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That's all you have to do. Be decent to people. It's not hard or scary or anything to worry about; just be good to other folks. It sounds like you're already pretty good at that.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 05:22 PM
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I work for a state government agency and we had to watch a training Every month at the Army, we had to watch a training about something. Every weekend, when everyone was in final formation, we had to stand there for an extra 20 mins or so while our First Sergeant gave the same ol' briefing about 'Don't drive drunk, don't do any stupid shit.' It's like they expected all of us to go be hooligans and tear down the local stadium after every game or rape all the people and the ducks and whatever else…
/r/MensRights19/10/22 05:06 PM
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He, she, and they are nothing new. You already use them in your daily life. Words like 'someone,' 'anyone,' and 'everyone' are also gender-neutral. That's nothing new. English has been like that for hundreds of years, and people all over the planet have always had folks who don't exactly fit into the 'male' or 'female' boxes. So some people feel happier being called 'they,' so what? It's no skin off my nose to be polite about it. It's certainly no great abuse of the English language, and it's no…
/r/MensRights19/10/22 04:49 PM
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Bullshit. Don't try and pull that on me; I work Federal and they're barely trying to make 'they' available as an option. Changing government paperwork and documentation is an abysmally glacial process because there's just so much bureaucracy. And there aren't enough neopronouns for them to 'grow daily' - most of the neopronouns are made up by people on the Internet and haven't gotten popular enough to actually be accepted yet. It's like that webcomic which complains about how there are 15 differ…
/r/MensRights19/10/22 04:38 PM
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I’m just going to start calling everyone “It” regardless of their gender identity.” This isn't a bad practice, TBH, but try using 'they' instead. It's grammatically correct and most folks who do use non-gender-specific pronouns are quite happy with 'they' and 'them.' A lot of kerfuffle about 'they're making new pronouns!' is really just a nothingburger. Folks are trying to rile people up over what is really a non-issue. Some folks use 'he,' some folks use 'she,' and some folks use 'they,' so wha…
/r/MensRights19/10/22 04:24 PM
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Then how do you not understand how a foreskin functions?
/r/MensRights02/05/22 11:57 PM
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You're showing a lack of understanding of basic biology, which is why I suspect you don't have a foreskin and are just making shit up.
/r/MensRights02/05/22 09:17 PM
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It's terrible when you make assumptions about other people, you can be so so wrong. Which is how I feel about your comments when you lie about foreskins and sand and other detritus. it's quite likely to stay there for a few hours or even days. Lol, what? Dude, cleaning out your foreskin is not difficult. The foreskin naturally lubricates itself and anything inside it will roll around until it falls out. That's how foreskins work. Did you break yours somehow? Even when I've been deployed somewher…
/r/MensRights02/05/22 08:14 PM
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I have to ask: do you actually have foreskin, or are you just making assumptions? Because you seem to have no idea how a foreskin actually works. I can run around all day with a bit of toilet tissue in my foreskin by accident and never notice it, and cleaning it out is laughably easy. Furthermore, I used to live on the coast and have been to the beach or played in the sand hundreds of times, yet never once have I accidentally gotten sand in my foreskin. The only time I've ever really gotten anyt…
/r/MensRights02/05/22 07:35 PM
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Truth is inconvenient for a lot of people. That doesn't mean we shouldn't still speak it and address it as it is, rather than what we would rather it be.
/r/MensRights25/06/19 11:31 PM
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Have you ever actually met anyone like that?
