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I think the stoicism thing is basically just sucking up the hurt that comes with strutting your stuff when you're average looking or worse. Especially with this cold approach stuff where guy don't even look for compatibility but just socially harass women on the street. Stoicism does not make you more attractive to the person who just rejected you. Red pill = thinking you're the shit Black Pill - thinking you're shit Blue pill = refusing to think about shit and other nasty things
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:40 PM
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A good man is a tall porn stud who is also cordial, faithful and committed to her. If he does not bend his life to accommodate her then he's not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 01:00 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:25 PM
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You seem to be describing anti-abortionism in bad faith. A woman killing her 5 year old child with a gun contrary to the wishes of the father is also "escaping" his "control". Granted such murders may be usually committed by fathers but mothers also do it. Maybe people who lost a child to kidnapping or a relative to cancer also don't give a fuck about cancer patients because personal experiences prompted them to start advocating for cancer patients.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 09:47 AM
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It's the conflict of seeing yourself as a side character in a chad-Stacy movie (or an extra in the crowd) but also seeing your life and the world through the eyes of the extra who has the same needs and aspirations as the protagonist. As long as you live you will have these urges in your genetic prison called life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:32 PM
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Women do care about muscles. Professional status in an important amplifier of attraction; you may go from OK to hot in some women's eyes. A woman does not see your 'frame' in the way some people think. They only see what they see. This is how bodybuilders with wide hips may still win competitions because they learn to manipulate position and emphasize some muscles in training.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:05 AM
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It said "average-looking". Let's see your height, penis size, hairline and face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:10 PM
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We can argue about people's intentions all day but many women have men send money to them for being female. OnlyFans chicks have bought mansions for doing almost nothing. It's not unconditional...but the gains relative to the efforts are incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:10 PM
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I don't believe in "great sex". I believe tall men with big dicks exist and they are the kind of men who have the most sexual experience which is an amplifier for their genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:09 PM
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The women's actions beg to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:08 PM
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We get it. You laugh at short men. 5'7 haha. 5'2 haha. You also say that you never struggled with woman. I suppose that helps with seeing the perspective of another man?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:05 PM
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I don't know if whether or not TRP (which is not some official designation but an extremely loose designation) borrows from stoicism correctly has any practical bearing when it comes to most people in real life but here's my few cents. You say that stoicism teaches this and that and you refer to one person by name. Almost by definition anyone who had their name stamped into history during those primitive times was very privileged for their day. They were literate according to the standards of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:09 AM
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Charisma does not matter on Tinder. Charisma is actually something people believe you to have when you're handsome. Also where are you walking around shirtless?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:03 PM
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I volunteer for five different helping phones. I'm still a virgin at 39.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:28 PM
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The decreased metabolism may be a myth but weight gain is in your hands. You don't start to get wrinkles until you're well into your 40's. Balding is genetic and has little to do with age. I don't know what "sexual prime" has to do with anything. If you want to argue that his cum flew farther when he was a teenager, that may be the case. That has nothing to do with his looks and neither does whether or not he got laid back then or not. I've seen women write that their sexual prime was at 13 beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:45 PM
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Damn 6'5 chubby chaser struggling in dating. Me sitting here about to be 40 next year with my virginity intact (5'10). I don't mean that it's over for me but I think I might get a good night's sleep tomorrow instead of going clubbing and coming back home with suicidal thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:27 PM
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The chance of snagging a man above her league are 100% for all women. The chances of being raped are less than 1%. Less than 1% of all women have been raped. Men stand the chance of being assaulted in clubs and the streets as they have to go out and cannot just rip farts in their house swiping on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:24 PM
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If you prefer juvenile features then I can see that. People look more distinguished and grow into their looks with age. Women more often gravitate downwards with time as it is quite rare for women to engage in scientific bodybuilding so they get consistently flabbier over time whereas men often peak in their 30's or even 40's in terms of physique. Some women do get serious with bodybuilding but it does not really service them the way it does with men as women's bodies are more about fair skin an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:05 PM
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" has made people suffer massive choice anxiety" Women, not people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 06:43 PM
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It's still a very immature reaction. "I never said it was not".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 12:24 PM
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Porn satisfies the urge for seeing strange women naked. It does not satisfy deeper sexual needs. Just like a guy who love fast cars cannot be content just watching F-1. The urge to look at naked women is independent of reciprocal sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:58 PM
