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DISCUSSIONCauliflowerBlossom/r/RedPillWomen26/04/21 06:56 PM
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I said something like "Even if the man in question deserves such a sentiment, it's a red flag for a woman to use those derogatory phrases frequently. It's a sign that she has a negative view of men in general." I read your comment as "To be fair, I know some men who are man-child" instead of "To be fair, I know some men who use man-child." I was embarrassed by my blunder so I deleted my comment.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/21 10:18 AM
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I deleted my other comment because I read your comment wrong. I thought you said "are" instead of "use". My mistake.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/21 02:10 AM
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Other red flag phrases are "useless man", "man-child", and the very obvious "men are trash". You want to look for a woman who knows that uplifting good men is far more effective than putting them down.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/21 12:39 AM
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Never take nudes should be a hard and fast rule taught to all young women. There was a Reddit post where a girl found out about a website that people used to upload nudes that women had sent them. She checked it and found thousands of nudes of random women, some of whom she knew personally. Not even the ones who cropped their heads out were safe because people would attach pictures of their faces above their bodies. The posts would include the girls' names, ages, social media handles, and other …
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/21 07:20 PM
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I agree. Women don't just test men, they test each other. Maybe her mother is scared for her and is trying to check if her daughter has the mental strength to stand up to people who treat her badly. I do think it's equally as likely that her mother feels threatened that her daughter's lifestyle directly contradicts her own and is making jabs at her to defend her own ego. All of the people coming into this subreddit and posting "I get looked down on for being/wanting to be a SAHM, please help" or…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/21 03:44 AM
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No, I didn't say that. Even in ancient times (depending on where you lived) women were queens, social activists, healers, writers, artists, etc. Now the options for women have expanded (again, depending on where you live) and women are presidents, judges, astronauts, surgeons, etc. But when you compare women to men, it is clear that men have always achieved more because that is their role in society. This is unlikely to ever change because of the way men and women are built. Their mistake is try…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/21 02:32 AM
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You seem to have a skewed view of how the world works. Not every man is a king who sees women as completely replaceable/dispensable. Men are not perfect nor do they have it all. A man can do everything a woman can do and more except childbirth/breastfeeding/maternal care. Women were made to be mothers and if you don't see value in that then I don't think anything I say is going to get through to you. The women who come here with these types of ideas are always young women for a reason. Give it a…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/21 04:25 AM
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Sounds like you had a great experience that changed your mindset towards women in a positive way. You know, every month or so we get someone like you on this subreddit. Someone who laments being born as a weak female and rues the fact that they were not born as a male. Because after all men run faster, jump higher, achieve more, make greater contributions to society, etc. And compared to that what do women do? Kowtow to men and offer them sandwiches while he manages five companies and designs th…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/21 02:38 AM
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I agree with u/CountTheBees. u/Gaditagordrita just made your day with her warm, genuine compliment. A person who isn't on the defensive, someone who is not consumed with the pursuit of money, power, glory, and honor, someone who will smile brightly at you and make you feel good about yourself is amazingly valuable. That's what being a high value feminine woman means. I gave you the award because being open and receptive to compliments is a feminine trait and I wanted to instill the idea that fem…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/21 02:16 AM
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Each gender tries to project the qualities they find attractive in the other gender. Being a high flyer and being hard to get are qualities that women look for in men, but not vice versa. Being soft and passive are qualities that women resent in men, but not vice versa. Bringing out these qualities might push him away and diminish his own. If you bring sandwiches to a picnic, the other person will bring juice because the need for sandwiches has been fulfilled and a need for juice has been create…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/21 05:39 PM
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American films and tv shows always show the female lead winning over the man's heart with her witty/sarcastic comebacks. They show this as a way to satisfy the American woman's masculine pride, "See? I'm not like other girls who act stupid and cater to the male ego. I can hold my own as one of the guys." Trying to win over a man with snarky comments is a mating strategy just the same as trying to win him over by letting him tease you. The difference is that the former doesn't work and the latter…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/21 01:44 PM
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The next step might not be to resign yourself to being single forever, but to enter nun mode and focus on yourself for awhile.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/21 05:30 AM
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Don't let him feel like you pity him. Saying "I'm sorry" or "I feel guilty" will probably make him feel worse. Treat him with the utmost confidence and respect. Remind him that, as you said in another comment, this was just a job he took as a gap filler. Remind him of everything he's succeeded at, everything you admire him for. In fact, just tell him everything you said in your comment down below. Physical touch is very important. If you're not having sex, then just touching his arm or back is g…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/21 04:16 AM
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Oh hey, you're also one of my favorite commenters here. I always enjoy reading your rational, matter-of-fact comments. I agree entirely. The women who have sky-high standards are usually not looking for an equal match, but for a fantasy guy. The dream is that the 10 will love her at a 6 and reveal that she was a 10 all along. It's natural for women to be hypergamous, but expecting that level of perfection is unrealistic. Of course, both men and women have this fantasy so it's not limited to gend…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/21 03:44 PM
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Yes, absolutely. The important thing is to understand yourself so well that you don't even need a list anymore. I don't have the link, but there was a post about how lists are born from fear. For women their reality seems to be that they have only one chance to choose the one man who will become their partner, leader, and potentially provider or co-parent for life. This one choice can literally make or break a woman's life. (Disclaimer: Not saying that women can't find happiness in a second marr…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/21 02:39 PM
