has some stuff to deconstruct (namely around the comment of the body count but also around the pressure to protect abusers). That said, I think she is working in a difficult context (male dominated industry, a lot of misogyny and misogynoir, colorism). I hope that some FDS ideas find their way into her. Lyrically, I really appreciate her emphasis on female pleasure (ie receiving oral, advocating for your needs). There is definitely room for growth with her so I'll …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 02:48 PM
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Poor Megan got shot in the foot and men in the Black community mostly made memes out of it. But they were out here crying when she was on camera with a white guy. Talk about cultural misogyny. Otherwise, I appreciate just how much Megan talks about getting head and advocating for your own self-pleasure. (It's a nice change from male rappers 🙄 and others who talk about penetration centred intimacy)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 12:19 PM
12

And Kevin Hart did it to two different women!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 08:44 PM
218

This is so true and beyond awful. I can't personally ever date a guy who is anti-choice. Guys can decide not to be parents by just abandoning their kids but they have so much to say. EDIT: Thank you for the award!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:52 PM
15

You read them well. Other Redditors on other forums mentioned that >! Nadia and Vinay probably took things to the next level physically which is why she got ghosted twice. !< Apparently, matchmaking as a process can take a long time (some Indian folks said that it can take even 3 years), so I don't hold that against Sima Aunty in spite of her clear misogyny 😖. I do think the show is an interesting case study for why FDS is important overall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 02:06 AM
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SPOILER! SPOILER >! In an update for the LA Times and Decider, Akshay confirmed that the engagement was called off the day after the pre-engagement ceremony (ie the Roka). So Radhika is not married or engaged to him. He is still single! Thank the heavens for not letting her deal with all that mess !<
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:32 PM
40

Between Akshay and Pradhyu whewww the number of spoilt terrible men that appeared in that show was through the roof
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:12 PM
139

Akshay is ... everything that women should avoid. He said he doesn't want his wife to work because who will take care of the kids. He only learnt to make his bed once he was abroad for university. And the only dates he has been on are those that are a part of the arranged marriage process. But I would love to see what others have to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:52 PM
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👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 Thank you! The amount of abuse (verbal, emotional, online, physical) that black girls and women are put through and then the need to protect these men in the "name of the community" grinds my gears 😡😡😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:42 PM
36

Wouldn't cleaning up our aura be a part of becoming a High Value Woman? It definitely is a part of investing in ourselves and leveling up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:31 PM
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The fact that I've heard a number of stories of men not being able to accept that a woman can feel sick, or be tired and choose to say no is highly disturbing. It's also very rapey. This shows how much danger we face when dating. He is an awful human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 05:04 PM
8

That's totally assault. What the hell!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 01:17 PM
10

😂👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 Queen moves!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 12:53 AM
8

1990 Nazi Germany??!!? 🤢😱😱😱😱😱😱😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 06:47 PM
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She was a freakin intern. I think that some of the weeks where she was working she wasn't even paid. Bill had already previously cheated and he was involved in sexual assault allegations. But I love how he scoffed at the idea of talking about it in the metoo era 😒😠😠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:36 PM
12

OMG I found it! The new reality of dating over 65: Men want to live together; women don’t It's a beautiful article! Hopefully, it maps onto your Grandma's experience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:19 PM
18

But if every woman decided to be a cat lady who would cook dinner for them? 🙃🙃🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:30 PM
39

Speaking of this, CBC I think, ran an article about how older women (50+ y.o) are dating around but refusing to move in with men because of this exact thing. They have dealt with cooking and cleaning for a man a little too much. They are enjoying new freedoms. Time with their gal pals, travelling, hobbies and the man on the side. Men felt really sad because they want to progress the relationship into moving in together. EDIT: I found the article The new reality of dating over 65: Men want to liv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:28 PM
90

To buy presents for her bf 🥴🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 02:43 AM
111

Hmm. Yes. The way that the industry preys on young girls and just in general vulnerable people is pretty gross. I think Mia Khalifa said she was only 21 when she made her videos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 02:41 AM
28

It's so gross and biphobic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 06:02 PM
23

The thing is that black women suffer too from police brutality (both as direct victims and co-victims) and the police directs less resources to them (example Belly Mujinga's death not being investigated or the huge delay investigating R Kelly). Black men are derailing because they are exercising their male privilege. Heck over on black French twitter, these young black girls were talking about being sexually abused by a fetishist and all these black men derailed the conversation by saying this w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 01:25 PM
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Same. I'm happy she called it out all over Facebook and I hope that someone or multiple people comment saying "Wow Husband, she works hard all day but you can't put the toilet paper roll where it should be? Glad I don't cause needless stress to my spouse. " These men need to learn the concept of shame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 04:03 AM
10

But the Agony Aunt wants her to have compassion for the guy. Eff him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:18 AM
9

Technically he is doing this in her bedroom no? So she should kick him out. (edit: it turns out it's their bedroom). Oh well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 11:38 PM
23

