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I'd hope no one is stupid enough to go through with something like that without the appropriate legal papers in place
/r/seduction27/03/25 04:28 PM
2

"Forget the tickets, you're guaranteed to get lucky with me" then he licked his lips lasciviously.
/r/seduction26/02/25 02:37 PM
4

Escorts are expensive or at least it depends on the caliber of sex worker you want to use and how often. If you can easily pull, there are lots of women into casual sex, just find an FWB.
/r/seduction21/02/25 05:08 PM
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She might just have been trying to save face
/r/seduction03/02/25 07:39 AM
3

Most women don't full on ask about your sexual history, they may ask about your relationship history, you can just say you were focused on yourself, college, whatever and don't have much relationship experience. Anything that makes you seem like you were focusing on growth, it will actually make you seem mature. You don't want to lie especially if you're hoping the relationship goes the distance. You certainly don't have to disclose you're a virgin.
/r/seduction01/12/24 08:39 AM
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Is anyone looking for a relationship with the wrong person? I don't know how you think what you write clarifies anything unless you're being purposefully obtuse. Ultimately, it's on them though, they should demand exclusivity if they believe sexual intimacy means moving the relationship forward.
/r/seduction01/12/24 01:36 AM
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Because a lot of women don't like meeting men they don't know in a place they don't know for the first time for sex, so the conclusion is you must be attractive. Or you know how to choose partners that a dtf. Probably a combination of both.
/r/seduction07/11/24 07:50 PM
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If she was future-planning and he was being emotionally distant, she'd feel like a fucking idiot. When she was talking about vacations together, was he matching her enthusiasm or was he trying to come across as cool. If it was the latter, then I understand her needing to pull away, feeling like an idiot talking about a future with a guy who isn't trying to get close to her or doesn't reference her in any capacity that means permanency. I'd also break up with the guy before I get more emotionally…
/r/seduction06/11/24 08:25 AM
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Friends are for venting, vent right back. Or get better friends that you like. You know, I hear about the male loneliness epidemic and I'm sympathetic because I can imagine how isolating it is to feel invisible. But then I see posts and comments like these that imply the only valuable relationship to have with a woman is when she is slobbering on your dick and you know what, y'all can stay lonely.
/r/seduction12/10/24 03:50 PM
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Why is there a pervasive narrative that women call men they aren't into creeps if they like any attention? If you don't want to be friends with women then don't be friends with them. But I don't know anyone who doesn't like attention, man or woman.
/r/seduction12/10/24 03:45 PM
5

On her profile, she does say she's autistic and has bipolar disorder. I suppose that presents its own set of challenges.
/r/seduction16/09/24 05:19 AM
5

Tell them to send you the hospital bill, that’d make them receptive guaranteed.
/r/seduction21/05/24 12:26 PM
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I don’t disagree with most of the post but I think it’s more uncomfortable for a woman to go from not touching to random touching than confessing your feelings. Put it out there, it doesn’t have to be a grand declaration. She’ll let you down easy and then you can distance yourself. But don’t just randomly start escalating because she’s going to remove herself from you once the discomfort settles in.
/r/seduction19/04/24 03:43 PM
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Maybe she got her period suddenly or needed to poop and was embarrassed. Maybe it has nothing to do with you, and she just wanted to avoid the possibility of confrontation. Work on yourself and the things you can work on but don’t use this as an opportunity to berate yourself or put yourself down.
/r/seduction19/04/24 05:04 AM
17

Same. Lmao. Check if something is missing.
/r/seduction19/04/24 05:01 AM
2

Men on average are taller than women so that is to be expected.
/r/seduction13/10/22 08:06 AM
13

Juice bar is a place where they make smoothies, freshly squeezed juice, salad bowls, protein bars and other 'healthy' food.
/r/seduction29/09/22 11:31 PM
5

If they say no connection, it means they went out with you and there was no spark. They wouldn't have gone out with you in the first place if you were ugly. No one straight up rejects an ugly person to their face with 'No connection'. They say they are 'not interested' instead.
/r/seduction13/09/22 06:14 PM
1

