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| 20 | Reforming Marriage by Doug Wilson should not be in the sidebar | Cdn_Stallion | /r/RPChristians | 15/04/21 07:21 PM |
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| 8 | Sometimes I resent my pregnant wife because of her pastWe aren't talking about judging someone's past, we are talking about carefully choosing who we marry. Very different things. We are expected to be prudent when choosing a spouse for the sake of our future children. To think otherwise is foolish. Why do you believe that some past actions matter and some do not? Deep Strength already addressed the risks of marrying someone with a high body count, which you have ignored. Why should someone ignore the inherent risks resulting from engaging in sinful… | /r/RPChristians | 14/09/21 04:39 PM |
| 11 | Sometimes I resent my pregnant wife because of her pastA person's past actions clearly matter when choosing spouse. That you think otherwise is concerning. Lots of men married cultural Christians and suffered greatly as a result. This is terrible advice. | /r/RPChristians | 14/09/21 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes I resent my pregnant wife because of her pastIt is good to deal with what you are feeling. I think your feelings about this are more about a belief that her body is "tainted" in some way. We are not our bodies. I can tell you from experience that, if you truly believe and follow Jesus, you wear each sin like a scar on your body. Someone who truly regrets will always carry those scars and be reminded of them when they look at themselves in a mirror. They may fade with time but they never disappear completely. That said, a person's regrets s… | /r/RPChristians | 13/09/21 09:30 PM |
| 2 | A theology of decision making to overcome ONEitisAgreed. Oneitis is caused by one's feelings of entitlement and self-centeredness. It is completely unchristian in its mindset. I blame Chivalry. | /r/RPChristians | 13/09/21 05:20 PM |
| 7 | A theology of decision making to overcome ONEitisIt is pure arrogance to believe that any choice we make can put God's plans at risk. Even if His plan was ever to go off track, the Holy Spirit would intervene and adjustments would be made, but that would assume that it went off track in the first place and it wasn't originally part of His plan. We would never be able to know the difference. | /r/RPChristians | 13/09/21 04:09 PM |
| 4 | Sometimes I resent my pregnant wife because of her pastYou may not have discovered the red pill before your marriage but feelings of jealousy and mate guarding are universal. So I have two questions. 1) Why did it not bother you before you were married, or at least, not enough to prevent you from marrying her? 2) When did this start to bother you enough right now that you feel resentment, or did you always feel it? | /r/RPChristians | 13/09/21 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Are gay men welcome here?See my other comment. | /r/RPChristians | 25/08/21 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Are gay men welcome here?I've said all I'm going to say on this. You have heard to Word of the Lord. You are free to follow Him or not. | /r/RPChristians | 25/08/21 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Do you believe your exposure to RP was providential?It was pivotal in clearing the fog I suffered caused by hundreds of years, perhaps even a millennia, of a culture of chivalry. But I only see it as providential to the extent that it explains biblical truths regarding men, women, and relationships/marriage. We don't give the Church enough grief for its failure to push back effectively on the nonsense promulgated by the chivalric mindset. I still see it afflicting young Christian men like cancer. Instead, it teaches complementarianism and egalita… | /r/RPChristians | 24/08/21 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Are gay men welcome here?And in his answer, he revealed God's design for marriage. Let us be clear: Homosexual acts are sinful, whether they take place in a "committed, loving relationship" or not. God does not recognize gay marriage. This is not up for debate. If you wish to delude yourself, feel free. But don't pretend to be a follower of Jesus. | /r/RPChristians | 24/08/21 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Are gay men welcome here?Other commenters, including some of the mods, have already shown you why you are incorrect. The fact you continue to maintain your position without providing any authority, biblical or otherwise, makes me think you are a troll. | /r/RPChristians | 24/08/21 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Are gay men welcome here?Jesus says: “But at the beginning of creation God ‘made them male and female.’ ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” (Mark 10:6-9) Jesus clearly teaches that marriage is between a male and a female, as God, in His perfect creation, intended since the beginning, before the fall. Do you need me to provide biblical a… | /r/RPChristians | 24/08/21 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Are gay men welcome here?Are you saying that homosexual acts are not sins? | /r/RPChristians | 24/08/21 01:30 AM |
| 10 | Are gay men welcome here?There is a difference between sinning and living a sinful lifestyle. You repent for the individual sins you commit. A sinful lifestyle (pre-marital sex, homosexuality, etc.) is an outright rejection of what Jesus commanded us. Remember, Jesus said, "If you love me, you will keep my commandments. (John 14:15)". I have serious doubts that any person, having full knowledge of the Gospel, can reject it for his or her entire life and "repent" at the end. Repentance must be sincere and, after living a… | /r/RPChristians | 23/08/21 07:10 PM |
| 2 | I'm not going to church anymore because Im in love of a girl's church who doesn't care about me. How I forget and put Christ first?Maximius85 - TheChristianAlpha has already given you some great advice. In short, start with ensuring that you do not make a woman your mission, lift, and read the sidebar. If you do those things I think you will be able to answer your questions yourself. | /r/RPChristians | 07/05/21 04:26 PM |
| 4 | I'm not going to church anymore because Im in love of a girl's church who doesn't care about me. How I forget and put Christ first?Sorry, but your definition of oneistis is incorrect. Oneitis is the pinnacle of a scarcity mentality, which involves pinning for a woman you are not with, to the exclusion of other women of value you could be associating with. Oneitis prevents a person from even considering that there could be someone else. As has been stated above by Real-Desk-7356, there is no "the one". Pinning chastely for a woman who, based on the mistaken belief that she is your one and only, has no interest in you is not … | /r/RPChristians | 07/05/21 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Reforming Marriage by Doug Wilson should not be in the sidebarI hope you are right. | /r/RPChristians | 17/04/21 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Help me hate pornographyShould we not feel disgusted by sin, regardless of how pleasurable it may feel? | /r/askRPC | 16/04/21 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Reforming Marriage by Doug Wilson should not be in the sidebarI hear you. I always have trouble balancing the requirement that we are faithful without requiring proof while at the same time being obligated to deeply understand scripture and doctrine (using biblical authority - i.e. - proof), to ensure that we live and preach to others in accordance with God's will. I doubt I will ever fully grasp it but I figure that's also an intentional part of God's design. Jesus (directly and through Paul and Peter) gave us as close to a roadmap as I think we will ever… | /r/RPChristians | 16/04/21 06:28 PM |
