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I also am emphasizing EARLY stages not long term, there will be just ONE eventually
/r/seduction24/07/26 02:06 PM
1

Have you been able to navigate dating in early stages multiple women ??
/r/seduction24/07/26 01:14 AM
0

Honestly yes.
/r/seduction17/07/26 02:18 PM
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All I know is sometimes women are down for a hookup, but something about their nature they will never come right out and say it
/r/seduction16/07/26 05:56 PM
1

Do your best to not take it personal. Easier said than done I know.
/r/seduction30/06/26 01:09 PM
1

Mostly damn apps. I've done some things like fitness classes which I truly enjoy, some running events, and Church. These things I do anyway which is good. In a smaller town so mostly older women at these things or ones that are too young. Apps I get many matches when it comes to 40s women and women with kids already I guess in trying to punch above my weight class to be honest lol. But late 20s, ans early mid 30s don't see much. I just gotta keep trying, I need to just embrace not giving a fuck …
/r/seduction30/06/26 01:01 PM
1

As a 41 year old that is the age I am definitely interested. Where do you meet most of these women ?
/r/seduction30/06/26 04:23 AM
3

I'm 41 so interested to hear advice as well. Our age is not ideal but we still have a shot out there!
/r/seduction30/06/26 04:20 AM
2

Yep height is overrated or used too much is an excuse. GRANTED if youre under somewhere around 5'6-5'7 than it is hard
/r/seduction21/06/26 10:01 PM
2

Swinging for the fences. But yeah too strong.
/r/seduction21/06/26 09:07 PM
2

Yeah I'm not as good at talking to women I don't know so I take more of your approach. His way has its advantages too and will always have more volume.
/r/seduction21/06/26 07:42 PM
71

There is something about you not trying as hard that seems attractive. At least for your friend 5'-10 isn't super short, he can still pull. You may hurt him slightly because of your height when you're beside him lol. BUT it helps to have a friend with you vs straight solo even though solo game can be done.
/r/seduction21/06/26 07:17 PM
1

I still think for us guys game is more important thank looks maxxing.
/r/seduction21/06/26 07:09 PM
1

Stay Strong brother and don't give up
/r/seduction21/06/26 04:32 AM
2

💯
/r/seduction20/06/26 10:18 PM
3

You have to assert yourself when he is around for her to respect you.
/r/seduction01/06/26 10:59 PM
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Are there not as many older ones that are out ??
/r/seduction25/05/26 11:49 PM
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Let me know. It's hard. For me early 30s was pretty good maybe my best and mid 30s still ok. I'm 41 now and situation is not good. Im in shape and look good for my age but im still 40 lol. Yes I know I should have tried to lock one down back then and I squandered opportunities. Just have to keep going.
/r/seduction25/05/26 10:50 PM
1

That's not bad
/r/seduction25/05/26 04:40 AM
1

Have you at least been able to pull some that didn't care about your age ??
/r/seduction25/05/26 03:23 AM
5

You just got to have thick skin if you're going to go younger past 30 or so.
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:14 AM
15

She probably just got turned off. I've had a few opportunities like that too over the years where it was "in the bag" so to speak and I still fumbled. It happens bro.
/r/seduction17/05/26 04:08 AM
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I take fitness classes and an occasional yoga class. Haven't met anyone but mostly senior people in my classes or they are married. ALSO, I legitimately enjoy my fitness classes and yoga as opposed to just going for women. Pilates I've never done, might be good to try, I guess I draw the line with Pilates because it's like a female space even more so than the other classes
/r/seduction08/05/26 06:56 PM
18

Getting women as a man is a lot more about your words and your actions. Just being attractive doesnt get guys that much.
/r/seduction08/05/26 01:36 PM
6

It's true though. Every woman has moments and her things. I've had 9s be all about me! BUT I've also been straight rejected by a 5!! This world ain't black and white bro.
/r/seduction18/04/26 09:11 PM
24

Kinda pointless and a waste of time and money. The only argument for doing this is it's just practice for you.
/r/seduction18/04/26 03:49 AM
2

I agree with this in that as a 40 year old man early 20s college aged is just a little much in terms of maturity level and them still growing up. Even though I like younger 25 is definitely my cutoff point.
/r/seduction15/04/26 04:55 PM
3

You can do it. My only advice is just gotta have some thick skin.
/r/seduction15/04/26 04:47 PM
2

