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Ever heard of a pregnant woman having specific cravings? My life is always like that. If I'm not actively craving something, I don't "want" it and I don't want to force myself to eat it. I used to be fat and I had to stop overeating for dumb reasons like social pressure (I'm not rude just take it in a bag to go). I'll say I could go for it but eating out basically only happens when I'm specifically craving Thai food or something. Usually I just want to eat my normal meals and some dude is pushin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:56 AM
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Meh, don't care. I don't even know mine. I think it's creepier that ya'll are so obsessed with how many notches are on your bed post.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:50 AM
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The whole place is ridiculous because most arguments are made on such sweeping generalizations. Love and life is nuanced. It's been shown that variation within groups is usually greater than the variation between groups. The shortest and tallest man are farther apart than the average man and woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:47 AM
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Everyone loves a peacock. We ain't changin
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:44 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:39 AM
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I genuinely like you, for what it's worth. You wrote a really good comment the other day about preferences vs requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:37 AM
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Ok bud yeah all women are just after your money, you do seem super rich based on how rude you are. That's why dating is hard for you, not any glaring personality flaws or hysterical screeching you do online
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:14 PM
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Yes also Disney! Fuck them. I thought a perfect prince would literally fall in love with me while I took a nap
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:37 PM
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See? Women's sports are for men. Idk who fucking cares though In my opinion all sports are a waste of money (since I do not find it entertaining to watch EXCEPT for the sexy men who do it) and I think there's tons of better stuff you could do with it than building huge expensive stadiums and charging $16 for a pint of beer. It's like Brazil building that Olympic multi million dollar stadium displacing/surrounded by a ton of impoverished people struggling to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:35 PM
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It's possible because 1) majority of women does not watch sports (what they do watch in their free time is irrelevant and seems like you're just making a petty attack yikes) and 2) who likes looking at women more, men or women? Who would enjoy watching women sweat and jump around more? I mean have you watched women's volleyball they literally force the players to wear underwear. So then yes, men should be the main audience for female sports if you want to make sweeping generalization like "women…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:10 PM
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Literally so true. I read so many young adult love stories it gave me ridiculous expectations about romantic love, that I can just be a young woman and some man will woo me. That attitude made me an incel for like 8 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:56 PM
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I always say to teenagers, hurry up and do stuff now while you still know everything! Life's already a bitch you don't have to be one too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:06 PM
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Self sufficiency is definitely hot. Treating your own wounds with gum and duct tape in a situation where you should/can just go to the doctor: not hot...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 02:28 PM
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To me that's really sad that she literally finds it normal that every single man is gonna try to fuck or rape her when they're alone. I'm glad I'm not a 10 holy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 02:26 PM
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You find her seductive because she's already hot and enjoying herself dancing. No woman with a brain is trying to seduce gay men, she's just having fun and you're making it about what you see in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 02:23 PM
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Hey I was overweight in my youth and didn't lose my virginity until 24. As a woman people would laugh or not believe me that I was a virgin while telling me "oh honey no you're not fat you're beautiful some prince charming will show up and he will love you and treat you perfectly!" spoiler: I was fat, plus I felt fat and ugly and that gave me a sad/bitter attitude too. Unattractive. Prince charming was not coming. When I lost the weight dating prospects started appearing out of nowhere. Suddenly…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:20 PM
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Literally knew a Chad who was self conscious about how tall he was and how deep his voice was. Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:10 PM
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It wasn't very long ago that women couldn't vote and that women were the property of their husbands. Thankfully things have changed but it's frightening how recent that change was.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:21 PM
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A couple of generations ago women were also just property that men owned, so of course they're just an object like a prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:20 PM
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Any time women are considered a prize is because under a century ago they were still considered property. Once you married a woman you owned her, so sure you won her and she's a prize, because she's seen as an object to be owned.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:19 PM
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Not gonna mention that women are usually seen as prizes because under a century ago they were still considered property owned by men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:17 PM
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As a woman I actually went to a Settlers of Catan meetup once, I find a lot of people enjoy that board game so I'd recommend trying that. It's a fun game.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:13 AM
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I still think hobby groups are the best bet. There will always be young people out and about, but I guarantee there's at least some women your age going to those things thinking the same thing. Makes me think of this poem: "She had blue skin, and so did he. He kept it hid and so did she. They searched for blue their whole life through. Then passed right by — and never knew."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:51 PM
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Lmao I like how you actually are the person the original commenter is complaining about. Did you read the comment before you assumed women only dress skimpy for attention??? Sometimes it's hot out. Women and what they wear doesn't exist for men, women actually have individual desires! I know it's weird to think about but they're humans who want to do things for themselves! Women already know almost any man wants to fuck them there's literally no need to dress skimpy for attention, the attention …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:39 PM
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TIL having casual sex only once makes you promiscuous lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:43 PM
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Sex can feel amazing even if I don't orgasm. I wish we would stop seeing sex as only about the climax. Sometimes I'm a head case and can't come if someone is looking at me. Sometimes guys are selfish or unwilling to learn, but they may be good at doing a couple positions and it can still be fun and pleasurable. Sex feels good; I can orgasm any time at home by myself instantly, but being fucked by a real man is an experience I can't always replicate at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:46 AM
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Ladies, show up to casual sex with your favorite small vibrator and orgasm every time. I think a lot of people just don't like casual sex and that's fine, but plenty of women definitely do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:38 AM
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I'd bet decent money they're not actually ugly. Maybe you should reconsider calling your family members 'ugly as gollum.' The internet is forever friend, if you're really a Stoic you should know better. I doubt they look that bad. Short men and brown men can be hot idk why this subreddit won't believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:14 PM
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It looks like OP assumed since she was aging she'd be desperate to fuck him or something. Sounds like she was just making conversation at a bar and he thought this was some grand connection that meant she was dtf. Pretty funny he's basically projecting his problems onto older women now so he can sleep at night after being deemed unfuckable by a woman who he deemed as falling off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:59 PM