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You did not refute what I said. If I went on the market square with a megaphone offering oral sex screaming "I WILL LICK YOU OFF LADIES!" they would roll their eyes and call the police. They might allow a chad to lick but women are more after penis size than sexual behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:39 PM
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The height thing is circular reasoning. The woman sees a tall man and then decides that she needs to make his life easy because he has "status". It's her giving him that status. The height is not power in itself; it's a cosmetic feature that causes people to give that person validation in different areas of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:18 PM
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"Men don't have to "advertise" their oral sex skills, they just need to be good at it." This goes back to what I said; women are looking for genetics, men are looking for behaviors. Unless the guy is a chad the woman does not want his mouth anywhere near her flaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:23 PM
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I understand being frustrated with someone telling you what you think. The woods thing is just a made-up example or one example out of thousands to set up the question of whether women are privileged enough to get their needs met even if those fantasies are obscure. The whole cunnilingus thing? That could be a fantasy and I don't see how that's hard to carry out. Women do fantasize about oral sex much less than men (three times less according to a North American study) and women do not seem to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:36 AM
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Everything is always a 'male fantasy' when it's described a man. It's almost like me saying men do not have testicles because a female physician claimed that men do. Women try to sound more mysterious and prissy than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:54 PM
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"female incentive is a peaceful and cooperative social structure" Is there any reason why the male incentive would be any different? I think everyone would love it if things just fell into place on their own with no limitations on resources and opportunities. "Female incentive is mostly to be able to have as much offsprings as possible who survive and reproduce" I don't see how that is related to sex. That's what all organisms supposedly want or their genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:53 PM
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"Agressivity, violence and size are signs of intrasexual selection. Which means it is not female selecting males but males competing to each other to access females and keep other men to access them" That makes sense. I also think that there is more to it. Women want the strongest man possible and the competition is a way to demonstrate it. The woman also wants the strongest man to be on her side against other men, women and the elements. Being nice and caring is something you can only do as lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:17 PM
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A chad amplifies his attractiveness through speech acts. A normie has to create attractiveness out of thin air through speech acts. He has to get hard in bed suspecting that she would have turned his head away in disgust had she first met him on a beach.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:43 AM
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That's not the point. The point is that disabled people don't have to work for a living so by that same logic they matter more than people who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 12:26 PM
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That's a bit of a bait and switch. You're starting to conflate perpetions of inherent value with the treatment someone gets or does not. A person with a severe disability is probably getting benefits and does not have to work. Does that mean that they matter more than people who work hard? Your bait argument is more bait than argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:30 PM
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Is there something wrong with your nerves or equipment? Do you masturbate? Give us the full truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:21 PM
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Part three does not matter. It still sucks and blows for men. You're not distinguishing between genuine desire and compliance. Most jestermaxxers can get compliance without abundance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:57 AM
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I'm uncomfortable about the word 'insecurity'. I think it's more that men know that they don't appear attractive to most women and having a minus feature exacerbates it. It can feel like a matter of common courtesy to hide 'flaws' and a way to get better treatment from people as well. If women were not judgmental, why would somebody be 'insecure' in the first place? Small breasts are a neutral feature. A woman will small breasts has her pick of porn studs, artists, fitness athletes and everythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:55 AM
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It's hard to be desperate when you're tall and handsome. It's hard not to be desperate when you have a small D, are bald and short. Now then there's guys who are red pilled 'holding frame' and acting high status despite not being chads. This can throw women off and each woman will then draw her own interpretation after the initial shock; she will either be disgusted and afraid because the guy does not know his place or she will be intrigued and assume that there is more than meets the eye to thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:40 AM
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While such men may exist, noting their existence is preaching to the choir and kind of using weasel words to imply that men lowering their standards would solve the problem of male celibacy lol. There are more working age men than women and a lot of women are with the same chads. That's why your solution is a non-solution still.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:15 PM
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"I would make an adjustment: nurture a pleasant life first. Self-sufficiency is necessary. No healthy relationship can start from a place of need: a girlfriend won’t fix one’s messy existence, and is not supposed to. One has to get heir own house in order, and if that takes therapy so be it." Relationship start because they are needed. A woman can get a different one night stand every night if she wants but a man most certainly needs a relationship for consistent sexual access. Maybe some 6'5 ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:17 AM
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Sounds like those 5 scumbags have NBA heights, porn dicks, sixpacks, fluffy hair and a nice jawline.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 10:40 AM
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"often have unrealistic expectations" Weasel words. BTW 8 is model tier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:26 PM
