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I think there's more to this story than just this incident, could I DM?
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/24 09:24 AM
2

Cantt really force these kinda things , he'll marry you when he's ready
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/24 09:18 AM
3

What cultures are the 2 of you from?
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/24 06:51 AM
2

The previous comment about bop+ this incident , when you combine them together , does imply some hypocrisy on his part. Obviously men and women can view sex differently , but the general advice here is to not go for men like that for obvious reasons.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/24 03:38 PM
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Playing with her and other girls like her , even getting into a serious relationship and then dumping her........ That's not good behaviour at all
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/24 03:30 PM
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I think it definitely depends on what your opinion is how you word it , there's a way to express an opinion politely. Obviously there are judgy people but they've always existed tbh
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/24 03:12 PM
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RPW advises to stay from hypocritcal men like that tho , the general advice here is to go for a man who matches your values ( leader , doesn't sleep around or date dicey women )
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/24 02:59 PM
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Where did i suggest no sex ? I suggested that sex needs to be on better terms , now it's Upto OP to take action if she agrees with my POV . I don't suggest specific things ( unless it's very obviously an abusive situation , which this is close to ) , OP knows her man best so I'm not gonna tell her what to do , just what I feel , she can then take action accordingly once she's calmed down and figured it out a bit more
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/24 10:37 AM
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I feel negotiating is a part of marriage just like any other partnership , it doesn't help if one partner disregards you completely . You are looking at freeuse relationships which are something not everyone can do , even red pill believes sex is not mandatory if there are pressing concerns like health
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/24 10:26 AM
3

Sure , he has needs , but it's OP's body, not his.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/24 10:18 AM
8

He doesn't like lube and is not into foreplay , sounds like a bad idea
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/24 10:12 AM
12

if she's having medical issues, how does that help at all?
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/24 10:00 AM
2

Nice username lol
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/24 05:52 AM
13

If there's any way you can get him to read this post : he needs to delete social media for a bit . In a majority of cases of people suddenly turning conservative - it's a constant barrage of social media rage bait at fault.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/24 04:03 PM
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I think for a lot of people a breakdown of trust is enough to end a relationship, regardless of what happens in the future.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/24 11:15 AM
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So it is kinda taken up then haha , any time you have for yourself it goes in sex . What about the weekends ?
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/24 04:31 AM
4

Right , and you feel like your lil time to unwind is taken up by your husband ?
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 09:20 PM
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Well what you need to is stop telling him , it comes off as instructing him to do something, instead hand them over and tell him you want to focus on other things ATM . Also , wdym by you try to ensure there's sex every night ? Do you mean not say no to his advances , or make your own advances every night ?
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 04:03 PM
8

Is your husband not active with childcare?
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 02:35 PM
4

Your Friend sounds like not the smartest person around , if both earn a similar amount of money then paying the rent and bills is just a few clicks , so expecting his wife to do all the housework in return is odd. It's not about the money anyways
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/24 05:51 AM
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Do you make as much as him?
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/24 06:44 PM
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You can either suck it up and come to the conclusion that as a mom the first 5 years or so your life will revolve entirely around your child and your job , or you can find ways to rectify this by finding babysitters. I'm pretty sure nowadays there must be ways to find them online . As far as your husband goes , you cannot control him. So stop fretting about what he does ( hobbies , gym) currently or has done in the past , and work out the present . Explain your problem to him and let him come up…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/24 06:28 PM
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Most guys go to the gym , do their sets , maybe catch a look or two and leave , the ones who judge women for wearing leggings at the gym aren't worth anyone's time
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 04:54 PM
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Yeah these women aren't her 'friends' tbh
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/24 04:09 AM
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No , you need to leave. Period
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/24 12:28 PM
1

So are you a white Canadian , or a Canadian of South Asian descent
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 05:09 PM
2

I'll keep it short , yes men find younger women attractive , but that isn't a justification for whatever he's doing on FB
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/24 08:17 AM
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The comments are kinda unhelpful considering your post history , you need to work on your previous mental health issues first , only a healthy mind can attract another one
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/24 10:36 AM
5

