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Does the average 40 year old man look like a celebrity? No, he’s obese, suffers from a degree of hair loss, and makes around 50k or less a year. Have you not seen Sofia Vergara or JLO? Look! It’s magical proof that most men are attracted to women over 50. That’s what you’re doing right here. Most age gaps are 1-3 years for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:05 PM
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No, he’s old.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:00 PM
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It wouldn’t benefit me to be with a man that I don’t find sexually attractive or if l view him as a peer of my parents. No amount of money would cancel that out and I am not a sex worker. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:59 PM
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They’re delicious if you’re into extra sweet fruit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:26 PM
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I’m eating cotton candy grapes and I love them. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:10 PM
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I 👏 HAVE 👏 EYELASHES!!! 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:55 PM
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I’m back to gaining weight and I have 8mm of hair! Let’s go!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:53 PM
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The only comments I receive are from non feminist men and women. Most feminist respect the choices of a family to have a stay at home parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 04:05 PM
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In the entire title of the post. Are you suddenly suggesting now that they should indeed hide it in certain circumstances even if they aren’t ashamed of their sexuality? Of course they should, because you “never said”they should tell it to random strangers! That means they shouldn’t tell it to people they cold approach either, even when only looking for a hook up. What’s the result? This post about how should people should be up front about their sexual desires. It includes randoms or it doesn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:06 PM
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Why are you conflating 2 different issues and pretending that they’re the same? Not being open about your sexual desires to strangers doesn’t cause you to lie about a different topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:47 PM
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No, people do need to hide that mess. I don’t need to hear what random strangers want to do with me. They don’t need to feel ashamed of their natural desires, but they do need to keep it to themselves. Social boundaries are a very real needed thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:49 PM
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Most were only 1 date, but some were 2 dates. There were 2 relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:16 AM
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I dated over 150 guys and he was previously engaged after having dated numerous other women. Neither of us needed anyone to do anything. I already planned on approaching him later to give him my number. We were 2 people that found each other very attractive. Other women at church were already approaching him openly. We met at church. Church community did not get us together,
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:06 AM
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We were in our 20s, not kids. It was their first time at our church and my parents introduced themselves to his parents. There was no match making or people looking out for us. It was welcome to our church, have you met our son yet? That’s it. Where did all of these assumptions come from? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:00 AM
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It would be too dangerous. They read Reddit. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 02:05 AM
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It’s creepy. I would run away from that voice screaming for security. 😂 “THAT’S A DEMON! HELP ME!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:30 AM
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It’s a 9 year old trapped in what may be an adult or a 15 year old body?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:22 AM
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He seems financially irresponsible. Her response was harsh. That’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:20 AM
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You’re either going to have to show data saying that the majority of sugar babies are doing these behaviours, aka the problem exists, or admit that it’s only a small number of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:46 PM
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So you’re talking about a completely different situation. Robbery is a crime, but not pretending to like unattractive men isn’t one, even amongst sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:35 PM
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The thing with school is forced socialization. You learn more boundaries. You learn more consequences for antisocial behaviour because you’re stuck in that situation day after day. You learn to socialize in a larger peer group for the first time. School is a very important part of individual development that you’re not going to get from activities that happen 2-3 times a week with different groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:33 PM
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You’re talking about 2 different situations and one is their “unrealistic expectations”. They’re allowed their standards and that includes wanting a tall rich man that they find attractive. Stop trying to derail the conversation. They’re sex workers, but it still requires their consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:27 PM
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I can’t wait to watch Candace Owens after I get into bed. I love her crazy conspiracy theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:24 PM
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People underestimate how much social growth happens in the classroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:22 PM
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I found my husband when I wasn’t looking to date. I saw him in church and I thought wow, he is gorgeous. Our parents introduced us and we exchanged info to keep in contact so I could introduce him around. I asked him if he wanted to hang out with my friends one night and the rest was history.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:17 PM
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They’re not robbing men that they reject because they don’t find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:11 PM
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He has everything, except for people catering to his desires and seeking his validation. The tantrums won’t help. He wants to be the popular kid and you can’t buy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:02 PM
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They may not find clients for their sex work, but they’re entitled to their standards. It’s going to be much harder for them to find a man to pay for it vs dating, but that’s their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:53 PM
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I feel like that’s a very hard road to go and to have properly socialized integrated children. Otherwise I would be all for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:17 PM
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I’ll be too sad for that. The only solution is to keep my babies at home forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:56 PM
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I was so sad today. I was thinking that in only a few short years my babies will all go off to school in the mornings and life as I know it will end. It made me cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:43 PM
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I have a cat in my house, not my cat, and I can’t shut my bedroom door because he will attack it if he’s not allowed to walk in and out as he pleases.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:35 PM
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My house is run by the chihuahua cartel. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:28 PM
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Everyone is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:21 AM
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Is relax in my bathtub. Otherwise I am active if it’s my choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:11 AM
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Personally, I’d be grossed out that my spouse was thinking of previous sex partners, at all, and then referencing them in bed with me. Like it’s been 12 years and you’re still thinking about them? 🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:17 PM
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I don’t think I could ever vote for conservative parties despite living what many would consider a conservative life. I don’t believe that your financial standing should prevent you from equal opportunities to have safe shelter, food, education, healthcare, or that we shouldn’t care about people lacking those opportunities. I believe we should all the same the same social rights regarding marriage and the ability to raise children. I believe we should all have the freedom to present our gender i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:25 PM
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I was that height at 13. I stopped growing at 14 at 5’9. Girls stop growing much younger than boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:28 PM
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Yes, but I got over it fairly quickly and returned to my natural level of extreme distrust of strangers. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:15 AM
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I would insist on 50/50 split with 99% of men. There’s no way I would financially support most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:54 PM
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I cook and parent too, full time. I don’t have a job that requires a lot of my time away from my family. 😂 Everyone contributes equally to the housework and children in my home. No, it’s more certainly not an even split, because of the money. We have 2 full time housekeepers. We have people that help with the kids if needed. He goes out with his friends regularly for the day. I pay for all of it, because it’s my choice. There’s 0 chance I would pay for any man making demands of my money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:43 PM
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My husband is a stay at home dad. He doesn’t have free access to my bank accounts. He has free access to one account. My money is not a marital asset. We make shared household decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:44 PM
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There’s no shame in having a nanny. I personally don’t use one, but we have a ton of family help if needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:08 PM
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How are you going to tell someone how they personally feel fulfilled and what they want?? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:12 PM
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All of my cares are instantly gone when I watch my husband playing with our babies. The smiles and belly laughs melt my heart instantly even on the toughest of days.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:31 AM
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You should’ve known!! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:24 PM
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Chihuahua babies!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:18 PM
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I don’t want him if he’s not offering chichis.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:13 PM
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I’ve never needed to ask a guy his height to know if I find him attractive or not. Are men blind?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:11 PM
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I don’t think they’re more disliked. I think there’s big platforms to share their opinion, like the internet existing. That’s completely different than who and what was available to someone that was abused 70 years ago. I think it’s also more socially acceptable for everyone to share their hatred of others. For example I don’t believe that there’s more racism or racists in the world today, but they won’t shut up, and you’re going to see their comments somewhere. You might not have personally kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:15 PM
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I don’t believe men are a monolith or should be judged as a group. There have always been good men. I had no shortage of great men in my life or great men pursuing me. There are an equal number of psychotic crazy men that have crossed my path throughout my life. People haven’t really changed too much through history, only laws have changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:10 PM
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Aka you have no answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 09:58 PM
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Childhood friends are not really different. You enjoy being around each other. Why is that “brutal”?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 09:18 PM
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I don’t think there’s any acceptable lying, but I don’t think all questions are acceptable either. If a man asked my weight he would never be allowed to speak to be again. I’d ghost and block him. What reasonable reason could you possibly have to ask that question?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:01 PM
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I would have filed for a restraining order on that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:11 PM
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I don’t see it as a competition. I like you or I don’t. I could go on casual dates with multiple men, but if I really liked one guy that was the end of it for the rest. There’s no way another guy would take my interest from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:11 PM
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This situation is why I cut off contact from any guy that asked me out and I wasn’t interested. I meant no and we clearly aren’t friends at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:00 PM
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I think that depends on if you keep developing as a person. “Peaked in high school” is a thing, but I do see where a lot of scars could be carried into adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:49 PM
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Well you better tell OP that there’s no issue with billionaires then either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:24 PM
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Why would billionaires be an issue? It’s the power imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:34 PM
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Snowboarding, cooking, baking, playing with my puppies and kids, church activities, reading my Bible, singing, hiking, shopping, decorating, hanging out with my brothers, and various charity activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:15 PM
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We had an eventful day searching for sharks in the pool. She did find a colony of confused rubber duckies and 1 daddy pretending to be a shark. Don’t worry, all rubber duckies were rescued by the world’s cutest tiniest lifeguard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:11 PM
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I don’t ask him to empty the bins. He’s a functional adult that takes care of things when he sees that they need done. I’m not his mother or his manager.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:54 AM
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That’s a big deal, especially if we had planned to have biological children. It’s ultimately their decision, but it might end the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:07 PM
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Happy Birthday!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:32 PM
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Absolutely not! Physical attraction is an important part of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:20 AM
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Not twins and adopted. They’re less than a month apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:30 PM
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One is older and one is the same age. They’re both girly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:18 PM
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My girls are equally as rambunctious as my son.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:21 PM
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My parents were very hands on with my early decision making.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:39 PM
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I’d rather pay a professional and have it done correctly without my needing to worry over it. I don’t clean either. Not doing half of the parenting is a reason to divorce. I don’t want to hear about unfair courts when only 10% of court cases are decided by a judge. Most men don’t want 50/50 custody of their kids and never ask for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:47 PM
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You can leave the relationship over any mismatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:13 PM
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The same goes for a difference in libido or cooking. It should default to the lower standard instead of bitching.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:34 PM
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No, but I invited all of the gay and trans people to come to a real Christian church where we’re all sinners deserving of the love and forgiveness of God. We have Christ AND cookies!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:07 AM
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The belief that a pastor there was a bigoted hate filled piece of shit. It was definitely that specific belief and stating it that led to my being booted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:55 PM
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I was booted from a multi church conference about the lgbtq community. 😒 Princess Pickles is big mad today
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:49 PM
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This girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:44 PM
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Clingy and romantic aren’t the same or related. Clingy is emotionally insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:44 PM
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I felt so privileged to wake up in my own home in my own bed this morning. We take so much of life for granted. I don’t want to be that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:20 PM
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They’ll never catch me! This is Canada! I have rights!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:23 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:47 PM
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I escaped prison today!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:00 PM
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“Women generalizing men is bad. ALL women do it. They’re disgusted by men and that’s disgusting in itself. Imagine my feelings here and now l have no choice but to date you.” You are no different than the women you’re complaining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:59 AM
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Can you explain why men have to take it and can’t also walk away? You told women to run, but somehow men are incapable of that same behaviour? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:49 AM
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So they’re not different in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:27 PM
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Even in those countries women have premarital sex and more than 1 partner. I fail to see the difference in the women themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:58 PM
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Stats don’t show that at all. Half of young men are in committed relationships and half are single. Single doesn’t mean not dating in those studies. It means uncommitted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:29 PM
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So the women are controlled, not different, better, or happier with men that they don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:27 PM
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I don’t really understand your post. You see the same thing in the west looking at most couples. Most men are coupled with average women too. Are you suggesting that nonwestern women don’t want to have sex with more attractive men? Are you suggesting that they wouldn’t go for it if they believed there was a possibility of commitment? We’ve already discussed that most people in India are having sex before marriage. I don’t follow your logic to get to the conclusion that you’ve reached. Can you ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:27 PM
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My husband doesn’t have that life. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:08 PM
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Lovely soup
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:29 PM
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I think it’s a reasonable expectation that someone pays the bills and doesn’t lie and hide them for several months until your property is repossessed and you owe even more money. I think it’s reasonable for a partner to expect you to take accountability for those actions instead of saying it’s fine, that was 2 months ago. I mean holy crap, that’s insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:48 PM
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Your example is not someone asking for emotional support. It’s someone looking to discuss literature. Those aren’t in the same field of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:39 PM
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Maybe try a support group for drinkers? They seem to help a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:16 AM
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So the one guy I asked? The one guy that makes the claim? Where did I make any other claim or say anything about how many people want this or that? You jumped into a conversation and decided you knew everything and now you want to turn it into something else. No, I asked the guy that wants immutable traits in a partner how it’s any different when a woman does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:10 AM
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It’s an alt account of a repeatedly banned young Indian guy who has been around in the daily for a very long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:59 AM
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OP says it constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:13 AM
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I don’t understand how that requirement is any different than you saying you’d only be with a light skinned woman. They’re both immutable traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:48 AM
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I can’t imagine getting a divorce, ever. I can’t imagine not wanting to be with him. I can’t imagine intentionally not having my kids for half of the time. The thought entered my head after reading ppd and it made me cry. It could happen to anyone. I told him that if we were to ever not be able to work things out that we would have to build a new house to share with kid bedrooms and a family room in the center and 2 individual house spaces on the sides. I couldn’t be without my children. It woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:24 AM
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We had a fun game of peekaboo and they were crawling around in the blankets being silly. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:04 PM
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My babies were able to visit me for an hour. I already miss them. 😭 l want to be home!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:45 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:37 PM
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A man that leaves his family because he wanted freedom and feels suffocated by emotional closeness is not going to be a good husband/father to other people. A man that’s hung up on his ex having a hook up after they were separated, because he knows the guy, is not going to make a good partner. No one has made this man miserable accept for his own choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:58 PM
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Scream louder and he might pick you. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:36 PM
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You already have a family of your own. You abandoned it to chase “freedom” and to “not be suffocated”. No woman is going to want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:13 PM
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Read his post history. He left because he wanted freedom, his own words, and he’s still heartbroken that she had a hook up AFTER he left and didn’t want to get back with her. The kids are the least of his issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:08 PM
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I wouldn’t date a guy that only sees his kids every other weekend under any circumstances. That’s not a father to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:04 PM
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The past matters, but how much it matters is decided by the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:33 PM
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I wouldn’t meet anyone’s kids until an engagement was in the picture. I’d want to know why he’s not with their mother and l’d want to hear her side as well. I’d expect him to have time to himself for dating and for our relationship to be a priority on its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:07 PM
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They’re the same as single moms. It would be easier for you to date a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:51 PM
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Thank you. It will be the greatest teatime of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:47 AM
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When I get out of the hospital I’m going to host a proper afternoon tea at my house. It will be glorious!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:23 AM
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More networking connections for community outreach.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:10 AM
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I wish would judgmental people were open about it from the beginning. I don’t care if you judge me, but don’t pretend that you’re not like that to get info from someone. 😂 I’m not judging you, but how much did you spend on that? They are 100% asking so they can judge me. They already know it was a lot. I would respect people a lot more if they asked me how much I “wasted or threw away” and I really don’t care what they think of my spending habits, but be honest about it. I don’t go around asking…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:16 AM
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I believe that my life and privileges exist to help others. There’s no point for me in a selfish life. That’s why l’m becoming a pastor.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:50 PM
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It is also what he’s saying when he’s asking if you’d something because a guy is into it. No, no I wouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:45 PM
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It wouldn’t matter from either side. I’d rather be single than change what makes me happy for a man to be interested. I was bullied by men for years to change my behaviour for them and I didn’t and wouldn’t. I wanted to be me more than I wanted a relationship. I’m happily married to a man that wouldn’t ask to change anything about me for the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:44 PM
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He was insanely talented.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:49 PM
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Neither side is gate keeping commitment. A woman can want a relationship, title, and a ring and never get it. That’s where your argument falls apart. It doesn’t matter what she offers if he’s not interested. You have no “hiring process” if no one wants to work at your company.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:26 PM
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I never claimed it’s a man thing. What I am saying is that I am not going to pretend to be someone else or to like certain things so that someone likes a facade. They like me or they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:37 AM
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They care about attracting women and looking attractive to women. They don’t care about women or their desires. They care about getting what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:26 AM
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No, l wouldn’t change myself. I’ve always liked who l am. The right compatible partner wouldn’t need me to be someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:01 AM
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Suffering is the meaning of life. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:41 AM
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Do you know what will happen if you don’t lower your standards or corrupt your morals for the will of men? DO YOU??? You will end up married to a wonderful young man that loves and respects you as a human being. You think about that, Ange. You have to live with the consequences of your actions!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:29 AM
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I’ve never cared for one second what men wanted. I am who l am and he liked me for that or he didn’t. I wouldn’t change for anyone. My standards were high and my deal breakers were strict.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:26 AM
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I have a sore throat. I sent my husband to purchase ALL of the throat lozenges. One of them has to feel nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:25 PM
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My ovaries would crawl out of my body on their own to protect me from pregnancy if that man can near me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:14 PM
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It’s time for my pool party and family picnic with way too much food for 25 people!!! ❤️😁🇨🇦
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:48 PM
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Nothing wrong with men facing the consequences of their actions either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:23 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with having high standards. Your standards can be whatever you want. Mine were extremely high.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:09 PM
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I like being a woman, but I would do fine as a man. I’m already as tall as the average man and attractive. I’m extroverted, athletic, and religious. I wouldn’t have issues finding the same. I’d be like my husband and he had no issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:21 PM
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For a paternity test? Yeah, he can get it through the divorce attorney.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:43 PM
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I wouldn’t be with a man so insecure that he demanded paternity proof. I can’t imagine what level of insecurity that means and the amount of mental illness that would signal. I trust my husband and he trusts me. Sorry, but my marriage is my own. I don’t keep up on what he’s doing outside of the home. I know he will respect our vows.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:49 PM
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Wouldn’t happen in my house. Nobody is submitting dna of my kids to a public site and company until they’re old enough to understand and consent to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:27 PM
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If I accuse him of cheating I am already asking for the divorce and we don’t do the rest. I trust my husband and he trusts me as well. He is free to do whatever with whoever and I know that he will respect our vows.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:19 PM
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I agree. You should divorce at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:18 PM
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Are you fine with your wife filming you all night long while she sleeps and watching that footage to make sure you’re not like those guys that drug and rape their wives? Is that reasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:53 PM
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Then he’s claiming that as his child. That’s what the birth certificate is for. It’s a declaration that you acknowledge you are the father. You’re accepting paternity. That’s how you get rights. If you’re saying you’re not the father then you don’t sign it. This isn’t hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:49 PM
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When the test proves him wrong he gets legal rights or when he signs the birth certificate. Until then he has none and he also has no responsibility towards the child either. The judge will tell you the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:40 PM
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Still not the same as cheating. Would you be pissed if your wife accused you of that or not? Oh no, of course you. You’d laugh it off. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:31 PM
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They’re mostly hook ups and won’t leave the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:29 PM
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Paternity fraud isn’t only cheating on someone. It’s lying to the father about paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:25 PM
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The app is working as intended. They’d be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:23 PM
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You’re fine with your wife accusing you of being a legitimate psychopath willing to expose her to stds and lie to her face for 18+ plus years about something important? You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:22 PM
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Based on what? It’s not his child and he has no rights to said child until granted by the court. He’s the one saying it’s not his child. The court isn’t going to grant someone primary custody because the mother acted as the father claimed. It’s not his kid, his words.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:20 PM
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My husband understands my reasoning and agrees with it. Just as if I said I want a paternity test to show you that you’re the father he would assume that I cheated and had my own doubts. That test is an accusation of infidelity. It’s over,
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:12 PM
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Let’s not pretend it’s the norm either. Imagine me setting up cameras in my home to film my husband every night and saying some stupid shit like let’s not pretend that husbands that rape and drug their wives don’t exist. The marriage is over, but it’s better than being a rape victim and a clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:06 PM
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I believe I would go the full nuclear option if my husband asked me for a paternity test and I was pregnant or had given birth to our child. It would be far more than a divorce. He would not be signing the birth certificate and he would be getting visitation through a court. If that’s not your baby then it’s not your baby. If I found out after the fact that he did a test it would be an instant divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:58 PM
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Okay, then men need to stop complaining that wives leave when being accused of being psycho lying whores willing to ruining the life of a man. Of course they’re pissed. The marriage is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:54 PM
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No no, it’s to give him assurance that he’s the father, like men asking and it’s somehow not an accusation of her cheating. That’s how that works. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:46 PM
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She’s beautiful!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:42 PM
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Go ahead. One is likely needed for child support too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:34 PM
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I would never have agreed to that. I was a virgin until marriage and so was he. If you need a test then l need a divorce. I wouldn’t stay with a man that can make accusations like that and would expect the same from him. The only reason for a test is cheating. No, we’re not doing that. You have broken the marriage with that request.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:29 PM
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Personal attacks against my husband for understanding why someone would be offended at accusations of cheating? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:34 PM
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It’s showing I have nothing to hide by offering one? No, you’re assuming that. Maybe I have a bf on the side that I want more and I don’t care if you leave. Maybe I want legal ties to hot dick and this is the only way to get it under the law. This is why it’s stupid to make assumptions on that. On the other side there’s no way my husband is not the father unless l cheated. He is accusing me of cheating by asking for that test. Btw, my kids are adopted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:32 PM
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I asked my husband and he said he would assume that I was cheating if I ever brought up a paternity and would expect a woman to feel the same if a man brought it up to her. He’s accusing her of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:22 PM
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I want to see a wife ask for a paternity test, for his assurance of course, and then not see a man accuse her of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:18 PM
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Did you read the entire comment?? The n word is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:53 AM
1

