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Bonnie Blue is getting some boys who are too young and too drunk to make the best decisions to line up to have sex on camera, its not the same as drugging your own child to total incapacity and raping and filming her with your friends. It is predatory and disgusting but its not monstrous in the same way. She's not even really tricking anyone, just offering them a self destructive decision they willingly take.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 08:11 PM
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But men do say they find submissive more feminine women attractive. Attraction is often stated to be based on societal standards that are outdated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:46 PM
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The implication here is that every false accusation is made by someone who is extremely likely to be a significant danger as a whole, but I dont think in general false accusers generally go on to murder people. There are even rare cases of non intentional false reports- the author Joyce Carol Oates misidentified a man in a lineup when she was very young and raped by a stranger, and he served his entire sentence before he was absolved by DNA evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:50 AM
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I mean hell hath no fury like a woman scorned is an old ass quotation for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:40 AM
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Idk if it would be helpful to hear this, but my friend got me and my husband in contact, that's how we met. She worked with him. He's been unemployed most of our relationship and is under 6 foot and I love him. My friend, husband and I are all extremely strange people though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:44 AM
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Clothing choice and political spectrum are not exactly correlated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:43 AM
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Clothes are not personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:41 AM
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Clubbing is not drinking and partying with friends, and its not a hobby. Let's not deny what clubbing is, its going to a loud sweaty room to dance and get drunk, and those activities can be a temptation to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:09 AM
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I dont think lots of casual sex is healthy or safe for either sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:04 AM
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I havent exactly done a study, but if we are discussing casual sex/ one night stands, it would not be too surprising if only a few men were successful in that regard. But apparently something like 50% of adult men in the United States are married, so i think it would help people's mental health and be better for society if we devalued promiscuity and encouraged young people to date with a regard to eventually getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:59 PM
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"He made me yelp"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:55 PM
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Im quite sure most women are aware of this fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:53 PM
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False. The ways you look to get laid are very different from the ways you look to get into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:49 PM
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Agree. You aren't going to get the majority of people to fight against their impulses for competition to create a gentler world and there isn't that much flexibility in attraction and especially compatibility. That said, i don't think its impossible to get a partner as a man if you don't make 6 figures or whatever nonsense people spout. In 2023 49% of men were married and current estimates are that 32% of men earn over 100k, I'm not certain how accurate that is. A lot of high earners are tech br…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:24 AM
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Most people could find someone to be with if they lowered their standards frankly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:57 AM
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I'm not trying to be an asshole and I really can't speak for all women, but theres so much more one can be intrigued by in life than fancy bags or vacations or what have you. Relationships shouldn't be about one person trying to buy stuff for the other person to be happy and entertained, it should be two people making memories and enjoying life together. Like for example, I've been to disneyland as a kid but going with my husband was a very different and unique experience, and we find joy in lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:28 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:09 AM
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Also, I just noticed you misrepresented me when you said "what man wants a stay at home wife and doesn't provide for her" when i explicitly said these men see being traditional as not having to do women's work but also not having to make men's wages simultaneously. So it is an entirely self serving version of traditionalism. You are putting words in my mouth which I never gave you permission to do. Thus I challenge you to a dagger fight on the town common at dawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:53 AM
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Please please lay off the roids. I never even said what I thought the real trad life is, I absolutely do know what it is, I was literally raised in it, chill out. In response to you saying some young women want to the ones getting chased all the time but want equality when it suits them, I said yep, and some young men want to be waited on hand and foot but don't want to pay all the bills. I'm pretty sure traditional courtship is not supposed to be entirely one sided. Hypocrisy is a human failing…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:48 AM
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I said "some," sweaty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:38 AM
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Just have seen many examples of men earning the same as or less than their spouses and still expecting the spouse to do the lions share of the household labor and child care. It's not exactly fair or reasonable to expect one spouse to never have any leisure time. I'd argue it's not exactly fair even if one partner earns more if both are working similar hours- if you need both spouses working then it's irrelevant that one spouse is bringing in less, they are still working to keep the household so…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:04 AM
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One could argue the same about some young men. They want trad wives but don't make enough money to have a stay at home wife because few people do in this economy. They will want a woman who cooks and cleans and behaves submissively, does the majority of childcare, but will still expect her to make money and accuse her of being a gold digger if she actually wants to stay at home, or if they make good money and let her stay at home they will nickle and dime her and insist it's their money and not …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:25 AM
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Who even is ok nowadays anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:15 AM
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Do you install frequent updates or what is the solution
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:43 AM
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Date another autist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:09 PM
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Teeth or no
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:07 PM
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I think one of the things I’m realizing is a lot of people haven’t met a lot of people, especially zoomers and younger but even older. Humans are very good at generalizing because we are both predator and prey and need to be able to do that on the fly. It has evolutionary advantages and it’s difficult to break out of that tendency.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:45 AM
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I think being in a relationship and talking with your partner can get annoying too, and really I do think humanity might be more diverse than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:41 AM
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I would say it’s a but strange but I think I might get it too, it can be a lot easier to communicate with the same gender because there actually do tend to be certain differences due to I think definitely hormonal/ biological factors. I didn’t necessarily mean there aren’t differences in male and female brains, I meant that those differences generally don’t change that we are all frightened animals in a way, if that makes sense. I think for example you might go to your dad with problems and be c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:33 AM
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Women do not fuck only guys they respect. First of all there are actual literal prostitutes in this world my brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:03 AM
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There’s also the “I can fix her” bro, this is a thing I have actually seen happen right before my very eyes. It happened to one of my bros, now an ex bro because of the said crazy person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:01 AM
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Are you religious because if not this is fucking weird
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:49 AM
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It sounds to me like you don’t like women because you don’t see them as basically men with different hormones and social conditioning. We are all human and we can all like connect on things other than sex. Are you friends with women? Do you never have interesting conversations with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:45 AM
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What about intellectually
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:40 AM
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Is that what the op of this subthread meant though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:40 AM
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The “provider model” has only ever functioned for people with enough disposable income, which means a small segment of people at a certain point in history. Prior to the Industrial Revolution, a bunch of people worked on their family farms or plowed someone else’s fields or what have you, and that meant women did the farming work often alongside men. Landed gentry with independent wealth? Men are probably just as useless as women. Industrial Revolution? Poor men, women, and children being fed to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:38 AM
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When we get highly effective safe reversible birth control for men that doesn’t damage them horribly it will be a wonderful day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:24 AM
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I feel there should at the very least be a way to perform “financial abortion” via the court system. Like maybe if you are having casual sex or can somehow prove you didn’t consent to have children ahead of time you should be able to sign over your rights before the birth as well as be freed of financial obligation. The reason I say it might be better to do this via the court system is because there are just a very limited number of cases in which a man might agree to have a child and then sudde…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:49 AM
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I’m just concerned that the youth of tomorrow will all try to run a harem like him and wind up sad when they realize they can’t all literally run a harem because there is really only like 0.9 girls for every boy (I initially thought there were more women than men so was going to say 1.1 girls but then looked it up and apparently there’s slightly more males than females)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:11 PM
