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This is gonna sound like me not being empathetic. But if it sucks to be fat that much just lose weight. I know it's not that simple but also it kinda of is that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:22 AM
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Her laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:51 PM
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She ignored everything you said 😂 'I'm not a uni student' that's not the point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:42 AM
1

Go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:28 PM
1

Is internalised misandry a thing in any form of academia?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:21 AM
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Don't act like it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:43 PM
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My father is a 6ft 4 Chad so I'm sure he'll be fine. If me and him went to the bar now to pickup women he'd outperform me 10/10 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 10:44 AM
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He'd happily let other men fuck his wife. If that's not a sign of a lack of self respect idk what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:41 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:18 PM
1

Debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:09 PM
2

I once overheard a group of girls talking about me. They said I have a really great personality and they'd fuck me if I was taller. I'm average 5ft 9 ish. Looking back in my life all the biggest players I know were 6ft +. Maybe short Chad's exist but I've never met or seen one. I live in a densely populated urban area and have a active social life. After a certain point this height dosnt matter rhetoric feels like gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:09 PM
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Hmm I'll believe it when I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:01 PM
1

Are these women attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:56 PM
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I've never met a 5ft 4 fuck boy. Never seen it. Where are these mythical 5ft 4 Chad's?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:53 PM
1

Are most women good at sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:58 PM
2

Tbf Im pretty specific with my choice of words. I said if your not attractive MOST people will find you unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:02 PM
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It's pretty objective. There are people who are objectively attractive and people who are objectively unattractive. This is why we have beauty standards and the modeling industry. It's why the halo effect and pretty privilege exist and is observable by science. It's also a reason why a lot of people struggle finding someone to date. Danny Devito would never be casted to play James Bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:37 PM
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Unless your attractive most people will think your unattractive. Not really rocket science is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:30 PM
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People's standards usually drop as they get older, lonelier and more desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:22 PM
2

She's just projecting her insecurities onto you because she knows you'll likely reject her. Beautiful car though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:57 PM
1

What's a way a average guy can grow their own social circle and get to know people? Also are they approaching random women or women in their social circle?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:05 AM
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Define effort. Let's assume they already shower, have a job, dress well, have a haircut etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:34 AM
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I've only ever rejected women I'm not attracted too in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:32 AM
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Explains the narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:27 AM
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This is so funny because its so true. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:26 AM
2

Most men I know like to be approached. I like to be approached. Actually in my personal life I don't know a single man who dislikes being approached. I'm sure they exist but I've never heard of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:22 AM
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A fuck maid that pays half the bills. One could only dream... 😫
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:27 PM
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My issue with confidence is that its a vague term. I know confident men who can't get laid. I know insecure men who get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:15 AM
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I only care about traditional relationships and still want to be wanted. Us men are humans you know we like reciprocal attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:42 AM
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Well keep in mind that the only reason the rate of singleness between genders evens out is because the second highest demographic of single people after young men is women who are 65+.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:06 AM
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That's funny last time I went to the clubbing it was full of 18 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:56 AM
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See for yourself. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:42 PM
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Noone preaches more than the red pill that you gotta find your purpose and be on your mission to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:16 PM
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It's because women in their 20's & 30's are single at significantly lower rates than men in those age brackets. 51% of men in between 18-29 are single in comparison to 35% of women for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:07 PM
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They could always just date someone slightly smaller than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:11 AM
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Model tier means you meet the minimum requirements to be a professional model. Most IG models don't meet those requirements. Not everyone can be a professional model and no man under 6ft will ever be a professional model despite photoshop. I'm sure your attractive bro but u probably ain't a 8. Neither am I lol. I have still dated attractive women. Being below 6ft limits you and even excludes you from a lot of women in the dating market. Is what it is. Not a death sentence but you'll never be Cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:24 AM
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My girl cleans for me it's all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:25 AM
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Well they're fashion models so they're the most attractive level of model they're all 9.5's minimum I was just using that as a example if your a 8/10.male your model tier material, just not fashion model level. Also 6ft height isn't that common it's only 14% of the population. But yeah sure there's 5ft 10 Chad's like Brad Pitt but they're still incredibly rare. Odds are if your under 6ft your not Chad. Most 6ft + guys are not chad anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:31 AM
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I consider 5/10 average. I would be average for example. My girlfriend is a fashion model I'd consider her 9.5/10. Some of the guys she works with look like literal greek gods. I'm sorry no 5ft 10 man is on their level unless he's brad pitt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:28 AM
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Sign up for a modeling agency then if your 8/10. You'll see the response one u tell them your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:08 AM
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Cope. U ain't a 8/10 if u under 6ft unless your very attractive. A 6ft 4 version with your face will get more girls than current u.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:49 AM
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Idk if I'd call Timothy Chalamet a chad by traditional definitions. If your a pretty guy at 5ft 10 you can still get girls. But you'll never be Chad. I'm also a 5ft 10 pretty boy btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:25 AM
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Nice I hope he treats himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:23 AM
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Women are wonderful bro. Everything bad that has ever happened is men's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:20 AM
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Don't be shy. Buy him something with that money. He deserves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:16 AM
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Yeah but it's extremly rare. As in you gotta look like Brad Pitt type of rare. If your under 6ft your maxed at 7/10 usually. Obviously exceptions exist but they usually become actors or musicians.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:15 AM
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You ex was a low libido man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:09 AM
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Walks like a duck, talks like a duck. He's a duck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:08 AM
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I've been to therapy. My therapist was a lovely guy but he was 100% a scam artist lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 12:52 AM
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Only submissive to men they consider high value men. Fresh and fit or tate even says women shouldn't date bums.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:23 AM
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My girlfriend has given me consent to lead our relationship. She prefers that I make the major decisions. According to her she's happier this way and resents the fact the men she previously dated never lead the relationships. With this I take on the responsibility to provide for her safety and security. I don't burden her with my emotional issues as I accept it here to be her rock. So yes I agree with you but so does the redpill. I also agree dorks who provide nothing should expect women to foll…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:09 AM
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Yeah I agree there are less women on FDS but it dosnt mean they don't exist. Redpill content isn't centered around hating women. It seems you already made up your mind tho. But if your gonna argue against something atleast know what the thing your arguing against is. Otherwise you just look a bit silly. Red pillers hate black pillers because the black pill represents the complete opposite of what the redpill stands for. Redpill = Do the work when you don't feel like it regardless of your disadva…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:56 AM
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Bro this entire sub is blue pill redditors vs incel redditors. The amount of actual red pill I see in this sub is minuscule. Most people here argue against redpill ideas that are not even redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:49 AM
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Red pill and incel is not the same thing. Maybe your confused with the definitions? If you go on any incel forum outside of reddit they get similar amount of comments as FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:36 AM
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I genuinely think western women on average live life on easy mode compared to western men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:33 AM
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I've seen women in this sub genuinely make this argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:28 AM
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One major thing your missing is that leadership in the redpill requires permission to lead. The redpill dosnt advocate for women to be slaves. It advocates for men to lead relationships with the permission and consent of the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:19 AM
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FemaleDatingStrategy is still active on a separate website. Just like incel groups are still active on separate websites. The world is larger than reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:14 AM
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The red pill got me out of nihilism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:11 AM
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I think people underestimate how little most guys care about a woman's income or social status if they're attracted to that woman. I'm sure most guys would date a girl richer than them if she actually wanted them. I would. Maybe there's a subset of insecure men who would feel demasculated if they dated a wealthy woman but idk if you can really generalise that standard onto the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:54 AM
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Nah its more so due to biological imperative and sexual desire. If men dated women for social status they'd try to date well known women with high paying jobs. But being a doctor or lawyer as a woman is likely gonna make your dating life harder, not easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:27 AM
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I see it a lot. The girls I used to live with all dated older guys. Many girls I went to school with are now dating older guys. I think its common knowledge that women prefer to date people older than them generally. Men also tend to gain more value and leverage in dating as they get older. Especially attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:15 AM
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lmao. Bro women in their 20's love men in their 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:48 AM
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Thats what lots of women online say but a lot of men also have anecdotal experience of women in their lives being repulsed after seeing them open up. It has happened to me and no I wasn't trauma dumping.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:11 AM
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Agreed. And telling men it's okay sets them up for failure in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:11 AM
0

Your reddit avatar has a beard so I was wondering if your a bearded woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:09 AM
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Talk therapy isn't beneficial for all men. In London during WW2 there was a event called the Blitz where the nazi's bombed the entire city. A psychologist noticed that mentally ill men who were depressed and catatonic suddenly started driving ambulances and helping towards war effort at home when they were previously hospitalised. This example was used to show that traditional approaches towards talk therapy may not be as effective for men as it is for women. Instead maybe we should help men fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:06 AM
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Before anyone says some bullshit in this thread about men trauma dumping. It's not that men don't open up. It's that women and society as a large negatively reinforces men who open up. They generally lose respect, sexual attraction and their manhood in manys peoples eyes. This is why it's best to keep your issues to yourself or to the homies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:51 AM
2

And which do women want the good guys or the fuckboys?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:45 AM
1

Are you a bearded woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:39 AM
15

If you have no interest in dating this post is not really about you then is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:20 PM
1

https://thoughtcatalog.com/jessica-winters/2016/01/cross-your-legs-guys-18-women-share-their-explicit-castration-fantasies/ Imagine a article like this written by a man about women. "A penis is a rape device; as domestic violence statistics reveal, men are the evil virus problem. Given sperm may be created without use of a man, and women have well proven themselves even more capable then men, castration is something to be enforced eventually for all men. A peaceful and productive future depends …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:17 AM
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Incels and redpill isn't the same thing. Maybe that's the issue you don't know what the red pill is. Also I've seen multiple threads on reddit state what I said. Just because you didn't see something dosnt mean it dosnt exist. There's more to life than your single sole perspective and your not a authority on what exists and dosnt simply by your observations alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:00 AM
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I've heard feminists unironically propose we should castrate all men including young boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:35 AM
1

It's not the confidence it's the results. When people say they feel more confident after working out its because they look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:19 AM
1