What???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:47 AM
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My little brother. The guy I responded to knows that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:25 AM
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Hold my chichi! We talk about all cute little animals!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:54 PM
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I don’t want to totally ruin my dad’s reputation, but he’s apparently also sexist. It was followed by “go ask mom”. I was like wow, way to oppress my mother by expecting her to make up for your parental slack. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:22 PM
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Kelby asked dad if he could drive him over to my house this morning. Dad was super casual about it. He threw it out there as a stand alone and didn’t try to hide it. “No.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:17 PM
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You look like my dad when I lecture him about casually using that n word. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:03 PM
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The child he said no to is black. 😒 Make of that what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:45 PM
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Is my dad an oppressive white man? All signs point to yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:43 PM
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My dad is casually throwing around that n word again and it’s making me very uncomfortable. People are way too comfortable using unacceptable language through text. You can’t casually tell your children no. That’s wrong. He needs more Jesus and it’s a Sunday too. 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:33 PM
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<image> I could be wrong???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:18 PM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:52 PM
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I’m surrounded by happy puppies and having my morning tea. Life is beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:48 PM
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I don’t know!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:04 AM
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I HAVE FOOD POISONING!!!!!! 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:18 PM
1

I think some people do that. We don’t, but some people still want privacy between them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:45 PM
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He wants her to pay for everything from date one, not after marriage. If he meets her young she probably won’t be far into her career to be able to afford that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:25 PM
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Those would be marital assets if it occurred during the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:34 PM
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My husband would get nothing in a divorce without our prenup, which was my idea. He’s a stay at home dad. Alimony? Good luck on surviving 1/4 of my actual paycheck. 😂 A woman having money to afford a stay at home husband most likely means that money is already in the bank and is NOT a marital asset.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:15 AM
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These charcuterie boards are saving my life. The all day snacking is working wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:44 PM
4

Cheese or Cheeto
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:12 PM
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I have huge news from my doctor’s visit today. I did NOT lose any weight since my visit last week!!! SUCCESS!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:10 PM
2

This would never happen in my family. We coordinate outfits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:07 PM
5

YOU GOT MARRIED?? CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:07 PM
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Did everyone have a great Father’s Day? Did you celebrate a dad in your life? I sent flowers to all of the important dads around me and l took flowers to my brother’s grave and had a good cry over all that he’s missing out on with his daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:16 PM
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I don’t have any feelings for men that I don’t know on a personal level.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:21 PM
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Happy Father’s Day to the dads here!!! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:52 PM
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I know that my husband took the time to read my diaries. I gave him permission to read them, but I have nothing to hide or be ashamed over.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:50 AM
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I highly doubt you’re feeding, housing, and giving every homeless person that you encounter money, but you can pretend otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:53 PM
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According to your comment you’re not a decent person for not giving the homeless money, food, and shelter when they ask you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:59 PM
2

You didn’t hear him out to bash your mother after all he thinks he’s done for you?? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:25 PM
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You don’t get to decide what those needed things are for other people. That’s not how being a decent human being works.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:15 PM
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People don’t need “closure” from a random person that they don’t know. They fucking need therapy if they’re feeling hurt that a person doesn’t owe them a reason for not wanting to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:58 PM
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If she says no it means no. The why doesn’t matter and you, or anyone, is not entitled to a reason for the rejection. She doesn’t have to risk her safety by pissing off some random man with an ego so that you can feel “closure”. There’s nothing to close. She didn’t say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:41 PM
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You only got the microchip in yours? LUCKY!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:56 PM
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😒 l want to point out that I didn’t have cancer before the vaccine. Then my relapsing cancer relapsed after having boosters. Make of that what you will… I didn’t have children before the vaccine either and now I have 3! We need more govt studies about potential side effects. People should know if it’s causing adoptions to happen! Excuse me, it’s time for me to schedule my shots. I’m hoping to contract a puppy this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:53 PM
2

Not everyone wants commitment. I know multiple sought after women that could lock down their man of choice, but they have no interest. They have casual sex and casual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:40 AM
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Oh no, let me go pray on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:55 PM
2

It was only sore for a day or 2 and I didn’t have any issues or infections.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:10 PM
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My nose has had a stud since I was 14 years old and l have never had daddy issues. My parents are amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:05 PM
2

I’m sorry. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:01 PM
1

It’s going to pass and calm back down. Stay strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:00 PM
1

I am a tuna roll kind of girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:59 PM
1

Did you find your secret hair collection?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:58 PM
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I certainly wasn’t interested in dating 99% of them. I never planned on lowering my standards either. Neither of those is despising men. I wanted to get married and have kids as long as I could remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:57 PM
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My weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:34 PM
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You are controlling if you use threats to voice your concern. Break up if you’re not comfortable with your partner’s behaviour. You are not indifferent if you don’t voice concern. You’re indifferent because you aren’t giving any support to her following what she wants. Is it really that hard to say have fun on your trip? You don’t want her to have fun? That’s far from indifferent. That’s being passive and not wanting to break up even though you don’t like what she’s doing. You don’t need to rest…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:18 PM
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He does seem fun. My husband moved on from training my 2 year old to say alpha bro phrases. She’s now a boss bitch with boundaries. “You sayed that to me? You not sayed that to me!”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:28 PM
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You don’t need a gay son for that experience. You only need a toddler.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:19 PM
1

They’re as tall as humans. 150-170cm Your brown bears average 170cm
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:06 PM
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I’m 26 and married. It wouldn’t have changed if I were a man. I did ask out men. I waited for marriage to have sex. I expected the same from my husband. We’re both attractive people and shared the same dating experiences and standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:02 PM
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You have brown bears. They’re not small.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:54 PM
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New concept unlocked!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:45 PM
3

Black bears are one of the cutest animals on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:42 PM
3

It makes sense. Chichis are tiny bears out to control the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:39 PM
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I want to be a chichi.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:37 PM
2

Matt Damon hair
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:36 PM
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I love black bears!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:31 PM
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Hire a cleaner. This is post is ridiculous. What man would want to stay married to a mentally incompetent woman that needs to be treated like a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:05 PM
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Men can have a “manhood” ceremony too and then also take on adult responsibilities like the women do. Here’s your new shirt. You’re 15 now. Help your parents pay bills, little man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:56 AM
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My 2 year old has her very first pet of her own and she loves him so much. She’s been by his tank all night watching her hamster play with his new toys and run on his wheel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:10 PM
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My work day is officially done. The results are 1200% of my goal. Success!!! Now I need new projects to fund! Let’s go!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:34 PM
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My husband never had sex before marriage and he has always known that he was desirable to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:21 PM
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I hope Iran doesn’t use your tax money for bad deeds!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:48 PM
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That’s what Iran said! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:02 PM
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Wooooow, Americans won that war so hard. All praise Trump!!! Iran gets AT LEAST 300b! All sanctions are lifted from Iran! The US will not interfere in their politics! Iran gets to put fees on ships using the strait!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:01 PM
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You question the work of God??? He made me this way!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:30 PM
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Badger talks about it happening in Thailand from the local women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:11 PM
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A lot of women in those countries refer to foreign men as losers back home. You can’t say women are attracted to those men when they talk about them that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:54 PM
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I’m working hard today.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:34 PM
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I just hit my dad up. Hi daddy! Love you… Do you have a minute? My dad immediately asked me how much money I want from him. 😂 😒 Look at me, daddy. I’m adorable. Write a cheque based on how much my cuteness is worth. It’s for Jesus and we’re both judging you. My dad: 😂 Okay, you win.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:25 PM
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I am great at my job. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:20 PM
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My first meeting was a massive success. I called my godfather on zoom so he could witness all of my tactical manipulations. I’m wearing my cute baggy overalls with a little summer sweater and a head wrap that has a bow on it. Good morning!!! I was hoping to talk to you about various projects that the church is working on at the moment to see if you would be interested in helping to support them. Do you have a minute? “Oh my goodness. You look adorable this morning!! Take my money. I’ll drop a ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:11 PM
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They’re celebrating her becoming a woman and no longer being a child, at 12 or whatever age it happens. 😒I don’t know any 8-14 year old “women”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:54 AM
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They’re going to be great!! They’ll come home, get crazy amounts of love, and be the happiest boys!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:52 AM
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In today’s episode of the life of Princess Pickles: Being extra cute in meetings where I persuade men to give me very large cheques for charity. Let’s go!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:09 AM
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Sporting guys, not guys that obsess over watching sports, but actual athletes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 09:26 AM
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I don’t think I’d be compatible with that kind of guy. It’s not for me, but I don’t think there’s anything wrong with wanting to do those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:45 AM
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I do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:27 AM
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It’s paid employees
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:35 PM
1

Very
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:04 PM
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I don’t care about your political alliances or your personal beliefs. You are a human piece of shit if you celebrate a “celebrity”death or hear someone is hospitalized and say l’m sorry to tell you that they’re still alive. Something is very very wrong with you if you do that. It’s okay to not be sad, but don’t be a psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:58 PM
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Update on the weird text! It wasn’t intended sexual harassment. He’s autistic and he has a gf. He was hoping to get advice from me to have a happy sexual relationship with her. He apologized to my pastor and asked him to apologize on his behalf.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:53 PM
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I already have people and services for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:49 PM
1

