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| – | Q4M: Do you believe it's better for women to have imperfect ways of vetting men, or do you prefer women to be wary around men in general?Be wary of men in general. I say this because I got women I care about. I’d rather feel offended and they be safe vs I get all the pussy and they be potential victims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 12:18 AM |
| 2 | I believe women are more sensitive to negative feedback than men. This study supports that.It’s a big group of men and women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 10:19 AM |
| 3 | I believe women are more sensitive to negative feedback than men. This study supports that.This is kind of common sense. I can roast my fat male friends, but I don’t roast the fat girl in the group because I know she can’t banter like the guys and the jokes would hurt her feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 02:17 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "my ex is crazy" = I drove her crazyI’ll concede that if you can concede the man being driven crazy by his ex gf when he does something insane. Otherwise no, people need to be held accountable for their actions. You’re a grown up, act like you got some sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 12:44 PM |
| 2 | How do you describe being in love?Happy to be around them. Idk, it’s hard to describe for me. I’ve only ever felt it for 1 girl some time ago but it was pretty damn good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 12:42 PM |
| 1 | What Defines Red Pill?A totally separate red pill from the woman 1, is the NPC 1. Humans are social animals, we tend to form groups and cultures, we hate being ostracized, we hate public scrutiny, etc. This is why bots are such a problem online, because they can form a seemingly false consensus and real people who will just go along with the false consensus because we are just wired that way. In other words many people don’t truly know how to think for themselves. This is an issue with the red pill because most men w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 12:54 PM |
| 1 | What Defines Red Pill?Being truly red pilled feels more like coming to a spiritual understanding. Women often can love you. You literally have women run away from their families, or ruin their lives over a man and crash out and commit suicide over men. Yes, they can love. The “women can’t love” stuff is why I said earlier the red pill wasn’t meant to be mainstream or for normies, because normies don’t know how to truly think and it makes them an easy target for grifters. We can’t all be Neo. Some people need to exist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 10:30 AM |
| 3 | What Defines Red Pill?No, nobody is saying they can’t like their partners for other deeper reasons. It’s just that people like to think that they are the exception in nature and that we are able to kind of just ignore our biological hardwiring and be civilized, when in truth men and women both are wired to crave certain things and to be repulsed by other things. And this aspect of human nature is often ignored despite us seeing it constantly, and it stretches into dating and relationships as well. Blue pill in this c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 10:03 AM |
| 1 | What Defines Red Pill?The red pill wasn’t meant to be mainstream or for normies. Like with everything once it becomes mainstream it gets watered down and mixed with a bunch of random shit that doesn’t truly work, and tbh there are multiple red pills for different topics other than women, and some you should honestly take before you ever go into other topics because it makes taking any red pill much easier for you. Anyway All the red pill is, is the idea that society has kind of manufactured to some varying degree and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 09:22 AM |
| – | The majority of Red Pill men are incredibly insecureLiterally. The red pill wasn’t meant to be mainstream, and it wasn’t meant for normies. A lot of the discussions on here really show that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Do y'all believe trans people exist ?I mean my instinct was that yes you got the XY chromosome, build, all that. You can individually be soft or tough but your personality is kind of a spectrum in that. And yes I believe men and women have different brains that are wired differently. But then I thought about it and it’s like we do have genetic mutations in humans. We have midgets, we got people who suffer gigantism, and we do have some crazier mutations like Hermaphrodites. So it’s possible that in your development in the womb, the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Do y'all believe trans people exist ?Actually, I’m gonna run my answer back and say yes they do exist. I thought about it a bit more while walking and yeah they do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 12:24 AM |
| -1 | Do y'all believe trans people exist ?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 12:09 AM |
| 7 | The majority of Red Pill men are incredibly insecureYou probably weren’t red pilled. Look, like literally anything in life once the plebs get involved it becomes watered down nonsense. Think of like a psychologist and then some dumb ass arm chair psychologist you see on Reddit who thinks they know shit but doesn’t actually know anything. That’s what the red pill is like. You got people who truly are red pilled, and then you got random idiots who come up with shit to sell to men that are seeking guidance. All the red pill is, is coming to terms wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 02:37 PM |
| – | Men who claim women are "boring" what makes them "boring" and what makes you more 'interesting' or 'fun' to be around?As a guy I gotta treat girl with kid gloves when we kick back. I can’t roast them the way I roast my guy friends, I can’t talk freely and be as obscene or ridiculous as I want to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 05:24 PM |
| 2 | The Politics of DatingThe red pill isn’t just about women. All the red pill is, is just an uncomfortable truth about reality that is more or less purposefully kept hidden/not acknowledge or ignored by society. the red pill is used for many things like are you red pilled on race, on gender, on politics, on sexuality, on economics, on religion, on culture, etc. The reason you get a lot of far right people who more or less like this shit is because in the end following these “uncomfortable truths” and peeling back layer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 03:15 AM |
| 1 | QFW When you hear people make jokes or belittle men for "compensating", having "small dick energy", or otherwise belittle people with smaller dicks, do you speak up?I think what OP is referring to is consistency of principles. I for example fat shame, but at the same time I do not have any issue with body shaming. I’m fine with that, I’m consistent. If you feel body shaming is bad, but then go on to body shame, then that’s where people will come to say that it’s hypocritical since your principles aren’t entirely consistent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 01:47 AM |