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So your uncles bragged about getting laid at the clubs every night and you believed them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:14 PM
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Best comment there : how can I unread this? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:19 PM
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What'd your wife think tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:08 AM
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Yeah I mean he seems like a more fun type than the type you'd have deep talks with. Some of his stand up can be pretty thoughtful although he does a lot of sex jokes and shit too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:07 AM
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Actually fair, I obviously am a bit bitter but I know the guys I met can't represent all Indians. I comment a lot about how negative the hyper individualism of the US is so you're totally right about being family oriented.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:57 PM
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I literally had an obese boyfriend for 2 years what is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:52 PM
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Yeah Indian culture has been pretty shitty to me in the dating world... The men seem to love white chicks but also look down on them when said white chicks are down to fuck. Also seems like they're basically just appendages of their mommy (or cheating on their mommywife) even when they're like 27. I dated a couple Indians who were recent immigrants and they all just wanted to fuck a white girl and ditch her. Whatever, I don't care I had sex. Except when one time... We'd had a few dates, had sex,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:10 PM
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Being lean with the ability to make me laugh is all I look for. Love me a thin guy. Height is way less important than weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:01 PM
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Meh, if they're obese I don't care how tall they are. Doesn't always put someone above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:59 PM
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The one next to the PayPal computer. The recent shirtless photos were a hoot too lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:54 PM
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Charisma is so huge. The guys crying about looks in here really need to take a note out of Stavros the comedians book.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:48 PM
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I can only hope men with closed minds on this subreddit hear this, self reflection is so huge. I think the problem is it's painful. People almost can't handle it; their failures are their own fault?? So you will see their minds try to find another reason. Just a couple of experiences plus some online propaganda (anyone buy Andrew tate's pyramid scheme yet???) will leave men genuinely believing all women are one way and he knows how all others experience dating also.. I still deeply sympathize wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:50 AM
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Doesn't your mom or dad love you? Siblings? Grandparents? I highly doubt you can actually say you've never been loved. If you define love as "hot woman has sex with me" you're gonna continue to have a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:04 AM
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Honestly, I read in that survey post that 50% of this sub is unemployed...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:12 AM
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How does not being able to control who you're attracted to mean love can't be real? Yes, what we find sexy/physically attractive can be dictated by our biology, but LOVE is so much more than a hot person. Love as a concept lives on. I love my family, my dog, my hobbies, etc... Romantic love can be about so much more than appearance. In a true long term relationship the "spark" can fade but love remains.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:59 AM
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Doesn't take mind reading just use your eyes. I explained a pretty obvious scenario - you're telling me you can't tell the difference between a woman not looking at you at all and a woman looking at you and smiling? Human beings are a social animal, if you struggle with social skills they can be learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:39 PM
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Well I have no idea how big the app is over there but I recommend Hinge! Seems to have more quality people in general
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:27 AM
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Correct me if I'm wrong, but I read once that in some parts of Europe people do NOT like cold approaches, rather you're supposed to chat casually a few times when you see someone regularly out and about. Maybe this applies to old and it's just just not an avenue people use as much?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:36 PM
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If you think there is a wall for women and that there's no wall for men, you HAVE to acknowledge that women do not prioritize appearance in relationships. If men peak the older they are, you're implying they're more attractive the older they get. As men age they generally will get wrinkles, sun spots on their skin, weird extra hairs in some places, go bald, often gain weight while losing muscle. Young men are leagues more physically attractive than almost any man over the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:27 PM
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I also have no idea what that second sentence even means?? If your ego is getting bruised because someone rejected you, you're taking dating too personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:03 PM
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Because he used women for money ultimate alpha move
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:30 PM
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Yeah in a sociology course I took, we talked about how when society went to 2 parent homes behind a picket fence, there was now privacy in the home and a lot more abuse and problems arose. In a more open/tribal/group society, or even a world where more grandparents/random aunts/uncles live with you, abuse would be seen by others and addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:23 PM
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Most men who have failure approaching don't look for clues that a woman wants to be approached, or they heavily misinterpret basic friendliness as a desire to be approached. There I can generalize about your sex too. Haven't you seen it in movies at least? A man walks into a bar, he looks around. A woman looks at him. She looks away, then she looks back at him and when they make eye contact she smiles. The man approaches and she smiles more. Most scenarios where men think "I am approaching and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:19 PM
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I was lonely and rejected for a lot of my life. I don't expect men on here to believe me, but I understand where a lot come from because by the base roots of the word I was an incel for many years. Keep in mind we're talking about online dating. At the tail end of my weight loss I suddenly had guys pursuing me. I have had ZERO long term serious relationships from online dating. Plenty of casual hookups and fwb. Plenty of guys who seemed serious but dumped me at the first talk about having a seri…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:12 PM
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Does a selfie really dox someone? Not trying to cause any harm ftr
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:30 PM
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What specific scenario are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:28 PM
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Yeah honestly cold approaching men has never worked for me. True seduction as a woman takes a lot more subtlety. You basically have to form a friendship first, get him to believe that you just really find him so funny/interesting, then let out some hints that you're a sexual girl. Eventually the man will initiate things and he'll think it was his idea all along.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:23 PM
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Sounds like you expect to be treated like a celebrity. You're in for a rough time pal life ain't like that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:18 PM
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I usually assume they were a match when they got together but relationships make people comfortable enough to gain weight. I was fat for years and couldn't even find a fat guy to date me so the idea that there's a hot guy for every fat girl is RIDICULOUS.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:16 PM
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Yeah the hyper individualism is actually scary and depressing. They'd step over the dead bodies of fellow citizens to get a better spot in line for themselves. Other cultures have so much more comradery, meanwhile the USA is dog eat dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:12 PM