Why can you use it when you’re using the stove???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:58 PM
1

Do you have an electric fan? Put a bucket of ice in front of it. It makes the air much cooler.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:56 PM
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I find it very funny when men on here call me a “good girl” because I waited for marriage to have sex and married the same. I’m not like all of the whores that were ruined by dating athletes, attractive men, or men with money. No bro, I dated those guys. I exclusively dated those men. Not every man with options is obsessed with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:49 PM
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That’s one of the reasons I was like don’t respond with feelings. End the conversation and tell him not to contact you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:44 PM
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It’s like zero social awareness exists. The sad part is that I don’t think he was trying to sexually harass me. I think he has that little awareness of how inappropriate he was behaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:42 PM
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I was polite and ended the contact. My pastor will lay into him really hard about it. He doesn’t tolerate anything like that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:37 PM
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A church where we staff answer texts and calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:41 PM
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I for sure told my pastor. “What in the… Jesus, give me strength. I’ll handle it, Pickles. I’m sorry that happened to you.” It’s not my place to say you can’t come to any house of God. I leave that to the qualified pastoral staff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:32 PM
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No, we don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:05 PM
5

The stupidity and degeneracy of some people will never fail to amaze me. A few minutes ago l received a text from a guy at church asking me if he could book me for personal counseling. I said no, I don’t counsel men on my own unless it’s a very specific situation. I told him he needs to book a pastor and I can be there as well. He said no, that would be too awkward. I said okay, then you have to see one of the pastors on your own. “It’s sexual in nature and l would be uncomfortable.” I can assur…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:52 PM
4

I ate more than he did. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:05 PM
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I ate so much food. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:48 AM
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I’m not a big swimmer, but it’s my husband’s thing and if we have a pool l might as well use it for my recovery.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:39 AM
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I had my first morning swim. It felt great and then I did the elliptical for 15 mins to warm back up. I was starving afterwards and now I am eating a full breakfast.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:57 AM
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I’m less guarded around men that I know, period. I am not less guarded simply because I know a man’s wife or know that he’s married. Being married doesn’t make you a decent person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:52 AM
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First!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:17 PM
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My kids are set for any education and a beautiful safe house. I am willing to supply all of that upfront. I’ll pay for 12 years of university if you put in the work required. That was all covered before they were born, but I’d be damned if I left money to a grown ass adult that thinks I “owe them” anything because someone else was successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:48 PM
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I want to give a special thanks to rule number 7. Yesterday she gave me an idea to make a charcuterie board to help me eat more and it worked wonders today. I snacked for 4 hours during my shopping and meetings and I was able to eat more food during that time period than I’ve eaten all day for several weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:39 PM
3

Thank you. I’m doing the same for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:22 PM
3

I still have a long recovery ahead of me, but I am determined to live my life to the fullest every day. We’re all dying eventually. We all don’t choose to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:45 PM
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I thought everyone frequent on the daily thread knew already. I’m doing okay for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:37 PM
5

My cancer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:21 PM
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I did date my best friend for a short period when we were young teens. It wasn’t there for either of us. Why would l be sad about that? He’s still my best friend. The “romantic potential” meant nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:21 PM
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Guy from church: You give great insight to the important things in life. I guess you’ve made the most out of your situation. I love your attitude. Best friend: What the hell are you talking about? She’s been like this since she was 8 years old. 😂 l love my bestie. He’s the greatest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:17 PM
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I would probably be more sad over the loss of a lifelong friend rather than being sad that a romantic relationship ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:13 PM
2

Being 23 in itself is nothing. Every problem is created in your head out of comparison and isn’t actually a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:03 PM
0

You do need to work on that. Imagine how other people see you. You already in a minority of success. Don’t put so much pressure on yourself to master it all at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:49 PM
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You should be exactly where you are now. You’ll get wherever you’re supposed to be when the time is right for you. What is the point of being “there” if it breaks you in the process? That’s something I learned very young. You can achieve, but it means nothing and you’ve lost if you can’t be happy once you’re there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:41 PM
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No, I absolutely love my birthday! I love getting older! I love when other people have birthdays too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:36 PM
2

He’s almost 30 and thinks it’s his mom’s job to cook for him. It’s not complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:35 PM
2

Getting ready to ask my bmi again??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:33 PM
3

It’s already common knowledge and publicly known too, not only on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:30 PM
2

Most of my money is set to go to charity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:28 PM
1

The vast majority of my money is going to charities. I have every detail planned out and legally approved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:26 PM
2

Yeah, like cabbages.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:23 PM
1

100% agree with this statement and everyone knows that I am a trust fund baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:22 PM
2

Q4A: Should parents be legally obligated to pass any money left on to their children? My answer is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:20 PM
4

Round one of shopping is finished!! Necessities have been purchased. 400 new towels and wash rags. 200 bottles of shampoo and 200 bottles of body wash. 400 bottles of sunscreen. 400 reusable water bottles. 600 sticks of deodorant. 400 pairs of slipper socks. 30 large bottles of laundry detergent and 10 large bottles of fabric softener. Let’s go!!! Round 2 begins after my mid morning meetings!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:18 PM
2

I am judgy af towards men. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:14 PM
3

Your parents could kick you out and disown you tomorrow. No, they no longer have a responsibility to cook for you. I genuinely can’t imagine the shame I would feel if one of my kids turned out like you. I would definitely kick them out with no money either. Your entitlement will never be my problem. You’re not grateful on any level.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:10 PM
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They’ll cut social security, Medicaid, and food stamps. Your govt could not care less if you suffer and die. They’ll raise your taxes rates rather than upsetting their friends and you’ll all be asking how this could happen in America. It happened because your people voted for him. Wait until you get the bill for Cuba next.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:08 PM
1

They’re her step kids. She married him thinking if she wasn’t there that his kids would be neglected and ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:03 PM
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Your mother’s responsibility ended to you when you became an able bodied adult. She no longer has a responsibility to take care of you. You should be taking care of your parents as they age. Think of how much of a better life they’d have if they weren’t supporting you unnecessarily for several years. She’s sacrificed enough. You don’t need her to do anything. You want things from her. That’s not a responsibility. That’s entitlement from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:00 PM
2

The markets were stable before the war. That was a reason to not start it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:57 PM
4

It brings up the question about why lazy adult children aren’t forced into caring for themselves on their own. You’re not a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:56 PM
3

Broccoli hasn’t changed. https://www.plantfoodathome.com/bitter-broccoli/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:55 PM
3

Yeah, impeach your president before it gets worse. Other countries will not save you from the consequences of his stupid decisions. Allies are for defense, not committing war crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:52 PM
1

I finished a parfait. It was too enticing for me to resist. I wasn’t hungry when I made it, but it got me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:50 PM
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Can we not talk about judges? My father is a lawyer and l’ve had enough of that already. - Princess Pickles, CCB
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:49 PM
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The only reason you have to pay it is because your president started a war of choice by kissing the ass of Israel. It has 0 to do with other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:47 PM
1

You might not meet a perfect for you partner. Many people settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:43 PM
1

I have extra food!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:42 PM
3

The aftermath of breakfast has been cleaned and it’s time for me to get to work!! Today is supporting a homeless shelter day. Let’s go! My iPad is ready to do some serious shopping!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:41 PM
1

Someone compatible, that they’re attracted to physically and sexually, and that makes them also feel special and loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:38 PM
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Someone that is the most compatible might not be someone you feel a spark with, but that wouldn’t make them not an option. I think that’s what a lot of people are referring to with options. They’re great on paper, but it’s not there and they’re holding out for that aspect as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:27 PM
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I have no idea why you would marry someone that you believe can’t take care of their existing children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:10 PM
3

I’m happy you’re comfortable again!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:05 PM
2

I remember that you made a post before about your husband with his kids, an actual whole post, and how you didn’t think that he would take care of them without you. That’s way more than anxiety,
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:04 PM
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It’s so good. I layer Greek yogurt with fresh berries and warm honey. Sprinkle granola over the top and drizzle more honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:53 AM
1

You have trust issues with your husband. Why did you marry a man that you don’t feel can properly take care of his own kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:51 AM
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I’m so sorry you have to live through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:28 AM
2

My kids love scrambled eggs with tomatoes, spinach, and mushrooms!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:27 AM
3

I’m cooking!!! Steak, eggs, bacon, hash browns, and fruit parfait cups for breakfast for my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:22 AM
1

So why don’t you do it? Get any job
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:46 AM
2

Get a job and you can order your own things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:23 AM
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I’m not a fan of indoor pools. That’s his room. I put my legs in yesterday. It was so cold when I tried it and he promised to turn the heat up so l can get in. I put my legs in this morning and it’s still very cold to me, like hurts my bones cold. I’m so glad I didn’t get my body the entire way in the water. Now l’m on the elliptical and my legs aren’t frozen. He’s swimming laps and totally happy with his life. 😂 Maybe tomorrow it will be warm enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:20 AM
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I’m a married woman with money. My husband is educated, but he doesn’t work and will never need to work. I hear far more nasty comments from men on this topic saying I need a real man. I have heard comments from women, but they’re all broke ass underemployed women wanting to be a trad wife, not career women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:13 AM
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Average height. He’s 1cm taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:59 AM
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That’s a terrifying statement. You admire a violent rapist. You admire a man that raped minors and physically branded them. You might as well have picked Epstein.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:56 AM
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🚩🚩🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:53 AM
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I’m ready for my morning swim! Let’s go! It’s time to take control of what I can with my body and my doctor has approved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:48 AM
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It’s really hard, but l’m trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:58 PM
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I took 2 bites of my toast and I wasn’t hungry anymore. My husband suggested that I might need more physical activity to rev my hunger back into gear. Tomorrow we’re going to start morning swims before the kids wake up. Let’s see how it goes! I’m open to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:44 PM
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Of course they’re not. I feed them to my kids. 😂 They’re normal sized muffins.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:32 PM
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I already eat a lot of muffins. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:20 PM
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I’m going to try to eat avocado toast with smoked salmon and a poached egg for a mid afternoon snack. It sounds good to my brain and that is half of the battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:49 PM
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Those snack packs sound amazing. Thank you for the idea!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:35 PM
3

As of this minute? Skeletal Under normal circumstances? Long and lean. My legs tend to have more muscle weight than the rest of me. I’m 177cm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:05 PM
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I want snack ideas, not adding calories. I do better when I want to eat something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 05:57 PM
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It’s my best friend and he’s drunk. He wants me to get food. I’ve been here many times. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 05:42 PM
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I expected this comment from PB, not you. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 04:46 PM
2

I’m not a fan of anything except getting their fries to eat in the car.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 04:15 PM
2

I do love chicken!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 04:13 PM
2

I’m so sorry. I hope you feel better soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 04:00 PM
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It’s time to get serious about gaining weight. I am down 13kgs or 28 Murican pounds. 😭Tell me your favourite snacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 04:00 PM
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Not even joking. I have a list of specific foods I want and from what restaurants. 😂 l am ready for vacation food.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:51 PM
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1 month until l can be cleared for Italy! PREPARE ALL OF THE FOODS!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:43 PM
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I don’t think anyone invests that much mental space into someone they don’t interact with personally. I’ve never done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:58 PM
1

Leaders don’t demand followers, which is most men. Leaders don’t need to say they’re leading.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:47 PM
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No, l’m not into aggressive l’m the leader type of men. That’s hypermasculine to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:33 PM
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I really should. You could learn so much. My dogs don’t listen to anything I say. 😂 Just kidding. They’re little angels!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:31 PM
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What do you consider hypermasculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:01 PM
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Here’s a pro tip that I implement in my own house. Buy a ton a toy stuffed animals and show your dog that you have options. Don’t give them attention until they dog up and dominate the toys by carrying them around and fighting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 09:57 PM
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No no, you have to give it to her to show her that you believe she’s a loser incapable of taking it from you. You really have to break her spirit. If you really want to get nasty you can let her sleep on the bed and treat her like she’s not even a “real dog”. How far you want to go is up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 09:51 PM
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Try giving her so many treats that she loses all respect for you and the treats. If that’s too harsh you could try upgrading her treats and rubbing her belly with a disappointed look on your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 09:43 PM
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I don’t understand why so many men support “men leading” when it requires all of the gendered expectations that they don’t want responsibility for too. Leading requires competence. You can’t lead and then say you need your partner to teach you how to be an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:54 PM
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My husband takes the best care of me. He went to my favourite little Italian cafe near our house and picked up sandwiches, cappuccino, and gelato cannoli as a surprise to make me feel better. He got dinner for everyone so l don’t need to lift a finger tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:37 PM
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An adult person without basic hygiene knowledge is most likely mentally deficient in some way. Call me an ableist, but that’s not my thing. I’m not interested in doing for a man what your parents should have taught you. I’m not interested in teaching you information that you should have accessed years ago. That’s a sign that something is mentally wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:47 PM
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I’m not a nurse. I’m not a caretaker for a grown ass disgusting man. He’s clean or he’s never hearing from me again. I can’t imagine what the rest of his life would look like if he can’t maintain the most basic of hygiene to not have skin infections. That’s literally disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:36 PM
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It should already be maintained. She should leave, immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:33 PM
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Her responsibility is not to your penis. It’s to her own body and health. She should get up and leave rather than possibly dealing with you giving her an infection. She should NOT have sex with a man that lives that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:20 PM
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But google won’t reach through the screen and clean it. He expects her to physically do it and show him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:47 PM
4