/r/MensRights10/06/19 03:45 AM
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No, but I can speak for a ton of trans, genderqueer, and non-binary people, because I see what folks discuss in our communities, and I know what I have experienced. When you're gender-variant, you're generally going to head for the gender-neutral bathroom, because that's where you feel safest, where people are least likely to mess with you. They're also usually single-occupancy restrooms, so there usually aren't any other people to mess with you. Being gender-variant is often about survival. You…
/r/MensRights10/06/19 03:22 AM
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It never had to be. It's a shame. People used to post things that were about equal rights or being proud to be a good father, legal victories and stuff about family courts and equal custody, things like that. There used to be a disclaimer on the sidebar which said that homophobia and transphobia weren't acceptable here, because those things pulled down the sub and gave more ammunition to the folks who said men's rights is a hate movement. It's a shame to see that happening anyway.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 03:06 AM
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I sincerely wish that were true. People are very scared of trans people. People use the fear of trans people to get elected. People like to paint trans folks as predators or deviants or use them for scapegoats; it happens all the time. Hell, people kill trans people for merely having the audacity to exist. Just scroll down the list there and take a look at the various ways we are punished for existing, for doing gender roles 'wrong.' It's dangerous to publicly bend or play with gender, especiall…
/r/MensRights10/06/19 02:37 AM
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No, we don't. We use whichever restroom is compatible with whichever gender we're presenting as. i.e. If we look male, we use the men's room. If we look female, we use the women's room. We go in, do our business, and get out; we try not to bother anyone or draw any attention to ourselves because it's fucking dangerous to be gender-variant in public. If we can find a gender-neutral restroom, we'll go use those and will generally support businesses that have gender-neutral restrooms as an option. …
/r/MensRights10/06/19 02:25 AM
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You know those try hard troops at summer camp that won everything? Our scout-led troop kicked those troops all hollow, and then we engaged in shenanigans like making a lady's leg out of the spirit stick, etc. We used a high heel we burned a hole in the bottom of so we could put a screw through it to hold the shoe on and we stuffed a pair of pantyhose full of tissue paper until it was the shape of a leg. Finally, we had our red-headed guy put on a Pippi Longstocking wig and tuck the braids up und…
/r/MensRights11/10/18 08:32 PM
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I went to a Lutheran church at the time and that was not sufficient proof for the catholic leadership that I believed in God enough to be morally sound to represent an eagle scout. That is ridiculous. The BSA does not support one faith over another. And heck, our troop had several atheist & agnostic Eagles; we just removed all mention of God from their Court of Honor ceremony and ran it that way. Believing or not believing in a god does not make someone unworthy of being an Eagle Scout.
/r/MensRights11/10/18 08:18 PM
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Or actually getting raped and being turned away by both the authorities and support groups, while being labeled a threat and being the butt of people's jokes. Or being the target of domestic or child abuse, and then kicked out of your home by your abuser and the police taking her side, assuming you're the abuser yourself. Or being homeless and being turned away from three shelters because your conditions don't apply, and not being able to find space in the men's shelter because it's full and has…
/r/MensRights21/11/15 08:48 PM
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Except that already happened... Not on this sub, but it did happen 3 years ago, when someone ran a bot and scraped the top 1000 most prolific posters/commenters on SRS. There even used to be a website where you could put in a subreddit, set a number, and it would generate a list of tags like this which you could put into RES. As far as I know, the SRSsucks crowd still uses it.
/r/MensRights30/07/15 08:59 AM
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Prior service Army, rape survivor. The fear is real, the lack of support is real, the sheer knowledge that you are alone in a world that doesn't give two shits about you is all too real. There are individuals who care, but society as a whole values all of your wants, cares, loves, aspirations, trials, and achievements about as much as a child cares about a grain of sand stuck to their leg after beach day.
/r/MensRights16/03/15 11:56 PM
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... Why do y'all believe this is an actual event that really happened? It presents the guy as this useless, unemployed lump, it implies that he wouldn't have noticed the thing inside his toy, and that she would trespass to insert it. I think it's more likely this is some made up, clickbait tripe.
/r/MensRights07/01/15 07:57 PM
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I forgot to mention how in an adult male, a foreskin covers about the same amount of space as a 3x5 index card. So while a circumcision may seem like removing just a little snippet of material, it's a baby... everything gets bigger. Go ahead, wrap a 3x5 index card around your shaft; that's roughly how much lateral motion you lose during circumcision. The foreskin is the male contribution to lubrication during sex. It's supposed to slide back and forth. It slides back to reveal the head so everyt…
/r/MensRights11/12/14 05:52 PM
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Hello. I'm bi/pansexual, and I'm intact. My foreskin is laughably easy to clean. I slide it back in the shower or the bath, and I'm done. It is actually harder to clean behind my ears or to brush my teeth than it is to take care of my foreskin. It's really convenient to have, and I'm really glad my parents gave me the option when I was older. Mind you, my mother waited until I was 5 to ask, and they should have waited longer, but I'm really glad that they gave me the choice and that I made the d…
/r/MensRights11/12/14 04:24 PM
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I don't believe that. There have been several studies concerning the way a student's gender impacts their grade and their experience in relation to the gender of their teacher, most of which contradict your comment here.
