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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Yes, this is sexual coercion.The thread is overflowing with either full or fantasizing rapists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 01:33 PM |
| 1 | What would you consider to be sexual coercion?Yes, that's the definition of it actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 01:31 PM |
| 1 | What would you consider to be sexual coercion?He absolutely does have an obligation to only do things she's comfortable with. That's what a non rapist does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 01:29 PM |
| 45 | He wants a “100% independent woman” but matches with 18 year olds."I can't show my face" = cheater. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 04:08 AM |
| 25 | What are your biggest pet peeves from men’s OLD profiles?Oh yeah, then when you say I have a pic you can see it they say but it's from like September that's an old pic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me or is this really rude? I sent him a study I found interesting about how gender plays out in school and he answers with this lol. Context: it's the first study I've ever sent him and we were talking normally up until this point. I never talk about feminist issues with him.I am not. Stop barking orders. Jesus Christ. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 11:51 PM |
| -1 | Is it just me or is this really rude? I sent him a study I found interesting about how gender plays out in school and he answers with this lol. Context: it's the first study I've ever sent him and we were talking normally up until this point. I never talk about feminist issues with him.I don't agree with that, but I am burned out from work and that's the only thing I am picking up here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 11:48 PM |
| 6 | Is it just me or is this really rude? I sent him a study I found interesting about how gender plays out in school and he answers with this lol. Context: it's the first study I've ever sent him and we were talking normally up until this point. I never talk about feminist issues with him.I think he sounds like a guy in very early teens from this text, not very wise or patient. Definitely not to be dated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 11:47 PM |
| -1 | Is it just me or is this really rude? I sent him a study I found interesting about how gender plays out in school and he answers with this lol. Context: it's the first study I've ever sent him and we were talking normally up until this point. I never talk about feminist issues with him.That's burnout. It will happen to you too. For all you know they could both be guys or both girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 11:46 PM |
| -4 | Is it just me or is this really rude? I sent him a study I found interesting about how gender plays out in school and he answers with this lol. Context: it's the first study I've ever sent him and we were talking normally up until this point. I never talk about feminist issues with him.It's not about male sympathy. It's about how sometimes people are done with activism. It can/has/will happen yo you too. People can just say "I can't do this anymore, it hurts my mental health, please abstain in the future". That's how I am reading it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 11:41 PM |
| -7 | Is it just me or is this really rude? I sent him a study I found interesting about how gender plays out in school and he answers with this lol. Context: it's the first study I've ever sent him and we were talking normally up until this point. I never talk about feminist issues with him.I explained which part is fine and which is not. You could try reading it non combatively. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 11:39 PM |
| -1 | Is it just me or is this really rude? I sent him a study I found interesting about how gender plays out in school and he answers with this lol. Context: it's the first study I've ever sent him and we were talking normally up until this point. I never talk about feminist issues with him.Yeah he's rude, but I have been in that mental state where you just can't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 11:38 PM |
| -15 | Is it just me or is this really rude? I sent him a study I found interesting about how gender plays out in school and he answers with this lol. Context: it's the first study I've ever sent him and we were talking normally up until this point. I never talk about feminist issues with him.I think this is fine. However if you're the kind of person who reads studies and he is not, you're probably not compatible. People can choose to sometimes distance themselves from political debates, news, controversial topics for the sake of sanity though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 11:16 PM |
| 110 | What are your biggest pet peeves from men’s OLD profiles?If you want to know, ask ;) Picture will be sent upon request ;) No drama! Looking for something real if we click Feeeeemales Nuce guy My little pony Joker High standards while looking like a potato I need a woman who is heeeealthy and takes caaare of herseeeelf Trump Will fill this out later Am in your city until x date let's do something fun Profile in Japanese | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 11:08 PM |
| 42 | This poor woman who is asking if she is the ahole for being a gf for 12 years and the commenters telling her to propose to himShe gave him two children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 10:35 PM |
