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| 0 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menbro that’s what’s wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 03:33 PM |
| 6 | No, most men DON'T overestimate their own attractivenessOh, so just a pointless comment, cool thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 04:28 PM |
| 7 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsNah dude, I just don’t think people understand whatever it is you’re trying to say in your comments. Like I don’t know what point you’re trying to make | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Men are far more obsessed with height than women areThis is an incredibly pure example of confirmation bias. You seem to have nothing going on for you except your height. Do you really think you’d be doing better with women if you didn’t even have that? There’s just more average height guys out there and plenty of women for whom those men are tall enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Men are far more obsessed with height than women areThis is all so stupid. It’s not the sort of “gotcha” moment you seem to think it is. Somebody who denies being exceptionally broke/ugly is in no way claiming to be wealthy and handsome. This is logic that even children should understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 07:44 PM |
| 2 | cheating while drunk is WORSE than cheating while sober.This is not the same thing as cheating while drunk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Cmv: The cold approach should be socially acceptable.Right, and if he gets that sense, then he is able to wish her well and end the conversation. Maybe she seemed receptive and already smiled back, etc. Remember this hypothetical man is attractive and has good social skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Cmv: The cold approach should be socially acceptable.Why would a man who is attractive, socially astute and confident in himself, not just talk to and ask out a woman he is interested in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 01:45 PM |
| -2 | With male virginity rates near 30% in the USA for the 18-30 age range what impact will this have on societyJesus Christ you really think the presidency is that easy to win? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 02:27 PM |
| 4 | Many women are perpetuating rape "culture" by being into aggressive menAnd I don’t hear men catcalling or harassing women on the street. Does that mean it doesn’t happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 05:00 PM |
| 5 | Our current culture undervalues "intellectual exchange" and I would argue friendships/relationships would last not only 100x longer, but everyone's social cues would improve dramaticallyWhy do you think average people can’t have interesting conversation about those topics? Or at least, why do you think your insights about them are any more correct/valuable than an average person’s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 06:57 PM |
| 1 | What would happen if men and women exchange their situations in dating ?Okay, but what’s the point? Wanting to have sex with other men isn’t a switch that straight men desiring sex can just switch on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 05:16 PM |
| 4 | What percentage of woman these days are participating in "sugar dating"? And how do you think it affects the dating market?Alright, well in that case if you want to use your own definition, I guess I can’t stop you. But at some point you need to realize nobody else defines it that way and productive conversation is next to impossible if you insist on using your own definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 07:41 PM |
| 7 | What percentage of woman these days are participating in "sugar dating"? And how do you think it affects the dating market?By your definition, is any relationship with financial inequality sugaring? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 06:11 PM |
| 1 | (Casual) Sex really is overrated and job prospects are shockingly underrated around hereThis whole post just reads like you trying to rationalize why it’s better to be less successful with women. It isn’t the end all be all, but who doesn’t want a healthy and fulfilling sex life on top of everything else going on with their life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 02:17 AM |
| 7 | A rich man might fuck broke hot young women but he'd never wife them upI’m what world is 500 million not ‘generational wealth’? I just looked up the stats and approximately only 4,500 people globally have a net worth at or above 500m. Nobody loses 500 million because they didn’t marry someone else that rich. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Should you cut off all the people you've slept with when you get into a relationship?It doesn’t feel extremely insecure to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Are most males left in the dark on their level of physical attractiveness?Feel free to believe that and never try to become any better, but don’t be mad at the people outperforming you who are willing to put in effort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 10:48 PM |
| 3 | How Come PUA's Are Getting So Much Flack Now Whereas Earlier They Were Ok?There are lots of professional athletes that have been busted for rape too. They’re still generally viewed through a positive lens, so it must be something else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | What's worse in your mind a 20 year old fucking a 16 year old or a 45 year old fucking a 20 year old?But can’t you say all the same things for the second case? Life at 45 is a completely different world than life at 20 too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 10:35 PM |