| – | How can men address the contention that we're falling behind and failing society?You just gotta run your own race. It’s not a competition. If a woman earns 6 figures that’s great, if a man earns 40K and is able to sustain a living for himself, that’s also great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 12:38 PM |
| 2 | No, Empire X did not collapse because of degeneracy/non-monogamy/whatever dating problemsYou don’t see the concept of shit like bread and circuses, as enough evidence? If the leaders of these empires that you are glazing felt the need to give the plebs gladiator matches and chariot races and these large festivals etc, maybe its because these leaders understood that just having people work so they don’t starve isn’t enough, and that the people need something more in their life? that people need things to look forward to other than shitty food and a roof over their head? That maybe th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 01:02 AM |
| 2 | No, Empire X did not collapse because of degeneracy/non-monogamy/whatever dating problemsSo in short you don’t believe that apathy can kill a civ slowly and snowball into conditions that cause an empire to collapse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 12:17 AM |
| 2 | No, Empire X did not collapse because of degeneracy/non-monogamy/whatever dating problemsDidn’t answer my question, but Aii. Anyway, did they “Have a say” no, but an empire only works because the people show up everyday to make sure it works and maintain it. An empire where all its citizens are crack heads with 0 loyalty, love, or motivation to do anything isn’t gonna last very long and will most likely get eaten by the empire where its people aren’t unmotivated crack heads. But you’re right, it’s only tenable for so long, so I guess we should just not care or put any maintenance in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 12:04 AM |
| 2 | No, Empire X did not collapse because of degeneracy/non-monogamy/whatever dating problemsOP let me just double back. Do you think that maybe Apathy can lead to bad actors taking over a country and leading it in a direction that would not be good for the people and could ultimately lead those things you mentioned + a bunch of other shit that ultimately leads to the end of a great empire? That the people having a true genuine investment in the empire and its people’s wellbeing could lead to them rallying behind leaders with the same core set of ideas that would prevent the collapse fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 11:38 PM |
| 1 | In this day and age, women have to be strategically bitchy to their men in order to get the best resultsStrategically bitching is a move that those who don’t got power usually do. The reason men are bitching is because a lot of guys adopted women’s way of doing shit hoping for the same results. Nobody cares about men like that, hence strategic bitching isn’t gonna work for men. Can’t stress enough how important it is for men to stop whining and get active | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 04:07 PM |
| 4 | Do high value girls never get ghosted after a (casual) hookup?Depends what you mean by “high value”. Imo the answer is no they do not because they wouldn’t be “hooking up”, and would build a very real connection first and vet the guy before doing that, so I’d say no. But your answer might differ and say yes, so it’s up to the person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 04:05 PM |
| – | Most Men will never outgrow their state of Low Value because they have “No Cards”Based. 100% true. This isn’t good for women either though but it’s the most important post on the sub for sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Do women only valuable from teens to early 20s?The average girl most likely can boost herself to a 7/10 by just taking care of herself and most importantly being very cool 🤨 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Do women only valuable from teens to early 20s?Emotions can override logic, it’s not that we are brainless animals but shit happens. Same concept where you get so mad that you do or say something you shouldn’t have. Simping for a girl is kind of like that. And it’s not 5% models, I feel like all 7/10 or above have had a simp whether they know it or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 07:10 PM |
| 6 | You can't be red pill if you're sexually unsuccessful.Maybe I got my pills mixed up but to me red pill is just the understanding. All that other shit is the aftermath of how you react to that understanding. If you realize that the world has some dark aspects in this case about human nature and how it relates to relationships, then you are redpilled. Now after becoming red pilled if you start navigating this reality with open eyes and are looking to get your money, and get your 10/10, and get your shit together and you are constantly working on self… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 07:29 PM |
| 5 | Do women only valuable from teens to early 20s?You’re right but People lose control, it happens. It happens to women too, they start doing shit that under normal circumstances they wouldn’t do. Part of the resentment and animosity from men to women is that women can get men to lose control and simp for them and the guy won’t know it till way later, but that power for women is only around for about 15 years before it starts burning out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 07:17 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on woman's "expiration date"?Look OP I’ll give you the facts. Red pill/the wall/expiration dates all of that is a guy thing. It’s a thing we talk about and you need to see this from our POV in totality. Relationships like everything else in life that has 2 people in it, will generally have a power dynamic involved. Women who are in their physical prime are gonna have a lot of power over men. When we look at shit like expiration dates or the wall, we generally mean this is when a woman begins losing that power because their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:52 PM |
| 9 | You can't be red pill if you're sexually unsuccessful.Red pill is just understanding nature. Sometimes people are just fucked in ways they can’t compensate for or overcome and it is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:32 PM |
| 7 | Do women only valuable from teens to early 20s?It’s not so much valuable so much as they begin to lose power or relevancy over men as they get older. Think of it like having simps or just the power to make shit happen with men. Girl who’s 21 ould go to a club and have some guy inviting her into his booth he paying for and dropping 1000s to impress her, or she could walk into a job interview and coast off her looks if the interviewer is a guy, she could cleavage her way out of a ticket, etc, now She won’t have that same pull at 45. Doesn’t ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 11:51 AM |