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Beggars can't be choosers so if someone has to beg they're probably desperate. Huge turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:10 PM
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Hey men, if you're really an "above average" looking guy who struggles to get a date, post a picture of yourself (and maybe your OLD profile too) and a picture of your "looks match" woman. With peace and love, I dare you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:02 PM
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I truly believe the biology of humans accounts for monogamy bonding lasting about as long as it takes to raise children out of their "fetal" baby phase. Once they're about 5 years old they can walk and talk and need much less direct care/protecting. Now there's more to life than your biology, but beyond the first few years relationships are going to take a lot of work and mutual effort to be maintained. Most people in successful marriages agree that they take work, but I think a lot of Disney ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:56 PM
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I've had it happen in my 20s and 30s, just usually only in a new relationship when things are still extra frisky.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:51 PM
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There won't be rage until it's actually impossible to get abortions in blue states. I live in California and I'd love to see the federal government try to force us to do anything. They won't bite the hand that feeds them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:30 PM
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Oh ok!!! We will be sending you your government mandated girlfriend asap sir!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:22 PM
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I think the "he could be an incredible person" is actually why you're getting these flakey matches in the first place. As a woman, I can see the potential in a shit ton of guys. There's dozens I could swipe right on every day. They look good, seem nice, and I think for all I know he could be an incredible person, he could be the one. It's easy to think that about someone without knowing them. I can build them into the ideal I imagine. Then they speak. They're not prince charming they're just a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:14 PM
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OP is clearly venting because of one experience/person. As a woman who approaches men, I have experienced judgment. People will always judge, everyone has an opinion and everyone thinks they're right. I think OP could really use your advice, maybe learn to grow up and not let a few random peoples opinions affect their whole ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:15 PM
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How can you say women only value looks and then think women prefer men bald, wrinkly, and more out of shape?? Especially if she is young and/or hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:14 AM
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I was only overweight by 40lbs or so and when I lost it, it was an extremely noticeable difference. It's like I went from being invisible to men breaking their necks to look at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:20 PM
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Oh it's massive alright ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:40 PM
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Sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:19 PM
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Yes definitely :) I was ugly and overweight in my early 20s, rejected a lot, and a virgin until 24 so I'm trying to run my victory lap here shhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:18 PM
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Hey that's totally fair. I have a bias about bald guys because I'm super attracted to hair, I know a lot of women don't care or love bald dudes so I hear you there!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:15 PM
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Look at Olympic lifters. They often are not a low body fat percentage because for optimum muscle strength having fat stores around them helps. I think in their case they're fat and fit. However most of the time, people don't actually have that much muscle underneath. They can still be fit, but they are also still fat and will have health risks associated. Overweight people have been shown higher risk of stuff like heart disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:14 PM
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Only a 6? Just curious can you give an example of a guy who you'd rate a 10 or whatever you find highest?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:10 PM
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I don't cook, I don't clean, but lemme tell you I got this ring
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:07 PM
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Thank you. I don't want an asshole, I just want a non-simp. Men who agree with everything I do/say just come off as fakers trying to get in my pants. Men who disagree with me come off as individuals who have chosen me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:04 PM
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Well the women are only getting revenge for men screaming how women are ugly after 29 in the first place... So they started it!1
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:02 PM
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Often people who have had bad people in their youth unconsciously seek the same conditions the rest of their life. For example, my mom (good mom overall fwiw) talks a lot and often never let me get a word in edgewise. I then had a long friendship with a girl who talked a lot and even though she wasn't very loving/kind/agoodfriend I stuck with her for years. Eventually I realized my friend never really cared, but it was way longer than it should've been. We seek what we know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:01 PM
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When I was a teenage girl I definitely picked up skateboarding just because I liked the skater boys. Could do a weak ollie at best lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:53 PM
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Probably just some weirdo wanting to start a trash fire
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:52 PM
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Not gonna mention how men commit the majority of violent crimes? That most rapes/murders are committed by a man they already know? Never seen a man worried about abuse/death during dating but as a woman I am constantly assessing - does he anger easily? When is angry does he take it out on me? Are his attacks verbal only or ever physical? I've had tinder dates that seem sweet snap and assault me. The dude wouldn't leave my house, I had to run out the front door and scream for neighbors to help or…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:46 PM
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Seriously every time some guy is writing about how women fall off after 29, I imagine him as a 26 year old man who is balding and has a beer belly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:22 PM
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Do you have a source or evidence for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:21 PM
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I just wish they would stop with the bullshit of the wall being at 30. I'd say it's more like 40 for attractive people. I often imagine anyone who says women drop off at 30 is just a bald 26 year old man attacking others out of bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:18 PM
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So true! Nobody wants to talk about how a huge percentage of men go bald and gain a little weight before/during their 30s. Meanwhile I've fucked more 20 something guys with six packs in my 30s than I have in my whole life. I have noticed no slowing down of my prospects in my 30s, in fact I'm doing better because I've been working on taking care of my body, skin, and health while my peers have beer bellies and are balding.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:12 PM
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Bro I just wanted to hear more about your perspective and you're shitting on me. Way to make all red pillers look like they're scared to debate so they resort to insults
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:03 PM
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Seems more like your argument is too weak so you're just going "you're wrong, idk look it up"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:46 PM
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Oh I see, they're actually only 3/4 people and 1/4 eldritch horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:21 PM
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Yes and no. I'd say the hottest male trope to me is tough guy with a soft center. I like when a man is squishy but only for me. I just gush over that Daryl Dixon type.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:11 PM
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Wait you're telling me women are people??? Get out of here that's insane
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:08 PM
