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This actually depends on the persno you ask. Some need a relationship they can control, and seek partners who are willing to give up their part for comfort. Others want to be equals and want their opinion to ,at the very least, be considered, negiotiated. What you have to ask yourself is "Is this a relationship I want to carry on for as long as possible, or am I just having fun, and we both just want to have some fun times?" Don't loose yourself in a relationship or it probably wont last. If you…
/r/seduction12/07/20 02:49 PM
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Maybe she just wanted some attention. Maybe she was recently rejected herself and wanted to know if she's still got it? Maybe you were just a training dummy. Some situations aren't worth overthinking
/r/seduction06/02/20 05:32 PM
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That's the best way to approach it. Changing yourself is really tough but it all comes down to whether you want a different, better life or not. Cause if you really want it you WILL find a way. That road is hella bumpy but you have to slap yourself everyday in the face with discipline until you build new habits.
/r/seduction04/08/19 02:01 PM
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Well. You're tinder pic is a side view pic so I'd say she doesn't care THAT much. Just go on that date and have some laughs.
/r/seduction30/07/19 05:59 PM
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Fun is very subjective. Yes it is. Pretty much everything that is defined by emotions is. Friendship is. Love is. etc I can't go bungee jumping because stuff like that isn't organized in my town of 180k people. I also said in a previous post that I've been working in the middle of nowhere for about 8 years so I'm actually on my own. No friends. So I'm actually looking for ways to have fun, don't seem creepy cause I'm alone and meet some people in the process.
/r/seduction16/11/17 10:35 AM
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I'll get that book today when I'll go for a walk later. What's stopping me from doing MMA or any other martial art is my job which now requires that I leave town for 1-7 months. So I'm trying to wok something for myself out while I have a monthly break. I was always amazed with the idea that people live in towns where there are clubs of many sorts. Cause there are no here :D (town of 180k people..) Or I have never heard from anyone, never seen a poster or anything else that tells that there are …
/r/seduction16/11/17 08:47 AM
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I get what you are saying, but I've been working as a lumberjack for almost 8 years. The pay was good but the thing that, for me personally, was a big negative (more than the fact that it's really fucking hard work) was that you don't socialize with anyone. You go to work, you do what you can to earn them $$ (cause it was piecework) and you go home, tired. Not much you wanna do after that plus it's a 6 day work week. I've been stuck there for so long cause in my country it's not that easy to be …
/r/seduction16/11/17 08:36 AM
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I absolutely share your point of view. The problem I'm having is finding these opportunities to just talk to people without being a dude that just started talking to me on the street. People say you should do something fun and cool like stuff like that just happens everyday. You can't get out of bed and say you're going bungee jumping today so most of the veryday routine is just work, get groceries, feed yourself, go on a walk hoping that maybe there will be an opportunity to strike up a convers…
/r/seduction15/11/17 12:12 PM
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You're a spare. GL and soldier on.
/r/seduction24/10/17 03:40 PM
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Clubs are one of the options. That's all I've gotten from this article. You can go to a club but you can also do things that interest you and maybe meet someone when you're doing that. Wow. Mind. Blown.
/r/seduction14/10/17 01:57 PM
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Uhm... Not very informative, his videos are.
/r/seduction05/09/17 07:54 AM
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And thank God for girls like you!!! Cause I'm only 5,6 - 5,7 :( :P
/r/seduction16/05/17 11:46 AM
1