| 1 | How many of you have changed your preferences (likes/dislikes, turn-ons/turn-offs) because of begging; pleading; shaming; or derogatory remarks from women?None at all. The shaming is a good sign that I’m right and shaming just makes me double down 😂 The true red pill. Everything is about power, even relationships are about power. Shaming is just a tactic for people to assert, gain, or maintain power. Like guys slut shaming was a way to keep women under control to some extent, women use shame the exact same way to keep men under control. Women trying to use shame = women giving themselves away | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 12:28 PM |
| 2 | The Male loneliness epidemic is created by design by the elites (Men) to get men ready for war and take all the women for themselvesSo flip it on them bros. Just think about it. Imagine war breaks out. Your elites set this up so you could go fight for them, only you turn on them. You switch to the opposing side under the condition that you get a comfy job in the new region/territory that the opposing side gets once they crush your elites. Boom. Problem secured. You win, the elites who socially engineered you lose, and you retire a war hero and a new founding father for the next regime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 11:03 PM |
| – | The female body is better suited for survival in harsh conditionsVery true and this is why women are perfect for the warlord. See the warlord and his army being bigger and stronger can protect women from nomadic barbarian hordes while also taking the woman’s food since she needs less calories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 09:18 AM |
| – | What Men WantTrue true. So who hurt you this time? I’m detecting a… hostile vibe towards my gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 05:32 PM |
| – | What Men WantBased woman finally understands | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally.Not true. I only love pets and my parents unconditionally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Women with messed-up/morally problematic interests are shown more grace than men with nerdy/unusual but not morally problematic interestsSo Stop showing them grace. Just be like oh naw, you’re a sick fuck and then keep it moving | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 08:11 PM |
| 0 | “Trust But Verify” paternity tests are bs because most men would never want a woman that’s always paranoid of cheating.You’re right. Willing to trade. You get you do your trust/verify with men and men can trust but verify with women which includes paternity tests 🤝 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 03:40 AM |
| 2 | *"Nice Guys"* don't actually exist?100% correct. There has never existed a nice guy ever in the history of humanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Could you ever view a man as a good feminist or ally in your eyes if his sexual preferences were that of a redpiller?OP forgot going for younger girls. What if he almost exclusively likes girls between the ages of 18-24? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 03:39 PM |
| – | American men are becoming disinterestedBased | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 04:24 PM |
| 25 | Why are modern woman so keen on "vetting" a man?Vetting is based and keeps out all the riff raff | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 04:45 PM |
| 6 | Red pillers don't understand the "female gaze" at allSome of the chadfishing went hard in making the personality of Chad messy by having him been arrested for sexual assault or racist and all that and the girls still were interested in chadfish. So a lot of dudes know more than given credit for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 11:04 PM |
| 3 | Is the reason why most men do more than the bare minimum to survive due to the promise or chance of a wife and kids?Some men for sure. It’s biology to have kids, that’s gonna be an instinct in many men. If it was just a man out for himself, a guy can live in pretty much any type of condition. You ever see a dudes house after he gets his own place? It’s got like no furniture. Just a tv, a mattress, and a few hairs. Dudes will live like that for a while too not giving a fuck. Women would rather die than live like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 03:32 AM |
| 2 | "Female privilege" only exists because of menGuns are not force equalizers for women. Man with a gun > woman with a gun more often than not. Men with guns > women with guns Milita of men > milita of women And so on. The comment I made is talked in collectives, one rabid incel isn’t gonna strip women of their rights, but if men wanted it, and were determined to truly strip women of their rights, it honestly would be easy work for the men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 11:38 PM |
| -1 | "Female privilege" only exists because of menWhere are you getting that the power imbalance isn’t that big? The power imbalance is huge. It took thousands of years for women to get their rights and when they did it wasn’t because women overpowered men, it was literally them just convincing men over time. If women tried to force their rights and men were determined to keep women subservient it would be easy work for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 10:30 PM |
| 3 | "Female privilege" only exists because of menIdk what you’re trying to dispute here? Yes men are dangerous. That doesn’t change anything I said. Bears and lions were an issue that humans overcame thousands of years ago and now they only exist because some people think they’re cool to look at. Some of the bears and lions are in our circuses riding unicycles for our amusement. Yes we’re dangerous we all know this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 10:06 PM |
| -1 | "Female privilege" only exists because of menLady I gotta start with I do believe you should have rights as a human being. Rights to do whatever it is we guys do. But if all men collectively were moving the same way the taliban moved, there’d be nothing women could do. no amount of organizing and fighting relentlessly would give you those rights. You do need men to go along with you to have it. It’s not a bad thing to just admit that, it’s a sad part of reality but it is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 09:57 PM |
| 2 | "Female privilege" only exists because of menIs this a real question? Maybe I’m just not understanding it, but why don’t bears or lions enslave humans? The “bears and lions in society” is human men. Men are the apex, like We literally write laws to keep us from hunting not just bears and lions but damn near every other animal out there into extinction. literally any animal rights group talking to the lion and bear. 👇 https://youtube.com/shorts/vJfWc35vEAI?si=WmvdJOzcv3kcCp2M | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 09:51 PM |
