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I think this would be a good idea. I just have no idea about finding a good therapist. Should I literally just go on Google and try the first one that pops up? People on here often say to only go to a make therapist who can help me guide my life. I would like to find one who does this rather than just make me open up about being emotional and furthering the loop. Any tips?
/r/askTRP12/07/18 02:20 AM
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It's funny because I've actually started to do a lot of the things you mention here. I'm honestly thinking about joining the military.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 02:18 AM
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I think I'm just very naive in a lot of ways. I definitely need to put myself in more uncomfortable situations. A commenter above also recommended that I get my hormonal levels checked, which I think is a good idea, but my doctor takes so damn long to get an appt with. Do you know of any quicker ways to make this happen? This is funny. I actually began BJJ today after I got out of a pretty shitty break up because I needed something to take my mind off of it. I know how stupid it is. The problem …
/r/askTRP12/07/18 02:15 AM
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Father was an absent drunk.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 02:10 AM
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I definitely want to. Is there any way to get it done without going to your primary care doctor? Mine takes forever to get into.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 02:09 AM
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Yes. I lift and just began going to jiu jitsu which definitely seems to help. The problem is, sometime im in such a bad mood that it effects my work out negatively.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 02:08 AM
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Thanks for the reply man. I want to become this person & I would agree that I have a generally defeatist-leaning nature. It sounds like to begin this process I should make myself more busy and take on more responsibility. Correct?
/r/askTRP12/07/18 02:07 AM
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I too am a victim of this.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 03:38 PM
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Women will do whatever it takes to preserve an image of themselves in your mind.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 07:56 PM
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Let me know if you find anything.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 11:12 AM
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Awesome to see. Takeaway: The main thing we need to focus on is ourself and how we can work on skills to allow us to be satisfied with the amount of happiness we find in women. Game is a skill that is worth learning and should be treated in such a manner; just as lifting is a skill worth learning in order to be satisfied with your body. Gaylubeoil is correct then, that men need to focus on themselves and if done correctly, game can be done in just tha way.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 01:17 AM
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I wish I would have found this sub earlier. When it was a laboratory rather than a factory.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 12:17 AM
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It's doesn't matter whether he enjoyed fucking her or not. If he had been dreading her to the extent that the commenter was talking about, she would be glad to take whatever sex he would toss her way. Feed em scraps.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 06:00 PM
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Make him not fuck around? Good point though.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 05:07 PM
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Doesn't matter. She'd want nothing more than to try to lock him down more. Aside from that she's making no changes to her behavior which, if he'd been employing dread (gym, fucking fit bunnies), she would have been.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 04:50 PM
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Yeah. But if that were the case, she would perceive the sex as amazing.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 04:35 PM
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This guy desperately needs to read Sex God Method. Unless he doesn't give a fuck what she wants. Which in this case, it sounds like he's just all together bored of his wife.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 04:31 PM
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Consult rooshv. He gets these questions all the time. Watch his live streams.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 04:21 AM
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I eat like shit lol. I don't eat a lot of processed foods, but most days I'm most likely either missing or going way over calories/protein.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 03:45 AM
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Fuck man, these comments are depressing. I agree. Thanks.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 11:22 PM
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Well I never called her initially. Only told her to call. Thanks bro!
/r/askTRP27/06/18 11:21 PM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP27/06/18 10:29 PM
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I appreciate it. Needed the advice from you guys.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 09:24 PM
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I didn't but I think I've seen it first hand now.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 09:23 PM
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Thanks bro
/r/askTRP27/06/18 09:22 PM
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Awesome. A couple of quick questions: How do I know what supplements to take or just say fuck it and take them all? Sometimes, if I can do maybe 12 reps on set one, the next I'll only be able to do 8-9 and on the third like 6-7. Should I lower the weight in this case? Three sets good? I've just been doing split workouts, should I upgrade?