How does it add confidence if you still look unattractive after months of constant working out?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:18 AM
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There's no misogyny in my view of the redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:17 AM
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This is a very biased and shallow idea of what the red pill is. You don't have to agree but atleast have a understanding of what the red pill is. If you don't understand the thing you criticize it makes you seem worse than the thing your critiquing. I never see discussions about topics like this outside of red pill spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:58 PM
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I think without red pill discource we wouldn't be talking about this in the first place because it dosnt adhere to current mainstream feminist narratives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:42 PM
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We can acknowledge it instead of constantly denying it. That would be a significant start.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:26 PM
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I've never seen a chad under 6ft tall. The only exception I'll give you is certain hollywood actors like Brad Pitt. However Brad Pitt is literally a 1 in a 100 million type of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:14 PM
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I'm dyslexic fuck off bot.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/22 07:11 PM
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Heres the thing if your actually attracted to them your gonna show interest anyway naturally.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/22 07:08 PM
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Seems like she gets more out of the deal than you. Alternatively you could do shit with a bro and you wouldn't have to provide protection. Risking your life defending someone is kind of a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:40 AM
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Fair enough. Atleast you acknowledged my experience instead of calling me crazy or a incel or a shut in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:50 AM
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I go out a lot. Tbh my social life has never been better. Still never see women being romantic. But fair enough my experience is not the same as yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:47 AM
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If you under 6ft you will never be Chad. There will always be women who reject you because of the your height. A significant amount of men 6ft and over can be Chad though I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:43 AM
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My girlfriend gets mad at me when I argue with people on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:38 AM
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Same. Even on Valentines day is usually the man treating the woman. Don't worry I'm sure all the women on ppd will state that they're the most romantic partners ever and gaslight us into thinking our complaints are not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:31 AM
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Seducing men is easy. Be nice and hot. Show interest.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/22 12:13 AM
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It's just a way to invalidate any issues men have with opening up. I've said it before and I'll say it again. The issue isn't that men don't open up, the issue is that when men do society reacts negatively to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:49 AM
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Here we go with this. Every time a man has someone respond negatively to them expressing their emotion it's because they're trauma dumping. Taking any responsibility away from the person who responded negatively and putting 100% of the responsibility on men. I guess from your perspective people don't have a negative reaction towards men expressing emotion. Men are just whiney trauma dumpers who have no emotional control right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:38 AM
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Is this another one of those "men trauma dump" posts? Great let's further discourage men to express their feelings. I'm sure that will end well for all parties involved...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:27 AM
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Being a drug dealer 100% gets you pussy. I can't believe people are arguing it dosnt lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:05 PM
15

Gonna be a painful divorce for your buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:01 PM
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Married people - men and women are happier overall. Here's a multi varied longitudinal study across multiple countries US, UK, Germany etc that states married people are happier in general. Not just men. https://ifstudies.org/blog/does-getting-married-really-make-you-happier#:~:text=Indeed%2C%20married%20people%20are%20happier,and%2015%25%20for%20people%20who
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 10:23 AM
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Tbh I can't answer the why, I just know it works. Not every woman is the same but one thing I've noticed is that people will come up with bullshit to justify breaking up with someone. It probably wasn't because you didn't say I love you but who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:00 PM
2

Time is a flat circle. Everything loops.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:56 PM
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TIL I don't believe in equality but equity. Good to know for future reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:34 PM
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That the nicer you are to her the more your push her away. Learnt that the hard way too many times. I don't enjoy being a dickhead but ever since I stopped being nice my game increased dramatically. I'm still a gentleman though ofcourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:26 PM
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Haven't you heard. Everything on earth is 100% mens fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:26 AM
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Careful your gonna piss off all the leftists that think evolutionary psychology is a fake science.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:10 AM
1

I mean basic research on red pill principles will show u they like hoes because that's how they spin plates. 🤷 They're not spinning plates with Christian virgin housewives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:54 AM
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Yes. I think your confusing bitter reddit incels for red pill guys. If you watch any red pill content creators they love promiscuous women. Fresh and fit or Tate are good examples. They'd never wife one though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:43 AM
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You can say this but red pill advice works. Turning from a nice guy into a asshole can dramatically improve your game. It might not work for YOU personally but it works for a large majority of women. Trust me I don't want to be a asshole I'd rather be nice but it gets you nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:30 AM
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Redpill men love women that sleep around. Hoes are their favourite. They just will never wife one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:27 AM
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Try audiobooks while your doing something. Sometimes when I want to listen to a audio book I drive around in gta while listening to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:58 PM
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Not trashing her just explaining why she is at a disadvantage in terms of dating. It wasn't even a form of criticism just a explanation. You can find a relationship on tinder. If the majority of people on tinder are looking for sex there'd alternative dating apps like I did say. But even then if your getting 30 matches a day on tinder your gonna find someone your compatible with eventually it just takes mild effort on your part. Now men with zero matches on dating apps are fucked. They have zero…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:11 PM
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Yeah I know most women find the majority of men unattractive. Your allowed to have your standards. So are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:21 PM
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According to pew research more single men are looking for relationships than single women. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:18 PM
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Sounds like the perfect man. I hope you can live up to those expectations yourself. When I was single I just wanted a woman who was nice and pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:52 PM
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Deleted comments I can't see is not evidence for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:30 PM
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I'm not a incel I just feel bad because everyone shits on them. You were making a lot of assumptions about incels which is funny since u claimed I was doing that about you. I was just basing that off the tone of your post. But back to the topic at hand I feel like a lot of 'incels' even if they don't self identify as a incel are just looking for a solution to their problem. When they go online and see people gaslight and shit on them it only makes them feel worse about themselves. I know a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:22 PM
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You've probably stated this before somewhere else but what are the other characteristics?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:42 AM
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You'll have to show me this next time you come across it because I rarely see empathy for incel men. Sounds like your just annoyed at them tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:40 AM
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As a older mother you have to acknowledge to some extent why men will be hesitant to start a relationship with you. Funny enough even at that disadvantage you'll still have a easier time getting a relationship than a large percentage of young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:48 AM
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Well there's your answer then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:42 AM
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Are you a single mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:38 AM
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You can definitely get a relationship from tinder or alternative dating apps. Let's not act like out of all the men who match with you 100% are looking for sex only. If you have 30 matches a day you will find someone your compatible with eventually it just takes a small amount of effort on your part. Imagine the alternative. Men trying to find relationships with zero genuine matches and a couple bots in their dm's. It's literally impossible and awful for your self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:33 AM
1

So would you date a broke guy long term?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:03 AM
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It's not about money. It's about the lifestyle and things money can provide. Obviously your not literally gonna be attracted to numbers and paper notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:02 AM
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You'll find the person your looking for eventually even if it takes a few weeks. The men with zero matches have no options to choose from.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:46 AM
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I see barely any empathy on here for incel men. Usually its just contempment and disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:14 AM
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Only because older women are more prone to celibacy. If we base it off age more young men are sexless than young women. https://ifstudies.org/blog/contours-of-the-sex-recession
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:10 AM
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Download tinder and you'll have 30 matches by the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:07 AM
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"would your boyfriend be comfortable if the 3 of us hang out" Hahaha op that's the saddest shit I've heard all day. Have some self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:03 AM
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Masc lesbians are more redpilled than most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:40 AM
6

It tells us there is a 'Wall' for women and it does exist despite claims on this subreddit. I'm not saying men don't date older women. I'm saying the 'Wall' exists and women becoming increasingly less desirable as they age. Which in turn makes dating more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:19 PM
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Married people - men and women are happier overall. Your talking about a very specific survey based study. I know you won't read all this but here's a multi varied longitudinal study across multiple countries US, UK, Germany etc that states married people are happier in general. Not just men. https://ifstudies.org/blog/does-getting-married-really-make-you-happier#:~:text=Indeed%2C%20married%20people%20are%20happier,and%2015%25%20for%20people%20who
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:16 PM
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Long story short I used to be a drug dealer (not a flex drug dealing is cringe) in a very famous university city that I'm not gonna dox but its probably the most famous university in the world so you can guess. I was looking for a place to live in but left it late however luckily a friend of mine offered for me to live with her and her friends. It was crazy and we had some wild parties over the years. But let me say this these girls were messy as hell, finding mold from rotten food in the kitche…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:10 PM
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Overall married people are happier than unmarried people. Your correct certain demographics of women are happier single. However post wall career women are not which is what we are discussing. https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/high-octane-women/201109/meet-the-least-happy-people-in-america
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:01 PM
1

I lived in a house with 8 women in their early 20's a couple years ago. They were all very attractive and the most attractive ones almost exclusively dated older guys. My current girlfriends last boyfriend was some 40 year old lawyer guy. She was 21 when she dated him she's 23 now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:53 PM
8

You state this but the unhappiest demographic of people in America is childfree career women in their 40's.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:45 PM
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Study also shows it becomes signficantly more difficult for a women to find a date as she ages. So here we have a study stating that men prefer women in their 20's and that it becomes harder for women to date as they age. If that's not the wall idk what your talking about. Red pill guys are not discussing the pink floyd album.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:08 PM
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Got some graphs for you buddy if you think the wall dosnt exist. https://www.businessinsider.com/dataclysm-shows-men-are-attracted-to-women-in-their-20s-2014-10 Edit: Found another interesting article for op https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2018/08/online-dating-out-of-your-league/567083/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:55 AM
-1

It's crazy you actually believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:24 AM
3

Advice like 'just shower bro' is so stupid to me. Majority of men shower. Majority of men use soap. Those who don't are usually mentally ill or in extreme poverty. That nerdy guy u sat next to in highschool who had bad BO is not representative of entire male population that struggles with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:29 PM
1

The original purple pill was red pill guys who also wanted marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:30 AM
-1

No offense but who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:15 AM
2

Your correct. Atleast where I'm from pubs and clubs have been shutting down for a over a decade. It's because these places used to be social hubs but with the growth of the Internet there are alternative ways to socialise. Also a significant amount of people just drink at home these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:17 AM
1

Meh as much as I'd like for this to be true I don't think it is at all. There are genuinely men who have literally never had a woman attracted to them in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:08 AM
4

Same. I was mostly around fat women and I was wondering why I was never attracted to the women around me. Now I'm in a area with mostly slim women with pretty faces I realised I'm just picky with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:20 AM
0