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To me an alpha denotes someone with leadership qualities, generally a strong and confident person. I think this lady wants to be an alpha but I sort of have a feeling she might be the worst sort of person to put in charge. Highly insecure but highly guarded, meaning in order to show dominance she will be a micromanaging petty tyrant. I hope she actually doesn’t have any true power over people because I have been burned terribly by people like this. I’m a doctor so I feel I can say confidently th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:52 PM
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Andrew Tate doesn’t even seem to want or speak about normal relationships though, a lot of his advice just seems to be about pimping and not about actual love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:35 PM
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This only makes sense if you pretend women don’t have sex drives too and the only thing they would desire in a relationship is their partners status and ability to provide stability Literally everyone who stays in a long term, this is it for life type relationship can be said to be “settling.” One person is not going to be perfect and satisfy every single desire you have for the rest of your life, the thing about humans is we are able to suppress and sublimate our desires to keep society going a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:20 PM
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I agree, I think two high strung type a individuals will generally end up having a business partnership relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:12 PM
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I think the same is true for women, I think media and the internet amplify negativity
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:21 PM
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Are you saying you don’t benefit from having a kind, nurturing beautiful partner? What’s the point in dating at all then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:17 PM
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This comment would be really funny if by “he left us” she meant he died SHOULDA CHOSEN SOMEONE WHO IS BETTER AT NOT GETTING HIT BY A DRUNK DRIVER THEN YOU HO
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:06 PM
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Life is suffering and life is joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:03 PM
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I’m a family doctor and I talk to my patients a lot so I think I get at least a sample of men, though admittedly they skew over 40. But there’s actually a lot of really good men who are currently single. Many of them are even pretty good looking. A lot of them have been too burned by life to put themselves out there that much. I don’t think the problem is men, I think the problem is we are utterly demoralized as a society and I see this affect men disproportionately when it comes to finding a pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:01 PM
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I think everyone is a loser really
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:56 PM
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Dude seriously I had no idea that was a rule It makes a whole lot of sense, just silently following a lot of red pill stuff probably works much better than blabbing about your strategy all over the place and then probably not actually following through with it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:54 PM
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Statistically we also tend to have very poor voter turnout and I learned when I got my citizenship that voting is both a privilege and a responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:50 PM
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Do local elections often have more than two candidates out where you are out of curiosity? I’ve only voted in three US states and it’s very common for all local candidates to be either Republican or Democrat. Not that all local politicians are even necessarily complete trash or anything, I think a lot more good gets done at the local political level where I’ve lived than at the national level, but it’s just an interesting phenomenon that it’s rare to see a third party on a local election in my o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:43 PM
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How man get gurlfren
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:36 PM
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Oh no I just meant is that a dealbreaker for you. Because after 30 people who got married young start getting divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:32 PM
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I mean, not all leadership positions are elected. I’m referring to like administration/executives at companies, that sort of thing. And even when it comes to electoralism, in the United States we are given a few choices for each elected official and at the end of the day they are pretty much both going to be the same when it comes down to brass tacks. The good people just don’t even run for office imo, sorry if I offend some politician’s fans. Could we as a people agitate for better choices and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:29 PM
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I mean I’m born in 88 and I think it’s ok if the gen z-ers aren’t doing the whole partying and screwing each other all the time thing that was more common for us millennials. I don’t feel like I got much value out of being stumbling drunk, being taken advantage up, ending up in dangerous situations where I could have gotten murdered, getting roofied… I do think gen z has a huge loneliness problem and they need to be getting out there and hanging out with each other more, like starting up clubs a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:23 PM
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Are you excluding divorcées?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:16 PM
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I felt that sense that this was my person when I started talking to my husband. We understood each other and how to take care of each other immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:15 PM
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I think most people aren’t that bad but the bad ones are the ones who want leadership positions a lot of the time. And I have just noticed in my career a trend of mediocre leadership by fully grown adult women who act like teens. I’m a woman and I like other women, it’s just that this is the trend. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:12 PM
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I believe there are also times when women are sexually assaulted and it is not classified as rape in the media but I’m sure the discrepancy is much greater for men and boys than women and girls. But my conjecture for avoiding the word “rape” is because it is a scary word that makes people feel bad emotionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:05 PM
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I kind of feel like we live in a society ruled by teenage girls currently
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:03 PM
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“Provides for”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:04 PM
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Women in the Victorian era and women now probably tend to want the same thing, a nice guy who provides for them and doesn’t hit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:02 PM
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Worse, high fructose corn syrup
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:00 PM
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I think this is mainly going to be very boring for some fbi agents
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:24 AM
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The reason for this being that immigrants from these countries in the United States were able to immigrate due to familial wealth. Race, gender, sexual orientation… it all becomes irrelevant if you have cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:57 PM
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Honestly once you have a ton of money you can buy your looks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:51 PM
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I share expenses with my partner and pay for many of our dates so it’s not like sex work at all
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:20 PM
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Living that dink lifestyle and collecting pets with my partner
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:01 PM
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It’s just the way human nature is, we are all sort of jealous creatures with inconvenient squishy emotional feelings I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:49 PM
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I do, and that’s wise, because being in a long-standing committed relationship and then attempting to introduce threesomes is a great way to blow up your life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:48 PM
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I’m a little bit pissed off that you kids don’t learn this shit properly but mouth off like you know what you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:47 PM
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In the second example “Jessica and me” are the object because they are being acted upon (stared at) and they remain the object no matter which one is placed first.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:45 PM
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In the first example “Jessica and I” are the subject and you would be equally correct to say “I and Jessica went to the mall.” It may sound less correct but it follows the rules of English grammar perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:44 PM
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Do you get it, it doesn’t matter who comes first in the sentence, the issue is using the correct first person pronoun when you are the subject as opposed to the object which the person you attempted to grammar police did.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:42 PM
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The second example is not the same as the first example, you are using the pronoun “me” in both those sentences, if you remove Jessica from both those sentences they are identical.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:40 PM
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I don’t think grammatically it makes a difference but let’s see if we can get a linguist or English teacher in here to validate you so you can listen to only the opinion that supports your world view :v
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:07 PM
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And I think one thing to consider is these instances you describe sound like inconveniences but as you mentioned you typically have actually gotten together with the girls you liked at the end. I think there are much scarier examples that clearly show certain women having harmful dangerous levels of entitlement and narcissism, and the examples you mentioned are not actually severe cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:03 PM
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I don’t know the context these incidents happen, but you are assuming malicious intent or entitlement on behalf of these women. There definitely are relationships between women where one woman becomes very jealous of her friend having hookups, I’ve been through that myself and the weird friend ended up ghosting me because I came to town and hung out with other friends who didn’t invite her to the hangout, there are all sorts of people in the world with different forms of damage. But I guess I’m …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:00 PM
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But not safe from asking for a threesome with apparently any other women who come into your lives and you find them hot :v
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:55 PM
