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| 39 | I wonder why he wants to date someone 10 years younger than him…Agree, this guy’s a total pedo 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 08:41 AM |
| 28 | “How to Cure a Feminist...pretend to share her beliefs”, published in the Maxim magazine. Beware Ladies, vet the men claiming to be advocates.This article read as really dated. Then I saw it was published when I was in HS. Which is scary on a few levels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 03:51 AM |
| 8 | “How to Cure a Feminist...pretend to share her beliefs”, published in the Maxim magazine. Beware Ladies, vet the men claiming to be advocates.Truth spoken | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 03:50 AM |
| 4 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupSo much wrong with this, I don’t know where to start. $10000 for a wedding ring, even $6000 is not a lot divided over a lifetime. It’s not ANYONE, it’s the person you will be paired with for the rest of your life. If you’re not certain about that then maybe it would seem like a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 05:17 PM |
| 10 | The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However….Once I was (supposedly?) exclusively dating a guy for a few months. He talked frequently about a female colleague on a different coast who he saw when he traveled for work. Next time he got back from a business trip, he told me he shared a hotel room with her. I was a. Shocked. b. Pissed. c. so glad we never actually had sex. He justified it by saying, “well we’re sharing a room, not a BED.” Wtf? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 07:33 AM |
| 7 | The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However….Agreed. I don’t like sleeping at another person’s house. Unless it’s really late and I’m tired, there’s a sexual component, or both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Vetting strategy specifically for childfree womenA minor, reversible surgery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 03:14 AM |
| 18 | I’ve been wondering why so many unattractive scrotes are wandering into my dmsWhahahahha @ jack black’s uglier evil twin. He does sound evil tho. So sorry 😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 08:26 PM |
| 17 | I've also been compared to having "steak " every day and other objects that grow old or boringOnce a guy, trying to compliment my lady parts, told me mine was “fresh off the showroom floor.” Note I was not a virgin at the time...regardless, what a perverse comment. I wish I could forget it was ever said. It makes me imagine men selecting disembodied vaginas in vending machines or at trade shows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 08:26 PM |
| 15 | "dating for a free meal"Right? There’s no such thing as free when it comes to dinner with a guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 06:00 AM |
| 2 | Some more male delusionInteresting theory. I have met who I believe are some quality (HV) male teachers...speaking only as a student, I’ve met more inappropriate ones, also as a student. Also dated a professor (as a student) from a different part of the university; he had some issues. As someone who works in healthcare, the straight male nurses I’ve met are almost all a bunch of creeps and weirdos. I’d like to hear more on your theory. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 12:22 AM |
| 5 | Some more male delusionI would do this and also send back a text or email which says something like, “please only text me regarding urgent work matters. let’s keep communication professional and limited to email and at work.” That way there’s a record and it won’t be too hard to say because it’s through text. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 12:14 AM |
| 13 | Some more male delusionI know, what a gas lighter, right? “It was spontaneous...” it’s on tape, kiss raper. We all know these types. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 12:10 AM |
| 21 | How to not catch feelings for men and protect your heartYes! Mindy Kaling wrote something like, “the older I get, the less I care about who likes me and the more I care about who really knows me.” I feel this now more than ever. Especially when I look for a partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 11:58 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inThis is a new low... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-in“Kinkmeisha...” describes it perfectly. Working past this also after being single for 5 years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inSo much NO, that’s the only word I have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 08:21 PM |
| 2 | The ✨Perfect✨ WomanTHIS really creeps me out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | The ✨Perfect✨ WomanThey swipe right on everyone? Like to just increase their chances? UGH shudder disturbing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 08:16 PM |
| 2 | TELL YO DADDY WE DON'T CARE!!! I remember seeing this show a few years back and really really wanting to high five this boss babes!!I live in one of the largest coastal metropolitan areas in the US, so probably a bit later here. However HS pregnancies still happen here. According to CDC it’s about 26 and climbing :) can we post links? https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/databriefs/db232.pdf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 08:14 PM |
| 20 | TELL YO DADDY WE DON'T CARE!!! I remember seeing this show a few years back and really really wanting to high five this boss babes!!It’s still in the mid-20s in the US. That seems incredibly young to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 06:20 AM |
| 20 | TELL YO DADDY WE DON'T CARE!!! I remember seeing this show a few years back and really really wanting to high five this boss babes!!Same boat, sis. As if legally binding ourselves to them or burdening our lives and bodies with their offspring increases our value. This video made me smile :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 06:19 AM |
| 6 | “I cannot imagine another day where I do not strive for the absolute maximum of what I deserve.”❤️💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 06:16 AM |
| 114 | The ✨Perfect✨ WomanA client was telling me how great OLD was because her boyfriend was able to filter out all of the characteristics that led to her. In my mind that was horrifying. This seems about right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 06:07 AM |