| – | Woke isn't coming backI think the term you’re looking for is the culture war was won by the right, and for the most part won by guys. Future is undetermined though and things could spiral down again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 04:58 PM |
| – | Women don't mind men being starved for intimacy. Women do mind if men find a fix for it that does not involve them or if they walk away or worse if men decide to deny intimacy to them.For the guys on here, it’s a very simple red pill. A lot of the world just different groups looking to gain an advantage over the rest within society. What you described OP is just an example of that. You’re not entitled to sex = us women don’t gotta fuck you. Mocking you for the alternatives = you are no longer chasing/wanting us which kind of takes a bit of power from us. It’s why a lot of these debates are meaningless at the end of the day because people aren’t transparent in why they do/want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women look down on or criticize femcels as much as incels?Based and undisputedly true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Women who obsess over marriage are pick me girls.Ok. But 1) the pick me girls are right in this particular situation, and a random aside but 2) Pick me girls are cool. What’s the problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 11:58 PM |
| 2 | A man’s desire to be promiscuous, but want a non-promiscuous woman isn’t “values.” It’s preference.Based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 04:17 PM |
| 1 | How are women who enjoy casual sex “being used?”Yes sugar mommas are a thing but much less prevalent, and guys flat out can and do get a younger girl without being a sugar daddy, like that is very common. And no I’ve seen fat dudes pull hoes you just learn to compensate either through personality or wealth like you said. fat girls though not so much. I see dudes settling for fat girls fs, I’ve seen that happen a few times but it’s like an open secret that dudes moving the moment he gets a shot at someone better Also I literally told you what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 11:37 PM |
| 1 | How are women who enjoy casual sex “being used?”Guys aren’t held back in dating by their age or looks as much as women are. That’s why I said they are tied more to their bodies than men are. Guys can usually compensate for their body in other ways that women a lot of the time can’t. Like a guy can gain that weight and it won’t hurt him in dating as much as woman gaining weight will. And fuck him for a burger is an expression, you don’t need to nitpick it to death, it just means you’ll fuck him without much effort or work on his end. Obviously… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 11:00 PM |
| 1 | How are women who enjoy casual sex “being used?”It’s not that men DO sex to women, it’s that men often work harder to have sex with women. So for that man it is more of an accomplishment to have it than it is for a woman. Hence why the lock and key example exists, which you can dismiss it but it is still a valid example. And no, men aren’t ran through for sleeping around, there is a double standard between men and women. She can be ran through and for the streets, but he can’t. Although I do say it can get gross at some point for guys to fuck… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 10:55 PM |
| -2 | How are women who enjoy casual sex “being used?”Women are more tied to their bodies than men are. A lot more tied to their bodies. This is why concepts like the wall exists, you hit a certain age your metabolism slows down, wrinkles start to show out some more, shit starts sagging, etc. in fact women know this hence the plastic surgeries. Now it ain’t just physical, it’s also on a conceptual level as well. As a girl generally what is wanted Of you is for you to have a low bc because your sexuality is something that you should give to your man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 08:04 PM |
| -1 | How are women who enjoy casual sex “being used?”If you going around having casual sex as a girl that’s the pov a guy will have, that you are used up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 07:50 PM |
| -1 | How are women who enjoy casual sex “being used?”You only see it from a girls POV. If I find you and we fuck, then you go onto the next guy, and the next guy, and the next guy, and the next guy, and the next and the next and the next and the next. You aren’t so much as “being used” so much as you are all used up. Like you been ran through. That’s the way a dude would see it. Like you ran around had a hoe phase, now you all used up. You were being used during the act, now after the fact you’re all used up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 07:48 PM |
| – | "It's not your job to fix people" has been a disaster for datingOk but who wants to pay for the shit someone else did? Like say I got trust issues, which woman in their right mind wants to go through the trouble of fixing my trust issues and dealing with my paranoia that they don’t need to put on themselves? Like not even trying to turn it into an age gap debate but that’s one of the real benefits of dating a younger girl is you get her without the damage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 04:18 PM |
| 12 | When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys.To be fair I can kind of spot fuckboys and future deadbeats, domestic abusers are harder to spot though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Would you date a woman who claims she was falsely accused of falsely accusing a man?Nobody listens to those guys who say that. A girl over 30 is gonna get guys as long as she looks good enough to attract them. And it’s fine idk how many other ways I can say that it’s reasonable for women to be suspicious of men who have been accused, but at the same time the men are going to be mad at the situation and lack of understanding as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 02:45 AM |
| 3 | Q4Men: Would you date a woman who claims she was falsely accused of falsely accusing a man?The rejection is part of a bigger picture of suffering. Nobody is owed a friend but if I lie about you and say you are a pedophile and all your friends decide to stop talking to you and everywhere you go people are looking at you weird and nobody wants to associate with you or work with you or date you, and all this other shit. That person is going through a lot and I’d say they’re suffering. sure we can say “not having a friend isn’t suffering” but that is just 1 aspect from a larger issue that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Would you date a woman who claims she was falsely accused of falsely accusing a man?Yeah that’s perfectly reasonable on your end. I said that in my comment. You have a right to be put off by it, I 100% agree. Guys also have a right to feel some type of way about it because a person is suffering due to a life ruining lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 10:58 PM |
