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| 64 | Invest in Your HVW Friends: My Birthday RealizationAmen. The most beautiful birthday gifts I have all received from the women in my life: my Mom, my sister, and my best friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 12:40 PM |
| 176 | Geriatric 65 yr old scrote is telling people that I led him on…You manipulated him....but you had to pay gas plus a fee? He played his own darned self. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 12:16 AM |
| 51 | Most Pickmeishas will tolerate massive amounts of disrespect from NVM but won't tolerate that same disrespect from family and friendsUntil these women realize that marriage is not the ultimate flex/success at life, they will continue to exhibit this behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 12:16 PM |
| 7 | As a Ukrainian living in USA, here is how most of my dates used to go for the past 10 yearsThey don't even try to hide their stupidity. Wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 01:06 PM |
| 750 | What’s mine is mine and what’s yours is mine too!I mean this is easy. Dump the gold digger. Duhhhhh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 12:44 AM |
| 11 | I don’t know who’s worse: her trifling mama or her POS husband. I found this on Facebook and was shook. Honestly I probably would have went to jail.You didn't ruin anything. Your mother ruined her own marriage AND yours. She and your husband got what they deserved. Who cares what they think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 05:29 PM |
| 11 | Ladies please be careful about who you have children with. She is pregnant but he is trying to dictate how she gives birth… also he doesn’t know about the umbilical cord? 🥴Imagine being that stupid....and confident with it too. Wow 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 02:01 PM |
| 17 | Why do so many men have bad breath?Omg I'm so sorry to hear that. I can empathize. The root of my front tooth randomly died. No cavity or anything. A gathering abscess is honestly the worst pain ever. And the financial pain from having a root canal (mine was complicated so I had to go by an endodontist instead of my dentist doing it) was even worse, even with insurance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 09:14 PM |
| 200 | It wouldn't have anything to do with that hateful, repulsive personality. Nah, must be the cheekbones. B*tches so picky 🙄No dear. Its because you refuse to date at your own level....and treat/think of women with respect. Who wants to bet he'll still be unlucky in the dating market after the 'operation'? lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 12:30 PM |
| 27 | Run the first time he disrepects a boundary, no matter how smallPlease unblock me, then can you dumb in the next sentence. Seems like he was asking to remain blocked lol smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 02:54 PM |
| 136 | I’ve seen so many of these, the entitlement is real. No one wants to be your live in bang maid, especially not for FREE!! They’re hoping to take advantage of a woman in need, forget that women can room with eachother without the expectation of chores and sex. We don’t need men like thisAnd they still have to pay??? To cook, clean and sleep on a couch? Oh until you're comfortable to share a bed with a man you don't know. Plus can't bring friends or have pets or a glass of wine? Whoever seriously considers this ad, I have a stone to sell you 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 06:30 PM |
| 11 | Man Triggered By My Post History On This & Similar Subs, Uses Slurs Such As "Whores" & "Faggot," Justifies Male Violence Through Evolutionary Biology, Sees "Legit" Pornography As Acceptable Due To Lack Of Explicit Trafficking (Missing Underlying Problem Of Misogyny & Sexualization Of Women/Children)If he had an exam, why did he type out this thesis? 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 05:05 PM |
| 55 | How can I politely explain to my friend that her match-making business is rubbish and I don't want any part of it?Can you change your email and block her from all your social media? Because if she already has the nerve to use your pictures without your consent, she definitely can send out your email, even if you tell her not to. She would be dead to me if I were you. I won't even tell her anything tbh. Just block | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 04:28 PM |
| 235 | She quit her job and is live-in childcare for her husband’s affair baby and is now being asked to cancel her birthday trip to babysitWTF DID I JUST READ????? Imagine after he cheated on you with a member of your friend group, and you take him back, he will tell you he'll consider having a child with you later but he might not? And GIRL!!! You actually babysitting the affair baby? And gave up your job for it? Why is the hoe calling the shots in your relationship? Drop him! And be glad you DONT have kids with him. The nerve! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 08:08 PM |