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I don't know what you mean y by going after and ruining chances with another. You mean some girl is bombing him on social media and he does not give a shit? Or a girl is grinding him in a night club and he's like "Nahh she's not Stacy". Guys have limited time and energy and they are also not mind readers. While he's putting effort into one woman he might be missing indications of interest that...are not there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:30 AM
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Is it harder for you to get men without the make-up job? That's all that matters when it comes to sex. Men decide what is sexy in a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:29 PM
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A loose T-shirt is not deceptive in the same way that make-up is. A loose t-shirt makes everyone look equally flabby and is a poor fit. It does not make a fat guy look ripped. It's just a poorly fitting shirt. Make-up is an addition that drastically improves the look of a face.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:04 AM
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Make-up does not come from your genetics. It's a foreign substance like splashing paint on a canvas.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:01 AM
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You mean he may be able to get off once if she's polite enough to entertain him. Then she'll dump him on some excuse because she does not like the size. It happens every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:52 PM
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The dick pill will either break or make a man. No matter how tall and handsome he is, a small D can destroy him. And conversely even an average looking guy can be validated if he has a massive penis. Having a massive penis is perhaps the one thing that can lead a man to have an experience of being lusted purely like the average young woman. The usual order of things is for a man to be meek and on his toes all the time and finally expose his penis in trepidation hoping not to have the door slamme…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:51 PM
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Yeah. I suppose it's no longer misinformation if you switched "whether he dates or not" to "sexual satiety". Almost all men fall short in one category that women find attractive: height, hair, penis size, face, body composition etc. Simply having one major flaw can take you out of the game. The guys who are above average in every respect are the ones with some sexual security and leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:37 PM
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Exposure to what? Ridicule?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:35 PM
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Dating and even relationships are often pretty crummy for men even if they are better than nothing. Dating is basically having hope instead of the real deal. It's like having a lottery ticket or a job interview but not the money. My best friend is a Mensa member, around six feet tall etc. and was in a relationship with a woman much older than him for almost a decade. Several years before they broke up she started explaining that she's not very sexual and they had a sexless relationship for years…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:11 PM
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As a man it's easy to get negative recognition and being misrecognized. Being seen and validated sexually is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:14 PM
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Yep. A lot of women are actively lowering their value almost as if they demand that they need the man to be attracted to them at their lowest point and making a really shitty first impression. Starting one's dating profile with "I'm a feminist" is a good start.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:47 PM
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Look up chadfishing or any YouTube video discussing this stuff. Better Bachelor has a video about a tall white guy who swiped tens of thousands of time and did not get a single date.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:42 PM
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Exactly where and what is the stupid chest beating? I hope I did not randomly approach you by making this thread because you seem angry as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:40 PM
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OK let's make a surgeon shorten your D by 2 inches since it does not matter Mr. holier than thou.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:02 PM
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They may be working in those jobs as auxiliary workers. A little bit like female police officers who ultimately depend on men. Woman leaders are at least as likely to start wars as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:15 PM
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Handsome literally means chad you dullard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:15 PM
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"It is easily the most difficult time in history to get laid, and not just for the reasons stated above." So it's difficult for a woman to rip farts on the sofa and swipe right on chads? She may not be "sex driven" but wanting it bad once a month is still wanting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:50 PM
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"The cope online is you need to be a Chad, she just needs to wish you were her boyfriend and she’s all over you." Yes because those are mutually exclusive right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:48 PM
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What do you mean by 'dating'? A lot of men have a realistic chance of courting a Stacy because dating is arguably just courting and it is not illegal to talk to strange women on the street in the west. Dating without sex is just the man simping with some traditional elements. Dating in itself is a means and not the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:25 AM
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What's so special about a man supposedly picking porn (or a game of NHL or soccer) over his wife? Women pick gardening, shopping, Netflix or something else over their men all the time and when they have sex they don't necessarily do it out of desire. Somenone even wrote a book listing the numerous causes why women may choose to have sex. The woman can get sex on tap anyway though. It kind of sounds like becomes an issue that one time when the woman is not getting what she wants from that one per…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:57 AM
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I remember the 90's but that was a long time ago. The porn you are talking about is making an increasingly small pool of the total volume relatively speaking. And by that I mean all commercial production with hired actors (genetic male elite and regular women who eat right). Everyone has a great video camera in their pocket now and most people are now potential producers of porn. Women are getting enormous pay-outs for faceless photos and couples are streaming their sex live for paying clients w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:52 AM