Not saying you should do it but some women can get this treatment.
/r/seduction13/04/26 12:07 PM
1

I still need to do this myself
/r/seduction06/04/26 01:13 AM
1

I don't know either
/r/seduction06/04/26 01:10 AM
1

I think they are better for dating/seeking a relationship. Not as much for seduction.
/r/seduction26/03/26 02:42 PM
1

I think this is generally true, maybe not always but generally.
/r/seduction04/03/26 02:53 AM
2

From my experience it's actually easier to get dates with women in their 40s. 20s are more likely to be single though but are more selective. Obviously 20's would be better if you have family aspirations.
/r/seduction17/12/25 04:14 PM
1

I can relate
/r/seduction10/11/25 02:21 AM
1

Nah.
/r/seduction25/10/25 08:52 PM
6

I think being a barber is legit.
/r/seduction19/10/25 11:34 PM
1

Well if she's out on a weeknight maybe more interested in meeting someone.
/r/seduction02/09/25 05:56 PM
5

If you can get a connection you would be surprised.
/r/seduction27/08/25 11:55 PM
0

Be completely who you are.
/r/seduction21/08/25 12:01 AM
0

Fit is more attractive BUT if you have numbers 2,3,4 on your list and just a lil bigger or have a dad bod you can still do well with women.
/r/seduction29/07/25 01:07 AM
25

Well women trend more liberal than men do you think that would help leftist men somewhat.
/r/seduction28/07/25 06:17 PM
2

Just be cool about it and finish the date. Then move on.
/r/seduction07/07/25 01:48 AM
1

I feel ya. I'm working on not fearing rejection myself.
/r/seduction21/06/25 03:04 AM
1

This is deep rooted stuff bro. May have to break out and try and go for women. I swear I hate it but sometimes the ones that make moves towards us guys are the crazy ones.
/r/seduction20/06/25 05:00 PM
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Don't be afraid to do what you really are interested in for study vs what you think will make money.
/r/seduction20/06/25 03:16 PM
1

There are so many factors here and sometimes it's not even anything to do with YOU.
/r/seduction19/06/25 01:20 PM
1

I don't know. I've had this happen to me before though.
/r/seduction29/05/25 10:53 PM
0

But then you're like well she doesn't want him, why would I ??
/r/seduction26/05/25 03:21 AM
2

I know bruh ! 💯
/r/seduction26/05/25 03:04 AM
3

All I know is if you can make her 'feel a certain way' she'll be about u regardless of what u do or have. How to do that though...don't know lol.
/r/seduction25/05/25 01:16 AM
1

Well there will always be those dudes who ain't got shit or do shit but are still gettin it. Chillin on her couch while she working lol.
/r/seduction25/05/25 01:02 AM
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Probably true.
/r/seduction14/05/25 11:48 PM
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I will say I think your profile gets a lil boost when you enter new areas I always seem to get matches on the road so you might can save some money on boosts or whatever.
/r/seduction08/05/25 03:52 PM
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LOL
/r/seduction07/05/25 12:21 AM
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Same here lol
/r/seduction02/05/25 12:25 AM
2

Keep trying. Mad respect for 140+ approaches.
/r/seduction28/04/25 11:01 PM
1

What would you say is your overall success percentage?
/r/seduction28/04/25 08:21 PM
1

Seems like something you could also age out of.
/r/seduction25/04/25 05:37 PM
1

Only thing you can look for is a legit looking ring, other than that just shoot your shot.
/r/seduction12/04/25 08:03 PM
4

This isnt a big enough deal to stop going.
/r/seduction10/04/25 05:52 PM
1

Id say wealthy. May have no game but still just need to be able to sus out the women who are just there because of the money.
/r/seduction07/04/25 04:01 PM
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Honestly they do. Not to be full of myself but I'm decently attractive and they shit test us. Looks aren't everything to a woman, confidence is.
/r/seduction06/04/25 06:50 PM
1

I'm 40m and single. I'm in shape and I think I look 30ish. I don't want to date 20 yr olds. I would like to date 27-35 ish. I still think I'm going to have to do more approaches. Apps get harder when you hit 40 and see competitive to begin with.
/r/seduction02/04/25 02:13 PM
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Prob best not to.
/r/seduction05/02/25 07:57 PM
1