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There was this one time my friend and I were at a bar. I could tell she was about half a drink from blackout, stumbling, incomprehensible slurring, vomiting. She was on the dance floor and this dude started grinding on her and making out with her. I physically put my hand between their lips and got her to leave. Guess why? Not because I’m a jealous entitled troll, because she definitely couldn’t consent and I didn’t know if that guy was going to take her home and murder her or lock her in his ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:52 PM
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It seems like your examples are hyper specific to that college age hookup thing, but to answer your question, both men and women can behave in an entitled fashion and their entitlement can ruin lives. I think men might have a slight edge because it is easier for them to kill, but that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:44 PM
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Aw you seem like a good father
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 05:55 PM
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Attractive people are also more likely to get hired into non sex work positions, especially women, even for jobs that really don’t require beauty. Like a pretty doctor is likely going to get more patients than an ugly doctor, even if those patients aren’t choosing the doctor consciously based on looks. There are studies that suggest even babies prefer to look at symmetrical faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:09 PM
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I also think she is a great actress Have a nice day!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:02 PM
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I have adhd but not very badly, however my mood disorder is measurably improved on stimulants I think it has actually benefited me in my career but also I think I was never going to be someone who didn’t need to at least consume a boatload of caffeine in order to function, I’m not sure how early man fared with adhd
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:55 PM
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Absolute power corrupts absolutely :v
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:52 PM
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I’m 34 and already so old and tired that even if it was healthy for me to bear children I think it would be really tough to raise them. I can’t imagine how having a newborn in your early 30s must have been but you probably might have felt you are getting too old for this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:50 PM
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You can achieve a late in life “glow up”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:48 PM
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Models and the men they marry are extreme outliers of society, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:48 PM
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One thing I’ve also noticed when people talk about age gap relationships here is, no one talks about the longevity of the relationship. What happens when the man is 70 and the woman is 40? I don’t really have statistics, it’s just I don’t notice many people addressing that point. I think in the case of a man of power, he replaces the older model with a newer one even past the point it may be easy for him to have sex, because his public perception of being a baller is important to him. I’ve seen …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:47 PM
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Something I notice in these kind of talking points are that they seem to imply most people are really attracted only to external/material signifiers of worth, such as appearance, power, or wealth. It seems to discount the existence of a spiritual/ inner emotional world in a way?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:41 PM
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Agreed. I only get upset when people argue that children born to “advanced maternal age” mothers are “genetically inferior,” because that’s also not how dna works and also it is very disrespectful and dehumanizing to actual human beings who may be reading your words. If there’s no discernible defect on karyotype analysis we can’t really say whether or not there are more subtle defects or deletions or what have you that are occurring, but what we can say is don’t be an ableist duckbag. Like, I am…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:37 PM
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How do you feel about Jennifer Lopez? I think she is exceedingly beautiful and hot to this day and would in fact allow her to step on me, but I am regarded as a woman by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:26 PM
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I think age tends to be an equalizer in this regard, as both men and women lose beauty and ability. In the end we all die ugly alone and poor (I’m being melodramatic lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:22 PM
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Good point, there also environmental exposures to consider here (for example Vietnam vets exposed to agent orange would tend to look older and have higher bmis due to the metabolic effects) It’s almost as if maybe we should all try to be less superficial? But idk I’m just a bit of an idiot out here myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:20 PM
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I’m honestly not sure most women in modern society have the ability to use their looks to build a safety net, except when it comes to employment? Economic realities have changed and it’s in general hard for any single adult to support themselves without relying on at least one other person’s income (I’d count living with parents as such). Like a young woman who wants to be fully supported by a male partner nowadays is going to have a hard time finding one who is wealthy enough to support a famil…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:17 PM
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Honestly spot on I wish my parents had actually thought of this when raising me and my sister, they now don’t understand why I don’t want to start a family, and I’m like 34 and mentally ill dating an even more mentally ill person. Not everyone should get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:12 PM
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You could do ivf and put like 11 embryos in there (I’m being facetious, multiple births are extremely dangerous, even twin pregnancies are like twice as complicated when everything goes perfectly)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:10 PM
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So here’s where I take a bit of issue with this: I think it is perfectly acceptable to have traditional wants and desires, but if you lock yourself into a very specific and rigid gender role and don’t step outside of that role, you do risk causing harm to both your self and others. For example, the man who never learned to cook and ends up living on TV dinners after his wife died and dying an early death of coronary disease. In our modern society, we lack some community safeguards, thus each per…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 04:22 AM
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Hey I just came up with an idea! Something from soft/ elden ring themed, he absolutely LOVES from soft as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:22 AM
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I know his best friend and he’s a very mature guy who would definitely keep it hush hush because i believe his friend views me as a good influence on him. My boyfriends passion in life is really his music. Can you get someone an engagement synthesizer? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 04:22 PM
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It could definitely be something else
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 04:00 PM
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Oh yeah I absolutely wouldn’t do this publicly but want to get something as a token of my engagementedness like a ring or something to present him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:44 PM
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Is there a way to add a poll to this thread? Not that that would be entirely accurate but would probably give you a larger number of responses to gauge statistically how women might tend to think about this scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:36 PM
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I’m 33 and this is exhausting to read, who has this kind of time and energy and emotional reserves to juggle so many guys at once When I was younger I wouldn’t delay sex at all regardless of whether I wanted a future with the guy or not, and that was consistent across the board. Now I’m older and really only have sex with people I’m interested in long term and trying to pursue a relationship, and that’s consistent across the board, and I’ve started delaying sex until I’ve hung out in person a co…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:32 PM
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Oh man that makes much more sense I can stop my hunt for v_del_tony (vaginal delivery)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:58 PM
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Yeah I think any stepdad to children of any gender could be placed in this position
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:57 PM
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Unrelated, but is your username a flex on being born via c section? Because that’s what I am interpreting as and I find it funny
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:55 PM
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Personality traits are not necessarily genetic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:10 AM
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If I suggest going out I pay
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:07 AM
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Honestly, I kind of thought I was in the twilight zone when I got attacked on a dating sub for suggesting that polygamous people should put that they are poly in their profile because someone who is poly is fundamentally incompatible with someone who is monogamous I think the context was the person only found out after they already set a date with someone that they are poly? I was very confused as to why anyone thought that is acceptable to not divulge before someone meets you for a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:04 PM
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Dibs on taupe pill
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:00 PM
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Roe vs wade is a law banning abortion bans, overturning it does not then result in the default being that abortion is banned across the country If you live in California abortion ban won’t happen, if you live in Texas it is already there
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:54 PM
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India doesn’t have much social welfare necessarily and people are still breeding well past responsibility there (I’m Indian and feel I can justifiably shit talk India)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:48 PM
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Can you explain what you mean by welfare? I typically take this to mean general assistance, and from what I understand no one is getting general assistance for longer than a few months, it is actually severely limited, since the mid 90s when slick Willy signed a bill. If you are referring to food stamps, wic, subsidized housing, and Medicaid however- that’s a pretty tricky thing to start restricting! Gonna kill a lot of kids! I don’t view both of those things as being the exact same thing as gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:43 PM
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ITS ALSO NOT AN ABORTION BAN I’m sorry for all caps but I’m just actually feeling my blood pressure rise at the words “abortion ban” now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:34 PM
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You can legislate culture and values If the populace doesn’t like marriage restricting divorce just means no one gets married anymore We’ve tried prohibiting certain things to make people behave the way we think they should, all it does is make them do those same things in a more dangerous way than if we regulated them and allowed them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:26 PM