| 4 | Q4Men: Would you date a woman who claims she was falsely accused of falsely accusing a man?You ever have like a little brother or sister who for no reason at all just randomly for no reason at all just ran to your mom and cried saying you hit them, and then you got punished for it? It’s kind of like that but a million times worse. Like if I get falsely accused of rape and I lose my job, my reputation takes a colossal hit, if it happens at a university now all these girls are uncomfortable with my presence and I might get kicked out, my friends stop talking to me and those who stick ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 10:52 PM |
| 4 | Q4Men: Would you date a woman who claims she was falsely accused of falsely accusing a man?Tbh, I wouldn’t date Sally once I heard she was raped in general. Now the false accusation thing is tough but it wouldn’t factor into it because I’d be out regardless. I’d have to have known Sally before the rape and already been invested in her as a person for me to ponder the would I date her or not question. If I find out it’s false then I’d be out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 10:42 PM |
| 3 | If society would become less hierarchical and more connected, that would actually benefit "losers", probably even in dating, and that's not a bad thing.Hierarchies are natural. I don’t think you could artificially remove that from people. There’s just things that are seen as preferable and it’s in our dna, like why not just embrace it and be honest about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 11:45 PM |
| 0 | "What could X age possibly have in common in Y age" is a ridiculous argumentI knew a 30 year old who dated an 18 year old. Like flat out 18 graduated HS last year and they get along extremely well. Both love animals, both love to travel, both love the water/ocean, both love shooting guns, both love the outdoors, both love the same sports. And their vibes are actually pretty good. He’s set up and got his money, she obviously isn’t and if that’s the issue you guys have then fine, nothing you can do about that. Atm though he’s finally in a place financially where he can af… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 08:03 PM |
| 0 | I Cracked the answer behind the big dick and relationship material debatesHigh school was the first time I heard a girl say that. They weren’t all in high school most was college. But my personal exp it’s not as simple as it’s bad. you got many that do enjoy the objectification to a certain degree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 09:20 AM |
| 0 | I Cracked the answer behind the big dick and relationship material debatesYeah women. First time I heard it was in HS, we were driving it was me, this loud idiot friend of mine, and this girl was in the backseat. My friend in the passenger seat for some fuck ass reason stuck out the window as two girls were walking by and he just yelled “HEYYY FUCK MEEEEEEEEEE” a few minutes later we dropped him off, and me and her talked about it and I was under the impression that it was disrespectful to yell shit or honk or just cat call girls in general and she said flat out her a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 12:58 AM |
| 0 | I Cracked the answer behind the big dick and relationship material debatesHave heard the opposite though that some girls do enjoy the attention. They don’t want it to be overbearing or that a guy whips his dick out but that they enjoy the catcalling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 11:37 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Why are so many of you so convinced that abusers are obvious, blatant, cartoonishly evil people that can be easily spotted?They kind of can be easily spotted tbh. I bet your brother, father, or any close male friends can spot them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 03:02 AM |
| – | Is caring about women seen as weakness (being a simp) or manipulation among men?Caring about women is fine in the way that caring about people is fine. The thing with simps is that usually simps don’t realize women are more similar to men in character and therefore overvalue women to a stupid degree to where it comes at his own expense, which is not good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes?Nah he isn’t crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 08:50 PM |
| -1 | Is Jamie a “monster” or a product of a broken system that failed him?What did Jamie do that was so bad? Answer that before you call him a monster | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 02:46 AM |
| 10 | A word about "single mothers"I get it though. Like if we flip the scenario around. Lets say I go around fucking big titty, slim waist, fat assed girls. Just strippers, pornstars, toxic ass women, bipolar women, all the crazy women that give me all of the wild sex imaginable. Then I have a kid and for hypothetical reasons the mom is out of the picture. Now that kid changes everything. My priorities change, I might be fine having a crazy girl or a toxic relationship when it’s just me, but because I have a kid I cannot afford … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 02:07 AM |
| 4 | A word about "single mothers"I get why they don’t like them, 100% understand but I just don’t believe in dragging them. Hating is bad. Like if we trolling for fun that’s fine just keep it light banter, but real hate is bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 01:26 AM |
| 24 | A word about "single mothers"It does sound like people hate single moms at times. I’d never seriously date one, but I do feel bad for them. Especially seeing how people talk about them lmao, like damn people really don’t want to see them enjoy life 😂 Everyone deserves to be happy like damn. If you don’t want a single mom just don’t date them. I don’t date fat girls but I don’t go around wishing misery on them either tf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Is it true most guys would cheat given the opportunity?Some men might. You generally don’t know if your man is the type who’s never had options. I’d say for the most part the answer would be no if you are a forever type of love. If it’s known that you’re just a temporary thing with temporary thing energy, then I think yeah you probably would get cheated on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 10:11 AM |