| 14 | A trend I've noticed among LVM.Omg this. LVM to me: “wooooow...your hair is so dark and shiny.” Same LVM asked me once, near aghast: “you don’t dye your hair, do you!!!?” (I’m in my 30s and OCD level compulsive about not allowing any gray to show). Me, “Ummm...you don’t use viagra bc you can’t get it up due to all day porn abuse, do you?” 🤔 just sayin... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:58 AM |
| 4 | Should I leave my boyfriend for not being romantic?Ummm...yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 05:25 PM |
| 14 | Should I leave my boyfriend for not being romantic?Honestly, I’m getting upset just thinking about this. This dude gives you his family’s money. You give him your time, affection, and devotion 🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️ boy bye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 01:57 PM |
| 17 | Should I leave my boyfriend for not being romantic?At your age, I would argue a 7 year age gap is significant (it’s 33% of your life, girl!). A 7 year age gap may start to close in your 30s and 40s when both parties have established careers and similar past experiences. From a purely physiological standpoint your mind is still developing; you are peaking and at an incline. His mind is developed and his body is going to be declining soon. Also notice how I could tell right away that he was older? Men follow the same stupid patterns across time an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 01:55 PM |
| 20 | Should I leave my boyfriend for not being romantic?Oh, I just reread your reply. Saw that it said, “super nice in the beginning.” This is NEVER good. Raises flags about manipulation to get sex and get you comfortable. Then he shows you who he actually is, once your guard is down. Move on and get a bankroll if you can. I’m guessing you’ve more than earned it with emotional or actual labor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 01:39 PM |
| 10 | Should I leave my boyfriend for not being romantic?I’ll be honest, you sound super young or inexperienced or both. Is this guy a lot older than you? If so, a little money is probably an easy trade for him for your body, time, and the time of your youth. Case in point: women make anywhere from to 0.50 to 0.80 cents on the dollar compared to men, even with the same or less education and experience. TRUST ME when I say this from many experiences, your time is YOURS and you won’t get it back. Evaluate how you really want to spend it, your goals, wha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 01:35 PM |
| 12 | Do we look young for our age or is it the patriarchy?YES. Almost daily. It’s offensive and weird. Sometimes I head it off by saying my age. Sometimes i totally avoid discussing it at all. Age and appearance are transient. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 07:00 AM |
| 27 | Should I leave my boyfriend for not being romantic?Hey, I’d love a guy to pay my rent and student loans but seriously what are the other reasons you like him? Is it just the money? If so, that’s a financial arrangement, not a romantic partnership. What are you looking for in a relationship with a man? Financial support? Emotional support, companionship, mutual respect, shared interests and friends? Lastly, what makes him “good?” Is he morally upright? Does he make good life choices? Philanthropic? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 06:49 AM |
| 8 | Single dad “can’t make you the center of his world” yet.... can’t leave women alone. Four kids and two baby mamas, this guy is a catch! Leave women alone and raise your kids!“My poor me...can’t bring home [probably much younger women] to stick it in without condom and make more bb to complain about on interweb. Iz sAd.” —anHONESTgreatGuY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 06:41 AM |
| 62 | We all know the saying! If he wanted to...😻💕 smitten w this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 06:33 AM |
| 10 | Happy V-Day ladies! Fulfilling my dream of a rose petal bath & chocolate strawberries..Looks heavenly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 06:33 AM |
| 3 | When the tables are turned and she is comparing him to her own sex fantasies and habits no one is telling him he is insecure and jealous they are telling him she is gaslighting him and he should break up!It’s definitely this, been there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 04:36 AM |
| 4 | How disrespectful. Two mentions of sex in your pregnancy announcement.Ugh. Each time I reread this it gets more repulsive. “I put my peepee in you, now you are stuck birthing our offspring.” Maddening and sickening. 🤦🏻♀️🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 03:41 AM |
| 56 | I shoveled my neighbor’s steps today for Valentine’s Day. She’s another single lady with kids and this sub has taught me how important it is to help out other women. Tomorrow I’ll get her sidewalk cleaned off.SO KIND SO WONDERFUL. As someone who would likely never be able to physically shovel snow, I AM GRATEFUL FOR YOU!!!!!! 😻🥰💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 03:33 AM |
| 35 | So glad to see women actually standing up for themselves. No means no.“I’ll be gentle while fucking your just surgeried face.” Yeah, nope. Sounds like the kind of BS I tolerated in my 20s. Good for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 01:52 AM |
| 10 | Yesterday morning I closed on a house. Yesterday evening I was dumped via text. This is not a coincidence.That is ABSOLUTELY what happened. He’ll no doubt be back (they almost always come back), with problems for you to solve and owies for you to tend to. Good for you for seeing this for what it was! WAS being the key word 🔑👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 10:51 PM |
| 5 | Do men chase after women with specific occupations?One of the many downfalls of going into a traditionally female or traditionally caregiving roles (which are really one and the same). The last guy I dated actually asked me how much I made. Taken aback, I told him. He acted shocked. I have more or equal education and experience in my field than he in his, so I wasn’t sure why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 07:00 AM |
| 90 | As captioned on Twitter: what it’s like having sex with menMy ex told me sex was easier for women because all they do is “just lie there.” I told him it informed on his sexual performance. Beginning of the end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:53 AM |
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