| 14 | LVM’s complain about having to spend time away from their game and with theirs wives/families instead. Feel sorry for all the women on the other side of this putting in all the effort and emotional labour to make Christmas special for their families and partners.I got downvoted to heck for telling them that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 02:27 AM |
| 6 | Guy on OLD asked if I was trans ?Negging. Block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 01:59 AM |
| 28 | Find a partner that you can speak of so admirably. The way he looks at her makes me believe love exists.I see a dude old enough to be her dad. GC is rich LVM who spent his career curving marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 12:11 AM |
| 3 | I’m really tired of intros on OLD like “how are you?”, “what are you up to today?”..Excellent question. The good starter is related to the reason you want to write to her. Something that shows you have read the profile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Let me play a sad song for you on the world’s smallest violin :(Out of curiousity, which apps exist for the purpose of finding friends? I don't know of any. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 07:55 PM |
| 12 | When you let a man set the “precedent” of what you’ll accept in a relationship, this is your futureWanted to post it but you were faster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 06:33 AM |
| 8 | Why Doesn’t FDS Focus on Improving Physical Appearance? Do Looks Matter For Attracting a High Value Man?The society focuses on this thoroughly. We should not have to mention it as well. It's ingrained in women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 02:06 PM |
| 7 | How a HVW handles a date requestHigh value woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 06:09 PM |
| 2 | What are your dealbreakers?Weaboo or a brony. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 10:32 PM |
| 3 | What are your dealbreakers?What the actual fucc though, he deserves a human being lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 10:31 PM |
| 5 | I hate your country, give me sex for money, I know you're poor(Seen intensifies) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 10:23 PM |
| 34 | What are your dealbreakers?A Pickmechael. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 05:36 PM |
| 17 | What are your dealbreakers?It's possible to hate your parents for a very good reason. Many parents do horrible things to their kids, just because they can. The rest I totally agree with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 05:26 PM |
| 51 | What are your dealbreakers?OMG I hate thirst follows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 05:25 PM |
| 14 | What are your dealbreakers?First message just "Hi" or "hello" and nothing else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 05:22 PM |
| 58 | What are your dealbreakers?It's simple. Lots of MRAs and PUAs think that Asian women are the only real women, and submissive, and a good number does sex tourism to Asia. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 03:06 PM |
| 72 | What are your dealbreakers?-writes hi -doesn't play video games - I play, and I want a gamer, a strategic mind, who is able to beat me in a game or at least be equal to me. -sexist -grossed out by female body hair and periods -wants children (but ofc he will just do the kodak moments thanks) -is a devout Christian or muslim, I escaped religion and don't want more of it in my household -hates or strongly dislikes dogs -is in any way repelled by feminism -is proud to say he doesn't own any books -doesn't read online dating … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 01:29 PM |
| 37 | Should I entertain a date with this guy?Don't go. If a man wants a relationship, he will work on getting that. Sounds like he doesn't like you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 02:57 AM |
| 103 | Disney princesses of the past taught girls to be desperate to have ANY man in your life. Glad they are shaking things up a bit with Elsa!A complete oversimplification. Elsa is an emptiness instead of a character. She's a dress, hair and a song that ran away at the first sign of trouble and never went back of her own free will. Ariel cries because her father destroyed her entire room in one of the most violent animated scenes of that time. Snow White just survived an attempt of murder. Cinderella's clothes were torn off of her by her family. Aurora was told her whole life was a lie. Neither of them married a man they just met. HVW… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Guy with ED thinks it's "a lot to ask" when his gf asks him to wear a strap on. I comment "Asking someone to be sexually monogamous with you when you have ED is a lot to ask." Scrote loses his mind and calls out FDS. (Link in comments)You're probably one of the people who thinks locker room talk is unacceptable DUH! Who isn't? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 01:27 PM |
| 50 | Girl travels 40min to see her boyfriend. GETS GHOSTED. Don’t travel for men y’all. Make them come to you.I came to another country for a guy I really loved, and he ghosted me. I come from the third world, and the country I came to was rich. The money I had to spend ar every step to make it happen was the money I worked ridiculously long and hard for (12h a day every day, around dollar per hour or so). I spent the money to see him, and before that we were like spiritual twins, I could say. Don't travel to men. Let them do the work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 03:24 PM |