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I'm a woman and I wouldn't sleep around in my friend group. It's easy enough to get casual sex from someone I don't have to see again, I don't need my friends to be gossiping about my sex life/habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:06 PM
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As a woman anytime someone taller than my current boyfriend walks by I throw myself at them!!! Teehee I literally have no choice or agency! Sucks because now I'm stuck with an extremely tall homeless man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:04 PM
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For real. I've actually read stories about women losing weight and then their (still) fat family shaming them when they don't eat 6 servings at dinner and altogether being unsupportive of her getting healthier. Shouldn't you be happy if you care about her? No, because these people are petty, jealous, and want the world to all suffer as they do (of a preventable problem btw). Ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:59 PM
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Pretty sure the ultra religious are the only people who are going to agree with your incredibly judgmental negative views, maybe reconsider closing them off. For example Jehovas witnesses don't celebrate birthdays so you'll be safe from the awful/disgusting parties!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:51 PM
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Yeah, I hear you and I appreciate your rational discourse. Obviously this just hits personal with me, since I got more in touch with my natural appetite and came down to an average weight, I struggle to force myself to eat. It's really a blessing because I'm no longer overweight, but social gatherings I have to pretend I'm eating and throw stuff away later. I wish people could just be more understanding that it's not about them if I personally don't want to eat. I love hanging out with people bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:44 PM
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Yeah it's almost like daughters are imagined as these pure innocents who only need the Goodest Men of All! Except lots of women fuck bad boys or make mistakes with the men they choose and it's just a part of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:37 PM
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I understand that, but if I'm nervous in a date I literally can't eat. I will be sick if I force myself to eat so someone can feel less societal pressure. Just feels like these women are putting the pressure they feel right back on the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:33 PM
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I'm usually too nervous to eat on dates and purposefully plan non eating dates. Sounds like that's what OP did too. If my date then implied I was making them feel bad for their own bodily functions just because I'm not hungry? I don't know it just feels so rude
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:31 PM
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Oh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:28 PM
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There's also an insane amount of women who get away with sexually assaulting grown men too. A friend once got blackout drunk and some girl raped him. I remember him mentioning to the whole friend group how he didn't want it, how he was blackout and couldn't stop her, he's basically describing rape and his friends all LAUGHED. So fucked up how assault on men just doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:24 PM
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As long as you're chill about it there's almost nowhere you can't approach. I have no problems being hit on in public, it's the guys who can't take rejection that give the bad rap to all public approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:21 PM
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Men who say that sort of stuff are revealing that they have never really valued women until they had a daughter. Only once they have a daughter do they realize how disrespectful his prior thoughts about women have been. Only when a woman is his offspring, thus a part of him, can he realize how often men hurt women. It's just the only way some close-minded men can sympathize with women. Edit to add: EVERY woman is a daughter btw lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:15 PM
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Compatibility creates chemistry. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:12 PM
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The thread in dating advice is making me so mad. Just a bunch of obese women in the comments shaming the man for being in touch with his natural appetite. Imagine if a woman posted this as a man forcing her to eat. https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vyzjpa/why_do_girls_pressure_me_into_eating_with_them/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:11 PM
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But Bonobos
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:22 PM
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I think it's a good way to weed out superficial men and also to seem more available to desperate men. There was an okcupid study that showed how moderately good looking women were approached less than moderately good looking women with a "flaw" like tattoos, a big nose, or something else they think means other men aren't approaching her and they have a better chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:20 PM
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You don't have to fake orgasms for men to think you've faked one. I genuinely enjoy sex despite usually not coming from it, but I make a lot of sound when it's good. I don't try to, it just happens. Guys meanwhile generally only let out 1 moan ever (sad face for me) and it's when they come. Also I don't give a shit if men think I'm dumb. They already do all the time and I'm sure any woman in a male dominated field knows this. I'm a professional in my field but frequently customers will ask me a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:16 PM
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Yeah but wouldn't she have a majority male audience? This is in context with her being a "thot" so she's likely a user who is posting sexy poses/dances/shots that show off her body or looks. I'm sorry but unless she's talking about something intelligent over that bullshit, as a woman I'm not watching tiktok softcore porn. If she had substance she likely wouldn't be in the tiktok thot category.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:28 PM
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Thanks for your input! It's actually wild how many men can't understand that "looks aren't the most important trait there's more to attraction" is NOT the same as "women don't even care what a dude looks like" they're all attacking a strawman and you're over here like when did I say any of that? I can barely believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:16 PM
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Cue his next post "why do women get mad when you tell them what they think??? It's only reasonable I am all knowing!"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:13 PM
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Yeah, why would they?? Give me a logical response please
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 04:13 AM
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WHO CARES if people have less children??? Human population is still rising and our planet is having an ecological crisis, our population and behavior has literally caused the 6th mass extinction event. So what good would more babies be again???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:56 AM
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Would be the perfect solution if they weren't "damn savages" or whatever bs Trump said about brown immigrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:53 AM
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Absolute power corrupts absolutely. Most celebrities are fucked in the head from constantly being hyperanalyzed but also praised just for looking good or being in a movie. I think obscene wealth and other forms of power make the world so different for someone, that it breaks their brain. I'm not forgiving the evils of the powerful but it's not like they were all evil from the get go. Everything they could ever want served on a diamond platter? These people start to think they're better than ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:40 AM
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Oh shit I didn't know it was okay to cheat in monogamy! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:50 PM
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I can't think of a reason so I'll just sleep with the bad ones I can get, thanks for your concern though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:22 PM
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Genetic analysis has found that most birds are not actually monogamous, they are usually "cheating" with other birds while still relying on their mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:03 PM
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It basically means non exclusivity. I imagine all people do it differently. I'm not monogamous because the Renaissance man is dead (or more likely already married). I have yet to find a man who can meet all my needs. I don't need variety of men, I need variety in men. If one man could be physically attractive, emotionally supportive, intellectually stimulating, good sense of humor and good in bed I'd marry him and never look at another man. I'm probably not going to be as lucky, but I can still …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:00 PM