| 1 | What's worse in your mind a 20 year old fucking a 16 year old or a 45 year old fucking a 20 year old?3 years makes a big difference at those ages, yes, but adding one more year to the equation doesn’t magically make the older person a pedophile. That dilutes how fucked up real pedophillia actually is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 10:16 PM |
| 5 | People underestimate the significance of body fat percentage on attractiveness.Fight club Brad Pitt >>> powerlifters for practically all but a very small subset of women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 05:11 PM |
| 12 | People underestimate the significance of body fat percentage on attractiveness.That’s not really skinny fat though. Skinny fat is low lean muscle with a relatively high BF% resulting in looking chubby at a ‘healthy’ weight. Low BF and low lean muscle is just skinny / gaunt / weak | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 05:09 PM |
| 3 | If it's acceptable for women to make men wait for sex, it's acceptable for men to pretend to want a relationshipYou sound like you also struggle to maintain relationships and friendships IRL. Do you have any friends? If so, maybe consider that the way people act online isn’t always indicative of how they are in person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 12:45 AM |
| 2 | When is explicit(verbal) consent ever given by women for initial intimacy(touching and kissing). Is this practiced in reality?Just someone who tried to apply critical thinking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 01:27 PM |
| 5 | When is explicit(verbal) consent ever given by women for initial intimacy(touching and kissing). Is this practiced in reality?Difficulty reading body language / gauging her emotional response. The desire to have a go to rule to follow that works in every situation and doesn’t require nuance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 01:17 PM |
| 4 | CMV: I think women are hypocrites when it comes to patriarchyAre you seriously not able to grasp the concept of a comparison? Not everything being compared needs to be 100% the same. She clearly laid out to you the point of the comparison and why it is useful. Either you are just arguing in bad faith and intentionally missing the point, or you don’t have the capacity to grasp it. Neither are a good look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute doesJust saying “nah, that doesn’t happen much” isn’t addressing it, that’s avoiding it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenI mean sure, have fun raising an infant alone, and then only seeing your own child every other week. Feels like an empty threat that sounds much better on a keyboard than irl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 05:07 AM |
| 12 | Is it really bad if, after a woman asks me what my height is, I ask her what her weight is?Genuinely asking, what makes asking a woman her weight a micro aggression, but not asking a man what his height is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 10:00 PM |
| 3 | I don't believe it's a fair assessment that rejection is at fault for turning men into bitter and misogynistic douchebagsMaybe it’s personal if you ask out a friend and get rejected, but if you get rejected on a cold approach, I’m not sure how you could take it personally. They don’t know you and you don’t know them. They might not be straight, they might be in a relationship, or just got out of an abusive one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 07:35 PM |
| 4 | The tragic fate of those poor ugly incels 💔Yeah, that’s why they get hate, because some of them are assholes! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 10:32 PM |
| 18 | Why don’t straight women like bisexual men?That isn’t a fact, just your opinion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Men, does this sound logical to you?If you keep saying it, it makes it true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/21 11:41 PM |
| 1 | The best situations happen when they choose youMeh, the women who have approached me are generally less attractive than the women that I would approach. Which is... fine I guess, but if I know I could do better, then I’d have a hard time deciding to settle for one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 03:18 PM |
| 5 | List CLEAR Examples of Flirting and other Indicators of InterestThen get money and a six pack and stop complaining | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 05:44 PM |
| 5 | “I can’t be open because they will use it against me” is a common thing I hear men say, but not women as much — why?It isn’t a research paper, it isn’t meant to be a definitive source. It’s a great explanation and example though, and I assume that’s why it was linked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 05:04 PM |
| 13 | Self improvement is pointless/a scam for menAnyone dumb enough to believe any of this, absolutely deserve to self select themself out of the gene pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/21 11:39 PM |
| 7 | For many men it's very difficult to find a partner that you find sufficiently physically attractive.For what it’s worth, I think holding out and not settling is still the correct call. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 10:39 PM |
| 18 | For many men it's very difficult to find a partner that you find sufficiently physically attractive.I mean... you realize that your problem was that all those women you found sufficiently attractive just didn’t find you to be sufficiently attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 10:29 PM |