/r/MensRights30/10/14 05:04 PM
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I respectfully, and adamantly, disagree.
/r/MensRights30/10/14 05:01 PM
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I have had this experience. Actually, it equates to sexual and social destruction. It basically ruins you for everyone else until you get that mess sorted out in your head.
/r/MensRights30/10/14 05:00 PM
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what's hilariously ironic with this statement That a bunch of trans-exclusionary radfems have been causing quite a bit of trouble for transgender folks recently, so it's a bit of a slap in the face for another part of their movement to use us as a bargaining chip? It's pretty evident that both the Feminism and Men's Rights movements each have a deep need to clean house. The radicals on both ends are constantly mucking things up for those in the middle.
/r/MensRights11/04/14 11:01 PM
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Meant to submit this a month ago when someone sent it to me. Apparently I didn't post it here. *facepalm*
/r/MensRights28/11/13 01:00 AM
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I wouldn't say that being genderqueer is rebelling against the most extreme stereotypes of male and female behavior. There might be some folks out there who disagree with me on that standpoint, though. Personally, I see genderqueer as a handy label that seems to fit a lot of people who exhibit both masculine and feminine traits. You can think of it as a cloud on a Cartesian coordinate grid. Imagine one axis is how much you feel your gender, and the other axis is how masculine or feminine that yo…
/r/MensRights10/06/13 08:08 PM
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I live in the South and someone I knew was taken from us, and I know that makes me a little more wary and cautious. I've been toe-to-toe, Bible-to-Bible with the adopted father of a childhood friend of mine... a devout man who decided he'd much rather disown his adopted son and cling to his biological daughter when said son came out as gay. I keep an interest in the world around me, which includes a lot of politics, and my state's been rolling back a lot of our progress lately. I'm hopeful, and …
/r/MensRights10/06/13 03:41 PM
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Gender is distinct and separate from our biological sex. For most of us, our gender and our physical sex align rather neatly within a particular spectrum that we associate with either "male" or "female." I don't really know anyone who I could point at and say "Yep, he's 100% male, nothing feminine about him." or "That person's totally female, never gonna do a single masculine thing in her life." There's some wiggle room in what we call masculine or feminine. Gender's kind of like a cloud. Mascul…
/r/MensRights10/06/13 03:17 PM
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... Hmmmm. Good point.
/r/MensRights10/06/13 08:49 AM
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Ah, carry on then. :P
/r/MensRights10/06/13 08:07 AM
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I can see that perhaps you're angry, and you're right to be angry. I can't speak for every genderqueer person on the planet, but I don't try to appropriate transgender struggles; for me, many of those struggles are the same and there's a lot of overlap. I never strive to validate bigotry. I know what it's like to lose jobs or lose friends, and I chose to work for equality and try to improve what I can where I can. It would be irresponsible to do otherwise.
/r/MensRights10/06/13 07:08 AM
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Dear /r/MensRights, I'm genderqueer. Please do not judge us all on the excerpts of one person's anger on facebook; it is neither a fair nor an appropriate depiction. I can't speak for every genderqueer person, but most of the genderqueer people I've met and know are quite reasonable. We're all just trying to make it through this crazy world, same as every other human being on our little blue marble. Admittedly, I'm assuredly biased because many of these people are dear to my heart, they may have…
/r/MensRights10/06/13 06:54 AM
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Dear wafflepirate, I am genderqueer. I have my own set of trials and tribulations, just as you have yours. It's not that I don't want to transition, it's that, unlike you, I can't. My gender does not stay in one place for long, and transitioning would be futile. It's a hope and a dream that I will never be able to attain. As such, I live with dysphoria every day, I live with the knowledge that I can be beaten or shot for who I am, and I know well that I often have to deny who I am to live in the…
/r/MensRights10/06/13 06:19 AM
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While I appreciate your standing up for us, it often seems like neither group, feminist or MRA, gives a shit about those of us caught in the middle. We don't seem to be man or woman enough for either; instead we say "Hey, these views are compatible after all, let's try to work together." And that cry often falls on deaf ears. So help me, we will stand on our own if we have to.