Classic. Women always friendzone men after they "smash"
/r/seduction11/09/22 12:35 PM
10

And in my ancestral family tree, there's probably a child bride in there somewhere. Times change. Things that were okay a few years ago, are frowned upon today. I mean date whoever you want as long as it's consensual but that's a weak argument.
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:20 PM
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It's not necessarily that I think it's creepy, I just genuinely don't understand why anyone would want to. A few months ago this person was still living with their parents, they had a curfew and they went to high school. Their phone is probably still on their parent's plan and they skip Monday classes because they are still hungover from a frat party on the weekend, they can't even legally drink. And you hopefully have a career, pay rent, have a savings account and all that other adult shit. You…
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:13 PM
13

Most women are getting married and having kids in their 30's actually, much older than their parents. And since it's less frowned upon nowadays for women to hookup with men, that's what they do in their 20's. I know a lot of mid-20's women who just focus on their careers, brunch and hookups. And also, as a woman I was told that if an older guy tries to get with you, he's probably trying to groom you and that women his age don't put up with his shit and that's why he is going out with younger les…
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:03 PM
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I'm sorry but your fuckup was too bad, I don't think you can come back from that. What's the point either way, she's very busy clearly and you're not looking for anything particularly serious. Find something else to be challenged by, she's doesn't want to play your game. I'd think it was harassment since she's told you enough times you're disturbing her and she removed you from her contacts. But you do you, maybe she'll finally block you.
/r/seduction07/09/22 08:46 AM
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Okay then stay single and avoid making a woman miserable. I don't know what you want to say, you ask for advice but you don't want to take any of it. You asked how to ask girls out even when you get no attention. We tell you to just go out there and ask them out and be okay with rejection. Or make yourself more attractive so you don't get rejected. You don't want to, so please tell me, what else could we possibly say? If you just want to feel sorry for yourself then go ahead, no point asking for…
/r/seduction04/09/22 10:35 AM
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What are you even saying? I'm your age and men are still expected to initiate. How can you say it's gendered bs for men to initiate but not gendered bs to expect women to be the ones to flirt first. The only people women ask out first are super attractive guys. If you're really having trouble, then try online dating so you match with someone that you're compatible with. Or stay single if you don't want to listen to advice. What's the point of posting here if you were just gong to argue with ever…
/r/seduction04/09/22 10:26 AM
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If a man is born beautiful, is it alright for him to have sex? I don't understand the argument, so because he wasn't the most beautiful before, he is allowed to hookup but if you were born beautiful you aren't allowed to hook up? The only time you should have sex is if it would be an achievement to do so? Someone can't just have sex because they enjoy it? Beautiful women should remain celibate because they were born a woman? But the men who hookup with beautiful women a lot are allowed to dismis…
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:49 PM
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He doesn't even know why she swiped left though, I swipe left on guys who I think are out of my league. Or who want different things that I do. Or maybe she's into nerds or a particular look. To assume that she swiped left because she thinks she's more attractive than them is asinine.
/r/seduction17/07/22 09:25 AM
7

Funny how invincible and invisible sound so similar yet mean completely different things.
/r/seduction30/06/22 10:45 AM
9

What if the dream is to be in a happy healthy supportive relationship? 👁👄👁
/r/seduction10/07/21 01:26 PM
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I mean if you do approach the same person more than a few times, they're going to be like, I already told you to fuck off. They might see it as harassment or be uncomfortable. But I feel like after you approach them a 2nd time, you couldn't possibly forget a 3rd time. So you should be fine.
/r/seduction28/06/21 01:21 PM
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Those women and men who manipulate others suck. But there is a difference between the money one and the sex one. A guy will tell you he wants a relationship, take you out on dates, woo you, text you everyday, call you beautiful. You sense a genuine connection, you sleep together and he ghosts you once he sleeps with you. There is no real way to gauge how genuine he is except by his actions. But if a woman asks you to buy her something expensive especially when you've only just met, there is no o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:12 PM
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Whaman, lol. I love it!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:01 PM
1