Home-making is becoming hard because it's not easy to live on a single income , the mortgage payments alone require 2 incomes
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/24 07:08 AM
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yes but it's not tho, sex is not 'degrading' for women and neither do they diminish their 'purity'
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/23 07:55 PM
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a woman having sex at all is degrading?
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/23 06:09 PM
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I think sexual compatibility is important for a marriage to work properly, ultimately the decision is up to you and it may be swayed by religious considerations, but if your only reason is 'purity' , then I don't think sex makes a woman 'impure', the comment by u/Purple-Poppins talks about this mentality I think, guys who view women that way( while not being virgins themselves) are very problematic and so is this entire line of thinking
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/23 06:08 PM
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Everyone in your last post one year ago told you that you were in an unfair living arrangement but you went ahead and had 2 children with this man. You knew what you were getting into , did you think he would magically change after children ? u/Astroviridae has some good advice , but this situation is pretty much of your own making .
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/23 08:27 AM
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Assuming you don't live in Gaza , Israel or Lebanon , yes this is absolutely a waste of time
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/23 11:11 AM
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This has less to do with masculinity and more with apathy ? I mean I'd hold a ladder for a friend or anyone really if they were scared bc it's the right thing to do
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/23 02:16 PM
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This is a very odd situation and your social situation makes it more complicated , communication does not seem to be working . You should seriously consider if you have a future with this man at all
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/23 02:03 PM
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You work and manage the house both ?
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/23 07:24 AM
15

I'll do you one better, intimacy is a need, not a want, either way doesn't justify forcing him, as you just experienced it clearly doesn't work
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 07:33 PM
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this is disgusting. Learn to respect your husband's consent and wishes
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 07:28 PM
11

yeah in my culture it's normal for a wife of a guest to help the women in the host's house, it was also common in western countries till recently I think, but personally I wouldn't want that. She's my guest, it's my job to make sure she has everything.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 04:50 PM
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I would find it weird if a couple came to my house and the woman was fetching drinks for her husband , she's my guest too and I'd feel bad seeing her do anything other than sit down and have fun
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 01:30 PM
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there is nuance here, she doesn't have to give up all her beliefs, and if her MIL shares opinions she doesn't agree with she's free to argue and disagree, but it's just like a couple of days, don't pick fights you don't have to.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 09:23 AM
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in her house you're both guests, so maybe she just wants you to relax? Either way when you're visiting someone it's best to live by their rules
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 08:26 AM
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this post in particular is 100% satire, wtf is 'demonic stress' and 'area boys stress' lol
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/23 09:00 PM
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bro missed the satire.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/23 05:19 PM
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joint custody is a thing. Fathers and mothers are both disposable if they're abusive
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/23 10:08 PM
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a red flag everyone seems to be missing is that they apparently started the business together but she presumably has 0% equity in it. Why on Earth is her husband 100% in control of the business? He can be a Captain in their personal lives all he wants, but that's not how you run a business. It's inefficient to have one person make all the decisions when there are multiple stakeholders, that's why the Board exists in all major corporations. If the business is inherited from his family, then manag…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/23 08:13 AM
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This is a classic case of correlation not equaling causation. We don't know what the outcomes would've been if the divorced couples stayed married and raised their children like that, bc I'm assuming the couples who ended up divorcing and the ones who stayed had very different dynamics and maybe personalities
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/23 07:27 AM
4

a day? What?
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/23 10:13 AM
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yeah most logical and accurate comment here, unless he's dumb he knew what he was doing
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/23 09:36 PM
2

so motherhood showed you who your friends really were. I understand that they don't relate to you, but real friends would still try to maintain the friendship by being understanding, there are thousands of posts on the internet about being a SAHM and it's difficulties. and some of them are prolly moms themselves so it's not like they can't relate at all
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/23 07:39 AM
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a full belly and empty balls means everyone goes to sleep satisfied! either way, this is not a bad ideal to aspire to, just make sure it is pleasurable for both of you and not just him
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/23 07:10 PM
6

OP, sorry for stalking but, is this the same guy as the 'daddy' mentioned in your previous posts?
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/23 07:05 PM
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birds of the same feather...........
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/23 06:00 PM
5

Don't see any particular red flags, you yourself said it's quite early and he's still willing to propose
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 09:32 PM
3

how long was he 'aggressive' for and when did you have the talk?
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/23 01:06 PM
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