/r/MensRights07/04/13 09:56 AM
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I really think there should be a general public initiative to teach children practical life skills, little by little as they grow up. Maybe the consequences of a child, like these, could be appended to a comprehensive sex-education course? I'm sure the abstinence-only folks would be in favor, since these sorts of real-life consequences are scary and may make kids think twice before having sex.
/r/MensRights03/06/12 08:33 AM
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I clicked on this expecting to find some discussion of issues that our sex-ed system, particularly abstinence-only education, fails to teach our children. There are some pretty spurious claims in this thing, most of which have been addressed by other commenters... but what's that bit at the bottom about Safe Haven laws? In some states you must register with the state any time you have sex with a female, to whom you are not married, in ordr to challenge any potential adoption.Safe Have Laws By St…
/r/MensRights03/06/12 06:57 AM
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From a recent gender survey, I think it was on /r/egalitarian? I think men have problems with the following in America: (Check all that apply) Child visitation rights Prostitution Religions trying to suppress rights Abortion Access Lesser pay Sexist comments in the workplace Work place advancement Body image issues Violence from women Dangerous working conditions Reporting of rapes Sexist comments in the street Access to Universities No health insurance Poverty Availability of food stamps/subsid…
/r/MensRights24/03/12 06:12 PM
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This article is full of bull. Drag isn't intended to be oppressive or degrading; it's intended to be extremely liberating for the performers. Many of them are genuinely funny people; a drag queen once explained it to me as a defensive mechanism... if you've got a sharp wit, and everyone is laughing with you, then no one is laughing at you.
/r/MensRights13/01/12 07:19 PM
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I've done a throwaway reply/discussion in a thread once. I'd link it, but that would kind of defeat the purpose of a throwaway. I'll think about it and maybe I'll post one a little later this week.
/r/MensRights04/12/11 05:17 PM
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Thank you. All things considered, I'm doing okay.
/r/MensRights04/12/11 05:14 PM
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I'm also among that number... I've been assaulted and abused several times by several different women. I was sorely tempted to do that AMA myself, but on the other hand, there are personal things I don't want to discuss openly on the Internet, either.
/r/MensRights04/12/11 01:17 AM
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Wat. I did not at all say I approved of someone winding up inside a suitcase. I just said the OP's sister is likely to continue to hurt more people and wind up getting herself hurt, too.
/r/MensRights18/11/11 10:26 PM
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This would not be the first time she's fucked up someone else's life just for the pleasure of it. Yeah, that kind of mentality gets people seriously hurt when they wind up doing it to the wrong person. It's a theme common to several old fables and myths. You should act to nip this behavior in the bud right now, or your sister will likely go on to hurt more people and herself in the future.
/r/MensRights18/11/11 05:36 PM
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I'm looking through Google's Contact Google page, and trying to notify them about it, but I'm not having any luck yet.
/r/MensRights06/11/11 02:57 AM
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I didn't laugh, either. As a former victim of abuse, I found this whole poster repugnant and extremely triggering. The difference being, I'm going to force myself not to think about it, I'm going to go get a shower, and I'm going to go see my friends and I'm not going to talk about it and it will go away again. Somehow, that's called being strong, and somehow, that's called being male.
