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Celobrix/r/seduction07/03/20 05:34 PM
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ResourcesCelobrix/r/seduction08/06/20 03:24 PM
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Have fun!
/r/seduction22/10/20 02:07 PM
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It comes down to subtle indicators that you get better at interpreting and picking up on the more you are in the game. But also most college girls are not into a relationship haha
/r/seduction22/10/20 01:54 PM
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The fact that you are terrified is a great indicator that you are on the right path. Don’t look at numbers or reactions as a positive result. Look at what you are able to push yourself to do as a win, and the positive results will come :) :)
/r/seduction22/10/20 01:45 PM
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All of the above :) it does work man, but it ain’t easy
/r/seduction31/07/20 05:47 AM
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Agree with everything except the bit about Todd’s course. Been through so many pickup courses, and his is by far the best (The system) . It’s also worth torrenting his old text and date machine one...gave me so many gems for texting.
/r/seduction30/07/20 02:56 PM
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Hey man, lower your bar of success. If success for you is getting a woman to agree to a date, or have sex with you and you’re not there yet game-wise your brain will sabotage you and tell you to stop. If your success is have a positive interaction, or flirt a little bit in each one then your bar is lowered and you’ll get positive reference points each time.
/r/seduction30/07/20 02:54 PM
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The results from cold approach are not low at all haha. The girls I can get online vs. the girls I can get via cold approach are a world of difference. Can get close to 10’s through cold approach...not very consistently, but I’m working on it.
/r/seduction30/07/20 02:51 PM
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Solid advice. Mind if I pm you? Wouldn’t mind getting an experienced opinion on this situation
/r/seduction26/07/20 10:34 PM
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Some solid advice. I’d imagine that there’s no immediate quick-fix for this particular scenario is there?
/r/seduction26/07/20 10:10 PM
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Nice chart man, appreciate the effort you’ve put into this. This will certainly work at a newbie level, even intermediate but it will hamper your results if you want to go further for a few reasons. 1) You’re not giving her any indication of positive personality traits. She has to make a judgement call based on your appearance, tonality, and body language with no idea who you are. 2) You’re not making it man to woman. The conversation has no flirty undertones to set the stage of the interaction.…
/r/seduction22/07/20 05:36 AM
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Sure it’s likely...but it’s less likely. Lot of girls actually find it a turn off. If you scroll up there’s a link to a reddit post where someone asked that same question. Results were mixed, but a lot of girls expressed that it would kill the mood or be a turn off. A lot of girls stumble onto this sub and will say things like “As a woman I don’t see this working on me” or “I wouldn’t like that, therefore most women wouldn’t” without accounting for the fact that even though they are a woman, and…
/r/seduction27/06/20 11:27 PM
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Username checks out lol. I agree, consent is incredibly important. That’s why I make it a point to not try and kiss anyone who isn’t clearly very into me in that way. There has to be a lot of premise in the interaction and very clear signals for me to make a move to kiss a girl. It’s best to err on the side of caution as well. If you’re not sure, flirt a little more and find out. As for how it kills the mood, part of the excitement of two people courting is the “anticipation” or uncertainty of w…
/r/seduction27/06/20 09:29 PM
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“For me” is the key word here. If you read, I did state most girls not all :)
/r/seduction27/06/20 08:50 PM
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And some girls will walk away if they don’t get kissed on the first date. Like a lot of things, the answer is...it depends on the situation. Learn to read a girls body language; if there are enough signs, go for the kiss. If there aren’t then don’t
/r/seduction27/06/20 03:33 PM
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Appreciate the intention behind that, but for most girls that will kill the mood
/r/seduction27/06/20 03:30 PM
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Yeah bro, they built an 8 figure empire of courses and boot camps and they’ve never cold approached successfully ever. That makes total sense.
/r/seduction19/06/20 01:53 AM
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Who cares? I’m more interested in quality. Who gets the highest quality girls...that I’d like to know.
/r/seduction18/06/20 10:38 PM
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Easiest way to recover is to hit on some attraction switches without her realising it. If she has you on insta, chuck up some stories of you hanging out with attractive girls. Or snapchats of you doing fun things with attractive girls, if you can swing it. It’s hard to reignite it when she’s pulled away, so if you’re seeing her in 30 days I would opt on the side of caution and be more willing to let any communication between you too go silent in between now and then. Seduction is best done in pe…
/r/seduction18/06/20 10:37 PM
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These are all bandaid solutions. A girl doesn't need pills, or VR practice or blurry vision to socialize. And neither do you. You've just built it up in your head to be something huge which it's not. Lower your bar of success, and slowly desensitize yourself to things. Don't do all that weird shit man. It's not "specially" hard, and your feelings of anxiety are not "unique and special". We all feel uncomfortable (which is good because it means that most people won't do it!) but we push through i…
/r/seduction18/06/20 10:08 PM
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Terrible copy, 3/10. Actually no it’s not that bad, but you failed to read your audience.
