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| 15 | "taller than me, but not drastically shorter than his friends" | Chad_Thundercock717 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 01:39 AM |
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| -2 | Bro how many men here fit these standards bro?Who hurt you? | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/07/23 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Former PUA's, what made you stop?I dabbled in the early 2000s, at it's height. It's just too much work. Constantly being in your head planning your next move. Worrying about your frame and all that nonsense. Instead I went the Natural Game route, from guys like David Wygant, Mark Manson, and even Tucker Max. Most PUAs lose frame the second something doesn't go their way. Woman doesn't immediately return a text, they lose their shit, and revert to their AFC ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Women respond with hostility and public humiliation when a guy they deem less attractive than them (usually inaccurate) approaches them, yet if a decent looking dude rejects a land whale he gets crucifiedGuys try to approach like they see on tv. Some goofy line and stuttering out their name. It doesn't work and just looks stupid. It's unnecessary pressure on women. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/07/23 04:34 PM |
| 11 | Bisexual WomenWhen I was in high school, every high school and college girl said she was bi for male attention. They'd kiss other girls for free drinks, then they'd graduate and marry a dude. Now I just blow it off when a woman says she's bi. | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/07/23 10:42 PM |
| 5 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"Life is VASTLY different in the real world, off the apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 06:39 PM |
| 10 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"I'm saying people end up with people similar to themselves on the attractiveness scale. I'm not talking about the incel scale, where their female 3 is a 7 to everyone else. I'm a strong 5. I understand that I'll never see better than a 6. It's very important for people to take a sexual inventory of themselves, which incels refuse to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 06:30 PM |
| 2 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"Step outside and get off the apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 06:17 PM |
| 7 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"Perfect for the average guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 06:00 PM |
| 6 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time""average" young guys are fat sacks of crap. People need to stop acting like they're default create-a-characters in a video game. But their standard is a modest IG e-th0t. A figment of their fooking imagination. They lust after an almost non-existent minority, just like women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 05:45 PM |
| 1 | To those who did not watch the Barbie movieThey said the same thing about the 20 flopbusters before that they got excited about. | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/07/23 05:22 PM |
| 1 | To those who did not watch the Barbie movieI can't wait for the second weekend drop, to rub it in /r/boxoffice's face. | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/07/23 05:11 PM |
| 7 | You men who want traditional women, are u even ready to be traditional urselfIf you want a traditional partner, you have to be traditional yourself. Want a traditional woman, you have to be a traditional man. Work with your hands. Work long hours. Willing to die for your wife and kids. Want a traditional man, you have to be a traditional woman. Modest, no OF, loyal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 05:07 PM |
| -3 | How do you respond when a painfully mediocre looking girl acts like she’s out of your league?How do you know she's not out of your league? Blackpillers MASSIVELY overstate their looks | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/07/23 12:22 AM |
| 0 | Telling neurodivergent/ugly men that they have no excuse is psychological abuseGood | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/07/23 09:14 PM |
| -2 | I know this has been said a million times before: but the men who are feeling lonely and struggling in dating just have higher standards.Guys in 2023 are every bit as entitled and delusional as the women they cry about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 06:52 PM |
| -5 | Telling neurodivergent/ugly men that they have no excuse is psychological abuseI hate this generation | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/07/23 05:50 PM |
| -8 | Telling neurodivergent/ugly men that they have no excuse is psychological abuseWtf is neurodivergent? You know how I know it's not real? It's not in autocorrect. | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/07/23 04:42 PM |
| 1 | This is how women can save the black pillers...Trolling takes talent. Upsetting blackpill is as easy as upsetting liberals. | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/07/23 04:27 PM |
| 6 | I genuinely think dating for women is dangerous... but dont understand why women risk sleeping with men, why?Most vaginas are 3-7 inches deep. Chances are, I'm going to hit their cervix if I'm not careful. I always enter slowly just to see what my limit is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 03:48 PM |
| 1 | This is how women can save the black pillers...Changes like that take generations. It's not overnight, which is what blackpill wants. Government mandated vagina is the only thing that would make them happy. And that'd be impossible. | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/07/23 03:07 PM |
| 1 | This is how women can save the black pillers...So, only women should sacrifice? Lol | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/07/23 02:42 PM |
