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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESCessacolypse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:59 PM
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I bet he was the fucking baby born by c-section and he’s saltier than the Dead Sea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 06:19 AM
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Why the fuck is she the one getting the goddamn list together??!! He’s the one that fucking got her pregnant, HE should’ve been reading up on all this shit. If he’s so fucking supportive, why isn’t he interested in learning about the changes her body is going through and everything about the birth of his child to ensure he can be there in every way he can for both of them? Why the fuck even give him handouts? I guarantee he’s not gonna read shit on that list she’s making and when he finally does…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 06:17 AM
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Yes, please someone do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 06:37 AM
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I very much agreeeeeee it drives me nuts! Never have I ever run into more misogynistic and racist men than when I am in a higher education environment. It’s one of the reasons I left grad school—both the students and the professors are exclaiming for ‘diversity and awareness!’ and they have no emotional intelligence or self awareness whatsoever. I also came to dislike the school’s values, as they don’t screen for this kind of behavior in all students and staff, which I think is ridiculous. Also,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 11:13 PM
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Yeah! Like why tf are you talking about shit so much?? What the fuck was this profile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 10:17 PM
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So…you kinda just helped me lift and remove a layer of trauma from my brain. Cause this perfectly explains why I was so harmed by my cradle religion. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 04:27 AM
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My face right now Edit to add: not at your post, but at the fuckery. I can’t even comprehend this kind of logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 07:57 AM
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Holy fuck lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 11:13 PM
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It’s definitely not right…the shoe, that is. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 11:12 PM
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I fucking love this response and with your permission I would like to use it verbatim 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 06:49 PM
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Ugh, fuck. Do you have a ring camera doorbell? And indoor security cameras? A chain lock on your doors/dowel rods in your sliding doors and windows? I have all of these as well as bars that go under the doorknobs to keep the door from even opening. I’m a rape and abuse survivor, so I have extra security on my home to feel safe. It may be helpful for you to do the same not only because he lives next door, but also for your peace of mind.
/r/askFDS23/09/21 01:12 AM
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I forgot to add that if he starts harassing you, then he’s adding fuel to his funeral pyre. How many houses down away from you is he? How many feet, if you could estimate?
/r/askFDS22/09/21 11:25 PM
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You just fell into pick me traps, hun. And honestly if your friends fucking utter any semblance of an ‘I told you so’ then they are NOT your fucking friends. I would gladly give you my number and Face Time with you while you do it, if that’s the case. You should not feel shame—you did nothing wrong. The feelings of shame are what our patriarchal society has imbued within our souls and shoved down our throats, and we’ve been conditioned to accept that shame and multiply it when bad things are don…
/r/askFDS22/09/21 10:56 PM
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You can call the police and have them send over a squad to your home and start the report there. Tell them you were —… fuck I wish I knew how to like ‘spoiler alert’ text so it isn’t so bluntly put…— orally raped and you want to file a report and get a restraining order. Make sure* they give you the report numbers.
/r/askFDS22/09/21 10:51 PM
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If we lived near each other, I would go with you. Do you have any one that you trust enough to Leo you with this? Edit: realized what I said sounded creepy so I just wanna clarify that I DONT know where you live, and am assuming we don’t live near each other.
/r/askFDS22/09/21 10:48 PM
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You’re dissociating, it’s normal for you to be confused about what you’re feeling right now. And my love, it does not matter whether you have ‘proof’ or not—your experience is proof enough. Police will be assholes and may ask you victim blaming questions, but that’s because it is a male-dominated career full of power abusers, narcs, and misogynists. Remain adamant during filing the report that you made it clear you were only coming by to chill, not be violated, and he forced you by grabbed your …
/r/askFDS22/09/21 10:38 PM
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This is rape. Regardless of you not saying no, you felt as though you couldn’t. You said no to sex earlier in the evening. You ignored his initial advances. He grabbed your hands and put them on his genitals. He choked you with his penis regardless of you being uncomfortable. He was your only way home, and you were afraid to say no because of it. You were afraid because he was aggressive. Call the police. File a report. Get a restraining order. This is rape. He didn’t ‘have no clue’ as to why yo…
/r/askFDS22/09/21 10:23 PM
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Please file a police report.
/r/askFDS22/09/21 10:17 PM
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No no no, we’re not fighting. I have just quite honestly never heard someone attribute their ‘lack’ of a characteristic to being unloved by a father figure. It’s something I’ve heard misogynistic men state as a way to insult women or neg them. So it threw me off a bit. I’m sorry that your father should’ve given you more attention. However, just because that’s happened, doesn’t mean you’re broken or missing an integral piece of your personality. Being assertive, aggressive, confident, outspoken, …
/r/askFDS20/09/21 10:32 PM
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Are you a dude disguised as* a woman in our sub? Cause your last statement is for lack of a better word, bullshit, and therefore, kind of a giveaway. If I’m giving you the benefit of the doubt, I can say that at the very least, it’s backwards thinking that is not gonna do you any good. I’m gonna refrain from responding to subsequent comments due to your last one being…questionable. Uhhhh Mods? Halp?