/r/MensRights18/10/11 04:56 PM
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Yes; I had noticed that. :P Seems like there's an issue between whether we should do a Domestic Violence and a Gay/Bi Rights month... why don't we just do both? I can personally vouch that Bi men can be victims of domestic violence, as well as emotional abuse and financial manipulation. That's part of why I'm on this subreddit. :P
/r/MensRights28/09/11 07:30 PM
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You, too? I made mention last night that I'm a former GLBT soldier and I found myself banned. Which is ironic because I'm also on r/fitness, r/frugal and r/guns... which are all listed as interests in R4M's side bar. Good job, ss_camaro!
/r/MensRights28/09/11 07:06 PM
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If the issue affects homosexual men but not homosexual women, then it is misandry. That's exactly what it is. Women have no such ban or distinction when they give blood; if they've had sex with a man who has had sex with other men, then that woman is allowed to give blood after a year has passed.
/r/MensRights28/09/11 04:55 AM
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The purpose of this reddit is to .... is to help men find a voice and a community where they can explore the distrust and the anger they rightfully feel after being bashed as the dirty, nasty, unkempt, stupid, perverted, perpetually horny, embarrassing half of the human race." I'm still going to go with "Yes, that does make it a men's rights issue"... It may not affect all men, it may mainly affect bisexual and homosexual men, but it is a discrimination that unfairly affects men. Do the subtle n…
/r/MensRights28/09/11 04:42 AM
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I'm going to have to disagree with you, there... when I enlisted, they did all sorts of tests and blood work on me. The Army says my blood is clean. But because I've been with men before, I can't donate blood. Even though I've signed to defend my country, and give my blood in her defense, I can't give my blood to save the lives of those in my community. Go figure.
/r/MensRights28/09/11 04:29 AM
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I tried downvoting the shitty, stupid answers and upvoting the better answers, but Yahoo needs me to be "Level 2" to rate answers... which means I need to "answer" 75 questions, etc, to get the points necessary to even rate other people's answers... what bull!
/r/MensRights16/09/11 01:52 AM
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Speaking of Youtube, here it is on Youtube.
/r/MensRights24/07/11 06:11 PM
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Thank you for remembering to include "transfolk" in your salute at the end. Transpeople are all too often forgotten, and it's pleasing to see them being remembered and counted. Thank you!
/r/MensRights21/07/11 01:30 AM
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Hey, they've got a list in the sidebar of the most prolific MRA's... I'm #165.
/r/MensRights21/07/11 01:09 AM
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I'm a fan of animation... The only reason Smurfette exists at all is because Gargamel created her to be a trap for the Smurfs, to disrupt their little society. The rest of the Smurfs might well have originally been genderless or something.
/r/MensRights13/07/11 01:57 PM
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No, I mean humans and to a lesser extent nature in general. Some pretty F-ed up stuff goes on in this world.
/r/MensRights03/07/11 09:59 PM
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Okay, I didn't know that, but I'm not surprised. Humans are capable of terrible things.
/r/MensRights03/07/11 11:23 AM
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Funny thing about this... One of the most common questions I've gotten from FtM people after they go on hormones is usually along the lines of "Holy crap, I'm horny all the time! If women only knew! How do you deal with it!?"
/r/MensRights03/07/11 11:13 AM
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And the fact that women are more likely to get sole custody of their children skews the numbers a little, too.
/r/MensRights03/07/11 05:38 AM
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Errr... statistics have proven that mothers are also more likely to kill their children than fathers. That's not exactly being empathetic towards their own offspring.
/r/MensRights02/07/11 11:46 PM
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Hmmm... It occurs to me that men could be used as U.S. citizen baby mills in this case... Have a guy who's been in the U.S. for the five years, manage to keep him around and father lots of children for women who want their kids to be U.S. citizens.
/r/MensRights27/06/11 02:13 PM
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This is only his first try... Gentlemen, we've found the next Capt. James Tiberius Kirk.
/r/MensRights21/06/11 10:04 PM
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Dividing by zero, are we? Not on kloo's watch!
/r/MensRights13/06/11 07:01 AM
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I think they'd be quite useful if they were all compiled and placed in an album on imgur.
/r/MensRights12/06/11 06:05 AM
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You know, putting all these in a handy album on imgur would be useful.