Absolutely. No one can get away with just one trait. Although simply being tall gets you the initial attention, that's what I mean. From my perspective being tall is just one of the dominant attractive traits when it comes to guys. A girl can be short and still sexy\cute, but the other way around it's not that easy.
/r/seduction15/05/17 09:38 PM
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As long as you're not obese you're good. A great body can be trained, of course it's a plus, but tallness is good genetics, can't bargain with that.
/r/seduction15/05/17 07:39 PM
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From what I've experienced tallness gets you instant points. Girls always like tall guys. Always.
/r/seduction15/05/17 06:21 PM
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The real problem starts when people say they have problems but don't want to work on them because they use them as leverage in some situations to get attention or compassion from others. I know a girls that does that all the time. That's her best move to make others care for her is situations where she feels alone. It's easier to live with your problems than it is to change them. Saying that your problems can't be fixed and you're so messed up you're not able to work on them is a passive attitud…
/r/seduction03/05/17 01:32 PM
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This should be the only answer she needs. If it doesn't work out then at least you've tried! This is far better than wondering what would be few years later.
/r/seduction03/05/17 01:10 PM
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Well the first thing that comes to mind is that nothing breaks the ice like a positive frame, so you're attitude will be key here, but don't pressure yourself into finding your next girlfriend there, so that means the way you'll approach every date that night. Maybe google some interesting speed dating questions People done this before so this might be a faster way than waiting for reddit responses. Just saying.
/r/seduction17/03/17 07:09 PM
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I didn't but I hope the previous commenter hasn't discouraged you. It's still an experience you can learn from. Keep an open mind. There's always a possibility you'll find someone interesting and if not, this can still be a good story to tell later. I'm glad you're going out there and trying something new. Sure you can go to bars and clubs, but speed dating actually rounds up people who want to meet other people. So I hope you'll just have some fun
/r/seduction17/03/17 05:56 PM
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The best way for meeting people is just doing stuff. Take a course in anything that might interest you or maybe get out of your comfort zone and try to learn something completely different. Even if you fail in learning that ability or whatever it may be, and even if you don't get new friends out of it, you will still have a story to tell later to other people. That's how you become interesting, and that attracts people. Be proactive. Get out there. Do stuff. People might not want you around just…
/r/seduction20/02/17 10:11 PM
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How do you actually get people to compliment on your clothes? I have no idea what I should wear to get that kind of feedback.
/r/seduction09/02/17 09:04 AM
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Yep. If you want to see some results, don't make her your gym buddy. It's too much talking and the session loses its purpose.
/r/seduction31/01/17 09:06 PM
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Well, are you taking care of yourself? Clothes, hair etc. Considering what you've written, it's a bit hard to believe that you still have problems. It may be something with the way you behave. Maybe you're really loud when you're talking or a different mannerism
/r/seduction29/01/17 03:55 PM
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Question is, do you have proof? We will get nowhere if don't push our limits. We won't push our limits when everyone will just presume that everything we achieve is just fake, because it's the comfortable way of thinking. If you wan't to criticise, then at least support your arguments. Criticism is pure shit if it's not constructive.
/r/seduction04/05/16 08:46 PM
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I don't think you can tell a woman to go through pregnancy and she'll be like "Uhh.. I don't want to, but ok." Also, I don't uderstand how changing your last name is even an argument. Even if, some women keep their last name and just add the husbands name. But, whatever. This topic won't change a thing, no matter how long we'll discuss it. Things like these are rooted too deeply to just talk it out.
/r/seduction04/05/16 06:04 PM
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Sure there are. How do you predict if a girl is a "loosey-goosey" when it comes to sex? Is that even possible? Excluding girls who openly enjoy that lifestyle. I'm positive that there are girls who don't like one night stands. You have to take into consideration,that you may be just unlucky. Then there's the part about you. What vibes are you sending out etc.
/r/seduction03/05/16 03:40 PM
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This is clearly targeted towards young chicks. Imagine asking a grown, intelligent woman "What's your favorite color?" on the first date.
/r/seduction03/05/16 09:15 AM
7