/r/askFDS20/09/21 09:10 PM
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Girl, I’m about to tough love the shit out of you. No, you can’t. No. Who fucking cares?? Why are you obsessed with him? Why are you so disappointed this one idiot who isn’t interested in you didn’t contact you? You’re giving off scrote energy yourself at this point. Just stop. Call different offices that are related to ones in your field and ask for a consultation with someone about the shit that you had planned on asking this guy. Problem solved on the needed mentorship/expertise bullshit excu…
/r/askFDS20/09/21 07:24 PM
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Nothing at all has changed. He literally told you his preferences in a partner and that you do not fill them. You’re blinded by your crush— ‘I told him I think he’s hot’ first of all, why? ‘He’s an unofficial mentor’—okay, make up your mind, do you want to fuck him or gain knowledge from his ‘expertise’? If he hasn’t contacted you at all during COVID, he’s not thinking about you. ‘I want a guy to see me romantically and I want to try and convince him to like me’ Girl, tf? Please go to horny jail…
/r/askFDS20/09/21 06:02 PM
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Unless he’s providing an actual link to the requested Uber ride, you really have no way of knowing whether who’s picking you up is legit. Even so, if he’s the one getting you an Uber through his app, then that means he’s the one putting in the destination…which he could change without your knowledge or find some way for you to not see it altogether. So nope, don’t do it! Someone else said pick a normal place that you’ll be able to know how to get home from, and I agree.
/r/askFDS19/09/21 02:51 AM
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I’m waiting for the day I can use the ‘Stop being so emotional’ statement💃🏾💅🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 11:44 PM
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I totally agree. Can we make this a thing? What would be the appropriate words to use? Personally, I wouldn’t mind calling a man a ho—I already call them a ‘bitch’ as a nice little reverse uno card so they can get a little taste of women’s experience with misogyny. Maybe man-whore? Although a simple word like ‘slut’ may just do the trick 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 08:39 PM
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Lol!! Make me want it! Amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 08:36 PM
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Yes, women can be misogynists. Internalized misogyny is a rampant occurrence/thing. Your mom was being very sexist and misogynistic here—sorry, btw.
/r/askFDS01/09/21 02:16 AM
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Yeah he’s being hella manipulative. Do not speak with him again, he’s bad news.
/r/askFDS18/08/21 06:12 AM
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He’s trying to make it seem like you have no one else to trust but him, and it should come easy because he’s going out of his way to help you (which is obviously bullshit). Stop talking to him.
/r/askFDS16/08/21 01:36 AM
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Aside from her values, she sounds like a very terrible friend who has never met your needs in the four years of friendship while you have always met hers. You should cut off contact.
/r/askFDS27/07/21 12:18 PM
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🥺 thank you!! 💜🍫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:16 AM
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Reading this made my day a whole lot better. Good for her, and thank you for posting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:41 PM
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Damn, I didn’t know that. Super duper wishful thinking, then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:04 AM
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We need to have women-only areas of seating and methods of transportation. Japan has whole train cars for women, and I wish America would do the same for that, for restaurants, or for any ‘shared’ spaces with men. Hell, if we can have a women-only shopping hours at stores, that would be fucking fantastic. Imagine being able to shop at stores where you don’t have to worry about some weirdo following you in the aisles/out to your car afterwards. What a world it would be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:23 AM
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I think this problem can be solved by you putting the boundary on yourself, and not him. Telling him you don’t want to text as much until you’ve seen each other may be a red flag for him. Instead of holding him responsible for your discomfort, you can take a step back and text less so that you feel less vulnerable. Don’t put it on him. I agree with another poster that you should seek therapy about codependency and not being ready to date, but also that you should take a step back and put the res…
/r/askFDS18/06/21 12:51 AM
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Oml I feel like a dork for not realizing this. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:19 AM
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‘You’re Puerto Rican but your skin is so light, you should get more sun’ ‘I was saying that stuff to see how you’d react’ ‘You’re very sensitive, it was just my opinion’ ‘Why do you always do this? [Me being an asshole and testing your boundaries for my amusement] isn’t a big deal’ Mother fucker, I will maim you. I will literally rip your face off you stinky baboon. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:22 AM
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I’m struggling with this concept. Before finding FDS last year, I had a lot of engrained pickme values as well as internalized misogyny that I had no idea was stuck so deep within me that it’s embarrassing. I started a new relationship around the time I came to FDS, but I didn’t learn ‘enough’ about myself yet to know that my past sexual trauma had also contributed to my sometimes hyper sexual behavior. That, coupled with the fear of ‘if I don’t fuck him, he’ll leave me,’ I wound up initiating s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:57 AM
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OOMPH!! Big hugs to you too!! 💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:22 AM