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Some subreddits are just horrible loops. There will be a bunch of the same posts peppered with "I'm so sick of this subreddit with all these types of posts" and then rinse and repeat. There's a personality subreddit I frequent that is a loop of people saying "you're not actually this personality type" and then posts declaring "you can't know my type just by my comments stop shaming this type" and then the "why all the hate for our type??" posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:45 PM
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Is that even a thing? What women think that? Pretty sure there's a billion dollar cosmetics industry based on how insecure women are about looking old. I've spent hundreds on face creams despite guys on tinder not believing I was over 18 when I was 26. I do not think I look young. Where are these hypothetical women you speak of?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:37 PM
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"College isn't a scam!" 5 years later: Welcome to Starbucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:33 PM
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Most people hate being told their problems were preventable and that it's their fault. Like if I said it's your fault they got mad because you're calling them out. You're not a victim here, don't say hurtful truths to women and you won't receive hate!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:30 PM
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I love the way you write! Your points are always so excellent seriously just thank you for being here and being you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:54 PM
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Yeah that was pretty obvious from the get go. Just because one man is mean (you calling me unempathetic) I don't discard all men as evil. I have a wonderful, kind, generous father, awesome brothers, and a great boyfriend. I get along great with my male coworkers. Maybe you could try giving some of that same empathy to women. Probably pointless to try to explain this to you since you'll just discount my experience/opinion because I'm a woman, but I actually feel for incels, I was involuntarily ce…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:52 PM
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Bro you just said women think men are evil, what did you expect? I fucking love men!! But not you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:54 PM
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As a woman I don't think most incels are evil, just kind of sad and lost. I pity them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:30 PM
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Like most issues discussed on this subreddit, it's not that black and white. Some women may be looking for a man with "shit together" and as you can see in the comments people find this to mean many different things. Other women get pregnant at 16 and marry their shithead high school boyfriend. Other women have crazy high standards. I have also seen men even on Tinder very strictly looking for women with "their shit together". Go ahead and create a false dichotomy if it makes you feel better tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:36 PM
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Wait beauty makes a woman attractive? Wow, never heard that before lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:31 PM
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Sounds like a lazy ass excuse to me! Get off your ass and work! ;p Edit to add: I have no idea what casual in Australia means
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:56 AM
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There are certain flaws or behaviors that as a young woman I either couldn't notice or ignored. Eventually you notice their shit pattern and realize you're sick of it. Then when you meet new men, you can see the pattern before getting involved. I'd also add as an older woman, young guys are often more easily impressed. A lot of them barely know how attractive they are, they often still find love special instead of being jaded, and they generally are more open and chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:57 AM
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What do you mean by hamstering? Never heard that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:38 AM
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Aw, unexpected wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:04 AM
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Only time being hit on is a bad experience for me is when the man refuses to end it after I've rejected him. Honestly the compliments are nice. When it slips into harassment, not nice at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:42 AM
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No u :p
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:19 AM
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Don't you remember that YouTube video where random people were interviewed and all the men said yes to the question "are you sexually attracted to your female friends?" He's down to fuck. Might ruin your friendship though so beware.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:18 AM
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Can you name one television show or movie where an ugly girl gets the hot guy? I mean actually ugly, not a 9/10 actress with glasses on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:14 AM
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Stop putting pussy on a pedestal. It does no good and there's no point. I'd bet good money if you did sleep with that girl, you'd be bored of her once post nut clarity hit. What would you gain? A five minute memory? She could be disappointed with your performance or be crazy or mean. No matter how hot a girl is, someone somewhere is sick of her shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:58 AM
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I agree, but I also can see why people try to quantify and math out of this problem. It's easier to have something simple to blame your failures on. As a younger woman I did the same thing a lot of young men often posting here now are doing - I blamed all of my failure on "being ugly" because the alternative (truth) was much more messy. I was so torn up by the unknown, would I ever even get to experience love? It was easier to just write it off and stop the longing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:52 PM
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Just because a woman smiles at you doesn't mean she wants to fuck... Still don't believe your story
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:12 PM
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Meanwhile the importance of a sexually successful woman caring about her standards?? Oh wait no one sees it as important, instead they attack women for having too high of standards. Good job defending those already in power though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:11 PM
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If I did I would consider them beyond hope and I would never post here again. Instead I just think they're lost souls, people misguided by misconceptions. "They" actually call me disgusting because I enjoy my active sex life, so who thinks low of who?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:02 PM
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My boyfriend laughed very hard at a meme that basically implied he spends more effort picking what show to watch while high than a girlfriend. However I have also found he actually is very picky about women and is quick to call many women I thought were beautiful ugly. So I think while men don't necessarily "pick" their girlfriends with a lot of effort, they still can and do have high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:12 PM
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It's the weekend, the sex-less men are on the internet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:03 PM
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Because the men on this subreddit get laid so infrequently that they can have their ego destroyed by the fact that someone who fucked them also fucked someone else. They are ultimately very jealous that women can sleep around easily, and if they had the looks for it I guarantee you they'd be sleeping around instead of writing comments on Reddit complaining about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:59 PM
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Seriously, can't tell you how many men good looking men sabotage themselves. Only 3 photos of face selfies all from the same blow job angle, only photos where he's in a group, only photos of his abs then his bulge, excessive photos of his car, photos that are clearly hiding something (such as only face shots to hide obesity, only closed mouth photos to hide bad teeth, all hat photos to hide baldness), and to top it off a lot of guys just say "ask me" in their bio as they couldn't think of a sing…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:22 PM
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It wasn't very fun when I brought a man I'd been dating home and he went psychotic and wouldn't leave. Your post basically sounds like you want mommy to pat your head and say "oh poor little baby is having a hard time!! Noo everything should be easy for my lil bb!!" Anyone in this subreddit is well aware of how horribly hard and awful men find dating... Unfortunately there is no other option, this is the cost of entry. So?...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:37 PM