Or... The Naked Man.
/r/seduction18/04/16 07:14 PM
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Thing is you've came to this realization because of empathy. You realize that you're doing the same thing, and that you may appear just like them. OP has this problem most probably because of his ego. On one hand he's attracted to hot girls, like every healthy male, but that's just physical. On the other, he wants to be more than just a body. His selfesteem is probably reliant on his perception of himself as a whole (if it's just or unjust, doesn't matter - all ego's are ignorant assholes), so h…
/r/seduction30/01/16 07:22 PM
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Bathroom fucks? I have no idea how people do that.. I just can't imagine myself fucking a girl with the smell of urine and/or shit in the air.
/r/seduction29/01/16 08:27 PM
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With a little fava beans and a nice Chianti ..?
/r/seduction19/12/15 08:13 PM
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The balls are strong with this one!
/r/seduction12/10/15 04:26 PM
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Don't put them all in one bag. Find out why that girl finds it attractive. Nect time, when you manage to bring that topic up, casually, try asking "What do you think about that?". Some girls like broken men, because they wan't to take care of them, they think they can repair what's broken and find their purpose in it. It's easier to categorize people. Our brain is pretty much wired to do that, so we have less on our mind, and can focus on other things, but you'll find more interesting personas, …
/r/seduction08/10/15 01:08 PM
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You need to understand, that people do things like that constantly. If we see someone who takes on a path, that can lead him to outgrow us in any part of life, we become scared. Scared of change - we're too lazy to change ourselves, we want to keep things as they are! Anything that brings change, or even worse, change that will devaluate the perception of ourselves, is a threat. So we attack, to protect our own ego. I will leave you with this beautifull quote, by Marianne Williamson: "Our deepes…
/r/seduction20/07/15 06:17 PM
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You're doing it wrong. Why? Because, from what you're saying, we should think that nobody can have a sad, emotionally exhausted day or get up feeling like "I'm too tired for this shit". When you logically think about it, does this chick seem like a keeper? You're already ovethinking it. There's so little information about that girl. We have no right to make any conclusions, except, if we just want to make our world seem pretty again , because a negative response made it blue, and we can't handle…
/r/seduction20/07/15 05:22 PM
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My problem lately, is that girls open on me - we talk, everything is nice and fun, but let's meet up? "MmmNah.." (avoid topic)
/r/seduction18/07/15 06:43 PM
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I think that the article above is just advertising.
/r/seduction05/07/15 04:14 PM
2

The top colognes are something that I can't afford anyway so problem solved.
/r/seduction05/07/15 07:12 AM
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I like your breakdown. Well done!
/r/seduction25/06/15 05:02 PM
2

Is your name Thumper, and you work at a 90's skiing resort?
/r/seduction14/06/15 06:23 AM
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Bashar has a lot of interesting videos, but I'd really take it witha grain of salt, cause this stuff is a bit cult-related IMO.
/r/seduction06/06/15 03:14 PM
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This book is so basic that I'd really think twice before recommending it. There's a big chance you'll be wasting someones time. I barely made it to the end. Really basic stuff.
/r/seduction05/06/15 06:21 PM
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Eh, what the heck. I'll try it!
/r/seduction18/05/15 07:27 PM
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That NoFap thing.. always found it interesting and I can deduce the benefits, but it just seems impossibruuu!
/r/seduction17/05/15 03:46 PM
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Works. Will use this next time I'll need to make a better impression. What I want to try out now is stretching the larynx in silence. So I'll abandon this exercise and see if it works the same way.
/r/seduction27/04/15 05:44 PM
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What you are experiencing are the moments of clarity when you realise that human relations are really primal. That's what's upsetting you, because your ego finds an excuse in that way of perceiving it. The truth is.. It really is primal, and we can't help it. Use it to your advantage. The only thing you can do is to accept things the way they are. There is no magic in human mating but there can be if you believe in it ;) "Feel free to interpret your own reality" ;)
/r/seduction26/04/15 07:36 PM
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My cute little possum <3
/r/seduction19/04/15 11:15 AM
1

Finding a hobby is actually pretty hard for me. I work six days a week. Sometimes I have no idea when I'll be off work because it's not payed per hour, but more like a contract thing. It can be very energy consuming. So as for now my life is just passing by tbh,. Sometimes I just feel like "holy shit.. this year I'm going to be 27!" Doesn't help that I live in a bit of a shithole and moving to town would make my drive to work ~30minutes longer + the additional gasoline bill. I can't find anythin…
/r/seduction11/04/15 08:01 PM
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I've been asked this question a few times, and even to a guy, this is just an exhausting question because you're sitting there thinking "What am I supposed to say? It's just how it is right now. Should I say that I'm probably somehow fucked up or can't keep a girl, or I'm too much for a girl? Da fuck..? " The only way out of this question without sounding a little unattractive or a bit like a douche is to answer jokingly and hope they won't drill holes in that mofo.
/r/seduction20/01/15 08:55 PM
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And by reward you mean saying "Thank you".
/r/seduction20/01/15 08:31 PM
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You don't read much, do you?
/r/seduction09/01/15 07:33 PM
2