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Also in many states abortion has so many restrictions that it is out of quite a few peoples means to get one, I did med school in Kentucky and for rural people they would have to find a way to get to one of two big cities and have cash for the procedure and probably have a place to stay afterwards, all while probably not wanting or being able to ask to many others for support. It’s not necessarily an easy on demand thing for everyone even with roe v wade
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:21 PM
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My prediction is abortion will not be banned in all 50 us states, it will become a state by state thing once it reaches the Supreme Court and they overturn roe v wade ETA: looked it up, actually I guess it’s not a prediction, it’s just how the law works. You could still hop in a bus and get an abortion a few states over.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:16 PM
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They will when male contraception becomes readily available which should be within our lifetimes I think and hope
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:13 PM
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Lol I never expected to see fightshaming on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:06 AM
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Is she fat tho, I just looked her up and it seems she has been very fit in her life and also had a baby a year ago and depending on hormonal factors/ age might be difficult to become slender quickly Kind of seems he married a thin beautiful woman who has gained weight after pregnancies to me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:57 PM
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I have most certainly see men say similar things about their significant others Even if they don’t say it, they probably are thinking it, who can legitimately without question say they are dating the hottest most perfect person they could ever imagine, love is not about perfection, it is about mutual struggle and solidarity
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:32 PM
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I did a quick google search that reveals the term “trans-gender” has been in use (with that hyphen originally) since at least 1974. Please people, learn to do some basic research, I’m honestly becoming a bit concerned about the youth reading these threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:44 AM
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Bro Wikipedia is free, please, this isn’t a good look for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:40 AM
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Yeah didn’t you know that the body forms an autoimmune reaction every time you have sex with a new person, that damages only the “pair bonding” neurons, and that this condition only affects women? So tragic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:24 AM
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“Some women complain about being single so therefore any woman I see as hot enough for a poke but not hot enough to date must instantly blow me “
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:12 PM
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Because personal autonomy is a fundamental right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:29 AM
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13/14 is way too young to be having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:23 AM
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I mean I’m p sure gimpgirl is a troll The name and the flare kind of lead me to this conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:20 AM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:03 PM
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I think it’s fair to say the world is quite unjust Hope things look up for you soon
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:54 PM
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That’s also very true I think if you are unhappy you will be unhappy in a relationship too until you fix what is causing the unhappiness. For example, too much alcohol and social media definitely will make you depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:36 PM
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See, there you go- your dad is single because he’s happy alone, and does fun things by himself. The key to being happy is not in a partner but in doing things that make you happy!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:21 PM
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If your mom was with a guy she might not be any happier, and many people in relationships still spend most of their nights watching tv or scrolling the internet, most people have fairly boring day to day lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:19 PM
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When women want to be seen as attractive, it’s often by other women. Men don’t understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:16 PM
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Correlation does not equal causation but trying to explain this to Reddit people is like trying to catch a fart in the Sahara
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:05 AM
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My main opposition to this is the government really sucks at public health even though it’s their job
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:39 PM
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Also we did not have sex because I am just feeling depressed and achey and I think he is too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:18 AM
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Buy yourself something nice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:15 AM
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I ordered some ramen for me and my boyfriend and he played vidya while I doomscrolled
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:13 AM
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I think a man who is in a relationship will he assumed to behave in a pro social manner generally and not be a serial killer for one thing Side topic, but it’s kind of interesting Ted Bundy was in a relationship for much of his adult life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:12 AM
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If you’re in high demand and very specialized it doesn’t matter. ETA: I’m talking about employment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:04 AM
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Get back in your cage
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:03 AM
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Being open and friendly does not mean down to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:02 AM
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And while someone can act “nice” in a disingenuous manner, that still means they are showing kindness, just that they have ulterior motives. The test of a truly nice or kind person is ongoing actions of niceness/kindness. I think I gotcha!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:36 PM
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I think the main distinction is that nice can apply to objects (that’s a nice car, for example) whereas usually we don’t describe objects as “kind” (other than said aforementioned kind bud)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:31 PM
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Yeah but do you prefer nice bud or kind bud
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:24 PM
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Nice means agreeable, kind means empathetic in actions and words. Many people are not nice but are kind once you get to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:26 PM
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Honestly if they issued a draft for women I know I’d be on the medical side, and I’ve have absolutely no problem taking care of young people who got sent into battle, my whole career is about helping everyone and anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:41 PM
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No my point is literally that ghosting isn’t exactly bad, there are many valid reasons people may have for it that often involve safety/ likelihood of a nasty confrontation. I’ve been ghosted a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:45 PM
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I mean, did I say it’s wrong for men to ghost women Can you find the place where I said that. What I’m saying is it is ok to ghost after sex, it’s ok to ghost if you feel that explaining yourself would be potentially harmful, it’s probably best to give an explanation if you feel the person won’t hurt you and it would hurt them to be ghosted but everyone can have their own personal reasons for ghosting. Like there’s obviously situations where ghosting is shitty, like if you’ve been married for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:41 PM
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I’ll be honest, I do think single mothers deserve love but if my younger cousin told me he was considering dating one I would likely encourage them to not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:12 PM
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Love bombing would essentially mean making someone feel secure that you have feelings for them which is different than making someone think you look a certain way
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:10 PM
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I really hate to be this person, but- the women who ghosted you after fucking, it’s possibly you just weren’t very sexually compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:05 PM
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If you listen to what women do tend to talk about when together, it could probably be considered “autistic” in its own right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:42 PM
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Lol at random redditor saying ew to j lo like they wouldn’t be simping hard if they got to meet her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:09 PM
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That’s not necessarily true, I had an extremely beautiful friend who went through a promiscuous period because she had some really bad self esteem issues and had just gotten out of an abusive relationship and was drinking heavily.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:07 PM
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It kind of doesn’t seem to matter who the president is and if trump vs Hilary happened again I’d just enjoy the memes this time around
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:04 PM
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I had a friend turn me down despite I’m p sure finding me very attractive, but it was because I think we both knew it would end in a mental health disaster for us both, currently since I have been with my boyfriend we have stopped talking much
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:12 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:27 PM
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Would the reason be that you find your friend to have ideal qualities in a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:22 PM
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You can try to maintain a friendship with sexual tension present It’s tough
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:20 PM
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It looks like you’ve come around to this point, but yes, I’d advise people in general to not rush to commit to marriage at a super young age and maybe wait until they feel pretty established with what they want out of life, but there’s nothing wrong with casual dating even monogamously without intending to get married as long as the communication is clear, and i would encourage that for anyone who eventually wants to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:04 AM
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There are some drawbacks to a huge schlong I guess Sometimes I wish I had one, it seems fun
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:45 AM
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I lost my virginity to someone with a similar dick believe it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:08 AM
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Yeah and I’ve had sex with only one man with a sideways curved dick and it was uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:30 PM