I want to join in the dragging! The guy clearly has erectile dysfunction related to porn. Even the people over at no fap subreddit -- which is for guys who dealt with compulsive porn use would disagree with the advice columnist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 11:14 PM
19

38 where??? 😂😂😂. Maybe he was born in 1938.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 11:04 PM
12

Like there was full segregation. Most countries were still colonies. Nope. Not going back to that time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 10:13 PM
9

Mans 60! There is no way a 41 year old looks like the twin of Santa Claus. Now why is he lying instead of just assuming his own age? Do men also "hit a wall" 🤔😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 02:15 PM
31

Like do all humans have daily wars to be decent or is that just men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:50 AM
48

I agree with this! My ex suffered from depression. But unlike me, he refused to do any heavy lifting so he expected me to do it. Which led to the demise of the relationship. Depressed men will use women as therapists ... Especially if they aren't taking care of themselves or taking ownership of self-care. Be careful with any man who demands too much emotional care from you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:34 AM
18

Omg how weirdly sexual. Whelp. There goes the friendship. I'm sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:58 AM
11

People forget as well in a lot of "old time " marriages, there was a lot of misery. The man could cheat with absolutely no consequence. Divorce could be financially detrimental to the woman (and it still is). Family planning was harder. And let's not forget, that with the emergence of no fault divorce, the suicide rates of married women dropped significantly. I hate when women are so pressed about marital status that they can't even acknowledge that not all marriages are built the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 09:09 AM
11

Burundi! Yes. We still deal with featurism to this day. But like even in places like France or The UK, black men have these disturbing behaviours towards Black women. In fact, just yesterday on Twitter, Black French men were catching heat because of a hashtag they created a few years back called "Everything is Black except the women we date" (ie we are pro black but no black women). It's beyond awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 02:17 PM
15

Outside the American context, this is also a huge problem. For example, in my home country, European colonizers used featurism to create eugenicist ideas around intelligence and who deserved to have power. Colorism is also rampant in multiple African countries that I've lived in. To the point that some are bleaching their skin. Just adding in this perspective for black women Redditors who aren't American but that are dealing with self-hating black men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 02:07 PM
34

Dang the guy decided to straight up neg. And he is black too -- so I would block. I'm not dealing with hair politics right off the bat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 05:35 AM
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And people are blaming her being like choose better as if many men aren't exactly like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 08:22 PM
17

As a black woman I am highly disturbed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 12:03 PM
29

I thought this only happened in psychological thrillers. Unfortunately there are so many guys out there who want to "teach" women a "lesson". She needs to set up an escape plan because this will get worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 05:50 PM
77

"shut up you simp" looooooooool 😂😂😂😂. Good! We love to see it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 03:05 PM
13

Like you can't offer to share a Starbucks cake pop?????? How hard is that???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 11:09 PM
62

It was a romance author. She went on a first date at a coffee shop. Her date bought two cake pops. And instead of offering her one, he ate both of them in front of her. And because she is in her thirties I guess he implied that she was old and needed to make babies stat. She shared the first part of the story (about him not sharing the cake pop) and got called a gold digger and received death threats. That's when she added the second part of the story. That was a wild moment on the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 09:31 PM
58

Yes! We have seen an explosion in divorce rates in China and the United States, divorce lawyers are getting an increase in new client intakes. It's sad. I read an article about spouses who just found out through this quarantine that their spouse had been having an affair this whole time. Meanwhile some guys are starting new affairs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:44 PM
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This is at the same level as that guy who bought two cake pops while on a date with a female romance author. And he didn't offer her any and instead he ate them both in her face. Then he had the audacity to call her old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:16 PM
9

How can someone give a BJ... If COVID is a respiratory decease and struggling to breathe is a major symptom of the disease???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 02:37 PM
23

Doubt that it's fake. Unfortunately, a lot of girls get parentified, especially the eldest daughters. That's why I was surprised and saddened that it was a middle child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 12:07 AM
2

Not to mention how racist and fetishist this is. Ew. Very ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 09:38 PM
3

I heard such good things about Animal Crossing! 🙌🏿 🙌🏿 🙌🏿 I just think that you deserve so much more energy than what this guy have to you. Wishing you luck, safety, health and more Animal Crossing milestones during this quarantine 🤞🏿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 05:33 PM
8

Girl. I know this is totally not FDS approved, but I've gone through the online dating apps and even when I start convos with an interesting topic guys don't respond. I found more success with a low energy hey than with actual conversation. Again, men are cheap 🥺😭😭😭😭. I hope post Rona you can find someone who actually matches your conversational skills
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 05:24 PM
6

I mean the way these men are getting horny horny, the girl could have at least asked for 50 to 100 dollars. You know. Enough for groceries. Also I hate men who do the whole "technically" bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 03:07 PM
11