That's the thing. Some people use that as an excuse constantly. Like only good looking people fuck. Da' fuck is this? Plus, there's a chance a girl "out of your league" will be attracted to you cause of they way you are. People just rather sit on their asses thinking up good excuses than get out of their comfort zones. Fucking ego.
/r/seduction22/11/14 08:28 PM
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Kissing is am important part for me. I've met a cute girl.. but god damn she can't kiss for shit.. It's like you can't get really sensual with her through kissing. She actually made me realize how much of a big deal kissing is for me. I know this isn't on topic. Just wanted to get it off my chest.
/r/seduction27/10/14 02:19 PM
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I've found this book to be a waste of time. I read it just because I've seen recommendations here and there on the web. It's really basic and I mean simple advice on how to be a decent human being. Not really something I'd reacommend, so I'd say go with the Wiki too.
/r/seduction21/10/14 06:48 PM
1

If someone's a decent human being he will go towards developing a relationship with another human being no matter who's teaching him. My point is.. there's nothing that he can teach you that isn't already out there. I just don't like paraphrasing, recolouring. All I see is a guy who just wants to get his rehashed theme business going. Maybe I'm too blind to see his greatness over my enormous ego or I'm just an asshole. Feel free to think whatever makes you feel better.
/r/seduction28/08/14 06:54 PM
1

This is a really good idea. Great way to create an objective point of view.
/r/seduction19/08/14 06:49 PM
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It only matters if YOU're uncomfortable with it, because on the outside a big ego looks like confidence.
/r/seduction15/08/14 05:33 PM
3

Spot-on.
/r/seduction06/08/14 03:32 PM
4

Good for you man!
/r/seduction06/08/14 03:24 PM
4

What you have a problem with is facing the cold, hard truth. You're probably a mediocre guy. Do you have a passion, hobby, something that your life revolves around because you love it and not because women love it? In other words, what are you bringing to the table? Most probably you'll have to build your own awesome world (hint:you're the only one who has to find it awesome) and invite the girl to take part in it. Edit: I've just realized that there is also another option. You don't have to hav…
/r/seduction31/07/14 06:41 PM
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OP, you're just paraphrasing the "game" to create a place for your own business. Marketing 101. Of course, you add something of your own to make it look deeper and different, but all in all guys who learn pick up from the old school don't have to be shallow assholes. Just because you learn that "military descritption of reality" doesn't mean that this is all every guy from a PUA seminar/training will have to offer. I've seen some of the RSD Nation vids, and they do "preach" building value but al…
/r/seduction31/07/14 06:31 PM
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You can't articulate your values? My sarcastic side tells me you should add books to your hobbies.
/r/seduction29/07/14 03:30 PM
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Well, from my experience, there is no reason to devaluate any attempt to become wiser, greater. This might not be top notch, but he is trying. What you are doing is more like "Hey! Slow da fuck down! So I can still feel like being ahead." I mean, your comment is not constructive in any way, so if you are smarter than OP, why don't you try to improve the content in this topic?
/r/seduction26/07/14 08:03 PM
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Awwww, so cute!
/r/seduction07/07/14 01:37 PM
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Nope, it's more like "this environment isn't helping me get laid so I'm changing it".
/r/seduction26/06/14 06:42 PM
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I've read a similar or maybe the same study. We're just softer in the core than we'd like to admit. We hide it under the illusion of being tough, cause we're "the man" and we don't develop strong emotional attachment, cause we're "above it", but in the end we usually silently howl to the moon until the pain goes away. The reason is probably something in the meaning of "men have to struggle more to get and maintain attraction". Sure we don't wan't to admit it, cause it makes us look weak and beta…
/r/seduction24/06/14 05:56 PM
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That's what I wanted to say too. Tyler/Owen, has some really worthwhile content on the net. That's why I watch only his videos on youtube. If someone reads this, be sure to check out his channel.
/r/seduction24/06/14 01:58 PM
2