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Hinge already limits number of swipes for everyone, you can only send 10 likes a day. It definitely helps interactions feel more special, but if an app limited the amount of rejections I could give out I would not use it. Considering how men outnumber women on dating apps, basically there's a lot more I have to weed through and if I only get 9 left swipes I'll be closing the app in 3 minutes, and dating apps are desperate for women to stay on them...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:28 PM
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Not a single man has proved me wrong?? If I had fully explained my youthful dreamy expectations of grand romance and seduction, you'd be arguing the other way that women's standards are too high and that I'm hypergamist. Being in check with realistic expectations is not settling, but ok if the idea of women settling gives you hope then good!! Women do settle it's true!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:13 PM
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Ok??? I've been the non-option for many years when I was overweight it wouldn't be a new experience. I'm different from most in this subreddit though in that I think there are many more important things in life to feel fulfilled than dating a hot person. When I was young though I was overly obsessed with getting a boyfriend so I understand how ya'll feel. Later I realized I had over idealized relationships completely because I was just naive about the human experience. I kinda had to live and le…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:19 PM
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Because I still talk and socialize with the unfuckables. They're still humans you don't need to completely doorslam and ignore anyone who isn't hot enough to sleep with lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:14 PM
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Casual stuff is easy, although the guy has to be attractive and not just looks. A good personality/vibe is important to me for chemistry during sex even if there's no attachment. Like, I want someone who is going to be fun/exciting in bed. They don't have to be smart or make good life choices. They don't even have to be that great to talk to. To be relationship worthy, I want a guy that has similar goals/values as well as someone to talk to. Spending time with them should be a net positive. Thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:02 AM
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I've only gotten hotter in my 30s and am still fucking guys in their early 20s with abs so I don't think you've got me pegged right as my looks OR my standards dropping off... The man I'm with right now is gorgeous. I'm just not entirely shallow. You may not understand finding personality/humor/charisma as a part of sex appeal, but when your testosterone drops in your mid to late life and other hormonal changes that happen to older men, it's been found they often gain a bit more empathy. No hate…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:27 AM
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Yeah I mean I'm basically anti marriage so I'm not arguing with that. No one is forcing men not to go to college though. When I had mental health issues I lost friends because it was my responsibility to take care of it. No one is going to excuse you from taking care of yourself, man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:10 AM
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I'd say a certified electrician/plumber is smarter and richer than the average person with a Bachelor's considering universities say "follow your dreams!" then people get English degrees and end up working at Starbucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:59 PM
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Men can also go to college and initiate divorce, no one is stopping them. Just because they're sitting on the couch instead doesn't mean men are getting left behind. Women are only just this century getting the right to be self sufficient, for a lot of human history men have STOPPED women from being educated or owning property. I think all Americans can understand not wanting to have to completely rely on another human to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:55 PM
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There's more to relationships than looks. When I was young I dated the hottest guys I could, only to have them be cruel or cheat, lie or straight up abuse me. Not all of them, but some. Now when a guy who isn't the hottest asks me out but they seem like they have good values or a good personality, I will give them a chance and I have been in years long relationships with "unattractive" men by OP's standards. I would never lie and say looks don't matter at all, so OP is basically using a strawman…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:01 PM
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I hope you are never actually raped one day, for you will suffer and also realize how insulting/naive you sound now as well comparing a legal process to being sexually assaulted. Go move to Saudi Arabia if you want to own a woman. Divorce is not rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:46 PM
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How can someone be divorce raped? Unlike sex, divorce does NOT require both sides to consent. Rape can not apply for this scenario unless you believe that the woman can't leave her marriage unless the man approves it??? How is that okay???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:28 PM
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Yeah men really sit around and think looks are the main thing women care about when it's maybe that way with a select population of women (like all people, some happen to be shallow and superficial). Then I talk about how I've been attracted to ugly men for their personality and men on here don't believe it or say "ok well you're a wild exception" while television shows basically always have a fat husband and a banging wife. Maybe they'll listen if a man posts it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:22 AM
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Yeah but she will when she's still 40 with no gray hair and he's over the hill. Most men when they hit 60 start looking VERY old and can have serious health issues or just mild ones like baldness and being overweight. Imagine dating a grandparent in your 40s. Don't know who would be into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:08 PM
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I mean younger girls are probably the only ones naive enough to not notice a very unattractive, jaded, entitled, rude personality that a bitter red pill man often has, so it makes sense when old men want young women who are too inexperienced to see the signs and too worried about "being nice" to tell an old man he's dumb and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:02 PM
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All he said was he gets attention, which could mean as little as "she looked at me." Had an older friend once who kissed me out of the blue, I said no wtf and backed away, and he goes "cmon I can see you really want it you're so into me." I was just a little tipsy and having a good time with him, but the fact that I made eye contact and was smiling he read as "she's so into me." I thought he was a smart guy before that. He was so unaware of how I actually felt and I often imagine he's one of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:54 PM
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He's like "well I went clubbing for 6 months and didn't meet my soul mate ugh better just hire a prostitute." He thinks he hates dating but what he considers dating is cold approaches in a club. Brazilians are a trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:37 PM
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I personally agree that all social interactions boil down to this: people remember how you make them feel more than what you actually did/said. Some guys can make really mean jokes, but their tone/attitude can make it feel like it's not mean. Other guys will try to make a mean joke and it can really hurt my feelings. However it's very hard to control how you make someone feel because it has to do with how the other person perceives things. Like others have said, some people enjoy bad treatment o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:06 PM
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Ok but how do you know the genetics of all women? How do you explain populations of men that have small dicks? If it was really selected for then wouldn't all races have large members? Just because something looks good doesn't mean it's better. The pain I've received from large dick guys has driven me away from further encounters with them. Imagine crying for half an hour after sex and then you think I want to repeat that? Good thing you're here to tell me my own thoughts and feelings because ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:55 PM
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Yeah genetically I just love a bruised cervix, but I deny it because I really care how small dick men feel. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:48 PM
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This should really be higher up in all of these discussions, except these discussions are not usually about actual solutions. Men are literally complaining about not having an option that they (depending where they live) ALREADY HAVE....????