/r/askTRP27/06/18 08:34 PM
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Thanks, bro.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:57 PM
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Thanks, bro.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:47 PM
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Not explicitly, I found out she'd been DMing some dude before, so I went back to plate with her a few months ago; telling her that maybe we can work back to a relationship. This is what I get.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:46 PM
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Not only that! She brought up that she told me she loved me before I'd left! Thanks, bro. It is extremely eye-opening that this girl is so willing to manipulate me.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:43 PM
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Yeah on what you use when you're trying to get down to low bf%. I'm 6', about 185, I'd say I'm somewhere around 13% bf. Somewhat visible abs and was lifting frequently until recently.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:38 PM
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I have bro & I agree. There will be no more contact.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:18 PM
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Working on that. I really want to get my diet in line. Any tips?
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:16 PM
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I agree. Trying to protect her reputation.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:14 PM
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I probably could have. However, I wanted to make sure that I wouldn't have a weak moment where I message her while it's still up in the air.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:11 PM
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conflagratorX. Regarding his reply to mine on his comment.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 03:57 PM
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He's got patents on his name. Maybe he's working on that time machine to get back to the 20's.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 03:13 PM
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That guy is a pussy. He's referencing his wife saying that she told him to 'not risk anything by being aggressive'.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 03:10 PM
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What's the fastest way for me to start getting plates with basically no options and basically all LTR'd friends (just getting out of a shitty relationship myself). I've started to get into contact with some of my more distant bros that I know are single, but aside from that, what type of game should I get into?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 03:07 PM
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Not really surprising. It's common knowledge not to talk about tRP. Aside from not talking about it, it's better to keep it a secret if you have anything to lose. Times are rough out here.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 03:02 PM
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No, they don't. You're confusing respect for attraction, and vice-versa. If you're talking about in a sexual interaction, a woman must respect you to feel attraction for you. But, if she feels attraction for you, and knows nothing of you, then she automatically respects you. Women may say they want to be treated like princesses (pedestalized), but they really want a man that knows they are just one of many.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 02:53 PM
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Instead of lamenting, why not adjust. Are your needs met? Are you studying rocket science or biochemistry to facilitate what you say are the most important things? Are you a patriarchal figure? If not, then stop MGTOWing.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 02:43 PM
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I'll give you that. You're mislead that women don't give you respect though. They give you the amount that you have shown yourself worthy of.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 02:40 PM
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Everyone is worthy of some degree of respect, if they weren't, what would stop you from taking the money out of a homeless person's (woman's) pocket? Every female is different in some ways, and yet the same in far more. The same can be said about men.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 02:34 PM
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This is not the place to show how offended you are.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 02:29 PM
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This sub was created as a reaction to the feminization of the pick-up community. This is stated right in the introduction of the sidebar. I'm all for making your goals your only priority, but when does practicing game start to impede upon that? Lack of sex can be pretty detrimental to your ability to pursue goals, and having a tight skill-set (game) to get women requires practice. Right? I understand that you're talking about men who make attracting women their only source of entertainment, inco…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 02:26 PM
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I'm so angry right now. Should I not be?
/r/askTRP27/06/18 01:39 PM
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Is that not outright manipulation?