How much is Hinge X ?
/r/seduction18/01/25 10:32 PM
4

They do have the most options.
/r/seduction10/01/25 05:15 PM
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Honestly I have found older women (40s and 50s) to be easier. A lot of them do like younger men. I still prefer younger women (mid 20s - late 30s). I think a lot of older women have been there and done that (divorced,kids, career etc). Therefore they sometimes really are just looking for fun and companionship. Younger women can be harder bc they are thinking more of a man that could be a husband, father of children, etc to build a home with so can be more selective and have more options generall…
/r/seduction24/12/24 01:43 AM
1

Never even been there but some prominent dating coaches say Seattle is difficult for men for dating, surplus of men?. Don't know if you would consider relocating. Dating isn't easy about anywhere though.
/r/seduction23/12/24 02:16 AM
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To add to your problem I've heard Seattle is a difficult dating market for men.
/r/seduction23/12/24 02:12 AM
5

I agree. Hard to have dinner with someone you don't know. A coffee date is quick and easy screener date.
/r/seduction22/12/24 12:48 AM
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Do it.
/r/seduction18/12/24 09:04 PM
5

They have a zillion matches.
/r/seduction16/12/24 10:41 PM
1

A Single Guy Lloyd Dixon seems like he would be good. I've watched a lot of his YouTube stuff and follow on IG. Never paid for classes though.
/r/seduction10/12/24 03:33 AM
2

No.
/r/seduction22/11/24 01:14 AM
2

The only thing that seems to help is boost/spotlights I have gotten matches from buying those. Everything else is a waste of money.
/r/seduction05/11/24 04:23 PM
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I'm 40, I look like I'm probably 30ish.
/r/seduction29/10/24 02:13 PM
2

Yes
/r/seduction28/10/24 04:22 PM
1

Yeah I get it. I also try to not be too upset with it cause I think it's like 2nd nature to them. They really don't put much thought into it. Even though I can't help but complain about it to the boys cause sometimes they'll give me hard eye contact multiple times but still be rude when I come over line seriously lol.
/r/seduction15/10/24 01:16 AM
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Not too mention all the men who are locked up, homeless (more men are homeless), suicides (again more men), die in accidents/war (men), gay men etc it's like there should be plenty of women to go around but yet there aren't.
/r/seduction13/10/24 07:48 PM
2

I'm 5'7 3/4". I'll put 5'8 on a dating app. Who wouldn't but not fudging any more than that. A good pair of boots can add a 1/2 " or so. Hit the weights it will help, plus make you feel better. Im about 175lbs which helps me too look a lil bigger and I'm stronger. With muscle your proportion will still look good. I'm short enough though I prob don't want to go over 185 think I will look too bulky. Rest is just confidence and how you present yourself some things you can't change, life's not fair.…
/r/seduction11/10/24 03:32 PM
2

Ppl lose attention quick on apps. Cut that Bio in half is my first advice.
/r/seduction11/10/24 01:57 AM
2

Yes. Honestly even as a man you don't need to have a woman over on a first date you never know.
/r/seduction09/10/24 02:20 PM
1

I wonder if this is more true with the 18-24 crowd ??
/r/seduction27/09/24 12:21 AM
14

Exactly I swear you would think women would be great at giving men dating advice but they really aren't.
/r/seduction22/09/24 01:39 AM
0

Solid advice, got to remember the basics sometimes.
/r/seduction22/09/24 01:37 AM
1

No.
/r/seduction19/09/24 01:01 AM
0

For a man it can be a red flag to get that much sudden affection from a woman. Like your getting set up for something
/r/seduction18/09/24 12:58 PM
8

That's my weak point! Definitely!
/r/seduction10/09/24 01:13 AM
5

Yeah I'm definitely fitter than the avg 40 year old but still have room for improvement. Gotta keep working!
/r/seduction10/09/24 01:01 AM
10

Really ?? Nice. I just hit 40 I feel like once you hit the 4-0 matches with 20s get hard to come by
/r/seduction10/09/24 12:48 AM
2

Nice. I'm 39 any advice for pulling that age or how you meet them ?
/r/seduction19/03/24 02:15 AM
0

I hope y'all are.
/r/seduction19/03/24 02:13 AM
3

I do not. I like successful women, i just do not feel like I'm successful enough for them. Maybe that makes me intimidated lol
/r/seduction27/12/23 08:27 PM
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