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There's a book called "The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck." I recommend it be read by both genders.
/r/seduction01/11/22 06:06 PM
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It's all about the vibe. It's very instinctual, and situations vary, so it's hard to give a specific answer. Sorry I couldnt be more thorough in my reply.
/r/seduction27/10/22 03:59 PM
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I wait for her to drop subtle hints first. If you know what you're doing it doesn't take long. In my experience, women are generally the ones who give sex talk the green light.
/r/seduction26/10/22 09:54 PM
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It's true. My last three girlfriends were more into me than I was them. Not to say I didn't love them, but there was definitely a dynamic. But you have go understand details and game to achieve this. Your gf has to know that you have options too, women chasing you like she has men who chase her. Women respect men more when other women want them.
/r/seduction22/10/22 08:12 PM
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Had a friend like this. Every time we went out chicks would throw it at him. He had a little game but not enough to justify his success. He never complained though. We have a saying down South: if it ain't broke then don't try to fix it.
/r/seduction21/10/22 09:15 PM
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Enough times to know it happens to everyone. Ironically, the women who rejected me over the years were not as attractive as the ones I dated/slept with.
/r/seduction20/10/22 06:46 PM
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I see lots people need to learn how to spell before they do anything else. Assuming most here are adults, do people really not care they look like illiterate online. I know the defense is to say grammar nazi and who cares it's the internet. But plenty of people care. This is a pro tip for you. Please learn to spell and write simple sentences.
/r/seduction20/10/22 03:01 PM
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I wasn't a virgin but I didn't come out of my shell till my mid twenties. Since then I have no idea how many women I've been with. Something happens inside of you one day and you just get it.
/r/seduction19/10/22 07:54 PM
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That's too intuitive to answer here. It's up to you to know when and how. Context is everything. You're asking a question that there is no real or right answer to. If it's not in you to know, then keep practicing. You'll either get it or you won't.
/r/seduction13/10/22 09:01 PM
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Yes. Maybe a personal issue came up, or something with her family. Or, she smashed whoever she was talking to before you and it was lame. Or, she got an exotic pet and has been dealing with the ins and outs of proper maintenance with regard to it. Personally, I think she got a new exotic pet. But I'm a tragic optimist and admit that I see things different sometimes.
/r/seduction12/10/22 08:04 PM
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Don't do it.
/r/seduction11/10/22 10:59 PM
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Hot women know they're hot. They've been hearing it all their lives. If you wanna be like the other hundred chumps she encounters throughout the day, by all means go ahead. Just don't wonder why they don't message you back.
/r/seduction11/10/22 10:58 PM
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Growing up I had a friend who had six brothers, three of them younger. None of them are over 5' 7" yet they always had chick's around. They all got chick's no problem. The thing with most short guys is that they're very fixated on height, whereas most chicks just want to laugh and have a good time. You think it's your height but it's really your personality and how you see the world. If you think everyone is against "short kings" or whatever other idiotic term is in fashion now, then that's how …
/r/seduction07/10/22 02:28 PM
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First time with my kid's mom I couldn't perform. Norco and beer in the afternoon= limp fella at night. Don't do drugs bro.
/r/seduction05/10/22 07:48 PM
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I didn't want to say that...but I was definitely thinking it.
/r/seduction04/10/22 10:52 PM
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Do you have any relatives that are girls that you're close to/talk to on a frequent basis? If so, talk to that girl like you would them. Basically never give a fuck. If you can do those things you'll be alright.
/r/seduction04/10/22 10:50 PM
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I've been on a few dates over the years and none of them turned into anything. My ltr have all been women I met, hung out with and had sex a few times, before we even went out in public together. I think dating went away in the 90s.
/r/seduction30/09/22 07:22 PM
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I can. It's natural for me, and not something I or anybody can teach. Im a writer though, so maybe that helps but i doubt it. It's strange to me that people write books about that.
/r/seduction28/09/22 09:24 PM
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I don't know if you understand the kind of guy who posts on a reddit forum asking for advice about approaching women. Most guys don't see them as their exact gender opposite. Hence why they're asking advice and hav trouble talking to them. I do admire your optimism though.
/r/seduction27/09/22 12:41 PM
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None of that matters if you can talk to women like they're humans. Game will get you further than looks or money. It's hard to describe to people who don't get that. Everything is secondary if you can talk to women in a way that makes them feel comfortable. Being a good listener is where you start.