| – | There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety.You gotta read the entire thing. I am fine owning that I didn’t do anything. Those girls weren’t mine, I wasn’t gonna risk myself for them. That’s me. That’s not all guys. My thing was telling the girl I was bantering with that you don’t want guys as a collective to not care about women or worse to become actively hostile to women. Men saying you’re not entitled to my security is bordering on that. It is a guy saying to you to not count on me to come out for you. Which I also said it is childish… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Non-westerners and non-assimilated foreigners are ruining western dating discourse and western dating.You can probably have it on 4chan but it would just be guys, I doubt you’d get many women over there to have that discussion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Non-westerners and non-assimilated foreigners are ruining western dating discourse and western dating.Now you’re adding shit. The initial stuff in your post makes them sound mostly cool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 03:13 AM |
| 0 | Non-westerners and non-assimilated foreigners are ruining western dating discourse and western dating.Damn the foreigners sound based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 03:08 AM |
| – | Men care about body count because they're jealousYes. Protecting you from other men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 02:37 AM |
| – | Men care about body count because they're jealousI think it’s a biological instinct for men to find it repulsive, at least that’s what I remember reading. Either way, I happen to find the exclusivity hot. Something attractive about the idea that my girl would only share that side of her with me vs the idea that she would share that side of her with plenty of random guys. Especially under the context you laid out where she’s single and just catching bodies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 02:33 AM |
| 0 | There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety.Yeah you clearly didn’t read. If the girl reports it and there is clear evidence of that rape, then yes the rapist goes to prison. If the girl doesn’t report a rape then what consequence do you want to happen? And you’re concerned only with rape, but since that is your pet peeve literally look at some countries like India and the way guys openly assault women over there because literally nobody cares. You don’t get that level of shit here specifically because most of the guys here 1) don’t do sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 01:48 AM |
| -3 | There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety.That’s a dumb thing to say. The consequence to rape is prison. If there isn’t enough evidence for that conviction then he isn’t going to prison. It’s unfortunate but that’s the system we have. If women don’t report it or wait too long to report it, then odds are the rapist is going free, that’s got nothing to do with men protecting or not protecting women. But getting back to the topic at hand I agree with OP that it is an immature to say to a girl over not getting sex, but you do not know as a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 01:24 AM |
| -3 | There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety.No you have not always been alone. Maybe YOU, but not women as a collective. Believe me, there’s plenty of crazy guys out there who would do a lot of wild shit to women but choose not to because they don’t know how the men in the area would react. Like literally the presence of a guy can make someone rethink their next move. If guys collectively start saying you’re not mine so idc what happens to you, and these predatory ass dudes feel they’ll be no immediate consequence to doing some shit to a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 12:45 AM |
| 6 | There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety.Tbh I think I’ve seen a guy beat a woman’s ass about 3 times and none of those times did a guy in the area do anything. Including myself btw. So I don’t think guys were really out there saving women as is. And I agree it sounds wildly immature.. but because you tagged this as a debate, I’ll throw hands with you for the fuck of it. Anyway I’m just going off my lived experience, but as a guy I legitimately just.. do shit. I drink my drink, I don’t worry about people putting shit in it. I take my u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 12:14 AM |
| 5 | On a Redpill logic, aren't single mothers good for a majority of men?You know you could just find a wife in another country instead of getting with a single mom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 10:41 PM |
| 1 | If a woman voted against your reproductive rights, would you still want to date her?No, I wouldn’t want to date her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 11:06 AM |
| 0 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?Girl do you, let guys do them. Only real argument I can make if you’re dead set on this topic is if a girl is at her peak, she can get the best guy available to her. What constitutes that peak is up for debate. The same goes for men. If I’m broke as fuck at 20 and I settle down for a girl who ain’t shit at 20 and we get married before I reach my peak at 30 where I’ll have tons of money and options, you can say I shot my shot too early and ruined my chances at finding the best partner. Same for w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 12:02 AM |
| – | CMV: It's unattractive when a man matches a woman's energyYeah I know, I like it. Yeah I haven’t seen the video, but overall I agree. Guys shouldn’t act like women or match a girls energy in that way. I don’t think it’s a controversial take. Hope your next man isn’t a brat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 06:09 PM |
| – | CMV: It's unattractive when a man matches a woman's energyAh ok I feel you. In MY experience I’ve been hit on by girls in different ways and imo the best way is when girls do it subtly. Whenever a girl comes on too aggressively I find it off putting. I much prefer for her to do it subtly by putting herself in my area, and just make herself available but letting me do the work on the front end. So if I don’t like a girl doing my thing, I can see how a girl would be annoyed by a guy acting like a girl and coming off as sassy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 06:03 PM |
| – | CMV: It's unattractive when a man matches a woman's energyOk yeah, I agree. Why do you feel it’s ok for women to be sassy though? Idk why your flair says blue pilled, I think it’s more of a red pilled take tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 05:55 PM |
| – | CMV: It's unattractive when a man matches a woman's energyAny particular reason why you believe these things? I am not saying I disagree because I agree dudes should pursue more on the front end while girls can do it theirs on the back end, but I’ll add only girls who are legitimately worth being pursued get that traditional treatment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 05:09 PM |
| 1 | UNPOPULAR OPINION: MEN REACH THEIR PEAK BETWEEN LATE TEENS TO EARLY 20S, JUST LIKE WOMENBased | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 02:48 PM |
| 3 | There should be a requirement to flair your sexual orientation when debating on this subBet. Let’s make this happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 12:24 AM |