| 11 | The beauty of boundariesCongratulations! May you and your business continue to thrive 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 02:15 PM |
| 7 | He accused me of being a “gold digger” and threatened to end the relationship after me not wanting to put out on date #5. It backfired. How grey rocking can protect you!!!I'm so proud of you too. Absolute Queen behaviour. Shame on him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 02:12 PM |
| 33 | what do you all think about familiarities? I DESPISE them!I feel you. In my country (in the Caribbean), the men are just like that, though they get rather creative with their familiarities. Once you're a younger woman, its generally 'family'. But it varies: if you're tall, 'tallest'; dark skinned, 'darkie'; fair skinned (usually not white), 'reds'. There's also the usual darling and babes etc. But what really gets my goat is that obscene kissing sound (we call it 'sooting') and the pssst to get your attention. Just low class behaviour. Whatever happene… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 05:56 PM |
| 5 | I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪His response to yours warranted the block honestly. Not that you need a reason to do so of course, but, "great, next year you can guarantee to expect nothing"? Tl;dr you did not overreact. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 12:41 PM |
| 24 | Eve doesn't date single fathers, or: cultural misogyny in a nutshell, or: the audacityI'm like your friend Eve. Kids = No thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 06:14 PM |
| 28 | we need to talk about being overly visible, then invisibleWeird how this post made me remember a few things I thought I had suppressed. I had low self esteem during my preteen and teenage years so I never of thought myself as pretty, yet: A taxi driver once found it necessary to comment to my father that I was pretty, and he stared a lot at me through the rear view mirror. I could've been 8 or 9 then. In my first year of high school, a man, under the pretext of helping me with my heavy schoolbag, took me through a shortcut in the middle of a lonely fie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 06:54 PM |
| 50 | we need to talk about being overly visible, then invisibleYour father sounds like a pervert. I'm sorry you had to go through that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 06:42 PM |
| 10 | "When can I do 50/50 with a man?" - How about NEVER?I don't think your experience is typical, and honestly, its better that women know what they're possibly up against and protect themselves. It also helps that he was your husband when you helped him (I'm assuming he was). Just saying its best to be safe than sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 02:24 PM |
| 1 | My experience leaving an emotionally abusive lvmGood for you! And as time goes on you will realize that you are actually happy too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 04:13 PM |
| 7 | I just walked out of my dad's houseWhat are you apologizing for though. You still went to his house and spent time despite his lack of effort. He should be apologizing to you instead. Why even bother to call? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 12:03 AM |
| 29 | somebody called these men hobosexuals 💀💀✋They forgot to add peace of mind.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 02:19 PM |
| 6 | 🎵All of my LEAST favorite things...🎵Yikes! What a nightmare of a man! Glad you dumped that, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 03:39 PM |
| 5 | Have you recently met any man who was actually willing to wait to have sex with you under YOUR TERMS?I think your boundaries are doing the vetting for you. There's nothing wrong with you. Just the undesirables falling from the running. Keep positive, and busy yourself with things that you enjoy. I do this and I find I don't focus on this as much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 02:24 PM |
| 7 | More of a Reason Why Blocking & Deleting is So ImportantWasn't there a post earlier that warned us against assuming that men think like us? He apologized and not only she accepted the apology, but she also says "I know you didn't intend it in that way." Oh really? Then why did he write it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 02:18 PM |
| 73 | Husband suggests she stop buying formula rather than get a job and cancel his $80+ a month subscriptions.After all that explanation you really asking if you're the asshole? If you paying for rent and for the food, what's his purpose? He should be kissing your feet! The nerve...😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 02:51 AM |
| 52 | Don’t bother manipulating a LVM from doing weaponized incompetence. Just leave him. It will only get worse if you have children with him.You're right, she should have dumped him. The mind games one has to play in order to beat them at their game isn't worth it obviously. But there was a part of me that found it hilarious. Will not recommend to do of course, but it was totally hilarious 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 03:34 PM |