It's not the same. The equivalent would be a average man wanting to date a top 20% woman because its the exact same scenario but gender swapped. Men and women are different. A woman will never call another woman a hoe as a compliment but men call eachother playboys all the time. This is because women know being a promiscuous woman is not attractive to a majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:13 PM
1

Well if your not a top 20% woman your never gonna date a top 20% man. As simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:05 PM
1

Average women are not dating top 20% men lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:03 PM
1

Meh to a degree I feel like you can just use this to shut down the discussion of any red pill take you personally disagree with. And simultaneously you can choose to ignore this with any take that follows your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:06 AM
1

So you'd argue women like tall guys for psychosocial reasons not evolutionary reasons. Or to be even more specific the psychosocial reasons are the evolutionary reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 07:46 AM
1

Would you be able to elaborate more on what you mean? I'm not a expert on evolution I just know that basic idea that evolution is not goal orientated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 07:20 AM
1

Are you actually a scientist?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 07:16 AM
2

Young women don't have agreeable personalities. I'm saying that's what men prefer I'm not making the argument that young women have agreeable personalities?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:53 AM
4

This is why red pillers say every man that struggles with dating should pursue self improvement to become a top 20% man and that its possible for a large majority of men. Simply go gym, dress well and have a good job and you better than most men. Blackpillers would instead argue that some can't make it to the top 20% no matter what. And that even if you did make it women still only find the top 1-2% of men attractive. Which is funny since there are threads in this subreddit where women here have…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:46 AM
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Well for the things you mentioned its because men and women are different and have different preferences. Men prefer women who are young with lower body counts and agreeable personalities. As for why red pill guys 'shame' women for desiring top 20% men is because its delusional if you, yourself is not a top 20% woman. Its the same reason feminists 'shame' incels for wanting to date top 20% women. Its delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:20 AM
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A lot of the women desiring the top 20% of men are not within the top 20% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:04 AM
1

I agree with you. But a counter argument would be evolution dosnt have to make sense. Random things occur in natural selection all the time that dosnt necessarily have to do with the species survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:21 AM
5

Men are significantly less picky than women. What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:35 AM
2

Regular normal guy my ass. He's not a male model but he's handsome and well built + tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:44 AM
2

At some point you have to accept that life isn't fair, you got dealt a shit hand and you can't always get what you want. After that the only logical thing you can do is hyper focus on the things you can change and are within your control. This is all anyone can do and as long as you maintain that standard you shouldnt hate or berate yourself. Atleast this is how I try to approach things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:23 AM
1

I think if you want to be more specific its a "any woman can fuck any man narrative". No one believes average women can date Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:34 AM
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Yeah I agree but the person won't respond anyway because there isn't any other posts like that. Might aswell get my point across.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:51 PM
4

Maybe spend some time away from purple pill debate and come back to it so it's feels fresh. People have been talking about body counts in this sub for years. If you read it daily ofcourse your gonna get bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:28 PM
2

Yeah recently I've only seen a single post stating what u claimed. This post: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/y1qvuf/promiscuity_and_casual_sex_is_unfair_to_men/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button Can you find me another?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:25 PM
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Only one person said that in a recent post. Most of the posts are just men stating they don't take women with high body counts seriously in relationships which is reasonable and fair. If you don't like it deal with it because we are allowed to discuss our standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:48 AM
2

Why is there no lesbian incel groups?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:48 AM
1

So your 100% straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:46 AM
1

Your more than welcome to make a post about a topic you find interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:37 AM
2

I mean we can date who we want and still discuss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:36 AM
1

Your free to your opinion on him but you are wrong about a few things here. He's been wealthy for nearly 10 years now, you can look online for the receipts. In regards to his cars he does own 30 supercars which he has had for multiple years. I highly doubt he's been renting 30+ supercars for multiple years and getting his name engraved on their head rests. At that point you'd just buy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:54 AM
2

I see it on tiktok and insta all the time. Confuses me I think it means average but idek.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:13 AM
1

What does medium ugly mean. This term is so confusing to me. Is there high and low ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:52 PM
2

Are you an attractive woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:25 AM
6

Obama may be left wing by American standards but in any European country he'd be a right leaning neoliberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:58 AM
1

Attractive women are just as unfunny as fat women if not more unfunny wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 04:24 AM
2

Well she said she has a negative bias towards humans but only seems to direct that bias towards the male side of the human species.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:10 AM
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You could be a case study on female solipsism. I'm reading fine your writing is just kind of poor. Also is the thing you said at the end a joke or something. Women are perpetual victims, the idea that women are both empowered and victims is what the whole concept of Schrodinger's feminist is about. Its just another way for you to disregard any genuine complaints men have because of your negative bias. I was right with my earlier observation that you don't seem to consider much at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:38 PM
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The implication in your speech is based on what you said. Your negative bias towards men indicates you show very little emotional intelligence. As if your some authority on what constitutes as "what aboutism". The idea that women can trauma dump is not some irrelevant concept I threw in randomly. Another weird take from you there but we can move on from that. I think your opinion that men lack emotional and social intelligence is dumb. It's not that men are not emotionally intelligent. Is that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:12 PM
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I mean you did say men can't articulate themselves. The phrasing "emotionally void robots" doesn't exactly imply that you think there are emotionally intelligent men. I don't think most of the men who have legitimate complaints about women and the worlds reaction to them opening up is trauma dumping. Your using that as a way to disregard men when they share their negative experiences opening up. Plenty of men have women trauma dump on them. You'd be crazy to even deny that. Id say in general men…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:49 PM
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Yeah well average men and women can't write for shit. I was just refuting your claim that men can't articulate themselves. I'm not stating that because there are great male authors I'm a great male author I'm dyslexic lol. Bit of a weird take from you there. You surely must be aware that there are narcissistic women? Or does that bias towards humans you claim you have only include the male side of the species?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:31 PM
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Men absolutely can articulate themselves. Most of the greatest orators and authors are men. Your views are just a product of an extreme negative bias towards men combined with a delusional level of female solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:59 PM
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You sound like you have a negative bias towards men. Men open up all the time. Men ask for help all the time. The issue is that the response Men recieve is more often than not negative. The idea that all men trauma dump is a way to disregard any legitimate complaint men have in regards to them opening up. It's funny you say I have no emotional intelligence yet your negative bias has left you sounding bitter and jaded. I'd ask you to consider a change in perspective but it seems you don't conside…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:33 PM
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Regardless of your age its sad that a lot of men feel they can't open up in relationships due to the fear of negative repercussions from their parthner. That's not a nice thing to experience young or old.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:22 PM
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I've certainly had negative experiences with women after emotionally opening up and so have many of my male friends. I wasn't trauma dumping and I feel like many people use that as a excuse to disregard any issues men have with people's responses to them opening up. The issue isn't that men trauma dump. The issue is that when men open up people and society react negatively to it. Surely you can have some level of empathy for men in this regard?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:15 PM
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Tbh I don't think men are trauma dumping. People seem to use this as a way to blame men for complaining about the negative experiences they have with women opening up. I've certainly had negative experiences with women opening up and so have many of my friends. I wasn't trauma dumping and it feels people are using that as a excuse to disregard any issues men have with opening up. The issue isn't men don't open up. They open up all the time. The issue is how people and the world react when men op…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:10 PM
4

What are you basing this idea than men confuse emotional vulnerability for trauma dumping from?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:03 PM
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What are you basing this on?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:57 PM
1

Well it's a multifaceted phenomenon but it's one of the major reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:22 AM
0

Reddit is full of sheltered and privledged people incase you didn't notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:20 AM
1

Mainly because men have a shorter lifespan which leaves a lot of widows.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:57 AM
1

Yeah it's only after the age of 50 things start balancing out which I previously stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:04 AM
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It balances out because there's alot of old women who are single because men on average don't live as long. The second largest demographic of single people after men between 18-29 is women aged 65+.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:03 AM
1

Well I'm getting bigger everyday. All I can do is continue training and eat more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 08:41 AM
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5ft 9 and I weight about 125lb's. Also I'm 22 if that's relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:28 AM
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No I'm 100% serious. I've been working on gaining weight and weight training however to deal with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:37 AM
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I am underweight but I've been at 5% bodyfat for years. Very easy for me to maintain naturally. Now that I've started working out I basically have permanent washboard abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:01 AM
1

Everything in the entire world is mens fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:55 AM
3

Yeah Marlon was known for being in really good shape when he was younger. I mean the guy popularised wearing t shirts as outer wear due to his physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:53 AM
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Meanwhile 51% of men between 18-29 are single. In comparison to women in that age range only 32% are single. In fact women don't reach male levels of singleness until the solid age of 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:57 AM
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Well men and women generally have very different dating strategies. Also I'd argue that the society we live in is far more heterogeneous than it is homogeneous. Differences between different groups of people are growing larger.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:38 PM
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Life isn't fair. Men and women are not the same. Men have to deal with a lot of bullshit and double standards from women too. Why is it only a issue for you when it happens to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:25 PM
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Interesting that all the guys in my school who had the balls to flirt were tall, rich, attractive and athletic. Interesting how that works...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:25 PM
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If your bored of it your more than welcome to make your own post about a topic your interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:26 AM
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It's not that women don't experience these issues. It's that women do not experience them to the same extent men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 11:28 PM
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Yes consistent and constant rejection is probably one of the worst things a person can recieve for their mental health. Eventually you will internalise the belief that your not good enough. Because to the tens to hundreds of people that rejected you, you wasn't good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:09 PM
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Sure but consistent rejection will destroy anyone's confidence. You have to be a complete sociopath to consistently get rejected and not feel anything from it. It's boarderline delusional to not be upset from constantly being rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:06 PM
1

Yes ofcourse. The first step to loving a woman is understanding her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:37 AM
3

Mac Miller was pretty exceptional.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:34 AM
5

Nope it's just good to be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:22 AM
4

Must have been a exceptional guy. 5ft 6 and attracting the hottest girls u ever saw anyone attract. Crazy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:37 AM
2

I'm very skeptical but they do say looks are subjective so maybe they're attractive to you personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:24 AM
1