That's actually statistically not true. There are 52.6% men and 47.4% women that are online dating. I was surprised at the data as well. But I guess it also depend on what area you're in. I assume the almost equal gender distribution is more true in big cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:01 PM
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C'mon. There has to be someone that you know is so attractive. Even if they aren't consciously a crush. You watch a movie with them and are like, oh wow, they're really attractive. Or if you're someone who watches porn, perhaps a pornstar whose work you particularly like. You can think someone is objective attractive without being attracted to them. I am attracted to who I love because I have gotten to know who they wholly are, personality, warts and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:15 AM
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Thank you for the sources
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:11 AM
1

Okay, you doubt his sources, now it's up to you to give us alternative ones rather than resorting to cheap shots about his age and speculating about his looks. You said a statement of 'fact' with no data to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:40 AM
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Objectively speaking, we can always admit there are people that exist who are more attractive than your partner. Like that physically flawless celebrity crush, it doesn't mean you love your partner less or you'll dump your partner to be with the crush. Because your relationship, the trust and loyalty combined with your attraction makes your relationship the most important thing to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:34 AM
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You're saying women should go back to relying on men to make decisions for them because some men don't have sex? There have been men who will sleep with any women and have high body counts but a woman dares to do the same and she is a skank who is ruining society by chasing the best dick? It seems like both men and women are the problem then, why so harsh on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:25 AM
4

Dayum, what a life you've led
/r/seduction25/06/21 01:06 PM
2

Lol. True. I guess we like what we like, FML
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:39 AM
0

True. But you could say that about the guys in those areas as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:20 AM
1

I am not, but I am quoting neuroscientist who have done extensive work on the topic. Our brains are still developing. Either way, like I said earlier, I don't necessarily think it is predatory, predatory behaviour can come from anyone regardless of age. I just said it's weird to me because of all my friends who are in college with me are idiots and I don't know why anyone would want to date them. There is also a difference in lived experience like I pointed out earlier, older men possibly have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:41 PM
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Lol. What? I'm not even American. There are studies that show our brains are still developing in our 20's. But yeah, good way to not reply to any of the points I made. Such a cool guy, not wanting to know American perspective. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:24 PM
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I don't think they are referring expressly to women. Our brains are still developing into our 20's. Frat bros and college boys are also immature and so are sorority girls and college girls. They still have a lot of growing up to do. You can tell by the sheer amount of us who skip classes, get hungover before exams and other dumb shit at parties. It's more about why would you want to date someone like that as a grown man with a mortgage and a good career? I don't necessarily find it predatory, ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:17 PM
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There was this thread a while back about how the world is full of pedophilic-like men. Just waiting for a girl to turn 18 so they can go after them. And that it is perpetuated by all the teen and stepchild porn. An obsession with people who just started adulthood. Thoughts? I don't necessarily agree but it was certainly interesting to read the comments. If I find the post, I'll share.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:54 PM
4

Catcalling is always unwelcome and it happens a lot. Even if those things I mentioned don't happen a lot, they happen disproportionately more to women when they do occur. I mean, I could turn the question back on you and say how often are women drunk and initiating sex with strangers on weekends? But I'll choose to believe you, I'm sure it is a real problem. And again you keep referencing drunk on weekends at bars and I'm telling you women get assaulted everywhere, anywhere and anytime. So, by t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:20 PM
4

No, I believe men can cold approach women and if they aren't interested, they should respectfully decline. I'm not talking about the possibility of dating, I do sympathize with men who have to build up the vulnerability to approach and then be deemed creepy. People who do that are shitty, if someone respectfully approaches, you respectfully decline and they respect your decision, that is a harmless interaction. I think men can cold approach almost anywhere at anytime. As long as it is a public p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:45 PM
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I definitely don't think it's the same frequency. It's definitely higher than reported and the I think the underreporting rates are higher for men than women. But if it was all reported, I think women's sexual assault rates would be much higher. I don't mean to diminish what men go through. It is serious and should be taken as such but by the sheer frequency, I don't think there is any comparison. I notice a lot of men saying and like your comment suggests that most of the sexual assault happens…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:14 PM
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I mean gay guys like all types of folks. Twinks, bears, otters, hairy dudes, shaved dudes, short dudes, tall dudes and much more. Considering how easy it is for an average guy to get with someone on Grindr, I wouldn't read too much into it. OP, just keep going for the women you like. This guy is right though, do take it as a compliment. It's like when a guy approaches a woman, she might be flattered even though she is unavailable
/r/seduction23/06/21 02:10 PM
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Yeah, I think they mean no wide hips. Tapered is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:30 PM
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I know a lot of bald and short 'fro black men in successful relationships with women of all ethnicities, I think it depends on the guy. People expect white guys and girls to have hair. I know a lot of black women who also rock the bald look and short fro as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:26 PM
2