| 6 | The "huh?"Another classic is the "me too". Like you can't express something that happens to you without hearing the dreaded "me too", and then the conversation segues to whatever happened to them in exhausting detail. Experience courtesy my dear ole (narc) dad 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 03:24 PM |
| 6 | Share your experiences with violent homeless men. I'll start: he punched me in the face on public transport...Here are some of my experiences: One time my sister and I were driving on a lonely road through the business district and a vagrant, fully naked and erect, was walking about the pavement, gesticulating wildly and speaking unintelligibly. It was terrifying because who knows what would have happened to us if we were walking instead. There was once a story in my country where a vagrant held down a woman and forced himself into her mouth. During Christmas period last year, when my mom sister and I w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 12:54 PM |
| 19 | My family and friends push me to be a pickme & tell me I’m being too picky if I don’t want to date men I don’t find attractive.It seems like their using "shallow" to shame you into settling for less than what you know you're worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 05:08 PM |
| 14 | My family and friends push me to be a pickme & tell me I’m being too picky if I don’t want to date men I don’t find attractive.If YOU know you're not being shallow, and that you are following the standards YOU set, then it shouldn't matter even if your mom is saying otherwise. You need a new environment. I get that you love your mom but the other people aren't speaking in your best interest (and you know this). So like what was said above: move in silence. Remember, it's your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 04:55 PM |
| 71 | Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens.🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 I guess this is supposed to be a joke, but it isn't funny. Also, didn't his ex-wife help him or give him a healthy son? You don't have to debase one to lift up the other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 02:52 PM |
| 6 | If You Have to Confirm Plans, Cancel Them Instead.This is really excellent advice! Thank you for sharing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 02:03 PM |
| 5 | Your reminder that polyamory is a complete scam for women. This woman is trying to convince herself that she’s okay with hearing her husband have sex with another woman.So why didn't she find a boyfriend to move in as well? Chile please....🙄😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 08:30 PM |
| 10 | Spotted in another sub. Subtle red flag that I (as a short-legged woman) have experienced too!Mine and my brother do the same. Inconsiderate and selfish behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Spotted in another sub. Subtle red flag that I (as a short-legged woman) have experienced too!Its rude! Its not considerate of their partner nor is it protective. Something can happen to their partner behind them and they wouldn't even know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 04:09 PM |
| 179 | I wouldn't touch that guy with a ten foot stick after he pulled this kind of shit. He agrees to pay first date if she pays for the next, she ends up being footed with a bill 4x what he paid.Lol he didn't outsmart you (DJ Khalid voice) You played yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 03:46 PM |
| 60 | The farce that “men age like fine wine”They have a culture of skincare and wear sunscreen religiously I heard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 02:21 PM |
| 5 | Pickmes and 🤡🤡🤡: “If you are so picky, you are going to be single forever.”Totally agree! The sad part is, I never expressed anything like that to the person. I guess as she saw both of us hurtling towards mid-30s (what's wrong with that) and she was going on first dates with bums from OLD, she assumed I was as concerned about being single as she was 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 12:04 PM |
| 41 | Pickmes and 🤡🤡🤡: “If you are so picky, you are going to be single forever.”OMG the first translation sounds exactly like one of the friends I distanced myself from. Ughh 🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 06:55 PM |
| 7 | Men Know What They're Doing. Stop Letting Them Get Away With It.I see. Maybe you should block them? That's just me, but as you rightly said, that's not your responsibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 11:26 PM |
| 23 | Men Know What They're Doing. Stop Letting Them Get Away With It.So his cousin doesn't have his number? Why would they contact you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 04:14 PM |
| 15 | Religious FDSAs with everything in this world, Christianity has also been twisted to suit certain people's (men's) purposes. There are many pasages in the Bible denouncing the selfish and abhorrent behavior that we experience, but its glossed over while other passages that are more in line with their agendas are highlighted and browbeaten into us ad nauseam. It just like when an abusive parent quotes Ephesians 6 v 1 and 2, but conveniently forget the Bible warning fathers not to provoke their kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 06:18 PM |