In today’s episode of the life of Princess Pickles: Throwing up from a new medication. Fun times ahead!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:19 PM
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Yeah, that’s so nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:11 PM
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He said women should teach grown men to clean their penis if they have bad hygiene, because a man might not know that stinking and smegma is bad. They shouldn’t be disgusted. They should physically show him how to clean his penis, because they’ve had sex with a clean one before. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:07 PM
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I dated through my social circles like friends, school, and church activities. I had 2 previous relationships, but there were years in between those 2. I went on dates 2 or 3 times a week while single hoping to connect with the right guy. When I met someone I wanted a relationship with I didn’t want to continue going on dates with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 09:00 AM
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That is possibly the most dangerous animal on the planet. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:15 PM
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I have a nose piercing and I am a handful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:12 PM
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You’re describing sexual assault, not aggressive attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:11 PM
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I was told I was marrying up to a man with 1% of my net worth, less social status, and the same level of attractiveness. Why? Because he’s 6 inches taller than me. 🙄 No, l can’t take the argument of hypergamy seriously. Being taller as a man is a sexually dimorphic trait. We’re both significantly taller than the average. Soon it will be hypergamy because he has a penis and she doesn’t. I really have no idea what you people want from women when you talk about this bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:43 PM
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In today’s episode of the life of Princess Pickles we have a doctor appointment with lab results, lunch at my house with my in laws, a dress up tea party at my parent’s house, and dinner with my brothers. Surprise guests will include baby tantrums, diaper changes needed at the worst moment, and “no mama, I no want it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:51 AM
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I trust the opinion from my parents because they genuinely only want the best for me. I trust my male best friend for the same reason. I wouldn’t have married anyone if he didn’t have the approval from all of them. It didn’t matter who you were or how I felt if one of them didn’t like you, because I value them far more than a stranger. My parents never asked to meet anyone until l was ready. They never pressured me to behave a certain way, like waiting for marriage either. They 100% allowed me t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:14 AM
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😭😭😭 I can’t actually comment here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:45 PM
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We did that! I had a lot of fun and I ate too many snacks. He was shocked at how many snacks I ate at the game. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:01 PM
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I never dated anyone that my family or best friend didn’t like. I also wouldn’t have sex until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:55 PM
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You can’t tell if something is visually dirty or smells bad? Did you need to see other asses to know if yours is dirty as well? You aren’t aware that build up and things growing on your body parts aren’t normal? I never saw a penis before getting married. It doesn’t mean that I would have thought any of that was normal if my husband weren’t clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:18 AM
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What makes you think that a woman is more likely to physically know how to wash and care for a penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:56 AM
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They’re so big!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:59 PM
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I personally never cared about money or status because I had my own. I am attractive and I only dated very attractive men. I never saw it as dating down to date a man with less financial potential, because that’s nearly 100% of men in my age range. I dated who I found attractive and had shared goals and morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:35 PM
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It wouldn’t change anything. I can’t make myself attracted to any specific man and I don’t believe in sex outside of marriage. There’s certainly no duty or pity sex. I would donate more money to male mental health causes and that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:32 PM
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Oh, well that’s new.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:28 PM
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It’s 12 hours for posts, not 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:20 PM
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You still have more hair 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:02 AM
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Thank you! It’s only a few little peach fuzz spots, but it’s a sign that my hair will start to regrow soon!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:04 AM
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Soon l will have baby level hair. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:03 AM
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Ccb is bald no more! I feel a little hair stub!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:45 PM
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Oh naur, you’re right. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:43 PM
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That picture screams “respect me”, but respect is given, not taken or commanded.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:38 PM
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Shooting you and acting shady in a relationship are entirely different things. I trust until I am given a reason not to do so. I take you at your word until you show me it’s worthless. That’s totally fine for someone with healthy boundaries and mental health. It would never be worth it for me to date anyone that says l like you, but you having a male best friend you want to hang out with is a problem. There are far too many good men out there to tolerate that behaviour. I wouldn’t be with my hus…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:59 PM
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I agree with the statement. You can’t honestly think that women shouldn’t be disgusted by poor hygiene because a guy couldn’t be bothered to learn how to wash his penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:21 PM
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He’s on a mission to create the world’s cutest tiniest troll 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:11 PM
2

That one is new from last night.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:57 PM
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My 2 year old is talking shit to make her dad laugh. “Hey bro, why you is so aggo?” “Invest crypto!” “Hey bro, do you lifts?” “Makes Canada great again!”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:52 PM
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If you trust someone then the actions of someone else do not matter. One of his best friends is his ex. It doesn’t bother me at all. They didn’t work out, but they ended on good terms and they both moved on. My life long best friend is a guy. He has no issue with that. He’s the godfather of my babies. My husband is the godfather to his son. It doesn’t need to be a situation because of gender. We trust each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:33 PM
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I’m a professional athlete and attractive. I get all kinds of attention. No, I won’t deal with an insecure man. I have personal security for when I go out. If he doesn’t trust me then he’s gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:21 PM
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What wording?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:07 PM
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I need the freedom to be myself and live my life beside you, not under your rules. I need someone not jealous of the attention that I receive. I need someone that understands l have an extremely busy schedule and you wanting to hang out isn’t going to come before my training, faith, and family obligations. I need someone compatible with my life and thankfully I found him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:58 PM
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I was very lucky too. My parents are avid skiers and I wanted to snowboard from a very young age. They saw that I had a lot of talent and they got me lessons. They paid for camps too, but they never once tried to make me go. It had to be my decision and I had to have the drive to do it and be ready on my own. Their only requirement to allowing me to do it was that my schooling couldn’t suffer. They weren’t keen on the idea, but they allowed it to play out and always supported me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:26 PM
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My kids are into dirt. I don’t know where that’s going to take them in life, but let’s find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:13 PM
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Did you check for back hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:11 PM
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I’ve seen a wild black bear. I worked near one. They’re very lazy animals, unless sick, until they’re provoked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:44 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:31 PM
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I wouldn’t use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:57 PM
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In the bedroom for absolute proof that you’re not raping her in her sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:56 PM
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You’re fine with her setting up cameras and asking for a magical polygraph that tells the truth? She believes you may have raped her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:44 PM
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Serious question for men: Your wife thinks that you may have raped her. She genuinely believes this is a possibility. How would you get past that and how do you think it would make you feel to know that she truly believes that you are capable of hurting her that way? Would you leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:28 PM
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When I get hair I am going to colour it baby blue!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:15 PM
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It’s the accusation. There’s no trust but verify here? Her peace of mind doesn’t matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:47 PM
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You invited me for coffee? Have some banana bread! You invited me for wine? Enjoy these chocolate dipped stuffed strawberries! I can’t go anywhere without bringing baskets of food.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:46 PM
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“Take her for granted”, not granite.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:43 PM
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I definitely had rules for allowing that to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:39 PM
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So you’re fine when I have set up cameras in the bedroom and ask you to take a polygraph to prove that you’re not raping me in my sleep because some guys do that? Don’t get defensive on me now. That seems totally normal to you, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:10 PM
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You weren’t asking for a paternity test in that case, which is totally different than asking your wife to prove you’re the father. Don’t pretend hospital circumstances are the same as some guy wanting to know “it’s mine”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:21 PM
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You could also do a maternity test in that case, not a paternity test. Would a maternity test have sufficed for your needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:15 PM
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I don’t think I’ve ever seen a comment on here that I agree with more than this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:32 AM
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Oh right, it’s about a man’s feelings. That’s nice. Sorry, but my husband can’t accuse me of being a psychopathic whore because it might make him feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:33 AM
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Is it cool if I accuse my husband of drugging me to rape me because some other man did it do his wife? Hey babe, I need you to take this polygraph and I installed cameras in our bedroom to watch you at night. It’s not that I don’t trust you, it’s just, well you know… You might be raping me. No man is going to be okay with that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:30 AM
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The marriage is 100% over the moment a man accuses me of cheating and being willing to lie to him over paternity. He can get the test, but the marriage is done without trust on his side. He needs to be gone from my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:45 AM
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I’ve had it done by men and it creeps me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:38 PM
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I stated my personal experiences with it and did not make mention of other women. That’s not an argument. You were speaking at me and your bs was not appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:55 PM
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No, what you said is some bullshit that you made up in your head because you think all women are looking for attention and directed it at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:50 PM
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Ah yes, the classic I’m talking shit to you, but I really meant everyone else and you don’t count. 🙄 This is every argument ever on ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:41 PM
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My public open social media consisted of pictures of me snowboarding and traveling. That’s it. It had some updates for my fans about my cancer journey. I have always been EXTREMELY private about my life on there. The only person to EVER be posted on my social media was my father, who was already a public figure. Why would you think that having social media means you’re posting everything about your life? I had over 2.5 million followers before l retired and the page was shut down. Many of them w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:06 PM
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A toasted croissant with mayo, tomato, onion, and cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:51 PM
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Congratulations!!! I’m 100% certain that your dad is watching you and is immensely proud of your achievements!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:48 PM
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I had one single post about getting married on my public social media. No mention of dating anyone ever and no mention of having a husband afterwards. The people that know me know that I am happily married. My life isn’t for the world to know because I have a page. My children have NEVER been posted on my social media and never will be either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:43 PM
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I hope you enjoy them!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:29 PM
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Dinner is going to be sooo tasty. Pineapple rice and sautéed shrimp along with salad and a whipped dessert.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:20 PM
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I would have stayed single.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:00 PM
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It sucks!! I did it once and I nearly drowned in my own sweat. It was disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:54 PM
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TIL hot yoga is meant to replicate the heat and humidity in India. TIL I will never go to India.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:42 PM
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Even he’s offended
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:34 PM
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My dad is a very high profile attorney with a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:18 PM
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I have them now, because of threats to my safety that have existed most of my life, but became much worse when I became a professional athlete as a young teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:03 PM
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They would sit tight up against me, one on each side, and give side eye to my date while critiquing everything possible. 😂 They’d sit at a table next to me and eat too or they’d sit behind me at a theater.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:01 PM
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If they thought it was crazy they shouldn’t have asked me out at school or wherever while my security stood there. 😂 I guess some men are stupid like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:29 PM
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Yes, exactly what it sounds like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:59 PM
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I always felt bad when I was out on dates because people felt self conscious about my having personal security. I understood why they felt uncomfortable at first and felt like they were being watched. What I never understood were the guys that would get angry because I had security.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:38 PM
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I’m on my way home from the hospital!! I can finish my treatment in the comfort of my home surrounded by my puppies and my kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:43 PM
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I’m so sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:41 PM
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He grew up with money too and his dad backed his early ventures. He is not self made either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:21 PM
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Do you consider Trump or Elon to be self made?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:37 AM
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Another big one is that they begin to believe their own hype because they’re surrounded by yes men aspiring to be them. I’ve seen this on all different levels, but eventually you will smacked in the face with your own humanity and realize that you’re not special at all. You’re surrounded by special circumstances. If you weren’t kept grounded it’s quite a ways to fall. I could go on and on with the reasons I have seen, but I will stop here. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:05 AM
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A lot of them inherited the wealth from nonexistent parents that didn’t love them or give them any sense of worth. Money was all that mattered and the money never fills the emotional void.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:53 PM
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Married for 3 years this fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:10 PM
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It’s the same as my parents and for my husband. We all dated a lot before marriage. We’re religious and waited for marriage before having sex. No one struggled to find potential partners. His parents were the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:22 PM
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My test results are slightly better. They think the antibiotics are doing something. Do I feel any better? No, I feel awful. My back is killing me and I am tired constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:48 AM
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Still feeling terrible in the hospital. I need sleep, but my back is hurting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:34 AM
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Where did I say funny alone is attractive or that it’s sexually attractive? I said it’s a PART of a good personality that draws people towards them. Abusers attract male friends with the same traits. Those men aren’t gay. They’re not sexually attractive traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:17 AM
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What attribute? What are you talking about? What is funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:54 AM
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Some have them. They’re charming, funny, and socially skilled. That has nothing to do with their behaviour towards women. My husband has a fantastic personality. Everyone loves being around him and he treats me like a queen. The looks and social skills/personality are step one. After that you vet for character while getting to know them more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:16 AM
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My test results are improving, slightly, with the antibiotics. I have a small amount of hope again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:48 PM
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That might be a normal for him. My best friend would fly me private across the country to hang out with him for the weekend when we were at different universities. He wasn’t trying to impress me. That’s how we travel. It’s not leading with money if that’s how you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:25 PM
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Ignore him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:54 PM
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Yes. I was in a very similar boat. I went out with more than 100 guys trying to find the one that had everything I wanted and in return I met his list too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:57 PM
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I think any combination of a significant number of traits is hard to find by default. Expecting them to be single AND interested in you in return is going to make that a much harder find.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:49 PM
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He dropped out of his senior year of med school when I was diagnosed with cancer to support me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:57 PM
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My husband didn’t have any real debt, but I gave his parents back the money they put towards his schooling when we got married. I felt really bad about the entire situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:05 PM
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“But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:14 AM
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Thank you. Hopefully I can get better with meds, but we’ll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:32 PM
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It’s a kidney infection. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:26 PM
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Thank you. That means a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:25 PM
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They took blood and urine samples as soon as I got admitted and said they’ll hopefully know something within 2 hours. They have me on fluids and said my pulse rate is elevated. I hope it’s not graft versus host disease. That’s my biggest fear every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:16 PM
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The staff here are amazing. Super nice nurses that answer you immediately and they’re all super caring too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:02 PM
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My nurse checked my temp and I have a fever. They said I had to come in to be admitted immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:00 PM
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I’m back in the hospital. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:54 PM
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I’d like to be feeling better by Christmas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:36 PM
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I hope it happens!!! ❤️ Prayers for a tiny ashprouix
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:22 PM
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Narrator: she wasn’t joking at all
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:00 PM
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Live happily 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:51 PM
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I’m going to compliment that man and tell him that his hard works shows. I don’t understand petty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:22 PM
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I have a business degree and I do nothing with it. I’m finishing a second degree to become a pastor. Some people need to follow their dreams even if it means starting over or giving up certain privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:19 PM
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I think people that go around doing that are extremely insecure with low self esteem looking to make themselves feel better. It’s not normal behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:14 PM
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He’s making smash burgers for dinner with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:10 PM
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My kitchen smells so good. I’m caramelizing onions and sautéing mushrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:00 PM
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I don’t need a test. The answer is 96.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:16 PM
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Today is flower planting day at our house. My little one is going to plant her pansy seeds into the pots that she’s painted. We’re also going to fill window boxes and hanging baskets with seedlings that have been growing in the greenhouse. It’s time for some beautiful spring colour to liven up things. She’s a very excited girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:02 PM
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❤️ Thank you. Today I am reminding myself that my body is a shell. You’re a beautiful person and l love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:44 PM
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His comment is so fucked up! What if l were anorexic? Would it be okay to ask my bmi and trigger it more? Where did I mention weight in my comment? I didn’t. What if I were a burn victim or talking about scarring from an accident? No no, I must be fat if I am a woman with body issues. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:34 PM
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Thank you. My kids gave me lots of hugs and kisses when they saw me crying. I know what the problem is in this situation. It’s my brain and I need to do what l can to control the situation to prevent it from happening. He’s removing the mirrors right now and putting them into a spare room until l can handle them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:09 PM
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Thank you. This too shall pass. You’re a beautiful person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:05 PM
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Focusing on the good parts of me until my body is something that I can be comfortable with again. I am not my appearance. I am not my body. It’s a shell and it will go through changes, dramatic changes, and that’s okay. It doesn’t change my worth as a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:03 PM
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It’s in my closet between my bathroom and bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:55 AM
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My bmi doesn’t matter and it’s NONE of your fucking business. I’m venting!! Take your hateful ridiculous body shaming somewhere else!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:54 AM
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I’m banning full length mirrors in my house for a few months. I saw myself getting out of the shower and it made me cry. I hate my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:24 AM
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It definitely matters how it’s stated and no, men are not shamed nearly as much as women are shamed for it. This sub is proof of that. Men literally won’t shut up about it. Most people don’t care when men aren’t being disrespectful to the people that they don’t want. Multiple women have already stated that fact and men choose to ignore it. Their preferences are not being shamed. They’re being shamed for acting like an asshole about it. The blue pill isn’t about preferences. It’s disagreeing with…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 10:35 AM
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The same thing that happened when science discovered that smoking, alcohol, and an unhealthy diet will kill you faster. That result is nothing. People do what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:01 AM
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Yes, you should leave if someone violates your boundaries. That’s why they exist. She should leave if you’re demanding something that she doesn’t want. Relationships are not mandatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:59 AM
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Is this your first day on this sub? 90% of this sub exist to purely bitch about women’s standards and how they need to settle. Men state their preferences 24/7!! How many have you seen change? How many man have you seen dating fat women because of body positivity? The n count thread no longer exists? Stop this bs that women don’t hear the same mess every single day. Oh no, the male loneliness crisis. Oh no, society is going to collapse. Oh my gosh, women are demanding economically equal partners…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:38 AM
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Do you know why women end up with men they don’t find attractive? Societal pressure to be with a man on a committed relationship. Do you know why women have high body counts? Societal pressure to please men with sex. Do you know why women are single moms? Societal pressure against abortion. Now which of those do you find to be an acceptable answer and not individual choices made in those moments?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:33 PM
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I have help with my kids. I would never want my kids to give up their childhood to become a stand in caretaker. I think that’s insane and child abuse in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:25 PM
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I like to take my shoes off in the car and put my feet up while eating fries. I give the directions and feed him fries while he drives where we need be heading. Errands can be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:20 PM
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Society doesn’t like women expressing them either. People are allowed free speech to express them either way. Others are allowed the same free speech to disagree. It goes both ways and isn’t hard to understand. Someone disagreeing with your opinion doesn’t have to change yours or your actions. This honestly sounds like a lot of crying from people with no backbone. You sound like teenagers crying that society made them have sex, do drugs, or whatever. No it didn’t. You made a choice. These same m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:14 PM
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Who is making, asking, telling, or forcing these men to be with people that they don’t find attractive or meet their standards? He said it is a byproduct of men not being able to voice their standards. It’s not happening,
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:07 PM
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He did say it. He said men are afraid to voice their preferences so they end up with others that they aren’t attracted to and that makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:06 PM
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I only have 1 actual puppy. He’s 11 weeks old. He has 5 older brothers. They’re 5,5,3,almost 3, and 2. They’re all long haired chichis. They will forever be my babies. 🥰 Puppies are stressful in 2 real ways. The first is getting them house broken. The other issue is needle teeth and that takes a few months, but neither is really a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:59 PM
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Someone disagreeing with your opinion or preferences doesn’t mean you need to date people that don’t meet them. I am CONSTANTLY shamed for my standards and relationship by both men and women. Did I care? No, I dated who I wanted and I married who l wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:57 PM
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“So they end up in relationships where they know they won’t be attracted to the other.” Yeah, that’s 100% a personal choice and has nothing to do with society, women, or whatever anyone thinks of their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:55 PM
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Who is forcing men to date women that don’t meet their standards? Is someone forcing men to date fat women? Don’t date them. It has an easy obvious solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:33 PM
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My puppies are very very very well behaved. They’re the best puppies on the planet. They’re virtually no extra work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:29 PM
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You could possibly gain weight. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:21 PM
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We have a 2 year old and two 1 year olds. It’s crazy in my house. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:16 PM
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Hedonistic treadmill 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:05 PM
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I could afford many more children, but they’d have horrible lives of parental neglect. They need so much time, energy, and patience. Kids don’t care if you’re tired. Their needs don’t change.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:03 PM
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Idk know how my parents raised 4 kids and did it so well. I think 3 is my limit. I don’t think I could handle another child. Maybe l’ll feel differently several years from now, but no more kids for the foreseeable future. I think 3 is a great number.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:34 PM
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I watched Nuremberg today. I thought it was a great movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:30 PM
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Brutus and Nero won’t go outside. They don’t try. Outside doesn’t have pâté. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:26 PM
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So should men that don’t want child support or kids, including married men in those states.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:03 PM
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Those abortion bans apply to rape victims too. They weren’t given the choice of celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:24 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:30 PM
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Happy Birthday!! 🎂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:11 PM
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You’re going to ghost your gf? RUDE
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:52 PM
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Use attorneys for needed contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:15 PM
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I don’t have contact with them for any reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:10 PM
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I’m getting better slowly. I still have several more months of recovery and limited social contact ahead of me. We’re going to our vacation home soon with family and l’ll finish my isolation there. I’m exhausted constantly, but it’s very slowly getting better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:25 PM
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Congrats!!! I love working in my church office, but I also do a ton of my work from home. It’s nice to relax in your own surrounds and snack while working.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:09 PM
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I’m so jealous!!! I can’t wait to be able to go to a farmer’s market again, but right now it’s too many people to risk it. It’s one of my favourite activities!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:02 PM
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We’re going to plant flowers tomorrow. The little one painted 6 pots over the last week. I bought pansy seeds for her to grow. She loves pansies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:42 PM
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No, I think it’s a small subset that believe that. I have heard women say that when they had casual sex hoping it would lead to more and it didn’t. The only way you can be used for sex is if someone actively lied about their intentions and then ghosted you. I had seen some men that think women give sex to men and they’re usually the men that struggle with relationships. It’s sour grapes from both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:34 PM
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Don’t say l didn’t warn you before you left!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:31 PM
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We’re making a pasta for lunch! Enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:18 PM
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The weeds will be back before the next rain. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:18 PM
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Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:17 PM
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Did you pick up and good fruits and veggies? Any flowers for the table? Tell me more!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:17 PM
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My kiddos have revolted. The puppies are done with their morning naps and the kids took off to follow them immediately. The sensory table can wait. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:16 PM
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Some people say that, from both sides. I certainly don’t think it’s most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:15 PM
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Any openly terrible men, yes. Men chasing those women are also at fault for their own behaviour. Men complaining about those women are also at fault for their own upset as they should be focused on women that don’t do those things. There’s fault for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:15 PM
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I think I’ve reached my internet limit for the day. The sex is a reward posts have begun far too early and I am not going to fall for the drama!! Have a blessed day!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:14 PM
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Individuals are not obligated to be with or to have sex with anyone. Partners are not a reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:11 PM
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How many of these women are chasing known abusers for marriage or relationships? It’s not many. How many stay with these men after they show they’re abusive towards them? That’s also not many. Mentally ill and toxic people exist too. Yes, those particular women are responsible for their behaviour, but this isn’t an issue of women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:09 PM
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My little man is very interested in seeing what I am putting on the sensory table. The kinetic sand has caught his attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:00 PM
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I stopped my therapy last week. Therapy is amazing!! I hope you feel fresh and ready to tackle the week afterwards!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:58 AM
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Hook ups are not about getting to know if a man is abusive. It would seem that most people don’t know each other when they begin dating, especially off of apps. They don’t know if someone is abusive beforehand. I agree that it mostly all be stopped if people didn’t have sex before marriage. That’s the best way to cut down the chances on being with an abuser long term. Don’t live with someone or have sex with them before marriage. Make them show you, consistently, who they are in all circumstance…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:54 AM
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Good morning!! What do you have planned for today? Today is pj day in my house. We’re not getting dressed to go out. We’re going to relax and have fun. There will be baking, lots of baby chasing, and l am setting up a fun sensory table for the kids to explore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:48 AM
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That’s so cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:43 AM
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You’re also talking about hook ups in your post. Hook ups don’t care about personality. They’re about attraction and sex. You have an extensive history on posting about unselected men and it’s somehow women’s fault. No, you’re equally as responsible. These men need to stop chasing women that do those things. I never had an issue with fuck boys. I never complained about my dating pool despite it being small compared to society. I wasn’t worried about those men and I most definitely was not concer…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:40 AM
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Why are you worried about those men getting attention? You’re the one choosing women to ask out. Don’t chase them. Focus on women that don’t do that and don’t give me some sorry excuse that it’s all women of you’d be alone, because it’s not that, You’re choosing the women to chase too. You have no reason to be focused on them,
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:18 AM
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I had the best freaking day! My babies were happy every waking moment with no tantrums or fighting at all! My puppies all listened and my newest puppy had no accidents! I had uninterrupted time to read my mom Bible and make notes while the babies napped! It was PERFECT!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:03 AM
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GET OUT OF MY HOUSE!!!! That is what it looked like when we left the kitchen. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:25 PM
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My lunch clean up is finished. Now I can relax with my puppies while my husband loads and starts the dishwasher. Life is slowly returning closer to normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:06 PM
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The kids had the very best time meeting new puppies and getting puppy kisses. They giggled and gave excited screams from start to finish.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:35 PM
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It was my first trip away from isolation! It was 2 people from church with their puppies and my pastor brought his 2 little dogs. I didn’t get too close to anyone and we all wore masks. I really enjoyed seeing them and playing with all of the puppies. We had the entire little dog park to ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:26 PM
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We’re home from the puppy park! My puppies and babies had a great morning out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:16 PM
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My husband doesn’t have these problems. 💅🏼 Choose better! 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:07 PM
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Your house will now be covered in shedding hairs. Your shower drains will never be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:33 PM
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We need more potato salad, Kevin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:29 PM
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Maybe that is your problem, idk. I deleted my previous comment for personal privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:26 PM
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You have to want to the thing from the beginning. I have no interest in video games. My practicing for 5 million hours to be the galactic champion of video games or whatever would bring me no joy when it paid off, because I don’t want the thing. When I qualified for the Olympics I felt on top the world. I feel on top of the world knowing there’s a dad at home eating dinner with his kids tonight instead of working a second job to pay rent because he lives in one of my apartments. I feel on top of…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:14 PM
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I definitely get a feeling of accomplishment, especially when I see my charity work doing good in the world and seeing other people have better lives from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:00 PM
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It does at least to me. I put in thousands of hours training. It was incredible when I could finally nail a trick without “working for it” in that moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 08:42 PM
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My husband is a stay at home dad. We try to have date nights once a week. We go on little trips every 2-3 months for a roughly 10 days to 2 weeks and we go on day trips probably once a month. It’s also very important for a stay at home parent to have their alone time away from you and the kids. I encourage my husband to go out with his friends probably twice a week. Everyone needs to have a life and identity outside of their family.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:16 PM
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I don’t find this to be true at all. I dated literally dozens of great men that will make amazing partners for someone, but that someone wasn’t me. They were kind and decent men. They were respectful in how they approached and interacted with me. They were also gentlemen when I told them that there wasn’t going to be a second date. There’s a lot of good men in the active dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:49 PM
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The double standard like “sexual harassment Charlie”? That’s a sketch that lasted for years of an old man sexually harassing women. Where’s the condemnation? There’s none.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:52 AM
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SNL aired a sketch of a man inventing a child molesting robot. I can assure you that Dwayne Johnson wasn’t canceled over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:07 AM
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No, it’s labour for a man that expects it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:40 AM
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I cook because I enjoy it. If a man expected me to treat him like a child then I would, and end the relationship, because I am not a pedo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:47 PM
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Except he’s almost 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:37 PM
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You live with your parents and complain about needing to cook for yourself. That is not manual labour!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:34 PM
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You are almost 30 and seemingly have never had a job!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:12 PM
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I love mine and I know my husband adores my family as well. He’s constantly invited to hang out with my dad and brothers for manly man time. We call them all mom and dad. They’re wonderful people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:10 PM
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You’ve never heard of non-binary people? They use they/them. A feminine presenting woman could also identify as he/him. A trans woman and a cis woman would also identify as she/her. The question doesn’t do what you think it does to women. If anything you’re going to come off as respecting the lgbtq+ community by asking rather than accusing her of being trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:43 PM
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Happy big boy birthday to baby G!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:37 PM
2