| 0 | There’s nothing wrong with ‘baby mama culture’ if the kids are happy and have a good father in their life.Bc a gf hasn’t earned these things. To get married you should really put real thought into it. It’s not just “I really love this person”, it’s I’m gonna spend the rest of my life with this person and can I trust this person with my life (hence my example of your wife being in charge of pulling the plug on you). If she’s your wife, if you can fully commit to each other and you believe she’s there in sickness and in health, then ok, buy her a car. If she’s just ur gf, then no. She ain’t earned it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 11:00 PM |
| 0 | There’s nothing wrong with ‘baby mama culture’ if the kids are happy and have a good father in their life.I think having a kid is a big deal and before you bring that kid into the world there should be a lot of thought that goes into it. Usually baby mamas get criticized bc baby mamas dont put as much thought into having a kid as you reasonably should. Now ur hypothetical, I’d agree that there isn’t anything wrong under the circumstances of “everyone is happy” and the man is a good father. But what usually comes into people’s head when they hear baby mama, is a woman who either 1) irresponsible. 2) … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 10:41 PM |
| 1 | The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation.What? 🤨 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 11:39 PM |
| 0 | The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation.This is you 👇 https://youtu.be/sDxPyGIV9Xo?si=FJSv8Hop5gSSN_XS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 08:51 PM |
| 9 | The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation.The girl is right though, a lot of these type of guys are manipulative as fuck. Imagine she likes you, and I’m here acting like I want the best for her and I’m telling her how you suck and shit trying to get her to stop liking you, not because I’m her genuine friend but because I wanted your girl for myself. That’s what a lot of guys do. She’s right to be suspicious, and that suspicion benefits the man she actually ends up with too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Why do women not enjoy helping their male friends, by being a wing woman for them?Haha 😂 yoooo you lk got em though I’ll give u that 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 02:46 AM |
| 6 | Is virgin shaming REALLY a high-school thing or it just seems so?Tbh incel is like an insult that only really works on simps imo. Bc by its nature it presupposes that there’s a value in what women find attractive. Like u said, there’s plenty of ways to have a go at someone. Like if I was a 2 foot tall, ugly, toothless, broke, fat, bald, green, guy with very antisocial tendencies.. you could just insult my character or my personality. The fact that incel a lot of the time is the first shot fired, kind of adds this layer of like well bc of these unappealing tra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 06:52 PM |
| 6 | Is virgin shaming REALLY a high-school thing or it just seems so?Good, stay classy 🤘🏻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 06:35 PM |
| 29 | Is virgin shaming REALLY a high-school thing or it just seems so?I’ve seen it happen irl a few times. Not virgins literally bc I only know 1 actual virgin, but I’ve seen girls point out like you get no bitches at all as an insult. A lot of the time it is banter, but much like I see online and irl, it seems to be the go to thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 06:33 PM |
| 87 | Is virgin shaming REALLY a high-school thing or it just seems so?Women use incel and its variations as like their go to insult so, no. We all know what’s up though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 05:34 PM |
| 0 | Question about financially successful women.The guy I was responding to said you were fat so I took his word for it. But good on you for taking your meds, a lot of shit can be avoided if people just took their medication. You can find a guy, there’s plenty of guys out there don’t let haters kill ur vibe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 01:40 PM |
| -4 | Question about financially successful women.She’s gotta find someone that will put up with a crazy fat person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 06:24 AM |
| 16 | Question about financially successful women.Looks + personality. Ignore the wall talk. Don’t let it get to you like that. Like everything u hear from red pill dudes needs to be taken with a grain of salt bc while there is a lot of truth to it, a lot of is blown out of proportion bc dudes come in angry and say shit out of malice. If you look good, got a good personality, then I’m sure you can find a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 11:49 PM |
| 3 | Why do you like "bro" spaces?With guys we kind of modify a lot of how we behave or what we talk about bc we don’t want girls to label us as weird or creepy. When it’s just guys who we are comfortable with we can really be us and say the most out of pocket weird shit and not worry about how fuckable we look. For sports and lifting weights and shit, that’s just a genetic thing in guys. I think most guys love competition which is why literally anything you can think of can become a multi million dollar industry, everything fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 10:33 PM |
| 0 | Why do you like "bro" spaces?It’s a guy thing, you wouldn’t get it 🤚🏻 <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 02:22 PM |
| 7 | Why do you like "bro" spaces?Bc girls can’t hang like that. I’ll just speak for me but in my experience but my friend group is pretty mixed with guys and girls, but there is a guy only group chat and the guys do get together without the women and just be guys and honestly it’s like fight club, only less schizo. Like we’re real fucking mean to each other like we roast each other and banter, and make fun of each others biggest L’s. Like if you don’t know how to cut ass you’re gonna have a bad time, but if you do then it’s jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 03:01 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill is Making Men Weaker, Not StrongerI think a lot of ppl get red pill shit fucked up bc these things go in stages. Like I remember when I was a little ass kid, I had an older cousin of mine who suddenly became an atheist and maaaan this fucking guy would not stfu about it. Everything was religion is evil this, religion is to blame for that, etc. straight up times I would go out to hang with friends and he’d me in the living room having it out with my aunt and mom over religion. Now the guy is still an atheist but he doesn’t even t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 08:48 PM |
