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My rule of them is to just try once or twice and then leave the ball in her court. If you keep asking you’re likely to keep getting let down and your time will be wasted. If she really wants to them she would get back to you with a new date that works.
/r/seduction02/01/19 09:46 AM
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She’s showing interest in you. Try giving her a compliment back and talk to her more.
/r/seduction21/12/18 10:48 AM
2

Pay for the first thing you do and then offer to take turns paying or go 50-50 afterwards.
/r/seduction18/12/18 09:35 PM
1

You definitely can attract women. We believe in you.
/r/seduction18/12/18 04:46 AM
1

Wear tighter underwear. I forget the name of it but it works wonders for situations like that. Although a well timed boner on a date can be a good thing if you’re confident about it
/r/seduction17/12/18 07:13 PM
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Are you flirting with them? That’s pretty important if you want to take things to the next level. I don’t think you mentioned if you were.
/r/seduction17/12/18 01:11 AM
1

You were in bed with her, only seems natural for sex to happen. Eventually make a bold move like sliding your hand up her shirt. If she doesn’t want you to do something she’ll push your hand away or say something. You just have to take the risks as the guy. Be bold. If it turns out she just wanted to cuddle, no harm no foul. She’ll understand you’re a guy and that’s what guys try to do and that there was just a misunderstanding.
/r/seduction16/12/18 11:08 AM
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They approach women on the street that they don’t know. That’s not comparable for a lot of women. If they knew them their success rate would be higher.
/r/seduction09/12/18 05:14 AM
1

Helloooo ladies! Who here is single and ready to mingle?
/r/seduction29/11/18 06:28 AM
1

Where did the cherry pop women go?
/r/seduction02/11/18 05:54 AM
1

Because the shy guy never flirts with the girls so he doesn’t put himself in a situation for something to happen
/r/seduction25/10/18 03:43 AM
1

I’m pretty sure you flirt with them and then after they flirt back you ask them if they wanna “hang out” with you.
/r/seduction05/10/18 08:14 AM
2

I don’t see the point in risking your life to do exciting things, like walking across the bridge in the picture or climbing MT Everest. That doesn’t seem worth it to me.
/r/seduction29/09/18 05:58 PM
1

I’m right here, sugar.
/r/seduction25/09/18 09:04 AM
3

A real shit-test would be that she’s showing signs of being interested in you and then she tests you. If she sounds like she is not interested from the beginning then she is probably just not interested.
/r/seduction18/09/18 07:04 PM
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I was just reading this social skills book, “The Science of Making Friends”, which talked about this scenario. One of the things that it says is when you start a conversation it is great to bring up something situational. That could relate to the weather outside or perhaps even on a larger scale like The Super Bowl. That could look something like, “Hey, the weather is really nice outside, isn’t it?” You could also say “Hey, are you watching the Super Bowl this Sunday? The Patriots are playing an…
/r/seduction18/09/18 06:53 PM
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Look at movies and tv shows where they flirt. It’s all about the tone of voice and body language. You can say something simple like hi, how are you and make it come off as flirty.
/r/seduction16/09/18 12:55 AM
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Look at him, smile and flirt with him. After that it’s up to him to go with it.
/r/seduction15/09/18 09:00 PM
0

Buy an expensive cut of steak from the grocery store, corn, mash potatoes and gravy. That’s an idea. You could also buy red wine if you want.
/r/seduction01/09/18 07:44 PM
2

Holy crap, that’s reading too much into it. If you’re flirting with her and have a good opportunity just go for it. Worst that can happen is she turns her cheek and you end up kissing her on the cheek.
/r/seduction31/08/18 12:18 PM
2