| 2 | RedPill Men, Do You Believe that People Can Uhhhh Love Each Other?Right? I have no idea how they can type that with a straight face | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 01:00 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIs melancholy really the right emotion to describe literally any of these circumstances? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 03:51 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI generally agree with you, but I don’t want to date a broke dumb bitch. That said, I’d rather date someone broke, dumb and hot than someone rich, smart and ugly, so maybe I don’t actually know where I stand ¯\(ツ)/¯ eh why bother settling for either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Using an escort to boost your SMV, a legit strategy?I mean, I’ve been never been married, but damn do women seem to come on to me when I’m unavailable and in a relationship. (not at all an endorsement of OP, lol just no) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 03:39 AM |
| 3 | I honestly don't see the big deal of men paying for dates.Meh, I have options. I choose to pursue the less entitled ones. Sometimes I’ll pay, but if her bio says anything about feminism / gender roles / down with the patriarchy and she doesn’t offer to split the bill, she won’t progress past casual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 03:36 AM |
| – | Heightism /Short man from a female perspectiveA short man with a great face, body, personality and job will nearly always outperform a tall, ugly, fat, weird, poor recluse of a man. But all other factors equal, a tall man has an advantage over short men and there’s nothing that the shorter men can do about it. A man who is short with a below average face will need to work much harder to reach the baseline to be considered attractive. And even once he puts the work in, he looks around and sees men putting in way less work, but getting better… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:54 PM |
| 15 | Women blame men who get rejected for having bad attitudes to avoid appearing shallowDeciding to make a change in your own style or appearance is not the same thing as rejecting somebody over something superficial about their appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:28 PM |
| 6 | Can we talk about the day in the life of Chad comment?And he could also get struck by lightning, either way it’s completely unrelated to his behavior and how he treated her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 04:34 PM |
| 8 | Kevin Samuels Discussion ThreadI don’t think he’s as terrible as some people might try to paint him, but I’m not a fan of his content. He seems more interested in being entertaining and putting entitled women in their place, than actually helping people adjust expectations / find happiness. I mean, I get it. It’s a show and if it isn’t entertaining people don’t care. I’d be interested to see how he handled entitled loser men, but at least his newer content seems to focus on women. Again, I get that he’s appealing to his large… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 03:32 PM |
| 6 | Looks matching is irrelevantAn 8.5 woman is as attractive as a 10 man A 5.5 woman is as attractive as a 7 man A 2.5 woman is as attractive as a 5 man I just disagree with this. You state this as a fact and then use it as the foundation of your argument, but I haven’t ever seen this idea before. A 10 woman is as attractive as a 10 man. A 5 woman is as attractive as a 5 man. If you just redefine it to mean whatever suits your argument... then lol alright | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 03:23 PM |
| – | When a woman makes a man jump through hoops for sex, he should immediately discard her and find another womanOr it’s because you don’t have weird hang ups about sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 03:16 PM |
| – | When a woman makes a man jump through hoops for sex, he should immediately discard her and find another womanIf you view consensual enjoyable sex as becoming a cum dumpster, then you probably have some sexual hang ups and most men are better off avoiding women like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 03:11 PM |
| 6 | Why is it that you always hear about women being very vocal about not wishing to date men of their opposite political spectrum (the vast majority of the time it's liberal women vs conservative men) but you don't see men doing the same thing nearly as often (mostly conservative men vs liberal women)?Are they really less tolerant? Or are they just less tolerant of intolerance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I’d like to introduce you to a country called Brazil https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brazil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 07:40 PM |
| 1 | More women should give chances to the men who prefer going Dutch - they aren’t trying to mask their intentions under the guise of tradition/chivalryAt least in theory, a sense of decency and integrity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 07:30 PM |
| 1 | More women should give chances to the men who prefer going Dutch - they aren’t trying to mask their intentions under the guise of tradition/chivalryWhy would you expect him to pay for 100%? Surely you were both equally involved in the conception? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 07:27 PM |
| 3 | In reality people always need to settle or compromise on something. Out of your list of the desirable traits of the opposite sex, what would you compromise on if they were a great person "besides" it? In your experience have you ever compromised your standards, how did it turn out ?How does contributing equally show a disinterest in forming a union? I would think that both partners putting in effort/money/value would be a given for a successful union | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Is the Red Pill fair to women?Don’t worry man, people who can follow basic logic understand what you are getting at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 05:11 PM |