Yes but I think we should be more specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:24 AM
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Not a problem. It's just good to point out whether your attracting attractive women or not if we're gonna start using the height dosnt matter argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:23 AM
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Define don't struggle. Do you date women who would be considered attractive? I find that hard to believe if your not attractive and not interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:13 AM
2

Probably dating below average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:08 AM
0

I'd argue more women watch porn than read erotic literature.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:58 AM
3

Being large isn't accociated with femininity. When men say they want a soft and curvy women they're usually not talking about obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:21 PM
1

I've been called beautiful before. Does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:50 PM
2

That's reassuring.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:39 PM
3

Can women even love?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:38 PM
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Is there any evidence for this or is it just a observation?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:39 PM
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Not going to the doctor is just people being dumb. It has nothing to do with masculinity. There are dumb women who also don't go to the doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:43 AM
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Nah completely disagree. Maybe when I was younger and extremly insecure but now if a woman dosnt make me feel genuinely desired I'm not interested. Can't think of a bigger turn off than someone not being into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:46 AM
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Noone would find Pete Davidson attractive if he was 5ft 5 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:08 PM
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Here's the thing. Rejection is personal. To reject someone is to say they're not good enough for you. You as a human don't meet their standards. I see where op is coming from, I've been there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:37 AM
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These are dumb questions. Op clearly contradicts themselves and ends up sounding hypocritical. She states that she dosnt understand why people blame the opposite gender. Yet also solely focuses on men the entire post. Men only want size 00, men do not take responsibility for their own emotions, a man at work made her lose her job. Maybe op should get off their high horse and realise that her actions are not much different from those men in the manosphere that she wrote this post about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:13 PM
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Yeah in the title she states she dosnt understand why someone would blame a entire gender. Then continues to blame the opposite gender the entire post. Lmao u can't make this shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:33 PM
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Keep in mind the red pill isn't about being like the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:15 AM
2

A lot of feminists push for paid menstrual leave. In Spain they offer 3 days off a month and I've heard of companies in the UK and US also offering paid menstrual leave. Just because you have never seen something does not mean it doesn't exist...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:44 PM
2

Are these women attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:39 PM
0

After second wave feminism the term patriarchy is used to describe male dominance as a social not biological phenomenon. This came from feminist writers like Simone de Beauvoir and Kate Millett. So yes the term patriarchy is a lefty buzzword.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:04 PM
4

Tate pilled with a women as a friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:20 PM
1

Not all neolibs are center right however all neolibs are authoritarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:06 PM
1

Tbf Tom hanks is a weirdo outside of the whole pedophile conspiracy stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:04 PM
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The thing is it's significantly easier for women to meet the looks threshold to attract a large majority of men. It's extremly difficult for men to reach the looks threshold to attract a large majority of women in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:20 AM
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Trust me an attractive woman dosnt have to do much in the bed room to get a man to orgasm. That's just how we are biologically. I understand what your saying though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:18 AM
2

If a woman's hot enough she can also be lousy in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:04 AM
1

Yeah. Men also have alot of value placed on their sexuality though. Despite what people say there is a looks threshold and woman are far picker than men regarding that. Would u agree or nah?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 01:12 AM
0

Could you elaborate. In what ways is it toxic for men and in what ways is it toxic for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:10 AM
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Completely agree with this. Excellent point I didn't think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:09 AM
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Would you not argue that the men who blame women for their lack of dating success online are a very specific type of man? Or do u think this is something all men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:35 PM
8

I've had women get violent with me when I ask them to leave me alone too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:33 PM
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Go to FemaleDatingStrategy, tiktok and twitter. You'll see plenty of women on ragey rampages blaming men for their lack of success in dating. Lets not act like men killing women because of dating issues is common. Its one of the rarest examples and happens with extremely mentally ill individuals. This is literally something 99.99% of of men don't do and so you can't just put that standard on men as if this is a common occurrence. That's pretty disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:22 PM
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And men who lack success in dating often say modern women are a combo of awful traits. I'm struggling to see the distinction here. How is it more sane when a woman does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:08 PM
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Is that not lack of success in dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:55 PM
9

See I define lack of success in dating as not getting what you want out of relationships and dating experiences. If a woman cannot find the type of man she wants; even if she can easily get other options that she's not interested in, then she is not successful in dating. I lived with a 8 women in a single house for 4 years. They could easily get a relationship with most guys but they were not attracted to most guys. The guys they were attracted too were not relationship material often cheating o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:46 PM
22

I definitely see women blame men for their lack of success in dating. The bar is so low, men are trash etc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:32 PM
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I actually respect the honesty. It's far better than the usual gaslighting and virtue signaling you usually see here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:58 AM
1

Nah I wish lol. Girls only started liking me when I got better looking with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:43 AM
1

True story. People used to bully me in school by saying I looked like Mr Bean. Probably didn't help I was the class clown aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:37 AM
2

That's crazy but fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:34 AM
2

So how would one make the distinction between something being impossible and appearing impossible?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:32 AM
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If you believe you can do something that is impossible you are by definition delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:24 AM
4

You cannot dress like a twink femboy and be considered macho. A large part of being macho is a look.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:22 AM
2

You'd fuck Danny devito? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:18 AM
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Lol if the average guy took that advice they would all die alone virgins. Women approach attractive men sure. Average and unattractive men however its not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:39 AM
1

I'm not black pill per say but had a long black pill period of my life. Social anxiety has always been something I've dealt with since I was a young child. These days you would never know. I still feel anxiety around people and social situations but I'm extremely good at masking it. My advice would be that you'll likely never get rid of the anxiety. But if you can control it and deal with it, the anxiety becomes alot less of a inhibition.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/22 02:55 AM
2

Fair enough. It's just rare that women are attracted to people that small. Good for you tho
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:08 AM
2

Finally a honest response atleast.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:08 AM
2

Really? We're u attracted to him or was it a pity fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:06 AM
2

Yeah he's only recently gained his current level of fame. As I said though he's currently more searched for than both of those people. Sure he's not searched more than both of them over span of kim kardashians or Joe bidens careers but that's what I was not referring and I didn't think people would assume that but here we are. The fact he currently had more interest than those two individuals makes the claim that he's not popular outside of ppd ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:34 AM
2

I don't know how many times I have to repeat this. Go on Google trends and compare andrew tate to kim kardashian or Joe biden.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:22 AM
2

Okay but he's currently more searched than the president and Kim Kardashian. So the argument that he's not popular or known outside ppd is a bit absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:59 AM
2

Thanks for the correction. I'm dyslexic so sometimes I word things incorrectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:43 AM
2

Well if you use google trends he currently has more search results than the president. So your point that he isn't popular is mute.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:39 AM
1

Just use google trends and compare Andrew Tate to Joe Biden or Kim Kardashian
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:06 AM
1

I'll save you the effort. https://trends.google.com/trends/explore?geo=GB&q=Andrew%20tate,%2Fm%2F0261x8t,Joe%20biden
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:10 AM
4

He's currently the most searched person on the Internet. More people have searched his name than Kim Kardashian and Joe Biden. Don't believe me look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:35 AM
9

I agree. I've been there. Do women not do the same though?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:52 PM
1

Are the women your dating attractive though?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:17 PM
3

Beta bux men feel exactly the same. It's a cold world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:48 AM
3

I'm extremly lucky. Most men in my position are not. It's not fair for me to say every average guy will be as lucky as me. It's very difficult to get women to understand what it is like to be a average man because they will never experience it first hand themselves. This is due to a philosophical concept called solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:47 AM
2

I have above average facial features and I'm extremly lucky. In every other regard I'm average yes but I'm trying my best to work my way out of poverty and compensate for my poor genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:10 AM
4

As women on this sub have often stated they're not attracted to a large majority of men. I'll try to find that thread where women on this sub said they only find 1-2% of men attractive in their day to day lives when I have more time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:06 AM
7

I'm not antisocial, misogynistic and I'm in a happy relationship. My social life has never been better and I don't believe men are better than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:02 AM
3

Let me rephrase. Above average is not the 10% of men women are attracted too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:58 AM
3

I'm not even blackpilled. But if anyone believes being just about above average is gonna change anything your a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:54 AM
6

Because it is getting smaller. 5% is probably more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:53 AM
5

Above average is not the 10% of men women persue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:08 AM
6

Some of my friends have slept with multiple women who they find objectively unattractive just to bust a nut.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:20 AM
4

Loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:08 AM
2

Secret to obtaining a first class trip to the friendzone maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:45 PM
12

Me. I'm 5ft 9. Average salary. Average genetics physically (although I'm handsome ngl) Not overweight but average for my age bracket. A solid 5/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:41 AM
3

Nah I just thought it was funny when u said breaksup are not gonna kill you because they unironically kill alot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:04 PM
3

Nope but that dosnt make it anymuch less of a reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:18 PM
5

Well maybe men should have the same mindset and not financially invest in women when they're dating several other guys. I don't see a issue with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:14 PM
4

I think his point is to start treating women how they treat men in regards to investment. Which dosnt seem unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:07 PM
5

Idk breakups kill alot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:54 PM
0

The average woman is also mid and trust me no matter what misandry tells you taking the vast majority of pussy depresses quality your life. All guys that engage in casual sex know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:18 PM
6

Even when using the same methods men are more likely to die at a rate of 60%. They are also more likely to me treated under intensive care.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:09 PM
1

What I don't get about this argument is can you not imagine how much harder it is for men to get good options when they have way less options than women. Like sure out of all your options finding the right one is hard. But imagine trying to find the right one with barely any options at all like men have to. Dosnt make sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:03 PM
1

Ohh in that case try to find one of those middle aged single working professional women. U usually have to match them in terms of income however... Edit: Kim Wexler from better call saul came to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:26 PM
-1

Sure but the kids are not your problem. You still maintain your kid free lifestyle fucking single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:22 PM
3

Mainly women. Grew up with a single mother and two sisters. Had mainly women teachers. Lived in a apartment with 7 different women for a few years. Work with alot of women. All my close friends are male though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:55 PM
5

They won't be your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:41 PM
1

Genuine question. Who here finds her attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:23 PM
4

Should've told her not to flatter herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:21 PM
-1

So unattractive female friends only? How do they positively add too my life in any way?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:20 PM
0

Hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:17 PM
2

Ugly rich asshole works fine though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:33 AM
1

Masculine 100%. I do want to experience what it's like to be wine and dined tho. I want to be sitting at the dinner table having her try to charm me and pay for my dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:44 AM
4

Do you acc think the people here are gonna say yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:09 PM
5

I'm not banking on a one in a million chance. If we're judging women on that metric then every women in my life is a piece of shit. Your words not mine. Plus I really like my girlfriend now and would rather not ruin the relationship opening up about trauma and my childhood. I pay ridiculous amounts of money for my therapist for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:29 PM
15

Nah I'd rather keep all my mental health problems to myself thanks. It's much better than it being used against you and her thinking less of you. I know people on this sub will disagree but a large portion of women really don't care about your mental health as a man. Sure not all women but enough for me to never open up again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:07 PM
10

It was abit shit yeah. She cites common redpill studies but provides no evidence debunking them. Even her critical analysis is shallow at best. Watch it yourself tho and formulate your own opinion on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:48 PM
10

Maybe. I think a calling the video a leftist analyses on the red pill is more accurate than the title 'I debunked the entire manosphere.' Even if you agree with her I don't think she 'debunked' any red pill theory in that video.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:51 PM
24

I just watched this video. It's interesting all these 'debunking' videos i see on youtube never debunk anything. A 2 hour video of someone saying they disagree with the red pill doesn't debunk anything. Inorder to debunk something you have to provide evidence that something is false or inccorect which this video doesn't provide at all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:33 PM
14

Out of all the examples you could use for confidence you use the 6ft 4 multi millionaire 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 10:07 AM
7

An anti simp movement would be amazing for men. Unfortunately any attempts would automatically be called sexist and misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:47 PM
2

If your genuinely handsome being bald isn't a issue. Sorry to break it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:42 PM
11

They don't have time for you because they take a hour out of their day to go to the gym? Are you a toddler?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:03 AM
2

Absolutely agree but it will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:26 PM
2

A minority of men engage in a majority of the casual sex. Average men are not having casual sex. To put it simply a minority of men are fucking the majority of women at least in regards to casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:20 AM
4

Your making a lot of assumptions about my views here. Being fucked by alot of men and having a high body count isn't really a flex. Dick is cheap and women know it. It's why whenever two women are fighting they always refer to the other as a slut. For men obtaining sex is difficult which is why the ability to attract women as a man is viewed differently. I never said I'm better than you or that I'm perfect. I literally say I'm a average guy because I am lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:47 AM
-1

Just because I disagree with you doesn't make me a incel. I'm in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:19 AM
1

Yeah it's as simple as if it doesn't effect them they don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:38 AM
4

A theory isn't a assumption
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:35 AM
-1

Doesn't matter having sex for women is easy. Having sex as a man is hard. This is why you getting casually fucked isn't a flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:33 AM
3

Sex workers don't fix low self esteem. Also most men believe it or not want to have sex with someone who finds them attractive. Men are humans too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:14 AM
0

Getting pump and dumped as a woman isn't the flex you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:50 AM
5

That's because you give bad advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:32 PM
2

Why are you not a feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:30 PM
3

Ideally choose the right man and stay pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:39 AM
8

People watch mad men and think every marriage is like Don and Betty's. I've had people who say women are historically oppressed use mad men as a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:37 AM
8

Yeah unfortunately inorder for you to be successful with women you have to find a way to compensate for your height. Be that success, money, clout. Good luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:55 PM
7

Your 4ft 2?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:46 PM
3

Yeah well accountability is a foreign concept to alot of women. Enjoy your echo chamber discussions where noone disagrees with your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:37 PM
7

The average guy isn't rejecting women. They're being rejected by women. Above average men often reject relationships from women who want commitment but they're outliers. If we break down the issue however it's that average women are not attracted to average men. This is because of hypergamy and an increase in women's standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:28 PM
8

Most men already have extremly low standards. You kind off missed the entire point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:18 PM
2

Let your son decide for himself. Idk why you want to cut off the tip of his dick without consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:02 AM
7

You say that but I've had multiple girls say I'm too short and I'm 5ft 9. Even overheard a girl say to her friend that they'd date me if I was taller. Not saying everyone cares about height but to say it only matters on online dating is abit disgenuious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:02 PM
0

Okay women are objectively attractive to other humans. I doubt you would want a orangutan to find you attractive anyway. Also don't take the downvotes personally, people downvote everything on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:17 PM
5

Good thing you guys don't look like dog turd. You guys look objectively good. Even straight women agree that other women look good. Also women can do the exact same shit men can. You can still do extreme sports, combat sports, weightlifting, marathon running. Sure your not as fast or as strong as men but you can still do it and be competitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:41 AM
15

"Even when the same method of suicide is used by men and women, attempts by men tend to be more serious and severe (60% more severe, at least statistically speaking)." https://www.verywellmind.com/gender-differences-in-suicide-methods-1067508
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:34 AM
11

Womens bodies look good though. Us men look so bad most women would rather die single than be with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:38 AM
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Even when using the same suicide methods men die at a higher rate of about 60% and are more likely to be hospitilised under intensive care.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:25 AM
4

To succeed as a average man you need some kind of redeeming qualities. Due to being average I have to work twice as hard to make up for it. The reality is most average guys are not gonna do that. But my mentality is that life is gonna be shit for you either way so you might aswell try to make up for your deficiencys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:06 PM
11

Yeah so many men are horny beasts but can't get their dick up during sex because of the anxiety and pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:29 AM
1

She edited her comment and said that after. Originally she said "She's not attracted to most men."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:12 AM
0

Me saying "There have been women on this sub" does not mean all women on this sub. English comprehension isn't your strong suit it seems. I gave u a example. Nah I have a gorgeous girlfriend who finds me very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:42 PM
1

If you find your husband attractive I'm not talking about you. Also in my comment I said boyfriend/husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:28 PM
0

It's difficult to find individual comments but I've heard it on here alot. Here was a thread about it a few months ago. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/t5te1l/the_way_some_women_here_on_ppd_describes_their_so/ Also to quote someone from this thread. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ubowrm/have_you_even_had_a_hookuprelationship_with_a_man/ "Yes, more than one boyfriend was ugly. Even I found them unattractive, but I was told that caring about looks was shallow…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:07 PM
1

So maybe you have extremely niche or high standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:45 PM
3

Nah that's not always true. There have been women on this sub even admitting they're not that attracted to their boyfriend/husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:43 PM
0

There's a difference between getting a boner and finding someone attractive. If its so rare for you to find a man attractive that it only happens once a year you might have to consider that your not that attracted to men. If after that you conclude you are attracted to men then you may have to consider that you have a low libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:40 PM
0

Maybe your lesbian? Or have a low libidio?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:25 PM
3

Bro run while you have the chance. Brazilian women will break your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:55 PM
4

It's funny. People talk about these mythical short bald men with super hot girlfriends but I've never seen that in my life. I live in a large multicultural metropolitan city. The only short bald guys I see with attractive women are extremly rich and I mainly see them on tlc gold digger shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:45 PM
8

Cop out answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:25 PM
14

If we're talking about western countries men are far less safer walking down the street. Robbery, assault and murder rates are all higher for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:13 PM
-1

I'm only rude to idiots and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:14 AM
7

Relationship over because of a guy on reddit 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:13 AM
3

You don't have to subscribe to it but atleast understand it if your gonna make posts about its concepts. Noone in the red pill says that the average man is going to age well into their 30's. And when people assume this they misunderstand the entire argument. The goal is to be better than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:58 AM
22

All the girls I used to live with had sugar daddy's and were getting dm's 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:59 PM
7

Interesting perspective. Here's my thing tho. Surely you yourself also hold other lesbian women to a higher standard making it more difficult for yourself in the process. Straight men in general tend to have far lower standards and requirements for women. Yet they still struggle with dating. Especially young men who have the highest rate of singleness out of any other age demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:28 AM
8

So is it fair to say as a lesbian woman you believe that you are held up to the same or even a higher standard than straight men? And therefore the masculine burden of performance in dating is not just something straight men experience but also lesbian women. Which means for lesbian women it is additionally harder to maintain that standard and perform to the same extent making committment and relationships a struggle. However despite this picking up and hooking up with women is easier for you. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:12 AM
15

I've always heard that picking up girls as a lesbian is easier because girl game and guy game are different. Women have less requirements for other women in comparison to the requirements they have for men. Meaning that for men we still need to have status, height, money, social skills, looks. Where as for women you just have to be pleasant and attractive. Women are also less on edge when being approached by another woman and they often see it as flattery. I could be wrong since I'm not a lesbia…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:53 AM
2

Very good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 11:12 PM
1

Women find me attractive but that's because I'm above average in looks. I'm currently dating a fashion model who calls me gorgeous everyday. Good luck keeping a genuine man with your stank attitude. Judging by your bitterness however I doubt u have many good options in regards to men to begin with. 🤣 Edit: Just realised your a man. Damn I'd hate to be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 11:01 PM
4

Women tend to rate average men below average though. That's what the data from dating apps states. Also the women in this sub all rated the men who were definitely average below average on the picture thread. I also see all the time women stating that they love their husband but they are not attracted to them. But yeah, I'm not saying this to win a argument or make my points seem more valid. But genuinely hand on heart I never see average guys with attractive women in my day to day life. And I l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:37 PM
2

I literally never see that apart from ultra rich old guys and gold diggers. Where are all these average guys hot women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:48 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:07 PM
12

See. Your response is the exact rhetoric I'm talking about. No men are not to blame for every single issue in the world. If you genuinely believe that see a therapist. And in the mean time maybe consider than men are humans. Also please don't spout that awful energy towards your sons if you have any. Women don't trust men because they're more prone to mass hysteria and media manipulation. This is not a sexist statement there are studies that support this. The average man is not a murdering rapis…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:39 PM
9

Nope. Nothing I said there justifies misogyny. My argument is that society has a positive bias towards women and a negative bias towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:31 PM
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People don't just outright say it. Like are you expecting them to link you a study that states women are better than men or something. 🤣 Society does have a positive bias towards women and a negative bias towards men. Rhetoric like men are the root to all evil. That they're responsible for rape, murder, oppression, misogyny. The constant talk about men being privileged and benefiting from a patriarchal society. The life of an average man is awful. But because of your in-group bias you don't care…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:24 PM
5