/r/askTRP27/06/18 12:56 PM
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I've been there bro. Don't do it. Move on.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 01:20 AM
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I agree. I often hear this from red pilled dudes. Let's assume that the guy is infinitely tRP, would his dominance of the frame allow him to tame any woman regardless of her past/failed screening.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 12:42 AM
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Ok, I appreciate the reply and I agree. But do you not think that almost all of those relationships ending weren't due to the man eventually becoming more soft or started out soft? If an infinitely tRP man were to plate/date a certain girl and dominate the frame from the beginning, would she not submit and not fuck it up regardless of her having tons of red flags? Speaking in hypothetical here so bear with me.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 11:15 PM
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Well, yes. I'm referencing my failed relationship here. But outside of relocating or death, if the man was acting 100%, I'm not sure how the relationship would fail.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 10:38 PM
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I'm working on it. I really want to develop the soft harem like what is talked about in The Rational Male. I'm going to take a break from women for awhile tho, I'm pretty angry how this all went down.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 10:08 PM
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I agree with you. But I'm not talking about blame. I'm talking about whether or not the man could've had stronger frame/game/employed dread better, which would have saved the relationship.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 10:07 PM
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That's cool. I'm not sure how to answer this other than to not lay there in your bed if you feel you'll be drawn into your cuddling addiction. Get up and do something.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 07:19 PM
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Wow. What a terrible answer. It's good you have plates, but come on man. If you have time for tinder, you should be able to find women normally.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 06:20 PM
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I don't want you to take my advice. I am not experienced enough to have credibility. I am going through a similar situation. That being said, in a relationship, boundaries should be sorted out as things come up. A plate/fwb's boundaries are obviously going to be set differently as they are (wordlessly) permitted, by you, to fuck other people. With a relationship, you need to be strong enough that she wants to live within your boundaries (and this is something that I need to get better at as well…
/r/askTRP26/06/18 04:42 PM
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Right. I'm not saying that you break up with her because she's getting hit on. I'm saying that you should not be ok with her putting herself in the situation where she knows she's going to be hit on relentlessly. Or go on a trip with dudes who want to fuck her. Lol. Dude. Also, you're in a relationship with her. You don't get to not give a fuck. You have to show her that you have boundaries which she clearly crossed because you made a post about it. Show her that she fucked up by dreading her.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 04:11 PM
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Good citation of The Rational Male. I was about to say the exact same thing.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 04:02 PM
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You've already entered the situation with the frame that you're operating under their rules; stating that you won't come out unscathed before you've even done anything. That's ridiculous man. You're fearful.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 03:57 PM
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This is what feminism has created, boys afraid to act like men. If you are doing you and not hurting any woman then you have nothing to worry about. Be resolute bro and don't worry about it so much.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 03:42 PM
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Sheesh. None of that sounds good. I am going through a similar situation and it sucks. But like I've been told, you need to go with your gut. Honestly, it sounds like she lost respect for you for being so willing to maintain the relationship while she's getting hit on every day. If she hasn't done anything yet, she will. You need to dread her or drop her.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 03:37 PM
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Have you ever hung out before? I mean if you know that she has plans, just ask her to hang out a different day. She's not yours dude.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 03:30 PM
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Just wait and see what happens man. You've said all you could, now it's her turn to reach out. If it doesn't happen you gotta just mentallly separate yourself.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 03:19 PM
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I wouldn't worry about it too much if you're still fucking her bro. She's probably getting off on the emotional rollercoaster you're putting her through. Sometime the best advice anyone can give is just to sit back, relax, and see what happens. Good luck homie.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 03:12 PM
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I'm not sure, but curious to see what others will say. I have been in this situation in the past and I just decided to give her some validation post-sex. Pretty much backfired on me though!
/r/askTRP26/06/18 02:22 PM
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Don't live in fear bro.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 02:18 PM
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I agree. The rush of going after new girls is fun.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 02:16 PM
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I'm not sure. I don't think I would though, there'd be so many horny-ass real women.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 02:14 PM
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Busch gardens? Lol
/r/askTRP26/06/18 01:03 PM
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https://youtu.be/XIhDP873ZL4
/r/askTRP26/06/18 02:45 AM
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Wow man I really appreciate the reply. Have you ever seen the movie 'Heat'? In it Deniro's character says that you shouldn't get involved in anything that you can't walk out on in 30 seconds or less. This reminds me of your comment. It is especially important in this situation because Deniro had previously seen his friends girl cheat on him and is saying exactly what your saying. Thanks bro.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 02:35 AM
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Sounds good!
