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No idea then. I have a lot of work to do. I don’t know how to measure it; it’s never ending. Just as the work I’m putting in hear.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/24 05:23 AM
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By talking about my wife less. He is in-line with MRP. If I continue on about my wife he redirects the conversation to about me and what I can do to fix myself. We aren’t looking to save the marriage. He’s trying to save the man.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/24 04:12 AM
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OYS #4 (45m) 6' 172 lbs 16% BF by scale in the middle of divorcing (42F) cheating wife after 10 year marriage with (14m) stepson and (9f) daughter. Lifts/fitness: Stronglifts 5x5, de-loading this week. OHP 95 lbs, Squat is light due to ACL tear 150 lbs, Bench 160 lbs, Deadlift 255 lbs. Started Jiu Jitsu at 2x a week, possibly 3x if my schedule will allow and on my mountain bike 3x a week for cardio. Reading: Re-reading NMMNG and Men's Work. Also, listening to Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life. Divorc…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/24 04:02 PM
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Understood, thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/24 05:45 PM
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Yeah, I’ve search all over the sub looking for what rule 9 is. I couldn’t. I just figure it’s going on too much about “her”. If this crosses the line, I’ll edit it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/24 05:35 PM
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OYS #3 (45m) 6' 172 lbs 16% BF by scale (been losing weight due to stress) in the middle of divorce to (42F) after 10 year marriage with (14m) stepson and (9f) daughter. Lifts: Stronglifts 5x5, going light on squats and deadlifts and just maintaining due to ACL tear. Bench up to 170 with wide grip. OHP 127.5 lbs. Re-reading NMMNG and still working through Men's Work and associated work book. Mission Statement: To live a life from love and abundance with discipline and integrity. I got banned for…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/24 11:02 AM
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Build back my confidence and move on.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/24 03:23 AM
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Well, I want to say because I love her, have similar interest, enjoy spending time with her and we have a daughter together. But, I know the real reason is I have validation and abandonment issues.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/24 05:52 PM
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No, I don't want a divorce. We got on another level recently and I would like to explore that with her. Yup, married a single mother. If you read my previous OYS, this is my second marriage to a single mother. I seek these relationships to get love and validation through "helping" and care giving. I imagine she married me for my dollars.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/24 05:01 PM
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OYS #2 6' 178 lbs (45m) being divorced by (42f) after being married for 10 years with (14m) stepson and (9f) daughter. Lifts: Sronglifts 5x5 - Squat and Dead lifts are on complete de-load due to a confirmed ACL tear. I had an MRI last week and will get with the surgeon this week to figure out a plan. Just maintaining here and doing what feels comfortable. Backed bench to 165 lbs to concentrate on a wider grip to help get some growth in the chest. OHP 127.5 lbs. Re-reading NMMNG and working throu…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/24 03:24 PM
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No, it's not my truth. I can see at times she wasn't into having sex with me, I just took it as getting duty sex, but to her it was grape. Thank you, I've been taking it one minute at a time to one day at a time in changing my childhood beliefs. It's a constant battle in my mind to not engage and act out when those feelings arise.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/24 12:38 PM
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No, they are not. But, going to therapy to beak the cycle of my behavior and those issues need to be worked through for that to happen.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/24 11:29 AM
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Yes, this has been the hardest for me. Living in the moment and letting go. Working on that through meditation.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/24 06:39 PM
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Thanks, I’ll look it up.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/24 03:47 PM
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This is what I'm working on in therapy. There is a lot of pain from my childhood that I am dealing with that comes out in thinking I am a failure in everything I do. Afraid of abandonment. There was physical abuse and my mom telling me she wishes I was never born.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/24 03:33 PM
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OYS 1 First OYS post. Found TRP and MRP about 8 years ago when my marriage was on the brink of divorce. I read most of all the material but never applied it in any meaningful manner. Drunk Captain for the last eight years and now we are finally getting divorced. It get's real bad how pathetic I was in our marriage, no leadership what so ever. She has been steering the ship, I've been trailing along begging for sex and validation. 45m, 178lbs, 6'0", 18%bf (scale), married 10 years (42f), stepson …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/24 01:50 PM
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