| 2 | All things being equal, do you believe a woman being a virgin in her mid 20s a red flag or turn off?I seem to be in the minority here, but yes it is a turnoff for me and somewhat of an orange flag. Some people are saying that it’s admirable or a show of her strength of character, but I think it’s much more likely that she has some hang ups about sex. I would much rather date somebody who already knows that she enjoys sex. My n-count isn’t really high per se, but I want somebody with a more similar life experience. Beyond that, unless I really wanted to pursue a serious relationship with her, I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Women shouldn't expect to be paid for on the first few datesIn this case though, you aren’t manipulating her. You are just doing what is right, and she thinking the stuff herself, and you still gain from it. Yep, this is exactly what I was getting at. Getting to the same end result as the guys intentionally manipulating her, without actually engaging in any immoral behavior, is a win in my book. Or at least it isn’t a loss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 08:05 PM |
| 0 | Women shouldn't expect to be paid for on the first few datesIf she’s already decided that’s she’s really into him “What happened? I thought the date was going so well. Did I do something wrong? Does he just not really like me?” then her having these thoughts isn’t actually a bad thing for the guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Dating has always been this way, the internet just lifted the veilSo hasn’t something changed then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 04:09 PM |
| 1 | How fat is too fat?Lmao I thought this was really good satire until I realized you’re serious 😳 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 01:07 PM |
| 3 | So if men want sex, then all they need to do is ask for relationships?Say that a woman is average looking. If she is seeking casual sex, she will have an abundance of available partners. Some of those options will likely be attractive men who are willing to engage in casual sex, but not an exclusive relationship. If casual sex is all an average man is offering, then why would a woman choose him over the very attractive guys? And any woman looking for something serious will not consider you. Expressing interest in a serious relationship would make an average man mu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Only a childfree relationship can be a relationship of true loveyou're gatekeeping true tested love for parents who stay together for love I mean, it seems like they’re just arguing the inverse of this post, using the same logic as this post. Ergo the post kinda sucks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Only a childfree relationship can be a relationship of true loveI think it’s one thing to say that child free couples are on average more happy, because none of them are together out of the obligation of raising children. It’s the leap from that to “no couples with children can truly love one another” that I personally can’t follow the logic of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Why does it seem like attractive people with the personality of an old, wet, dirty paper bag expect to find someone who is more than that?But if people still buy and sell it at that rate, why would I opt to sell for lower than I know people will buy at? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Is it just an American thing to want a woman who doesn't work?lmao whoops sorry, I didn’t realize this was a private convo. Next time just send something to his inbox so it stays between you two | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Is it just an American thing to want a woman who doesn't work?What? The same point as you made in your comment “The men here adamant that only broke dependent bitches are suitable are not American.” It directly answers the question in title. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 04:58 PM |
| 2 | How do you “spin plates” or date lots of people at once?Are you really going to act like you didn’t see this definition on the same page? “to take advantage of (a person, situation, etc), esp unethically or unjustly for one's own ends” Dictionary.com | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREAll right, I get it. You aren’t interested in actually engaging with anything I say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREYou’re hyperfocusing on sexual orientation Yes, because it is the single most important thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREOkay, I can orgasm more quickly when masturbating too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASURESo you’re point is that a straight woman can easily find a gay guy to fuck her in the ass? How about if you replace the straight man with a gay man (also attracted to men). Gay man can easily find a guy to fuck him in the ass -> gay man enjoys this -> gay men, tops and bottoms, both benefit from male sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREPenetrating with your penis is designed by evolution to make you orgasm That still doesn’t mean that every encounter necessarily ends with the man reaching orgasm. How is having sex with my preferred gender a privilege if that sex doesn't involve my pleasure or arousal I didn’t make that claim and wouldn’t try to. But, believe it or not, sex can be pleasurable