What if you ask the girls that friendzoned you, what they value in a man? If the girls agreed to go out with you, but afterwards they don't want to continue dating you, then it kind of looks like it's your personality or maybe your lifestyle. I remember Owen from RSD saying that he knew really hot girls that only preferred guys that aren't too good looking.. Maybe they're just looking for a more adventurous guy. Does the girl have a good time when she's out with you? Can you make her smile a lot…
/r/seduction22/06/14 07:52 PM
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And you cracked it. What I'm saying is people should seek deeper understanding, but more often they just want instant change. It isn't their fault though, it's what we're being taught.
/r/seduction10/06/14 07:04 PM
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Hahaha :D I did say it as a mini joke :P Just to make it clear, I am not discriminating short people. Not that kind of joke.
/r/seduction10/06/14 06:51 PM
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"Texting is so dangerous, most PUAs constrict their texting to only setting up dates." Doesn't that conflict with some rules those PUAs preach to the mini PUAs? Like outcome dependency? Hah, this is so amusing for me. Not because they put out those rules and break them, it's because rules must be broken. People want life to be all like a check list. If I want this then I gotta do this and that. But there is no sure way, no golden rule, especially no fairness, and yet we just don't want to accept…
/r/seduction10/06/14 03:32 PM
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Maan this was boring..
/r/seduction07/06/14 04:36 PM
1

"Later on, I had a call from work. Apparently one of my techs fucked something up on a build so I had to square him away. " What do you do? Ed: I mean work.
/r/seduction19/05/14 06:26 PM
3

You kind of reminded me of Randy Marsh. This
/r/seduction19/05/14 06:22 PM
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If they are into you, emotionally, then you need to decide. You can only have both if they are "out for an adventure". Respect peoples emotions.
/r/seduction18/05/14 01:06 PM
2

Threinfear is right. It's been some time since I read some interesting stuff on this sub, and you made me really curious about the vid. I'm going to check it out. Thanks mate.
/r/seduction17/05/14 03:46 PM
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The thing is ,I want to be more with people, not more isolated.
/r/seduction16/05/14 09:39 AM
1

If you mean surfing the web, reading a book, watching the grass grow then yes. Oh, and there's a church here and it's a pretty big deal. Just beacause the people here make it a big deal. After my friends moved out of here and some started their family life it really went downhill.
/r/seduction14/05/14 07:56 PM
1

Shit gets harder when you live in a shit hole and don't earn enough money to move out. There's nothing to do here and I absolutely hate it..
/r/seduction14/05/14 05:59 PM
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Josh is the pure logical, statistic side, and you're the more romantic, emotional side. I see how you don't agree with each other. Topics like this will always be divided 50\50, or somewhere in that area, mostly because topics like these are like "do this... do that.." or "don't do this and that.." The core problem of the arguments is not the topic, it's the angle they are approached. There should be more content about finding yourself in seduction and going your own way and learning on the way.…
/r/seduction08/05/14 07:15 PM
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This is what I've been searching for today. Did it come naturally for you? I've been loosing friends lately due to jobs or starting a family. My life has become pretty empty and I have no idea how to get back on my feet. I kinda didn't see it until it was too late, and now ,when I have a day or two off grom work I just sit at home. This really hurts my inner value, so I have nothing to back myself as a guy woth knowing.
/r/seduction01/05/14 02:33 PM
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So you make it look like you have an attractive lifestyle, for her to realize that you don't?
/r/seduction01/05/14 02:08 PM
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Jesus fucking Christ, you're 18! I'm 25 and I'm impressed! (and jealous, like, really fucking jealous) Good work man. Keep it up.
/r/seduction27/04/14 12:07 PM
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A friend of mine went on a trip through Europe and Asia. He said that those few months felt like a few years, and that he's gathered more experience than in the 25 years he's been living.
/r/seduction17/04/14 06:12 PM
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Thanks, I'll think about this. Makes sense. Maybe that's why I can't seem to understand myself. You're a good man mr Smiles_27.
/r/seduction05/02/14 09:49 PM
1