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Sideways curve hurts in my n of 1
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:48 PM
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I’m very willing to give my partner a lot of time and instructions and demonstrations to get me off, the one dealbreaker for me would be violating my boundaries, like going for anal without asking me first, hitting me without discussing with me beforehand, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:47 PM
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I think I actually prefer the first one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:33 PM
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Isn’t it the man in the grey flannel suit? I included it in a report for an AP class in high school but don’t remember it too well
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:28 PM
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Urgh, I hope she at least had her sisters permission, that’s really skeevy in so many ways
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:24 PM
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I’d say it’s not bad but also weight is something you can change and it does tend to fluctuate a lot due to water weight ETA: basically everyone should be a bit more open minded imo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:22 PM
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I think all women probably are a bit bi Women are really nice to look at
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:17 PM
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I wouldn’t say the Covid vaccines are useless tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:08 PM
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I don’t disagree with your contentions to be honest. When I say it becomes difficult, I mean that some people will feel attacked, which will then shut down the discussion. In the case of an “lgbtq” group existing, the idea there would be that people in the umbrella have similar concerns and support each other, but many times in a group that is loosely linked by supposedly having similar concerns and interests there is typically a lot of infighting and some members of the group will be left feeli…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:49 PM
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Lol the hunt for the hypergamy gene is on
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:36 PM
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I’m firmly in the 30+ cope bracket (I make in the 160s k bracket now after reducing my work hours) and have a partner who makes less than me by a fair bit (80k) and I gotta say I don’t mind this at the moment. Will update if it changes, but he knows how to lay a good pipe, is a great musician, also works in healthcare as a nurse so he understands some of the frustrating aspects of it, etc. I know I am subconsciously influenced by many of the same pressures to have a partner who can provide for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:32 PM
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Depending on the career it’s possible they see value in the actual day to day work. I do really enjoy my career a lot of the time and would probably be sad if I couldn’t practice medicine. However if I was told to stay in my current career I would have to earn less income I would not stay because I have come to view the work I do as being worth at least a certain amount and would not accept it being devalued after I’ve been gaining experience and getting better at it for so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:13 PM
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Thing is, those circumstances are pretty rare and you could argue a woman would be just as capable if open carry is allowed and she knows what she’s doing with a gun
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:49 PM
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Due to a bad experience, I no longer want to be slapped in the face
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:23 PM
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If this was for an STI test: next time ask if they will just let you pee in a cup
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:22 PM
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Ooof I don’t like your use of the word “sacrifice” there bud are you built like a helicopter blade or what
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:20 PM
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In the particular example of someone saying: “I am concerned about trump because I am lgbtq” (just an example and I’m not saying this is a statement I would make, just one that many would): The use of “lgbtq” as an umbrella term in that instance implies that people who differ from the majority in terms of sexuality and/or gender may have similar concerns when it comes to certain policies. For example, the individual saying it could have a need for sti testing more frequently because as a trans p…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:13 PM
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That’s just where I angered a bunch of leftist simps who think they are allies to POC until one criticizes a white woman they want to fuck, I’m sure it can happen in other online communities too. But the left is full of white knights as is the right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:59 PM
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I lean left and hang out in a lot of leftist spaces and let me tell you don’t criticize a pretty white woman on facebook
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:45 PM
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I suppose it depends what is defined as conservative and liberal in this sense- in the current climate materialism seems to be the rule regardless of stated political philosophy, in the sense that those who have more seem to be able to impact major decisions on a national and world stage? Would you mind clarifying?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:40 PM
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I say this with love to the simps, but there are a LOT of simps out there
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:34 PM
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Most people are settling, pretty much continuing in a long term relationship means compromising some things in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:24 PM
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Idk what you mean by “must” People can say whatever they want, unless they are being honest about their past or someone knew them before and told you, you wouldn’t know when initially meeting a person how many other people they have slept with
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:20 PM
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Oh, that makes a lot more sense! I was just picturing a horror show of a sweaty packed club.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:54 PM
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It is harder and more expensive to harvest and freeze your eggs if you are single at 30 and decide you want to have children, as opposed to harvesting and freezing sperm- and men will have fertility for longer. I think the main issue is it is much harder to start a family after 30 as a woman than a man However generally speaking, women over 30 who are single and childless generally have fairly easy lives. Source: after I turned 30 my life became a lot easier, I did break up with a long distance …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:43 PM
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Looks like you don’t read many comments on this page of men claiming that women are “spoiled” after 23 because they become entitled and bitter and etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:36 PM
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https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/risk/estimates/riskbehaviors.html
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:28 PM
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My guess is women are way more sapphic on average than anyone is willing to admit, but this could be because I am one of those filthy bisexuals
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:26 PM
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I’m assuming by PT you mean physical trainer? I always get thrown off by seeing it used to indicate anything other than physical therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:16 PM
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I mean tbh it sounds like maybe this person shouldn’t have had kids at all in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:14 PM
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You know, I gotta say that’s probably a really good thing for the lil fella to have a relatively stable adult man in his life if his mom is really unstable still, hope he does ok, I really get worried about kids nowadays with how bad so many peoples mental health is getting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:11 PM
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My bf makes about half what I make but I probably will end up marrying him because he’s a good person Also he’s an rn so half of what I make is stlll a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:16 PM
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I’d say degrading my partner and being degraded is not really my kink so no ETA: I am open to most kinks but not ones that are likely to trigger long term self esteem issues
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:40 AM
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I really can’t with people rawdogging on the dance floor, use a condom at least
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:29 AM
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I can not imagine going to the club on shrooms but also the last time I was in a club was probably 2018 so yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:27 AM
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nods head vigorously to indicate yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:18 AM
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You said you were just getting some milk!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:12 AM
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I think being agreeable is actually a really good trait that should be nurtured in everyone regardless of gender- and I do not mean being a doormat!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:06 AM
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You can be smart and agreeable, a lot of the smartest people actually don’t make a huge show of being smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:30 AM
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Maybe we can all pool our bottles and cans and start a fund to help the poor young lads and lasses of ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:27 AM
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I walk with my tits, cock, AND pussy out and I’m a motherfucking lion
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:24 AM
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It could be any number of reasons that young girls may dress that way at the gym, but ultimately they likely want to feel sexy and some may want to try to find partners. I think we all accidentally stare at people sometimes, there’s a line between that and harassment/ excessive staring to the point someone is uncomfortable, it is a tricky line to navigate and I will admit that. People can wear what they like to a place of business and only the business can implement a dress code, if you are unco…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:22 AM
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I often will admire myself in the mirror, maybe it’s a woman thing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:56 AM
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Dammnnnn new side hustle just dropped (I live in the state of Maine, where you get 10 cents for bottles and cans and you get 15 cents for wine and liquor bottles)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:55 AM
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I didn’t say it would only apply to men, did I.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:04 PM
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So generally making more friends who kind of have a similar background to you at least in profession may help you meet women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:28 PM