| 5 | HVM tried to give sound advice to a young single mother in distress and got so much hate from Reddit"Hookups are low commitment and allow you to focus on your kid" What SHIT did I just read? 😣😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 04:54 PM |
| 11 | Objective vs Subjective: Make sure he meets your needs, not just your standards.Excellent post! Saved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 06:15 PM |
| 12 | Woman killed by apartment maintenance man, who had a key. We need to push for a Miya Marcano law. I was always scared of this happening.I feel so sorry for her parents especially. She's from my country. They sent her to school in Florida, not expecting for this to happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 11:47 AM |
| 6 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.Ewwwwwww What is a size 12 - 16 waist? More importantly, has he really taken a good look at himself? Like seriously, that pic is the best he could do? 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 12:28 PM |
| 11 | So, how’s it going these days now that you have to make women like you to get their interest? Men:The comments under that fb post was fire lol. Long story short: he was barbecued 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 01:30 PM |
| 6 | Woman wants to stay after finding out her boyfriend of four years is still married - to his best friend - because they never filed the paperworkLeave her in her delusion yes. Not everyone wants to be saved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 01:06 AM |
| 26 | This really backs up the study on a majority of men leaving/cheating on their terminally ill wives. 🙄👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 01:01 AM |
| 34 | This really backs up the study on a majority of men leaving/cheating on their terminally ill wives. 🙄She didn't even have to ask. There's NO sympathy for cheaters in my book (my dad was a womanizer). None! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 12:59 AM |
| 10 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.That's just a recipe to be friendzoned/one sided relationship hell. Take it from one who knows it. NEVER AGAIN! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 07:12 PM |
| 30 | Do not underestimate male entitlement and their capacity for retroactive jealousy.Exaaaaaactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 06:56 PM |
| 43 | Do not underestimate male entitlement and their capacity for retroactive jealousy.He's free to end the relationship if he doesn't agree with the stipulations 🙄. Go raw dog someone who wants to be raw dogged 🤷. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 06:56 PM |
| 2 | You should bring up periods in the initial months of talking to a new man to gauge his reaction.You're right it doesn't definitely point to him being high value. My dad was the best when coming to buying period products, never squeamish and knew exactly what to get. In other aspects....the definition of low value 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 07:54 PM |
| 5 | LVM coworkers ranted(?) to me and I'm sad for the women in their livesHmm isn't it draining hearing that all the time? I'd have a jar out for every time they came to me with a woe. $10 per story, $20 for my advice. I'd bet they'd stop with the quickness 😂. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 09:26 PM |
| 30 | That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their wordsIsn't fraud a reason for separating? That would be a huge deal breaker for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 10:38 PM |
| 2 | No lies told.I see it as just as its not natural for a woman to submit, love is not natural to men. But we are both called to do something outside of our natures (with God's help) and this helps to set the foundation of a high value union. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 10:12 PM |
| 148 | The eternal Hollywood fuckboyMaybe he's like a good luck Chuck for some of them, lol. Some of his exes married well their relationship ended. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 02:00 PM |
| 54 | No lies told.Oddly before the Bible tells wives to submit, it explicitly tells husbands to LOVE THEIR WIVES. And not just any type of love, the self sacrificial love akin to what Jesus did for His church. But noooooo, we're not hearing that are we? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 01:56 PM |
| 8 | I don’t even know where to start.Go to the police!!! Isn't doxxing a crime? And while she's at it she should divorce her husband citing infidelity and abuse, and carry him to the cleaners. Actually give him something to complain about smdh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 09:34 PM |
| 24 | Why do men take SUCH offense to my reserved demeanor?As a person whose been called reserved, stuck up, stand offish, ice queen etc, trust me, the right person would appreciate your personality. Change for no one but yourself. No one deserves your smile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:03 PM |
