Cecilthelionpuppet Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Advice- We both want to keep the house		Cecilthelionpuppet	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/23 09:55 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Wife says she wants a divorce because I sound like Donald Trump Yo that's a string of words but you're not stringing them into ideas here, and that's why you're getting downvoted to oblivion for your response to me. Honestly I felt my brain melting halfway through your paragraph. Look you came here asking "why is this happening to me" and I'm giving you honest truth. Take it or leave it- don't argue with me over it. Honestly you also come off as a know it all, which is painfully annoying.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/02/24 09:18 PM
18	Wife says she wants a divorce because I sound like Donald Trump She's not divorcing you because you sound like DT. She's wanting a divorce because you are lacking critical thinking skills. Yes I believe ailens exist too but I don't use that as justification to say that TSwift is equally likely to be a witch. Please reconsider your sources of information. It's totally legit to want to leave someone because they fall for conspiracy theories. A dude just chopped his dad's head off because of crackpot like-thinking.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/02/24 12:14 PM
2	STBXW drinks and drives Absolutely make that a clause, even better if you can call the cops to report her drunk driving with kids in the car.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/01/24 12:54 AM
5	Get it together. LOL- you shame people for coming on here looking for support and then you also say "I'm more than happy to sit with you on the phone while you cry." Which is it OP? You're a joke. Listening to people crying on a phone is HARDER than reading moodiness on a subreddit. Are you nuts? Cool your jets my man. No need for this aggressive energy. I get up at 5AM to sling metal and get strong so don't tell me I need to get some T therapy. This level of toxicity can literally be a source of problems for pe…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/01/24 03:20 PM
3	She’s Saying I Make 5X More Than I do! The simpler math always wins in this case. Simple sheets highlighting revenue, expenses, free cash flow will win over nonstandard accounting practices. The more confusing you make things sound, the worse. If you can't make it simple enough for a layperson then a forensic accountant would be the way to go.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/24 06:27 PM
3	Wife wants to separate I'm sorry man. Thank you for sharing, it's validating to hear people in a similar boat to me. My wife seems to have fallen out of love with me due to the stresses of parenting and life in general. I worked hard on me, but she's anxiously attached so repair is always rejected. FWIW We did therapy for two years and she quit because she was emotionally drained from even being in a relationship. Therapy isn't some magic pill for relationship survival- when it doesn't work, it allows people to say "w…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/24 03:12 PM
6	This is not me Sorry to hear you're struggling man. I will say the manosphere and red pill stuff is all toxic. Stay away from that. I feel like I don't need to say that though, because by what you're writing it sounds like you already are pivoting away. Nothing wrong with stoicism by the way, but even that can become toxic if inappropriately applied. Focus on being yourself, the best you. Based on what you love it sounds like volunteering may be something for you to try out. Community and connection come from …	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/24 12:33 PM
1	She wants to change Congratulations. You're making the right move!	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/23 11:45 AM
2	She wants to change It's your call. We don't know her- you do. Don't stay with her just because you're insecure about yourself, your ability to find other partners, and be happy. Stay with her because she makes you a better person.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/23 02:08 AM
7	Does wife making more than husband contribute to relationship issues? Since you say you have other issues- I think the money is less about value she sees in you, and more about she feels like she's reached a point (in her head) where one more "reason" to not leave you is gone. Better or worse, you need a partner that values you for what you bring to the relationship, not the bank account.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/12/23 08:20 PM
7	Taking the plunge Ignore alimony issues- it's a happiness tax. It's not forever. If she doesn't build you up then she's bringing you down. You need to look out for yourself first and foremost. You are a person worthy of love, especially if you take care of yourself and your stuff. Lots of women literally just want that because they've been with a total slob. I married a very anxious person, and it's hard. I'm on this sub because it's damn near over for us, and we have kids. The kids make divorce 1000% harder. If …	/r/Divorce_Men	29/12/23 04:21 PM
1	Advice- We both want to keep the house We are amicable- we plan on splitting time with kids 50/50.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/12/23 03:08 AM
1	Advice- We both want to keep the house We should be able to manage having one keep the house- we own a duplex as well. We anticipate liquidating that asset to help with splitting and "buyout" of stake in our current home.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/12/23 03:07 AM
2	Advice- We both want to keep the house Solid advice, and I definitely want things to be cleanly split with no joint ownership of anything once papers are completed.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/23 11:51 PM