/r/MensRights12/06/11 06:02 AM
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There's a bar my friends and I tried once, for his birthday... all the men in our party got charged $20, and all the women only charged $10 to get in. Apparently this is regular practice... While we were there, trying to have a good time, we got harassed by the bouncer for sitting on the women-only dance boxes too close to the dance floor (women can sit on them, men cannot), my friend had to keep his winter jacket on because he was wearing a sleeveless shirt underneath, and for sitting too close…
/r/MensRights11/06/11 06:40 PM
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.... You know, I didn't say a thing about pedophilia. I said it was frankly quite disgusting and disturbing to me to be sucking blood from another person's open wound. That's not healthy and it's not sanitary, as mentioned in the article.
/r/MensRights08/06/11 10:46 AM
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This information is NSFL. I had no idea that any of this went on, it's so much worse than I could have possibly imagined. I've read up on circumcision in hospitals, and it's a terrible thing, but this is terrifying. They suck blood from the bleeding wound? Really?
/r/MensRights08/06/11 09:42 AM
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We certainly wouldn't want to have legislation suggesting that parenting is going to be contingent on being in peak health. It's not a big jump from, 'I don't want Mom to have custody because she has stage 4 cancer' to 'I don't want Mom to have custody because she's a smoker.' .... Except cancer isn't contagious and won't harm the children, but smoking in the house and around the kids is harmful.
/r/MensRights13/05/11 11:19 PM
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.......... I'm beginning to suspect that English isn't your primary language, as you have continually missed my point. Making popcorn is not attempting suicide. Really, go to dictionary.com and look up the words "attempt" and "commit" and then go to google and look at the results when you search for "attempted suicide" versus "committed suicide." I honestly cannot believe you're still bothering me about this. These are facts and it's the way the words are used in English. Psychologically, women …
/r/MensRights02/05/11 02:28 AM
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I can't believe we're still splitting hairs over this; but here goes. To attempt something means to try to do it. To attempt suicide means you try to kill yourself; it doesn't matter whether you die or not, it just means you're trying to kill yourself. To commit an action means you've done or completed that action. To commit suicide means you actually managed to kill yourself. Does it make sense now?
/r/MensRights01/05/11 06:40 AM
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Well, I've always heard it described as "attempting" suicide if you try and you survive. I've always heard it as "committing" suicide if you try and you die from it. Point is, men are actually dying more often than women.
/r/MensRights01/05/11 06:15 AM
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I did not know this, and they did not teach this to us in sex-ed... all we were taught was that men can be carriers and never even know it.
/r/MensRights28/04/11 08:33 PM
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Ahhhh; I see.
/r/MensRights28/04/11 07:59 PM
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No; it says the moderator is someone named "sodypop"
/r/MensRights28/04/11 07:36 PM
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Yes, but that "H" stands for "Human" in "Human Papilloma Virus"... which men can carry with usually no ill effects. You'd think this would mean more vaccines for men, since they can be carriers and not know it, but that would make sense...
/r/MensRights28/04/11 04:28 PM
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You should go post this comment in their comments section, below... at the moment it's only got 8 comments and most of them are pretty stacked against men. I was trying to think up something well-written to add there, myself, but I know I'm too tired right now to think up something proper. I'll come back after I've had some proper sleep and I'll be able to think better then.
/r/MensRights26/04/11 11:52 AM
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No; to "attempt" suicide is to try to kill yourself and fail at it. To "commit" suicide is to attempt suicide and succeed, dying in the process.
/r/MensRights24/04/11 11:42 PM
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Nono, that's not what I meant. I meant on a person-to-person basis... as in a woman may attempt suicide three or four times and survive, while a man may make a single attempt and die.
/r/MensRights24/04/11 08:27 AM
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Hmmm, you've got a point there. We didn't touch on that possibility when we discussed this in Psychology class.
/r/MensRights22/04/11 11:56 PM
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Part of this is because, psychologically, men are more likely to kill themselves in violent, unsurvivable ways while women are more likely to do things like poison themselves. Generally speaking, women may make more suicide attempts, but men are more likely to succeed at suicide.