What a creep!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:35 PM
2

Asking her pronouns doesn’t clarify that question at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:30 PM
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This reminds me of a specific user from the daily thread. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:48 PM
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I usually snap if someone is rude to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:56 PM
3

All of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:51 PM
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You define sex as a part of the definition. I said perceives themselves to be, not claims they’re a biological woman. Saying they feel like a woman and see themselves as a woman does not mean they’re claiming to be a female. They’re not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:59 PM
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I have never met a trans person that identifies as the opposite biological sex. They acknowledge that they’re trans. Woman is not a sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:31 PM
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Most of society understands that intersex people have been scientifically identified with mixed chromosomes and mixed genitalia. Hermaphrodites were known to exist how many hundreds of years ago? I think it’s always been known that there’s been more than male OR female. I think it was only natural for people to accept it as a society. Gender and sex aren’t the same thing and we have people that are not male or female by chromosome, but scientists and doctors decided for them what they are by sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:08 PM
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Common acceptance by society?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:57 PM
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An adult human that perceives themselves to be female.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:46 PM
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My husband went insane on Mother’s Day for me. You’d think my children are Jesus or something. 😂 l do the same for him on Father’s Day. It’s especially important when your children are too young to acknowledge the day for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:41 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:51 AM
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I have 2 that have severe puppy PTSD. They will viciously bite any adult other than me or my mom if they try to pick them up. They were abused as puppies and don’t like anyone pointing things at them either. They try really hard and will climb onto your lap if you’re sitting on the couch. They love pets, but the trust issues are real. My 2 year old can pick up both of them with no problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:39 PM
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He’s a little prince that knows his worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:33 PM
4

I’m going to need that chi chi! Your cooperation would be appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:31 PM
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Let’s all wish PB French toast congratulations for graduating from college!!!! He’s officially adulting now!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:26 PM
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They’re ADORABLE!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:22 PM
5

Happy Mother’s Day!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:20 PM
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Tried that multiple times now. He can’t actually get close enough to speak directly to me. He posted old pictures of us online and called me the one that got away. Me: Don’t disrespect my marriage like that. I’m about to get your ass totally banned from coming to the church where your father is a pastor. Don’t put your family through that. Sit there and shut the f up. You don’t exist to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:50 AM
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I don’t think you should be listening to advice from her given her track record with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:39 AM
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I wish my ex would move away again and permanently disappear from my life. I was so much happier before he came back. LEAVE!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:30 AM
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You should go to a legal brothel and pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:11 PM
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I don’t think there’s a line. It’s a valid option to choose to be single, whether they see it as an actual choice or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:47 PM
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Never in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:37 PM
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Not even slightly biased!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:07 AM
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But my husband is better than all of the other husbands. 😂 More importantly, why is anyone getting married if they don’t feel that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:21 AM
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She’s always perfect. I also loved that the daughter of Beyoncé looked like an age appropriate teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:17 AM
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How could they not love you to pieces?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:14 AM
2

There’s sugar in bread from the stores!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:10 AM
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I make my own pasta and sauces. I bake my own bread. I eat fresh healthy foods. I made my kids their baby food. Now l’m eating so much crap trying to gain weight and it doesn’t taste as good as healthy stuff. Sugar isn’t supposed to be in everything!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:22 PM
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I wonder if people realize how many calories they consume a day or the amount of sugar that’s put into everything to make people fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:57 PM
1

It’s perfect!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:47 PM
2

No. My kids are all adopted and we didn’t look at the race of the children or inquire about health. They’re children, not a building kit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:46 PM
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I love it!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:31 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:21 PM
3

I’ve found myself the PERFECT summer dress!!! I’m so excited!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:38 PM
2