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Omg I didn’t even think about them being uploaded. That just makes it more upsetting. And I understand completely about what you said about the actor—if I see an actor I like do very well playing a creepy guy/rapist, I can’t enjoy anything else they’ve been in after seeing that. Completely ruins it for me because in my lizard brain if they can play a rapist so well as an actor, they can play it just as well irl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:41 AM
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For some reason the media isn’t always up to date though :/ but at least they have the option of letting the site know that they need to edit that media description. Having this site has definitely helped me fast forward through some stuff or avoid it altogether, which I really appreciate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:17 AM
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I was going to watch ‘The Nightingale’ on Hulu and looked it up first to see if there are rape scenes in it and I fell down a search hole of how the writer/director woman said that the rape scenes were necessary to show the horrible things that happened to the indigenous* peoples of Australia of that time, and that if it were a man who wrote/directed the movie, he wouldn’t have been called out so much about it by angry viewers. While I agree with that double standard, I truly don’t think it’s ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:12 AM
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I couldn’t add text to my pictures! But basically I responded to a post about the first picture—when I looked at the comments, I thought it was hilarious because someone obviously went through my posts and was like ‘mlegh it’s because she posts in FDS’ yeah you bet your little blemished ass I do. Like do they think I’m gonna retract my statement or clarify it? Some of the other comments are pickmes saying ‘women are Assholes too, why are you ignoring half the population?’ Oi. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:02 PM
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I WAS JUST GONNA POST THIS! She just uploaded a video about how people have been tagging her in videos in situations where you (OP) have experienced these things, where people are saying ‘give this girl advice about what to do in these situations’ and she’s like ‘Uh, no, anything you’ve done in these situations is the right thing for you to do because it kept you safe. I will not critique a video or a story because that casts blame on the person who experienced it.’ This isn’t verbatim, but it w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:41 AM
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Putting into words what I’ve never realized. Shit really does not benefit girls and women at all. I’m watching supernatural forge first time and I get super mad at all the male gaze scenes that happen, I’ve been fast forwarding most of the show to the end of the episodes to skip it. But that show has been around for like...16 years? That’s half of my life that I’ve been learning ‘how to be a woman’ from tv in general. I’m really angry about this but very happy this was pointed out, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:47 AM
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Oh my Fuck that was so cringie I couldn’t even get through the other minute of the video. My ex wanted me to watch this show with him and I’m SO glad I never agreed to. Although I kind to wish I had because if I had seen this bullshit sooner I would’ve realized how much of a POS he was and wouldn’t have gone through what I did. Sigh. Men really are in their own little fucking worlds, aren’t they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:44 AM
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I really like this man. He does such a great job of explaining things to shitty people and calling them out. I especially like him because he’s engaged in doxxing men whose videos are predatory and disgusting. I had to unfollow him though because the amount of videos he does calling people out winds up stressing me out and making me hate society/men/patriarchy even more than I’m already processing on a daily basis. But thank the gods for him, he truly does a great job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:04 AM
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Came here to say this. I’ve tried as best as I can to let other women know how gross the men they’re talking about are behaving. People get mad and say ‘the answer isn’t always leave your bf, she should talk to him first’ like did you not read her post cause she’s already said she’s had conversations with him and nothing changed? Leaving someone who doesn’t gaf enough to change is the correct answer. It’s slow but it’s definitely happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 10:16 PM
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Does anyone know of any meeting apps just for girls that you can develop platonic friendships with? Like a tinder for nonromantic relationships with only women? I have two best friends but I haven’t been able to see them since covid and I’ve been inside for a while. Or are those apps filled with fake people (like men pretending to be women, etc)? I don’t want to meet up with anyone but it would be nice to have a pen pal or something. Sorry if this isn’t allowed here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:50 PM
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Can you explain this? I genuinely don’t know and I want to learn why it’s a micro aggression
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 09:53 PM
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I’m a patchwork survivor and my trauma throughout my life has been really bad..is this why I’ve gotten into believing BDSM will offer me some ‘freedom’ and ‘control?’ Is it even freedom or reclaiming control? Also, I’ve never been spanked by either of my parents, but with my trauma, is liking being spanked another way I’m retraumatizing myself or something? Or do I actually have a kink? If you or anyone can direct me to a thread on this sub about it, I’d very much appreciate it*, because I reall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:22 AM
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Hugs and love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:03 AM
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I feel like I’ve experienced most of not all of these and now I’m feeling a very sad cry coming on. That’s normal, right? I mean I wanna cry cause I feel stupid and hurt but also because like...idk. Maybe I need to release those things first for it to be cathartic? How are you handling the realizations?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:50 AM
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