Idk the argument they're making with the URL's is quite clear. Your response however dosnt add a thing to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 03:09 PM
1

Don't worry. Keep up the heavy eating and you'll see them soon. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:30 AM
1

I love this movie so much. Its so multilayered and covers so many themes that remain relevant to current society. Let me know what u think. I love discussing the portrayal of interpersonal gender dynamics in media.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:30 AM
1

I understand that people can develop unhealthy habits with food. Be that undereating or overeating. But we can all agree at some point personal responsibility it important. The weight (pun intended) that obese people put on the healthcare system is immense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:19 AM
1

Same tbh. My skinny ass can't gain weight for shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:01 AM
1

Are you fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:55 PM
1

What I said is not rocket science. I've rejected girls who I am not attracted to and thought I can do better than. Ive had girls reject me because they're not attracted to me and thought they could do better than me. Why so pedantic?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:08 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/3zz1ft/why_do_people_say_the_friendzone_doesnt_exist/ https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopinion/comments/dk9cqu/the_friendzone_doesnt_exist/ https://www.reddit.com/r/rant/comments/jm3b1y/the_friendzone_doesnt_exist/ https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopinion/comments/qejvtn/the_friendzone_doesnt_exist/ https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopinion/comments/9xdo5a/the_friend_zone_doesnt_exist_if_you_value_having https://www.reddit.com/r/TrollXChromosomes/comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:48 AM
0

The thing is rejection is usually based of the idea that you can do better than the person who asked you out. Rejection usually occurs when your not attracted to the person asking you out. You don't find them as a person attractive. This is inheriently personal as it shows you do not meet the standards of the person your asking out. So in many ways it is as simple as 'better or worse'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:15 AM
17

Nah you see it alot especially on reddit. These women usually say the friendzone dosnt exist and instead they've been put in the fuck zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:07 AM
0

Yeah things like looks and money are the bare minimum. Once you've obtained these your allowed to enter the race. But just because you've entered the race does not mean your going to win the race. All it means is that you have achieved the bare minimun to qualify.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 11:48 PM
1

He probably had other things to make up for him being plain looking. But confidence on its own isn't the magical cure to dating like people make it out to be. Usually you have to like the way someone looks to be attracted to them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:13 PM
8

No amount of confidence will make you physically attractive to someone who dosnt see you that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:02 PM
3

All my relationships end well. For me atleast :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:28 AM
3

Imagine a man with Patrick Batemans morning routine but with Tyler Durdens personality. That's a sigma male.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:44 AM
9

Young men have always been exploited by society. It's a story as old as time. We need to teach our sons to develop self respect. The realisation that you as a individual are more than you provide. Unfortunately I don't see this ever happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:38 AM
9

Only in certain urban areas. Not in total.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 12:42 AM
0

Nah this is more so sex bonding than demisexuality. This is also supported by scientific literature known as chemical bonding where bonding hormones are released during the act of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:13 PM
1

Read the report. The reason the number of singles balances out between the genders over a total lifespan is because the second largest demographic of single people is women age 65+. This is because women live longer than men which in turn means that there's significantly more widows than widowers. Elderly men are also more likely to remarry than elderly women which also contributes towards this. This is all sociology 101. As I said before between the age of 18-49 more men are single than women b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:09 PM
1

Men between the age of 18-29 are the highest demographic of single people in the US. Between thr age of 18-49 Men are single at signficantly higher rates than women. Women only reach male levels of singleness from age 50 onwards. Also amongst the demographics for single people, more single men wanted a relationship than didn't. However less single women wanted a relationship than did. This is all pewresearch report.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:48 PM
4

I actually agree with you but I'm curious why you think so?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:04 PM
3

Yeah it does. So does mewing. Literally saved me from needing jaw surgery for a severe underbite I had as a teenager. Let's not get into that right now though because people think it's pseudoscience and there's not alot of documented evidence to support it so it's hard to agrue outside of anecdotal claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:18 PM
1

To quote from the research "Majorities of singles in the 18-to-29 and 30-to-49 age groups are interested in a relationship or dates, but that’s not the case for their older counterparts" So no young people are infact more interested in both dating and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:15 PM
13

Possibly. It's also possible you have survivors bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:03 AM
2

I don't really think your really aware of what the red pill is. Red pillers quote those pewresearch stats all the time because it shows that men between the age of 18-40 are single at much higher rates than women. It also confirms that more single women are not looking for relationships while more single men are looking for relationships. This shows that the women in this age range who are single, are single out of choice. While the men in this age range are single out of lack of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:50 AM
1

Most young men are not in relationships. 51% in comparison to 32% of women in the same age range. Women only reach male levels of singleness after the age of 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:46 AM
37

Some people find dating easy. These people assume that because it's easy for them it's easy for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:30 AM
4

This is such a poor defeatist mindset. I'm genuinely curious other than self deletion what is a better alternative for lonely men if not self improvement?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:30 PM
2