| 32 | May We All Have This Kind of ConfidenceHVW doesn't say she gives good head. That's a Pickmeisha behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Some men really do not realise how much male attention women get on a daily basis. This is my date's explanation why he was too pushy with getting physical and didn't respect my multiple "no"s. He really thinks complimenting a girl is enough for her to get all horny about him lol (after going dutch)"Why do you think you want that?" Miss me with that pseudo psychologist crap. The audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 03:16 PM |
| 8 | OLD profile red flags #1: "No Drama"When I see "no drama", I think "this man is really sexist". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 02:04 PM |
| 2 | May I suggest a different kind of HVM?Your dog knows if the person means you well, trust me. Dogs are naturally well attuned to people and love them nearly unconditionally, so if your dog doesn't like your man and shows it, something is up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 02:02 PM |
| 97 | r/AITA: Her Brother got a woman pregnant, then blocked her and refused to help pay for the abortion. His sister KICKED HIS DEADBEAT ASS THE FUCK OUT OF HER HOUSE for the audacity. Imagine if all women held their male relatives this accountable?🙌👑The guy had a BULLET DODGED PARTY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 11:21 AM |
| 23 | You deserve betterPorn is an industry with a body and divorce count. Is it worth it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 12:18 AM |
| 5 | Men on OLD who don't read profilesWell, not as such, but they do hold opinions that differentiate them as such, and they know it means them when someone says no sexists and racists. At the very least they say "this one is a snowflake, avoid". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 05:27 PM |
| 8 | Men on OLD who don't read profilesMy own profiles always show who I am as a person and what is important to me, my interests and often list what I really dislike, such as racism/sexism so that we don't waste each others' time. As long as it's done politely and not like people who are different from that are plebs I think it helps a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 04:53 PM |
| 28 | Men on OLD who don't read profilesHoly cricket this didn't even cross my mind, terrifying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Is Kristoff (Disney Dude from Frozen 1 & 2) the ultimate High Value Man?Kristoff is a niceguy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 02:13 PM |
| 3 | Why Do Men Ask "Where are you?" On Online DatingI unmatch as soon as they ask which part of the city. It's so creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 03:52 PM |
| 36 | Love is a beautiful thingHigh value gentleman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Need advice! What should I do if boyfriend of almost 3 years wants to "see where things go" in terms of marriage and kids?Do you really need to ask this? Gf of three years indeed. Where things go? Nowhere. If they were going to go, he would have appreciated you moving to another continent. He either proposes and it is so good you talk to friends for months about it or you leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 07:12 AM |
| 4 | What strategies and techniques helped you lose feelings for a man?Imagine the guy farting and taking shits. The horrific smells. The state of his man cave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 09:24 PM |
| 14 | Never let anybody let you feel guilty about not wanting to date people of the sеx you are not interested in!Gender is not a thing. It's a set of gender roles we ascribe to the sexes. It's completely imaginary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Pick me logic through the roofI saw it today and gagged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Imagine "Phasing out" items of clothing from you wardrobe because they're not what some dude prefersI was actually sort of forced to do the thing from the title | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Red pill guys "why dont girls pay attention to betas during their peak years!!??!!😥" also red pill guys "You should dump that girl who stuck by you during her peak years when you were beta because shes not pretty enough!"The comments - absolutely deplorable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, what is ur opinion on dating men with kids, when u don’t have any?They know they're undesirable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Men ask where I am early onWhen a man asks which part of the city I live in as like a second message he is getting blocked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 02:12 AM |
| 5 | I personally feel so ashamed that I ever judged Madonna for trying to dress or act 'young' for her age - and it's men that are so OUTRAGED and try to shame women that they can't be themselves past a certain age. If anyone can pull it off, it's Madonna.Madonna looks better than Lourdes, and she's like, granny age. There is no wall. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 02:33 PM |
| 1 | 🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮I had no idea who it was before reading the comments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 02:54 AM |