| 2 | This is how women can save the black pillers...This is like suggesting guys should date fat transsexuals to make things easier on them. | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/07/23 01:48 PM |
| 0 | "taller than me, but not drastically shorter than his friends"Did I say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 02:18 AM |
| 3 | Dating as an average man isn't really that hardLol, these comments. If you're fat, you get a fat gf. Angus was just a movie. You're not getting an IG model. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/07/23 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Why is everything a cope ? What does that even meanIt means "you don't think like me, so you must be making sheet up". | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/07/23 07:08 PM |
| – | Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive.You guys think WAY too much about sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 07:06 PM |
| – | CMV I talked to a Dude today that would be considered a PUA, and i believe PUA is a complete scam. I am shocked how blind PUA believers are.I toyed with PUA in the early 2000s. I've used it more to "blow up their sets" more than I have anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Why are ethnic men viewed as sexist?https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:Sexism\_in\_Asia | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/07/23 01:10 AM |
| 1 | If you're interested in a girl but don't ask her for her number, not only do you miss out on a potential relationship, you also miss out on potentially making a new friendHot women have hot friends. Leave a good impression, even if she isn't into you, she might put in a good word with her single friends. Women make FAR better wingmen than guys do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 05:58 PM |
| 7 | r/amiugly is brutalI like how all the women are so surprised no one likes their septum piercing. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/07/23 03:28 PM |
| 3 | The Absolute Irony:I have to wonder what her definition of respecting women is. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/07/23 03:21 PM |
| 0 | The Absolute Irony:Have you seen it? Or are you just repeating Friday Night Tights? | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/07/23 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Why don’t most females actually like video games?It's an escape from reality for guys, while women seek a better reality for themselves. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/07/23 07:17 PM |
| -3 | Life as a short manNo, the exceptions don't make the rule. A fat gamer dork isn't getting a model. The best he can hope for is a slightly less fat woman. I'm a strong 5-6. I'm never getting better than a 6. Social media has made most people delusional. They aren't hot enough to meet their own standards. Guys and women. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/07/23 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Seduction is the worse/harmful sub out thereEvery PUA guru is good looking. The things they swear work might work great for them, but it won't work for regular guys. James Matador (Stan Tayi) always sticks out to me. Indian guy. Computer Science graduate. But, you wouldn't know it looking at him. I thought he was Hispanic forever. https://www.datingskillsreview.com/james-matador-stan-tayi/ Guys have failed to adapt to the times. Cold approaches, like they see on TV, won't work anymore. Goofy lines, opinion openers, stuttering out your nam… | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/07/23 02:32 PM |
| -8 | Life as a short manI know several short guys that do well. My 5'9 brother is married to a six-figure earning wife. I know a 5'6 guy that married a smoke show. But, they aren't internet woe is me manlets. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/07/23 02:00 PM |
| 0 | If blackpill ideas became more mainstream how would it affect society?Blackpill guys sound a lot like obese women. How they just think guys should have to find them attractive. They have the same delusional standards. Their 2 is a 7 to normal people. They're after a unicorn, just like women. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/07/23 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Is OnlyFans evil?The guys complaining about it are the ones paying for it. The only reason women go on Fresh and Fraud is because it guarantees them a couple more followers. It's one more problem guys caused themselves. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/07/23 02:31 AM |
| 0 | Being manlet is death nowadaysEarth is healing from overpopulation by removing manlets from the dating pool | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/07/23 01:43 AM |
| 3 | Why are the bluepillers so bad at convincing and bringing arguments? 💀💀It's easy to say arguments are bad when all pills are stubborn and hard headed man-children. Political people are the same way. It's easy to say something is wrong, when you vehemently deny it. | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/07/23 08:56 PM |
| 4 | In your opinion, is telling people not to actively search for love and let it come to you good advice?I don't have any platitudes for it, but I don't see any issue with actively looking for love. The issue is not beating yourself up anytime you fail. Stop taking rejection personally. It's a numbers game. Nobody has a 100% success rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 04:44 PM |
| -1 | A very significant portion of women completely lack a proper understanding of sexual boundaries/consent, and they harass men, yet it is hardly ever discussed.Tl;dr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 03:26 PM |