Probably because he actually said that. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:42 AM
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As long as you stay away from wind energy. The noise causes cancer. Believe Trump! I once went outside on a noisy windy day and I had cancer after that. It’s incredibly hard to fight against those facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:30 AM
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3w2
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:22 AM
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My description was almost 100% perfect. I can see how the others could fit, but they don’t fit me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:20 AM
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Did the description fit you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:14 AM
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3w2
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:04 AM
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I took an enneagram test because of a post and the description definitely fit me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:01 AM
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I took the test and got type 3w2. What do you want to know? I am a retired professional athlete and studying to be a pastor. I am very extroverted and most would say socially dominant. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:55 AM
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My puppies received a special delivery of sweet potato chewy chips today and they LOVE them. They’ve been entertained for the last half hour by only 1 each.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 08:41 PM
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My stomach is finally settling back to normal. I still feel exhausted constantly. PT is draining.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 05:14 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 05:13 PM
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New thread!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 05:12 PM
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I walked up a flight of stairs unassisted and without stopping. I also used 2lb weights for my seated arm and leg exercises. 💅🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:22 PM
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Truth! I handed it to the Lord long ago and said let His will be done and let me be at peace with whatever path that takes. He made me feisty and here I am!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:46 PM
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60 days post transplant!! The first 100 are when you’re most likely to pass from complications.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:35 PM
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I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:18 PM
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I’m recovering from chemo, radiation, and a bone marrow transplant. 2lbs is a ton at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:09 PM
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Exercises
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:04 PM
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I was 16 when I had my first kiss and first relationship. I’ve never had casual sex. I waited until marriage. I had 2 prior relationships before meeting my husband and went on more than 100 first dates looking for the one. I met my husband when I was 23. I had an extremely full life before and after dating. My best experiences were certainly not while dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:57 PM
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I used 2lb weights today and they wore me out. 😭 I had to take a nap afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:33 PM
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Being introduced to others by a person is totally different than asking to be introduced to others or trying to get close them because you want to be introduced to them. The people that I brought into my circles were free to social and get to know the others I introduced them to, because I trusted them. What I dealt with multiple time were guys trying to befriend me because of my godfather or my best friend. Like no, I’m not introducing you to my family like that. You have no reason to be in tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:52 PM
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When you’re more interested in the other potential connections or status than connecting with that particular person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:40 PM
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Some you can easily see and others made themselves known. There were a few in my circle that were outed months later and I was always like wth, why, you’re not getting anything from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:30 PM
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Nothing crazy crazy like him, but l definitely dealt with my share of social climbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:07 PM
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I went to great lengths to keep my private life private while I was in the public eye. I had a professional ig page for my sport stuff and I had a lot of followers. It was managed by my dad. When I got married pictures of my flowers were posted with a caption that said guess who got married. I never posted my husband. I got married in a different country so there wouldn’t be a wedding announcement. I paid to keep my name change private. I want to protect the privacy of my family more than anythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:38 PM
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Jesus, my pastor, my parents, and my children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:13 AM
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My husband and I are 2 pieces to a whole and what we bring is equal. We both provide love, companionship, unconditional support, and shared goals to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 07:07 PM
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Put a hot towel on the back of your neck and a cold towel where the pain is centered.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:43 AM
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I did therapy after my diagnosis, after I lost my little brother to a drunk driver, and again during this treatment. It’s been an incredibly useful tool for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:38 AM
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They’re not quirky outliers. The majority of the population is straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:34 PM
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Can I call their partner gay if I see feminine men as more female presenting?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:18 PM
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The same theory would apply to gay people and you didn’t mention leaving homosexuality behind. Your question makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:06 PM
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Gender and sex can be seen as 2 different things, but either way there’s still people that are only attracted to the biological opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:01 PM
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I don’t think the question makes sense. Sexuality isn’t a choice and not something you can “leave behind”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:39 PM
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I can’t wait until l can go out again. I want to socialize and be able to meet new people. I want to get back into the community and to be able to go to my office and work. I want to go on dates. I want to take my kids to buy toys. I want to take my puppies to the pet stores and allow them to pick out toys. I want to go to my favourite restaurants. There’s so much l’m missing out on doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:45 PM
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I don’t personally care as long as he doesn’t blame women if he doesn’t get results. You’re picked by a potential partner or you’re not and you may be rejected for any or not even a reason about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:30 PM
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It took me almost 9 months to be able to think clearly again for the first time and that was with my brother. That didn’t include all of the extra things like his house too. It’s going to be a VERY long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:21 PM
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It’s going to require A LOT more time than what you have left.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:07 PM
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Nice strawman. They should stop bitching about covert contracts and not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:26 PM
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Your monthly cycle, birth control failure, and pregnancy don’t care about the length of your relationship. I was a virgin until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:03 PM
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I ALWAYS completely paid for dates no matter what, no matter how generous, or how well intentioned he was in asking to pay for me. Men are really out here calling a date a financial investment and then crying that she wouldn’t risk pregnancy, 18 years or her life, an STI, or talking about how they were used for free food.. No thanks, I can’t deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:59 PM
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That’s how l knew that he was the one. He understood me immediately and he AND his family took the time to ask me what I needed from them. They’re amazing people. I love them all so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:07 PM
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My favourite thing about my husband is that he is my soft space. I have a lot of pressure to be someone very specific in public and he allows me to be myself. I can come home from work and prance around my kitchen in my pjs, making dinner, and singing. I can sit in my window seat surrounded by pillows and chichis with a drink for quiet time. I never feel judged for being silly or not serious. He laughs when he sees me hiding waiting to ambush my best friend to tackle him. He never looks at me st…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:02 PM
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I don’t see people seething over legal age gaps. I find it gross, but it doesn’t make me upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:41 PM
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I do mean that Klay ain't shit. And men like Klay, ie cheaters ain't shit. Hence, "men ain't shit". She chose shit. She picked a known cheater. That’s her choice and now she has to deal with the consequences of it. It’s no different than some guy bitching about his girl using him for money knowing she used to be a sugar baby. You sure as hell wouldn’t be saying it’s victim blaming if someone said he was an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:51 PM
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I’m not blaming her for getting cheated on. She was stupid for a dating a known cheater and then expecting to be the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:41 PM
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He was publicly accused of cheating on an ex in the past. This one is on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:36 PM
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You apparently can’t survive on your own, cook for yourself, hold a job, or anything. That’s not a good role model for children and you could pass on your issues as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:41 PM
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It’s her boundary, but I think it’s a bit ridiculous. My husband has my younger brothers over and they play games. He games with my best friend. It’s maybe an hour a day a few days a week. I don’t care about it, but it doesn’t interest me in the slightest and I can’t pretend otherwise. That’s his thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:20 PM
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That’s the same reasoning for women chasing hot tall men. They don’t want the future generation to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:18 PM
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I’ve had it from both.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:07 PM
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The men constantly shaming overweight women would disagree with you. Some men want that and others don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:05 PM
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I throw and the men shoot. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:56 PM
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There are a lot of rude mean people here in general. It’s men, woman, and all pill colours. Some people enjoy being an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:55 PM
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Is that the same as clay?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:36 PM
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I’ve had attractive stalkers and it’s still not fun. It’s terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:25 PM
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You didn’t mention being in a relationship or wanting him too. What you described is a stalker and you don’t need to know that he exists to have those feelings or to take those actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:10 PM
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So far these are my favourite! They look fantastic!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:55 PM
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You want a stalker? That’s new.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:53 PM
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I would have stopped seeing a guy instantly if he said something like that. My boundaries will be respected or you will be gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:35 PM
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“Pushing past last minute resistance”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:24 AM
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Sorry, but l’m not opening up emotionally to the sidewalk or people that choose to build them, in an exchange for money from the city. Those people work for money, not in exchange for personal relationships with the people that use them. I pay my taxes for that work. I volunteer my time and money to causes that I value, including strangers. That has 0 to do with who I open up to emotionally. There’s no connection or an expectation of a connection. I had relationships with all of my teachers at s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:18 PM
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Didn’t you break up and agree to be fwb rather than being in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:13 PM
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l’m not looking to invest in relationships that I don’t want, need, or would be disrespectful to my marriage. I’m not looking to waste my time for those people either. My time is much better spent focusing on working or with my family. Here’s your cookie. 🍪
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:11 PM
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if you feel it’s worth the time. It’s not worth the time to explain my feelings to a man that I want nothing to do with personally. That’s your entire problem here. People do invest time, energy, and emotions into those they feel are worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:59 PM
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How many men are staying with women that don’t have sex with them? How many men are getting with 300lb slobs with a rats nest for hair? Men love women for that they do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:36 PM
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Oh no, women also have opinions. How terrible! No one is forcing her stay around the guy either. Say what you need to say. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:46 PM
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5’9 and I prefer 5’11-6’3, but I would be open to someone my height.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:21 AM
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You have to pair up with someone from ppd. Name one person of each gender that you think you would get along with the best. I pick Ange for the woman and PB for the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:16 AM
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I took flowers and a gift basket to my parents today as a small thank you and it made them both tear up. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:48 PM
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I don’t think I have ever gotten the ick so fast as when I see people with terrible table manners. It grosses me out seeing most people eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:38 PM
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I don’t think it exists. You’re a friend and okay with being a friend or you’re not. No one is forcing you to pretend to be friends or hide feelings. The “real” friend zone is people knowing that they want more from someone else and not walking away because they think they can change someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:36 PM
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I’m getting there!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:28 PM
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I’ve had my 2nd blood draw and check up of the week. I’ve gained 1kg in the last week, despite not feeling up to eating much one day. I’m thrilled with my progress and I’ve mustered the energy for small walks in my neighbourhood for exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:10 PM
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Yes and yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:36 PM
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<image> I see you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:40 PM
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I’m so sorry. That looks painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:37 PM
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I’ve done that to my bestie many times, but tbf, he already had his own house and I only had an apartment at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:40 PM
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So he died a few months before you were born and you were bragging about his current power in the country? That makes no sense. The man has been dead for 20 years. He and his former position have no power to you. You said is, not was, and that’s just another lie from you too. It’s sad. “I make shit up, but fine, don’t believe me when I say I am telling the truth.” We don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:39 PM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11834387/ The average age of marriage is 28. They’re already having sex, yes on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:33 PM
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So your grandfather is a minister, the position you need for a recommendation, and you couldn’t get a let from your grandfather for your education?? 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:30 PM
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Okay fine. For Gen Z it’s already 2.99 for Rajasthan. Happier now?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:28 PM
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I have bad news for you. North east india had the highest average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:24 PM
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You said father, not grandfather. You also claimed you weren’t a virgin on that account and lost it to your high school love of 2 years. My how your life has changed. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:24 PM
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I know people with actual power and how they live. 😂 It’s not this stuff of l know people that know people and my will shall be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:23 PM
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Do you remember how many times on this sub you claimed that your father was a minister for the govt and that you would inherit his position? We all remember your old account.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:17 PM
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We know most is not your family having power. 🙄 Your family can’t make decisions. Your family is beholden to those with power, aka everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:16 PM
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Right here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:13 PM
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Yes, in India. The stats are out there and women average more than one lifetime partner, even in the land of not divorcing. Please stop pretending that you have money or power from your family. You need a loan for school and were complaining only yesterday that you couldn’t get a good recommendation for college and had to apply like everyone else. I don’t know what kind of coping you’re doing, but it’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:04 PM
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She probably will have fucked another guy too based on statistics. Why wouldn’t she if she’s getting an arranged marriage to some weirdo that couldn’t find a relationship on his own?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:57 PM
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Does that dispute what I posted? No. They had to raise the age of the draft to include men up to the age of 42 and Trump has an approval rating of 37%. Americans, in general, do not support the war or a draft.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:34 PM
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Someone help him with that grape!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:28 PM
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His little ears are adorable. 10/10 would pet and feed treats.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:00 PM
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The US men are so supportive that they had to raise the age for the draft vs having men volunteer for the military? Trump has the lowest approval rating he’s ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:57 PM
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It absolutely matters if you’re complaining that your sister is using things your parents bought in their house
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:36 PM
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You bought them with your money or you bought them with money from your parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:26 PM
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Mainly dresses by Zimmermann. Lots of business casual added in there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:54 PM
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I love my babies more than anything!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:32 PM
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I would never ignore my grandma!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:52 PM
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Get a job and move out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:45 PM
4

You have a kitchen!! Go cook!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:27 PM
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It’s my first day of group cooking since l got really sick. I wanted to make a nice breakfast for my pastors and their families. They’ve done so much for us in the last few weeks. I made 4 trays of bacon, 4 loaves of banana bread, 4 dozen omelet muffins, and 24 waffle sheets. I packed it up in a cute little baskets and I watched my best friend deliver it to their door from the car and talked to them at a safe distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:04 PM
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It doesn’t actually matter according to the law. If you were married and claimed the child by signing the birth certificate then it’s yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:47 PM
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They don’t receive anything for their children. They don’t want to or can’t raise them and someone else wants the responsibility and opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:43 PM
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No relationship is consent to sex, pregnancy, or parenthood. Married couples put children up for adoption and bear NO legal responsibility for the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:27 PM
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That applies if your wife has the children of another man too. It’s literally in the laws. The children are legally of the marriage, not of the husband. Do you still like your logic? It still applies to actual male rape victims too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:21 PM
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Safe haven laws apply equally. Either parent can drop off the kid and both genders are financially responsible if the other parent wants to keep the child. I’ll quote the OP for the remark regarding abortion. “God knows what side effects it could have or whether I'll be able to feel myself properly. I'm completely against these unnatural interventions, that nature hasn't intended us to be.” That applies to birth control and to abortion. If you want to have sex there can be consequences, whether …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:20 PM
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So he had sex and is responsible for the sex that he had? He could have married and not had sex. He could have had sex and not been married. The children come from the choice of having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:03 PM
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No, marriage is about a couple, not supporting children that a man has no choice in having. Remember? He had no choice. It’s not his job to support those children at any age. His job is to be with your mom as a partner, not a bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:54 PM
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Remember to tell yourself that it was never your father’s job to support you as a child and it’s certainly not his job now. You need employment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:47 PM
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He said he does NOT want kids, not that he wants them in the future. It’s hypocritical as hell to expect a woman to have an abortion, aka a medical procedure, for you to avoid consequences after she got pregnant when birth control fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:23 PM
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How was the astrology appointment they scheduled over buying food that you wanted? Yes, you do. You post nearly every single day about how your parents are upsetting you and how stingy your father is financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:54 PM
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Then stop bitching that you don’t “have a choice”. You have one and you don’t like it. This post is absolutely INCREDIBLE given your own situation. You don’t work. You’re a grown adult that is being completely financial supported BY YOUR FATHER and all you do is complain about how they don’t spend enough money on you specifically. Aren’t you close to 30??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:40 PM
13

Get a vasectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 09:22 AM
1

I don’t care about gender norms in a relationship, but I happily took his last name to escape my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:55 AM
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A 90 year old German/Argentinian woman whose has a book from 1971 that men like to quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:17 AM
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I don’t feel a maternal instinct for random children. I feel it for my children. I feel it for my baby brother that I helped to raise. I feel protective over other children, animals, and the elderly. They’re not the same feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 11:28 PM
2

I wouldn’t say closer, but as close as my brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 09:44 PM
1

😒 I do not get refunds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 02:02 AM
2

Only 2 weeks left!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:59 AM
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Yes. I waited until marriage to have sex. My relationship was perfect before sex too. Sex is amazing, but it’s only one tiny part of our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:19 AM
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Absolutely. It’s exactly what would happen if he were ever in an extreme accident. I love all of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:15 AM
1

My accountant does my taxes. I would go insane trying to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:58 PM
5

Has everyone gotten their taxes filed this month?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:54 PM
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I might be praising my children too much. My 2 year old told her daddy that she’s so proud of him and he’s a big boy. He’s cleaning up the play area. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 08:50 PM
1

I’m probably going to my mother, my mother in law, or my grandparents if I need general opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 08:44 PM
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Coconut cream pie is delicious!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 10:13 PM
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Yes. I have an appetite again and I am consistently eating little bits 5 times a day. I try to eat a few bites more each day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 04:08 PM
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We waited until we were married.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:40 PM
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A loaf of banana bread, a tray of turkey bacon, and fruit and yogurt cups with blueberries and granola.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:21 PM
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I made breakfast today!! I’m so back!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:57 PM
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I would consider it offensive if he said anything about my clothing and probably stop seeing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:04 PM
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I watched church service on my giant tv, had a big dinner with my entire family together, and watched my kids have a blast with their egg hunt finding presents we hid around the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:51 AM
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Happy Easter to everyone!!!! I had the best day!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:30 AM
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I will certainly egg my eggs benedict!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:55 PM
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I had a quiet dinner with my family and spent time with everyone and my puppies. It feels incredible to be home with them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:44 PM
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I finally feel recovered from my trip home from the hospital on Weds! Time for breakfast!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:37 PM
5