/r/MensRights22/04/11 08:34 PM
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This is not what r/MensRights is about. Kindly take your motion and politely shove it up your firmament. Have a nice day.
/r/MensRights19/04/11 07:58 PM
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While this is an interesting, sometimes colorful, and intentionally rustic code, the actual West was nothing like the cowboy movies and Westerns of this era... so these codes and the cowboy mystique are entirely made up wholesale. They do make for some interesting reading, though. I do think the average person could seriously benefit from following some of these rules in their day to day lives.
/r/MensRights15/04/11 09:40 AM
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Hey man, that's no reason to downvote me just for pointing it out. People should go upvote the other guy, too.
/r/MensRights13/04/11 05:28 AM
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Say, this looks exactly like something that was posted an hour before this.
/r/MensRights12/04/11 06:51 PM
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I would like to point out that this article is from 2005... with a little digging, I'm certain you could find out what happened to this teacher, etc. There has to be more information out there.
/r/MensRights12/04/11 02:59 AM
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Kickass! I'm in!
/r/MensRights06/04/11 07:25 AM
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Right, but social norms can lead to an action becoming illegal or not.
/r/MensRights03/04/11 06:47 AM
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It's funny, really... In France, they have convenient little stalls on the sidewalk for men to walk in and pee. And in Jamaica, there was some guy who just whipped it out on the side of a busy, traffic-congested road, and stood there facing our bus and smiling, completely free and shameless about it. Oh, but wait, social norms are different in other countries...
/r/MensRights02/04/11 01:16 PM
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You'd think people would give more credence to the "Boy Who Cried Wolf" fairy tale...
/r/MensRights02/04/11 01:02 PM
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Actually, I think the reasoning goes that if you're pissing in an alleyway, that's technically public indecency, which means that in theory a minor could have walked down that alleyway and seen your junk.
/r/MensRights02/04/11 01:01 PM
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That's exactly right... This past weekend, my unit had one of these suicide prevention courses, and it made me happy to feel that those serving alongside me had my back. However, in my family, my sister gets empathy and I get shafted when it comes to support... I love my father, but I will never forgive him for telling me to "be the iron"... i.e. that iron gets beaten on and placed under a lot of pressure until it becomes strong. My mother's never been supportive, and is mostly antagonistic and …
/r/MensRights31/03/11 10:01 AM
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I'm all for the "transformation of gender roles"... the idea of having more flexibility in male, female, and other gender roles makes me happy. However, this seems to be more frequently the "removal" of male gender roles, leaving men adrift, and that is not okay at all. I'll admit, though, I only made it through the first 1/3rd of this article, at which point I realized I still hadn't read any meaningful content, so I stopped reading it.
/r/MensRights19/03/11 07:45 AM
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Hey, thanks... now that I can read it, this is a pretty awesome little article. It's something I'd like to do one day, myself... though rather in the forest as opposed to the desert.
/r/MensRights15/03/11 06:32 PM
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You know, it's generally considered good courtesy to post a screenshot of a New York Times article... because the rest of us can't see it without a log in.
/r/MensRights15/03/11 08:04 AM
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Just here to point out that even if you're unregistered, if you're a male U.S. citizen between the age of 17 and 45, you are a part of the reserve militia. The more you know~!
/r/MensRights12/03/11 03:03 AM
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Congratulations: Registered or not, if you are a U.S. citizen who is male between the ages of 17 and 45, you are a part of the reserve militia. What does this boil down to? Hi, you have a penis, you're eligible to go get shot.
/r/MensRights08/03/11 11:54 PM
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I wholeheartedly agree. Will corporate HR be coming down tomorrow with a plate of cupcakes for all the men they excluded today?
/r/MensRights08/03/11 08:37 PM
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Something you just happen to be born as... okay, I want some free hand lotion and cookies for being male and tall and having large feet. OH, and brown eyes... I was just born with those, too! Where's my awareness day?
/r/MensRights08/03/11 08:20 PM
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Might, and have the parts to do so, but my point is that it would be unlikely, as that is a masculine activity and it goes against an MtF's mental, target gender. It would be more "natural" for an MtF to sit down as opposed to stand.