| 4 | Women villainize/gaslight nice guys to avoid admitting what really attracts themNice guys aren't nice at all. They don't understand the difference between kindness and nice. Being nice is transactional for them. "I held the door for you. I'm owed sex now". All because their single mom told them that girls just want a nice guy. They were lied too, and they are angry when it doesn't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 02:28 PM |
| 1 | CMV : A lot of posters here deal in caricatures, as if human subtlety is simply not comprehend-able. I think people totally miss these subtleties in real life.I typically hate those terms. Wolfpacks are typically a male, female, and 4 generations of their kids. The alpha thing is stupid. Sigmas are just betas trying to masquerade as alpha. An alpha doesn't have to say he's alpha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 01:45 AM |
| – | Should men only seek affection if they earned or deserve it?That's a hard question to answer, because no one deserves anything by default. Nobody is entitled to affection. You can't force people to give it. I guess legalizing prostitution is an option. Those cuddling services like in Japan. I don't really have a good answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 01:38 AM |
| – | Could u in the 80s as a Man basically "just exist" and you were basically guaranteed that u will end up with a Wife + Family? Was it that easy?There's a big difference in children's toys and project cars | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 09:22 PM |
| 1 | ``Men are single because of their high standards`` is a massive contradiction by BPThen write your posts better | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/07/23 05:00 PM |
| – | Could u in the 80s as a Man basically "just exist" and you were basically guaranteed that u will end up with a Wife + Family? Was it that easy?Gen X ruined manhood by promoting this idea that guys can retain their adolescence by collecting toys, playing video games, and watching cartoons into adulthood. The 80s was the last generation of adult MEN. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 03:21 PM |
| 9 | A woman being promiscuous benefits men more than herselfI always find it funny that guys could instantly end promiscuity if they stop taking warthogs home from the bar at 2am. Have some standards. Fact is guys have created the problem. They spend their teens looking for loose girls to touch their wiener and teaching them that sex is all they're good for. Then shocked Pikachu face when they grow up promiscuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 03:16 PM |
| 1 | The modern dating world has been somewhat ruined by OLD, but it's mostly men's fault.Online Dating should SUPPLEMENT your dating. Not be your dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Current Obesity statistics USA and WorldwideI think Earth is self-correcting from overpopulation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 06:27 PM |
| -1 | CMV : Your parents could mostly buy houses easily, you can’t. Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal.It's stupid. This garbage generation wants today's wages, and 1950 prices on stuff. Minimum wage in 1950 was 0.75 cents an hour. Houses were a third smaller than they are today. Plus, people that bitch the loudest live in big cities with a high cost of living. You can get a nice apartment in my city for $700 a month. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 03:54 PM |
| 29 | At this point in time women already have complete psychological control over men.Meet better people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Single PPD men and women often have very inflated standards as to what an “average” partner looks likeGuys are every bit as shallow, delusional, and entitled as the women they complain about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 01:55 AM |
| – | It is no longer feasible for most men to "improve themselves" and "build the life they want" in order to attract to women. the dating market has become so ruthless it requires complete dedication/gamification to compete.That's cope from guys that don't want try try. 3-in-10 people online date. 40% of people don't use social media. Fact is, guys like to associate e-th0ts with ALL women. That's a minority of women. Most women are perfectly normal, just looking for love. But guys obsess over those e-th0ts. And that's why just as many women 18-24 are having just as much trouble finding anyone. They aren't hoes, so they get looked over by those guys. "But so many are fat". So are those guys. People need to get over … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 01:49 AM |
| -3 | The reason why I think men like me don't want to be in a romantic relationship with a promiscuous women (no-judgement you do you girl) is not because of sex itself but emotional detachment of sexGuys can't handle the thought of their gf/wife getting railed by a bigger dick and giving them pleasure they can't give. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 12:33 AM |
| 7 | If a woman doesn't kiss passionately on the first kiss, she's just not into a guyI've known plenty of women that reserve "passionate" tongue kissing for sex. Young guys especially, try to eat girls' faces when they kiss. Which turned women off. Like most of their problems, they caused them themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 10:01 PM |
| 6 | Women have total control of the dating marketBeen that way for thousands of years. Guys used to do their damnedest to fit into what women wanted, instead of just boo-hooing about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 09:56 PM |