| 18 | Pet Peeve: "Men are visual creatures"Lol. Men are visual creatures, but which sex sees more colours? Bingo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 02:47 AM |
| 3 | A very common negging technique: Men "forgetting" your nameMaybe you should ask yourself why you're so sensitive. ;) I love yoooou. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 07:53 PM |
| 9 | Almost 40 years-old and doesn’t think she’s entitled to orgasms with sex. DUMP HIS ASS!"I am in a fabulous relationship with my boyfriend. " Naaaaaaaaaaaa h. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 05:41 PM |
| 11 | Anyone here childfree?100% childfree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 05:54 AM |
| 5 | A very common negging technique: Men "forgetting" your nameIt definitely was negging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 05:46 AM |
| 4 | A very common negging technique: Men "forgetting" your nameThat's awfully touchy, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 05:45 AM |
| 12 | “You pass lookswise...” Gotta love dating apps!"You don't pass though, but I was willing to give you a chance to see what your personality is like. It's now a hard pass" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 02:10 AM |
| 4 | Asshole waits an entire decade to embarrass a girl from HS ... AFTER HE FUCKED HERit was 50:50 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 02:09 AM |
| 8 | Leave them on read if they’re not going to make any effort at all. Don’t settle for “Netflix and Chill”If I were you, I wouldn't pursue this further. And I would tell him why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 02:07 AM |
| 25 | Reclaim Your Sex Life #KickHimOut2020Amazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 02:05 AM |
| 6 | A very common negging technique: Men "forgetting" your nameI think it hurts women, but I don't think it works other than for replies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 01:56 AM |
| 7 | A very common negging technique: Men "forgetting" your nameMay I be honest? Bald Ass Bitch sounds like you care, a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 01:51 AM |
| 10 | A very common negging technique: Men "forgetting" your nameThat's totally different, it's only when they do it on purpose do they deserve it, also cheers for Henrietta Wigglesworth , how posh, how fresh :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 07:12 PM |
| 1 | A way to combat fuck boys sliding in your DMsI just checked, apparently it is not available in all countries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 07:09 PM |
| 8 | I really just need some encouragementHere's the thing hun. You're not perfect, nobody is, but that doesn't mean you don't deserve to be happy. And you can't be happy until you know that. You don't deserve to settle for someone who upsets you in any way, and I do see from your post that you greatly crave validation from men. The attention feels good, but you need to live the truth that you're a whole person, that you're a worthy person, otherwise you will settle for anyone who gives you crumbs of love. Under no circumstances go for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 07:00 PM |
| 30 | Say something nice about Alexandra and Keanu 💖She looks like a faerie queen of winter. She's a gorgeous woman. He's a good person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 06:47 PM |
| 13 | A way to combat fuck boys sliding in your DMsHow do you request money on messenger? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 05:28 PM |
| 6 | One reason never to get married... Gross man ejaculates into wife’s smoothie every dayAbsolutely do get married. Do you honestly think he did that because he's a husband? As a boyfriend he would have shat in the smoothie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Pickme-itisI don't see the connection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/19 02:27 PM |
| 3 | So what do you all think about the saying "men age like wine; women age like milk"?Men age like meat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/19 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Everything wrong about today’s males!!And their dicks don't work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/19 02:35 PM |
| 6 | Everything wrong about today’s males!!Lol. Male wall is way before 30, and they don't age like wine, they are like meat. Bald dadbods, meanwhile women stay goddesses throughout their life, take care of their skin and form and develop stylish closets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/19 02:33 PM |
| 29 | Male nature: posting random married couples on Reddit and shaming them.Mgtow is truly the sickest place devoid of all empathy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/19 02:40 PM |
| 10 | Isn't this like the female version of r/inceltears?Inceltears are incel haters, not incels. This sub tells women to not put up with shit. Which is only bad to a woman hater. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/19 11:06 AM |
| 1 | “Why do women only go for the top 10% of men? They always swipe left on the nice guys who would treat them better”Just Shaun. If you google his name, he's the top result. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/19 11:39 AM |
| 1 | “Why do women only go for the top 10% of men? They always swipe left on the nice guys who would treat them better”Why did you censor Shaun, he's a celebrity lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/19 01:57 AM |
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