| 5 | Here’s how our ‘critics’ analyse dating and offer advice to fellow blind mice lmao. Low value men who have ZERO stake in the dating field and resort to sterile mathematical calculations as to work out why their last 27 dates didn’t call back....oh I’m sorry- I mean ‘used them for a meal’ ofc 🙄I'm sure he can't even read the graph, far less explain how it applies to "modern dating" 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 08:06 PM |
| 26 | Here’s how our ‘critics’ analyse dating and offer advice to fellow blind mice lmao. Low value men who have ZERO stake in the dating field and resort to sterile mathematical calculations as to work out why their last 27 dates didn’t call back....oh I’m sorry- I mean ‘used them for a meal’ ofc 🙄I watched this longer than I should have lol. What's striking is the focus only on utility and indifference curves and not one mention of budget lines. It's like they purposely choose to omit the fact that you can only get what you can afford. In short, if you desire better, be better (be able to afford better) in order to get better. Duh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 02:06 PM |
| 4 | I'm a blunt woman. If a man asks me out anywhere I say "Sure! But I'm not paying!"Hello fellow blunt queen :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 11:49 AM |
| 3 | GREAT ANSWER TO "WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A MAN?"Excellent tip! Thank you ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 12:24 PM |
| 11 | I saw my ex's mum sit on his lap and simultaneously kiss him on the lips.Eww it sounds like its more than emotional incest 🤢🤢🤢 Never feel bad for your successes. If you're too much, let him find someone who's less, as the saying goes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 11:39 PM |
| 44 | if you're in doubt remember all those lies: "men's desirability peaks at age 50. But women's desirability starts high at age 18 and falls throughout their lifespan."If mismatched couple was a picture.... Ew 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 02:31 PM |
| 15 | It's better to be single & work on yourself than strain yourself with a LV entanglement (My Story)Oh yes I agree, share some tips please :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 02:30 PM |
| 122 | It's better to be single & work on yourself than strain yourself with a LV entanglement (My Story)Good for you! And wow you invested $3k and made $100k? Nice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 02:28 PM |
| 7 | Do crushes stall progress for anyone else?I was reading dating advice, body language advice to see if it was possible that he liked me This was me...for a guy who only texted me and bread crumbed me until I just stopped engaging him. And yes, that period of time was the most unproductive. How did I get out? I found FDS and read the handbook over and over. Pining over what if sucks but he showed me he was low effort and I am worth more than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Is the transitioning stage always this hard?Can I just say something? YOU ROCK! That was awesome. Everyone who has a problem with you enforcing boundaries can go suck an egg....a very rotten one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 05:50 PM |
| 5 | PSA LADIES! This is a scam!!!The first aita poster needs to listen to her intuition. She already knows what she needs to do. She already has an apartment that's closer to her work than where her boyfriend lives. There's no benefit in her moving there. The audacity of these men asking their girlfriends to help pay the mortgage for their houses. Like seriously? 😐🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 06:26 AM |
| 23 | “You seem expensive”What an ass he is smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 02:32 PM |
| 3 | How FDS helped me recover from an abusive relationshipWow you went through so much! Thank God you got out. Always trust your intuition, even if others doubt you. I hope you got rid of those pickme friends btw. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 12:48 PM |
| 13 | How is this even a question??!!Trust me, she's seeing it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 03:14 PM |
| 14 | How is this even a question??!!Why is she calling him her partner, but they haven't made things official? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 01:45 PM |
| 17 | Ofcourse she cleans this..Maybe lock him out? Idk, just a suggestion? 🤔🤷🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 10:25 AM |
| 7 | This lady spitting TRUTHS. Remember to focus on YOU first and not settling up for less.I hope they rule in your favor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 12:50 AM |
| 8 | It’s never truly 50/50I'm almost tempted to ask for a pic 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 10:45 AM |
| 10 | VICE Media Darling Cat Marnell Takes Issue With Our Characterization of Her.That was a BURN (Duke of Hastings growl) for the history books! Bravo FDS twitter! 😆😆😆😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 10:36 AM |