April fools!!! Just kidding!! I’m actually being released!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:08 PM
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HUGE NEWS!!!!!! I AM BEING DISCHARGED TONIGHT!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:57 PM
1

So they’re solving the problem OR they’re having sex once or twice and the other party refuses to leave… That’s not abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:39 PM
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Choosing to stay in a sexless relationship is not abuse. It’s a choice. You can leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:51 PM
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The Epstein files would say differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:48 PM
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He was banned a while ago for it and stalking other users. He was really weird. Hey how are you? Would you have a threesome if your husband wanted it?? He tried to get pics too. He would freak out if you told him to stop and claim all of the women here talked to him about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 03:33 PM
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It wasn’t him. If you open your chat invites l will message you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 03:29 PM
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I’ve only ever had to block 1 person, but it was for the same reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 02:23 PM
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“If you have to have sex with him…”, but you don’t. Being a prostitute exchanging pussy for tickets or whatever else is a choice in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:24 AM
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7-8 figures
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:28 AM
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Why would I change how I look regardless of my relationship status? My look is how I feel comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:41 PM
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He should have picked better or something. He’s a red flag now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:56 PM
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He chased attractive, but crazy, women and now he blames all women. Too much baggage and a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:46 PM
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I think it’s fine. It’s their sub and they can set the rules for banned topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 11:11 PM
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You said you were forever alone and unlovable, but you’re not. That wasn’t someone else. Now you’re admitted that you learned social skills. Why are you asking a question, when you know the answer, and then arguing with answers that are saying it’s totally possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:39 PM
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So you learned social skills and successfully developed a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:31 PM
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You’re married and awkward. How are you forever alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:24 PM
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Maybe he doesn’t have anyone that he feels he can talk to or he feels like a burden discussing it with his friends/family. Everyone should have support through something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 01:42 PM
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Couples should do what they agree to do and what works for them. There’s no other “should” involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:03 AM
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We’re both white.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:14 PM
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Absolutely not and he’d be single if he suggested it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:29 PM
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I don’t believe him. He comes across as extremely socially awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:28 PM
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There’s a lot of flat out racism. My parents get a ton of it. I’ve been in the store with my younger brother shopping and store staff told him to stop staring at me while he was waiting a few feet away for me to finish in an area. He’s my brother and it’s totally normal to wait for your family. People have directly asked my dad why he would adopt black boys instead of “his own kind”. Like really gross open stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:45 PM
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All of ours are adopted. It’s so strange to me that people feel okay with commenting on it. Oh no, my children are different shades of human beings. Someone call the media! How is this allowed??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:39 PM
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Enough care to randomly comment when my husband is out with his different race children. 🙄 It’s disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:32 PM
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How did it make women look bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:22 PM
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It’s so weird that people care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:17 PM
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I’ve never watched any of his posts. I’ve only see people making fun of him for being insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:10 PM
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I’m talking real life judgments against people for being in relationships or mixed families.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:09 PM
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The majority of guys l went on dates with were black or white, but I went out with east Asians and Hispanics too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:08 PM
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I don’t understand why people get upset when they see a mixed race couple or family. Race has no place in family dynamics or the ability to love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:32 PM
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Life is very unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:37 PM
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Look at me running off to my adventures and church! 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:07 PM
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No I didn’t date anyone with a sexual history of any kind, but I wouldn’t have an issue if they dated them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:06 PM
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Me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:02 PM
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I have a tentative release date for Good Friday!!!! 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:45 PM
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Did you see the video where he introduced his baby to the lions and they realized it was his kid and not a random person? 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:36 PM
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I don’t think I would ever move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:48 PM
5

Did you mean polygamous??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:56 AM
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I do and will continue to do it. He’s shown that he’s worth that. Would I do it for any man simply because I have the money? Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:49 AM
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You can want whatever you want. It’s okay for women to only want to sleep with hot men. It’s okay for virgin women to only want man whores or religious virgins for themselves. It’s okay for ugly men to only want 18 year old supermodels. Whether you can find a consenting partner is an entirely different issue and you have no one to blame but yourself if you end up alone. Everyone is also entitled to their own opinions and even to stating them about your decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:53 PM
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That’s me heading to church. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:42 PM
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This isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:52 PM
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I was able to start eating again a few days ago and my blood counts are high enough that I could leave my room and visit the patient social area in the isolation wing. I still feel horrible. Thank you for asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:36 PM
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My heart 🥰 https://youtube.com/shorts/6d7OS-zv2qk?si=LWkP0t_5r1NX9Y0F
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:20 PM
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I was the opposite. I only dated religious virgins. Any sexual history outside of marriage was absolutely a deal breaker and I wasn’t dating divorced men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 07:38 PM
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I wanna take him home and love him forever. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:42 PM
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Corgzilla!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:41 PM
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You think?? You don’t know?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:35 PM
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It’s a chubhuahua <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:30 PM
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100% a deal breaker. He had to be a practicing Christian man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:30 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:27 PM
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Virgin until marriage!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:19 PM
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No chance. Sexual history is conversation I had with every man I dated, every man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:16 PM
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Instant divorce. He lied about his sexual history and that’s a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:08 PM
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Idk why it’s a thing. It’s terrible for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:05 PM
2

Is that Chex mix? Eww 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:27 PM
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You can block anyone harassing you in private messages. You can’t block anyone due to activity on the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:11 PM
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Because spring isn’t for 3 more days!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:55 PM
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You look like a stalker today. Ignore him instead of resorting to multiple personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:49 PM
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I’m a cheap date, but an expensive wife. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:31 PM
2