| – | How come the red pill doesn't believe in teaching PUA so much?I toyed with PUA in the early 2000s. I read The Game, and that was that. It didn't last long thankfully. It was way too much work. Always being in my head, planning my next routine, and my next move. PUA guys will always fall back into old habits the second a woman doesn't respond right. They don't have any instincts on reacting like real people. Through various PUA message boards I found Natural Game, which was a better fit. Mark Manson, David Wygant, even Tucker Max. Learning to have real, dee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 08:08 PM |
| 1 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualityI mean, you shouldn't be surprised. This is a black pill sub disguised as a normal debate sub. Just look at the mods' flair. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/07/23 07:25 PM |
| 0 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeA big problem I have with the garbage generation is their unwillingness to work with what they've got. Adapt and overcome. Improve what you can. Most people aren't "ugly". They just have no style and no desire to change it. They want women to do all the changing. Find fat gamers hot. Just like obese women wanting fit guys to suddenly find fat attractive. It doesn't work that way. They do ALL of this to themselves. Blaming "Autism" for having quirks and being socially r-worded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Why do men make weird jokes in public with women they don't know?Most people think they are funny. They are not. Although, offering strangers in elevators is funny till he said kidding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 01:44 AM |
| 1 | ``Men are single because of their high standards`` is a massive contradiction by BPI expected it on a black pill sub | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/07/23 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever paid for OF content?No, I don't know anyone that has one. | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/07/23 09:45 PM |
| 11 | Transgender dating study comes up with completely the wrong conclusions because of feminist ideology.I typically think the Trans conversation would be wildly different if those in the West put more than 4% effort into looking like the gender they identify as. If you look like a dude in leggings, I'm not calling you a woman. | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/07/23 03:58 PM |
| 2 | ``Men are single because of their high standards`` is a massive contradiction by BPSure, they'll take a warthog home from the bar at 2am, provided their friends don't find out. But, they aren't starting a relationship with anything their friends don't approve of. If it even crosses their mind that a buddy will tease them about their gf, they'll remain single. | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/07/23 02:41 AM |
| 0 | Tinder is the only accurate face ratingYou're right in that no one reads profiles. No one cares if you hike. It's just a fancy word for walking. Apps are 100% looks/picture based. If your pics look like shit, you'll find little success if you're not generally attractive. I'm 6'3, so my compositions would be full body. At least a couple of them. | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/07/23 01:50 AM |
| -9 | Tinder is the only accurate face ratingI've never seen a professional photo on Tinder. Stop with the anecdotal nonsense. | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/07/23 01:20 AM |
| -7 | Tinder is the only accurate face ratingAnd you work with what you have. Adapt and overcome. Be different. Bring something to the table, as incels say. | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/07/23 01:19 AM |
| -18 | Tinder is the only accurate face ratingGuys need to put more than 4% effort into their pics. A frowny-faced mirror selfie in front of a dirty mirror isn't going to do it. Women don't want to see that carp you caught. Buy a tripod. Learn some basic lighting tricks. Quit mean-mugging the camera. Learn some basic editing. You think women take perfect selfies on the first try? They take 15 just to get one worth editing. Guys complain about women's pics being too perfect. Do the same thing. | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/07/23 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: How would you respond to this woman?I'd assume I'm dreaming of being the protagonist of a harem anime. | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/07/23 12:25 AM |
| -17 | ``Men are single because of their high standards`` is a massive contradiction by BPGuys are every bit as demanding and entitled as women. Both sexes obsess over the extreme minority in the opposite sex. Women want tall, dark, handsome, and wealthy. 0.02% of the population. While guys want a fit 18-year old virgin, that releases her inner pron star just for him. A figment of their imagination. An ince1 says "I'd take a 2". An ince1 2 is a 7 to regular people. Angus was a movie. A fat guy is NEVER going to get Homecoming Queen. | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/07/23 12:13 AM |
| 4 | What's the endgame for Incels/Blackpillers?The earth is correcting itself from overpopulation. There's a LOT of guys and women that just have to die alone. It's the process. | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/07/23 05:53 PM |
| -1 | Centuries of enforced monogamy is to be blamed for the 80/20 rule.The 80/20 rule is a Financial Rule......... | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/07/23 05:47 PM |
