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ADVICECertain_Iron4787/r/RedPillWomen24/06/25 03:09 AM
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They’ve definitely helped me take steps with my issues about shame, guilt, self compassion and self esteem in general because those feelings aren’t just isolated to my romantic relationships. In other areas of my life we have set goals and we have done the work and I do definitely see improvement for sure. But this type of stuff… not so much. I know mental health professionals are there to help not judge but I don’t think i’ve been as vulnerable with them about this as I should have been. A goal…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/25 08:09 PM
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completely agreed. i’ll keep this in mind.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/25 07:27 PM
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Thanks for the advice! i’m actually two steps ahead of you lol. I deactivated my socials right after this situation. Of the three social media’s i’m active on, Tiktok and instagram were the only media’s i feel were enabling more and more of these thoughts. I kept reddit because spaces like these and comments like yours really do help me with navigating it all. I appreciate it greatly. Though I’m not working with a psychologist, I do have a psychiatrist I did not mention in the post. I have been …
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/25 07:25 PM
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Completely agree 😂 I’ve tried to ick myself out of f my interest in him but it seems nothing works. 3 years is a long time and probably felt like forever, but i’m glad you made it out. Can I ask what you did specifically to invest in yourself? Thank you!!
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/25 08:02 PM
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Thanks for the recommendation! For sure adding it to my list. Glad to hear it helped you
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/25 07:59 PM
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yea, marriage and kids are definitely a long term goal of mine
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/25 07:55 PM
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This was very motivating. Genuinely, Thank you!!!
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/25 04:22 AM
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Thank you! I appreciate the empathy. I agree I probably won’t get over him until there is someone else. In some ways i’ve accepted that and in other ways I really want to be okay alone and not in this limbo. Yes, I have tried dating and I believe it’s in a healthy way. I don’t date with the intention of anything casual so when I think things are heading that direction, or i simply am not feeling the attraction, it’s not really a big deal for me to cut my losses and start afresh knowing I am not …
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/25 04:18 AM
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You are absolutely right. I agree about everything, I guess the hard part is just being okay with someone i’ve put on such a pedestal having that lasting impression of me, when it genuinely just is not me. (I doubt he thinks of me much anyways which is expected because it wouldn’t be normal any other way.) Ultimately I gotta just accept it as something that just happened and take this pain as a lesson. But I will say, protecting myself by not giving access to my body and heart to others IS 100% …
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/25 03:54 AM
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I dont want to make this about myself but my hopes were to relate to you. i hope it helps the way i intend it to I agree with most advice that you are probably going to get, which is to tell him and see where things go, and accepting it’s most likely you will get the answer you don’t want. I was in your position a couple months ago and followed the advice and told him how I felt. It was a clean break and everything was very respectful, but personal advice I would like to add is be to do it when …
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/25 09:49 PM
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