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Most men are afraid of disgusting women by accident and they have no faith in their body and genitals. The most evil thing to say is "go to therapy" as if that somehow changes women into desiring dick pics and giving back what they get from men. A lot of women pour praise on women and talk about how the male body is 'utilitarian' and how they get off on being wanted rather than the man just being there. I think most women would be 'impotent' if they had to deal with the conflicting and discourag…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:45 AM
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Here's what really causes ED: -high blood pressure -high cholesterol -obesity (obviously the first three are intertwined) -inflammation -hormonal issues -injuries and conditions including Peyronies' disease -psychological issues like not having your fantasies confirmed by reality and not being validated by women. When a 6'3 eight inch dick chad films himself having sex with a hot woman and puts it on the internet, do you think he's going to get ED from seeing his dick sucked on the screen by a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:40 AM
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Chads and women make their own porn. The rest of the men watch chads (and the occasional normie) having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:35 AM
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'Porn' is an ancient biblical term which is loaded like calling black people 'niggers' except worse. The neutral designation is "imagery of nude people and people having sex'. If sex is not evil, why is filming it bad? How does something become bad from being immortalized?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:51 PM
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I'm a bodybuilder. I watch videos about bodybuilding and posing videos and what not. Why is my watching those videos not causing me to get lazy and why have not I quit bodybuilding? That's because it does not work that way and neither does porn. Watching videos of bodybuilding does not "satisfy" me and make me "complacent". It's just one way of exploring and getting motivation for more bodybuilding. The same as porn is a way of exploring your sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:32 PM
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FDS = demanding more shit, feigning high value by demanding shit TRP = grinding, hard work, owning up to your faults, no excuses They are not the same at all. I'm black pilled and not a red piller either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:07 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:04 AM
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Thanks for being empathetic to my plight. I don't think porn (a word I hate in reference to images of nude people having sex) has the same effect on men. Men understand that strange women immortalized in some footage are not infatuated with him. Porn kills male egos by showing how women are smiling at six feet chads with monster cocks. Some men also feel empowered by it because it makes them feel that women can at least be straight and grow out of their teenage prudishness which the men figure o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:14 PM
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This "just fuck men" joke is older than the internet. I'm not convinced anyone ever found it funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:57 PM
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You don't know if she cares about that government seal of a relationship but you assume that he is at fault. Nice bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:53 PM
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What if I'm only attracted to children though?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:49 PM
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Flirting and hitting on are different things. You can flirt with a person if you're taken. The thing about being worried about men interpreting it in a certain way is true but there is a morbid other side to that: why would the women care how men interpret it? Because they consider those men ugly. They don't care if chad thinks they are flirting; it will just spice up their day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:17 PM
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Hey Andy! We're gonna have to get you some punani!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:57 AM
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That's romantic. How about 'women want sex with the hottest men'.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 09:57 AM
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Well yes and no. Men get nothing on Tinder. Clubs used to be where it's at. On the level of fantasy most men probably go to clubs with some sexual objectives but I don't think most of them have the courage to phrase it that way. Sure he may feel sexy at home posing in front of the mirror listening to his favorite music but when he goes out reality starts catching up. Bitch faces, sullen faces, deer in the headlights looks and just plain not being looked at will follow. It seems great in theory; …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:27 PM
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FDS is basically lazy women demanding shit from men instead of doing the work after asking what men want. "Living in modern times, people no longer are forced to marry for land, wealth, status, or “legacy.”" People marry within their class. It might be arranged marriage or western marriage but like attracts like. "I think it’s also very relevant to PPD because so many people here seem convinced that femininity means just being agreeable, self-sacrificing, weak and dependent, nurturing others, do…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:16 PM
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Getting lucky is all the sexual validation guys get so that's also a factor that makes intercourse and other concrete acts of sex so meaningful. I mean no woman is going to ask an average guy for dick pics and then declare that she rubbed one out to them. No woman in a night club is going to say that she got a lady boner from being on the same dance floor as him. No woman will be star struck and bend over backwards for a normal guy. No woman will hang on to his every word and try to impress him …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:56 PM
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You're presenting this romantic image of wild animals while conjuring up nightmare scenarios about people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:38 PM
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Yes I should watch more Disney movies and be more wary of (white) men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:34 PM
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If you are lost or hurt in the woods, animals cannot help you but people can. Almost all acts of heroism are committed by men. There is no benefit or hope to being stuck in the woods with a bear. If you stick around for too long, the bear would eat you in the absence of any other food. Yes the bear might just walk away if that's an option and so would a person. The only difference is the person would most likely help you if you needed help whereas the bear would either disappear or kill you. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:48 PM