/r/seduction26/09/22 03:54 PM
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Came here to reply meditation too.
/r/seduction25/09/22 10:31 PM
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Maybe. I don't know your aunt well enough to thoroughly assess your situation. You, though, sound like you've entertained the thought before, with the way you described her. Good luck, bro. No judgments here.
/r/seduction25/09/22 09:22 PM
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Talk to one of her friends.
/r/seduction25/09/22 06:49 PM
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I swear guys want every interaction they have with a woman to mean something. If they aren't laughing, playing with their hair, it means nothing. Plus it's at work so it's not like they can avoid you.
/r/seduction25/09/22 03:27 PM
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They also care, the smart ones at least, if you can spell words right. Like not confusing your and you're, their there they're, like you did. Dudes underestimate how many girls pay attention to that. Your advice is useless if you can't spell. Why should I listen to your philosophy, if you've can't articulate it properly? A lot of girls love my text game because I'm funny and can spell words right. It's gotten me women lots of times. Women love a guy who notices small details. I'm not trying to b…
/r/seduction24/09/22 06:48 PM
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For real. My last girlfriend and her sis were both hotties. Met them at the same time. Couple days later my future gf said, in a playful joking way, how long it took them to find my Facebook profile. This started the second conversation I had with my future ex. Keep one, bro. Chicks wanna see you and find out if you're a douche or cool. This guy is right. Women like checking your Facebook to see how you are.
/r/seduction24/09/22 06:41 PM
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Upgrading women isn't a very pleasant term, is her point, I think. It's his wording, not his aim. Read more. It will help you understand things that aren't right in your face.
/r/seduction18/09/22 09:18 PM
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You should be nicer to Buster. And cosign the heavy women have more options. I see good looking dudes with heavy women at the store more or less every time I go. Like I know dudes can "get better" but I admire them for not gaf (not saying there's something wrong with heavy gals).
/r/seduction18/09/22 09:12 PM
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Why do guys under six feet usually add the inches when saying their height?
/r/seduction15/09/22 07:57 PM
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I can confirm this. Send a few witty, grammar-correct texts and it's over. Makes me wonder how many half-literate men there are walking the earth.
/r/seduction14/09/22 04:24 PM
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This is America. Most of our cities were built after the invention of the automobile.
/r/seduction13/09/22 02:40 PM
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Some people just don't have a sense of humor. Nothing wrong with that. Ernest Hemingway didn't have a sense of humor. Oliver Stone has no sense of humor. Not like you're the first.
/r/seduction09/09/22 08:49 PM
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I don't know about easier. Pretty sure men their age hit on them too. But on the other hand women who are older than you may be flattered and like that a younger guy is trying to holla. Go for it. In my experience older women are fun. No nonsense. I used to hang out with one of the secretaries at my old job. No drama. Actually...I'll confess. I banged every secretary at my old job. One was married. I feel bad about it now. But they all pretty much threw it at me (no subtle brag). This was some t…
/r/seduction09/09/22 04:49 AM
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All the guys thinking they have to be successful before a woman will like them are over-thinking things. If a woman likes you, they'll be with you regardless.
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:26 PM
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Bro, you're essentially wearing high heels. Stop. I'm 6'5". I see dudes your height with baddies everyday. Height means nothing if you have game. It's time to come clean to your lady, bro. You should be nervous. You lied about something that's very obvious.
/r/seduction07/09/22 03:11 PM
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I'm not a certified dating coach but I can help. Be funny, laid back, and don't gaf. If you have to manipulate women to get some, you're doing it wrong. Make them laugh. Make them feel like a human. Good looking women know they're good looking. You have to make them laugh. I can't stress that enough. Getting midday nudes because you made a woman laugh is a great feeling. Forget those douchey coaches. Don't follow other men and you'll be fine.
/r/seduction06/09/22 10:55 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction03/09/22 10:52 PM
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Then I've made quite a lot of women do things they wouldn't have normally done.
/r/seduction03/09/22 10:46 PM
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Co-sign. "LMAO" is a strange way to end a text, in that context. Makes you sound unsure of yourself and your text.
/r/seduction03/09/22 04:12 PM
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