/r/askTRP25/06/18 09:29 PM
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We don't text a lot. Basically just to arrange meet ups which are about twice a week.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 09:26 PM
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I know bro. Sorry lol got a bit passionate.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 09:22 PM
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Right, thanks. My game plan is to just wait until I hear from her then tell her to call me and end things there amiably.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 09:06 PM
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I would actually fully agree with this. I would say that around 90% of my Bros are in LTRs, I think I have two friends that are not (I'm 24.)
/r/askTRP25/06/18 09:04 PM
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Thanks man. Have a good one.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:55 PM
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No, you're right. I guess my reply was confusing. I just won't give her my emotional response is all I was saying.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:54 PM
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I need bros that aren't in relationships and are willing to risk advising me to cuck myself. Damn right I made a post about it. I do agree that I should be able to think and know what is best for myself, but I honestly wasn't sure. Strange how the only negative comment directed at me is from an endorsed contributor.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:53 PM
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She asked if I wanted to see logs in the moment, which I declined. If I asked at this point that would be retarded. I've read the replies & agree. I need to hard next.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:50 PM
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You're right. Thanks.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:48 PM
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I agree with the message of coming out on top, but I have no reason to lie. I'll just tell her that I'm unhappy with her and the relationship & that I want to see other people.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:48 PM
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I need bros that aren't in relationships and are willing to risk advising me to cuck myself. Damn right I made a post about it.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:46 PM
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I will leave her & remain amiable with her I guess.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:45 PM
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I would've liked to, but I don't have any other options lined up.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:45 PM
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Yep. Thanks.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:44 PM
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I agree. Thanks.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:44 PM
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I wish it weren't true, my friend.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:43 PM
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I will. Thanks.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:42 PM
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Don't think I can. Oneitis.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:42 PM
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Something similar has happened before and she told me that I can go through her phone whenever. I denied this, but because she no longer has a passcode on her phone I interpret the deleting of the app as a second line of defense.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:41 PM
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She did say she deleted it because she 'just wanted to be with me when i'm there'. I feel that this is falls into the second category.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:39 PM
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Don't think I can plate as I am pretty emotionally invested & still unplugging.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:38 PM
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What do you mean by cracks? Seems to me she doesn't give a whole lot of a fuck. What are the odds she just owns up to her shit bro?
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:37 PM
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All her friends are hardcore feminists Best friend is a stripper (from childhood, started getting closer around the time we started dating) Not great to her family Recently started smoking weed (other drugs?) heavily Have caught her messaging a guy in the past
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:36 PM
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First relationship in a long time. Figured I would enter it just to see what would happen & I've never experienced the decay from an informed perspective. Women can be quite backwards.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:33 PM
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She offered to let me go through her snap. I gauge it as a retaliatory statement mostly begging me to call her bluff which I didn't (maybe should've).
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:31 PM
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Right, I appreciate the reminder. Have a great day.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:29 PM
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I would dread her, but I just feel that it isn't worth it at this point. I've basically decided that she's just making me unhappy. Now on to figuring out the best way to end things.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:28 PM
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I have tried that in the past, they always came back. Oneitis has deeply set roots.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 01:10 PM
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Could you elaborate on the difference between the two?
