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Next time say: "You are correct", turn your back to her and start (slowly) walking out of the venue. Don't look back. Odds are very good she will be chasing you out of the place until she catches you. Then after she catches you escalate fast....
/r/askTRP14/10/18 08:24 PM
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I think the best way to fairly answer your question is this--you need to test some of the concepts of RP in the real world, and with all different types of women. Buy some women drinks, buy them flowers, do lots of favors for them, take them out on a dinner date--see where it gets you. Treat some women the RP way, and see what that gets you. Then you will know the answer.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 04:42 PM
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You need to work harder than other guys (another short guy speaking here). Accept the challenge and max out everything else (frame, game, looks). No excuses and no self-pity are allowed.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 04:34 PM
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Lessee..maybe she is banging other dudes....nah, women never lie.... /s
/r/askTRP02/10/18 01:29 PM
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Next time have fun with this--very gentle kino, a little light teasing after the rejection--never trust a woman's words. If her body language matches her words (she moves away or her feet start pointing away from you) then fine--next her and don't waste your time. But if she holds her ground--you just passed a shit test. She may have wanted a little more preliminary talk and wanted to qualify you a bit more before agreeing to "go out". The fact that she said "I don't want to disappoint you" was …
/r/askTRP29/09/18 10:39 PM
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Women don't control the frame/narrative. I will just give you one minor example. I was talking to a very domineering acting women the other day (just trying some game for practice and to see what would happen next). I mentioned to her that she seemed to know a lot of guys. She blushed like a five year old girl. You control the narrative. Learn game--read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 05:33 PM
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If escalation fails end the meetup quickly--be nice but tell her you forgot you had to be somewhere.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 05:24 PM
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If you say it with a smirk (especially if you whisper it in her ear) she will love it--take a chance, man. What she will think is that you are a really sexy guy who "gets it".
/r/askTRP27/09/18 10:05 AM
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Just say "how many" and watch her reaction--and keep your mouth shut and a smirk on your face. Make her speak next.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 09:01 AM
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May I suggest a new (really dumb) hobby. Palm reading. Read about it and pretend you are an expert. Tell her you are learning about it. Take her palm. Read her palm. That is your first touch. It can begin the escalation. Make up stuff about her--preferably funny stuff--and you are on your way.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 08:51 AM
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Before you give up, just ask her one question: "How do know I am short?" ;-)
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 09:57 PM
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How about trying some cold approach day game first. That will give you some courage and one on one contact. Then try a club. See what works best for you. When you have options you won't feel as "odd".
/r/askTRP25/09/18 10:36 PM
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This will push you way out of your comfort zone--and that is exactly where you learn the most. Failure and rejection is what we all need to grow.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 02:48 PM
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"Streets ahead of most guys your age" are the guys who know how to handle ASD--you can get there but you are not there yet.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 02:27 PM
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Her words stopped you?--the only thing that should stop you is when you continue to escalate and she pulls back. Ignore what she says, watch what she does. If she pulls back, then chill for a few minutes and try escalating again. Rinse and repeat one more time, then if she still pulls back politely and gently show her the door. Then do not resume contact--let her chase if she chooses to chase. Unicorns may exist, but you have a better chance of winning the Powerball jackpot than actually meeting…
/r/askTRP23/09/18 02:24 PM
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It sounds like you are one of those people who can only learn by making big mistakes. Make the mistake and learn--just keep that resume nice and fresh....
/r/askTRP23/09/18 08:02 AM
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Even if you are too chicken to hold her hand that does not stop you from accidentally bumping into her while you are walking. Her reaction will tell you everything you need to know.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 07:49 AM
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5'4 here as well--and I see girls looking at taller guys standing next to me all the time. Then they meet me and look at me eye to eye and they forget about the taller guy--for a moment. Then you need to isolate her as fast as possible (change venues). But I would not intentionally choose a good looking tall guy as my wing-man to meet new girls if I had other alternatives. Find another wing-man. Sun Tzu--The Art of War--shape the battle-field. ​ ​
/r/askTRP22/09/18 04:28 PM
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I would encourage an intermediate step. Chat up 5s for a while until you get comfortable. Then 6s....etc. Then you can practice the dgaf attitude because you really won't care what happens with the 5s. Repeat until it is second nature and comes more easily for you--however many times that takes.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 10:35 AM