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:40 PM
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If you can acknowledge that other people have their preferences change but you just "can't wrap your head around it" how is this even an argument or proof? You're basically saying "other people experience this thing but because I don't experience it, it doesn't exist." Your personal experience is not proof to say that "no one's preferences ever change."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:18 PM
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If you're in the dating world, then you're blessed to be so unaware of catfishing. How is not showing your teeth not hiding something about your appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:53 PM
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Ok sure, but you clearly haven't been catfished by someone with fucked up teeth. I don't have time to waste on first dates with people I'm unattracted to. It's also unattractive for men to obsess as much as anyone on this forum does about dating too, so you can just write off my perspective completely. Enjoy your statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:22 PM
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Ok sure make your main pic sultry if that's hotter that's fine, but if you have NO pictures of a single smile I actually swipe left because I don't have time to investigate the man who is hiding something from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:44 PM
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Things like only face shots to hide an overweight body, always wearing hats to hide a bald head, or the most common is the guy puts no smiling pictures. It's hard to accurately represent yourself when you're clearly insecure about something. There was a dating thread the other day where a guy asked for critique on his profile. He wasn't even bad looking but literally said "I have no photos of my smile because I think it's ugly" and then his smile wasn't even bad? Meanwhile I've been catfished en…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:31 PM
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Yeah, so maybe chill with the "all women are X" statements?? Basically 100% of my anger with red pill stuff comes from the sweeping all knowing generalizations they make about women. For example, all men cry "not all men" and then they turn around and say "ok but all women do this". If this statement makes you feel bad it's probably because I'm overgeneralizing.... See the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:17 PM
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So if I love a low status man am I no longer a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:23 PM
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Meanwhile I'm out here falling for broke/low status men all the time... Omg guess I'm not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:22 PM
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As a woman, yes!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:29 AM
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I would not abort a baby that I was planning to raise with the father... What?... When a woman gets an abortion it's often because having/raising a child is the challenge, not being pregnant for a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:25 PM
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It's easy if you know to ask, but I was depressed for 6 years while visiting doctors regularly and didn't get much advice besides "exercise and eat healthy things like fruit and yogurt." After years I went to an excellent doctor who informed me that the way I was feeling was not normal and I got a small dose of antidepressants for a couple of years and it completely changed my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:53 PM
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It's more like 80% of the men involved in shootings have exhibited aggression or hate towards women prior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 06:48 PM
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I think a lot of them do fake it, and it's to their detriment ultimately. My boyfriend once said to me "I don't want to fake it with girls anymore. I'm done." He's never been very affectionate, but he is kind in his own way. He may have narcissist traits himself, his ex sure accused him of it. I still really enjoy spending time with him though and he doesn't have to put on some romantic facade.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 05:56 AM
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So what
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 04:52 PM
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Maybe you could have asked a clarifying question instead of assuming she's esl and deciding that's not worth your time. I've personally learned a lot from people in other countries and cultures maybe try learning something new.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:58 PM
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Women do initiate a lot more romantic encounters than they get credit for by making themselves open/inviting. If a woman maintains eye contact with and smiles at a man in public and then he approaches her, he still gets to be seen as the initiator yet she was really the one who started it. There is a huge amount of communication during social interactions that is nonverbal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:12 PM
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Ok but you didn't answer her question just insulted her?? Bro wut
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:04 PM
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30% is low considering how crazy religious and conservative a lot of the USA is. I live in California and I often forget if you drive into rural areas or Red states it's basically puritanical.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:50 PM
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How about this type of insanity instead: stop caring about getting hurt. Pleasure can only exist in contrast to pain, success is all the more sweet after failure. You can never know what the future may hold, good or bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:23 AM
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I actually agree that sex should be had early as I want to assess sexual compatibility too, I was just making a different point for this comment to try to explain why someone would chose not to have sex early. I think ultimately that's a personal thing and everyone should be allowed their own preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:21 AM
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Yeah they're usually better for me too. Most real relationships are a let down, boyfriends grow resentment over time and are annoyed by little things I do... Casual guys think I'm hot and fun and they don't care or even know about my flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:19 AM
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I personally don't think you can objectively quantify relationship value if that's what RMV is I'm not familiar with all the acronyms. If a man thinks a woman having multiple partners makes him lesser, I find that extremely unattractive but everyone is allowed their own preferences. As far as their value to me and me to them, in the case of one night stands I don't feel like either of us got a full sense of it. Those guys who only hang out with me a couple times probably don't know about all of …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:45 PM
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Somehow OP wants women to 1) not sleep with many guys but also 2) not be fickle and just date me even though we met 2 days ago and she doesn't like who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:08 PM
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Are you sure she lost interest because of something out of your control? You're calling women fickle for not falling for any guy that says a few words to her? Yet you'll discard a woman who has a high n count? So you want women to not be fickle but only to you? Have you ever tried to consider what your attractive traits might be? Do you have any? Being attractive in dating is not all about looks. If your viewpoints came out (such as earlier where you stated that women with lots of tattoos are wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:04 PM
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If you think men aren't ghosting women after sex on the regular, you have a lot to learn about the world of dating and how all sides experience it. Reddit does NOT regularly represent the actual truth of dating, it is the experience of heavily online people where usually the female opinion is also heavily discounted. So that's what they probably mean by sweet summer child.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 07:58 PM
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My experience has been that if a guy sticks around without sex, he at least actually likes me as a person. There's a lot to be said for having developed emotional intimacy and trust before sex. Many many women, myself included, have been ghosted immediately after the guy got sex despite emotional bonding that has happened, and it can make you a little gun shy to trust early again. At least with casual flings and one night stands both parties fully understand that there is no emotional attachment…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 07:32 PM
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You're saying there's no such thing as different women? Bro we're not a hivemind or a computer simulation wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:05 AM
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Because there are different women, and different women can be different from each other. Pretty crazy I have to repeat this so much on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:04 PM
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Seriously!! I say this a lot on here: when comparing groups based on things like sex or race, it's been shown that there is more variation within groups than between groups. The strongest man vs the weakest man would be a much bigger gap than the strongest man vs the strongest woman for a crude example. The amount of times men will write opinions on here and say "women hate me for saying this" while me, quietly, a woman, agrees...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:33 PM
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The rhythm method is only 76% effective at preventing pregnancy. Just use a condom ya'll.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:53 PM
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Seriously how has no one in the top comments mentioned condoms?? Men can completely have agency when it comes to unplanned pregnancy they just don't want to sacrifice a few minutes of pleasure for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:47 PM
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The man already had a say when he didn't wear a condom. If a man isn't emotionally or financially ready for pregnancy, he should wear a condom. If you want to make an excuse about condoms, then fine. Vasectomies are literally reversible and very minor procedures, especially compared to any kind of physical procedure abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:46 PM
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Uhh make up for what being unattractive? Those are not really qualities I find myself attracted to. Experience can be a pro but it can also be a con depending on the guy. Guys who have slept around a lot (or watched too much porn) are less likely to be impressed by me, whereas guys who haven't tend to have more genuine arousal and desire for me. My obese boyfriend worshipped me, was obsessed with my body, wanted to lick every part and found my pleasure arousing. I've also slept with "hot" guys a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:20 PM