/r/askTRP25/06/18 01:48 AM
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Every woman I know is addicted to this crack.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 11:20 PM
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Right. I just don't know what are my own insecurities and weak frame and what are legitimate grounds for concern. Pretty inexperienced in relationships.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 11:18 PM
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Ah, you're right. I just need a push. I am surrounded by dudes in LTRs, and their advice is obviously opposite.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 11:17 PM
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Thank you, the latter part of your comment motivated me. I broke it off with her. It hurts that women can lie to your face so easily.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 01:22 AM
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Thank you. I worked it out.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 01:19 AM
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Ok, I'll take that into consideration. I would definitely say that I am shy. That's cringey for me to admit as a man; but it is what it is.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 01:07 AM
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After consideration, I met up with her and did it. The fact that she is now blowing up my phone is just sad to me.... As well as proof that women will lie directly to your face.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 01:04 AM
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Would you care to explain, if even briefly.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 12:19 AM
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I did not ask an opinion question. You decided to answer with your emotions. "Oh, but you may hurt her feelings". I'm not looking for advice; but instead for your input on this social convention.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 07:02 PM
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Right. And for me they don't even necessarily have to be good friends. Just that I have a crew is enough. To your point though: you're right. If it's all based upon others perception of you, then there has to be another way to gain that same perception when entering alone. I haven't found it yet.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:45 PM
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It's a societal expectation it seems. They aren't pussies. They are led to believe that they are entitled to your thoughts at all times.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:35 PM
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I don't agree that it is shitty, given the circumstances. But the fact that sometimes it might be ok vs. other times when it's not, indicates to me that it is a personal choice. Besides when did morality and feelings become a factor in game. Get out of here.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:32 PM
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It's something to solve, because as a skill, it gives you value to others who all probably feel the same way. But I tried it and I was so off it was crazy.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:29 PM
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Right, but why?
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:25 PM
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I was attempting to do this but I found myself comparing girls to her when I would talk to them. I'm going to work on getting plates, but I hope this oneitis wears off quickly.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 06:15 PM
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This is an interesting point. I would agree that any experience is better than none (which, with no other options atm is what I'll be getting). But I was wasting so much time and energy thinking about her so much.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 06:12 PM
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Check out, 'On the implications of powertalk and other language categories.' by Whisper. Whisper's first comment has further reading. There are nuances of some conversations that perhaps you're not picking up on (especially in business).
/r/askTRP08/02/18 04:29 PM
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Haha, you're right. I was just saying as a way to get my foot in the door. Guess I'll skip that and go for the ABC training
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 02:17 AM
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Those friends aren't comfortable with the changes you've made to yourself and your mindset. The crabs in a bucket analogy applies here. Do you bro.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 11:58 PM
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Nofap is definitely good for some people. I don't think that the benefits gained are really from not masturbating though. Look up research studies done on the effects of pornography on men. Don't e-cuck yourself to porn.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 11:55 PM
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Relax man, didn't mean any disrespect. I do understand that I need to read it all. Appreciate you guys here.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 08:15 PM
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Fine, dad.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 08:05 PM
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Well do you maintain other plates? Make sure she knows that you're desirable. I actually was in a situation very similar to that recently (also not used to the girl not texting/whatever frequently). Just make sure she knows that she can lose you at any moment.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:27 PM
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I'd like to hear what some more informed people have to say about this as well. Seems to me like you've established her in your mind as boring rather than anything else. What do you want the girl to do bro? How is she when you hang out with her?
/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:19 PM
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Hey man, I'm the same age. Definitely work on both, there are resources that you can use to guide you on increasing your SMV here. Good Luck!