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They likely won’t be, but if you make friends with other professionals they may know a young single lady with a good job who they think you’d get along with, I met my current boyfriend through a friend I made while at a nursing home I don’t normally work at, and hopefully we will be together forever!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:27 PM
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It is generally difficult to meet people after you graduate, and obviously that difficulty compounds for men. It sounds like you are not set on the fact your partner has to be a virgin, just that they need to be generally monogamous and not have slept with “too many” people (which likely would depend on context). I’d say many professional women around your age might fit this criteria- depending on profession, they may have had similar experiences to you where they focused on studies when younger…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:19 PM
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But you are right that many chose to be unhappy and no one else can convince them the issue lies in their attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:11 PM
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I don’t really want to deal with super picky people of any gender, but generally irl I’m pretty good with people I find disagreeable and I can look past the flaws to figure out what they are really about I think my process would require a lengthy interview beforehand so I can screen people who may need a lot of therapy or a financial planner or something before they are ready to date I dunno, I just want more people to be happy, I’m pretty happy with my boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:09 PM
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Are you religious? Because it seems this is the crowd you would need to be looking among.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:00 PM
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I kind of wish I could become a professional matchmaker
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:59 PM
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Many people never leave high school
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:24 PM
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I guess what I’d say is in a relationship it is normal to have periods where you are less attracted to your partner but stick it out regardless? Like often when someone is grieving they are not going to be terribly attractive, regardless of gender, but that’s not a permanent condition and part of being in a relationship is providing support regardless of attraction because your partner will do the same when you are in the same state?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:18 PM
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So my thought here is if she lost attraction because you were sad about your family member that’s a problem she has?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:06 PM
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I’m a woman and same, I think there are just more 20 year olds than 30 year olds on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:46 PM
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I think if someone truly loves you this is how you will feel? And in a good relationship both parties can enjoy their life without having to worry super hard about their partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:16 PM
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If I’m going to be very very honest: Someone who needs me more than I need them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:13 PM
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I feel really sad and worried for young people in general
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:03 PM
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I agree with this, my boyfriend is autistic and extremely smart, and constantly runs what he calls “human emulation software.” When he framed it that way, I felt I relate to that a great deal myself, I think a lot of smart neurodivergent people can
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:58 PM
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K u get the blokkk
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:41 AM
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Bro, you said your opinion, I said mine, and the one who seems significantly upset is you. I’m not upset that you are calling me immature or saying I’m incapable of being in a relationship, I have my own life you know nothing about and thus don’t believe those things about myself and have no need to get emotional about being called those things. It seems you are not as secure about your own beliefs or you would not become this upset when someone else on the internet characterizes them as misogyn…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:22 AM
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I mean, it seems you are extremely upset at being labeled as misogynistic, but I’m not going to change my opinion that you have really toxic and harmful views about women, and I’m not going to apologize to you for saying so. They don’t harm me, they harm you and anyone you may try to partner with. You can claim your views of women are not misogynistic and come from a place of love all you want, it’s not going to change my world view. I’m also unlikely to convince you that women are actually capa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:29 AM
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Lol it kind of seems like you are the one “screaming” here You are either so self deluded you’ve become a meme or a 100% troll, thanks for the entertainment!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:54 AM
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You realize older women had babies with normal physical and mental development all the time before the existence of ivf right, many women keep natural fertility into their 40s, generally ova with significant DNA damage do not get fertilized and produce viable offspring. Undoubtedly there is clearly an increased risk of certain birth defects after the age of 35, but in general birth defects are pretty rare and it’s extremely inaccurate and insulting to claim that all babies born to women over the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:35 AM
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Like you are basically so misogynistic I almost suspect you are someone posing as a redpiller
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:38 AM
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Nah you just hate women, p clear to see, you basically think they are all incompetent. You’re just a classic misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:34 AM
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I’m gonna be the few women to say I think the answer may be possibly yes. I haven’t really thought about this all that much, but I do actually think if I see a happy looking couple I’m more likely to actually look at the guy than if I just see a random man walking around, not in the sense that I will automatically think he is attractive but in the sense I actually notice he exists and may feel like being caught looking is less of a problem because the wife is there so he wouldn’t assume that mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:44 AM
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Lollllllllll looks like we got a scientist on our hands ladies and gents
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:58 PM
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You all probably make good money I’d imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:52 PM
1

It’s the sound of seething /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:18 AM
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Some people are legitimately more attracted to fat bodies though, human sexuality is definitely not as narrow as people claim it is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:46 AM
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I’ve seen and interacted with people on all sides of the spectrum on this sub It’s actually sort of cool, I’ve had a lot of perfectly respectful and enlightening conversations with red pill dudes and it’s really reinforced in the end humans are humans and if you approach them nicely they will typically let their guard down
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:43 AM
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I think most social workers are pretty nice and not entitled, I’ve known a lot of them Maybe social worker was a bad example :v
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:35 AM
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I think we’d improve a lot of peoples mental health if we legalized prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:14 AM
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It’s really dumb imo Have legalized prostitution and keep the same workers protections you have for any other worker in that state
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:13 AM
1

Wasn’t that the case in the Uk for a while too? I’m basing this purely on a show starring Billy piper I saw once
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:06 AM
1

Do you speak Punjabi?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:31 AM
1

Do you feel like you would have to eventually marry a Muslim to make your parents happy or have you managed to get your parents off your back, as I have only managed to do at age 33 due to extremely delayed sack growth
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:47 AM
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True, also she abused you and I’m glad you are out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:42 AM
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I talk to him but not seriously either. I don’t feel I can trust either one of them with my vulnerability anymore. I’ve tried to talk to both of them about how the emotional and verbal abuse affected me as a kid but just got told I’m misremembering things, they weren’t that bad, etc. I got smacked around a few times as a teen but that really doesn’t affect me the way being around my fathers volatile temper all the time did. It really did fuck me up properly and is likely a large part of why I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:40 AM
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I wouldn’t call you throwing her off you abusive in that case as you would be defending yourself against extreme pain, however if the cops got called they likely would assume you were the one beating her, and any court case wouldn’t go your way. That’s definitely not the same thing as backhanding someone for nagging at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:30 AM
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This is just a curiosity thing, I’m Indian: have you dated mostly Pakistani girls at your uni? I promise to not openly judge your answer and will only do so privately :v (I’m jk, I just like to hear experiences of other like south Asian/ desi people, but I think dating an 18 year old with ancestry from that part of the world would probably increase the chances they are a virgin? I know I was, lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:26 AM
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Especially when kids are involved Ask 7 year old me how I know and ask 33 year old me why I can’t talk seriously to my mother about anything anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:20 AM
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Maybe I’m overthinking it myself, I dunno, but thanks for your advice :v
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:23 PM
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That’s the problem! I have a vested interest in him not quitting as that would increase my workload, and on like basic human empathy grounds I don’t want him to feel grossed out and uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:59 PM
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So, like, no one in my immediate working space has a penis, and someone brought up that penises float in water and every so often someone will bring up that conversation and there’s always giggling and shit. I feel like if there was someone there who had a penis this would be sexual harassment, and I kind of want to maybe bring this up casually at our next little team meeting. The entire organization I work for is actually at this point staffed 80-90% by cis women and I think it may be uncomfort…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:30 PM