| 2 | Let’s Not Forget That A Certain Pedophilic Be-Diapered Furry Fetished Former Admin Was Very Instrumental in Getting All Feminist Subs Who Were Critical of The Porn On This Site Banned The Past Few MonthsMay I have one? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 05:53 PM |
| 2 | How to Maintain Boundaries During Relationships with Men (EW YUCK)My hero <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 02:41 PM |
| 2 | On Ethical Self-Preservation: is it okay to fundamentally distrust men?Amen sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 12:28 PM |
| 5 | On Ethical Self-Preservation: is it okay to fundamentally distrust men?Also Christianity never says everyone is a child of God, just that everyone is created by God. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 03:40 PM |
| 7 | FDS Principles Are Essential to Professional Success In a Man's WorldAgree with this 100%. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 12:10 PM |
| 37 | Pornsick Limp Dick LVM shift blame to his VIRGIN wifeLol its Trini slang. I couldn't resist. But he still gets to put his dick in her mouth, and he won't reciprocate 😑 Nah you'd have to fap, sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 01:29 AM |
| 121 | Pornsick Limp Dick LVM shift blame to his VIRGIN wifeUm why is she giving him blowjobs? He's supposed to be salting just as much as she is. 😑😑😑😑😑😑😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 10:32 PM |
| 6 | A Boxing Day sermonWhere did you post it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 09:49 PM |
| 33 | All of these are instant dealbreakers for me, what about you?Some don't even carry you TGI Fridays 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 09:33 PM |
| 1 | This sounds like my last relationship!This sounds like my dad :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:01 PM |
| 14 | I'm getting flashbacks to every first date monologue a LVM put me through - Never again!Dude, it's just linear regression. Stop trying to pump your ego. I just let out the loudest guffaw at this lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:06 PM |
| 3 | You are your own #1This is me. I am she :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 12:25 AM |
| 6 | "don't catch feelings for me, I'm a hoe"LMFAO Girl that happened to me earlier this year, except he showed me a great time first and got me hooked, then busted the "don't like me" line. I thrashed in the waters of infatuation withdrawal for a few months, but I stopped talking to him. Now he initiates all convos and he's mostly left on read 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 02:47 AM |
| 3 | There is no energy like that which comes from prioritizing yourselfI thought leveling up meant focusing on you and doing what's best for u at all levels, personal and professional? Gosh when I do simple things like getting my brows waxed or trying on a new shade of polish, in admiring myself my mood drastically improves. To each their own I guess 🤷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 11:26 AM |
| 4 | There is no energy like that which comes from prioritizing yourselfWow some of the response were 😯. Like how is taking care of yourself and your body unpaid labour? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 12:24 AM |
| 17 | No more free labour for menLovely <3 I did this in my mid twenties since almost all of my male "friends" were guilty of this. The majority of my interactions with men in those years were mainly one sided, with me doing the effort. Sadly I realized in hindsight that I was socialized to do so from my family. My current relationships with my brother and my father exist solely because of my labour. I'm a lot more iffy now. My time is precious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Why women must appear vulnerable?Wowowowowow! This is my experience exactly. Whenever I am firm on what I expect and don't expect, suddenly I'm the hard/harsh one. I'm tired of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 09:06 PM |
| 12 | Learning this saved me from trouble thousands of time.I totally feel you on the infatuation withdrawal. I'm suffering with that right now, but didn't know what to call it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 05:16 PM |
| 15 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.What exactly it is that is making 25 yrs old and over "used"? Age? Ridiculous 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 11:21 PM |
| 6 | I.... I can’tThank God! Wow, as is said often here, they really have the AUDACITY, don't they? 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 11:35 AM |
| 23 | How do you feel about this? as a 21 year old I am so grateful for finding this sub!Exactly. After hearing our fellow sisters' experiences, we shld honour them by continuing to vet ruthlessly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 02:20 AM |
