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The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:56 PM
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The one in my town is specifically for women, and I’m pretty sure people have actually gotten kicked out for telling a guy that he was posted or something
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:01 PM
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It’s more just your internal moral compass of not feeling like another human in a relationship deserves basic respect and common decency. The issue is you, and whatever girlfriend is cheating with you But it’s a double whammy the fact you’re EXCITED she’s taken as if it’s a challenge. Don’t see other people as challenges or prizes, we’re all people and they’re all equal to you. But hey, if you’re sleeping at night!
/r/seduction01/04/24 01:06 PM
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Karma is ruthless, maybe donate some money to charity or something..
/r/seduction01/04/24 11:16 AM
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There is no person that is for everyone lol, there are going to be people that you just don’t click with. And it’s better that way, if that wasn’t the case I’d assume you’re mirroring personalities and are fake
/r/seduction20/03/24 05:29 PM
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Yes you have to feel comfortable to want to sleep with someone who is effectively a random. Duh? That comes from a basic sense of not wanting to get murdered. Regardless, I think you’re just pointing out that pure physical attraction isn’t the only thing that gets you laid. I don’t think it’s a blueprint TO get laid on a first date, because tbh it has nothing to do with you as a man and many women just don’t sleep with a guy/go to their place on the first date as a self-rule. There definitely is…
/r/seduction20/03/24 10:20 AM
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Ohhh so the “fake” lesbians are playing hard to get eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:58 AM
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I’ll call you crazy, you’re crazy!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:59 AM
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They aren’t finding anything you do sexy when they’re a lesbian lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:58 AM
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In the sense that feminism made women realize the goalpost of casual sex doesn’t have to be male orgasm? Yeah. Casual sex isn’t worth it to women. My body count is in low 20’s and not one casual hookup ever made me finish, Only LTR’s. We can do it ourselves thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:57 PM
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Don’t most PEOPLE have an iPhone? I’m in a friend group with 8 people, 6 men and 2 women, and the only android in the group is one of the women. I posted my Spotify wrapped and had a man ask me “where’s the drake? Where’s the basic?” Like I’m meant to feel bad that I’m not listening to drake or something lol We can’t win!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:23 PM
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Literally all they were saying was that cis-white men are also getting promoted and you’re not all getting fucked by affirmative action-esque decisions. They weren’t making it about them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:25 PM
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I’d just like to point out that demanding sex whenever you want or cheating makes the sex NOT “consensual marital sex” if anything it’s borderline coercion, and you can have great consensual marital sex while also feeling comfortable saying “sorry baby, my head has been really hurting” and then making a move when you’re feeling better. But you don’t want to give your woman that option eh. Big man need sex NOW
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:01 AM
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But I’m telling you just because I don’t remember the exact number, you’re spinning it into me not knowing a single thing about any of the people. If you put them in a line I could 100% pick people out of the crowd, as could my boyfriend. Just because neither one of us knows the names of all the people off the top of our heads, that doesn’t make either one of our actions wrong. My sexual past clearly isn’t affecting my life because I’ve found a long term life partner and we’re both insanely happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:55 PM
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“There HAS to be some other reason that your boyfriend doesn’t remember” or he just doesn’t care? Just like I do not care? It’s almost as if it’s ✨not that deep✨
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:18 PM
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When did I ever say I couldn’t remember a single man’s name, or anything about him? 😂 I just said I didn’t remember the exact number, obviously I remember most of the people I’ve slept with if I have a general idea. Just out of curiosity, what’s your opinion on my boyfriend’s body count? Does he not have self respect because can’t remember the women he’s slept with? Cause his number is less than half mine and I definitely remember more about past sexual partners Also, my dad shouldn’t be thinkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:50 PM
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I just like to connect with people and have fun, as long as I’m safe and responsible about it I don’t see the harm in that and neither does my partner 😋 I don’t see my number going up anymore anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:35 PM
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If you actually looked into the case you’d know that TURNER was actually the one changing his statements and contradicting what he had said prior, as well as contradicting witness testimonies and all that. But you’re just a contrarian. The victim wasn’t supposed. She was a young girl that was blackout drunk and couldn’t consent. https://amp.theguardian.com/society/2016/aug/26/brock-turner-stanford-sexual-assault-victim-testimony-laugh Go cry about people insulting you. You should be ashamed of h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:57 AM
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We genuinely were best friends. We align on many many core values and interests and just sort of make sense. The best relationships start with a great foundation, and friendship is the best version of that imo :) he valued me as a person and as someone that he cares about and while I’m very glad that we’re in a relationship now, I think we both would have been content with staying platonic if one of us had interest elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:14 AM
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What changed in what way? I don’t really understand the question. He made the physical move but I was making it sort of obvious that I was interested when I thought he was interested. We both sorta knew around the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:30 PM
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Very much the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:52 AM
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Keep your standards, BUT. I don’t think having a shred of doubt about compatibility means you’re incompatible. So for example I wake up at 7-8 AM pretty much every day. I sleep around 6-8 hours and my body naturally wakes me up at that time. My boyfriend on the other hand has about 6 alarms throughout the morning starting at like 10:30, for his 1pm class. He gets out of bed at 12:45 to go to class. Are we incompatible when it comes to our sleep schedules? Yeah, but he’s the person I want to be w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:45 PM