| – | Have you ever approached or thought about approaching a guy you liked? If not, why?Even if they don't "approach", women will go out of their way to give every opportunity to a guy they like. You just have to be not r-worded and recognize it. They'll find reasons to be near you. Find reasons to touch your forearms and shoulder. Unfortunately, young guys don't pick up those subtle signs. If you want to see a specific movie, and she expresses interest in seeing it too, she wants you to suggest seeing it together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Women actually want to be approached by a manIt's another way guys have failed to adapt to current times. Goofy lines don't work anymore. They haven't in a while. "Hi I'm ______, I just thought you were really cute....." just makes you look like a pu$$y. A casual "hey, how's it going?" and starting a conversation is the best thing you can do. You might not even like them after talking to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 04:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV Many Women claim "a man can be soft" or "a man can cry its no issue" but they don't date those dudes, in fact they date the Guys that would be in the "toxic masculinity" bracket, and this is kinda funny lolBeing vulnerable is being able to talk about what's bothering you. Not looking for a shoulder to cry on. It's stupid when a guy is bothered by something his gf is doing, and he posts on reddit about it instead of having a conversation with his gf about it. I used to drink my feelings. I wouldn't confront anything. I'd just go to the bar. I used to date under 21 specifically so she couldn't follow me to the bar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 03:36 PM |
| 59 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingI've understood all my life that women have to be able to trust me before they'll consider me for relationships or anything. That's why women make the best wingmen. If a woman trusts you, she'll let her friends know. Guys have failed to adapt to changing times. It's not hard to be someone women can trust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Most dating problems are just men being horny, and women being selectiveWhatever you have to tell yourself. And you're not my bro. I have two bros, and they're related by blood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 05:58 PM |
| -1 | Most dating problems are just men being horny, and women being selectiveWho cares about other countries? Reddit is an AMERICAN website. And AMERICAN teens and young guys are pu$$ies now. Mom raised them, so they're confused about their gender. Probably dab their peehole with paper after they pee. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Most dating problems are just men being horny, and women being selectiveNo they won't. They'll stare at the ground and say they're late to their barista job, but they're offended with their non-binary sensibilities. I don't have a problem with women. I have a problem with women trying to be dad instead of being the best mom she can be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Height is the most influencing factor to a man's SMVWhatever helps you sleep at night. Probably a Sleep Apnea mask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Height is the most influencing factor to a man's SMVIt's so funny how redditors get when someone isn't fat. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Height is the most influencing factor to a man's SMVFine. I rarely eat fast food. Rarely eat seconds of stuff. 80% of my city is overweight/obese. I'm not in that 80%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 01:45 AM |
| 0 | Have you ever had a close, heterosexual female platonic friend before?Sure. It started as more. She was married and I was the other guy. Then she got divorced and I never saw her as a gf. I just assumed she'd do the same to me. We just became good friends. Texted 24/7. I actually used to delete my texts nightly because I knew it'd cause problems in my own relationship at the time. I covered my ass, unlike a ton of guys. Only a moron would ever get caught cheating. She eventually remarried. They got into a huge fight at the bar one night. We ended up hooking up aga… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Height is the most influencing factor to a man's SMVBMI is a garbage scale. I've lifted for years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 12:20 AM |
| -1 | Height is the most influencing factor to a man's SMVIf I lost 40lbs, I'd be emaciated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 11:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV: it’s a huge red flag for a western guy if he can’t handle girls in Western apparel and liv e in the westThose guys obsess over IG and TikTok e-th0ts. Then date less hot versions of those women, then get butthurt when they act like them. Regular women don't dress like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Height is the most influencing factor to a man's SMV227 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Height is the most influencing factor to a man's SMVI'm 6'3. It's never benefitted me except getting on theme park rides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 08:26 PM |
| 5 | Most dating problems are just men being horny, and women being selectiveIn the middle of a game? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 05:12 PM |
| 6 | Most dating problems are just men being horny, and women being selectiveI put a LOT of it on the lack of father figures. Regardless of the reason. Dads aren't teaching their sons to be men anymore. Sigle moms try to fill that role themselves, and it's fuccing everything up. Mom is teaching these boys to blindly agree with women and not have their own opinions, hence simps. We get adult adolescents that play games and collect toys into adulthood. It's why I say 'guys' on reddit. I don't consider most guys under 35 to be men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 04:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Women need to follow the example that you can wait longer now to settle than ever as to avoid failed relationships with men they don’t loveMost women age like sour milk. Late twenties, early 30s, their looks and glow fade. So, it's important to lock down a guy early. And guys don't career about women's careers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Q4A What female body type do you find the most attractive?Of those, the last one, with smaller tetas. I see a lot of people saying they aren't "normal". If they were normal, they'd be fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests?That's not sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests?What does that even mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 01:45 AM |