/r/MensRights17/02/11 09:57 PM
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You're very welcome.
/r/MensRights17/02/11 07:50 AM
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I respectfully disagree. Getting "spotted" can literally mean life or death for a transsexual person, even post-op. Getting spotted in the restroom, while washing your hands, etc, is likely to get a report to the store manager about some pervert in the ladies' room, would they kindly send store security to do something about it? Women are FAR more protective of their restrooms than men are. Just because you personally would have no issue with it, there are plenty of busybodies who would have iss…
/r/MensRights17/02/11 07:07 AM
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You're implying that MtFs pee standing up, in the "masculine" way... which would not be indicative of their target gender, i.e. sitting down in the "feminine" way.
/r/MensRights17/02/11 06:59 AM
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Hi-five for you! Me too! Well, sort of, anyway.
/r/MensRights17/02/11 06:55 AM
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It's been my experience that women generally pitch a fit at even the suggestion that an MtF be allowed to use their bathrooms. I've even heard it claimed that the MtF will rape the women who use the restroom. While I've also met many trans supportive women, that support rarely extends to the restrooms, so websites like http://safe2pee.org/new/ are literally life-savers.
/r/MensRights17/02/11 06:53 AM
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Your friend could really use this website: http://safe2pee.org/new/ Generally, your friend should use a stall for privacy, and use whichever bathroom makes him feel safest.
/r/MensRights17/02/11 06:51 AM
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I'm male; I masturbate. I've already HAD my semen in my socks before. You say this like it's some sort of new and novel phenomenon?
/r/MensRights16/02/11 06:03 PM
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There was an article here last week about a guy whose S.O. saved his semen and then used it to get pregnant... against his will. The court ruled that the semen was "a gift" that the man no longer had any control or say over it's use.
/r/MensRights16/02/11 10:02 AM
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I wonder, will she wind up on a sex offender list and have to live "X" amount of distance from a school or a playground, etc?
/r/MensRights08/02/11 11:26 PM
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"A woman's body, a woman's choice," I hear somebody shrieking. Okay, sure, as long as you make that feminist slogan complete by adding – a man's body, also a woman's choice; a man's income, a woman's choice; a broken condom, a woman's choice; secretly collected semen from a used condom, a woman's choice; a child conceived during the molestation of an underage boy, a woman's choice; duping a man for child support who didn't even father the child, a woman's choice. After conception, no matter how …
/r/MensRights08/02/11 09:12 AM
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This seems a bit skewed to me, studies have shown that women are more likely than men to have a sexual encounter with an animal.
/r/MensRights07/02/11 07:29 AM
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Yes, I read the article. I don't know why you're getting downvoted all to heck, as circumcision is and should be an important issue in a man's life. I believe that it shouldn't be practically a default for an infant in America, but it should instead be a personal decision when that young man is of an age where he can understand the issues and make an informed decision.
/r/MensRights29/01/11 10:44 PM
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Honestly... the fact that someone got arrested for lying about a rape charge is not going to stop someone from reporting a rape. What stops people from reporting rape is shame, trauma, and fear.
/r/MensRights28/01/11 10:34 PM
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Frankly, there really aren't any good, powerful words for a penis that haven't already been shoved through the mire by countless dick jokes... I worry that if you include words like that in the title, it might detract from the seriousness of the issues.
/r/MensRights02/01/11 06:09 AM
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Yes, while I was at a little girl's birthday party in France, the birthday girl, who was a year older than I was, tried to strip me in front of our classmates and her little friends. I ran off into the corner and was curled up in a little ball, scared, and she kept pulling at me, rubbing at my shoulder, telling me what a good position it was, etc... I was terrified and I essentially had a mental breakdown. It's still a bit touchy, some 15 years later. The year after that, while attending a priva…
/r/MensRights31/12/10 07:19 AM
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It's kind of blatantly obvious from this blog posting that this person's never actually READ Dan Savage's column, or she would know better.
/r/MensRights23/12/10 04:35 AM
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