First of all, thank you a lot for the advice. The plan. I've thought about this a few times already, but every time all I can come up with is that I need to cut down on the internet and media alltogether, cause it just consumes my afterwork afternoons and evenings. But that's just a time saver. When it comes to a real plan I tried asking myself "what do I want to do in a year?" or "what job would make me happy?" but I'm just drawing a blank. I wish I had something, but either I've stopped dreami…
/r/seduction05/02/14 09:17 PM
1

Well not quite.. My problem is, all that my parents taught me is how to work hard. I grew up on a farm. I have no hobbies, cause there was always some shit to do. I had only a few friends cause of that, and I acutally never felt part of the group, cause I had nothing cool (no hobbies and stuff like that) to bring into the group. When I was 18 ,while still going to school, I found myself a job to get my hands on some money, cause my family is almost poor, and I was tired of getting my older broth…
/r/seduction05/02/14 05:08 PM
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Jesus I'm so jealous of your lifestyle. What you are talking about is somewhat my "dream lifestyle". Instead all I do is work and live in a shit hole 20 miles away from the city. I hate my life, I mean, I feel like I'm dying inside and life is passing me by, but I've been raised to have low expectations, so I got a mediocre job cause I believed that it's all I need. Stopped my education. Now I', 25 and have no idea how to unfuck this situation.
/r/seduction04/02/14 08:19 PM
2

. Dr. Maltz makes is easy the to understand is OK to be successful. ;D Yeah, he is do that so.
/r/seduction19/01/14 08:14 AM
0

" i think you should let ME place MY finger on it, girl. ya know, yo vadge. " Jesus this is great xD Edit: OMG the ending is such a twist xD haahahha lmfao
/r/seduction07/01/14 03:34 PM
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But we all want that magic pill!
/r/seduction24/12/13 08:16 AM
1

why are those ~3min clips? when it gets interesting it ends ,fucking hate it :D Found it somewhere else, but I think I'm not allowed to say where.. :D Interesting docu OP +1
/r/seduction21/12/13 04:52 PM
1

You do realize, that you are making the exact same thing, that you are trying to criticize me for? Your assumption of my intentions is actually wrong. What if I don't care about what you think? Why would you start a conversation with such a rude attitude? Is that alpha?
/r/seduction19/12/13 05:28 PM
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It's not about the process of sending the msg, it's about the vibe you set. For me it sounds "emotionally unstable".
/r/seduction19/12/13 02:46 PM
2

It's just that you shouldn't say the part "get laid anyway without saying a word", if you have no magical formula for getting sex without any verbal communication. Would be an interesting challenge for an expert PUA though... Can you escalate the emotional\sexual vibe to the point where she just wants to screw you? No "Hello, how are you?" or anything verbal, just sexual energy.. I'm pretty sure it would have to involve dancing. The dance would be a good tool for the escalation.
/r/seduction24/11/13 07:49 PM
1

Hahaha :D
/r/seduction24/11/13 07:40 PM
3

If you like loud music and dancing, fine. Do that well and you'll get laid anyway without saying a word. Say what?
/r/seduction24/11/13 01:52 PM
1

This is actually a great metaphore on how to benefit from inner game the most. Good job OP.
/r/seduction16/11/13 03:03 PM
5