| 70 | How do you feel about this? as a 21 year old I am so grateful for finding this sub!Can totally relate, 34 yrs and never had a bf or sex. But I suffer with horrible buyer's remorse, so I'd rather wait it out than allow desperation to gain control then regret it forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 11:04 PM |
| 10 | Older men who date younger women admit they’d date teens as young as 16 and that their attraction progressively fades with age. It’s never a good idea to date much older men. It’s doomed to fail once you age out of his preference.There's like a series of videos on tiktok highlighting these gross age differences. The worst was the 17 to 19 year old girls with the 65 year old men. Ugh 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 02:13 PM |
| 2 | I started making lunchboxes. I always wanted to and couldn' wait to have a partner/children, so I can express my love this way. Just recently I realized that I already have a loved one, that I can make food for! (And who will always appreciate it) It's silly but it never came to my head before :DAwesome. I just got into that too, mainly to save a few bucks and also to shed some pounds. I'm enjoying finding recipes and tweaking to my tastes 😀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 01:26 AM |
| 18 | LVs will fake support you and when you start succeeding theyll try lowering you down. Drop the deadweight.In addition to the advice above, here's mine: have a plan and stick to it. When you have a plan, you had to look at the situation from all angles, consider the opportunity cost and make the overall decision that despite what is lost in the short run, it will all be worth it in the long run. Don't allow anyone to veer you off your path. Yes, you can accept advice from trusted people (who I assume would want the best for you of course!) but even then, don't just implement it. Remember your overall… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 12:17 PM |
| 28 | She gave him her best years but once she's hitting menopause he wants to cheatPayoff usually isn't worth it tbh. Leaving hurts more plus our esteem improves in the long run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 09:59 PM |
| 38 | Shut down an LVM at work who tried to treat me like his personal secretaryWonderful. Three cheers 🙂😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 10:21 AM |
| 398 | She gave him her best years but once she's hitting menopause he wants to cheatYeah usually I'd vote for counseling but after seeing those messages, its a unanimous #kickhimout2020. Do they even take marriage vows seriously? Ugh 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 10:08 AM |
| 3 | I laughed so hard too good not to share with you ladies 🤣💯👏I think the 3rd package should be highly recommended! Sounds like a huge crowd seller lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Breaking up with the best boyfriend I've ever hadI applaud you for seeing this and acting on it as quickly as you did. I hope if this ever happened to me I'd be willing to end with the quickness! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:17 AM |
| 5 | We made it! FDS has 100,000 members!Awesome! Congratulations! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:26 AM |
| 8 | When a LVM tries to drop this hot line to reel you in thinking you are a pickme, but you decide to play stupid to give him a taste of his own medicine before you block & delete for good as an enlightened QueenExcellent response 😊👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 08:39 PM |
| 6 | Guys avoid the “date” word to avoid accountability for their intentions. Pay attention to these clues.I agree, do a post or multiple posts if necessary please | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:04 PM |
| 6 | LIARS CLUB: Isn’t it incredible how easy they lie? It’s literally like breathing- thank you to the sis at the car dealership who worked with me to catch a CHEATERMan reading this was beautiful ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Process Changes to the Sub, Flair, and other AnnouncementsYayy I can see you again! My day has radically improved :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Big factsDefinitely high on the list of vetting questions! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 03:22 PM |
| 27 | How Old Were You When You Learned the Bad Men Weren't an Extreme Minority?Hmm resting bitch face definitely helped when I didn't have the protection of my mom. I learned it very early in high school though: being awkward and (seemingly) unattractive quickly opened my eyes to how awful teenage boys and young men are to girls they aren't interested in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 09:54 PM |
| 24 | Woman buys her husband an Apple Watch for their five year anniversary. He gets her...Reddit gold. 🤡Emotional much? Smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 05:35 PM |
| 7 | Boyfriend suggests a prenup to “protect” his house, OP drafts her own prenup that also protects her assets and investments. BF doesn’t like a prenup that doesn’t solely favor him and they break up.WHAT A HEAPING PIECE OF SHIT!!!! Girl you dodged a bullet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 04:11 PM |