| 5 | Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests?Not when most girls lose their virginity at 17. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 01:17 AM |
| 32 | Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests?A lot of guys have this fantasy of finding a virgin that shows her inner p0rn star to JUST them. It doesn't work that way in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 09:29 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Social media and dating/hookup culture in the west is encouraging the erosion of the solemnity of long term relationships and life long marriage.You're making a mountain out of a mole hill. This is a Generation Z thing primarily in the US. That's why passport bros are a thing. 3-in-10 youngsters that rely on apps and overvalue getting their wiener wet. Most people still value relationships AND meet in real life. Marriage is failing, but relationships are still very common. It's just a small handful of people on the internet, crying loudly. Hwell, I'm from one of the most conservative areas in the country. Traditional men and women are ve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 06:13 PM |
| 0 | Women look at the men they are dating glass half empty, while men look at them glass half fullGuys from this generation have a victim complex. That's the bigger problem. They have no desire to better themselves. No desire to lose weight, get into shape, get a better job, make more money or anything else. They just want to play vidya games and complain about hot women not finding them attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Are women who get in relationships with men who watch porn or occasionally like insta photos of hot women abusively controlling?She's insecure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 01:10 PM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?Weird example. You say male-dominated, I think construction or fabrication. Not programming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 12:56 PM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?Bullshit. An ince1 2 is a 7 to normal people. They aren't interested in tubby women, even though they are 300lbs themselves. If they're 35, they want 18 year old virgins. And their inner sloot comes out to just them. Women just don't know any better. They've been taught all their lives that the pay gap is real, so they assume since they can pull 80k that 100k must be easy for guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 04:33 AM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?That's only specific to that app, and the 80/20 rule is a financial rule. They're picky about different things, but they're still picky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 03:28 AM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?Guys are just as delusional and picky as the women they complain about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Are many pill men looking for monogamy/marriage?Sure. They just have unrealistic delusional expectations. Just like the women they complain about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 06:28 PM |
| 1 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Can't relate. Nobody is like that where I'm from. People are still pretty traditional here. Although my city is almost 80% overweight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Men should use every dating app to leverage their online dating market.It's crazy to me that guys KNOW apps are 100% looks based and stacked against them, but they're so pu$$ified that they still rely on them. Get off the apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Jonah hills situation shows the hypocrisy of society, 'communication' only matters when it benefits one partI don't even know about this besides a couple of reddit posts I've seen vaguely talking about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 02:32 PM |
| – | CMV Women arent more delusional today, they just can choose freely with no boundaries.Most people, guys and women, in this garbage generation are delusional and punch above their weight class. You can't jump in the ring with Ali just because you think you can box. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 12:40 AM |
| 10 | For those women that believe they deserve rich, high value men, where do you go that you think you'll meet them? What are you doing to attract them?Most of this garbage generation thinks they "deserve" better than they are. Guys and women. Fact is, 99% of people aren't hot enough to meet their own standards. 0.02% of guys fit the tall, handsome, AND wealthy desire of women. There's not enough to go around. Just like there's not enough virginal, loyal, e-th0ts to go around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Are average guys really “struggling”?Average guys NOW like to conflate themselves with average in the past. The average guy now is a fat fucc. There was never a time where fat guys were considered attractive. It was a value thing centuries ago, because being fat meant you were rich, but never attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 07:42 PM |
| 6 | Men are not sexual savages, they have been taught they areLove is always conditional and transactional, except for a mother's love. Which is what guys are seeking in relationships. They're seeking a new mom. Someone that'll take care of them, do their laundry while they play video games. They're not looking for a partnership. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel it's healthier for some one to have "A type" or is it more healthy to be attracted to cultural standards of attractiveness?I have a type, but they seem rare in real life. I like dark-haired women. Quirky. Teacher-types. Almost like New Girl, but not quite Manic-Pixie Dream Girl. I'm not into blondes. I don't get the Asian fetish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 03:31 PM |