There is no source material the person your responding too is talking out their ass and has a poor ideological understanding of human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:22 PM
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Yeah I know what study your referring too. It's dated and I'd take that study with a hint of salt since there was a clear sample bias as all the women that participated in the study were found on dating apps and craigslist. Also the study dosnt look into any biological mechanisms or hormonal changes, it simply observed that there was a small number of older women who engaged in more casual sex than they did in their 20's. Realistically the general consensus is that for the average woman your sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:51 PM
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That entire paragraph was a cluttered mess. Being a woman does not give you absolute authority on endocrinology. Like idk if your aware but women can have incorrect opinions about biology. I mean your a perfect example since you seemed to believe a decrease in libido as you age wasn't hormonal which I still find kinda funny. Do you not feel embarrassed using the term mansplain unironically?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:27 AM
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Oestrogen, testosterone, progesterone, oestradiol. All these hormones have huge effects on women's libidos. For you personally fuck knows what hormonal deficiencies you experienced ask your doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:00 AM
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It is from hormones. A low sex drive means that the person has a lower level of sex hormones. Menopause is a factor that contributes towards this yes. For most women their sex drive in their mid 30's is not the same as when they were teens. Nothing I said is a example of a poor understanding of woman's biology. You saying a decrease in sex drive is not from hormones alone shows me how little you understand biology. What a weird thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 03:43 AM
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Not really weird that's pretty normal. As woman age and have children their sex drive decreases. This is understood biologically as hormonal. You saying your not as horny as your teenage self is not weird at all. It's scientific just like op's claim that men have higher sex drives overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 02:33 AM
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If most women you dated have a higher libidio than you, you are by definition a low libido man. Therefore as a low libido man you cannot generalise your sex drive for how the majority of people operate. Men on average have higher sex drives than women. This is a biological fact and to deny this limits genuine discussion on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 02:28 AM
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These people don't care about genuine discussion. If we can't agree with basic scientific facts like men naturally have higher libidios then what's even the point. It just limits any actual discussion we can have on the subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 02:25 AM
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Women don't have a slightly lower sex drive. They have a significantly lower sex drive. The consumption of romance movies and romance novels worldwide is dwarfed in comparison to the consumption of porn worldwide. Men are the primary consumers of porn by a significant margin. This is biological and due to the role of testosterone plays in the body. Denying this fact does more harm to the conversation than good. It limits discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 02:22 AM
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They're just low libido men. Which if fine but your woman having a lower sex drive than you isn't normal. The role of testosterone alone guarantees that the people with the highest libidios on earth are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 02:10 AM
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On dating apps where most people are looking to hook up many men don't care if the woman they're having sex with is married. I mean why would they, it's her issue and personal choice - marriage is just a piece of paper to many. Personally I wouldn't deal with married women just because of the issues that come with them. I don't want some husband blowing up my phone cos I fucked his wife a week earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:05 PM
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It's must be so hard having so many choices to choose from. Damn women can't catch a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 02:50 AM
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Lmao Kim Kardashian? I can't take people on this sub seriously anymore. Kim Kardashian is a outlier in nearly every aspect of her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:16 AM
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Exactly. Imagine how hard it is to find a good partner with lots of option. Now imagine how hard it is to find a good partner with barely any options. How is this even a debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:24 AM
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Have u got any sources for gender dynamics in the USSR? I've studied the ussr and never heard of this but it sounds interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:25 AM
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Same but with a fat blunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:12 PM
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You think if I could easily get dates I'd be complaining about chad getting dates? Lol that's funny
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:09 PM
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I like pussy and I'm sexually attracted to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:48 PM
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Confidence won't make you attractive if they don't find you physically attractive in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:27 AM
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It's because if your not chad or brad your invisible to most women so they don't even acknowledge them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:25 AM
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Yeah I get you. I do believe libido and standards go hand in hand to a degree tho. Maybe not completely but the two are not entirely exclusive from each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:08 AM
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Maybe but I find alot of women physically attractive. Which means if given the opportunity I'd fuck most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:45 AM
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Incentives other than sex? Probably also insecurity and my love for personal freedom. I ofcourse want to prove wrong anyone who ever doubted me and have more control over my life. But imma be honest it's mainly sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:25 AM
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Oh I've been there I understand. But nothings better than getting a itch scratched.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:10 AM
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Yeah probably. It's hard for me to imagine since my libido is one of the major motivating factors of my life. Its the reason why I want to make money, look attractive and be successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:09 AM
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You shouldnt feel bad if that's how you are. I just can't relate personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:26 AM
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My sex life brings me alot of fulfillment and I enjoy being attracted to a diverse range of individuals. I'd hate to have such a low libido that I'm not attracted to anyone. It's like only liking vanilla icecream when there's so many more amazing flavours available.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:24 AM
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I can't imagine a life rarely feeling attracted to people. Sounds awful personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:08 AM
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This is so alien to me because I'm physically attracted to most women in my age range I meet. I can't imagine being attracted to only 3 people in your entire life. Idk if life would be better or worse like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:05 AM
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Idk man alot of women are genuinely bad people. Sure not all but alot are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:06 AM
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Nah by self improvement I meant they need to hit the gym and make money. Your right though facially they are not awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:16 PM
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Nah the most interesting people I have met in my life are usually men. I didn't realise it was your post lol. If I send u a picture of me would u do a anonymous rating of me in private. I'm curious what you'd rate me in comparison to the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:01 PM
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Women in the first thread were all arguing that women are wonderful if you look at the comments which goes back to my point. Women in this subreddit admit all the time they only find a small fraction of men attractive. Usually below 5% of men and for some even below 1% of men. They also say ridiculous things like men start all the wars so they should be drafted and most men have poor personalities and are creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:50 PM
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Here's a recent thread and then another thread a few months old. They should show u what I mean. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/tfpy1u/women_really_are_wonderful_men_benefit_more_from/ https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/rugya9/women_on_reddit_women_do_not_think_80_of_men_are/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:27 PM
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I completely disagree with you here. I just want to emphasis above average does not mean model tier. It means more attractive than the average person. Which all of those men are capable of becoming without cosmetic surgery. If these men hit the gym, make good money and develop a interest in fashion they're all capable. Whether of not they will however is another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:24 PM
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If you are a 1/10 you are physically deformed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:14 PM
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Well the idea is if they engage in self improvement they're all capable of being above average themselves. I'd say the same about the women in the rating thread too but I'm sure none of them have issues attracting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:12 PM
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No because there are many men who are genuinely ugly beyond repair. I was specifically talking about the men in that thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:45 AM
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No it's not easy at all. Self improvement is extremly difficult. But it is possible for all the men in that thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:33 AM
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All the men in the rating thread are capable of getting above average pussy if they persue self improvement. I don't wanna hear excuses from any of y'all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:15 AM
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Not really. I think the red pill could benefit alot of these men. I don't see many women on this subreddit saying that. They usually say stuff like most men are unattractive awful humans and women are wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:01 AM
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The men on the rating thread are all capable of getting above average pussy if they engage in self improvement. None of them were objectively ugly beyond repair. I'm actually very surprised by this. Some of them however really need to work on their fashion sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 09:31 AM
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Your very attractive bro ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:57 AM
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Well that's nice. Nice to know that women go on dates with me because they're scared of me and see free food as a side perk. Also what you described is far from the safest route. Seems like a excuse to reject personal accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:10 PM
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I'd argue most women in general are not sexually skilled. It is a known fact that models are shit at sex though. However I'm sure there are plenty of attractive porn stars who are great at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:59 PM
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Yeah I'm sure the guy you just used for free food feels great about that. But hey you cant take self accountability because your trying to be safe. Pro tip: if you don't feel safe around a guy how about don't go out of your way to go on a date with him so you can use him for free food.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:56 PM
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If you don't feel safe with them when they asked you out on a date. Going on a date with them isn't going to make you safe. Your literally going out of your way to meet up with them again. Wheres the logic here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:48 PM
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Nah it was literally twisted back on men. Other wise the odd anecdote was completely irrelevant. This is not a feelings over logic thing. The language used clearly twists it back on men. Your tone here makes it seem like your the one in your feelings lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:22 PM
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The anecdote at the end gives of the impression that men are the ones encouraging women to use other men for free food. Other wise I don't really know why they brought it up in the first place. Its a pretty common consensus amongst men that we don't see women using men for food as something morally acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:51 AM
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Why do women on this sub always twist these things back on men. Just because your guy friends said that dosnt mean that the reason certain women use men for food is because of encouragement from men. I had 6 female roommates for years and they were always the ones encouraging eachother to do this behaviour. Me and my male friends would always say its messed up to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:23 AM
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This dosnt add up though because the majority of single people are men not women. Between the age bracket of 18-29, 51% of men are single in comparison to 32% of women. Between the age group of 30-49, 27% of men are single in comparison to 19% of women. That's means that 81% of women in that age bracket are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:11 AM
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Yeah definitely. I've noticed alot of people on this subreddit have a poor understanding of what the different pills actually mean often confusing black pill rhetoric for the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 12:17 PM
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Well they both say women care about looks. The red pill says you can improve your appearance by going to the gym and looksmaxing. The black pill says that self improvement only goes so far. Things like height and bone structure can't be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:39 AM
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I don't disagree. Noone under 25 should get married. Male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:24 PM
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Yeah definitely, these factors help explain the data. Its one of the reasons red pill men say a mans prime is later in life than a woman's. This also explains the whole alpha fucks beta bucks issue brought up alot. The single men that women are unwilling to date in their 20's eventually become the men they marry in their 30's and 40's.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 07:53 PM
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Yeah exactly women are not attracted to men the same way men are to women. So as a result men are willing to date more women. Women make up for the majority of single people not looking for a relationship. 61% of single men are looking for a relationship. 62% of single women are not looking for a relationship. An explanation for this is that a large percentage of single women are older whereas a larger percentage of single men are younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 07:00 PM
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Most women don't find the average guy attractive. Even women on this subreddit say they don't find the majority of men attractive not that I blame them. I will say this though, the reason you see so many young men complaining about women not wanting to date them on reddit is because its a real phenomenon. 51% of men between age 18-29 are single, that's quite a substantial amount. Source:https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/ I'm curious what you think…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:36 PM
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Well 51% of men between age 18-29 are single. In comparison only 32% of women in that age bracket are single. 27% of men aged 30-49 are single. Where as only 19% of women in that age bracket are single. Women as a population don't reach male levels of singleness until they hit their 50's.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:27 PM
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Most men feel like that too tbh Just without the additional external validation from the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:38 PM
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Yeah ofcourse I do. I'm not a hermit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:25 PM
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Women on reddit say this but it never happens in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:18 PM
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A confident and funny ugly guy is still a ugly guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:29 PM
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Too many to count but I can give you a list of what comes to mind. For some it was access to drugs, access to parties, access to my more clouted up friends. For others I was being used as a personal therapist. Their issues were 100% the priority and whenever on the rare occasion I wanted to talk about myself I'd be ignored. Then some used me for utility reasons such as helping them with uni work, helping them move homes, helping them repair a wall they trashed inside of their rented apartment. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:13 PM
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What you describe is 100% a real phenomenon and I have been guilty of that in the past. Especially with girls I've had feelings for. The intentions are not as malicious as the guy using favours to guilt trip you, but more so they genuinely like you and don't know how to communicate it to you effectively. However what I described in my original post isn't this. I've legit had women in my life who I thought were friends only keep me around because they knew they could always get favours from me. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:45 PM
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Raised in a household of women. Two sisters and a single mother. Had female friends my entire life. Lived with 6 females for over 2 years at university. Still got used and exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:23 PM
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At this point in my life probably not. In the future, possibly however I'd have to be extremly firm with the boundaries I set.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:06 PM
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Every friendship I had with a woman ultimatly ended up with them using me for something. As soon as the puppy dog eyes come out you know they want a favour or two. And I was a fool enough to let them treat me like that. I think when your lonely for so long you often let people mistreat you due to the fear of losing them. Advice to my fellow average men - Only be friends with her if its a genuine friendship on both sides. If the energy isn't reciprocated, move on. Your not her boyfriend or person…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:59 AM
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Very good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:16 AM
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It's not 7% of the population its 31% of the entire adult population that is single. Part of that percentage is made up of men between the age of 18-29. It dosnt mean 51% of the 31% single population are males between 18-29. It means that 51% men aged 18-29 are single. I hope I explained that properly. Here's my source: https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:19 PM
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No it literally means that 51% of men in the United States between ages 18 -29 are single. So I'm not wrong. I also want to add that for women between ages 30-49 the rate of being single is 19% by contrast 27% for men. It seems based of these stats women only reach male levels on singleness from ages 50 onwards. That's crazy I didn't know these statistics existed so thank you for telling me about these.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:07 PM
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So according to the statistics you cited men between age 18-29 are more likely to be single than any other demographic at a rate of 51%. Personally I think this is why alot of men online make these claims that women don't find the majority of men attractive. The only other demographic that is even close to this in is women aged 65+ at a rate of 49%. However this is due to the average male life expectancy being lower and women making up a larger percentage those who have been widowed. Edit: Just …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:54 PM
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Why do you think alot of men make the claim that women don't find the majority of men attractive? Most average guys never recieve any attention from women including average women. The idea of being seen as desirable by women to the average man can feel like a alien concept. Not that men are entitled to attention from women. But I think alot of women fail to realise why men make these claims in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:26 PM
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I'd like to believe that but as a man I find it hard to believe. The 80/20 rule dosnt help but also when asked on reddit the common response from women is they don't find the majority of men attractive. Alongside this it's clear that men have alot harder times believing that women can be attracted to them. The entire incel and bl*ckpill movement for example is a group of men that hold the shared believe that its impossible for a woman to be attracted to them. But then again I'm not a woman so it…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:15 PM
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That's understandable, women are individuals and ofcourse have their own personal preference that can differ from eachother. That being said however it does seem clear that men as a whole find a wider range of women attractive. Women are alot more picky. Would you atleast agree to this? Or would you say men are more picky?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:10 PM
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So would you say on average women are attracted to the majority of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:02 PM
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So you don't think women only find 20% of men attractive? That's weird because even women in this sub admit they don't find the majority of men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:50 PM
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Sexism towards women is actually just generalizations about women that have some truth to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:17 PM
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I don't really get your point here tbh. So because shitty men rape women, all forms of sexism against men by women can just be dismissed too 'pointing out how shitty men can be towards women'. Lol please spare me with this bullshit. I havnt even had my morning coffee yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:04 AM
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I've had alot of woman grope me and smack my ass in my life believe it or not. Cat called by drunk women in front of my family. I'm not really crying about it though. That reminds me of when I was in university my old flatmate who I rejected numerous times gave me a lap dance while I was passed out drunk on the sofa infront of a group of people. She did alot of other borderline rapey things to me but I'm not gonna go completely into that right now. You and me both know women do plenty of shitty …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:26 AM
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Alot of 'male' sexism is just pointing out how obviously shitty women can be towards men in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:16 AM
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Haha since you word it like that it would be a honor. The genetic lines gotta end at some point. Might aswell be with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:10 PM
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Being in a relationship with someone your not attracted to sounds like the most saddest pathetic thing you can do. I'd rather die alone thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:20 PM
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I love bragging about getting bitches. For a guy like me they're hard to come by. Ofcourse imma brag about it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:05 PM
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It's a hard life when women want to fuck you and men want to be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:36 PM
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Any woman above a 4 isn't attainable for the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:35 PM
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For average guys wait until your 30+ then find a post wall single mother that will settle for you. For average girls just wait until your 30+ then find a loser average beta to financially support you and your kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:10 PM
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I'm sure the thousands of lonely shy men on reddit disagree with you in that one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:45 PM
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Shallow sex is better than no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:44 AM
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Women have better support networks and can get sex whenever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:04 AM
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It's not fair for me to answer and for you to avoid the question. How many men have you been with? If your libido is higher than the men your with I'm sorry to break it to you but they're just low libido men. Biologically men have a higher capability for more intense sexual desires. There's a gender gap in sex drive, men have higher libidos. This is a fact, not a opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:53 AM
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I've had 3 relationships and sex with a diverse range of women from different cultures and backgrounds. I live in a multicultural city so there's alot of variety. How many men have you been with?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:36 AM
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Sure physical or mental health conditions can cause a man to have low libido. A high libido woman will be hornier than a low libido man. But a high libido man will always be hornier than a high libido woman. The reason having too much testosterone can cause low libidos in men is due to the process of the body converting the excess testosterone into estogren. That's literally the reason. It also causes these men to grow breasts and for their balls to shrivel up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:01 AM
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Testosterone is the main reason men have higher libidos. The reason having too much testosterone leads to the opposite effect is because the body turns excess testosterone into estrogen. Uno estrogen, the hormone that women primarily have higher levels off. Edit: Typos
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:40 AM
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I'm a average guy but I've been fortunate enough to be with enough above average women. I consider myself very lucky in that regard and a outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:48 AM
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Low libido men are a minority. They're not representative of the average male population. A normal libido man will always have a higher sex drive than a normal libido woman. Edit: If you take offense at being called a low libido man that's YOUR problem. Ask your doctor about testosterone replacement therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:46 AM
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You are aware that you have nowhere near the same testosterone levels as a high libido man. If these men truly had high libido's you would not be the one with the higher sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:41 AM
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As a self confessed low libido man I don't think you should be using your personal experience to make the claim that women are anywhere near as horny as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:30 AM
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Those men either had low libidos or simply did not find you that attractive. The idea that a high libido woman has a higher sex drive than a high libido man is a fallacy. A hilarious one at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:08 AM
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Female hypergamy 100% exists your not wrong. However just because women are only interested in men they consider higher value does not mean the woman is unattractive. It also dosnt mean that the man dosnt find her attractive. Guys who are not 'chad' may not be having sex with supermodels but they still find their ugly ass partners attractive enough to get their dick hard. Edit: Also I did not discount that low libido men exist. I'm stating that if a man claims that the women he has sex with are …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:01 AM
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Men who state that the women they have sex with are hornier than them either have low libidos or are having sex with unattractive women. Testosterone basically guarantees that as a man your gonna have a higher sex drive than your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:32 AM
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Your analyses of the red pill is awful. The majority of red pill men got burned by women. They likely got divorced, cheated on, used and were in loveless relationships. Here's my question. Why do fds women always get the benefit of the doubt while red pilled men are vilified as incels? Are people on this sub even aware of the differences between the red pill and inceldom? The majority of incels fundamentally disagree with a significant portion of the red pill ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:15 AM
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I've said this before but there are plenty of men who get laid that hate themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:59 PM
2