| 6 | Women end up hating the Men they create.It was a long time ago, but I got her back before we broke up. Technically me and her are even, and I learned a ton from that relationship which I am grateful for, I needed to go through it, it still sucks ass to think back and go damn I was a bitch. I actually managed to save my best friend from it though bc I recognized what was happening when he was going through the same shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 03:12 AM |
| 14 | Women do actually hate the idea of sex robots despite saying otherwise.Based soul haver, you get it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 11:23 AM |
| 26 | The "If she did it with an ex, she should do it with me" rule applies to peggingIs this a troll post? Or do you really not get why dudes say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 03:21 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Real Men arenot still bitter over how girls treated him in high schoolLk convinced this is a Bait post. But it’s a good 1 though 😂 Goes to show Nobody can bait dudes the way a woman can. Anyway, big disagree. Being older, ran through, and with kids is all unattractive. I don’t see many men really fucking with that tbh and I don’t blame a guy for not wanting a girl who fits that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 01:49 PM |
| 6 | Generally speaking, women are more empathetic than men.Seeing them do some of these dudes like that was a Real learning experience lk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 12:10 AM |
| 6 | Generally speaking, women are more empathetic than men.Don’t care what some nerds statistics say, I been around enough women to know you ain’t much different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 10:05 PM |
| 30 | Generally speaking, women are more empathetic than men.No they ain’t. Women pick and choose where their empathy goes. I’ve seen women in my friend group do some horrifying shit to dudes and just laugh about it, and then I’ve seen them get into fist fights defending a different dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 06:42 PM |
| 1 | When people say men’s issues are “mental health,” what exactly do men need to get mentally healthy that’s different from what women need?Porn is a huge 1, and I think it also gives guys body dysmorphia with their dicks and shit. And yeah you’re right. It’s real predatory, the way you put it instagram and twitch funneling these kids into porn. I’ll also add girls that take part in that by getting an onlyfans themselves and becoming a part of this entire thing that lk targets guys at a young age and dump addictions onto them is probably a big part of why so many guys feel some type of way about sex work. Anyway addictions literally… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 07:43 PM |
| 7 | When people say men’s issues are “mental health,” what exactly do men need to get mentally healthy that’s different from what women need?I got u OP. Porn is not good for you. It’s just not. Young guys start watching porn real fucking young, like 12 or younger. This isn’t good and it fucks how young guys see sex, fucks up how they see women, and it fucks with their head in general. Now do a decade or two of that shit. Video games also just eat your time. Now a hobby isn’t bad, but I think a lot just got video game addiction which is poison to dudes minds. This also starts for guys real young, probably younger than the age of 10. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers.Lk the law should be changed to have mandatory paternity testing, that way we all on the same page. I don’t really understand why people against it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Men and women don't understand each other, but smugly pretend to have the other completely figured out, locking the other gender into small boxes.Yeah but I meant if you hang with women long enough you kind of start to realize you can’t take them at their word 100%. Like guys are direct if I say I’m not hungry it’s bc I’m not hungry. A girl can say she not hungry but at the same time have no idea if she is or isn’t and then all of a sudden start trying to eat your food. Or you hear these stories from guys where a girl says she wants to see them show more emotion, so guys take that literally and they start to talk about their fears or inse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Men and women don't understand each other, but smugly pretend to have the other completely figured out, locking the other gender into small boxes.Most of the men haven’t had a real legitimate soul bonding relationship with a woman. In fact they don’t know many women irl. I’m convinced of that, bc if many did, they’d know that plenty of women waste years of their life dating absolute losers who got no money and look like shit. Women on the other hand just don’t comprehend being a guy and never could comprehend it bc we live in 2 different worlds and I don’t think they’ve ever invested into a guy enough to get what being a guy is like. OP i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 11:21 PM |
| 8 | The Lily Phillips situation proves AWALT is just confirmation bias and gender flipped “Yes All Men”.To some extent I feel like dudes don’t want to see sluts win. Lily is getting clout and I’m assuming she’s getting paid, which to a regular guy that has to work probably does get them some kind of mad. See the idea is I’m a guy I work, I work hard, I am responsible with my money, I make good investments, I make and generate wealth, etc. for women it can be that if they choose to do this, but women have the alternative of just marrying a guy who does all of this and the guy will carry you along w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 06:04 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Males should stop dropping out of the dating marketBased | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Telling women that they’re not entitled to protection or human decency shows a sense of entitlement.Rt lady. I’d call the cops for you. Most people would. You gotta understand that the internet is for people to vent, watch porn, talk shit, and pretend to be the asshole we want to be. When push comes to shove, most people would do right by each other. Don’t let internet bs get you down. If you don’t believe me, go get into some trouble and see how ppl come out to help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 12:35 AM |
| 3 | CMV: "Cooking with Kya" deserves the backlashNever seen this Kya girl before, so thanks for putting me on. Anyway she’s got the right to post whatever she wants, I don’t see the issue. Let the girl twerk <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 12:28 AM |
| 7 | Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women.That post is goated, I love reading everyone’s thoughts on it. Anyway, based post OP, you are 100% right. <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 12:19 AM |
| 8 | What happens to women who go through a hoe phase in their 20s later in life?Let’s gooo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 05:49 PM |
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