Talk about sex with her and gauge if she is talking about it bc she’s in the mood and wants to get with you or if it was just something random that popped into her head.
/r/seduction29/08/18 03:13 AM
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Same thing happened to me. I eventually figured out what the problem was. I was masturbating too much and gripping my penis too hard when I did it. The solution is to masturbate less and grip it gently, use lube if that helps you go gentler on it. Over time the sensitivity will come back and you’ll feel a lot more during sex.
/r/seduction27/08/18 07:10 AM
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Tinder is like a bar. There’s 10 guys and 2 girls. If everybody was there for hookups, then you’d assume you would get lucky once every five times. The reality on Tinder, though, is that the top bracket of attractive guys get most of the women. Then you have to factor that some women are just there for validation or fun and not to hook up. So if you’re not a hot guy you are not left with many to choose from.
/r/seduction22/08/18 10:07 PM
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Flirt with her sometimes and don’t overthink it or try and plan out some endgame strategy.
/r/seduction22/08/18 04:11 PM
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I think it’s more of a balancing act. Spend too much time on it and you get burnt out. Spend to little time and you get no results. If you try to approach one woman per day who is attractive to you and seems like they might be interested then you have a balance and are not searching them out day and night and worrying over it.
/r/seduction21/08/18 10:02 PM
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That didn’t make sense to go to her job uninvited. That just ended up scaring her. Instead it would’ve made more sense to flirt with her on snapchat a bit and ask her to go get coffee or something like that.
/r/seduction19/08/18 11:42 PM
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Sex isn’t as great as they tell you it is. Riding a rollercoaster is more fun for me tbh. Don’t worry about it. Still work on your social skills and try to engage with the women though. Don’t dismiss it.
/r/seduction17/08/18 09:50 AM
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Agreed. At the very least try to kiss her at the end of the second date. If there’s no romancing then there’s going to be no chemistry!
/r/seduction07/08/18 01:53 AM
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Put your hand on her back, one one hand behind her head and look right into her eyes. If she smiles then that’s your hint that she wants you to kiss her. By doing that you’re pretty much telling her that you’re about to go in for the kiss without saying anything. Alright, so now you kissed her. You can either wait till later in the night or just go for it right there. So after the kiss if you want to see if she wants to have sex I’d say keep kissing her, but do other stuff too. Kiss her neck, ma…
/r/seduction07/08/18 01:49 AM
3

Offering a gift when you’ve only just met somebody is still weird. At least wait till the first date and buy something that makes sense like chocolates or flowers.
/r/seduction13/07/18 07:02 PM
1

If you’re not sure offer to split the cost 50-50. Also, like others said, pic of only face is a red flag.
/r/seduction07/07/18 06:20 AM
1

How about this: I’ve got candy at my place! Want some?
/r/seduction07/07/18 06:18 AM
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I have aspergers and it took me quite a while but I have a girlfriend now. I was shot down by multiple women before that point, you just have to find the right one. Also, I started lifting weights and now I feel more confident in myself.
/r/seduction02/07/18 02:57 PM
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Congrats. You’re taking steps towards overcoming your social anxiety. I’m working on similar stuff. Doing the things you’re afraid of is a big part of that and I’m proud of you for that. You’re the man, Stan! Maybe next time you’ll just go in for the kiss and not even ask.
/r/seduction24/06/18 06:26 AM
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Well, she did mention Netflix and if you’re doing anything later. You could’ve asked her if she wanted to do something later to see if she was interested.
/r/seduction10/06/18 06:44 AM
1

I agree with they guy that said to get to know them first. Talk to girls in your class. You can get to know them and become friendly with them. Then towards the end of your term you can ask them out. Go to clubs, hangout spots, etc. Some women are afraid to go out with someone they just met and it’ll be easier to tell who is interested in you if you get to know them better.
/r/seduction07/05/18 08:25 PM
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Like the other people said it was an interview and people don’t really like 1-sided conversations too much. I have a book sitting right next to me and it’s called the science of making friends. It’s funny, because the chapter I just read was talking about how you shouldn’t interview people and should try to add plenty to the conversation. Also, you asked her out on a date way too quickly! Haha.
/r/seduction07/03/18 11:51 PM
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Best way to hide it is to avoid loose clothes like sweat pants and gym shorts. Boxer-briefs also help. I wouldn’t hide it though, it could turn her on!
/r/seduction09/02/18 06:17 PM
8

I assume that women with Hijabs don’t have sex outside of marriage or drink. I also assume they’d only be interested in Muslim men. So I wouldn’t ask one out. I guess I just might be wrong about that, at least in your case.
/r/seduction01/02/18 04:36 PM
1

I’ve made the mistake before of coming across needy, best to not go down that road. If they say that they’re busy, the most that I’d say is “feel free to shoot me a text when you’re free”. If she said she was sick I’d say something like “hope you feel better”.
/r/seduction13/01/18 11:48 PM
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It sounds to me like you have chosen not to have sex. The opportunity was there but as you said, you pushed the guys away. You should try dating. Then you can find the right guy and you don’t have to feel rushed about having sex, you can take your time. When the conversation comes up you can mention how you feel about sex and can be honest to him if you are not ready for it yet.
/r/seduction29/11/17 05:44 PM
0

Some guys just don’t want their girlfriend to tell them what to do all the time. That doesn’t mean they don’t want equality.
/r/seduction17/11/17 04:37 AM
1

Wash that shit out in the bathroom and fuckin partayyyy baby!
/r/seduction11/10/17 04:35 AM
1