If the women you meet are hornier than you, you must have a very low libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:43 PM
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The consumption of erotic novels by women is not even close to the consumption of porn by men. This is a trash comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:39 PM
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Excellent example.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:54 PM
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My imagination > porn
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:50 AM
0

That's sad. I recommend having sex with someone your attracted too next time. You might actually get some enjoyment out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:34 PM
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Yes I understand. You don't feel visceral attraction towards a man until after you fuck them. Why would you even fuck them in the first place if your not attracted to them? That's what I'm trying to understand. As I said I assume your not getting paid for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:28 PM
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I think the issue is for some people everyone dosnt like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:01 PM
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Why would you even have sex with then if your not attracted to them? Like how do you even get to that point, I assume they are not paying you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:52 PM
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Well for me personally the thought of having sex with someone I'm not attracted to is disgusting. If I'm gonna have sex with someone the bare minimum requirement is for me to be attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:38 PM
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That's kinda sad. Idk why you'd want to have casual sex with people your not attracted too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:32 PM
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Women live objectively easier lives than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:02 AM
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Rejecting someone boosts confidence. Being rejected kills confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:41 PM
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Nah not at all. I don't think it's really fair to label men with standards as insecure. It's just shaming language because for some reason there's a narrative that men cant have preferences. Tbh your not really adding anything to the discussion yourself apart from pedantic nitpicking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:30 PM
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Meh, I don't think shaming men for having preferences leads to healthy discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:28 AM
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U can call them insecure if you want but they're still allowed to have preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:37 AM
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There's nothing wrong with a woman being a hoe. Women should have sex with who ever they want. Just don't feel entitled to men who'd rather not wife the village bicycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:13 AM
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Not very blue pilled of you lmao. I do agree with you tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:19 PM
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Outside of pregnancy and miscarriage nothing you said here is exclusive to females. Making bad decisions as a young women can negatively effect you life sure. 70% of homeless people are men, do you not think they also made bad decisions when they were young?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:58 PM
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In what way do western women have less freedom and more risk than men? It's a known fact that men are more likely to be victims of violent crime. And I'm not aware of any laws in the west that allow men access to a freedom that women do not have apart from being shirtless in public. Of course women outside of the west have horrible lives but so do men. I'd argue women genuinely have potentially harder lives in Islamic nations, however if we're talking on a global scale men have objectively harde…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:33 PM
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How is liberal here defined. Liberal is such a vague term that loosely means free market economic policies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:57 AM
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So in theory youd date a 5ft 1 man?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:53 AM
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I'd argue the only thing limiting women's opportunities in the west is personal choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:45 AM
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Women having it harder in life is a ridiculous statement. Men objectively live harder lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:38 AM
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Actually if you go back thousands of years the people who run the world were not white. Africa had many empires as did Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:36 AM
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Thank you for admitting that in many respects men have harder lives. Ofcourse women can have hard lives, but lets be honest here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:33 AM
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Even old women who were 20 years out of their prime got on the lifeboats of the titanic before the men did. The old men however were left to drown.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:31 AM
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You genuinely think men dont have it harder? Guess all those men killing themselves are just mysognists who believe they're entitled to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:29 AM
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Even when using the same suicide methods, suicide attempts by men are more severe by about 60%. Men are also more likely to be hospitalised under intensive care. The argument that men use more lethal means is valid, but is not the reason male suicide rates are higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:24 AM
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Show the studies I want to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:58 AM
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To an extent I agree with you. However for a lot of men its difficult to take female dating struggles seriously. It feels like the equivalent of a millionaire complaining to the starving homeless man outside his business that people only like him for his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:44 PM
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Think about how hard it is for women to find a good quality man with lots of options. Now alternatively think about how hard it is for men to find good quality women with no options. This is why it is significantly easier for women to get into a serious relationship than it is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:33 PM
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If the average man thought like that he'd die alone as a kissless virgin. In regards to attracting women its mainly looks. Most male sex addicts are attractive or rich. They have easy access to sex and therefore use it to supress emotional trauma. Basically like any other addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:21 AM
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Then you have never met a male sex addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:09 AM
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Its significantly easier for a woman to get into a serious relationship than men. Having more options alone guarantees that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:07 AM
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It because most women will deny that male dating struggles exist or gaslight men into believing that the reason they struggle with women is because of their poor personalities. Which I find funny because plenty of assholes get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:04 AM
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There are plenty of men who dislike themselves that get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:01 AM
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Genuine question. How tall is your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:48 AM
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Yeah exactly. It's not that red pill men dont want women to work. It's that for a man having a good career increases your sexual market value. For a woman having a good career is irrelevant to most men. Again red pill men dont say women should not have careers. They say having a good career is not what's gonna make you more attractive to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:43 AM
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The people who are having zero sex at all. I'm sure they care alot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:15 AM
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Beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:39 AM
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Op clearly has zero self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:07 AM
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Women don't even like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:56 AM
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Facts. They're all just rebranded neolibs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:50 AM
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So u developed a fat fetish?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:17 AM
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Meh women treat men like this all the time. I say more power to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:43 AM
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Yeah exactly. The reason the redpill tells men not to get too attached is because that's what the average man does. Get too attached. The whole point of the redpill is be better than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:56 PM
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If a woman wants something different that's not you it's still personal. You dont meet her criteria which is by definition not good enough for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:01 AM
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I dont get how rejection isnt personal. Everything about rejecting someone is personal. To reject someone is to say your not good enough for me. That's extremly personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 01:11 AM
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Rejection is personal. They're literally saying I can do better than you so no thanks. That is inherently personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 01:09 AM
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The point seems to have completely gone over you head. Idk what random women should or shouldn't do. I don't really get the point your trying to make with that question. I'm simply refuting your point that men wanting to be desired by women is superficial. It's not superficial at all its actually a very natural and normal feeling to have. Women also want to be desired by men, there's nothing wrong or superficial about it. Its normal. People generally want to be attractive to the people around th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 02:48 PM
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Repulsion is the opposite to desire. Not be repulsed by someone is a basic requesitit to being attracted to them. Not really rocket science. You seem to have a negative bias towards men. No the average guy dosnt want a harem of groupies that take their clothes off within 5 minutes of meeting them. That's a ridiculous assertion. The average man just wants to know that women are not immediately turned off them based on their appearance. Just like the average woman dosnt want all men to be immediat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 02:09 PM
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Nah knowing that women are not repulsed looking at you dosnt seem superficial to me at all. Why would any man want to be with someone who isnt attracted to the way they look. Would you genuinely want to be with a man who thinks you look repulsive?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 01:43 PM
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Feeling wanted by the opposite sex isnt superficial. The idea that men dont desire genuine human connection is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 01:37 PM
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I can only speak from my own personal experience but no I dont prefer it that way. I'd love to be courted by women and for them to be the one pursuing me. Not the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:24 PM
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