I'm saying it doesn't matter because I know both men and women help create the toxicity. Like that one popular tweet that went like "if you're under 6 feet why are you talking" by a woman. Obviously there are good women and there are good men. But to say that toxicity is only reinforced by men is ignoring a whole subset of people. And the pressure men feel from women, men and the media. Toxic masculinity is society's problem not only a man's problem. And like I said in the beginning you are vali…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:05 PM
5

It doesn't matter who creates the toxicity, the fact remains that it exists. Also, I know women who don't want to sleep with virgin because "he doesn't know what to do with his dick or how to please her". I'm on a bunch of dating subreddits as well and there are a lot of women who say they don't want to teach a mean how to have sex. They'd rather have someone who has the experience and skills to give them what they need. So women also perpetuate it. It's different when you're in high school and …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:42 PM
3

It's not really a lie if you don't ask. Someone had sex, it wasn't with a girlfriend but it doesn't make it any less valid. Now if you ask and he lies, then yeah he's shitty. A lot of men turn to prostitutes because there is this pressure for them to have lost their virginity at a certain age. Toxic masculinity at its finest. They become so nervous and anxious when they haven't that they feel the need to 'get it over with'. I won't hold it against them to have done that but everyone is also allo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:23 PM
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What she doesn't know won't hurt her. 🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:34 AM
1

There is this cut video where they ask 100 people to rank a woman from 1 to 10 and her scores ranged from 3 to 10. Her average was on the high side though so I know that attractive people are attractive. Objectively she's beautiful. I have friends who are objectively beautiful but I have never been attracted to them. Attraction is subjective. I'm into nerds with great smiles. I become a stammering mess around them but I'm not gonna say Brad Pitt isn't attractive either. And to be honest I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:17 AM
2

Lol, I thought my frowny face and the over exaggerated reaction of 'You liar!' made it obvious I was being sarcastic. Guess I still need to hang on to my /s
/r/seduction19/06/21 06:50 AM
2

You should pick up a hobby so you aren't obligated to show up every shift. What are you interested in?
/r/seduction18/06/21 09:44 PM
1

You liar! In another comment you said you only approached for the social skills now you're telling me you wanted to smash. ☹️
/r/seduction18/06/21 11:44 AM
3

What's a 666 guy?
/r/seduction17/06/21 09:08 PM
2

That sucks man.
/r/seduction16/06/21 07:25 PM
2

Do you put yourself out there? Nevermind, seems you're on the dating apps. Don't know what's up then. Goodluck!
/r/seduction16/06/21 07:07 PM
8

It's sad because a lot of times guys invest in girls who have other prospects they'd rather pursue. Then girls invest in guys who love bomb them but really want a short term fling or a booty call. It's sad for us all. Just gotta be genuine and go for people who are genuine as well.
/r/seduction15/06/21 10:16 PM
3

Being considerate becomes unhealthy when it is a detriment to your well-being. This post literally ends with "all that matters is you talk to a tonne of girls and try to have sex with them." And I don't think I can classify not having a shit ton of sex as detrimental. No one is saying don't live that PUA lifestyle, just don't make people uncomfortable in your pursuit.
/r/seduction14/06/21 01:13 PM
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I don't think being situationally aware of how blocking a girl in so she has no escape, can be construed about worrying about yourself too much. You have to pray to God that the man can deal with rejection because shit can get bad real quick. Reading comments like yours scares me honestly because you genuinely believe it is okay. Someone did this to me once, gave me his number and made me call him so he had my number. I was so uncomfortable the whole ride. We got off at the same stop and I took …
/r/seduction14/06/21 12:33 PM
9

