CentralMayonnaise Archive

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2	I've read Models by Mark Manson 3 times. I'm 33 and still have never been with a woman. Ok so how about this thought. Men and women flirt differently. It's just a fact. Proximity for example is a way of flirting. Meaning that if a woman makes sure to be in your vincinity, she's signaling interest. This doesen't mean that every woman who gets close to you is so you have to find out by talking to them. They can also lose interest from you being unresponsive. Learn to be relaxed and playfull with women. I had a friend who was awesome with women. I asked him what his secret was yo whic…	/r/ExRedPill	23/07/26 05:29 PM
2	I've read Models by Mark Manson 3 times. I'm 33 and still have never been with a woman. Well put. It's the only way to retrain yourself and challenge your limiting beliefs.	/r/ExRedPill	23/07/26 05:24 PM
10	I've read Models by Mark Manson 3 times. I'm 33 and still have never been with a woman. I was into the whole Pick Up scene for a while as a youngster when the Game got famous. I read the Mystery Method and some other books. Actually getting out there and realising that it's not the end all to get rejected was a great expericne. Models was the only book that actually resonated with me. I never liked other philosophies and I didn't lile having to be someone else just to attract women. Mansons advice is solid. Don't overthink it. I'd stay of the apps at least as a start until you get …	/r/ExRedPill	22/07/26 06:36 PM
1	The part of single fatherhood I didn’t see coming Well said! I've come the same conclusion even though I only have my kids everyother week. Routines are king and steadiness too.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/26 10:56 AM
0	John Griffin Life 2.0 took his ex wife back Before I met my ex that I was with for over 10 years I was deep into the PUA-community. Which is a form of proto-redpill. It never sat right with me and I felt that many of the women I dated responded to my "stuff" based on insecurities. So I ditched it all and went selfcelibate for a year before I met my ex. I stoped doing wierd shiet and went for authenticity. I didn't have the best relationship but at least it lasted for 10 years. When we divorced I looled for content/resources to help me cop…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/26 12:11 PM
1	Dating post-divorce Very good and motivating pointers. Thank you!	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/24 10:35 AM
2	Went to a cuddle party… Well now, the plot thickens! Mine did not want a diagnose because she felt that it wouldn't help her. Just cause her stigma because she shouldn't have to accomodate to the world. The world should have a place for her. She at least has ADHD. While I do agree to some extent, my argument was that perhaps it would help me understand her better and that we perhaps could develope some healthy communication skills. Since you know, we have small children together. Anyways. It was very exhausting to be i…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/24 10:11 PM
1	Went to a cuddle party… Changed that. I guess I was too tired and wrote the term used for being neurodivergent in my native tongue 😆.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/12/24 05:39 AM
4	Went to a cuddle party… Just wanted to say that I too had a similar relationship. The act of being together, touching and being close. Never happened. Always chores, planning and drama de jour. I wonder what they have in common. Mine screened positive for being neurodivergent.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/12/24 09:47 PM
3	How do women keep guys in bad marriages I too have made the same observations. I did the cluster B "dance" some 14yrs ago, read "No more Mr Nice guy" and all that stuff. Identified that I had been involved with disordered women and "improved myself". Still ended up having kids with a women with issues. Not cluster B (maybe) but NPF and anxiety and I am realising that our relationship, slowly over the course of 10yrs, morphed into a dysfunctional one much like my previous ones. For me it is very much obvious that I have co-dependancy i…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/12/24 09:56 AM
1	Asked for divorce for the second time in 8 years yesterday. She said yes today. I was honestly hoping she would try to change her behaviour towards money, but just agreed. I'm sad and feeling hopeless about my future. Any advice? Very good advice! Also, Models is the best book on dating I've read. Everyone could benefit from reading it.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/11/24 07:41 AM
2	Has Divorce Prompted You to Reexamine and/or Change Your Core Beliefs About Life and Purpose? Wrong sub. You ment to post this in the general divorce sub I am sure.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/10/24 08:24 AM
2	Dating dry spell Just a question in regards to your app bio. Do you mention having a kid there. Or do you tell them later? If so, when? I've started using the apps and didn't mention having kids from fear of losing out on potential short term "fun". But I kind of feel like I'm hiding the truth.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/10/24 05:18 AM