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Why does anyone have to get shamed for their preferences, especially when it’s boosting/uplifting those who have a harder time in the dating scene?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:35 PM
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So being secretive about your wealth/what you own and LYING to your spouse about it is better than asking them for something where you don’t know where either of you will be at mentally/emotionally in 10/20/30 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:27 PM
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It’s like you’ve been disproven twice and you’re like, no, you’re wrong because I’m still right despite this evidence!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:08 PM
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I have no desire in having children (honestly don’t even know if I like the idea of marriage, my bf and I have talked about “life partner” terminology) so I wouldn’t be interested. Was one of the main bases on my last LTR ending, he wanted kids and I did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 04:20 PM
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Understand that chronically online people are most definitely NOT the norm, same as redpilled men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:57 PM
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Thank you captain obvious! Big revelation you came to with that one huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:54 PM
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Lmao, TEENAGERS simped over them. I was one of them! I’m not obsessive about men like I was when I had silly 14 year old daydreams about celebrities, I grew into a fucking adult and live in the real world. The general population isn’t obsessed with simping over Hollywood icons, you’re putting so much weight on it and it doesn’t prove anything other than people like attractive people, which… duh?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:47 PM
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Why are you trying to make some crazy statement about sex symbols being ridiculously attractive? You didn’t ask about sex symbols, you asked about women simping over average looking musicians or actors, which they 100% do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:15 PM
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When it’s only 20% of older men? No it doesn’t support the claim because the claim is phrased to assume the majority is doing so
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:04 PM
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Have you SEEN the amount of people that are into actors/musicians like Pete Davison, lil Wayne, post Malone??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:00 PM
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So you’re a groupie? Yeah they have real high status to the general public 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:58 PM
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That statistic states that the norm is still +/- 5 years, but that the percentage of a larger age cap increased by like 8 percent lmao, it’s not really that big of a difference and it definitely doesn’t support the claim “older men go for younger women” cause even the highest percentage was only 20% lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:30 PM
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Lol what? I talked about my past relationship, where I said it took months for me to even develop feelings for this person. I did not have any romantic feelings towards my current partner while in my previous relationship, because I was already in a relationship lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:17 AM
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The difference is a choice for pleasure’s sake vs a decision to further your education lmao, they are entirely different. Your analogies are not equal comparisons
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:13 AM
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It’s very clear that we don’t need to keep discussing about it though, you don’t care that you have a lower standard for yourself compared to the company you keep and we can leave it at that, I’m not going to change your mind!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:03 PM
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And yet you’ve said very little to why, because you can’t give a logical reason
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:01 PM
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He just continues to avoid the question because there’s no logical way to explain it when he doesn’t follow the rule for himself lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:54 PM
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I don’t really care how much my partner makes lmao, you speak for the masses when you have no actual knowledge on the subject. Men and women are becoming more equal, and with that women put less weight on financial status than they may have in the past. “basically, that the more equal men and women became, the less emphasis men placed on youth and beauty, and the less emphasis women put on wealth and power. These findings were borne out by the 37-culture survey as well; although it showed a defi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:36 PM
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I’m asking for your inward thoughts on WHY you do not want a partner that has a high N count when you yourself have engaged in casual sex. Obviously no one can control anyone, you’re completely missing my point. I’m saying your own rule does not apply to yourself and it’s weird and narcissistic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:19 PM
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I am in the rare circumstance of dating a close friend that I had while I was in my last long term relationship. I DID meet my current partner while with my ex, and no I did not leave my ex for him, nor did I cheat. We were friends and I didn’t feel any romantic feelings towards my current partner until months after I was already out of my previous relationship. So no, your weird hypothetical doesn’t prove anything lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:04 PM
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So you’re saying you care about body count. But you don’t care about it for yourself since you have casual sex? That’s what I’m saying, I don’t really get how you can care about body count while also having casual sex yourself. I’m saying you don’t have the same standard for yourself that you hold for the women you want to get into a relationship with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:38 PM
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But why do you not get held to the same standard as the women you get into a relationship with? Why do you get to just get laid but they don’t? That’s the hang up for me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:33 PM
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If you care but you’re just trying to get laid… do you actually care about it? The logic isn’t there for me ig
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:20 PM