Not necessarily either. You could be a perfectly okay person but because they are a shitty human who is not attracted to you, they feel the need to put you down.
/r/seduction13/06/21 08:58 PM
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Of what? It doesn't really do much but give your self confidence a hit? If there was some constructive criticism in there, I'd see your point but where does one start with ew? Is it his teeth, face, hair, body odour, posture, style, weight, height, or maybe there was shit on his shoe, his shirt had something disgusting on it, looking unkempt, what he's eating. Ew isn't really an indicator of anything except you're a terrible person who says ew to people's faces.
/r/seduction13/06/21 08:43 PM
19

'Ew' isn't much of an opinion.
/r/seduction13/06/21 08:03 PM
1

I like your approach to things man. Goodluck out there.
/r/seduction13/06/21 01:03 PM
1

Do you have other avenues in which you try to meet women?
/r/seduction13/06/21 12:31 PM
3

"I'm going to kiss you now" also works. You're being assertive but communicating your intentions. They can move away if they don't want to. People don't realize that talking about it can build a healthy anticipation and suspense. It's can be quite hot.
/r/seduction11/06/21 05:30 PM
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I think we are basically saying the same thing. Don't go into a relationship thinking that someone is replaceable. But if they aren't putting effort into the relationship, don't be afraid thinking they are your only option. You have value and you will find someone who treats you the way you deserve to.
/r/seduction11/06/21 01:56 PM
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You should value yourself and know you deserve better. That does not translate to treating people as their replaceable. Value them and invest in the relationship. If you think they are replaceable at the first sign of trouble, you discard it rather than working out the kinks and issues. It's like a rich person with a car, it's replaceable when it starts having issues because so many other cars and they have the money. But for someone who scrimps and saves, who values and takes care of their car,…
/r/seduction11/06/21 01:17 PM
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I agree with the sentiment. There should be an equal give and take in any relationship. No one should invest more than the other. I certainly love doing things for my partner as a woman, making them happy. What I do disagree with is the whole your partner is replaceable mindset, that's stupid. I think there is a healthy middle ground between make her your goddess and she is replaceable. Having that mindset of your partner being replaceable makes you treat them like dirt. Be honest, open and give…
/r/seduction11/06/21 11:34 AM
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Yeah it definitely can be. When there is a long pause with prolonged eye contact, your feet are facing each other, you're sorta leaning in. You place your palm on the side of her neck and sweep your finger over her cheek. You lean in a bit more and whisper, "can I kiss you?" And you hear the hitch in her breath when she says "yes." You go for a soft kiss at first, lean back, see her reaction then go for a longer one. That's magic right there.
/r/seduction11/06/21 09:15 AM
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Every time I see posts like this I just always think, "our baby boy is growing up" with a tear in my eye. He'll get there soon and he'll be out of the nest and taking the initiative soon enough. You got this OP!
/r/seduction11/06/21 09:10 AM
7

How I understand value is being yourself. No corny pickup artist lines. Be the person you're going to be 100% of the time. Be honest and open. If there are no expectations, there is no pressure on yourself to act a certain way. You're simply interacting with people and putting your best foot forward. Neediness means being pushy. Talk openly about what you're looking for, understand that people have social lives, work and other things going on. So be cool in that you live a fulfilling life that y…
/r/seduction06/06/21 12:06 AM
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She didn't respond to your hello in the beginning and when you complimented her, she was awkward and tried to walk away. But then you still asked her if you could walk with her and she gave a slight pause then a not so enthusiastic affirmative. She clearly wasn't that interested from the start. She probably didn't feel like outright rejecting you when you couldn't read the signs. Guys can be scary. I think it takes courage to walk up to people in public but damn, she can't win either can she? Sh…
/r/seduction12/05/21 03:57 AM
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