for a woman. Anyway though, my point was just that the argument about straight guys not wanting to get fucked by gay guys doesn’t actuall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASURERight but what about the huge difference between having sex with a partner that matches your sexual orientation vs with a partner that does not? I would say that the straight man probably doesn’t want to penetrate men either, even if given the opportunity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREI’m having a difficult time following your logic here. You seem to be making the following argument. A straight man could easily find a gay guy to fuck him in the ass -> the straight man wouldn’t be into that -> therefore easy access to sex with men is not desirable, i.e. not a privilege. What you’re deliberately overlooking is that a straight man by definition has no sexual attraction to another man. Sure, a straight woman might not find most of her options for casual sex desirable, but they ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Don't you think that this highly popular positive correlation between male height and their dominance is nothing but a false claim?Uhhhh I wouldn’t say that I’m successful yet, just on the path to getting there. I’m only a couple years out of college so I’m well aware that others have much more life experience than I do. So I can’t say that it has given me much of a leg up professionally. It’s hard to say that I get more respect or am taken more seriously, because I don’t have anything to compare my own experience to. What I can say, is that it has helped with getting attention from women, especially tall women. When I was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/21 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Don't you think that this highly popular positive correlation between male height and their dominance is nothing but a false claim?I don’t disagree with your premise that those other factors are more important than height. I’m tall. Taller than the vast majority of people I interact with. Despite that, I’ve seen plenty of men shorter than me have more success with women. Success with women (or promotions at work) is not directly linked with height. But I’m 100% sure that I have benefited from my height. I don’t think many short but successful men would have been worse off if they were the same exact person but taller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/21 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Don't you think that this highly popular positive correlation between male height and their dominance is nothing but a false claim?I’m not sure how the examples you put forward prove anything. A very tall, very successful man is still not as successful as a very wealthy and corrupt head of state. One of the biggest celebrities, best basketball players of all time, and very tall man still doesn’t have the global influence of a short multi billionaire. A single very tall and successful man once said that if he weren’t successful he would be a virgin. How does the success of some short men, and comparing their global influence… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/21 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you find it difficult to get into works that deal with experiences of a person of opposite gender than yours, even when good?If the story is compelling and/or the world is interesting, then the gender of the main character usually doesn’t matter much to me. If the focus of the book is on the experience of a particular gender, then I would say I’d prefer to read one about the male experience. I remember reading The Awakening back in high school and just not being able to get into it. Description from wiki: “the plot centers on Edna Pontellier and her struggle between her increasingly unorthodox views on femininity and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/21 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Are you attracted to bad boys?For some reason I didn’t think we were all teenagers here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/21 02:57 PM |
| 8 | The form of media one consumes during childhood and adolescence will have a PROFOUND impact on who they consider their TYPE !Hmmm... very convincing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/21 03:05 PM |
| 5 | Politics Mega ThreadThank god for threads like this. They remind me how fucking stupid so many people are. Gott RES flair a whole bunch of people, so I know not to take anything they say seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 04:24 AM |
| 2 | How can we make sure women and men are giving real consent?So if he doesn’t ask, you just don’t object at all? You end up having unwanted sex without ever saying ‘no’ or ‘stop’? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/21 07:37 PM |
| 4 | Women’s filtering methods are far more effective at eliminating HVM than LVMNo, I’m comparing the type of guy who puts “no fatties” in his bio to the type of woman who puts “no losers” in hers. And women who also get mad because a guy wrote “No Golddiggers” are oversensitive too and are most likely gold diggers themselves. Aren’t you reading too much into things with this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/21 02:36 AM |
| 7 | Women’s filtering methods are far more effective at eliminating HVM than LVMLol this isn’t about guys getting their feelings hurt and angrily swiping left. It’s just dumb to put in a bio. If you really need to announce that you don’t fuck with losers... well the assumption is definitely that you already have. If a guy put “no fatties/ gold diggers/ single moms” in his bio, that would be met with a very similar eye roll from me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/21 12:22 AM |