/r/seduction18/06/20 06:33 PM
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I’m in Van, pm’ed
/r/seduction09/06/20 12:45 AM
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Nah, don’t Hail Mary it. Say “Ah cool. I was gonna say come over, I wanna watch xyz movie and could use some alright company. Raincheck!” Don’t give her a chance to say no. Wait a day or two, engage with something light like maybe a meme or some inside joke. Then randomly call her a day or two later and just say I was doing xyz and you randomly popped into my head. Talk, IF the vibes good then invite her again. IF you sense it’s not good, or it’s not quite good enough then have a laugh or two an…
/r/seduction09/06/20 12:23 AM
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This is a greeeat set haha
/r/seduction08/06/20 02:39 PM
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100% this! Only way to get better is practice, practice practice. The only thing I would add is that if you’re currently going to uni, don’t try cold approach on campus until you’re semi-decent at it. Girls talk, and last thing you want is to become that guy. Pickup or approaching is seemed as something lame, right up until you do it well. Then girls and guys alike will find it cool, and even give you props for it.
/r/seduction08/06/20 02:29 PM
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It’s called game, YouTube it. Kidding man but that’s a super broad question. It sounds like what your asking is; “How do I communicate interest/make it a man to woman interaction without making it glaringly obvious”. The quickest answer I have is go look up on YouTube for “Todd V - premise”. Essentially you communicate to her that there’s a potential position available with you as girlfriend/fuckbuddy etc., but she hasn’t necessarily won that yet. Basically you subcomminicate that you’re a man, …
/r/seduction06/06/20 06:34 AM
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He’s not insane lol. He’ll figure it out really quickly at this rate. In daygame you’re not going to get many signals to approach, it just doesn’t happen. You can however make something from nothing.
/r/seduction04/06/20 06:42 PM
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Well yes, doing actual travel will help with your overall game when travelling lol
/r/seduction23/05/20 05:28 PM
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Did you say middle age? Then, you’ve got years and years of time haha. How long do you think it takes to learn a skill that’s useful or effective? Like 6 months, max. Also I’m talking about passions or hobbies, things you like to do because you LIKE TO DO THEM. This may coincide with things that are useful, or effective or bring some other benefit to your life like working out, or having a side hustle, or pickup. But c’mon man, you’re saying you don’t have anything except being fun in the moment…
/r/seduction20/05/20 02:24 PM
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I think...we’re kind of talking about the same thing. Passion about something does wax and wane, but that’s because people change. If you’re a driven person your passions may change, but your drive does not. Does that make sense? Having something you’re really passionate about, and putting in effort in that area is a shortcut to the energy you’re speaking about.
/r/seduction19/05/20 08:44 PM
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You’re in a much better mood when travelling so that helps Other travellers are too, so it’s easier Overall it depends what definition of game you’re speaking about. Are you speaking about your overall game as an attractive man? Yes for me. Your ability to figure out new situations, navigate, speak different languages and the cumulative collection of experiences hooking up with hot foreign women definitely adds up.
/r/seduction19/05/20 06:29 PM
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Just get better at giving and receiving NON-VERBAL SIGNALS my man. As much as you have to really pay attention and make sure that you’re not doing anything that makes anyone uncomfortable, verbalising everything and asking permission can be a huge mood killer as you’ve detailed. If you’re making out with a girl, and you put your hand on her ribs just below her breasts and she seems really into it, and you’re in a private setting (that’s important. Don’t escalate in public) it’s probably pretty l…
/r/seduction19/05/20 06:24 PM
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Actually, to disagree with a lot of the probably well meaning dudes on this thread, OP’s advice is completely sound. The only thing missing I would say is in addition to the advise to be a little more choosy about who you approach, is to also screen and qualify the people you approach. Is the girl your speaking to cool, have a good vibe, does she have hobbies, is she kind, empathetic etc. If you’re into that, does she cook, is she sexually free, is she ALSO selective about who she sleeps with? A…
/r/seduction19/05/20 06:12 PM
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I feel you man, 100%. It’s kind of the chicken and the egg scenario. What comes first, skills or self-esteem/confidence? The answer is neither. As your self-esteem/confidence rises, your skill with women will be easier because it will all flow from a better place. As your skills rise your results do too, and so your confidence does. A lot of guys ARE super desperate and go against all the good advice. They’ll continue to get worse. You’re absolutely right. The only thing I’d suggest is don’t fal…
/r/seduction19/05/20 05:59 PM
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So here’s the paradox. If you ask them whilst sober, in front of friends, they’ll all say of course I want a condom. But when a girl sleeps with a guy a large part of that is her submitting to him leading the interaction (for the most part. Exceptions, not rules. Don’t be a dick and make something out of this). So if you don’t grab a condom, she may not say anything because she thinks that’s what you want and she’s going along with it. You’re the man in the scenario bro. Lead correctly, don’t be…
/r/seduction19/05/20 05:53 PM
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Don’t give up bro! I used to suuuuuck at text game. Now I’m pretty good. Used to have all the issues you had. Biggest tips: Have a busy life, and DONT live on your phone constantly texting back. Even if you vary the time between texts, you still won’t come across well because you’re trying to artificially respond later. I turn my notifications off on my snapchat, and occasionally my insta etc. Be a busy guy! Don’t be a texting buddy. The guy she texts for three weeks straight is the guy that it …
/r/seduction19/05/20 05:48 PM
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Girls chase.com is pretty solid. Chase’s articles are 95% top stuff. The other guys are okay...a lot of recycled stuff Forums are dece
/r/seduction19/05/20 05:37 PM
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I mean, it’s not going to INCREASE your chances. But you can still do it for sure. Don’t overthink it, just do it a few times and see what happens!