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Perhaps a better analogy (seen here before) is giving a teenager a new car full of booze in the back seat and waiting to see what happens next. I knew a kid who drove drunk and wrecked four cars in his teen years--his dumb parents kept buying him another car!
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 07:46 AM
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It matters if you are competing with tall guys. You approach where tall guys are afraid to approach (day game, social circle). When the girl is looking in your eyes they are looking in your eyes. The rest of the world does not exist. Feelz and living in the moment are your friend.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 12:56 PM
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TRP is radically changing my life after just a few months. These next couple of years look to be totally amazing.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 09:21 PM
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I had a bad case of "freeze" yesterday when I was cold approached by a HB7. Hopefully the cold approaches will happen more often--and I _will_ be ready next time. Great OP.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 11:25 AM
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Good to see someone comment on Jake's suicide. You can have the highest SMV in town and... Bluepill can get you killed--and nobody will care. Hope the newbies are paying very close attention.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 10:06 AM
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The best way to "absorb the ideology" is to get out there and test it. Test little things. Treat one girl the red pill way. Treat another girl the blue pill way. Watch what happens next. This stuff isn't good or bad--it just is.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 08:34 AM
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She could have A. Stayed with you B. Traveled halfway around the world without you She chose B--actions not words, son. Your "relationship" ended when she stepped on that plane. There is nothing to "break up". ​
/r/askTRP09/09/18 08:18 PM
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You need to confidently bring a towel to bed and tell her sex is great during her period. You won't be lying, and you will bring her into your frame. It is a shit test and you failed it. ​
/r/askTRP09/09/18 03:07 PM
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On re-reading your original post it occurs to me you took her much too seriously by engaging in any real conversation with her. You could have played dumb and flirted--"I really don't know much about dating apps." "I don't know anything about that politics stuff." She may well be socially dysfunctional but you missed an opportunity to have a little fun and watch her reaction.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 11:23 AM
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The SJW stuff can be overcome--if you ignore them and treat her like a five year old child. KINOing and her reaction to KINOing is the only way to find out--her words give you no information.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 10:45 AM
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It is a waving red flag. Be on the lookout for the next one. I know a woman who changed her hair color once a month, and husbands every five years.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 10:17 AM
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Hopefully she didn't just say you made her uncomfortable but actually pulled back. Actions, not words. But, if the actions were negative then yeah, time to pull the plug. Next time you might wait for the movie to end, say nothing, and just drive her home. Also, a picnic or a coffee shop would be a better location--easier to end quickly if needed--and easier to escalate quickly if all is going well.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 10:10 AM
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A brunch date could have worked if the place was _not_ all that nice and had benches or a sofa where you could have KINOd while you ate--and then you KINOd while you ate.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 04:49 PM
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What you have in front of you is a mine field. You don't know anything about mines except that they can kill you. You need a lot of information before you make one more move--it is called the sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 04:19 PM
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You have no way of knowing whether she is telling you the truth about her sexual history and religious belief--none--since a rational man will not take what she says at face value. AWALT says when in doubt assume she is lying. Act accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 08:09 PM
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Try the overcome the shit test approach--if it didn't work I would end the date immediately--firmly but nicely--you just forgot a friend of yours just got in town.... Her move or next.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 06:45 PM
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She was looking for Chad--didn't find him....(which means you are not him). If Chad was at the club she would have stared him down like raw meat.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 08:01 AM
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You have no clue what is going on in other people's lives. That billionaire could be a Bernie Madoff scam artist one small mistake away from doing hard time in a federal jail cell. That photoshopped model may be overdosing on hard drugs because her alpha boyfriend just dumped her. You are young and free and a hell of a lot taller than I am. One day at a time, son. Learn something new, get stronger, and learn how to meditate. Talk to some older people--they have a lot of perspective and almost ce…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 08:40 PM
1