| 7 | Women’s filtering methods are far more effective at eliminating HVM than LVMIf a woman puts “No scrubs/Fuckboys/Losers” in her bio, it just isn’t a good look. Do you really think that line will deter the types of people described in it? Wouldn’t most desirable men with options prefer to swipe on women who don’t put dumb shit in their bios? Sure everyone might have baggage, but if you have a few sentences to give people an idea of who you are, is highlighting your baggage really the best choice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 10:05 PM |
| 1 | First comes sex, then maybe commitmentSure, I never said not to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 07:47 PM |
| 2 | First comes sex, then maybe commitmentWhat percent of men are looking for only casual sex? What percent of women? My guess is that the percent of men who only want casual is much higher than the percent of women. You can tell casual seeking men that they should only go for likeminded women, but the odds aren’t in their favor. Other than the warm feeling of doing what you (and much of society) says is right, what do they have to gain from that behavior? I’m not saying that men should deceive women and lead them on to get sex. Just th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 03:58 PM |
| 1 | The “patriarchy” is little more than the projection of women’s desire for power and they subvert responsibility for this by unjustly placing it on men.What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 01:48 PM |
| 1 | The “patriarchy” is little more than the projection of women’s desire for power and they subvert responsibility for this by unjustly placing it on men.Then take it up with them when you actually come across it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 06:00 AM |
| 2 | The “patriarchy” is little more than the projection of women’s desire for power and they subvert responsibility for this by unjustly placing it on men.Yet because the top .000001% of the power spectrum are mostly men that means that men have it easier? Really? Nobody said that. Nobody drew that conclusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 09:51 PM |
| 4 | The “patriarchy” is little more than the projection of women’s desire for power and they subvert responsibility for this by unjustly placing it on men.Dude I still don’t know what you’re saying. Why bother answering a nonsensical, unrelated question? When you answered it yourself, you said that yes, it was a patriarchy and that proves the term is meaningless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 09:49 PM |
| 4 | The “patriarchy” is little more than the projection of women’s desire for power and they subvert responsibility for this by unjustly placing it on men.You seemed so intent on getting an answer that I thought you would follow it up with a legitimate point about something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 09:42 PM |
| 4 | The “patriarchy” is little more than the projection of women’s desire for power and they subvert responsibility for this by unjustly placing it on men.Jesus Christ, that was the payoff? You asked it over and over and over and didn’t have any point at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 09:40 PM |
| 7 | Given how much the average woman cares about male height whether they realize or admit it or not and given how men have 0 control over their height. Women have 0 right to complain about just about any standard any man hasWhy the fuck would anyone make a Facebook post proclaiming that? Why would you want to? These aren’t problems. Just end the relationship or don’t start one and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Sex is not a need, but then birth control, condoms, and contraceptives are also not needs.I didn't say anything about societal benefit of skydiving, because it doesn't matter. Nor did I say anything about government funding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Sex is not a need, but then birth control, condoms, and contraceptives are also not needs.Alright I'll try again, the logic really isn't too complicated. I don't NEED a parachute, like in a general sense. But given a situation in which I have chosen to go skydiving, considering that I don't want to die, in this situation a parachute is needed. Going skydiving is 100% a non-need. But, in the situation where I have decided to go, a parachute is now needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 06:45 PM |
| 5 | Who are these women that aren't getting asked out?Maybe it was just so offensive or revolting that it isn't a surprise to anyone that it would get you banned? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 06:38 PM |
| 6 | Who are these women that aren't getting asked out?Extremely introverted women with little to no social life Very shy women with closed body language (yes body language makes a huge difference in whether a woman will be approached) Deformed or ugly women Then what the fuck are these? Just because a few women with those characteristics have been asked out by you, does not mean that all women have. Yes, those characteristics don't guarantee that a woman doesn't get asked out, but that isn't the point. The point is that some women don't get asked o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Sex is not a need, but then birth control, condoms, and contraceptives are also not needs.You missed my point. I'm not talking about taxes. I can't have a rational conversation with you about taxes if your starting point is that taxes are akin to slavery. My point is that you keep going around to comment after comment in this thread telling people to keep their legs closed. Why