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I'd like to add: try to understand the difference between quirks you can work with and quirks that are deal-breakers. Women are very quick to notice the little things, the real trouble comes with discerning which little things they should pay attention to. RPW has many stories that go, "My boyfriend is masculine, kind, and hard working...but he [insert flaw]". Just like OP said, no man is perfect. When you choose a person, you are also choosing the set of good qualities/flaws that you are willin…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/21 11:34 PM
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It seems that your anxiety may be getting the best of you. You haven't written anything about talking to your boyfriend about these issues, but have jumped right ahead to questioning whether or not your relationship can be saved. Of course, I'm not saying you should dump all of your worries onto him and demand that he fix them. But the snoring and the loss of attraction seem to have a simple solution: talk to him about losing weight. Your emptiness doesn't seem to be only the fault of your relat…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/21 07:11 PM
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It's not shameful to have a kink and it's not shameful to not want to participate in a kink. Try to figure out if this is something you could get comfortable with. If it's not, you'll have to talk to your boyfriend and figure out whether or not this is a deal-breaker. Even if something is completely sane, it's okay to not want it in your life. For example, it's completely sane to be a neat freak. Even so, you may decide that you are not compatible with neat freaks. The main thing is that you try…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/21 06:56 PM
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Your wording is a bit unclear. Are you saying that you (M30) are being mass unfriended by women that you had flirtatious relationships with in your mid 20s? I think it's safe to assume that these women you met are also around 30 now. It's possible that they're in committed relationships and are unfriending people who might raise unwanted questions with their boyfriends/husbands. Even if your last encounter was positive, they may be disappointed that the relationship was never taken further. They…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/21 07:34 PM
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Generally men know what they want when they see it and don't waste time on romantic fantasies. They prefer to exercise their imagination on adventures far more exciting than dating. Even though there are men who like to imagine that sort of thing, it's still considered a feminine pastime and therefore may come off as unattractive. To give an analogy, lifting weights is an activity mainly enjoyed by men. Doesn't mean there aren't women who enjoy lifting, but it's uncommon and also a bit unattract…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/21 11:16 PM
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Femininity doesn't mean sitting pretty while your husband deals with everything you don't want to deal with. Traditional housewives have always had to do distasteful things. Cleaning vomit off the floor, skinning dead animals, childbirth, etc. I would argue that it is quite natural for the woman to step up sometimes. How else would mothers be able to protect their children and manage their households while the men are away?
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/21 06:04 PM
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A lot of people are refuting to this post by saying that it's the husband's choice and no one forced him to marry his wife. That doesn't mean it's not a sacrifice. I'd liken it to a woman who wants to be a mother having a baby. She chose to go through with it and she's happy with her choice, but that doesn't mean she hasn't sacrificed anything for her child. Her vitality, her youth, her physical health, etc. This knowledge isn't meant to guilt children into feeling like life-sucking leeches. It'…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/21 07:57 PM
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There could be many factors at play here, but I'm going to focus on one. Men don't operate the way women do. Women are codependent. They function by freely giving and receiving support. Men are independent. Their attitude is more akin to, "I take care of my responsibilities and you take care of yours." If someone fails to do their duty, men don't think, "They're having a hard time and I have to lend a hand." They think, "Someone didn't do their job and now I'm left to do the dirty work." They fe…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/21 04:48 AM
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I'm sorry, I didn't mean to insult you. I just know that bad situations can muddle even the most intelligent of people. I think I misread the situation, as I often do. It's clear that you understand what your options are and what is holding you back. It doesn't seem like there's anything I can help you with. I'm afraid that the most I can do is offer you my condolences.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 10:14 PM
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I want to clarify--are you saying that you are only staying with him out of fear that you will not be able to find a good man? I'm going to be brutally honest here so scroll past if you don't want to read it. It's true that a divorced woman who is presumably in her mid thirties with kids is not going to be 99% of men's first choice. That doesn't mean you can't find a good man, but it means you'll have to look at men who are not 99% of women's first choice. That means older men with kids who are …
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 09:27 PM
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Women who show femininity bring out people's instinct to support/protect. For example, most of the questions asked on r/socialskills only get 2-3 answers. But there was one girl who wanted to get advice on how to act less "soft". She got 11 answers.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/21 08:00 PM
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I don't know if this is too TRP for RPW, but I think OP unintentionally shit tested her husband. She friendzoned him and showed him the worst details of her CC phase, the ultimate recipe for deterring any man who might be interested in you. I think she became impressed after seeing that his feelings for her didn't waver. A woman can develop attraction towards any man who passes her tests, although of course shit tests are manipulative and discouraged in RPW. After determining that he was mate ma…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/21 08:03 AM
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There's a phenomenon that happens where women who are a complete mess end up attracting the kindest, strongest men. My theory is that these women are the ones who show the most vulnerability, so extraordinarily virtuous men feel the need to give them all of their protection and care. It puts him in the position of the good guy, the knight in shining armor. That might be why he doesn't get mad when she messes up, because he's used to swooping in and saving her. So while from the outside it seems …
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/21 12:04 AM
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