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Mine is ~16-18, I didn’t bother to count because I don’t find importance in it and my partner doesn’t either. His is 7 (if I remember correctly) and I was friends with him since before he was having sex with anyone, neither of us care because we don’t hold value over it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:18 PM
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It’s incredibly individual. Many women prefer to be single and don’t have interest in being in a committed relationship as well as men. For those that want a relationship, it’s: “what do I need from a partner” not something that women need from a partner vs men. Not all men are like how you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:32 AM
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That’s a little skewed. She talked about the weight of masculinity and “being a man” on a man’s shoulders and societal pressures men have in their “assigned role” and THAT is what sent her into depression, and her suicide was absolutely a greater thing than just her year living as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:45 PM
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My boyfriend and I had this conversation the other day. If he was 17 in high school and had the opportunity he would have slept with a hot teacher, meanwhile I (female) would be repulsed by the idea that a teacher would want to sleep with me… and there’s a one year age difference between the 18 year old and a kid in high school, suddenly that makes them really hot to older men. I’m sorry but it’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:09 PM
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Good response, glad that’s all you took out of that entire message
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:05 AM
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It sounds like this person is from a country where women are regularly sold for their virginity, so it honestly MIGHT be a foreign concept to them that women can just enjoy sex and not have any other hang ups lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:28 AM
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When I was younger my boyfriend at the time had a VERY religious best friend. One day, his best friend gifted me some CD’s to listen to. The CD’s were religious CD’s about porn addiction, abstinence, etc. You know what we did after he gave them to us? Laughed, and kept them to giggle at every now and then. If you tell your friends who are already having sex to stop having sex, they will laugh. No one asked for your help in their sex lives and you should mind your own business and stay out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:19 AM
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But why would you WANT to fall further knowing that’s the outcome? It’s to help learn the social cues of when to cut your losses. Nothing good comes out of it so why would you bother doing it?
/r/seduction19/10/22 11:17 AM
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Realistically the difference is minimal, but men who do that come off as thirsty and respect is lost. It’s about social awareness of when to let go and not say anything
/r/seduction18/10/22 05:31 PM
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And I’m telling you from a woman’s perspective I would literally never reach out to somebody who attempted to lightheartedly call me out if I already unadded them. I don’t want to talk to them anymore… if anything it would make me want to block because he sent another message after I made it clear that I didn’t want to continue talking, and then you REALLY have no chance of them adding you back lol EDIT: I will add I usually would say something to someone before unadding them out of the blue unl…
/r/seduction17/10/22 04:19 PM
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It makes you sound entitled and makes me feel like I’m doing a sales pitch lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:04 PM
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Don’t send the text after she already unadded you, it comes off as creepy or that you didn’t get the hint and I would not message back someone who tried that
/r/seduction17/10/22 03:32 PM
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Tldr from my understanding it’s placing physical touches to build comfortability with someone (maybe specifically in an attempt to get laid but don’t quote me). Brushing up against her arm, touching her hair, holding hands, etc
/r/seduction17/10/22 03:30 PM
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An answer where you admit that you just don’t know as much about women as ACTUAL WOMEN do and you should reevaluate your thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:57 PM
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No, my previous partner had a job with the state and his own house and my current partner works side jobs and is still in college, I’m 24 he’s 21. I wouldn’t trade my current relationship for anything! I’d say I’m mostly looking for a willingness to explore each other’s interests, or sharing mutual interests is a bonus. Emotional intelligence, and someone who strives for personal growth in whatever way they see it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:34 PM
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Lol, yes. I have absolutely done this exact scenario before. If women are telling you that we’re doing this maybe you should listen
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:38 PM
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The problem is men will continue to complain about women’s preferences when in my experience my preferences were hardly ever about physical appearance. Women complain about “where the good guys are” because honestly I wasn’t seeing conventionally attractive men as desirable on dating apps probably 90% of the time. They come off as douchy or cocky. I was looking for personality/moral character traits as preferences. Men have more of a chance than they think if they actually put in the effort to i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:19 AM
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If you were attracted it wouldn’t be rape. That’s the point, you don’t want it and it’s forced upon you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:06 PM
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Settling is why half of marriages end in divorce. Men aren’t overall happy because they’re settling. You’re able to settle because the only criteria you listed was attractiveness, You don’t value a partner or a woman above that lmao. Women need to be more selective besides just attractiveness when searching for a partner, and men should be too!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:05 PM
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I definitely have sex with my partner to connect with him emotionally as well as physically and reaching orgasm for either of us is not the goal of sex lmao. You’re dilusional OP, sorry to say it. The world isn’t so black and white
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:59 PM
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Woman here but I’ve seen a lot of guys in this sub talk about just talking with more PEOPLE in general, not just women. It helps if you can strike up a conversation with a woman you’re interested in in a similar way you would any male friend of yours. We’re not crazy creatures that are insanely different from guys
/r/seduction02/10/22 04:45 PM
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Sounds like your only options are begin to learn how to manage your anxiety so you can drive places, or walk/bike everywhere.