are you only putting the blame on women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Sex is not a need, but then birth control, condoms, and contraceptives are also not needs.The point is that those lessons are a greater cost to society than preventing the situation in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Sex is not a need, but then birth control, condoms, and contraceptives are also not needs.if I’m having sex (which I very much want to have) I NEED effective birth control You can't just take half the sentence and completely misrepresent the intention. The statement is that 'if I'm having sex -> I need bc'. To help you out, the point being made is that if she is going to have sex, given that she does not want to get pregnant, birth control is a need. You cannot logically purpose a need from a non-need. Just saying something doesn't make it true. I don't NEED to go skydiving, but if I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Sex is not a need, but then birth control, condoms, and contraceptives are also not needs.Keep your legs close Kind of telling that you're putting the blame on the women... You realize that it takes two to make a baby, yes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 05:59 PM |
| 8 | Q4W: What’s your side of the story with the “women love assholes” thing?Dude, I’m not sure why you seem so intent on the poster meeting your strict definition of answering the question. Her response is clearly on topic and of high quality. Or was their actual information there? I can’t tell. Again, yes there is. Just because you can’t see the relevance for some reason, doesn’t mean that everyone else is wrong. It’s an interesting breakdown of male archetypes that goes above and beyond the oversimplified asshole vs nice guy dichotomy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 02:34 PM |
| 2 | No Double Standard In Judgment Of PromiscuityOkay sure, I’m still not sure what your point is. In your first comment it seemed like you were trying to contradict the claim that men would warn their friends about getting serious with someone ‘easy’. Your example was that men point out the easy girls, for their friends to get with. That doesn’t contradict the first point though. Somebody to have a one night stand with, doesn’t need to meet the same criteria as someone you would marry. (or “get serious” at any point on that spectrum) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 09:50 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] How do you define being “pumped and dumped”?Lol it’s an example of one, not a definition applicable to all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 06:40 PM |
| 4 | [Q4All] How do you define being “pumped and dumped”?Idk dude, the comment you were responding to was about a coworker who had a pattern of one month relationships. You seemed to say that a possible explanation to leave after sex was that the sex was bad. Sure, that makes sense for a couple of occurrences, but my point was that it isn’t a good explanation for a pattern of leaving each girl right after sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 06:02 PM |
| 0 | [Q4All] How do you define being “pumped and dumped”?You know the outcome of the casual relationship from the get-go I disagree. I think a lot of LTRs develop out of something that starts casually. Also if both people are on board with casual where’s the pump and dump? I think it only qualifies as pump and dump if you know that you aren’t interested, but know they are, and continue to pursue them as if you were and then dump them when somebody better comes along. Sure, that’s a subset of casual relationships, but far from the entirety of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 05:41 PM |
| 4 | [Q4All] How do you define being “pumped and dumped”?If the sex sucks with every girl you’re with... well.. common denominators and all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 05:34 PM |
| 8 | It seems like a lot of people view sex as something valuable that women give to men, which men then have to make up for in other ways.Companionship. Friendship. Somebody to talk to. I enjoy time spent with my sisters and I definitely don’t want to fuck them. A platonic friend can introduce you to her friends and some of them might want to fuck you. Women can be funny and can make you laugh even though you find them unattractive. Idk, I mean what value do men provide that women can’t? Most things that make a human life valuable/worthwhile aren’t exclusive to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 05:30 PM |
| 3 | It seems like a lot of people view sex as something valuable that women give to men, which men then have to make up for in other ways.What is your point though? Who the fuck cares that a random woman isn’t entitled to love you, nor are they entitled to anything from you? Like yeah, no shit. What do random women have to do with anything? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 05:24 PM |
| 9 | It seems like a lot of people view sex as something valuable that women give to men, which men then have to make up for in other ways.Lol sorry you feel that way bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 04:16 PM |
| 8 | No Double Standard In Judgment Of PromiscuitySure, but the first comment you replied to was about a guy entering getting serious with somebody known to sleep around. You said, “oh no the opposite is true, guys point out the easy girls as good targets” and well... yeah sure, but for a quick fuck, not relationship material. You didn’t mention marriage, but you replied to a comment about getting serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 03:05 PM |
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