Would you fuck a girl you don't see a future with? Then stop dating her and have some fun with her!
/r/askTRP05/09/18 08:22 PM
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Tease her--"I only pay for anal sex."
/r/askTRP05/09/18 08:18 PM
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Meditation does work. You need to silence that voice in your head that is telling you the negative stuff--and you need to find the voice that tells you your true passions and callings. I recall a California radio psychologist that used to tell people to have one thought before they doze off at night--imagine they are taking the trash bin to the curb. Then their dreams are free of the garbage and their creativity can be unleashed. Try reading about Jung's archtypes and Joseph Campbell on myths of…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 08:18 AM
1

If you were Chad would she be talking about her period or bleeding all over his cock? Back to square one....
/r/askTRP05/09/18 07:42 AM
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66 here--never looked better in my whole formerly blue pilled life
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 09:13 PM
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Your mediocre apartment is an ideal spot to bring girls to--just keep it clean and neat. Try to be a man of mystery--the less you tell her the better.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 09:02 PM
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Tell her you just got hired by Border Patrol and you are psyched because you hate brown skinned people.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 03:39 PM
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Showing off your body on Facebook comes off as seeking validation. I would not be your friend if you did that. Focus on treating males with respect--don't show off. If they see a tight frame they will want to follow your lead.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 03:04 PM
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After the second time she "told you I'm not doing anything" you should have gotten up and asked her to leave (nicely). You should not have said anything else. If you get another chance tell her to take her clothes off and then take your clothes off. Stop grabbing her. If she wants you she will obey your words. If she does not then ask her to leave again. Don't ever tell a girl "you are missing out". Your actions need to deliver that message.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 12:36 AM
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Or, when the subject comes up next tell her she has been a very bad girl and spank her. She sounds like a whiny five-year old; treat her like one.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 08:54 PM
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Experiment with it on your next date--whenever she shit tests you (asks you a question that makes you uncomfortable or that you don't know how to answer), just try it. Example: my wife just shit tested me the other day with "you look terrible". (I have never looked better in my whole life, btw.) I was silent, gave her the Clint Eastwood smile, and she moved on to another subject within five seconds. Just try it--you can thank me later. :-)
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 08:46 PM
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Must the king respond to this subjects? Must a parent respond to a child? You _never_ have to speak if you don't want to--just do the Clint Eastwood smile and shut the f up.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 08:15 PM
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Worse than that, by saying he would be exclusive he just sabotaged himself. Saying nothing is always a better alternative--let her hamster free!
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 04:56 PM
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Yeah--OP is not telling us something. Since I have improved myself I haven't lost any friends because part of what I am doing is getting more positive and friendly with everyone. The only weird that happened recently is when a relative congratulated my wife for taking such good care of me since I look so good. (Trust me--the irony is strong there. :-) ) ​
/r/askTRP02/09/18 04:30 PM
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You don't want to be in her frame. You can ignore or radically change the subject. Neg a piece of her jewelry, not her overall appearance. This works best with really hot girls. If she is just a 6 give her the Clint Eastwood smile and ignore.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 04:22 PM
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One lesson learned from TRP--when you hear the word "relationship" from anyone, male or female, run for your life. :-)
/r/askTRP02/09/18 03:02 PM
2

The more interesting question is--how long will it take before _you_ believe it.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 02:34 PM
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I had a woman rambling about what she saw on CNN yesterday. I treated her like a five year old child (i.e., totally ignored what she said) and it worked great.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 12:54 PM
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You are a man and made a serious pledge. She is a woman--what she really meant is that she wouldn't mess with any guys until she met one that got her hot.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 12:50 PM
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You should be very nervous--you could be making the biggest mistake of your life. You need to be very honest with yourself about why you are getting married--only you know the reasons. Read the side-bar in full. If you have already read it re-read it. It is your life--you have to make the call and ignore whatever anyone else says you should do.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 12:42 PM
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I am much older than most posters here and that is exactly the correct way to look at it. My many beta years are now behind me--now I know how I screwed up in the past--and I feel great.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 12:37 PM
1

You are the prize. She is a five year old kid.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 12:32 PM
1

Next time tell her "I have a small cock too".
/r/askTRP02/09/18 12:31 PM
2

​ Lessons learned here--frame and game has changed women's reaction to me.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 12:09 PM
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This started happening to me after I made major improvements on my weight, appearance, posture and confidence. They _know_ who the boss is. :-)
/r/askTRP01/09/18 12:25 PM
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Simple tip: It is fine for her to talk about her job. You should not be talking about her job. You should be KINOing while she is talking. ​ ​
/r/askTRP01/09/18 12:15 PM
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I am a little guy--Tyrion is a great role model for me.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 11:59 AM
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Pretend she was a five year old child. Do you care what she said? Never believe anything women say--easy, peasy.
/r/askTRP01/09/18 11:17 AM
2

Try going on a date with a new girl with a SMV no higher than 6.5 (no dinner allowed, you must be sitting next to her at all times) where you escalate so fast either the date ends (because she backs off) or you f close. Your SMV is too high to be having second dates.
/r/askTRP01/09/18 11:08 AM
1