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What I mean in terms of life being about change is that certain circumstances can render certain activities impossible in future, not necessarily that principles change. So for example if you used to give your partner handjobs and then you lose both your hands, how can you stay consistent in that regard? I for the most part am very open to most things sexually with my partner because I love him and feel like there’s really nothing inherently wrong with any sex act that involves full consent on b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:13 PM
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The problem with saying your best is defined by your past is it doesn’t allow for you to grow and change as you age, and life is about change. Life is inconsistent, how can you expect consistency from a human being if you can’t even expect consistency from the tectonic plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:26 PM
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Yeah I think it’s fine to break up with anyone for any reason, that’s the great thing about consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:22 PM
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So the thing is, retrospective jealousy is a thing, but I am reading both these stories and thinking the way both women handled their jealousy is pretty immature. I can’t say I would behave better without having a similar experience, but I hope I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:18 PM
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It could be due to a health consequence. For example, I don’t want anyone licking my butthole anymore because I got a uti from someone doing that and then later licking my clit. Even though technically this could be avoided, I don’t want to have to risk it because the uti was so terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:14 PM
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Some of us are cute, but my boyfriend is a male nurse and apparently in the last two hospitals he worked at he was frequently getting targeted by the female supervisors for very minor things that other people were also doing. Not being there I don’t know if it was because of gender or because of his autism, he can say some pretty blunt things at times. ETA but I have heard similar things from other guys in healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:03 PM
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I guess you could just call it “women eating their young”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:58 PM
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I work in an office with 8 women, a young man is going to start working with us, I am concerned we may make him uncomfortable. Do any guys have any experience with this? Additional info: it’s healthcare and if you know anything about that- it gets emotional in the office frequently, it’s not just a go to work and keep your head down situation all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:56 PM
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I try very hard to let things go, and if I am hurt by something I try to communicate about it. I suspect the ghosting was not just about the concert, but she wouldn’t talk with me about it. Just disappeared from my life after years of friendship. It still actually hurts, even though it is sort of funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:44 PM
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I’m this type of person and it’s a defense mechanism for me, so I suppose I would like that person and want to get to know them better but I would probably also somewhat suspect they have pain in them the way I do. Which is not a detriment, just that’s what I would wonder about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:40 PM
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I had a very good friend ghost me for going to a concert my friends invited me and not her to. They didn’t even tell her about the concert, and I didn’t know until I was there that they didn’t invite her. The reason they didn’t invite her is because when they previously invited her to a concert in this small venue she walked out because she got bored, and they felt that was awkward and it hurt their feelings. We are all over 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:36 PM
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Thanks buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:33 PM
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Exactly, both statements are true. No one is owed anything other than their basic human rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:29 PM
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Humans are a depraved lot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:25 PM
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Men who don’t have mental health issues, because after the past few years very few humans aren’t suffering mentally. Also that’s not a standard I have for dating, I think having depression and anxiety is basically unavoidable if you pay attention to anything happening right now, and as someone with adhd and a pretty bad genetic disposition to mental illness I’m not interested in giving birth anyway (not to mention the whole idea of what’s happening to the world)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:19 PM
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I think it’s cuz we have makeup and plastic surgery also
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:13 PM
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I think most people just stumble into meeting someone they are compatible with and it works out or doesn’t? Tbh I do not understand the mentality of leagues or hypergamy or what have you, my two most significant relationships in my life were introduced to me by friends and we just clicked. Of course my last relationship didn’t work out but I have hopes for this one, I love him a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:10 PM
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There’s also the stories from many people who chose to remain virgins until marriage because their religion deeply shamed sexual actions and behaviors, and then when they did marry they found it very difficult to start having sex because they couldn’t get over the deep seated feeling that sex is sinful
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:05 PM
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There are people who are anti-porn and anti-sex work who would hold this as a value
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:58 PM
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They have surgery for that though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:48 PM
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Not much, male. How’s the Y chromosome hangin
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:41 PM
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Agree with op, a lot of the comments here though are demonstrating that apparently we as a species can’t just treat people like people and avoid demonizing groups of people based on statistics, which is a mathematical system that says very little about individual behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:33 PM
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Do you respect an individual based on the fact that people in a group that individual belongs to have a greater economic impact? Or do you respect the individual on their individual merit? I am grateful to and respectful of men in my life like my dad and partner. I have stopped calling myself a feminist because I see the groupthink is that men are violent and shitty and I think painting any group with that brush is incredibly toxic and dangerous and creates both individual and societal strife. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:31 PM
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What you provided is not evidence. The richest woman in America is not every single woman. I saw somewhere else you made a comment about how division keeps us all oppressed, and I agree. But what you are saying here is divisive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:17 PM
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Every woman? Really? Buddy this is the type of thinking op is talking about, you have this mentality that many women have towards men, but it’s towards women. Not every woman is using welfare, subsidized housing, food stamps, etc. There are clearly women who are high earners, don’t have kids, contribute a lot in taxes, etc. This is also ignoring the fact that certain forms of labor aren’t given monetary value but are essential to society, namely having and raising children. Women are the ones pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:00 PM
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I find it easier now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:48 PM
1

Yeah and there should be disclaimers regarding not to try these practices without specific safety measures (flared base, safeword, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:37 PM
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Yeah, if you asked me what mgtow or wgtow was I would characterize it as a man or woman who has chosen to opt out of daring the opposite gender
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:48 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:44 AM
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Are they alive pigs you will keep?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:43 AM
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Let’s do: widespread availability to contraception, access to abortion, allow anyone (including women) to opt out of parental rights at birth, ummmm somehow improve the state run foster/adoption system :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:42 AM
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Hey I agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:28 AM
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What if your wife bangs another chick in front of you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:22 AM
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You are your number one, not women, not parents, not society. You are the person you need to take care of first because you are the only person you can rely on fully. Also we all die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:20 AM
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Me and my partner can already afford monthly steaks together so this would be the most practical choice
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:57 PM
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Just so you are aware those could be covid symptoms, if you are able to get tested it may at least help determine if you’ve already exposed vulnerable people and if they have access to treatments like antibodies it could save their lives I obviously don’t know the situation in your country with healthcare and such but at least think about it if you can get tested.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:54 PM
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But like bdsm in and of itself does not indicate a dysfunctional relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:49 PM
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Hey ummmm I kind of agree with you on the more transparently complected leftists being covert racists and I’m left leaning myself
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:40 PM
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I never took c***t to mean weak, I take it to mean a terrible person with bad morals
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:37 PM
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Poor kid, hope he manages to dump her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:32 PM
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I’m only happy when it rains
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:26 PM
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I’m a woman who lives alone, do you think a man doing my job has a harder time than I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:57 PM
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My Catholic school had no priests and I did not in any way get indoctrinated ETA because I was too smart to just listen to a religion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:38 PM