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Well the question is "with" a bear or a man. Saying that bears avoid people is a cop-out. You can reason with a person, not with a bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:12 PM
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You win the internet today.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:19 PM
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Not with me but someone else is paying someone with their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:56 PM
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Yes the women who are in relationships with men do owe those men sex. That's what the relationship is there for. Lamenting that is like being outraged that a cleaning lady paid to clean your house is actually expected to do cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:02 PM
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Wow that's deep. It has only been said a million times already.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:24 PM
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I don't exactly disagree with you. At the same time in psychology there is often a tendency to confuse the instrument with the reality it's supposed to measure. The instrument is not the same thing as the actual reality; the instrument is an attempt to box that reality to measure it. You would think that being able to have an illuminating conversation would be born out of intelligence and then someone comes out and says no. Then you ask if this could be intelligence or that thing there? Again th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:04 PM
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Where's the rapey stuff? Please don't be an ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:55 PM
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Very simplistic. Yes genetically men peak in their 20's. However since only a certain percentage have everything figured out by their 20's a lot of men reach their peak in their 30's or 40's in terms of grooming, body, clothing and how they present themselves. The biggest disadvantage of age is the skin looking different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:12 PM
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"Avoidant" = psychobabble pathologizing preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:22 PM
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"only men like things like muscles" "every woman likes different men" Try making those two statements fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:12 AM
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I would not call any of that a "theory". Theory ha strong evidence for it. What you're describing is a feminist ideology. The older I get the more it seem women watch the same stuff as men with some exceptions. Straight women watch videos of men jerking off which straigh men do not want to watch but straight women also watch regular porn. They just don't watch it as often.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:36 PM
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What therapy? I hate when people say "go to therapy" as any talk therapist is some wise sage that has looked into most things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:39 PM
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If men should date on their level, are not they correct? Or are you only allowed to go for women in your league if they live in the same state as you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:26 AM
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Chivalry teaches that women are deserving of kindness. Feminism says women are victims. So a man who does not 'simp' will be ashamed of himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:18 AM
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OK. I wonder how touching through the pants work because that sounds kind of like sexual assault or some such thing unless it's consensual. It's one of those things though where we are conditioned to accept it. It has even happened to me once but I can assure that you cannot judge penis size by groping at someone's groin for a number of reasons. There is a 0,1% chance you'll run into some porn star and can feel a lot of tissue through the clothing and in every other case it would likely be prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:09 AM
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The physical is all you know at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:10 PM
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"your looks and your dick" What does that mean? Even the 5'4 bald guy has a dick. Do you check for size?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:08 PM
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Based on that logic nobody ever hooks up then because you cannot be interested in a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:00 PM
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Being special comes from shared experiences. Trying to somehow see women as special before they give you any appreciation or time is a ticket to virginity. In the beginning you go by their looks and then you see if you have any leverage to make her commit and create shared experiences. It is genuine interest within those circumstances and as she starts to commit (assuming she likes his face and height) then the other women will gradually start to fade from the man's vision. It is women's porn no…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:59 PM
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I remember a YouTube video of a guy playing Silent Hill 3. At one point he took off shirt for some reason and his GF acted disgusted at his body. It was subtle but sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:34 PM
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It's the result that matters; how you make people feel. There was a boxer who started training very late and allegedly had horrible technique that people laughed at. He stil won the national championship a few times and fought for an international title. A champion is a champion no matter what people think about their technique. The guy with the big dick thinks what he does because he already has value prior to doing anything. Why would he think that unless he was sought after for his physical s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:09 AM
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Unventured and undentured.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:01 AM
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Sounds more like paralysis than movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:54 PM
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Most assaults arguably involve alcohol. Most assault is male on male but domestic violence may be fifty fifty depending on who you believe and lesbians may be more violent than gays.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:35 PM