/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:15 PM
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Right. I should have specified. But, he asked why they get into it. I'm just looking at it objectively, they probably see and opportunity to have a huge social media following (girl's self-worth meter) and to live the easy life. Like you said, ones that have been in the industry for a time probably realize that it is strenuous on their mind/body.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:13 PM
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Because these girls do not have to do any work what so ever in return for cash and attention. I highly doubt that girls in this industry consider being fucked real Work.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:05 PM
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Both subs are about understanding interactions with people, therefor there will be some overlap in the content. I'm actually surprised that these are being promoted there, I really though they were committed to remaining ignorant. Maybe I'll switch sides. /s
/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:03 PM
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What are the best things to read on this topic? I actually have a girl that I am starting to develop "feelings" for and need to fix. Currently reading misandry bubble and NMMNG.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 06:59 PM
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Don't worry about losing friends so much. If you are under the impression that they were never really your friend, then who really cares. People make and sustain friendships based on mutual interests/struggles, so it's not such a bad thing to hang out with them only when you smoke weed. Get friends that enjoy doing other things. It sounds like you have a lot on your plate, but a lot of it is also out of your control. Learn how to focus on the things you can affect. Goodluck mane.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 06:54 PM
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Probably any music that talks about not being subservient or has other themes besides "I'm so in love with you, don't break my heart". In that case, I'd say some rock and almost all hip-hop/rap.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 06:49 PM
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I'm going to look into it. You think it would be better to work as a bar-back first? I've heard that that is the best way to learn. It would be super easy to get this sort of job too, I live next to one of the best beaches in Florida and the tourism season is starting soon.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 03:38 PM
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Pretty much. The current system seems to be detrimental to people willing to play into it and ignore its short-comings. If you understand what is going on and stay out of it, I think that you can be really successful.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 03:21 PM
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I find it so interesting that the entire spectrum of media is all on the same page. It's almost like they're not really many sources, but one... If you're still consuming the agenda-pushing media at this point, you're fucked.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 03:17 PM
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Nice, bro. Sounds like you're focused on your goals. Just go to the mall one day and buy some new damn clothes (or atleast try some on and buy them online). This will probably help your game on campus, no?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 03:12 PM
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I actually have. I know for a fact that this would help me, but for some reason, the thought of being a bartender gives me anxiety (all the more reason to do it I guess!).
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 03:09 PM
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This sounds overall positive! How is your diet and your sleep schedule? I find that the more I sleep the more I can focus on things without getting distracted (laziness). I wouldn't worry about Nofap that much, mostly just avoid pornography like the plaque. Curious though, what do you do for a hobby?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 03:05 PM
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First time using this thread. I guess I'll try to use it like a diary that I return to weekly? This week I lost the only girl I had, whom I was trying to plate and actively looking for other girls. I assume this is going to hurt my abundance mentality. This is the first girl I had been with in two years after swallowing and beginning the implement TRP. I've been making great progress in the gym, though, and have made major changes to my diet that have both affected my physique and energy levels.…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 02:54 PM
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Thanks man, I really appreciate the advice. I did have a totally sexual relationship with her until last weekend. I guess I just felt that I was only doing push when I should have been doing more pull. Got overly caught up in some of the RP reading, lol.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 02:13 PM
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Lmfao, that's sure to get her in a playful mood with you.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 12:06 AM
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Lmao. sounds like she's having fun with her friends at your expense. I would say just amplify the concept, maybe she'll get to see your above average pecker; if she can find it.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 12:04 AM
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Fuck man. I am. I actually think I may've been the Chad to this girl; opposite her ex. Strange feels for me.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 12:00 AM
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It may be too late. I guess I misread it as a disrespect and just told her I had other plans. I also fucked up and blocked her on snap; so I wouldn't keep watching that shit (not realizing that it would unfriend myself from her) lmao. Best thing to do now is to just ghost/forget her, I assume? Pretty new to trying to acquire plates, but I'm also meeting another girl on Friday so my mind hasn't been hamstering too hard.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 11:56 PM
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Not sure why you're questioning yourself. Good job imo.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 10:06 PM
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My thoughts exactly. I'm new to having any sort of game-mentality with women, but this flip in her behavior really just drives home the main points at TRP. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 09:56 PM
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This girl I've been seeing for about a month and a half posted a snapchat-story with her ex-bf in it last night. Up until the end of last week I had a strong alpha presence with her but I fucked up and made a major needy move by wanting to randomly see her and meeting her half-way (she's been coming to my place at least once a week, an hour drive). Also, ignored her texts/communication for about 3 days afterwards. Anyways, I'm not sure how to handle her display that she's hanging with this guy. …
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 09:22 PM
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Ask if you can work in with her on something. That way you can have an excuse to be around her for a few minutes. If you can't talk to her then, you're fucked.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 02:34 PM
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