| 1 | 30% of men are now sexually inactive but please do tell us all about how all that sex would be waiting for you out there if it weren’t for your wife 🙄That's because he's their starter husband. As soon as they acquire more wealth or connections through his contacts, they dump ruthlessly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 03:20 PM |
| 14 | Pathetic malesWow....my dad often tells my mom that only a "strong" man could handle me smh. Of course she told him he only thinks that way because he is weak. Don't worry dad, I have no intentions of marrying a man like you :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 12:10 PM |
| 11 | Who here can relate?Guess men's bodies aren't as strong as they project it to be, if women's bodies are "built for this". What a jackass! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 05:36 PM |
| 2 | How many times I used to say this 😩 🤡Me too sis, me too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 04:26 PM |
| 18 | Read the handbook 👑Maybe "read the handbook" should have its own flair too? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 11:43 AM |
| 6 | and feel attacked when you ask for anything moreYou said it sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 01:11 AM |
| 3 | You ladies inspired me and I whipped this piece up in less than 24 hours. If I want to, I will ✌️There should be an FDS merch store so you can sell it there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Embroidering the lessons I’ve learned from dating LVM 👌Maybe you can make YouTube videos as well as etsy as someone else above suggested. Make your hobbies make you money 💰❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Embroidering the lessons I’ve learned from dating LVM 👌How long does one of these take you to do? Its very beautiful. Reminds me of those shows where you see the royal women with their needlework ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 05:25 PM |
| 9 | Let him go sisStandards and knowing your worth, for starters 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 07:01 PM |
| 7 | Nothing but teaGirl same here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:25 PM |
| 6 | Nailed it.Cue the world's smallest violin 🎻 boohoo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 03:33 AM |
| 5 | Ladies, the bar continues to be so deep beneath the floor that it is in HellAnd yet (pick me) girls would be fighting each other for a piece of that community dick, ammirite? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 11:41 PM |
| 5 | People say that FDS is the equivalent of TheRedPill, but I've yet to see a post about how to spot and exploit mentally ill and traumatized men here.Chad Thunderpeen LMFAO 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 12:57 AM |
| 10 | Second disappointing man in one week. My major, apparently, is cute.You're very welcome 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 12:55 AM |
| 40 | Second disappointing man in one week. My major, apparently, is cute.Your accomplishments are dope btw. Awesome 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 12:45 AM |
| 17 | Second disappointing man in one week. My major, apparently, is cute.Lol that's a great one to use haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 12:42 AM |
| 10 | Major makeup brand posts this on Facebook with the caption “hey, at least it’s the thought that counts??”. Chaos ensues in the comments.Hmph. My dad doesn't cook for shit but he knows better than to critique anything that either me or my mom makes. He always wants second helpings 😁. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 04:19 PM |
| 3 | LVM is unhappy that his girlfriend isn't 'open minded' enough to do anal and have a threesome involving him and her 'cute friends.' 🤮I second this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 03:05 AM |
| 16 | Why What He Spends MattersGirl you spoke a word there! And that's why this sub is so valuable. Women looking out for women ❤️. Cuz we all know the "brotherhood" is alive and in full force. Thank you very much for this. May we all be blessed with generous providers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 12:58 AM |
| 34 | I found one! HVM stays with and cares for girlfriend of 4 months after her spinal cord injury.He should be an ex tbh. You can do bad all by yourself. Hope you're all better now. Hugs 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 11:44 PM |
| 85 | He’s not your friend.What's more reprehensible is your "friend's" response to your experience? Attempted rape isn't a big deal? Some girls really ain't shit. They were tailor made for each other it seems. All in all I'm sorry this happened to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 11:12 PM |
| 2 | LOL what a load of crap. Who comes up with this stuff?I lol'd at this 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 07:52 PM |
| 6 | LVM with Egos in the Legal Field and Black CommunityPickmes and mgtow fools smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 03:53 AM |
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