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In my country it is a bit impolite to ask people people about their earnings and in my experience her asking you what you do for work means that her vagina is already dry as a desert; it's a coup de grace to your hopes. She's throwing that question because she does not have much use for you and is just keeping the conversation going out of courtesy before she leaves. She should ask what he LIKES to do so he can talk about stuff he likes to talk about. Later on the job thing will likely come up s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:47 PM
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The more men travel, the better their options. I don't mean passport bro type travel in third world countries but something like taking a language course abroad or exchange studying. In whatever is their home country men's self-esteem tends to be pushed down the drain because at home women are looking for the ethnically familiar chad. Average guys can get more attention abroad in an international environment in three weeks than they would have in three years at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:14 AM
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Yes and no. I don't see women focusing on the one option they have but rather filtering the best out of a million options yet men are supposed to be content with the first woman who gives them green light.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:11 AM
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Sex appeal = looks. Change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:25 PM
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Yes you can keep cheapening this discussion with that gay stuff which is leading the conversation astray.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:05 AM
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Homosexual relationships are sort of like childhood relationships when the opposite sex is still icky. In normal development the main attachment partner normally becomes a person of the opposite sex which involves a process of gradual maturing and perspective taking as you have to understand a person with a fundamentally dfferent life experience and also win the respect of their family and friends. Ultimately these relationships tend to result in children. It may sound like I'm slagging off homo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:44 PM
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Men are often afraid to ask their partner if she really finds him attractive. I suppose that chadsexual women are afraid to ask the guy where she thinks the relationship (using the word very broadly) is going because they would rather have plausible deniability.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:52 PM
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I don't claim to know what true human nature is. I just know that there have been different historical arrangements and even today different cultures have different gender arrangements. In some cultures women are supposed to be veiled and not leave their house much without a male relative or not look strange men in the eye. Now some people could argue that that's just racial differences and that some races of people are more ape like or primitive (unable to control impulses or have a civil conve…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 06:51 AM
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What does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:34 PM
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As men get older they are more likely to let go of inhibitions. Even if they are disadvantaged in terms of their own age they may be more likely to shoot their shot and go for it and not be wall flowers who believe there's always going to be a tomorrow. Since you get nothing as a male wall flower it's still relative abundance to be talking to more women even if they all shoot you down. Women also leave their pedestal in a man's eyes when he hits a certain age. I would argue that most western men…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:28 PM
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Yes and that could be in your 20's when you are still going uphill. It's annoying when people throw out "fat and balding" etc. as if balding has anything to do with your lifestyle or is universally unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:25 PM
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Balding is more about genetics than age. It's a cosmetic feature that a minority of men CHOOSE to have by shaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:35 PM
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When men lose a relationship, they start free falling unless chad. When women lose a relationship, they become closer with all the orbiters and back-up men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:13 PM
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Short answer is that men want to be seen on a sexual level. Having a woman look at your dick feels enlivening. It's like asking why some homeless poor people steal or squat in houses.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:52 PM
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Both the 'moderates' and the 'incels' are right. There is evidence that chads are cleaning up. There is also evidence that normies are getting something. Now whether they have to jestermaxx, settle for chad's leftovers after her party phase and basically live under her thumb is a whole different story. It's not just a difference of quantity but also quality. Lots of guys have never dared to ask their woman if she finds them hot because they would rather not know the truth. Women have a bunch of …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:27 AM
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It is a common misconception that the idea of marketing is to make you buy useless crap. The people who forcefully sale stuff do not necessarily know anything about marketing. Marketing is a science which applies to psychology to human decision making. That kind of research and knowledge is massively helpful when it comes to attracting people to essential services like health and social services that a lot of people avoid due to stigma or other reasons. It also allows customers to have a better …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:17 PM
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It's borderline impossible or unnecessarily laborious for a woman to rape a man in a way that would serve her evolutionarily purpose of reproduction. She would be left alone with the kid and if she wants a fatherless kid from a gigachad, she might just ask him to enter raw and there's a good chance he'll oblige. That and women are used to being pursued. Women are not crazy about the idea of having to force themselves on guys when their sexuality is so reactive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:42 PM
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That's understandable. It's hard to have fun from a position of weakness. Women always have Chad's eight inch services at their disposal and they can laugh off goofy dates that go nowhere. Men largely don't have that. They can go years with nothing and being rejected and being kept at an arm's length is not a silly funny anomaly but their foundational experience. Only having fun with people who are instinctually repulsed by you gets old fast. They always have the upper hand and call the shots.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:37 PM
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