You are somewhat right, they dress that way to get attention, but not necessarily want to be approached. But cmon man, don't call him a rapist in the making, we all have nasty thoughts when we see a hot chick, but no all of us will become rapists lol
/r/seduction26/10/13 04:54 PM
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You are doing the exact same thing now.. so are you not worth dating, or is there more to a human being than just an archetype? (I don't think it's a stereotype, cause it's partially true, just a poor description) What you are experiencing is partially exhaustion, that most probably comes from failed attempts to meet a great ,interesting girl, so your brain made up an excuse for you to take a timeout. Don't wory mate, just take a break, focus on something else for a while. One thing that you mus…
/r/seduction20/10/13 07:10 AM
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Srsly Seddit? Info like this you can find on any, even the cheap seduction sites.. I see that you started your topic by pointing out that these are "basics", but why even post this when I'm pretty sure that every newb would find this information just by googling a simple question? I'm not hating on OP, but why do people generally post so much trash? Is karma really so fcking important? Jesus.. What are we supposed to discuss here? Winter is comming so maybe the next topic will be "How to pee a h…
/r/seduction04/10/13 05:11 PM
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The "internet guru" was a metaphore. It's just that I think it's annoying that people need more and more guidelines on life, I dunno ,maybe it's cause these days we are experiencing something that you could call the internet generation, or do people just socially de-evolve, or maybe both.
/r/seduction15/09/13 12:02 PM
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"Be patient in love" Srsly? I'd say that from my experience, there's a lot of situations, that when you don't do something, then nothing is going to happen, but it really could if you would just make a move! So be patient is actually some really shitty advice.. I think that this list is another internet Guru, that thinks he's got stuff figured out. If anything then i'd recommend this - 6 harsh truths that will make you a better person.
/r/seduction14/09/13 08:18 PM
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Good job, you took the little step that so many are affraid of.
/r/seduction28/07/13 09:59 AM
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As for the concert.. Don't worry, the prom isn't a wedding, so there's nothing wrong with you trying to make a move at the nearest date possible, as long as it fits the rapport you have with her. I'd also "approve" Kingcals comment. Waiting is sometimes considered necessary to raise the emotional tension between two, but a lot of things can happen within a month. I once lost a girl ,that was really good girlfriend material, just because I waited\hesitated too long. Even though I knew how great w…
/r/seduction31/03/13 10:11 PM
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It's funny how people forget, that there are many simple ways to improve themselves and their life. People nowadays are used to taking shortcuts in everything, so their mind is starting to work that way too. You're sick? You take the right pill, and wait till it's ok. You need money? You get a loan from a friend, parents or bank. Something hurts? You go to the doctor and let him decide what next OR the worse thing possible.. you google it (the horror). What I'm talking about ,is that people only…
/r/seduction28/03/13 05:43 PM
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the problem is that you jump from one extreme point to another, you don't understand your situation, you just react by what wou've only learned and that is the reason you do not grow. you need to understand first ,so you can make an experience out of it, it's like preparing for an exam 10 minutes before. you take the info that is in your students book and you think it should suffice, but it doesn't, because you don't understand it on a deeper level,and there aren't really many humans which do no…
/r/seduction23/02/13 10:27 PM
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Have you tried picking up girls in other countries? Does the art of pick up differ in other countries?
/r/seduction16/01/13 08:31 PM
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First of all, you really need to make sure you're mature enough for a decision like this and I mean take your time, this might cause more pain than just breaking up with a single girl. Don't think about it as a relationship between you and a woman ,and the kid will just tag along. I've got a neighbour that got one kid of his own and one step son (I hope I'm not using the wrong word), and he never treats his step son like his own son, and I mean never. So I'd say try to put sex aside and get to k…
/r/seduction04/01/13 02:27 PM
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I thought about that, but how do I support my parents when I'll be paying my own bills and earning less (if I get a different job there is no chance I'll earn the money I do now for atleast a year or two \ in my country there is a massive problem with unenployment and the amount of money people earn, for example, there is no chance that you will be able to live by yourself by having a "normal" job, you need roommates to afford a 30 square meter apartment). The parents with no job thing kinda scr…
/r/seduction17/12/12 05:55 PM
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I'd so very much want to do what you did, the only big problem I have now, is that I work as a Lumberjack (I hope that's the right word), so I spend most of my time just working my ass off with two other guys, and that day after day. I can't afford to change my job, this one is paying well enough that I have to hold on to it (father lost his job cause of back problems\spine, mother will loose her shitty paying job shortly). So I sit in these woods day after day trying to earn as much as I can. T…
/r/seduction17/12/12 05:31 PM
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You must be one handsome man, or amazingly charismatic, though I don't know the whole convo during that night, but still you're kind of a role model
/r/seduction12/12/12 06:10 PM
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well she might be kinky :P
/r/seduction05/11/12 05:01 PM
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