By the way, can I just say that someone with the conversational skills to discuss ASMR, relaxation and make a recommendation, followed up with a question, should never have been ghosted in the first place. Men are so ... Cheap these days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 03:02 PM
30

He looks like the old lady in the Ghibli movie Howls Moving Castle -- all folds no bone structure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 01:21 PM
4

Wait ... The person next to her in the thumbnail is her SO and not her relative or mom?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 01:19 PM
11

The girl's mom died 4 months ago of cancer and the dead wanted to get married with a girl who is 5 years older and with whom he cheated on said mom? He is disgusting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 03:47 PM
7

One who is going to get the bag and then divorce him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 03:01 PM
21

The problem isn't that she can't be HVW. But that the original (ie the one with the white girl who is wearing a long sleeve top) both the girl and boy are clothed. In the original strip the guy is wearing a t-shirt. A LVM took the time to redraw this in a black version and make the black woman naked. That's the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 02:27 AM
15

It always has to be super tight or he will make drawing about kings and the "Queen" will be half -dressed. They are gross gross gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 02:25 AM
12

Omg do you remember when they would call us wombmen. Do you remember that level of BS?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 02:25 AM
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Can I just say that I hate that the illustrator who made the black version made the black girl naked? Just goes to show that we are objectified and hypersexualized even in our own community.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 01:42 AM
12

I heard some are secretly going to the gym and the gyms are secretly letting them in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 03:04 AM
10

So many business people talk about him with giddiness and admire his every move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 03:33 AM
18

Whenever I see his name I think of the time that Azealia Banks, Grimes and him were all stuck in the same house or whatever the story was. I just remember it being hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 03:32 AM
8

I always took it as a persona so I never really took any of what she said in the actual song seriously. Imagine taking the pickme anthem Video Games to heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:42 PM
9

It's the smartest thing a woman can do. In many places they have them or women will get together and pool their money and then one person gets to all the money collected on a rotating basis. It's called a tontine in Senegal. Too bad that the husband is mad but with the rates of abusive marriages and how economically impacted women are during divorce, seperations or even events like welcoming a new child or abortion, it's a smart thing to do. Men can't even grasp the beginning of sexism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:16 AM
6

They always come back during the holidays. It's so weird 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 04:11 AM
16

I hooked up with a guy about 3 years ago. This past holiday season he reached out to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:56 PM
23

The dead bedroom was probably a result of him slacking off so much and the woman being so stressed that she got a permanent ick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 11:30 PM
25

Isn't a coffee two bucks? What's next buying two cake pops and eating it in her face?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 11:28 PM
11

I love Ms. Hollis' energy!!! Yes! We need this bill
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:29 PM
9

But that tends to happen in abusive relationships. A person in an abusive relationship returns like 4 or 5 times before they leave for good. We aren't in a culture that explains abuse and abusers very well and we tend to underestimate how mentally manipulative they are. So I don't blame her. Especially since she was like 22 at the time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 04:44 PM
29

People hated on Rih for Chris Brown and Drake ... They slutshamed her. Men wanted to make her feel lesser. And look where she is now. A woman with multiple multi-million dollar businesses. She owns all the masters to her music. She has 14 number one hits. She created a production house for her content. She has a great foundation named after her grandmother. And all her work is highly anticipated. Plus, she keeps her faith and reminds herself to be grounded Rih is a great example on making sure t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:46 PM
3

The funny thing is that apparently in the original book she was a pickme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 11:00 PM
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Not to mention that a public proposal is usually a no go in my books. And on Valentine's Day (which is super commercial). Some people in the original thread are complaining that we have expensive expectations but if money is tight, you are better off putting the budget of the restaurant meal towards a home cooked meal (and clean up after yourself) -- because at least that is personal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:43 AM
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I don't know how to insert a screenshot but someone replied this in the original twitter thread. I died thrice while reading it. Talk about a nightmare """"""My mom and I went to Olive Garden on Valentine's Day. A Bday dinner for me (my Bday is in early Feb) so we picked Feb 14 to go out and eat. No joke, there were these guys proposing every second and everyone had to clap. We decided to leave early because it was getting annoying."""""
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:38 AM
7

Wait until he starts reciting to you texts from Audre Lorde. 😂😂🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:20 AM
28

Someone told me that Olive Garden is a little below Joey's and Earl's. But a little above Swiss Chalet Edit: So apparently Olive Garden is the Italian Denny's according to someone in the original thread.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:16 AM
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Can you imagine being proposed to in a Swiss Chalet 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:07 AM
12

Nando's is nice but not nice enough for a proposal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:04 AM
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I heard some choose to propose in Cheesecake factory
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 01:59 AM
25

Not the intersectional feminist card 😂😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 06:08 AM
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I couldn't even agree with a commenter by saying that porn plays a huge role in this behaviour without having to make a 3 paragraph long addendum explaining that I understood that there were these types of exceptions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 08:59 PM
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Omg I remember that one. It was on Reddit. I hate it here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 03:18 PM
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