/r/seduction27/09/22 02:55 PM
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I think your personal experience is skewing your view of loyalty with women… men don’t have a natural state to be loyal, men have a natural state to reproduce with anything that is walking, biologically lmao. I feel like men aren’t predisposed to be “more loyal” than women are, it’s definitely a person to person thing that has nothing to do with gender
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:47 PM
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Well you don’t KNOW if nothing bad has come from it on their end though, Yknow? Just because it hasn’t been negative on your side doesn’t mean it didn’t turn out negatively for them in some way, but yes. I generally dislike polarizing language in arguments like all or nothing, my side of things is that I’m generally more cautious of much older men trying to hit on me, and it comes from experience of men taking advantage of how young I was at 14/15 and in my teenage brain wanting to feel mature. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:34 PM
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Okay but that other person that you’re using for your own gain to “take care of yourself”? Is another person with just as many thoughts and emotions as you. It’s like people forget that other people are not AI and just choose to treat them however they want and then it’s the other person’s responsibility to heal from whatever decisions you manipulated them into. Yes, if this older person that you’re referring to is you? Then you’re shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:17 PM
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https://youtu.be/RhoGBu97l30 This perfectly summarizes what I’m getting at. The idea of choosing to specifically date younger women (early 20’s, freshly 18, whatever) will just not work in the long term most of the time because the women you are going for will lose their “appeal” of being young with less baggage and a lower body count, or they grow up and they move on
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:13 PM
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How is choosing a relationship with an inexperienced very young woman “taking care of yourself”?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:07 PM
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I feel like emotional maturity in men is a turn on for most women… If anything, men learned to not have emotions from their fathers, who learned from their fathers, because back when gender roles were a thing men were meant to be the breadwinners and come home to a meal cooked by his wife. He was making the money and he didn’t talk about his feelings, and the idea that showing emotions would make him weak is passed down from father to son
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:04 PM
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Just because you don’t owe people anything doesn’t mean you should actively take advantage of them for your own selfish reasons. It’s called not being a shitty person
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:58 PM
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Andrew Tate literally said he would never date someone older than 25 because those women already have experiences/trauma or some shit. It definitely can be predatory and it’s more common than you think, even if the men are doing it subconsciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:53 PM
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How can you possibly make a comparison between harassment and positive attention? You can say you’d rather be female than male but it’s just a fact, they are not synonymous. You should deal with women being mean/rude to you or rejecting you to your face because hey, at least it’s some attention from a female right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:23 PM
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Please never compare cat calling and street harassment with “male attention” as if it’s some positive thing a woman should get praised for getting. People can’t control how they were born, genetics that make up a conventionally attractive face, metabolic genetics, etc. I shouldn’t have to be scared or get harassed just because someone thinks I’m good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:11 PM
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You’re trying to not look needy but it comes off as not being interested. You didn’t make plans when they asked (at the end of a date or a hookup before they leave) so that could leave them feeling rejected as well. The waiting to text back thing is stupid and if you want to text them you should just text them. You need to find people who communicate the same as you and are just as eager to meet up again as you are
/r/seduction04/06/22 09:53 AM
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Girl here, probably a ~$300 longboard. I would say my PS4 but I think he got it used so it wasn’t full price
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:08 PM
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I’m a female lmao, sure some girls would take advantage, but to me this shows that someone cares (or is at least pretending to) Acts of service is a love language, so for some people, offering things like a foot/head massage would be the best thing they could ask for
/r/seduction29/04/20 01:06 PM
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Why don’t you just ask her if it’s alright to kiss her at the end of the date? The last time I was asked this I was very clearly showing signs of being into the guy, and thought it was obvious that I wanted him to kiss me, so I just gave a little laugh and said of course. If she’s showing signs that she’s into you, just ask her, then you HAVE to go for it when she says yes
/r/seduction29/04/20 12:56 PM
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Source: Am a girl that does this Honestly, sometimes girls just want to feel taken care of. Sometimes it’s even us being a little submissive, like last night I was on the phone with a guy, talking about my headache, and he said “drink some water and lay down”. Like, just telling them what to do in this way is sometimes what’s desired Another reason could be they want to hear what you would do if you were there with them. This could especially be true through quarantine since no one can be around…
/r/seduction29/04/20 12:52 PM
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Can guarantee acts of service/showing you care this way is not a highway to the friend zone
/r/seduction29/04/20 12:48 PM
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