| 3 | Reforming Marriage by Doug Wilson should not be in the sidebarThanks again for your earlier link. I've started reading Rachel L. Shubin's report (almost 500 pages and incredibly thorough - http://www.moscowid.net/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Analyzing-DWs-Response-to-Sitler-and-Wight-Cases.pdf) and, based on my brief review, I am stunned at his and the council of elders atrocious behavior. What I've read so far is devastating. I will ask the mods if I'd be allowed to write a post on him because I am enraged that this person holds himself as a Christian autho… | /r/RPChristians | 16/04/21 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Reforming Marriage by Doug Wilson should not be in the sidebarI can only hope that he lurks this subreddit. Whatever his reasons were for hanging up his cape, he should know how thankful I and many others are to him for his work. While it may be unfair to say this because I don't know his reasons, I can't help but wonder if his departure was the result, at least in part, of the mistreatment he faced from those disingenuous scumbags Nathan Alberson and Pastor Tim Bayly of Warhorn Media and his concern that, given that they are considered a "legitimate" Chri… | /r/RPChristians | 16/04/21 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Reforming Marriage by Doug Wilson should not be in the sidebarEdit - Nevermind, I searched his name on the site and plenty of information came up. I will read up when I get a chance. Thanks for the link :) If that's true it's really depressing considering the size of his audience. Do you have any links to further information regarding their connection other than a passing reference that his mother was a "Doug Wilson loyalist"? I would be very interested to see them. I only read the page you linked so if the info is on the site elsewhere, please let me know… | /r/RPChristians | 16/04/21 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Reforming Marriage by Doug Wilson should not be in the sidebarAgreed, but it would have taken much longer for me to find those posts if I couldn't use the search bar on his site :) | /r/RPChristians | 15/04/21 09:22 PM |
| 6 | Reforming Marriage by Doug Wilson should not be in the sidebarBetween this subreddit, Deepstrength and Dalrock's blog, and many others, we finally have universal access to information about biblical masculinity. Something that wasn't readily available to people only 10-15 years ago (at least not that I could find). It certainly wasn't preached at any Church or Christian/Catholic group I attended. It's a great time to be alive. | /r/RPChristians | 15/04/21 09:16 PM |
| 8 | Reforming Marriage by Doug Wilson should not be in the sidebarI learned PUA at 16 years old (Not Redpill - big difference) and practiced it in my late teens and early twenties. I returned to the Church later on and since then I have been trying to undo the damage I inflicted upon myself. However, before discovering Dalrock I always felt that something was terribly off about Christian/Conservative Culture. There seemed to be an incredible disconnect between what was preached at Church and what behavioral norms were accepted by the congregation, but I could … | /r/RPChristians | 15/04/21 09:04 PM |
| 3 | Reforming Marriage by Doug Wilson should not be in the sidebarI discovered him about a week before he decided to shut down his blog. I pray he never takes it down. | /r/RPChristians | 15/04/21 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Reforming Marriage by Doug Wilson should not be in the sidebarBasically that she is someone who twists the plain meaning of scripture to suit her own feelings. If you search "Sheila Gregoire" on Dalrock's site (https://dalrock.wordpress.com/?s=Sheila+Gregoire) you will find several posts. | /r/RPChristians | 15/04/21 08:19 PM |
| 7 | Reforming Marriage by Doug Wilson should not be in the sidebarIt's so easy to fall for. I know I have plenty. Even Dalrock didn't recognize what Sheila Gregoire was until they discussed the movie Fireproof. As as a Catholic, I even have to be wary of what is being preached at Church by the Clergy. It can be exhausting. This subreddit (which I was lead to through Deepstrengh and Dalrock) has been literally a Godsend. | /r/RPChristians | 15/04/21 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Religious Gf of 4 years broke up with me a month ago. Messaged me today that she wants to get back together. But she doesn't not want any sex during the relationship. Need advice?I'm glad to hear it. There is real power in, when a girl says to you "We won't be having sex until marriage", looking at her with a smile, like she just pointed to the sky and said it was blue, and saying to her "That's right, and we wont be engaging in any other forms of sexual activity either". As to whether or not the relationship is worth continuing, that is a decision only you can make. There are incredible resources available to you here to help you decide whether she could be your future … | /r/RPChristians | 02/07/20 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Religious Gf of 4 years broke up with me a month ago. Messaged me today that she wants to get back together. But she doesn't not want any sex during the relationship. Need advice?By that logic, provided that she didn't get any "strange", the Bible says he's compelled to take her back. | /r/RPChristians | 02/07/20 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Religious Gf of 4 years broke up with me a month ago. Messaged me today that she wants to get back together. But she doesn't not want any sex during the relationship. Need advice?Hello, I normally just lurk on subreddits such as this but your post, and the subsequent replies, has compelled me to sign up and comment for the very first time. The dismissive and cavalier attitudes towards a 4 year relationship, which according to you ended due to her feelings that she was not living up to her religious and spiritual values, is honestly surprising. Of course, no one can be expected to know what that relationship entailed, whether or not she is physically and sexually attracte… | /r/RPChristians | 02/07/20 05:56 PM |
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