The way to ease into it is to practice cold reading and negging. Have you ever negged a hot girl? Try it to see the reaction. (Hint: you won't be ready for the hot smile--so be ready to run if you are afraid :-) ) Those are the small steps you want to take.
/r/askTRP01/09/18 10:57 AM
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Forget old dating customs--if you really insist on contacting her wait a week or longer--you do not want to seem needy. Then escalate very quickly on the next date--you need to know where you stand--no self-deception allowed.
/r/askTRP01/09/18 10:50 AM
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Complimenting a girl in an approach is blue pill--putting her on a pedestal. If she is high SMV you want to cold read her and then neg her. If she is lower SMV you want to cold read her.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 11:09 PM
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One thing to help with the self-esteem is to write down a list of every good thing you have done in your life. Then read the list to yourself before you go out on a date.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 10:05 PM
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Ignore everything she says. Watch very carefully everything she does. Escalate slowly--her body will tell you when to stop (she will pull away). You need to keep escalating until she pulls away--then tell her you need to be somewhere else and end the date. See if she contacts you afterwards--you need her to take at least a little initiative.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 07:42 PM
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Sit on the bed. Tell her (don't ask her) to take her clothes off. (If she won't do it get up and show her the door immediately but nicely.) Then tell her (don't ask her) to take your clothes off. Then tell her (don't ask her) what you want her to do next. She will either comply (good) or it is time for her to leave (soft next).
/r/askTRP31/08/18 06:29 PM
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It is a standard shit test. Ignore and KINO.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 06:20 PM
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I live in a small town as well. How many people do you know in town? Add two people to that list every day for a couple of months. Talk to young people, middle aged people, old people. Learn about what they do, what interests they have. What do people in town care about--what do they do for fun? Are there historical locations in town? Museums? Libraries? Parks? Visit them and learn about them. Talk to more people there. The more you know the more ideas you will have about what to talk about when…
/r/askTRP31/08/18 12:13 AM
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I will bite. I met a new woman that interested me at the bus stop. The bus was late so we talked about that. The traffic was loud so instead of just talking at normal distance I leaned in so she had to talk right into my ear. She backed away. Next move--I moved a few inches away and ignored her. The goal--make her initiate next. If she never does she is not interested. If your SMV is higher than hers she will probably re-start the conversation. She did after waiting a full five minutes. So now I…
/r/askTRP30/08/18 11:46 PM
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There was a teenage girl on youtube explaining this beautifully. "I look at what I like" she said.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 11:12 PM
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You should be teasing her about sex instead of talking about relationships. You friend-zoned yourself. Old beta-me used to do it all the time. Read the side-bar posts on game until you can't forget them.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 11:03 PM
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Get a dog--then start doing day game in dog parks!
/r/askTRP30/08/18 10:55 PM
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Cold reading is very cool. In college try guessing her major. "You're a psych major, right?" Then shut up and let her talk. ;-)
/r/askTRP30/08/18 10:49 PM
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Confession time--I did a "white knight" thing yesterday for a woman I didn't know and wasn't trying to pick up--just beta habit--happened so fast I didn't realize it until it happened. Moments like that remind me I have a lot of beta de-programming to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/18 12:05 PM
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In this area 95% of the tall and even handsome guys slump and slouch, have big bellies and dad bods, lose their tempers whenever things don't go their way, and have no clue how to talk to women. No frame, no game, bad bodies.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 10:13 AM
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Retiring soon, and hopefully you will be saying "This is going to be great!"
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 08:47 PM
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I wanted to add a little story that might illustrate this. I am at this small cable tv store changing out my box that died. There is a married couple in the store. The man is tall and handsome--his wife is petite, my height and a solid HB7. He is agitated, ticked off at the latest cable increase and has decided to disconnect the service. I am relaxed and in a good mood. I let him go first--we arrived at the same time. While he is busy complaining and turning in his cable boxes his wife and I are…
/r/askTRP26/08/18 01:54 PM
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One other comment--women want what they want at that moment. Fortunately they can change their mind just as fast. Be the guy they want after you have maxed out your frame and game.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 01:16 PM
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Start at the beginning, one baby step at a time. Step 1: Meditation. Learn how to do it and just do it. Get that garbage out of your head.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 12:59 PM
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I am short as well, and it is a challenge. But real men deal with challenges every day. It just means your frame has to be tight, your game has to be tight. One advantage we short guys have is we get to look at women our height straight in the eyes. Read the threads on eye contact and how to use it--powerful stuff.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 08:32 PM
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I am a newbie and I can answer this softball question. Your wife or LTR will cheat on you and then dump you if she finds someone better. To find the definition of someone better read the side-bar. Next. :-)
/r/TheRedPill25/08/18 12:21 PM
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How about agree and amplify: "You are correct, and women really love nice guys who stay with them if they get fat and ugly, cheat, etc....."
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 03:27 PM
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