I went on a little more than 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:26 PM
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I did the math. I spent roughly 10k on dates first before meeting my husband. Idk how to feel about that number. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:18 PM
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Little bit over 6’3
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:17 PM
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Sex workers still have casual sex with men that they want. They sell sex to men they don’t want naturally. They would never have casual sex with them. Being a sex worker wouldn’t exclude a life outside of it or feeling a desire for specific men. I don’t know a single person that says they want casual sex and means they will sleep with anyone willing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:03 PM
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This isn’t a dating sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:19 PM
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Most women are not single. They’re not dating either. Most are in committed relationships. They’re not whining online about being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:30 AM
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We’ve been here before, Ange. You don’t need to go askmen. You’re beautiful. 🙄 😂I made myself laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:20 AM
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I’m married.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:46 AM
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Yes, totally spoiled for not putting a man that I don’t want into a miserable sexless relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:39 AM
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That’s a personal choice, just as a person has a choice to not do so. You can’t force people to eat healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:42 PM
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So women should be with men they don’t want and then scream? There’s no viable solution to that problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:41 PM
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Cool beans, bro. My eating broccoli or not has no effect on those children, but my actual charity efforts do help feed them. I genuinely could not care less what others think of my life compared to others. Their opinions will never be my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:39 PM
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It’s their body. All I can do is educate them about a balanced diet. It’s ultimately their choice once they’re an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:37 PM
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Strange that you have to find a way to make/describe lobster unhealthy when it’s not unhealthy. My kids do eat a lot of lobster, not butter drenched lobster. They also ate only homemade organic baby food, not store bought stuff. What will I tell them when they grow up with a taste for fine food? Enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:23 PM
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Okay and what is your point if the they’re not going to be happy with them? Learn to be happy with things you don’t like so other men stop whining about being sexless or single? That isn’t going to happen nor should it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:35 PM
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It doesn’t matter how healthy, cheap, or abundant a food source is if a person doesn’t want to eat it or like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:12 PM
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I’ve never seen a news story of broccoli or Oreos stalking, raping, or murdering a person because they were told no. I’ve never seen Oreos lie and present themselves as broccoli either. Food poisoning also occurs from both healthy and unhealthy foods. It’s more likely to come healthy foods too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:03 PM
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She is ranting. She is not interested in the fact that it’s a both sides issues or that you can choose not to get into relationships with people that “make you earn” basic respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:25 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:20 PM
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I don’t think he’s joking. He blames his meth use on needing to look good for women and has been using steroids for years. That guy is seriously mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:17 PM
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You’re discussing their behaviour COMPARED to women. This is not a gendered issue when both sides want things immediately from a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:14 PM
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You immediately went #notallwomen on him when he asked you if you don’t see other women doing the same, because you personally wouldn’t do something.😂You’re no different than the men you’re complaining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:08 PM
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It is at my house. I give my kids a pep talk every day!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:22 PM
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There was 0 reason for it to happen. It shouldn’t be a warning. It should be the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:52 PM
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Not looking to see if the person has a penis or vagina before sex isn’t an excuse for murder. He deserves the maximum sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:59 PM
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Cancer, chemo, bone marrow transplant, and radiation. I’m under 110lbs and can’t sit up by myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:35 PM
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Every glimpse of my reflection is a reminder of how close I am to dying. This really sucks. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:29 PM
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Stop appropriating chichi culture for the memes!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:02 PM
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Their judgment matters the same amount as your own of women by calling them harpies or complaining about their standards. It’s not immoral to not have sex with men or to believe that sex work is morally wrong. You’re both entitled to feel however and to state it. Neither side is entitled to the other agreeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:57 PM
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I’d think he’s asocial.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:32 PM
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No man will ever make the decisions regarding my money, my investments, or my body. I will never make the decisions for his either. I will never accept or tell my husband that my opinion is more/less important on our children or anything else that concerns our relationship. My husband and I are compatible. We both agree on those issues or it doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 01:25 PM
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My husband would celebrate with a giant party, because I need to gain and huge amount of weight over the next few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:44 AM
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You should never assume that you know someone’s situation, but you did. I don’t need mental help. I am not too attached to a number. I am pissed off and I hate seeing the scale. I am allowed to vent. Have a good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 03:08 AM
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Thank you Reddit psychiatrist, but I don’t need your help.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:20 AM
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It should be a crime for doctors to ask me to get on the scale. I cry every single time and I have to do this every week!! THIS IS ABUSIVE!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:00 AM
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It feels accurate for me. I love that song.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 01:35 AM
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I’ve been listening to “My way” a lot recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 01:26 AM
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My kids are adopted. Best decision ever. They’re absolutely perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 01:09 AM
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First I looked for someone that I was strongly physically attracted towards and then I looked for a devout Christian that lived their beliefs. I dated those people to vet for personality compatibility and I cut things off immediately when I knew that they weren’t going to turn into the relationship that I was seeking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 12:53 AM
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I’m just saying it’s fucking weird. You never mention him. You miss him sooo much that you’re talking about a gf that you talk about even when you’re with him, instead of him, as well as random hook ups. I genuinely feel bad for him. I can’t imagine being last place in my marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:31 PM
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Are you sure about that, because you never mention that, but we saw months of you missing the gf. You literally never talk about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:54 PM
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Why are you always talking about your gf, even from separate continents, and never your life with your husband? Is your marriage not happy or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:27 PM
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I don’t believe it’s masculine. I believe it’s gentlemen’s behaviour to offer, but I never accepted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:21 PM
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I wouldn’t be with a man that had previous children and I would 100% instantly leave my husband if I found out that he lied to me over his sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:18 PM
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Men disagree with me daily and that’s normal. People raising their voices to talk over others is not. People yelling because they can’t emotionally regulate themselves are people l will not speak to in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:14 PM
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It’s life, but thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:27 AM
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She only got married this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:21 PM
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We’re not going to live forever. My younger brother was killed by a drunk driver at 18. I’m seriously ill with an incurable cancer at 26. I could literally die next month after a bone marrow transplant or I could have a few more years if I live and the cancer can’t be controlled. I live every day as if it might be my last, because it might be the last. Traveling, dates, or time spent out. doesn’t stop us from having quiet time at home. Some vacations are about relaxing in comfortable cozy favour…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:11 PM
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My husband isn’t cheating. He’s living within his means and he likes to spoil me. I am the same with him. We’re the same with our kids. Some people are very family focused.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:53 PM
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😂 Super duper Asian!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:04 PM
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Uh huh, soooo poor. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:52 AM
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😂 Thank you. I needed a good laugh today.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:47 AM
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If they wanted you to have the money it would be yours, not yours if you can find a woman willing to have sex with you. I personally would consider that more of an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:57 AM
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Ty!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 06:29 PM
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Ty PB!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:07 PM
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You need to try them. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:48 PM
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Choux au craquelin?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:48 PM
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Was it crunchy and completely coated?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:38 PM
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Not into casual sex and not into casual sex with men she doesn’t find instantly attractive are not the same or double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:55 AM
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Don’t cry when she decides after you drop her after sex that it was rape. Why should she be nice because you wanted to use her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:51 AM
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I’m just saying don’t cry if you end up in prison for rape charges regardless of the facts. That’s how it goes. Why should she be nice about it either?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:39 AM
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“It’s different.” Yeah, totally different when you can’t tell the difference between someone willing to date/screw you vs someone out to rob/kill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:35 AM
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It happened to you twice and you were also robbed, but according to your logic she shouldn’t feel bad, because you were trying to treat her like a prostitute either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:22 AM
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OP was scammed by one, drugged, and even robbed. He decided to try again and the same thing happened. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:20 AM
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I vividly remember you specifically claiming about being scammed by women on an app called what’s your price. Are you saying that you’re retarded?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:08 AM
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This wouldn’t get any unattractive man casual sex from those women even if they lied about their intentions. That’s the part that I don’t understand. You’re not going to get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:01 AM
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Every guy scammed by a sugar baby is retarded. Understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:54 PM
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If a woman can only get men to spend money on her if he thinks he’s getting laid, but he spends it on other more attractive women without sex, then why should she feel bad about deceiving him?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:23 PM
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Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:21 PM
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❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 03:46 PM
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I ALWAYS paid. I never allowed any guy to pay anything for me outside of my best friend who is also my godbrother. All dates were paid for by me. I think either party can ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 03:02 PM
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So you’re making up a bunch of shit when you accused me of doing it? He doesn’t say anything about a dead bedroom. He does say in other comments that he hasn’t had sex since their split. They were sexually active. He used her. He left her for fomo, his words, not because of a dead bedroom or issues with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 01:33 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 01:15 PM
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He’s only had 2 dates in the last 8 years. Sounds like he was dating his equivalent and didn’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 01:11 PM
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He admits to using her too, because she was his practice gf and the first to show interest in him. 🙄 Zero sympathy for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 01:06 PM
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I don’t really feel bad for that particular guy. He broke up with his ex of 6 years because he didn’t want to spend his life only having been with one woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 12:23 PM
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I took 6 friends to Greece for a month. It wasn’t that bad when you break it all down.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 12:20 AM
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130ish thousand
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 10:36 PM
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Hello Mrs. Married Lady!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 04:08 PM
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Most women here aren’t single. Many are married and have kids too. It’s conversation, not a time commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:59 PM
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I am ready for Valentine’s day!!! I bought so many little presents for my kids and l have tons of stuff for my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:24 PM
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Tricks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:29 PM
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I’m a retired pro snowboarder. I still love it and engage with a lot of other sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:20 PM
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It’s not exaggerating at all. He’s a brother to me and I would die for my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:10 PM
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I love my bestie. He’s family to me. I love him beyond words. I would die for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:57 PM
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He’s my god brother and we were raised as practically siblings. There’s nothing weird about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:51 PM
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Do you remember his post asking he if should go for it and shove it in to stretch her out all at once so he can get the sex he wants instead of her saying he’s too big and all penetration hurts? Everyone said no and now he’s done taking our advice. He’s going to end up in prison for sexual assault and of course it will be all her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 03:06 PM
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The feelings. I am not in love with my best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:53 PM
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I think his charity work and level of kindness towards others makes him a role model.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:24 PM
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My best friend is a guy. He is easily in the top 5 closest relationships of my entire life, including my family. It’s absolutely nothing like the feelings that I have for my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:19 PM
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You’re not a bad person for not being able to handle grief. They got back together before she died and he was alone for years after that. Everyone is allowed to grieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:16 PM
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I’m 5’ 9.5”. Men don’t make me feel feminine. I’m a woman. I am feminine on my own. No man does that for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:16 AM
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I’m very athletic and live a very active lifestyle. I wanted an active partner in those things. There’s the physical attraction. I don’t understand what you mean by what they give me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:01 AM
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I only feel attraction to athletic fit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:53 PM
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A fit male chest is most certainly sexualized by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:10 PM
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Ditzy daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:45 PM
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It’s totally normal for men to walk around completely shirtless. That’s the equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:43 PM
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Thank you. You always have uplifting words of wisdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:14 PM
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Thank you for your continued prayers, Sarai. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:48 PM
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Studying to be a pastor. I still have next semester.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:29 PM
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I wouldn’t call myself a good person. I try my best to be a better person every day, but l am an equally flawed human. I try to understand other people and their perspectives. There are some really really nice people here that I speak to privately. We all have our own problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:15 PM
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Thank you. I’m trying. I’m giving it everything I have in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:13 PM
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Thank you for the prayers. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:09 PM
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Dying sounds so peaceful. I’m missing my brother so much right now too. Every day is so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:08 PM
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Followed by the radiation AND the bone marrow transplant afterwards. Idk if I can survive all it this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:07 PM
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I’m having doubts that l’m going to be able to do it this time. It feels very different and l’m really sad about it. I keep praying for strength and the ability to finish it, but it’s so hard. I don’t like voicing these feelings to people irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:32 PM
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I bet they were tasty and worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:15 PM
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I was able to eat for the first time in almost 4 days! Yay me! So far it’s staying down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 08:54 PM
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In your example she said no. It’s now on her if she changed her mind. No means no. It’s good that men are accepting that instead of insisting. She’s not being neglected. Her decision is being respected. She needs therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 08:40 PM
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5’9-6’6
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:35 AM
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Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails. I love that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:59 AM
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I don’t think it would change things. I would have ended up a Christian.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:36 AM
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I don’t know of any major religion that allows for premarital sex, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 08:55 PM
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No. There’s nothing that could have changed my religious beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:59 PM
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She’s clearly single for a reason. People can have whatever ridiculous standards they want to have, because not meeting them doesn’t hurt the other party. It means remaining single. Guys are free to have ridiculous standards are well. No one is forced to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:59 PM
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I don’t think he’s using money or a relationship to secure anything from her. It’s a casual relationship. It’s my understanding that passport bros go to other countries because they think they can use their western passport, income, and savings to provide a higher quality of life to a girl and in return pull someone that they couldn’t in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:26 PM
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Pretty sure he’s also married and in an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:11 PM
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It’s no worse than the boy mom. Be a good parent and show interest in your children and their activities regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:03 PM
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I’m studying to be a pastor. I have very strict personal morals. I don’t judge my friends for how they live, but l choose to not participate in that lifestyle. My partner has to share my beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:44 AM
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They have morals and a lifestyle that’s incompatible with my own. I don’t need more of a reason than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:41 AM
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A lot of my friends are with guys that are great for them. Physically attractive ones too. I would never have dated them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:26 AM
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I have the best family ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:28 AM
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Tell me what that has to do with me choosing to date him, nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:01 PM
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Sexual freedom is about bodily autonomy, not the right to the body of someone else. You have the same freedoms as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:14 PM
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If you want to call me mom then I think you have mommy issues. I’m a wife, not your substitute mother figure to fix you. It’s also really creepy that people say mommy/daddy and want a sexual relationship. It makes me think you’re attracted to your actual parents too. I have a daddy. That man created me and raised me. We have a very healthy relationship and I can’t ever imagine seeing that word in any other context.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:33 PM
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Absolutely not. I couldn’t do it. I would genuinely wonder if he was gay to be thinking of penises that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:29 PM
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That’s some pedo/incest adjacent stuff to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:26 PM
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Oh hell no. Absolutely not. I am not into any kind of incest fantasy or playing mommy to a grown adult. Nothing would turn me off faster than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:24 PM
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You mean like a partner calling you mommy and you don’t have kids together?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:21 PM
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Nothing makes me happier than hearing my kids say mama or mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:37 PM
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I can’t say that I think about them unless l run into them or someone brings them up. They’re my ex for a reason and it’s not something I ever thought twice about changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:29 PM
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No, I would not date a man obsessed with penises, size, comparison to others, or with low self esteem. It’s extremely unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:25 PM
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Men shouldn’t pay more for less attractive women. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:17 PM
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They are considered sex workers, but they all don’t have sex. They’re a rent a gf and they’re not respected either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:14 PM
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Escort provide companionship for money, not sex. Prostitution is providing sex for money. She’s 100% an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 10:47 PM
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So she’s an escort. Most people don’t want to be or to date escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:15 PM
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That is not appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:25 PM
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Who was the guy you were fucking 3 years ago that you didn’t want to know how much you liked him? Please stop lying. You’ve dated other men, claimed to be in love, and talked about fucking guys in the last year. Your post history is public. Shaming other women doesn’t make you look better. Lying about your history also doesn’t change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:53 PM
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He died 4 years ago? I’m so sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:49 PM
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You’ve only loved once? You fucked 3 guys. What happened to you only fucked guys that you loved?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:42 PM
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Are you planning on wearing a virginal white dress? Will he know that he’s marrying someone that’s fucked multiple other guys when he sees you walking down that aisle in a lie? Be careful throwing that shame around, because it comes back at you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:36 PM
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Women should raise their standards for men that they’re physically attracted to and include qualities that make for a good relationship. The answer isn’t to be with a man they’re not attracted to unless they want a sexless relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 12:22 PM
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But you are saying it’s a part of the red pill it’s theory on sexual attraction. I wasn’t wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 12:01 PM
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Go ahead and explain to me why red pill thinks a man’s sexual value increases with age without talking about his money or status.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:46 AM
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I was a virgin until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:16 PM
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I had 2 previous relationships and 108 first dates. Nothing could compare to what I feel for my husband. He’s everything to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:08 PM
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Because I don’t believe in the red pill. I don’t think you can make up for a lack of sexual attraction with money or status. I think the red pill works on a certain type of woman, but it’s the same type of woman men complain about here. She’s a gold digger, has mental issues, and it ends with no sex. That’s not an average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:56 PM
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2 years
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:25 PM
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It’s for religious reasons. Being blue pill doesn’t mean not being personally sexually conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:23 PM
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Same age as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:22 PM
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I recently turned 26.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:15 PM
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I was a virgin when I married. We do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:08 PM
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Any sexual history was a deal breaker for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:08 PM
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26/F/Canada/religious/married Sex for me is something that happens only after marriage. It’s wonderful and amazing, but it’s a want. I have cancer that requires treatment. I won’t see my husband the entire month of March because I’ll be in isolation at the hospital after a bone marrow transplant. The ONLY visitor l’ll be allowed to have is mom and she’s going to isolate from my dad and my brothers, along with everyone else, to keep me safe. I’ll die if I catch anything at all. You’re not having …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:56 PM
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He’s probably banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:04 PM
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He won’t ever be able to live alone or hold down meaningful work. That’s disabled.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:38 PM
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Why did you make an alt? Everyone knows it’s you!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:18 PM
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Autism and NVLD
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:08 PM
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He has NVLD and she has autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:05 PM
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I’m not healthy. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:31 PM
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My younger brother is engaged. Aww, they’re such a sweet couple too. They’re both permanently disabled and they’ve also become best friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:27 PM
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She’s 90% Aussie, but she still says bébé.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:20 PM
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New stuffed animal friends. They also picked new toys for the puppies. Big girl picked out a stuffed dog that’s bigger than her by quite a bit. “Oh naur! Pweese help!”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:09 PM
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It’s a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:55 PM
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I had a great day. I pet and fed the horses with my godfather. We took my babies to the store where they picked out a special present for themselves AND I was able to eat 5 bites of dinner!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:37 PM
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I feel bad for him and try to spend that day getting him to share happy memories of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:07 PM
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So repulsive that you can’t and won’t stop engaging with them. We clearly have different definitions of that word.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:03 PM
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I did sign a contract like that, because my prenup gives him MY money, not half of our marital assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:53 PM
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It won’t. You read your Bible and treat others as you want to be treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:37 PM
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You want to rage bait the men that rage baited you. It doesn’t change what I said. It doesn’t matter if they’re obsessed with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:34 PM
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I hate when people say stupid shit like this comment. Sex is not a reward or a punishment. Sex is an act between 2 consenting people and nothing more. Nothing matters outside of the consent of those 2 parties. No one deserves sex and no one deserves to be denied sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:30 PM
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Would you stay with a woman that expected you to put your kids second to a date? I would leave a man if he said come on, they’ll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:23 PM
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I’d leave my partner if he didn’t ALWAYS take care of his kids before anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:21 PM
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You’re going to be the most beautiful bride ever!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:19 PM
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I don’t have regrets, because that relationship made me a wiser more cautious person. I have 0 fond memories of him or the relationship. He ruined them all with his actions that ended it. His dad is one of my pastors and l’ve asked him to never mention his name again and he agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:34 AM
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I make sacrifices for my charity work every single day. I can assure you that l am not in love with any of them. I love the people that I am helping and I do it for that reason. Not expecting anything is return is the entire point behind charity work. You’re serving others. My husband has made multiple sacrifices in our relationship for my physical and mental health. I’ve never been in a position to be asked to do that. Charity can be an expression of any type of love. Love is not charity. Love …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 03:52 AM
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You are not straight if you want gay sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:54 AM
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Are you certain they’re not straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:59 AM
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Vanilla cappuccino
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:11 PM
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I’m a great wife and l’ve only been married for 2 years!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:09 PM
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There’s no amount of money that would get me to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:30 PM
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I got over my first love with no problems. He broke my heart and destroyed my trust in him. He thought I gave him status in society and he tried to cash in on it. There’s nothing there to look back and be happy over or to miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:06 PM
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Oh no, they would never do that. He was very upfront with it. They split up because they realized they didn’t want the same things as they originally thought they did. There’s no bad blood between them or any sexual history. They’re both great people and care a lot about the happiness of the other person, but it didn’t work out for a relationship. They’ve both moved on. Honestly she’s been so great to me and was a complete open book for any questions that I had about their past.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:36 PM
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My husband introduced me to his ex fiancée and now we’re good friends. I love her to bits. She’s awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:15 PM
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I’m a brand new 26 and he’s almost 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:46 AM
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He’s treated like a king. He only cooks when I am sick. We have housekeepers for everything else. Serious question: Why would l warm his car up in the morning?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:47 PM
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I don’t believe you!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:13 PM
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Stop blaming her for your addiction!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:02 PM
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Those men exist. My dad has almost all of those qualities and he is who I modeled my standards after, because he’s an amazing man and father. I dropped some of them because I realized they weren’t important to me personally. I don’t need money. I don’t need a man to clean. I don’t need a man to plan everything. I don’t need a man to manage my emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:09 AM
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There’s a word for guilty feeling women with a history like yours… 😑 Considerate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 04:14 AM
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Have you had a biopsy to confirm cancer cells?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:46 AM
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Yeah, it’s SLL.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:40 AM
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I never miss an appt. I’m in treatment right now and will be getting a bone marrow transplant in March. Hopefully all goes well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:32 AM
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It’s probably going to come back repeatedly, but I was in remission for a while. I can’t be cured, but I should survive it if it never mutates into a more aggressive cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:28 AM
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He dropped out of med school when I was diagnosed with cancer. He carried me through a lot of very tough times. He didn’t flinch when the doctor said I couldn’t have kids because of it. All of that after we had only dated a few months. He’s amazing. I have the money and l’m not worried about it. I’ve gotten a LOT of crap from men talking about him and making judgmental assumptions. It doesn’t bother me at all. He is priceless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:05 AM
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My husband has never worked. It doesn’t bother me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:46 AM
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You don’t have problems socializing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:24 PM
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Why would you assume yourself to be an outlier when it comes to statistics? It might not be a factor, but it likely is part of it if you’re ND and struggling after getting matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:21 PM
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Statistics show that ND men have much lower rates of dating success.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:18 PM
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That’s probably a big part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:13 PM
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Are you neurodivergent?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:56 PM
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Right now it’s try to eat and keep it down. There’s a lot of things that I can’t attempt to even think about eating without gagging. I can’t eat much without feeling sick. I’m snacking when l feel a tiny bit hungry on whatever seems like a good idea. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:15 PM
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Morning snack time! Cottage cheese and strawberries!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:42 PM
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I have amazing in laws too. His parents go so far above and beyond to be certain that I’m okay and not overdoing things. My parents and grandparents are also like that with both of us. I love my family so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:37 PM
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I have a small nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:32 PM
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That happens to me if my nose is too dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:38 PM
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Scenario 2 is leading to counseling rather than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:21 PM
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Baby rabies
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:04 AM
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I would say a trophy partner is someone chosen for looks and nothing else. Not like their personality or compatibility. It’s you’re attractive to me even if nothing else fits, even a sugar baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:03 AM
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To have him with you and living your life? No. What do people usually brag about? It’s things that we consider remarkable. “I can’t believe this happened to me!!” That type of thing. What does it say about you if you find it remarkable that an attractive man is with you? Why do you need to repeatedly talk about it rather than live your life? Probably because you know how unlikely that was to ever happen to you. They’re showing their own insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:58 AM
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Insecure people brag to look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:53 AM
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Not in my circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:46 AM
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Men do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:13 AM
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Do you honestly think these women have sworn off hook ups or casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:07 AM
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He wants to do 50/50 with you. He’s not against supporting other women in the future if it doesn’t work out between you, but he’s chosen 50/50 with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:04 AM
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Social calibration or the ability to fit in with your peers might be the most important trait for relationships, especially with higher income levels. No one wants a partner that they can’t take to charity functions, dinners, or parties without them being loved by others. I know plenty of trophy partners, but not one of them lacks above average social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:59 PM
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Why are they only now setting it up too? So many questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:51 PM
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I have chocolate milk!!! I can feel your jealousy! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:49 PM
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I can see their pov. Imagine calling a woman a gold digger because she asks why her man goes 50/50 with her and paid for many others. She wouldn’t be in the wrong for asking about the lack of consistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:45 PM
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I never thought about money from a partner. I always had enough more than enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 09:41 PM
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I think l’m a good wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 09:35 PM
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Your example is a pop song written by 2 men? Shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 09:28 PM
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I expect it from my husband, my dad, my brothers, and from my best friend. I don’t expect it from random men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:24 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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