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Are you saying Kim k is hotter than rihanna I may be biased because of her voice but I really like rihanna as a disgusting wlw
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:34 PM
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It’s pretty easy to read redpill stuff, it’s not really a secret in any way, it’s not like Scientology
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:27 PM
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I hope they are happy too I feel worried for all kids really
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:24 PM
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In general, a 30 year old and a 39 year old tend to be in more similar life stages. 20-30 typically involves a few major transitions such as getting a job/ college and moving away from parents and learning independence whereas 30-39 tends to be more stagnant- generally people get more established in their careers/jobs. However ymmv based on a number of factors, I work with someone who bought a house at 19 and had a baby at 20, she is 10 years younger than me but I feel she is a ton more mature. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:20 PM
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I appreciate a nice outfit on a man and I like when people have unique style, like if you put some thought into your outfit I will notice, regardless of gender. But I typically don’t make judgements on “success” because we might all see success a different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:07 PM
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What video of his do you like best
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:04 PM
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I’ve watched a lot of things I don’t agree with much in my time, I think it’s important to know and understand people who think different from me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:00 PM
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So I know you are mad at feminists, but bear with me here if you can: I thought mgtow was men specifically deciding not to pursue serious relationships with women, while a number of feminists do have relationships with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:54 PM
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Slow ass? They’ll even talk about her speed? How cruel
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:50 PM
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Now you’re making me want to find a sugar daddy or mommy even though I’m too old, it seems foolproof
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:45 PM
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Drake could probably get her fired! When you have drake money you can do all sorts of things. I’m not saying having more money makes you abusive, I’m not saying having more experience makes you abusive, I’m just saying it can make it easier for people who are abusive to get away with it because they could be more skilled at manipulation or have enough money to escape consequences/ keep you trapped. ETA: also like I’ve made sure not to label this a thing that men do to women, some humans do this …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:46 PM
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Rich milf: nicethingyoucanthave, will you move in with me to my mansion and quit your job? You: sure! 2 months later Her: you have to wear this purple tuxedo and these assless chaps 24/7 You: no! Her: then I’m kicking you out into the street with no savings and no job! Of course, You can avoid the above situation by not letting yourself become dependent on the rich old lady, but not all younger people are that smart, they will be convinced they are in true love and the person they are with would…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:43 PM
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Are you saying people don’t use financial access as a means of control in relationships? Because it’s a well recognized form of abuse. I’ve also been really careful to not specify genders. What I’m saying is, money is one of the most powerful things out there, older people have more of it, and they also have more life experience. So an older person dating a younger person can in fact more easily prey on that younger person by convincing them it’s normal to be controlled, etc. These are generalit…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:36 PM
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Also another clarification, when I said daddies I didn’t necessarily only mean men. There are examples of older women using/ taking advantage of younger men. You can certainly argue it is a transaction on both ends, the younger person is presumably getting money from the older person, but my point is that older people often will have a financial advantage as well as sometimes an emotional one when it comes to age gap relationships. Those advantages don’t automatically lead to abuse but surely yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:23 PM
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Let’s say you marry her, but don’t give her any access to the bank accounts, have the best family lawyer in the state, and are best friends with the judge. Basically there’s lots of ways that one person making all of the money could make it much more difficult for the other person to leave. The instant you are fully financially dependent on someone else is the instant they have the capacity to fully fuck up your life. Doesn’t mean they will, but it does mean they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:20 PM
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I don’t think this is bad, teasing someone in this manner can be kind of fun and even flirtatious if it’s not super malicious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:57 PM
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I see a lot of men saying women’s only assets are beauty or whatever but at the end of the day humans want companionship To me a potential partners biggest asset is whether I find them pleasant to be around or not, I don’t get people of any gender who are this shallow or choosy about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:52 PM
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I’m a modern woman and I love being one because it means I can peg my boyfriend Checkmate tradcuck
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:47 PM
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No, really I mean like they may marry a younger person and convince them they don’t need to work because that way they can more easily keep that person from leaving- an older person may have a career that pays better and a significant amount of savings that allows them to fully support their partner. ETA: that’s not to say all daddies use their money for control, I’m just saying money can be a very effective tool for control
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:20 PM
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It’s gonna be different for different people what they want in a wife or husband or non-binary spouse
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:16 PM
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Only if the guy like builds a table for the pot roast or something to show his suitability as a husband
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:12 PM
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Fwiw I don’t think you need to defend your relationship, it’s clearly working for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:04 PM
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I mean “posting often” on social media doesn’t necessarily indicate that you are consumed with it either. If you like to travel or go on hikes and you post pictures of what you are doing daily, that says nothing of your intelligence. I don’t know why I’m defending this fictional woman so hard, I’m not a frequent social media poster myself, I just don’t necessarily agree that posting frequently on social media makes you dumb- it may indicate a certain level of narcissism or self absorption depend…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:53 PM
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At once?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:57 PM
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My sibling is a genius and has a nail Instagram. Nails could be classified as art, but my point stands that social media is not just for trivial things and that intelligent people will use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:48 PM
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I probably wouldn’t try to marry guy 1, he sounds like too much for me to handle
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:42 PM
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I’m bi so I’ll answer for both genders: I would pick woman 1 and guy 2. Woman 2 I wouldn’t pick because you mentioned she is controlling and doesn’t sound fun, and similarly guy 1 sounds like he would use his attractiveness to try to manipulate you into putting up with his bullshit, he sounds like a bit of a douche as well, and it doesn’t seem like we share similar interests. For woman 1, even though I’m an introvert I can enjoy going out and socializing with the right people and she sounds like…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:40 PM
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Being child free is in my case a conscious choice, I do think there can be a biological urge to want kids (“baby fever”) and I get it all the time but will not be having a child for various reasons. At least in the near future. I am medically not a great candidate to go through pregnancy and because of my issues I’m not in a shape where I feel I could parent, if that changes in the future I may consider adopting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:21 PM
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What about women who want to be trad wives
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:17 PM
1

Some boxed wines are actually decent
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:16 PM
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I mean some men get shooty about not getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:15 PM
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I don’t really think it’s fair to say people who never managed to attract a partner have no worth, it’s not true and that belief is probably what lead them to never having a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:04 PM
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I don’t automatically think age gap relationships are wrong, but it’s foolish to ignore the fact that as you get older you gain confidence, money, and experience most of the time. These can make it so that you might be a little more likely to successfully manipulate a younger person or gain control of them via finances. I have this opinion regardless of the gender of the two involved. Because of various factors including biology, it’s more common to see men dating younger women. I’m 33 F, I do t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:59 PM
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I think in general, man or woman, we are all bombarded with opinions all the time, and we all need to think and act in accordance with our personal values and not let others coerce us, but it’s very difficult to not care about what others think. I have sympathy for men who express preferences respectfully and get criticized for it, and agree the pendulum is swinging towards a double standard where shallowness is more tolerated in women than men. People just don’t approach each other in good fait…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:40 PM
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I think the thing is, the fight for the right for women to sleep around was about more than shaming, because for women who slept around the consequences in the past included pregnancy (before we had reliable birth control) and women would be at times put in institutions for premarital sex. There were times women would be arrested for being out alone simply because they might be promiscuous. The Catholic Church in Ireland used to take babies away from unmarried mothers. So the right to sleep arou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:30 PM
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You should see how women talk when they work together and spend a lot of time together, it’s just human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:18 PM
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Get you a church girl who goes to church…
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