/r/seduction19/05/20 05:36 PM
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This kind of advice is dangerous man. You’re basically saying “You don’t NEED to do this, you can create the same effect by being happy animated and fun” As in, you don’t need to have passions or hobbies, you can just artificially create excitement. Which IS true, but it’s not exactly healthy. Thing is, all this is so much easier by having stuff that you are GENUINELY passionate about. When you genuinely love something, you’re compelled to speak about it anyways and this shines through. So why n…
/r/seduction19/05/20 05:34 PM
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Depends on what your relationship was. Prolly a little weird, I wouldn’t do that. I’d say something like “you know it’s so crazy, I was just doing xyz and I thought of you. Do you remember when etc.?” If you go straight for the snap it’s a lil thirsty. Reign it in boy, have a little convo first before you dive in
/r/seduction19/05/20 05:28 PM
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So little it doesn’t matter. At all. Stop overthinking dude, just go meet her
/r/seduction19/05/20 05:23 PM
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Sounds like good advice. Looks like good advice. But careful, your mileage may vary.
/r/seduction19/05/20 05:17 PM
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I think the problem stems from the fact that people who consume this stuff are generally in that category of nice guy/simp etc. No one who is satisfied with their dating life is actively posting/reading this sub, so naturally you’re gonna get posts by those kind of people. A lot of this stuff DOES work, I’ve had plenty of success myself and have several friends who have as well. But it’s not easy, and it’s really hard to learn just from reading. Reading’s not going to teach you how to pickup on …
/r/seduction19/05/20 05:06 PM
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Depends what you want out of life man. I’ve had all of the above and had a rubbish sex life before. I know plenty of guys who tick all the above boxes. I’ve known millionaires who couldn’t get laid. My advice is don’t skip game, do it at the same time. Focus on your career if you want but if women are important to you don’t fool yourself that you should neglect learning how to actually interact with them :)
/r/seduction08/05/20 06:48 PM
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Nah, I overthink too. Exposure and small goals is the answer. Spend a lot of time in social situations and you get used to it. Set small goals like tease someone, have a deep conversation, create a friend group etc. You can’t outthink socialising, but you can totally get comfortable through exposure.
/r/seduction08/05/20 06:38 PM
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Yes and no. Getting women is a skill set, which while is helped by having your own shit together, they don’t necessarily correlate. Plenty of super successful guys who cannot get women, and plenty of absolute deadbeats who can. Not to discourage anyone from working on yourself, in fact I highly encourage it. You will certainly get a confidence boost from doing that and your natural attractiveness will rise. That being said a lot of guys hide behind personal development because they’re too afraid…
/r/seduction01/05/20 06:51 PM
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Yeah, basically learn to read signals so you don’t make people uncomfortable. Proper physical escalation results in better interactions for both men and women. There’s a balance between asking for a written signed contract at each stage of the interaction giving permission to touch certain parts of a woman and just bulldozing through and grabbing her without any indication on consent. Reading this might give the impression that these both are at extreme ends of the spectrum, but they’re both act…
/r/seduction12/03/20 11:42 PM
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You’re welcome!