It could be a number of things. If you masturbate too often that could be a problem. Not getting enough exercise could be a problem. Also nervousness can play a factor. My recommendation to you is to not masturbate for 3 or more days. Get plenty of exercise, especially the day it’s going to happen. Then do something that gets you relaxed before sex. It could be meditation, cuddling, whatever gets you comfortable. Coincidentally, I just read an article related to this.
/r/seduction02/10/17 06:56 AM
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Most girls will be comfortable with it as long as you are comfortable and just keep doing what you were doing and pretend you don’t notice it.
/r/seduction29/09/17 03:06 AM
2

A lot of woman don’t like it when people are blunt with them and straight up say they want to have sex. They might be alright with it if a euphemism was used like “let’s watch half of a movie” or something like that. I’ve told a woman before on the phone that I was looking for a friends with benefits relationship and she hung up with me right then and there. It’s much better to let things pan out and be more indirect with it.
/r/seduction29/09/17 02:19 AM
1

Try practicing your body language including touching. Having a partner would be great for you because she could help teach you. My first sexual partner taught me a whole lot from kissing to touching, etc.
/r/seduction05/09/17 06:47 AM
2

A lot of people are understanding of things like that. If you act like it isn't a big deal they probably will too.
/r/seduction31/08/17 05:50 PM
7

A lot of it is your tone of voice and body language. The next time you notice somebody is flirting, pay attention to how their voice sounds and their body language. You can use this tone of voice when saying just about anything and make it sound flirty. Try practicing saying "hello" to people in a flirty tone. I've tried it and some people have flirted back with me.
/r/seduction31/08/17 04:55 PM
2

I don't know about your hairstyle, but try a natural look. I used to use hair gel and have a mustache, people treated me a lot crappier than they do now. Try walking around with a very slight smile on your face. On days where I've been happy and had this slight smile on my face, people would hold eye contact and smile at me. People are drawn to happy people and away from the depressed.
/r/seduction16/08/17 05:30 PM
1

I've experienced the office flirting thing before too. They flirt and flirt, ask if your single, where you live, etc. Then when you ask them out, they come up with an excuse. I don't get why people would feign interest but whatever.
/r/seduction04/08/17 06:54 AM
1

Good one
/r/seduction02/08/17 06:14 AM
1

I agree with the part about thoughts coming and going. When I don't think or worry I'm in an anxiety free state and feel like I can conquer anything. The second I start thinking negatively I can get anxious or my mood might get irritable.
/r/seduction31/07/17 09:29 AM
1

I still think you should do something to distinguish it as a date. Whether that's flirting, holding her hand, goodbye kiss, anything.
/r/seduction25/07/17 02:02 AM
1

You know, where you make a bet and the ball machine spits out the numbers.
/r/seduction25/07/17 02:01 AM
4

Flirt with her and eventually ask her out. I've failed at this every time but at least I try and you should do the same.
/r/seduction20/07/17 04:25 AM
15

I don't care if things go sour or if I get fired. I'm fearless bro!
/r/seduction19/07/17 03:38 AM
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I chatted with 3 girls at work and nothing happened. Asked them all out.
/r/seduction19/07/17 02:57 AM
2

That works too. I just meant a restroom where you can lock the door. I worked at this one place that had a bathroom with multiple stalls and a couple went in and got it on. Somebody walked in on them.
/r/seduction16/07/17 07:40 PM
2

Honestly people who do it at public restrooms should go to the unisex stalls with the lock on the door.
/r/seduction16/07/17 07:03 PM
1

It's a dating app where the woman has to send the first message.
/r/seduction30/06/17 07:18 PM
9

I don't get it. Are they strangers? Is this the OP's video? What's the story behind this?
/r/seduction30/06/17 05:10 AM
1

I feel like you could vibe with her on the phone. You'll be able to better tell how interested she is. She will be able to tell if she feels safe with you. It's a win-win situation.
/r/seduction21/06/17 07:28 PM
2

I've found that people are more likely to make eye contact with me when it's obvious that I'm looking at them. Say that I'm walking in a parking lot. I'm on one side and they're on the other. If I have to turn my head all the way to the left to look at them it's going to be pretty obvious and they'll look back at me most of the time. Another good example would be when you're walking down an aisle and you look back at them.
/r/seduction02/06/17 03:53 PM
1

He crawled around saying "Baby Sammy want tit milk." It reminds me of this other commenter that said it was a good idea to ask strange women to breast feed you as an opener.
/r/seduction01/06/17 05:12 PM
5

That's the worst advice I've ever heard.
/r/seduction31/05/17 05:58 PM
2

Well maybe he knows that it's not all that important but still wants to smell nice nonetheless.
/r/seduction31/05/17 02:46 AM
3

Not to be rude but that could come across as creepy.
/r/seduction29/05/17 02:51 AM
1

What about when you said they were obviously interested in you and checking you out?
/r/seduction28/05/17 06:02 AM
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