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Yep, one of my longest relationships was with an obese guy who was very funny, charming, and affectionate. I was attracted to him in spite of his looks due to his sparkly personality. Many people gave me a hard time on why I would date someone "like that" because I'm a normal weight, decently cute girl. Long term we weren't compatible but I had a good couple of years with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:52 PM
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Honestly just directly. If they can accept if I say no, I've never had a problem being approached in public and usually take it as a compliment. It can be simple too, just saying hey I'd love to take you out sometime. I personally look for guys who are smart/funny. I'm a big fan or wit and charisma. Good looks help but one of my longest relationships was with an obese guy who was very funny and charming. People who can actually make me laugh are essentially always hot to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:48 PM
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Idealized? I really stripped it down to the pure biology just to talk about the differences of men and women. How is tribe cohesion going to work if all your women are basically slaves/captives? Rape certainly happened, but I think most reproduction was consensual. Rape based animals like chimpanzees actually have different physiology like significantly larger testicles for sperm competition. Humans are slightly more related to Bonobos which are matriarchal societies with lots of casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:30 PM
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Smart women are asexual or lesbian?? Man's self esteem may just be in hell if they think that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:44 AM
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Biologically when you look at reproduction, men have a low investment and women have a high investment and high risk. There's no immediate physical risk for a man to ejaculate. Until recent times, pregnancy was a huge health risk. I don't know statistics but many women would die in childbirth. Then if you do survive you still have the only biology made to feed your baby for its first months. So even in a tribe with mutual childcare the investment and risk is much higher for the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:17 AM
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That's the whole problem. The way you feel is not reality. Real people will always surprise you, sometimes in worse ways, but you can't just speak for a whole sex like that. There is more variation within a group than between groups - this has been shown for a lot of traits like race and gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:20 AM
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Yep. There is more variation within groups than between groups. It's genuinely sad how man vs woman this subreddit is. Sad how many people think half of the population (men or women) can be of a single mind about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:38 PM
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You know what actually offends me as a woman is when people speak for me. For example, if a guy said he approached 4 girls and was rejected 4 times I would also say that's life and rejection is part of the game. You're sitting here thinking all women think one way. That's what's infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:35 PM
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No. I'd argue men have it easier bulking due to testosterone. Just because women aren't building a masculine shape doesn't mean they aren't trying to build muscle. Check out r/StrongCurves
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:52 PM
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No, because men can easily rape women, shitheads and their shit genetics live on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:43 PM
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Don't you know the ass is mostly muscle and girls care to build it? You're clueless bro
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:38 PM
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What country are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:35 PM
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Literally no one in real life has ever slut shamed me. Just sad sad people online.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:34 PM
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Yeah and as a total whore I've had lots of men wanting to settle down and have babies with me! Weird almost like your whole point is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:29 PM
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Thankfully, you've made yourself completely unattractive on your own! No worries dude!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:25 PM
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I don't think anyone is denying that men on Reddit have these opinions - what people try to teach you is that most normal people are not here on these forums arguing about dating. As a total slut who has been in many relationships, only on Reddit do men actually complain about this shit. Real men actually have a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:23 PM
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Any man who thinks I'm "ruined" because I got laid more than them should frankly not be reproducing anyways. I do not think your traits deserve to be passed on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:15 PM
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Omg literally everyday you have men justifying why it's okay they don't want to date women they call sluts. Congrats dude go marry a virgin nobody cares!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:10 PM
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As a woman please help sir, what are muscles? Gee golly I'm so confused even though I find men sexy and constantly study their form I have no idea if they're muscular!! Gosh I wish I wasn't so dumb!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:01 PM
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Yeah but I'm saying when people call someone they only fuck a fwb they're using the term wrong. You have to actually be friends to have a fwb. That means being nice to each other, which a lot of people don't get to have and it's a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:30 PM
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I think people conflate fwb with just "benefits." Fwb may seem like dating because you're friends, you hang out and do friend stuff, then you sleep together also. Guys who only want sex won't even try to be friendly and in my experience it's way worse. One guy I tried to text him just to chat and he said "I don't want to be friends." I've been horny in the past and had purely benefits with guys, we'd basically only talk to hook up. Guys literally didn't want to do anything but straight physical …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:58 AM
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I got told by almost everyone an ex of mine was way below my league, mostly because he was obese and I was normal weight. People would constantly ask me why I was with him. I could see that my parents and friends were disappointed with his looks. I brought him to a friend's gathering and they thought he was a homeless man who had wandered up. At the time though, he made me feel amazing and we had a great connection. He was charming and very generous. He complimented he and made me feel very spec…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:09 AM
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Aww don't be so pessimistic, I care about average guys!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:03 AM
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Wow okay I guess I'll just shut up because some old white men wrote it in a book!! Great point wow excellent debating
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:09 AM
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Did you miss how half the US basically said covid was fake, and then that masks were pointless? Since when did the public as a whole care/know about pathogens? Have you ever paid attention to how many men actually wash their hands in the bathroom?? There's more germs in the bottom of your kitchen sink than on a dick, relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:43 AM
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She can, but leaving your kid with its mother vs leaving your kid with some child care services is a very different feeling. I'd feel much more comfortable giving away my child to its father than to the foster care system which is notoriously shitty for the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:18 AM
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You basically can't let them phase you. It's childish but once you like them more, they have the power. So even if you do care, pretend that it doesn't bother you. You should still be kind, flirty, give them loving attention as you desire, but don't let yourself show that you "need" them. Guys want the fun without the pressure. Eventually once a guy is emotionally hooked to you, you can do things like ask for commitment or say I love you. If you do it before they're emotionally ready it usually …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:19 AM
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It's gonna happen. Especially if you actually want a relationship, once casual guys figure that out they will drop you like a hot potato. Look at it as them doing you a favor, you weren't compatible. Don't sleep with someone in a short time frame unless you're ready for it to be a one night stand. I found once I stopped giving a shit if they ghosted me, I actually had guys pursuing me more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:22 AM
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It's so cute when they try to debate with opinions isn't it? OP genuinely hasn't experience real life yet if he thinks ugly guys aren't snagging hot wives, I mean almost every sitcom stars a couple like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 07:30 PM
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Omg if people could just take this line "men would do the same if they could" and repeat it every time they want to complain how women handle having an abundance of options. Most men who complain about women (from their perspective of a slim dating pool) would behave exactly the same if they were in the women's shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:42 PM
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Yeah people hate it when you generalize. You new to Reddit? You think you can say something and it's true of half the population? Or did you mean to say "the women I try to date"? That's probably a more realistic group. I'm a woman with no hive, there's no other women/culture advising me about random men, I have to figure them out on my own. Wish I had a hivemind I could consult honestly, unfortunately that's not a universal thing for women. Try picking up girls not surrounded by friends? Idk yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:02 AM
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Ok as a woman just wondering how do I access the hivemind? Never experienced it it's just my mind in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:56 AM
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