/r/seduction09/03/20 12:32 AM
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Nice
/r/seduction08/03/20 10:21 PM
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Nah, just understand women well. Pay attention long enough and you’ll notice the same things. Good luck dude
/r/seduction08/03/20 10:17 PM
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That's exactly what you're saying. Just because it's extremely unlikely for a 65 year old white as a sheet man is to 'game' a young woman in her 20's with an affinity for black men doesn't rule out the idea that you can create attraction where it wasn't before. A far more likely scenario is an average dude with average looks and average intelligence learns over time to be a little more witty, more laidback and learns how to interact with women a lot better through learning game. He ends up havin…
/r/seduction08/03/20 09:38 PM
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Putting effort into your appearance will definitely help. Guys and girls attraction works in different ways. Girls don’t seem to mind if their boyfriend packs on a few pounds, but guys are very visual creatures. It does make a difference. I’m not saying this to make you feel insecure, but more so just to make you aware of the truth regardless of how ugly it might be. It sounds like you’ve already thought of this and are moving in the right direction. Before anyone complains about self love and a…
/r/seduction08/03/20 08:37 PM
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You’re overthinking dude. She may respond positively, or she may not. It’s completely subjective to her. There’s no way to tell for sure. Open with something slightly witty, not too long and situationally relevant to her bio. She might respond she might not, that’s the way of the world :)
/r/seduction08/03/20 08:24 PM
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This is funny. So much bad advice on this forum, including that post. Female attraction isn’t an on/off switch, but more like a complicated dashboard of dials. Your behaviour changes how she is attracted to you. In this scenario it sounds like old mate who was persistent started off with the dials turned down. He might have been just another drunk idiot hitting on her, so she ignored him. But his persistence and how he communicates his personality slowly won her over over the course of a night, …
/r/seduction08/03/20 08:21 PM
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Accept it as a part of life and realise it doesn’t mean shit. You can capitalise on the attention; open girls you think are interested. Or you can just ignore it. If it makes you uncomfortable too bad. That’s a fact of life. Accept it for what it is, appreciate the compliment and get over it :)
/r/seduction08/03/20 08:04 PM
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Nah dude, not your appearance. Get that out of your head. If you’ve slept with 100 girls it ain’t your appearance, facts. When you say they aren’t doing anything radically different but still getting results, it tells me a few things. 1) You don’t need to change much, just a few tweaks and you’ll probably get similar results 2) You’re probably doing something fundamentally wrong on your approach. Go find a coach to watch and tell you what it is. Will save you so much time 3) Your attitude that t…
/r/seduction08/03/20 08:02 PM
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I think you’re attributing WAY to much agency to this girl, and girls in general when you say this. Yes that may be what has happened subconsciously. But likely she was acting on instinct. When she said “Hey I just want to be friends” she probably believed it consciously. It’s likely she wouldn’t have had ulterior motives, and she truly just wanted to be friends on a conscious level. Your reaction afterwards is communicating to her subconscious that you’re a high value dude who has plenty of opt…
/r/seduction08/03/20 07:50 PM
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Joined! I know there’s not a lot of posts in there though. Are you in Van?
/r/seduction07/03/20 10:24 PM
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Ask for time > add in small genuine compliment > add in situational question about them/weather/local stuff > cut out the time question and just say hey thought you were cute and wanted to meet you
/r/seduction07/03/20 05:41 PM
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Start with small goals man. Day 1 - smile at 10 girl’s Day 2 - smile at 5 girls and say hey how’s it going (can also make this hired guns like bartenders, retail store assistants etc) Day 3 - Ask for directions & give a compliment to 5-10 girls Day 4 - same as day 3, throw in something teasing as well halfway through your conversation Day 5 - build on Day 4, ask them about themselves a little bit Day 6 - Throw in a “Hey you’re actually really cool and I dig your whole (insert whatever vibe she h…
/r/seduction07/03/20 05:16 PM
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Eddie Murphy, Jim Jeffries, Russel Howard, Chris Rock, Kevin Hart Great show to watch just for general lol’s and timing is 8 out of 10 cats. British comedy show, just a panel of comedians and random celebrities each week talking about the news and taking the piss out of each other. Going to live amateur comedy nights are a great way to get out of the house and spice up your repertoire. I always feel funnier if I’m going to a comedy show each week. You can also take some improv classes (usually $…
/r/seduction07/03/20 03:52 PM
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Well there’s a reason they call it game haha. When you change the board you’ll have different results because you’re playing in a (often) completely different field. Same principle I explained above also applies. Adjust your expectations to lower for a new city, set intelligent goals like let’s find out if my usual openers work here or let’s find out where some good venues are here and test away. Not tying up your self esteem in your results whether previous or current allows you to have speed. …
/r/seduction21/02/20 07:47 PM
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Of course there’s a cost associated with constant negative results. That’s why you need to redefine your definition of results and start from there. If your definition of results is approach and sleep with a 10/10 and make her my girlfriend, and you have social issues...well you’re gonna get a lot of negative feedback and reinforcement. Intelligent goal setting and a complete acceptance of where you currently are is a fundamental pillar of building confidence and self esteem
/r/seduction21/02/20 07:30 PM
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Depends on the context and tone. If you were looking somewhere suggestible, even if it was innocent, and then the person responded in a playful tone. You wouldn’t lose all interest. I know I wouldn’t
/r/seduction08/02/20 09:09 PM
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Correct. Biggest indicator is their eyes, coupled with body language. Words are about 5% of it
/r/seduction08/02/20 03:16 AM
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