| 0 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itI have a hard time forming an opinion on this. Sex has never been THAT important to me. If anything, it's something I was happy working up to. Heavy petting on the first date, a little messing around. Then doing a little more each date until penetration happened. I don't approve of man-wh0res anymore than I do sloots. But, they're rare. Most people sleep with 7 people in their life. Guys WISH they were capable of sleeping around, but most can't. I'm willing to bet some of you made the mistake of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 01:51 PM |
| 63 | The fact that women are so easily influenced by trends, what other women find attractive and the approval of their peers completely discredits their whole “we can’t control who we are attracted to” narrative.You need to get off Social Media, go outside, and meet real women. Stop basing your opinions on ALL women off of e-th0ts on IG and Fresh and Fit. Women all have different types, just like males do. Keyboard cowboys on the internet are doing the same thing obese women do. Trying to shame people into finding them attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Women are most valued for their beauty. What do you think men are most valued for?Professional ambition, style, manners, how he carries himself, does he stare at the floor or make eye contact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Do you think a mans politics can keep him from getting laid?I live in one of the most conservative areas of the US. A bleeding-heart liberal gets no respect around here. You're not going to see EVs here. We're pretty traditional. You can interact with kids without being suspect. You can put your hand on a woman's shoulder without being racist. People are nice, and say hi too each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:59 PM |
| 2 | CMV Many People in Dating Strategy subreddits (doesnt matter what pill, pua or whatever) have no reallife experience and therefore claim dumb delusional things, which makes finding the truth harder.There's a LOT of keyboard cowboys out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:34 PM |
| – | Would dating really be better if people 'stayed in their lanes' like some believe?Angus is just a movie. The "average"' fat guy is never getting the Homecoming Queen. He should absolutely stay in his lane. Fat guys get fat girls, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Has online dating been a net positive or a net negative for woman?Only 3-in-10 Americans even online date, despite what redditors like to think. Most women SUPPLEMENT their dating with apps. Guys tend to rely on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 04:34 PM |
| – | Women, what do you think of men who have never had a girlfriend?Nobody wants to be your learning experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 01:46 AM |
| – | Digital social media dating problematics. The illusion of entitlement choice for young good looking woman. The consequences of female cherry-picking culture and open female shaming practises towards men in their youth years. The return towards traditional dating, gender roles and family unity.Tl;dr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 02:33 AM |
| – | Who do you think has it harder in these two scenarios?The woman will have it easier, because guys made it that way. Guys are SO desperate to get their nutter butter wet that they're willing to overlook a lot. They'll take a warthog home from the bar at 2am, then act shocked they develop self-esteem. They'll blindly agree with them on everything. They spent their teens convincing girls that sex was all they're good for and looking for loose slots to get their wiener played with. Then act shocked that they start an OF and can't cook. You reap what yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 06:20 PM |
| 1 | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleYet, they're married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Outside of dating apps, how are you supposed to start a relationship?3-in-10 Americans online date. Even less in other countries. It's less common than redditors would have you think. Especially for people not in their early 20s. Just talk to people. Apps are for socially r-worded bottom feeders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 04:32 PM |
| 0 | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleWomen like functional muscle. Guys that work for it. Oil rig workers, for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Men who don’t want to date overweight women know it has nothing to do with healthOP should watch the show Secret Eaters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 12:32 AM |
| 6 | Making women feel safe around you is apparently the biggest factor in attraction?Some of you don't seem to get it. Feeling safe is more than feeling physically protected. Women have to trust you. They have to know you're not going to slip them a Mickey. No silly r-worded pickup lines. You have to be normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 12:28 AM |
| 3 | I see a lot of manosphere podcasters just not living upto what they say.It's silly to me because their angry listeners are the same people subbing to these girls' OF. The only reason they agree to go on Fresh and Fit and Whatever, knowing the verbal abuse they're about to take, is because they know they're about to gain a couple thousand new subs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 01:42 AM |
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